"You're trash for getting him thrown out of his own house" by...telling his wife he tried to get violent at work with zero proof or justification? I'd like to know that and I would throw him out too.
Robert's at home talking crazy to his wife, accusing her of cheating, with a GAY man and people are taking HIS side. Robert must be telling one hell of a sob story. 😢
There are some crazy updates to this post. But basically OP confronts his friends about turning on him. And finds out Robert(husband)had been talking with them for years, about how he thinks OP was sleeping with Danielle (wife) and not really gay. The talks w/ OP were to feel him out to see his reaction. Then OP finds out Robert had hidden cameras w/ audio around the house. That only he had access to. And he would make snide comment to his wife about the discussions he heard. He also set it up so all her text also went to his phone. The friend group explored and though girls night friends, realize that Robert is alienating Danielle and separating her, and is abusive. They just don't feel safe being her friend, because she never told them about the cameras that had been up for months. And even when OP confronted her with it and said that she needs to tell the other three women.
@@brandyanderson3522 I also remember Robert retalated against one of the girls by sending one of the videos he took to her abusive SO KNOWING he would attack the poor girl for what she said out of spite! Then his wife doubled down on his bad behavior and now the two (Rob and Dan) have become pariah's I believe because of this behavior and I think Robert got in trouble for that action! Seriously I think I remember Danielle blaming OP for all of this as well at a later point! People are fucking idiots and I feel for the OP having to go through that shit show!
So my so started watching an anime called gamers which made think of this group dynamic...except it's fiction so it all works okay. In real life it's actually pretty shitty behavior. Been on the receiving end of plenty.
Story 5: Robert literally killed his own reputation and family relationship because he got the idea in his head that the gay friend, OP, slept with his wife because the kid doesn't completely look like him. He is dangerous, and I'm glad he was kicked out
Also, Robert needs to retake high school biology if he failed to learn that red hair is the most recessive hair colour gene in humans, and the reason his daughter got red hair when he and his boys are blond is because HE also has the red hair gene, on his X-chromosome while his Y chromosome has the blonde gene! Which means that since he has a red haired wife, they can *ONLY* get blonde boys and ginger girls.
*My hubby’s the only one of 4 that looks like his dad (tall and large built).* Everyone else looks really skinny like their mom! Lol But his family laughs about it! When him and his younger brother went to college, people didn’t believe they were siblings because of their different body types! 🤣 lol
@@SonsOfLorgar I don't think those genes are on the X & Y chromosomes for humans. I have a sister who is brunette. Her husband is blond. Their oldest daughter is brunette. The rest of their kids are either blonds or redheads. They had both sons and daughters of each hair color. My sister obviously has genes for brunette and red hair (our father's mother was a redhead) while her husband must have genes for blond and red hair. If the genes were on the X & Y chromosomes, as you said in your comment, they couldn't have both sons and daughters of each hair color.
@@SonsOfLorgar My grandparents literally had a family that had this happen to them living next to them for decades. ALL of the boys had blond hair and ALL of the girls had red. I played with them for years and it was weird seeing the babies grow up to blond and ginger kids. Neither parent had red hair though. IIRC the mom was a brunette and the dad had dusky blond. That fits more with The Real Maizing's comment.
Story 2: Stealing money from someone is not "private family business"; it's a crime. If they don't get it, they'll have plenty of time to study up... in prison.
In many Asian countries women have few rights, so what westerners call stealing is just “it’s our culture” for about half of the world’s population. That’s probably why the great-aunt specifically made her bequests to females.
I hate it when family members do stupid things to their relatives and think they can get away with it because they're family! My Mom jokingly asked me one time what I would do if she told me she committed a crime, and I replied that I would turn her in. We both laughed since it wasn't a serious conversation but in reality, I would turn in any of my family members if they admitted to me that they committed a crime. I don't care if we're family, there are laws in place for a reason. Even if it's my mom or my sister, if you break the law, better believe I will call the cops on you. I wouldn't enjoy doing it, but I'd feel even worse letting you get away with something like that
@@150booyadragon If it's a petty crime like small theft, the kind you have to pay fines for, I'd tell them to pay the fines and stop whining. If they confessed to something like murder or setting a building with people in it on fire, then I'm turning them in to the police. Sorry if I wasn't being clear and needed to elaborate better
I would be curious to have an update on this. If the parent wasn't supposed to have access to that and with how well (and rich) her grand-aunt was, I guess these account was supposed to be protected. So, if they found a way to access to it, it's the bank that is at fault or the parent has done fraud (like false signature or something like this). It could be a big lawsuit! And her sister, doesn't she understand that a lot of her money, that could have help her somewhere else (depending of the condition set by the grand-aunt) and probably also got rob? And the brother : "you don't trust me"? Yeah... when your own parent just steal you, you might have a hard time to trust somebody who knew what they were doing. I'll take a wild guess her on how they could access : Mama & papa pay for sis wedding / convince sis (culturally) that she need to give them the money. They go to bank with her (as an adult) and withdraw the money. Bro get his wedding. Mama & papa ask for sis to come as if she was the sister (if there is a cultural clash with where they live, I presume the settup is something like a white man at the bank taking care of the request of asian couple and her daughter. With the culture difference, with a 1 inch by 1/2 inch photo, if the sisters look a like even a little, the bank guy can't tell the difference). Sign (immitation) the documents and here we go : OP account is more than half empty.
Last story reminds me of a very old joke . Man is on his deathbed talking with his wife. He says “Helen, you have been a wonderful wife to me all these years. you have given me 6 wonderful boys. However i just gotta ask our youngest has red hair and theres no resemblance to me. Is he really my son?” Helen paused then took a breath and answered “Fred, you also have been a wonderful husband and father. As far as our youngest, well he is the only kid that IS yours!” 🤪
Makes sense since red hair genes often skip generations.. I’ve got a very red headed niece & nephew who’s strawberry blonde (the red hair comes from both our grandpas’ families- and their dad has kinda dirty strawberry blonde-ish hair, which doesn’t come from his parents, but further back generations) But red hair is usually recessive, occurring when both parents carry that gene in most cases
Story 5: If the wife kicked him out that fast there was clearly something else going on. I'm guessing the husband had anger issues at home and was possible abusive or he was the one having an affair.
I’m pretty sure it’s a combination of both. Plus fear that he might pull something with their daughter since he kept referring to her like she was an alien
I've heard that last story before, the update is even more insane. Turns out the husband was recording all the get togethers his wife had with her friends in the house. And the wife knew and didn't tell them. They talked about things that put some of their friends in danger from toxic partners. Blew up the whole friend group. Edit: Sorry guys, heard this story ages ago and don't have the link. Hopefully he'll do an update video.
I was in the industry pre-Covid & I can say that, thankfully, the majority of people you’ll work with aren’t like this grandma. Unfortunately, when you have to deal with crazies, they are EXTRA crazy & insanely challenging to deal with. Grief tends to either bring out the best in people or the worst. That said, most of the people who behaved poorly ended up acknowledging how unpleasant they were, apologized & thanked us for our work. Choosing death work isn’t for the faint of heart or for those who take things personally. You have to be extremely patient & compassionate while keeping your own emotions compartmentalized in a healthy manner. It’s some of the most difficult work imaginable, but if it’s work you are called to do, you will be incredibly fulfilled. Wishing you the best of luck in your future career! It’s challenging, but so very rewarding to know you are helping people during the most difficult experience of their life & hopefully making a beautiful send off for their loved one. It’s truly such an honor & something I genuinely miss.
@@nancyomalley6286 Yeah, it sounds like they constantly pacify her by giving into her demands. Hopefully they only did it so they could get through this trauma of losing their baby and not something they normally do in most circumstances. If they do allow her to get her way all the time, they are part of the problem. No parent should have to lose their child and my heart goes out to those who have.
Sometimes I seriously have a hard time believing that these awful, horribly people actually exist. The only way I can rationalize it by thinking that they are legit mentally ill.
So I have heard the whole story for your last one and: 1.) They ended up finding out it was the guys baby no OP's 2.) The guy was apparently say all this stuff to his wife as well. Accused her of cheating to her face. 3.) Poor woman had a really hard time and didn't know whether to leave him or not. 4.) Wife finally decides on divorce after they get results.
Story 5, people were saying OP was a dick for going to the wife? If I was OP I would have gotten him arrested for assault. OP was WAY nicer than he needed to be.
They were calling him a dick for not "paying for the DNA test himself" which is still very DICKISH of them! Seriously I hate idiots who feel it's up to YOU the one being harassed by assholes like "Robert" to shell out money or whatever to "proof your innocence" or what not! Reminds me of htat idiot story of the security guard who slack jawed SIDED with a Karen against her "blind Victim" with an idiotic "Well she might have a point, are you really blind" when the response should have been to keep Karen BACK from her! HE even stood by the side slacked jawed more so when the KAren proceed to try to take the blind OP DOG from her till an older security guard came, chastised the idiot and put KAren in her place. Sadly damage was done and the OP was tramitized and stressed out from the affair! Part of me is hoping that idiot was sweating BALLS as he got chewed out for his idiocy and hopefully doesn't hestitate or contemplate "stupid questions" like that again! Blind or not, OP is the obvious victim, and Karen is the obvious victimizer! She barely HID she was harassing OP and was the aggressor!
OK if I had a friend had kid with a guy and said guy pulled this moronic stunt I'd go straight to my friend yes because she has a right to know how her husband threatened to assault me over something non-existent
Story 3: EDS is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which I also have. Each day my pain level can vary from "can walk fine through the house" to "can't walk at all without a chair or my canes". Hip, knee, and ankle pain and damages from dislocations; shoulder issues, back, neck, hand issues. The list is long. In public, it is either my canes (like restaurants where I will be sitting) or my powerchair. I can stand from my chair to reach things. I've gotten dirty looks, snide comments, all that. Invisible disabilities exist and people need to keep their damn judgement out of my already painful day. It took me years to get to the comfortable point I am now, accepting my body, my chair, and my pain.
yeah I've got it too. It's less pain and more chronic fatigue for me but the end result ends up similar. I get exhausted after light activity and need frequent rests. I know some day I'm going to end up needing mobility aids at times and these stories make me dread the day
It's unreal how often people assume someone is faking it because they can stand and pivot and ambulate some. Most people with disabilities can. When my pain level is high, I have to use my crutches in my home and when I'm outside my house. When I go places, most of the time I have to use my wheelchair, like at work or going to the store. Like you, my pain levels and mobility fluctuates.
My youngest daughter has it as well, though not nearly as bad as you do. I do fear that she'll one day have to not only deal with the issues it will bring her as she gets older and her body starts to deteriorate, but also the discrimination that she'll have to face. I helped to raise her to be strong, so I'll just have to remember that and to support her as and when needed.
Yup! I have it too and there’s a cane in my car, a collapsible cane in my desk, and I own a decent wheelchair, and two different types of crutches because I’ve needed all of those things at different times. And that’s JUST the mobility aids.
Story 2: When the brother made a scene over OP wanting legal documentation because "she didn't trust him", a good reply would have been "I trusted our parents, and look how *that* turned out!"
I have EDS as well. I feel for the kid in the wheelchair. It totally sucks. You have to be careful because you can easily dislocate a joint. and your life is filled with pain.
Story 1: I don't care how much pain you're in, it will never give you the right to treat others so horribly. That said, I am so sorry to the parents for their loss... how awful a thing to go through. :( Story 2: Your family is just mad they were caught with their hands in the cookie jar. Absolutely atrocious behavior.
Story 5: ok, So almost 15 years ago, a couple had their first kid. Mom has super wavy, thick, dark auburn hair. Dad has stick-straight, thin, blond hair. Their daughter was born with thick, wavy, dark hair. It was the darkest, thickest hair I've EVER seen on a baby. The dad stewed over this for about 2 months, then decided that since HIS dad also had blond hair, and so did his brother, that means that his kid MUST have blond hair, or it wasn't actually his kid (nevermind that his girlfriend had 3 blond sisters... myself included). The mom must have cheated on him. So he took off and hasn't seen his daughter (or paid child support) for almost 15 years. As for the daughter, she turns 15 this month, and her hair is now a light brown. Her mom is doing good and has a fiancé who unofficially adopted her daughter. I think the bio dad is in and out of prison... maybe. Meh, don't care.
My hubs is blue eyed blond (as is his whole Dutch family) and I'm a red headed green eyed irish/german full of blonde with blue eyes and a few red heads with blue or green and even brown eyes. Our daughter. Blonde petite with ice blue eyes. Our son tho-the trouble maker born with the black brown hair and big dark chocolate eyes a a little tanner than the rest of our uber white/pale clans. Well the thing is my real dad has always claimed his great grandparents were a French Canadian trapper grandpa and first nation grandma. Our whole family poopoo this as a tall tale. Guess who wasn't fibbing. Lol. Throw back recessive genes are a real hoot. Luckily he is the spitting image of his dad and grandpa. Except for coloring lol. Even down to my hubs distinctive nose lol. He walks like my fil the same long legged lope. Never ever discount children as yours as every so often our earliest ancestors like to peek out lol 😂
I get that! In the age of taking a moment to do a DNA test before making a decision! I'm sure the asshole was looking for an excuse to bail! It's the only explaination I can accept for why they play this game! Good to know she's doing well, has a good husband and the girl has a worthy father and that loser cosigned himself to a life of being the "ultimate loser" he was meant to be! A true "happy ending for all" (Except him, but as you said, who gives a fuck! Hopefully what keeps him up at night in his cot in prison or whatever run down apartment he's in outside of it! He wonders if maybe, just MAYBE he should have taken the "cowards" way out!.....but doubles down and says it was "the best decision of his life" to push back the despair he's trying to ignore, KNOWING he DID make a bad decision! Hell it was what cemented the rest of his days making bad decision, after bad decision and it never working out for him!)
I'm the only one of few generations again in my family with blue eyes. Even my brother's kids have brown eyes once more XD Also, my brother when young, his hair was very "white" blonde. and i was light goldish blonde. Now i have dark hair and my brother is a dark type of blonde.
@@Emeraldwitch30 Yep, remember a story where two white parents had a black baby! Dad wigged the fuck out, abandoned the wife and child believing she cheated! DNA test proved the idiot that she WAS his child! Turns out his great Grandmother was a cheating slut who cucked his suppose Great grandfather and do to the kid coming out white! She successfully kept it a secret till now! Loved when he lost everything while living in regret for playing idiot games! Some feel sympathy, but I have heard stories of guys in this situation STOPPING to see if everything was what they thought BEFORE making a decision! Like one who's daughter turned out to not be a DNA match for him.....and his WIFE! Either she had a Chamelion Marrow as the OP, the Wife said in the story, or as they discovered about the hospital they had the daughter at. She got switched out! They never planned to abandon their daughter of five years even if she isn't theres! But they just want answers now!
*My hubby’s the oldest of 4, and he’s the only that looks like his dad (tall and large built).* Everyone else looks really skinny like their mom! Lol But his family laughs about it! When him and his younger brother went to college, people didn’t believe they were siblings because of their different body types! 🤣 lol
Last story reminds me of what my sister went through. When she was pregnant with her oldest the father took off when they got the gender sonogram stating the baby was a girl. He was convinced she couldn't be his because "I only make boys." That's not how genetics work, Sir. Him leaving was no big loss and my sister is now married too a great guy who treats her daughter like a princess and they have more children.
That is the dumbest thing I’ve heard today because a males sperm does not dictate what gender the baby is going to be chemicals determine that and nothing else
OP in the last story is not the asshole. His friend deserved to know what her husband was accusing her of and shame on her husband for having so little faith in her.
Robert picked a fight like an asshole! Then gets mad when HIS WIFE FINDS OUT HE'S BEING A TROUBLEMAKER! Yeah this is a manchild schoolyard bully who never grew up past kicking sandcastles (What was he expecting to happen! If he hit OP, he'd have been arrested AND liable for employment termination for starting a brawl at work! But I'm wondering if he even BOTHERED to think ahead) I remember the full story and don't feel too bad for EITHER of them! Robert and his wife are TOXIC as fuck and Robert gets WORSE as you'll discover going deeper into this! It's clear he's OBSESSED about his kids all looking like him because as shown LATER, the POS is a "Control Freak" he's been SPYING on his wife via Camera's in the house and her get togethers with her Girlfriends and OP! POS even sent one of the recordings of PRIVATE info to one of the girl's who rose a fuss about this "Husband" who was a KNOWN ABUSIVE POS! So he KNEW what would happen if he revealed she was talking stuff about him behind his back! And lo and behold! She ended up in the hospital! Man was THREATENING to reveal the records like a sociopath! And then wife got MAD at OP over this shit! Siding with her sociopathical husband! Last I heard, they have become PARIAH'S because of this! Feel bad for the kids as they'll wonder why no one wants them around and it's because of their Toxic parents! Especially their dad who's looking to get himself "ambushed and the shit kicked out of him" someday!
Sometimes the kid doesn't look like either of the parents but he went of because his daughter took after her mother instead of him??? That's especially far fetched. "I married a redhead and now my daughter is a redhead, how did that happen!?"
When dealing with people like this, and the cops ask if you want to press charges, you ALWAYS do so. If not, they will just keep doing things to others. They cannot be allowed to get away with their bad and entitled behavior.
This is actually a story that had updates you can find! Read (or well viewed it) I believe around a year or two ago! I remember Robert is a REAL piece of work (spying on his wife and her friends, including OP! Getting one of them BEATEN by her abusive husband with one of his RECORDINGS out of spite because they protested about his spying! It's clear his obsession with his kids looking like him is just his "Control Freak" side showing! He has to have COMPLETE control, or he'll go more NUTS then he's showed so far) Wife sided with the POS even after that last part I mentioned with that GF Husband abuse because of him! Turned on OP and now last I heard, she and Robert are Social Pariah's now! Poor kids
Story 1: as a parent who buried a baby (born at 17 weeks) the funeral home went above and beyond. They helped me get a bronze marker and when I went missing they looked for it and one day I show up to visit and saw it freshly put in. They remember the name of every baby buried there. I am referred to as "Ezra's mom". The funds was $1885.85 at the end of it but it included a marker, permanent endowment fee (basically means the grave will always be cared for and I own that tiny spot), and to open the grave. They managed to arrange the burial 10 days before what would've been his 2nd birthday (he was cremated against my wishes but I could at least bury the ashes. Hospital policy that under 20 weeks was quote "incinerated as medical waste" but a nurse managed to get his body sent to a crematory so I'd get the ashes back.).
1st Story: Perhaps send the "Grandma" a bill for everything! Including the time spent digging the grave to save the parents even more money... Then in small print, below the Grand Total, note which items were free and how much was actually charged. Followed by asking her if she wants to be sued for the difference!!!
If I was the OP in the last story, I would have simply said the following.... "The only person I'd be interested in sleeping with between you and her, is you." That might shut him up real fast.
Story 3: Look, you can still be considered disabled if you're able to stand and walk for just a little bit. And besides, Karen can't just take a pass from someone, that's not how it works
It's amazing how few people realize that. Like I girl I went to elementary school with, and hung out after school with cuz her mom was my baby sitter, could hobble around her house well enough, if a little slowly, but outside of her house she was largely confined to her wheelchair, cuz if she suffered a fall it could put her in that chair permanently.
Im technically partially disabled by my tourettes, but luckily i live in a place with decent public transit so it doesnt affect too much, but sometimes depending on tics/how much my anxiety is affecting the tics its easier to sit in the disabled section at the front. Ofc if someone in a wheelchair or needed that section more got on id move, but im always afraid some random karen will freak out on me for no reason, the anxiety will make the tics worse, and since theyre only worse after being confronted it might be seen as faking
@@mothmanscousin9656 That’s such a difficult place to be in. My 10yo daughter has Tourette’s and she freezes from anxiety if someone confronts her. It makes her tics skyrocket! I’m not sure if she’ll ever be able to drive because of them. It’s kind of a weird place - to be in between abled and disabled. Especially when people think she should just be more disciplined and stop her tics. 🙄
I don't know the exact percentage but about 80% of people with disabilities are able to stand, pivot and ambulate, at least some. As someone with disabilities, I can walk short distances and on flat even surfaces, especially at home. On bad days I have to use my crutches, which I also use to get to my car from my house. Most of the time I use my wheelchair when I'm outside my house, especially for work and places the requires a lot of walking and sitting and when my pain level is high. No one should feel pressured to "prove" they have disabilities or disclose their medical conditions with anyone that doesn't need to know.
It's a Karen! In their minds the "World revolves around them!" If you not disabled in her mind! Your not diabled because her word is higher then the law and medical experts COMBINE (As they love to tell themselves till their in handcuffs in front of a judge's contempting glare). The Finger snapping is a habit by the MOST full of themselves Karen's around. An annoying gesture that they look at people like their animals to be "controled" in that fashion (Still remember the guy who's karen Egg donor was so much like this! Even after a long period of no contact and silent disownement, the woman STILL tried to do it to him despite knowing he HATED her guts and refused to EVER listen to a single thing she had to say! This is from the story of the OP who's mother showed up at his house with his pregnant spoiled sister DEMANDING he give it to his sister and he could "live in his own house as a SERVANT! Before he kicked them both out!)
Story two if I were OP I would look into how they were able to access that money bc if they got a hold of it illegally the bank would also be at fault for letting them access the funds with proper approval
If I were the gay OP, I would have quietly gotten DNA tests from three independent companies and when the test results came back, quietly post them on the work place bulletin boards (with management approval, of course). Do it quietly. Let it spread slowly for maximum effect. Yes, you are correct. I have been accused of being evil.
I have been a pastor for 30 years now. I have presided over twice as many funerals than weddings (I'll let you do the math.). Both of those events bring out the very worst in some folk. That being said, I'd rather preside at a funeral than a wedding any day of the week, and twice on Sunday (even after my usual Sunday morning services). I guess this is why one of my funeral directors gave me a Christmas gift that was a very nice bottle of whiskey.
My husband is a pastor as well and I think he would agree with you. That being said, he’s had several funerals during Lent & two of them are this weekend. 🙄
It kills me how stupid men can be when their children don’t look exactly like them and they can’t seem to see that it looks like the mother or even other relatives. My daughter’s oldest son looks just like her when she was a child and her SO and his family wanted a paternity test. Her Daddy set him straight real quick.
Story 5: As a ginger, I can confirm that the child can still be the non-gingers because my mother also has non red hair and that you can pass it on without knowing you even have the gene.
The author Betty MacDonald, and her siblings, all had bright ginger hair but both their parents had dark hair. This caused some remark. What nobody knew was that, when her clean-shaven father grew his beard out, it was ginger.
According to what I've been told, when I was first born I had bright auburn hair. That hair quickly fell out (as often happens with newborns) and then my hair grew in black. But throughout my life and even occasionally today in spite of all the grey, if the light strikes my hair just right, you can see that there are still red hairs hiding amongst the black.
Last story: Robert got what he deserved for claiming with no evidence that the gay redhead is the father of his kid. OP did the right thing by telling Danielle because this aggressive behavior could turn violent towards Danielle, the older kids or even the baby. Danielle was right to kick him out and divorce him because he is too crazy to be able to be trusted to not do something. OP should also contact a lawyer and look into getting a restraining order against Robert and then notify their employer of Roberts actions and repeated harassment/threats. Also, OP save all texts/voicemails/etc from Robert just in case something does happen then you have evidence against him. Another good idea is to have a camera with you that can be turned on quickly in case Robert comes around, then you have a video of him being nuts/aggressive/violent.
THAT JUST GETS MY BLOOD BOILING...FIRST STORY... ITS LIKE "LADY...EVERYONE HERE HAS ENOUGH COMMON SENSE TO KNOW THAT THIS IS A SOLEMN OCCASION ...AND THE FACT THAT IT'S YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER , JUST MAKES IT ALL THE MORE OF A REASON TO BENTESPECTFUL OF OTHERS FEELINGS AND GRIEF.. BESIDES, AS ALL THE REALIZATIONS OF THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION HIT HOME ALL AT ONCE... that woman's going to have a real bumpy ride out of it
Story 5. I saw that coming. I once had a woman accuse me of flirting with her husband when she was killing me wearing yoga pants, as soon as she accused me my co- worker started snort laughing. I'm glad his wife left that man is a total Kevin.
Story 1; OP is a sweetheart. When my grandmom died, my aunt was screaming and nagging about a lot of things the funeralhome did. And we had a extremely hot day, and even with ac on full my grandmom was sort of sweating. She could only be out of the cooler for 30 min max. But bc my aunt was nagging for 30 minutes and than saw the sweat....Oh hell . My father scooped her up and brough her outside and told her to Shut the F up (In Dutch). She made the whole thing horrible.
Story 1: The cost of burying someone is around a couple of thousand on the high end for the standard burial and the Karen want more from the services when they are getting a huge discount service. Here hoping no one would pay for her funeral services when she kick it.
Couple of thousand? Only if you describe $5,000 or more as "a couple". That's for embalming, the viewing, nice casket, dressing and makeup of the body, good funeral, and traditional burial in a cemetery or entombement in a vault. Mom had all that. I have no idea what it cost. She paid in full in advance.
Where I live, it costs more than a couple of thousands to have burial services. You would be looking at a minimum of $5,000 and it only goes up from there. The amount of services that were offered for free may not cover everything but it really helps tremendously and an amazing gift! The grandmother should have been grateful and honor her son's and daughter in law's wishes for what they choose to do for their baby's funeral.
That last story reminds me of that one time the wife of one of my coworkers accused me of sleeping with her husband because their kid looked a lot like me. Their kid that SHE gave birth to.
I had sympathy for the grandma thinking she just didn't know how to handle her grief. That wouldn't excuse her behavior, but it would explain it. Then OP sId she wrote the letter a month later. Ope. Nope. Nevermind. She's rude and entitled. She had time to think about that one.
My daughter has had several miscarriages, two that were far enough along that it required mortuary services. Both were cremated. They didn’t charge my daughter either time for anything. I am very grateful to the folks that made saying goodbye for my daughter just a little easier. That said, people grieve in different ways. Sounds like grandma was still in the angry phase and taking it out on the funeral director. It’s easier to be angry at him than face the overwhelming grief and loss that comes with funerals. When it’s a child, that grief tears at your very soul. Despite her antics, I hope that family finds peace.
I am so glad i'm not related to that woman in story: 1, Memorials are for those you lost. I know that personally however it's been 3 years since then and reading that i was absolutely upset with that, shame on that woman and i send many regards to the parents who lost their baby so does my two siblings who are in a better place now.
and, having been clocked in the ankle by one of those electric wheelchairs, i can say they bloody hurt. apart from giving a neat laceration that takes so long to heal.
With the last story. My sister and brother-in-law have a niece and nephew from his brother and sister-in- law and their kids are both redheads. The crazy thing is neither one of their parents have red hair. Only one of their grandparents do. So sometimes generations can skip the biological children and go to the grandchildren.
There's no such thing as skipping... recessive genes crop up of both parents carry ther. Red hair can have a 25-75% chance to turn up if both parents have recessive genes tho. I had to warm my partner as my dad was a red hair. I have other genetic traitscommom with red hair like freckles so... I'm carrying the genes.😅
A recessive gene can be hidden for generations until the 'right' set of parents have children. All you need is an 'r' gene each from two parents who happen to be 'Rr:
*story 3:* "I'm going to have you arrested for pretending to be disabled if you don't give me your pass so that *I* can pretend to be disabled!" The lack of self awareness exhibited by Karens never cease to amaze me
I find just staring at them with no emotion on your face as if they are already dead makes them go away rather quickly. You don't answer, you don't acknowledge them by any means other than looking them directly in their eyes and never looking away. Most of society cannot handle being looked directly in the eye, it makes them uncomfortable, feel judged, and they will quickly leave if the option is there.
Our first daughter passed at 3 months. We went to a couple of very ghoulish and expensive mortuaries before we went to one that was actually the closest to our house. No charge for anything. Casket, plot , use of the their chapel. “We don’t make money on babies” we were told. The only thing we had to pay for was the stone. It was a horrible time for us but this made it a little better. It was hugely appreciated.
Years ago, it used to be joked about kids belonging to the milkman (they delivered door to door then). I had brown hair my next brother had black hair, the next had darkish blond hair then twin girls had light brown hair and my youngest brother had really red hair! If anyone commented about the variety of hair colors my Mom would say they all belong to the milkman and watch the shocked expressions before she explained her HUSBAND is a milkman! He was for 40+ years. All of these hair colors were in the families.
😂 Love your Mum's sense of humour My siblings and I all look like our paternal grandmother, but with our Mum's eyes. One family joke is how Mum should get a "maternity" test for us kids to make sure we're her's LOL since we don't look like her
Story 1: I'm... Trying.... To be fair to the grandmother and consider that her behavior during the actual funeral might have been her way of grieving. But the later behavior of lying pushes it firmly into Karen territory.
These people that deputise themselves as the “Disability Police” are on a whole other level. They make Karen seem like a half decent human being ffs 🤦🏾
Just judging by the thumbnail here, but hooo boy I may get mad at this one as a disabled person myself lol. If i dare to go without my cane for even a bit may manager at work tries to claim i don’t actually need it and shouldn’t have it in the workplace
As a person who can't get down the stairs in their house, but can't seem to qualify for disability (even with arthritis at 20) man, I was so heated. These people got through the hoops to get the paperwork. They shouldn't have to go through the same discrimination I do to prove what they already proved. I am so sick of the ableism. I could get help without it, rather than feeling like I'm being denied to keep unemployment numbers down because I'm not counted if i not recognized. Can't work; so can't make the numbers look good. Only thing I can think of when I look crippled when I walk.... If I pushed myself beyond my limits to give that Karen what she wanted, I would be sick with pain and nausea for a month. I know not every disability is like that, but it's what i think of before i go asking anyone to do anything tiring for me who isn'tresponsiblefor my care. Good on that family for sticking up for themselves. Glad the park staff at least didn't cater to her lies.
I lost my job for the audacity of having my assistance dog fully licensed and bringing her into work their justification was i hadn't noticeably suffered difficulties before then to them so i obviously don't need the assistance dog i have all the paperwork and permissions for..... was not happy also even though i literally took a day off work for my dogs licensing test they claimed i never told them i had an assistance dog......
@@trashcatlinol You’re so right. People have no idea how difficult it is to get on disability. They assume a quadriplegic automatically gets it just like they assume someone who can walk is faking a disability. It’s so frustrating!
This whole comment is just about the first story. I just want to say thank you to OP. As someone who suffered a second trimester pregnancy loss, I appreciate the trigger warning at the beginning. And for their being an amazing human being for going to such lengths for a grieving family. There's nothing worse than losing a child and there are no words for what OP's kindness means in that type of situation.
Story 5: I'm just scared for that little girl's mental health going forward. This is coming from a girl who's father does hate the way she looks, it is really damaging to hear that the one man who should care for you more than any other hates you because of your appearance
Last story. Sounds like the wife is the complete winner here. I can't imagine the feelings of complete betrayal that your husband would give you gleefully while he accuses you of cheating.
About 15 years ago, I needed too renew my Driver's License. The idiot clerk at the County Tax Office refused to issue it, because I couldn't walk without my cane after standing for over three hours in line. The manager agreed, so I went to a state official and filed a written complaint, I went to the State's DMV office and was told that it was not the law, and issued my license. I also filed a complaint with the Tax Assessor's Office about the incident. By the time the dust settled, everyone in the Tax Office had been retrained. They could now take care of any issue at any terminal and they added some old church pews. A 'take a number' dispenser at the entrance allowed you to sit if you needed to. Now it usually takes under 15 minutes to be out the door.
To the person in the first story I would like to say thank you for doing that for people who experience pregnancy loss especially stillbirth my first daughter was stillborn and there's times where I wonder if I'll ever get over it
Last story... as soon as he was demanding a fight... I would have been going to management and the police... for a restraining order, and filing for charges of uttering threats. I would not have entertained their delusion.
Op getting the test won’t prove that it is the husband’s kid, it’ll only prove that op is not the father. But as crazy as the father is, he’ll just be accusing some other man with red hair. The husband needs to get the test on himself and the kid. THAT will prove it’s his child.
What makes it worse is the brother has the money ready to give back to OP! Meaning he never had to take ANY of that money at all! Yet has the nerve to get mad at OP for demanding a contract before she does anything else! Guess he thinks like them in "they did nothing wrong and OP as a Woman shouldn't complain they used HER money! As a Woman, it belongs to THEM! Despite GrandAunt making it CLEAR it was meant for the DAUGHTERS of the family! Guess GrandAunt underestimated just how entitled folk in her old community can be, or she allowed that access in case an emergency came up and again UNDERESTIMATED the BALLS and Shamelessness of her Trads in her family!)
I've gotten that line skipping pass for my friend before (neuro reason, not so much physical) and we always have to bring an actual doctor's note. It's pretty legit...
I was born in 1958 with Hypermobility Syndrome which has caused me pain throughout my life. By the time I was 6 I had two other forms of arthritis. Back then in small towns people, even doctors, didn't understand Juvenile Arthritis. That meant for most of my life I'e been called names and accused of "faking it". even by my family. Nowadays I'm pretty much stuck in bed. I got apologies from doctors. And right now my brother is out getting my groceries.
For the last story, Danielle had every right to now what her (now ex, hopefully) husband was accusing her of, so props to OP for telling her. OP didn't get Robert kicked out of his home; he did that to himself by not trusting his wife and listening to reason/genetics
Last Story, if I were in his shoes, I would take the DNA test and what it proves that I'm not the father I take him to court and sue him for defamation of character. Also, I would talk to HR about this man causing a hostile work environment. People need to learn the can't act any kind of way in public and in the workplace
The Wal-Mart story... I used to work in a nursing home that also had short-term rehab (physical/occupational) patients. One lady had a mobility scooter that she simply could. not. drive. She also had a lovely disposition that made her loudly complain about how absolutely every accident she got into was someone else's fault. She didn't stop bumping people, knocking things over, and accidentally rearranging furniture in the lobby (by running into it) until the day she drove straight forward into a brand-new wall in the entryway and put a massive hole into it. That finally gave us the ability to put serious limits on her mobility until she was discharged (to everyone's relief) a couple of weeks later. Those little electric scooters are an absolute menace in the wrong hands!
So why the hell didn't grandma pony up for all the extras if she felt her grandbaby deserved then rather than make a scene. OP, thank you for what you do! Stealing college fund story: Absolutely NTA! I'd not only be suing them, I would be checking with the police to see if I could press criminal charges against the parents. Amusement park story: Good grief! Not everyone who's in a wheelchair needs it full time, but they DO need it. I have a bad knee. Yes, I can walk, but not very far or for very long. When I shop, I use the provided mobility scooters. When I go to an amusement park, I RENT one. Otherwise, I'm not going to enjoy my day and would have to cut it short. Genetics story: I would absolutely refuse to get a paternity test alone. The real father in this story would have to get one at the same time so I could watch him eat crow when the results came in. Good grief, not every child takes after just ONE of the parents.
Based on the comments, this story was posted at least 3-5 years ago. They recalled updates that went crazy. Unfortunately, several of these posters cannot find the updated links. Several quoted from memory. If you scroll through the comments, you'll find it.
The guy in the last story is insane. If I were OP I would not be taking a DNA test, I'd tell the guy if he's so certain abt the paternity he can test himself. I'd also be going to HR & talking to a lawyer abt harassment. As for the so-called friend group I'd let them know in bo uncertain terms that we are no longer friends & how stupid they're going to feel when the test comes back negative & I'd also let them know that they're just as stupid & ridiculous as the guy who started it all. I'd really like to hear an update from this story
Redhead? This guy is INSANE, lol, he's convinced himself of something that he knows nothing about and threatened people over It and destroyed his own family, i hope we get an update?
being a redhead means that both sides of the family has the recessive gene for red hair. it may not show up but it is there. red heads come in the distant past from the middle east and very common with the jewish people. when the bloody idiot roman empire could not subject the jewish people they destroyed their country killing some and forcing others to leave to go to other parts of the world. the Europe, India etc.... My dad had the recessive gene for red hair and he would not grown a beard at all for it was bright red and he had brown hair. my mother side of the family had no recessive gene and all she wanted was a red hair child but never got one. one of my brother's did give her a great granddaughter with red hair but my mother had died a long time ago. the granddaughter's mother is jewish and my nephew had Irish blood on both sides of his family so the recessive gene was there as well.....
Story 2: Yeah... not an a-hole. If the parents "borrow" it, they should not have the problem replenish or dispute about the funds. Story 3: Karens need to learn that disabilities can't be physical. Story 4: I guess she just want some excitement in her life, I guess? 😅 Story 5: Pride (and not the LGBT kind) was in his head. Is he blind to see that his child looks a bit like his mom and yeah... he didn't know about genetics and female genes usually were more dominant then males ( as far as my understanding goes) 🤔
Story 3: I’m assuming EDS is Ehlers Danlos(sp?) syndrome. I read another story where another EDS person was accused of faking so the person started dislocating her joints to prove it. Grossed the Karen out. Story 5: someone didn’t pay attention in biology class. If you pay attention in the genetics portion and are questioning paternity, you can compare blood type. It’s not as accurate DNA but at least you can exclude.
In story 5, I'm concerned that there may be something medically wrong with Robert. It seems like a sudden personality change, to become so irrational so quickly. I'd would talk to his doctor about his behavior.
Story 1: Grandmother, you know what's really disrespectful? Complaining about free products & services. OP went far, above, & beyond for the parents. OP followed all of the parents preferences & requests. Including the facts, that OP used their own (personal, not company) $$ towards giving the deceased dignity & love. OP just wanted to help the parents in any way that they could. I hope that the parents are able to find peace some time soon. At least they know that their baby was treated with respect & care.
I’ve been accused of faking my hyperacusis so many times by Karen’s who also encourage their kids to bully me. Hyperacusis is the complete opposite of being deaf. You hear almost everything in the area including mice and bats. This is more of a disadvantage because sounds such as pencils scrapping really hurt. Shrieking kids end up feeling like a kidney stone in the head and can cause migraines.
I compare it to broken speakers, or a radio station that you can't seem to tune in properly. Some things you can barely hear, others come in extra loud. And yeah there's no point in explaining this to Karens, you're just giving them ammo.
"You're trash for getting him thrown out of his own house" by...telling his wife he tried to get violent at work with zero proof or justification? I'd like to know that and I would throw him out too.
Robert's at home talking crazy to his wife, accusing her of cheating, with a GAY man and people are taking HIS side. Robert must be telling one hell of a sob story. 😢
Story 5: op needs to get new friends cause all the “friends” calling him trash are not the kind of ppl anyone needs in their lives
Agreed. The real trash is the narcissist projecting his small d!ck energy at OP because he can't get out of the deep pit he dug.
There are some crazy updates to this post. But basically OP confronts his friends about turning on him. And finds out Robert(husband)had been talking with them for years, about how he thinks OP was sleeping with Danielle (wife) and not really gay. The talks w/ OP were to feel him out to see his reaction. Then OP finds out Robert had hidden cameras w/ audio around the house. That only he had access to. And he would make snide comment to his wife about the discussions he heard. He also set it up so all her text also went to his phone. The friend group explored and though girls night friends, realize that Robert is alienating Danielle and separating her, and is abusive. They just don't feel safe being her friend, because she never told them about the cameras that had been up for months. And even when OP confronted her with it and said that she needs to tell the other three women.
@@brandyanderson3522 I also remember Robert retalated against one of the girls by sending one of the videos he took to her abusive SO KNOWING he would attack the poor girl for what she said out of spite! Then his wife doubled down on his bad behavior and now the two (Rob and Dan) have become pariah's I believe because of this behavior and I think Robert got in trouble for that action! Seriously I think I remember Danielle blaming OP for all of this as well at a later point! People are fucking idiots and I feel for the OP having to go through that shit show!
So my so started watching an anime called gamers which made think of this group dynamic...except it's fiction so it all works okay.
In real life it's actually pretty shitty behavior. Been on the receiving end of plenty.
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Story 5: Robert literally killed his own reputation and family relationship because he got the idea in his head that the gay friend, OP, slept with his wife because the kid doesn't completely look like him.
He is dangerous, and I'm glad he was kicked out
If i was OP, i would go to the police with that phone full with proof.
Also, Robert needs to retake high school biology if he failed to learn that red hair is the most recessive hair colour gene in humans, and the reason his daughter got red hair when he and his boys are blond is because HE also has the red hair gene, on his X-chromosome while his Y chromosome has the blonde gene!
Which means that since he has a red haired wife, they can *ONLY* get blonde boys and ginger girls.
*My hubby’s the only one of 4 that looks like his dad (tall and large built).* Everyone else looks really skinny like their mom! Lol But his family laughs about it!
When him and his younger brother went to college, people didn’t believe they were siblings because of their different body types! 🤣 lol
@@SonsOfLorgar I don't think those genes are on the X & Y chromosomes for humans. I have a sister who is brunette. Her husband is blond. Their oldest daughter is brunette. The rest of their kids are either blonds or redheads. They had both sons and daughters of each hair color.
My sister obviously has genes for brunette and red hair (our father's mother was a redhead) while her husband must have genes for blond and red hair. If the genes were on the X & Y chromosomes, as you said in your comment, they couldn't have both sons and daughters of each hair color.
@@SonsOfLorgar My grandparents literally had a family that had this happen to them living next to them for decades. ALL of the boys had blond hair and ALL of the girls had red. I played with them for years and it was weird seeing the babies grow up to blond and ginger kids. Neither parent had red hair though. IIRC the mom was a brunette and the dad had dusky blond. That fits more with The Real Maizing's comment.
Story 2: Stealing money from someone is not "private family business"; it's a crime.
If they don't get it, they'll have plenty of time to study up... in prison.
In many Asian countries women have few rights, so what westerners call stealing is just “it’s our culture” for about half of the world’s population. That’s probably why the great-aunt specifically made her bequests to females.
I hate it when family members do stupid things to their relatives and think they can get away with it because they're family!
My Mom jokingly asked me one time what I would do if she told me she committed a crime, and I replied that I would turn her in. We both laughed since it wasn't a serious conversation but in reality, I would turn in any of my family members if they admitted to me that they committed a crime.
I don't care if we're family, there are laws in place for a reason. Even if it's my mom or my sister, if you break the law, better believe I will call the cops on you. I wouldn't enjoy doing it, but I'd feel even worse letting you get away with something like that
@@Enter_the_Toshiverse_1996 ok if it was a petty crime and you turned them in that's psychotic, just saying. Don't counter extremes with extremes
@@150booyadragon If it's a petty crime like small theft, the kind you have to pay fines for, I'd tell them to pay the fines and stop whining.
If they confessed to something like murder or setting a building with people in it on fire, then I'm turning them in to the police.
Sorry if I wasn't being clear and needed to elaborate better
I would be curious to have an update on this. If the parent wasn't supposed to have access to that and with how well (and rich) her grand-aunt was, I guess these account was supposed to be protected. So, if they found a way to access to it, it's the bank that is at fault or the parent has done fraud (like false signature or something like this). It could be a big lawsuit!
And her sister, doesn't she understand that a lot of her money, that could have help her somewhere else (depending of the condition set by the grand-aunt) and probably also got rob?
And the brother : "you don't trust me"? Yeah... when your own parent just steal you, you might have a hard time to trust somebody who knew what they were doing.
I'll take a wild guess her on how they could access : Mama & papa pay for sis wedding / convince sis (culturally) that she need to give them the money. They go to bank with her (as an adult) and withdraw the money. Bro get his wedding. Mama & papa ask for sis to come as if she was the sister (if there is a cultural clash with where they live, I presume the settup is something like a white man at the bank taking care of the request of asian couple and her daughter. With the culture difference, with a 1 inch by 1/2 inch photo, if the sisters look a like even a little, the bank guy can't tell the difference). Sign (immitation) the documents and here we go : OP account is more than half empty.
Last story reminds me of a very old joke . Man is on his deathbed talking with his wife. He says “Helen, you have been a wonderful wife to me all these years. you have given me 6 wonderful boys. However i just gotta ask our youngest has red hair and theres no resemblance to me. Is he really my son?” Helen paused then took a breath and answered “Fred, you also have been a wonderful husband and father. As far as our youngest, well he is the only kid that IS yours!” 🤪
Makes sense since red hair genes often skip generations.. I’ve got a very red headed niece & nephew who’s strawberry blonde (the red hair comes from both our grandpas’ families- and their dad has kinda dirty strawberry blonde-ish hair, which doesn’t come from his parents, but further back generations)
But red hair is usually recessive, occurring when both parents carry that gene in most cases
Story 5: If the wife kicked him out that fast there was clearly something else going on. I'm guessing the husband had anger issues at home and was possible abusive or he was the one having an affair.
I’m pretty sure it’s a combination of both. Plus fear that he might pull something with their daughter since he kept referring to her like she was an alien
I've heard that last story before, the update is even more insane. Turns out the husband was recording all the get togethers his wife had with her friends in the house. And the wife knew and didn't tell them. They talked about things that put some of their friends in danger from toxic partners. Blew up the whole friend group.
Edit: Sorry guys, heard this story ages ago and don't have the link. Hopefully he'll do an update video.
Anger issues most definitely, considering he was going to beat up a gay coworker for adultery on the basis of red hair.
@@megancata1 ohhhh send me the link plz!
Methinks abuse is in the equation as well.
Story 1: I'm going into funeral services for work, and that woman literally filled me with disgust. What a vile person...
How to make it so your children just shove your cropse into a box and float it down the river when you die
I've seen funeral directors eject idiots like that Entitled Fool!
If that was Florida they _could_ just chuck her to the gators... assuming they'd eat old crow...
I was in the industry pre-Covid & I can say that, thankfully, the majority of people you’ll work with aren’t like this grandma. Unfortunately, when you have to deal with crazies, they are EXTRA crazy & insanely challenging to deal with.
Grief tends to either bring out the best in people or the worst. That said, most of the people who behaved poorly ended up acknowledging how unpleasant they were, apologized & thanked us for our work.
Choosing death work isn’t for the faint of heart or for those who take things personally. You have to be extremely patient & compassionate while keeping your own emotions compartmentalized in a healthy manner. It’s some of the most difficult work imaginable, but if it’s work you are called to do, you will be incredibly fulfilled.
Wishing you the best of luck in your future career! It’s challenging, but so very rewarding to know you are helping people during the most difficult experience of their life & hopefully making a beautiful send off for their loved one. It’s truly such an honor & something I genuinely miss.
@@chezsnailez If the gators wouldn't eat it, turtles & crayfish probably would. They're less fussy :)
As someone who has lost an infant (preemie who only lived just over a month), that 1st story made me cry. OP is truly an angel! ❤
And no matter what she did, it wasn't enough for the grandmother. Her son needed to tell her to STFU!
@@nancyomalley6286 Yeah, it sounds like they constantly pacify her by giving into her demands. Hopefully they only did it so they could get through this trauma of losing their baby and not something they normally do in most circumstances. If they do allow her to get her way all the time, they are part of the problem. No parent should have to lose their child and my heart goes out to those who have.
Sometimes I seriously have a hard time believing that these awful, horribly people actually exist. The only way I can rationalize it by thinking that they are legit mentally ill.
So I have heard the whole story for your last one and:
1.) They ended up finding out it was the guys baby no OP's
2.) The guy was apparently say all this stuff to his wife as well. Accused her of cheating to her face.
3.) Poor woman had a really hard time and didn't know whether to leave him or not.
4.) Wife finally decides on divorce after they get results.
Was HR involved? Was moron fired for his threats?
what happened to the trash friends?
Do you have the link to the story?
Story 5, people were saying OP was a dick for going to the wife? If I was OP I would have gotten him arrested for assault. OP was WAY nicer than he needed to be.
And if she decided to divorce him after that, there's most likely much going on, but that was the final straw.
I wonder what happened to those friends after the divorce...did they get sort of shunned for their own idiocy?
They were calling him a dick for not "paying for the DNA test himself" which is still very DICKISH of them! Seriously I hate idiots who feel it's up to YOU the one being harassed by assholes like "Robert" to shell out money or whatever to "proof your innocence" or what not! Reminds me of htat idiot story of the security guard who slack jawed SIDED with a Karen against her "blind Victim" with an idiotic "Well she might have a point, are you really blind" when the response should have been to keep Karen BACK from her! HE even stood by the side slacked jawed more so when the KAren proceed to try to take the blind OP DOG from her till an older security guard came, chastised the idiot and put KAren in her place. Sadly damage was done and the OP was tramitized and stressed out from the affair! Part of me is hoping that idiot was sweating BALLS as he got chewed out for his idiocy and hopefully doesn't hestitate or contemplate "stupid questions" like that again! Blind or not, OP is the obvious victim, and Karen is the obvious victimizer! She barely HID she was harassing OP and was the aggressor!
OK if I had a friend had kid with a guy and said guy pulled this moronic stunt I'd go straight to my friend yes because she has a right to know how her husband threatened to assault me over something non-existent
#5: Robert belongs in JAIL. Making terroristic threats is a CRIME.
Story 3: EDS is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which I also have. Each day my pain level can vary from "can walk fine through the house" to "can't walk at all without a chair or my canes". Hip, knee, and ankle pain and damages from dislocations; shoulder issues, back, neck, hand issues. The list is long. In public, it is either my canes (like restaurants where I will be sitting) or my powerchair. I can stand from my chair to reach things. I've gotten dirty looks, snide comments, all that. Invisible disabilities exist and people need to keep their damn judgement out of my already painful day. It took me years to get to the comfortable point I am now, accepting my body, my chair, and my pain.
yeah I've got it too. It's less pain and more chronic fatigue for me but the end result ends up similar. I get exhausted after light activity and need frequent rests. I know some day I'm going to end up needing mobility aids at times and these stories make me dread the day
It's unreal how often people assume someone is faking it because they can stand and pivot and ambulate some. Most people with disabilities can. When my pain level is high, I have to use my crutches in my home and when I'm outside my house. When I go places, most of the time I have to use my wheelchair, like at work or going to the store. Like you, my pain levels and mobility fluctuates.
My youngest daughter has it as well, though not nearly as bad as you do. I do fear that she'll one day have to not only deal with the issues it will bring her as she gets older and her body starts to deteriorate, but also the discrimination that she'll have to face. I helped to raise her to be strong, so I'll just have to remember that and to support her as and when needed.
Yup! I have it too and there’s a cane in my car, a collapsible cane in my desk, and I own a decent wheelchair, and two different types of crutches because I’ve needed all of those things at different times. And that’s JUST the mobility aids.
My daughter has EDS. It’s a complicated disorder that causes her daily issues and chronic pain.
"You should give free upgrades because someone died"
Yes, such a rare occurance for undertakers.
Story 2: When the brother made a scene over OP wanting legal documentation because "she didn't trust him", a good reply would have been "I trusted our parents, and look how *that* turned out!"
Heard story 4 before. What Fluff failed to mention was that the Gatorade was red. That's why people thought the OP split his head open.
I have EDS as well. I feel for the kid in the wheelchair. It totally sucks. You have to be careful because you can easily dislocate a joint. and your life is filled with pain.
As a blind person who has been accused of faking their disability that 3rd story hit way too close to home.
Don't mind imbeciles, they'll never understand how disabilities or technology works... Stay strong 👍
@@lXlDarKSuoLlXl dude he cant read your comment
@@jtl-08 he? Probably not.
His phone with READING ASISTANCE? Definitely
Or, someone that he had type the comment, because you know, he’s blind
@@jtl-08 There's specialized software that automatically reads comments.
OP and the parents in the first story are angles amongst us. The grandmother however is a demon amongst us.
Truly angular
IKR. The grandmother was so obtuse.
The OP and parents are truly Right Angles.
But are they acute or obtuse ?
Satan must be ringing his hands waiting for that evil bitch.
Story 1: I don't care how much pain you're in, it will never give you the right to treat others so horribly. That said, I am so sorry to the parents for their loss... how awful a thing to go through. :(
Story 2: Your family is just mad they were caught with their hands in the cookie jar. Absolutely atrocious behavior.
Story 1: Karen just earned herself a one way trip to the worst retirement home in her state.
Worse than Shady Pines
We can only hope.
Retirement home? I'd let her fend for herself on the streets.
I'd have thrown her out after the first outburst.
@@JanetMarieRose73Before it burned down.
Story 5: ok, So almost 15 years ago, a couple had their first kid. Mom has super wavy, thick, dark auburn hair. Dad has stick-straight, thin, blond hair. Their daughter was born with thick, wavy, dark hair. It was the darkest, thickest hair I've EVER seen on a baby. The dad stewed over this for about 2 months, then decided that since HIS dad also had blond hair, and so did his brother, that means that his kid MUST have blond hair, or it wasn't actually his kid (nevermind that his girlfriend had 3 blond sisters... myself included). The mom must have cheated on him. So he took off and hasn't seen his daughter (or paid child support) for almost 15 years. As for the daughter, she turns 15 this month, and her hair is now a light brown. Her mom is doing good and has a fiancé who unofficially adopted her daughter. I think the bio dad is in and out of prison... maybe. Meh, don't care.
My hubs is blue eyed blond (as is his whole Dutch family) and I'm a red headed green eyed irish/german full of blonde with blue eyes and a few red heads with blue or green and even brown eyes.
Our daughter. Blonde petite with ice blue eyes.
Our son tho-the trouble maker born with the black brown hair and big dark chocolate eyes a a little tanner than the rest of our uber white/pale clans.
Well the thing is my real dad has always claimed his great grandparents were a French Canadian trapper grandpa and first nation grandma. Our whole family poopoo this as a tall tale. Guess who wasn't fibbing. Lol. Throw back recessive genes are a real hoot. Luckily he is the spitting image of his dad and grandpa. Except for coloring lol. Even down to my hubs distinctive nose lol. He walks like my fil the same long legged lope.
Never ever discount children as yours as every so often our earliest ancestors like to peek out lol 😂
I get that! In the age of taking a moment to do a DNA test before making a decision! I'm sure the asshole was looking for an excuse to bail! It's the only explaination I can accept for why they play this game! Good to know she's doing well, has a good husband and the girl has a worthy father and that loser cosigned himself to a life of being the "ultimate loser" he was meant to be! A true "happy ending for all" (Except him, but as you said, who gives a fuck! Hopefully what keeps him up at night in his cot in prison or whatever run down apartment he's in outside of it! He wonders if maybe, just MAYBE he should have taken the "cowards" way out!.....but doubles down and says it was "the best decision of his life" to push back the despair he's trying to ignore, KNOWING he DID make a bad decision! Hell it was what cemented the rest of his days making bad decision, after bad decision and it never working out for him!)
I'm the only one of few generations again in my family with blue eyes. Even my brother's kids have brown eyes once more XD Also, my brother when young, his hair was very "white" blonde. and i was light goldish blonde. Now i have dark hair and my brother is a dark type of blonde.
@@Emeraldwitch30 Yep, remember a story where two white parents had a black baby! Dad wigged the fuck out, abandoned the wife and child believing she cheated! DNA test proved the idiot that she WAS his child! Turns out his great Grandmother was a cheating slut who cucked his suppose Great grandfather and do to the kid coming out white! She successfully kept it a secret till now! Loved when he lost everything while living in regret for playing idiot games! Some feel sympathy, but I have heard stories of guys in this situation STOPPING to see if everything was what they thought BEFORE making a decision! Like one who's daughter turned out to not be a DNA match for him.....and his WIFE! Either she had a Chamelion Marrow as the OP, the Wife said in the story, or as they discovered about the hospital they had the daughter at. She got switched out! They never planned to abandon their daughter of five years even if she isn't theres! But they just want answers now!
*My hubby’s the oldest of 4, and he’s the only that looks like his dad (tall and large built).* Everyone else looks really skinny like their mom! Lol But his family laughs about it!
When him and his younger brother went to college, people didn’t believe they were siblings because of their different body types! 🤣 lol
Last story reminds me of what my sister went through. When she was pregnant with her oldest the father took off when they got the gender sonogram stating the baby was a girl. He was convinced she couldn't be his because "I only make boys." That's not how genetics work, Sir. Him leaving was no big loss and my sister is now married too a great guy who treats her daughter like a princess and they have more children.
That is the dumbest thing I’ve heard today because a males sperm does not dictate what gender the baby is going to be chemicals determine that and nothing else
That’s not private family business they stolen money from the lady but the brothers wedding is considered a crime
I lost a preemie. That op is a hero and an angel.
OP in the last story is not the asshole. His friend deserved to know what her husband was accusing her of and shame on her husband for having so little faith in her.
Right? Someone should know if their spouse is going around accusing them of cheating. She would have heard it from someone else eventually.
Robert picked a fight like an asshole! Then gets mad when HIS WIFE FINDS OUT HE'S BEING A TROUBLEMAKER! Yeah this is a manchild schoolyard bully who never grew up past kicking sandcastles (What was he expecting to happen! If he hit OP, he'd have been arrested AND liable for employment termination for starting a brawl at work! But I'm wondering if he even BOTHERED to think ahead)
I remember the full story and don't feel too bad for EITHER of them! Robert and his wife are TOXIC as fuck and Robert gets WORSE as you'll discover going deeper into this! It's clear he's OBSESSED about his kids all looking like him because as shown LATER, the POS is a "Control Freak" he's been SPYING on his wife via Camera's in the house and her get togethers with her Girlfriends and OP! POS even sent one of the recordings of PRIVATE info to one of the girl's who rose a fuss about this "Husband" who was a KNOWN ABUSIVE POS! So he KNEW what would happen if he revealed she was talking stuff about him behind his back! And lo and behold! She ended up in the hospital! Man was THREATENING to reveal the records like a sociopath! And then wife got MAD at OP over this shit! Siding with her sociopathical husband! Last I heard, they have become PARIAH'S because of this! Feel bad for the kids as they'll wonder why no one wants them around and it's because of their Toxic parents! Especially their dad who's looking to get himself "ambushed and the shit kicked out of him" someday!
Sometimes the kid doesn't look like either of the parents but he went of because his daughter took after her mother instead of him??? That's especially far fetched. "I married a redhead and now my daughter is a redhead, how did that happen!?"
When dealing with people like this, and the cops ask if you want to press charges, you ALWAYS do so. If not, they will just keep doing things to others. They cannot be allowed to get away with their bad and entitled behavior.
Its sad how people only have kids to fuel their narcissism
Gay OP was right to do what he did!! Fluff is right about what Robert will do, too!! 😱👹💀 I hope it all worked out for them all!
This is actually a story that had updates you can find! Read (or well viewed it) I believe around a year or two ago! I remember Robert is a REAL piece of work (spying on his wife and her friends, including OP! Getting one of them BEATEN by her abusive husband with one of his RECORDINGS out of spite because they protested about his spying! It's clear his obsession with his kids looking like him is just his "Control Freak" side showing! He has to have COMPLETE control, or he'll go more NUTS then he's showed so far)
Wife sided with the POS even after that last part I mentioned with that GF Husband abuse because of him! Turned on OP and now last I heard, she and Robert are Social Pariah's now! Poor kids
I need a update to that last story. Wow is that guy insecure
Story 1: as a parent who buried a baby (born at 17 weeks) the funeral home went above and beyond. They helped me get a bronze marker and when I went missing they looked for it and one day I show up to visit and saw it freshly put in. They remember the name of every baby buried there. I am referred to as "Ezra's mom". The funds was $1885.85 at the end of it but it included a marker, permanent endowment fee (basically means the grave will always be cared for and I own that tiny spot), and to open the grave. They managed to arrange the burial 10 days before what would've been his 2nd birthday (he was cremated against my wishes but I could at least bury the ashes. Hospital policy that under 20 weeks was quote "incinerated as medical waste" but a nurse managed to get his body sent to a crematory so I'd get the ashes back.).
1st Story: Perhaps send the "Grandma" a bill for everything! Including the time spent digging the grave to save the parents even more money...
Then in small print, below the Grand Total, note which items were free and how much was actually charged.
Followed by asking her if she wants to be sued for the difference!!!
If I was the OP in the last story, I would have simply said the following....
"The only person I'd be interested in sleeping with between you and her, is you."
That might shut him up real fast.
Story 3: Look, you can still be considered disabled if you're able to stand and walk for just a little bit. And besides, Karen can't just take a pass from someone, that's not how it works
It's amazing how few people realize that. Like I girl I went to elementary school with, and hung out after school with cuz her mom was my baby sitter, could hobble around her house well enough, if a little slowly, but outside of her house she was largely confined to her wheelchair, cuz if she suffered a fall it could put her in that chair permanently.
Im technically partially disabled by my tourettes, but luckily i live in a place with decent public transit so it doesnt affect too much, but sometimes depending on tics/how much my anxiety is affecting the tics its easier to sit in the disabled section at the front. Ofc if someone in a wheelchair or needed that section more got on id move, but im always afraid some random karen will freak out on me for no reason, the anxiety will make the tics worse, and since theyre only worse after being confronted it might be seen as faking
@@mothmanscousin9656 That’s such a difficult place to be in. My 10yo daughter has Tourette’s and she freezes from anxiety if someone confronts her. It makes her tics skyrocket! I’m not sure if she’ll ever be able to drive because of them. It’s kind of a weird place - to be in between abled and disabled. Especially when people think she should just be more disciplined and stop her tics. 🙄
I don't know the exact percentage but about 80% of people with disabilities are able to stand, pivot and ambulate, at least some. As someone with disabilities, I can walk short distances and on flat even surfaces, especially at home. On bad days I have to use my crutches, which I also use to get to my car from my house. Most of the time I use my wheelchair when I'm outside my house, especially for work and places the requires a lot of walking and sitting and when my pain level is high. No one should feel pressured to "prove" they have disabilities or disclose their medical conditions with anyone that doesn't need to know.
It's a Karen! In their minds the "World revolves around them!" If you not disabled in her mind! Your not diabled because her word is higher then the law and medical experts COMBINE (As they love to tell themselves till their in handcuffs in front of a judge's contempting glare).
The Finger snapping is a habit by the MOST full of themselves Karen's around. An annoying gesture that they look at people like their animals to be "controled" in that fashion (Still remember the guy who's karen Egg donor was so much like this! Even after a long period of no contact and silent disownement, the woman STILL tried to do it to him despite knowing he HATED her guts and refused to EVER listen to a single thing she had to say! This is from the story of the OP who's mother showed up at his house with his pregnant spoiled sister DEMANDING he give it to his sister and he could "live in his own house as a SERVANT! Before he kicked them both out!)
Nothing like hearing you tell about idiotic Karens while being sick! Laughing and shaking my head at them will totally help me feel better!
Story two if I were OP I would look into how they were able to access that money bc if they got a hold of it illegally the bank would also be at fault for letting them access the funds with proper approval
If I were the gay OP, I would have quietly gotten DNA tests from three independent companies and when the test results came back, quietly post them on the work place bulletin boards (with management approval, of course). Do it quietly. Let it spread slowly for maximum effect. Yes, you are correct. I have been accused of being evil.
Story 2- oh ok mom and dad, you had to borrow my money? I understand, and expect it repaid at 5% interest
I have been a pastor for 30 years now. I have presided over twice as many funerals than weddings (I'll let you do the math.). Both of those events bring out the very worst in some folk. That being said, I'd rather preside at a funeral than a wedding any day of the week, and twice on Sunday (even after my usual Sunday morning services). I guess this is why one of my funeral directors gave me a Christmas gift that was a very nice bottle of whiskey.
My husband is a pastor as well and I think he would agree with you. That being said, he’s had several funerals during Lent & two of them are this weekend. 🙄
@@Leslie58 I have had those weeks before. Not fun at all.
Last story: How could anyone fit that much stupid into one person??
It kills me how stupid men can be when their children don’t look exactly like them and they can’t seem to see that it looks like the mother or even other relatives. My daughter’s oldest son looks just like her when she was a child and her SO and his family wanted a paternity test. Her Daddy set him straight real quick.
People have been asking that question about Karens for years my friend
That last one is just sad. Sounds like the guy had it made and he screwed everything up with unwarranted jealousy. What a fool.
That funeral director is amazing!!! I have worked in the same industry, and he handled it quite well.
The utter narcissism of Robert in that last story ... it boggles the mind.
Story 5: As a ginger, I can confirm that the child can still be the non-gingers because my mother also has non red hair and that you can pass it on without knowing you even have the gene.
The author Betty MacDonald, and her siblings, all had bright ginger hair but both their parents had dark hair. This caused some remark. What nobody knew was that, when her clean-shaven father grew his beard out, it was ginger.
According to what I've been told, when I was first born I had bright auburn hair. That hair quickly fell out (as often happens with newborns) and then my hair grew in black. But throughout my life and even occasionally today in spite of all the grey, if the light strikes my hair just right, you can see that there are still red hairs hiding amongst the black.
I think that story #1 is the saddest thing that I’ve EVER heard.
Last story: Robert got what he deserved for claiming with no evidence that the gay redhead is the father of his kid. OP did the right thing by telling Danielle because this aggressive behavior could turn violent towards Danielle, the older kids or even the baby. Danielle was right to kick him out and divorce him because he is too crazy to be able to be trusted to not do something.
OP should also contact a lawyer and look into getting a restraining order against Robert and then notify their employer of Roberts actions and repeated harassment/threats. Also, OP save all texts/voicemails/etc from Robert just in case something does happen then you have evidence against him. Another good idea is to have a camera with you that can be turned on quickly in case Robert comes around, then you have a video of him being nuts/aggressive/violent.
THAT JUST GETS MY BLOOD BOILING...FIRST STORY...
ITS LIKE "LADY...EVERYONE HERE HAS ENOUGH COMMON SENSE TO KNOW THAT THIS IS A SOLEMN OCCASION ...AND THE FACT THAT IT'S YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER , JUST MAKES IT ALL THE MORE OF A REASON TO BENTESPECTFUL OF OTHERS FEELINGS AND GRIEF..
BESIDES, AS ALL THE REALIZATIONS OF THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION HIT HOME ALL AT ONCE... that woman's going to have a real bumpy ride out of it
Story 5. I saw that coming. I once had a woman accuse me of flirting with her husband when she was killing me wearing yoga pants, as soon as she accused me my co- worker started snort laughing. I'm glad his wife left that man is a total Kevin.
Story 1; OP is a sweetheart. When my grandmom died, my aunt was screaming and nagging about a lot of things the funeralhome did. And we had a extremely hot day, and even with ac on full my grandmom was sort of sweating. She could only be out of the cooler for 30 min max. But bc my aunt was nagging for 30 minutes and than saw the sweat....Oh hell . My father scooped her up and brough her outside and told her to Shut the F up (In Dutch). She made the whole thing horrible.
I feel bad about the couple who lost their baby, but even more so because they've probably had to put up with that witch for their whole lives.
Story 1: The cost of burying someone is around a couple of thousand on the high end for the standard burial and the Karen want more from the services when they are getting a huge discount service. Here hoping no one would pay for her funeral services when she kick it.
Seriously. I have a funeral director in my family and I understand what goes into a funeral and how generous this OP was.
Couple of thousand?
Only if you describe $5,000 or more as "a couple".
That's for embalming, the viewing, nice casket, dressing and makeup of the body, good funeral, and traditional burial in a cemetery or entombement in a vault.
Mom had all that. I have no idea what it cost. She paid in full in advance.
With my finances as they are I'll be getting a pauper cremation. I'm not bothered.
"All that" for my cousin who unalived himself via vehicle was over $5000 and donations were made. Obviously ... more work... was needed for him.
Where I live, it costs more than a couple of thousands to have burial services. You would be looking at a minimum of $5,000 and it only goes up from there. The amount of services that were offered for free may not cover everything but it really helps tremendously and an amazing gift! The grandmother should have been grateful and honor her son's and daughter in law's wishes for what they choose to do for their baby's funeral.
That last story reminds me of that one time the wife of one of my coworkers accused me of sleeping with her husband because their kid looked a lot like me.
Their kid that SHE gave birth to.
I had sympathy for the grandma thinking she just didn't know how to handle her grief. That wouldn't excuse her behavior, but it would explain it. Then OP sId she wrote the letter a month later. Ope. Nope. Nevermind. She's rude and entitled. She had time to think about that one.
My daughter has had several miscarriages, two that were far enough along that it required mortuary services. Both were cremated. They didn’t charge my daughter either time for anything. I am very grateful to the folks that made saying goodbye for my daughter just a little easier.
That said, people grieve in different ways. Sounds like grandma was still in the angry phase and taking it out on the funeral director. It’s easier to be angry at him than face the overwhelming grief and loss that comes with funerals. When it’s a child, that grief tears at your very soul. Despite her antics, I hope that family finds peace.
I am so glad i'm not related to that woman in story: 1, Memorials are for those you lost. I know that personally however it's been 3 years since then and reading that i was absolutely upset with that, shame on that woman and i send many regards to the parents who lost their baby so does my two siblings who are in a better place now.
and, having been clocked in the ankle by one of those electric wheelchairs, i can say they bloody hurt. apart from giving a neat laceration that takes so long to heal.
With the last story. My sister and brother-in-law have a niece and nephew from his brother and sister-in- law and their kids are both redheads.
The crazy thing is neither one of their parents have red hair. Only one of their grandparents do. So sometimes generations can skip the biological children and go to the grandchildren.
There's no such thing as skipping... recessive genes crop up of both parents carry ther. Red hair can have a 25-75% chance to turn up if both parents have recessive genes tho.
I had to warm my partner as my dad was a red hair. I have other genetic traitscommom with red hair like freckles so... I'm carrying the genes.😅
A recessive gene can be hidden for generations until the 'right' set of parents have children. All you need is an 'r' gene each from two parents who happen to be 'Rr:
*story 3:* "I'm going to have you arrested for pretending to be disabled if you don't give me your pass so that *I* can pretend to be disabled!"
The lack of self awareness exhibited by Karens never cease to amaze me
I find just staring at them with no emotion on your face as if they are already dead makes them go away rather quickly. You don't answer, you don't acknowledge them by any means other than looking them directly in their eyes and never looking away. Most of society cannot handle being looked directly in the eye, it makes them uncomfortable, feel judged, and they will quickly leave if the option is there.
Our first daughter passed at 3 months. We went to a couple of very ghoulish and expensive mortuaries before we went to one that was actually the closest to our house. No charge for anything. Casket, plot , use of the their chapel. “We don’t make money on babies” we were told. The only thing we had to pay for was the stone. It was a horrible time for us but this made it a little better. It was hugely appreciated.
Complaining Karen needed to be reminded that she was going to need funereal services in the future…
Years ago, it used to be joked about kids belonging to the milkman (they delivered door to door then). I had brown hair my next brother had black hair, the next had darkish blond hair then twin girls had light brown hair and my youngest brother had really red hair! If anyone commented about the variety of hair colors my Mom would say they all belong to the milkman and watch the shocked expressions before she explained her HUSBAND is a milkman! He was for 40+ years. All of these hair colors were in the families.
😂 Love your Mum's sense of humour
My siblings and I all look like our paternal grandmother, but with our Mum's eyes.
One family joke is how Mum should get a "maternity" test for us kids to make sure we're her's LOL since we don't look like her
First story..... Grandma is a horrible Choosing Beggar.
May she one day get the burial she deserves.
Story 1: I'm... Trying.... To be fair to the grandmother and consider that her behavior during the actual funeral might have been her way of grieving. But the later behavior of lying pushes it firmly into Karen territory.
Grandma's burial site is the dumpster. That is outrageous! Why the upgrade?
Oh god. I had to tell my husband about story 5 befit reminded me of his brother who accused him of trying to pick up his wife. So ridiculous.
These people that deputise themselves as the “Disability Police” are on a whole other level. They make Karen seem like a half decent human being ffs 🤦🏾
Just judging by the thumbnail here, but hooo boy I may get mad at this one as a disabled person myself lol. If i dare to go without my cane for even a bit may manager at work tries to claim i don’t actually need it and shouldn’t have it in the workplace
Same here I have chronic pain and have a hard time getting around
As a person who can't get down the stairs in their house, but can't seem to qualify for disability (even with arthritis at 20) man, I was so heated.
These people got through the hoops to get the paperwork. They shouldn't have to go through the same discrimination I do to prove what they already proved.
I am so sick of the ableism. I could get help without it, rather than feeling like I'm being denied to keep unemployment numbers down because I'm not counted if i not recognized. Can't work; so can't make the numbers look good. Only thing I can think of when I look crippled when I walk....
If I pushed myself beyond my limits to give that Karen what she wanted, I would be sick with pain and nausea for a month. I know not every disability is like that, but it's what i think of before i go asking anyone to do anything tiring for me who isn'tresponsiblefor my care. Good on that family for sticking up for themselves. Glad the park staff at least didn't cater to her lies.
I lost my job for the audacity of having my assistance dog fully licensed and bringing her into work their justification was i hadn't noticeably suffered difficulties before then to them so i obviously don't need the assistance dog i have all the paperwork and permissions for..... was not happy also even though i literally took a day off work for my dogs licensing test they claimed i never told them i had an assistance dog......
@@trashcatlinol You’re so right. People have no idea how difficult it is to get on disability. They assume a quadriplegic automatically gets it just like they assume someone who can walk is faking a disability. It’s so frustrating!
This whole comment is just about the first story.
I just want to say thank you to OP. As someone who suffered a second trimester pregnancy loss, I appreciate the trigger warning at the beginning. And for their being an amazing human being for going to such lengths for a grieving family. There's nothing worse than losing a child and there are no words for what OP's kindness means in that type of situation.
Story 5: I'm just scared for that little girl's mental health going forward.
This is coming from a girl who's father does hate the way she looks, it is really damaging to hear that the one man who should care for you more than any other hates you because of your appearance
Borrowing implies it will be paid back, so if they say they “borrowed it”, they are legally liable to pay it back
Last story. Sounds like the wife is the complete winner here. I can't imagine the feelings of complete betrayal that your husband would give you gleefully while he accuses you of cheating.
In the last story OP should have brought his partner to work just once and kissed him goodbye in front of everyone
About 15 years ago, I needed too renew my Driver's License. The idiot clerk at the County Tax Office refused to issue it, because I couldn't walk without my cane after standing for over three hours in line. The manager agreed, so I went to a state official and filed a written complaint, I went to the State's DMV office and was told that it was not the law, and issued my license. I also filed a complaint with the Tax Assessor's Office about the incident. By the time the dust settled, everyone in the Tax Office had been retrained. They could now take care of any issue at any terminal and they added some old church pews. A 'take a number' dispenser at the entrance allowed you to sit if you needed to. Now it usually takes under 15 minutes to be out the door.
Any decent friend would let their friend know their partner is running around telling everyone they're a cheater.
He didn't need to. The guy was accusing her of cheating to her face
To the person in the first story I would like to say thank you for doing that for people who experience pregnancy loss especially stillbirth my first daughter was stillborn and there's times where I wonder if I'll ever get over it
Last story... as soon as he was demanding a fight... I would have been going to management and the police... for a restraining order, and filing for charges of uttering threats. I would not have entertained their delusion.
Story 5: Good On the wife for tossing out the idiot!
Op getting the test won’t prove that it is the husband’s kid, it’ll only prove that op is not the father. But as crazy as the father is, he’ll just be accusing some other man with red hair. The husband needs to get the test on himself and the kid. THAT will prove it’s his child.
Story 2: All I see is Sexist Parents who have a Male Golden Child who STOLE from their Non-Male Child for no good reason, they deserve to get sued
I hate it when men are favored over women.
What makes it worse is the brother has the money ready to give back to OP! Meaning he never had to take ANY of that money at all! Yet has the nerve to get mad at OP for demanding a contract before she does anything else! Guess he thinks like them in "they did nothing wrong and OP as a Woman shouldn't complain they used HER money! As a Woman, it belongs to THEM! Despite GrandAunt making it CLEAR it was meant for the DAUGHTERS of the family! Guess GrandAunt underestimated just how entitled folk in her old community can be, or she allowed that access in case an emergency came up and again UNDERESTIMATED the BALLS and Shamelessness of her Trads in her family!)
Story 6 : well,there's similar story in reddit but the OP refused to do the test.
I remember that story, he was abusing his wife iirc
I've gotten that line skipping pass for my friend before (neuro reason, not so much physical) and we always have to bring an actual doctor's note. It's pretty legit...
I was born in 1958 with Hypermobility Syndrome which has caused me pain throughout my life. By the time I was 6 I had two other forms of arthritis. Back then in small towns people, even doctors, didn't understand Juvenile Arthritis. That meant for most of my life I'e been called names and accused of "faking it". even by my family. Nowadays I'm pretty much stuck in bed. I got apologies from doctors. And right now my brother is out getting my groceries.
For the last story, Danielle had every right to now what her (now ex, hopefully) husband was accusing her of, so props to OP for telling her. OP didn't get Robert kicked out of his home; he did that to himself by not trusting his wife and listening to reason/genetics
Last Story, if I were in his shoes, I would take the DNA test and what it proves that I'm not the father I take him to court and sue him for defamation of character. Also, I would talk to HR about this man causing a hostile work environment. People need to learn the can't act any kind of way in public and in the workplace
Anytime someone accuses you of faking a disability, there are 2 words that’ll shut them down: Prove it.
I was part expecting the Karen in the 3rd story to put her hands on OP's brother and shove him out of the chair or something just as drastic.
The Wal-Mart story... I used to work in a nursing home that also had short-term rehab (physical/occupational) patients. One lady had a mobility scooter that she simply could. not. drive. She also had a lovely disposition that made her loudly complain about how absolutely every accident she got into was someone else's fault. She didn't stop bumping people, knocking things over, and accidentally rearranging furniture in the lobby (by running into it) until the day she drove straight forward into a brand-new wall in the entryway and put a massive hole into it. That finally gave us the ability to put serious limits on her mobility until she was discharged (to everyone's relief) a couple of weeks later. Those little electric scooters are an absolute menace in the wrong hands!
Op in the first one really is an angel 😇
That last story, I would’ve pressed charges for the threats and filed for a restraining order.
So why the hell didn't grandma pony up for all the extras if she felt her grandbaby deserved then rather than make a scene. OP, thank you for what you do!
Stealing college fund story: Absolutely NTA! I'd not only be suing them, I would be checking with the police to see if I could press criminal charges against the parents.
Amusement park story: Good grief! Not everyone who's in a wheelchair needs it full time, but they DO need it. I have a bad knee. Yes, I can walk, but not very far or for very long. When I shop, I use the provided mobility scooters. When I go to an amusement park, I RENT one. Otherwise, I'm not going to enjoy my day and would have to cut it short.
Genetics story: I would absolutely refuse to get a paternity test alone. The real father in this story would have to get one at the same time so I could watch him eat crow when the results came in. Good grief, not every child takes after just ONE of the parents.
Story 5 - Why end the story there? Share the story *after* the results!
Based on the comments, this story was posted at least 3-5 years ago. They recalled updates that went crazy. Unfortunately, several of these posters cannot find the updated links. Several quoted from memory. If you scroll through the comments, you'll find it.
oh riiight. I remember that last story. Both him and the wife are utterly insane and dangerous
The guy in the last story is insane. If I were OP I would not be taking a DNA test, I'd tell the guy if he's so certain abt the paternity he can test himself. I'd also be going to HR & talking to a lawyer abt harassment. As for the so-called friend group I'd let them know in bo uncertain terms that we are no longer friends & how stupid they're going to feel when the test comes back negative & I'd also let them know that they're just as stupid & ridiculous as the guy who started it all. I'd really like to hear an update from this story
Story 5: The amount of marriages that I've heard have been ruined by the fathers inability to understand genetics is ridiculous.
Redhead? This guy is INSANE, lol, he's convinced himself of something that he knows nothing about and threatened people over It and destroyed his own family, i hope we get an update?
being a redhead means that both sides of the family has the recessive gene for red hair. it may not show up but it is there. red heads come in the distant past from the middle east and very common with the jewish people. when the bloody idiot roman empire could not subject the jewish people they destroyed their country killing some and forcing others to leave to go to other parts of the world. the Europe, India etc.... My dad had the recessive gene for red hair and he would not grown a beard at all for it was bright red and he had brown hair. my mother side of the family had no recessive gene and all she wanted was a red hair child but never got one. one of my brother's did give her a great granddaughter with red hair but my mother had died a long time ago. the granddaughter's mother is jewish and my nephew had Irish blood on both sides of his family so the recessive gene was there as well.....
Story 2: Yeah... not an a-hole. If the parents "borrow" it, they should not have the problem replenish or dispute about the funds.
Story 3: Karens need to learn that disabilities can't be physical.
Story 4: I guess she just want some excitement in her life, I guess? 😅
Story 5: Pride (and not the LGBT kind) was in his head. Is he blind to see that his child looks a bit like his mom and yeah... he didn't know about genetics and female genes usually were more dominant then males ( as far as my understanding goes) 🤔
Story 3: I’m assuming EDS is Ehlers Danlos(sp?) syndrome. I read another story where another EDS person was accused of faking so the person started dislocating her joints to prove it. Grossed the Karen out.
Story 5: someone didn’t pay attention in biology class. If you pay attention in the genetics portion and are questioning paternity, you can compare blood type. It’s not as accurate DNA but at least you can exclude.
In story 5, I'm concerned that there may be something medically wrong with Robert. It seems like a sudden personality change, to become so irrational so quickly. I'd would talk to his doctor about his behavior.
Story 1: Grandmother, you know what's really disrespectful? Complaining about free products & services.
OP went far, above, & beyond for the parents. OP followed all of the parents preferences & requests. Including the facts, that OP used their own (personal, not company) $$ towards giving the deceased dignity & love. OP just wanted to help the parents in any way that they could.
I hope that the parents are able to find peace some time soon. At least they know that their baby was treated with respect & care.
I’ve been accused of faking my hyperacusis so many times by Karen’s who also encourage their kids to bully me. Hyperacusis is the complete opposite of being deaf. You hear almost everything in the area including mice and bats. This is more of a disadvantage because sounds such as pencils scrapping really hurt. Shrieking kids end up feeling like a kidney stone in the head and can cause migraines.
I compare it to broken speakers, or a radio station that you can't seem to tune in properly. Some things you can barely hear, others come in extra loud. And yeah there's no point in explaining this to Karens, you're just giving them ammo.
Story #1: If the Grandmother wanted all the grandeur and pomp of a big funeral then maybe she should have paid for it! Bloody rude and disrespectful 😡