The problem is that some narcs never leave us alone. If we are in proximity we can be targets for life, and their hatred for our strength and autonomy is inexhaustable.
Your just the emotional punching bag to them,if you go back to them it'll be worse, the only time it'll get better is when you go no contact and decide that you're totally done ✅ with them and out of nowhere everything starts really working out for you, you just half to work on you,👍 Jess thanks for the video 🦋
Why do I feel like the narc? He would tell me “I want to do life with you” and “I wonder what it would be like to come home to you…” then a few weeks later when I reminded him of those things he raged at me. We then took a break. He then comes back and we last another two weeks when he yelled at me for calling him before our 8pm FaceTime. Over the last 8 months he’d threaten me with being “done” because I was trying to feel included by him. So now we are done and I’ve reached out and reached out trying to understand why would he lead me on like that. He now says I’m bothering him and wrote a text to one of my friends to tell me to stop trying to talk to him. None of it makes sense.
Nothing they do makes sense. I know I couldn’t wrap my head around what was happening. It was a yo-yo cycle of love and hate. You are seeing his pattern playing out in front of you. Love bombed - devalued - discarded- there’s also a smear campaign against you by contacting your friend. And the only thing you were doing was trying to figure out what was going on! It’s so confusing until you study narcissistic tendencies, NPD, psychopaths, and sociopaths. Both psychopaths and sociopaths check all the boxes in NPD. Hopefully this will help you understand what happened. Finally, if he Hoovers you, it’s not because he loved or cared about you. It’s because he is bored or lonely. Block him on everything. Don’t let him have any access to you. This is not revenge on your ex, it’s for your healing process. These relationships take a toll on our spiritual, emotional, and physical well being. The recovery process can take a while. Remember to be kind to yourself as you heal!
Did you get a buzz from women fighting over you? When I realised that he was enjoying having "women friends" purely for that reason - is when I left for good.
@@pallasathena1369 Why yes as a matter of fact I did, few years ago when I was deeply entrenched to my disorder. Having multiple women competing for my attention, yes this is a classic tactic from a narcissist. I think the proper word is called "triangulation". Don't ever go back to the narcissist that you left, I hope you are safe and sound now.
They are feeling and doing the new supply
I knew the discard was coming, but it still feels like shit. I know it's get better, and I'm glad I'm off that roller coaster ride
The problem is that some narcs never leave us alone. If we are in proximity we can be targets for life, and their hatred for our strength and autonomy is inexhaustable.
Your just the emotional punching bag to them,if you go back to them it'll be worse, the only time it'll get better is when you go no contact and decide that you're totally done ✅ with them and out of nowhere everything starts really working out for you, you just half to work on you,👍 Jess thanks for the video 🦋
Thanks!
My 1st bf wasn't violent or anything. But had to make a major production out of the breakup 💔 as if we were acting in a movie.😅😂🙄
Why do I feel like the narc? He would tell me “I want to do life with you” and “I wonder what it would be like to come home to you…” then a few weeks later when I reminded him of those things he raged at me. We then took a break. He then comes back and we last another two weeks when he yelled at me for calling him before our 8pm FaceTime. Over the last 8 months he’d threaten me with being “done” because I was trying to feel included by him. So now we are done and I’ve reached out and reached out trying to understand why would he lead me on like that. He now says I’m bothering him and wrote a text to one of my friends to tell me to stop trying to talk to him. None of it makes sense.
Nothing they do makes sense. I know I couldn’t wrap my head around what was happening. It was a yo-yo cycle of love and hate. You are seeing his pattern playing out in front of you. Love bombed - devalued - discarded- there’s also a smear campaign against you by contacting your friend. And the only thing you were doing was trying to figure out what was going on! It’s so confusing until you study narcissistic tendencies, NPD, psychopaths, and sociopaths. Both psychopaths and sociopaths check all the boxes in NPD. Hopefully this will help you understand what happened. Finally, if he Hoovers you, it’s not because he loved or cared about you. It’s because he is bored or lonely. Block him on everything. Don’t let him have any access to you. This is not revenge on your ex, it’s for your healing process. These relationships take a toll on our spiritual, emotional, and physical well being. The recovery process can take a while. Remember to be kind to yourself as you heal!
Is this an AI voice?
No
The cadence on this pretty weird actually. Not the same as her other uploads.
@@NarcFreedom ok, then im not alone in my opinion...ty
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, most of this is actually true. Very scary but true, I'd be embarrassed to cover it on my channel LOL
Did you get a buzz from women fighting over you? When I realised that he was enjoying having "women friends" purely for that reason - is when I left for good.
@@pallasathena1369 Why yes as a matter of fact I did, few years ago when I was deeply entrenched to my disorder. Having multiple women competing for my attention, yes this is a classic tactic from a narcissist. I think the proper word is called "triangulation". Don't ever go back to the narcissist that you left, I hope you are safe and sound now.