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  • Watch the complete Skavlan interview with psychologist and professor Jordan B. Peterson.
    Also present in the studio are Swedish politician Annie Lööf and Norwegian author Erlend Loe. The show's presenter is Fredrik Skavlan.
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  • @modernlegacy5555
    @modernlegacy5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36464

    This is not even a conversation. He literally just taught a class.

    • @thegodofyoutube266
      @thegodofyoutube266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +319

      Everyone who disagrees with me below is a brain dead sheep & the world would be better off without them

    • @youssefgoldaly1698
      @youssefgoldaly1698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +869

      @@thegodofyoutube266 its called thinking

    • @thegodofyoutube266
      @thegodofyoutube266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      youssef gold aly I’m better than you

    • @wilfwilliams5780
      @wilfwilliams5780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

      Jimmy The Gent your opinion won you 2 likes! Way to go champ!

    • @wilfwilliams5780
      @wilfwilliams5780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +399

      Jimmy The Gent he literally said directly after that he wasn’t suggesting forcing couples who are bound to have trouble, to stay together! You wasted my time. Actually thought you were worth the debate. Your second comment speaks volumes!

  • @jonassrensen1705
    @jonassrensen1705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4663

    This man isn’t debating them. He’s educating them lmao

    • @TheSmithNinja
      @TheSmithNinja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      He is an academic.

    • @michaelolson3616
      @michaelolson3616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      Turned a debate into a lecture lol

    • @zeus1117
      @zeus1117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Yeah it's fantastic to see how badly educated the others were. Their points and reactions were not even in the same ballpark. They did not understand much from Jordan. They think their opinion means as much as facts 🤣

    • @eternal2k4
      @eternal2k4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      They didn’t even understand him… language barrier? Or just trolling him?

    • @johnq.random1496
      @johnq.random1496 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Good call. Many people through the years have said he taught a class here.

  • @zainhummamy4272
    @zainhummamy4272 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    As a foreign language learner, one of the hallmark of the genius of Peterson is his language. I mean when you listen to him speaking and listen to the people with him speaking, it feels like they're using different languages. His complexity of structure, precision, expressiveness, and accurate choice of expression are all fascinating.

    • @karlpach.9487
      @karlpach.9487 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I admire his command of the English language, and the ability to find the words be uses to express himself in an instant.

    • @CatherineWoofsHallam
      @CatherineWoofsHallam ปีที่แล้ว +23

      He is very careful how he speaks❤

    • @masterpopeyoda3290
      @masterpopeyoda3290 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I admire his patience and kindness he showed, to his interviewers here who at times had some struggles articulating what they were thinking.

    • @duanecarr6712
      @duanecarr6712 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yea in public speaking grammar word choice and tone and meter….all just about perfect

    • @stevenson720
      @stevenson720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You will see this type of language in Dickens or Austin. It's the precision, they say exactly what they mean, definitely helps with understanding and almost more Importantly preventing misunderstanding.
      Excellent interview.

  • @92thegoat
    @92thegoat ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I was working as a fedex driver for the last 3 years working 70 hours a week, just to be suddenly laid off 2 days ago. Definitely at my lowest point but I came back here because Jordan’s words always gives me strength 🙏🏾 this is the beginning of greater. Although I weep as I write this. Love to all

    • @danielvail8764
      @danielvail8764 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You'll bounce back brotha 💪🏻

    • @92thegoat
      @92thegoat ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@danielvail8764 thank you fam 🙏🏾

    • @chandraprasadsrajangan6077
      @chandraprasadsrajangan6077 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      all the best to you sir. You'll get thru this

    • @jeffspicolli593
      @jeffspicolli593 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If you were able to do that demanding and difficult Fedex delivery job 70 hours a week for three years you need not be concerned about anything.
      You are destined for a great career elsewhere.
      I hope you are a Canadian.

    • @JubbaheyChannel
      @JubbaheyChannel ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You Are Not Alone - There Are Many Like You - And They're Very Close Around. Reach Out.

  • @gospodinpendula6250
    @gospodinpendula6250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3643

    "The most hated person in the room is the one who speaks the truth"

    • @citizen6458
      @citizen6458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      No, not at all.

    • @chty101
      @chty101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@citizen6458 Yes it is lol.

    • @hunterashwill5766
      @hunterashwill5766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@citizen6458 yes it is.

    • @DonMeaker
      @DonMeaker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Depends on the purpose of the group. I have been the bearer of illuminating facts in a professional settings, and, because I was respected for past work, the facts were accepted, and eventually led (with a great deal of work by greatly skilled coworkers and managers who knew how to build a team) to winning a multi-billion dollar contract against very competent competition.

    • @chty101
      @chty101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@DonMeaker Wow dude thats crazy

  • @Tdotttttt
    @Tdotttttt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31651

    This man saved me from suicide. I was literally about to jump off Niagara falls on a new years eve and was driving to get to Niagara from Toronto and was listening to him by accident on the way. I heard about him before. When I finally reached Niagara, the lighting and everything in the new years eve and seeing everyone so happy and joyful and what he said, I felt like I had another shot. I stopped at a Timmys, and felt extreme love and affection towards strangers in a way that they thought I was crazy. He literally breathed new life into me. I spent the entire night in Niagara on the lake, drove back the nex morning, everything felt different from that day onwards. It is unbelievable. Here I am! Not even the pandemic and lockdowns could make me feel down anymore.

    • @nikolaibardin-siekawitch1802
      @nikolaibardin-siekawitch1802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2486

      THIS is what I like to see on the internet

    • @alpha13dylan
      @alpha13dylan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1021

      We were all created for times such as this. Through the works of God he used Peterson to save your life. You are not hopeless, you are not meaningless. From what I read in your post, it seems that God has put his hands on your life. We should all be grateful for that. 😊

    • @jjfitmomma5910
      @jjfitmomma5910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +640

      That’s amazing. What a beautiful story!

    • @jimeagle5483
      @jimeagle5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +490

      What a blessing. Your life has meaning. Not just to yourself, but to humanity. Be the best you possible and bless someone else.

    • @clarrichard
      @clarrichard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +420

      All of this and these comments. We need more of this.

  • @Allideas.
    @Allideas. ปีที่แล้ว +561

    After she understood him, she sat down listening, learning and looking at him, with utmost admiration, well done sister, it's better to learn and change than remain a fool.

    • @B16B0SS
      @B16B0SS ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She does not seem to agree with him, but is respectful. I would agree that she understands him and that he isn't saying that women cannot do traditionally male roles or occupations, just that he believes its not a result of society but instead biology. Whether or not that is true is irrelevant really.

    • @dumbiriezike5598
      @dumbiriezike5598 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      exactly, I didn't see it coming. I was astounded at her composure towards the end of the video

    • @MojoVince
      @MojoVince ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exemple of debatting, everyone is a winner in the end. If we only could listen to each others like that.

    • @Lyonessi
      @Lyonessi ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@dumbiriezike5598 she's one of the more compassionate women

    • @Don_Coyote
      @Don_Coyote ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly. That's why people need to listen more and talk less.
      If you disagree with somebody, try to understand as oppose to enter full emotional attack and defend mode. I think that's something we can all benefit from, especially in today's sometimes hostile society.

  • @nanojimenez7079
    @nanojimenez7079 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    When he speaks, you can’t help but to be struck by his wisdom.

    • @pinkyi151
      @pinkyi151 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amén to that ! I agree wholeheartedly 😅

  • @duckingtheradar
    @duckingtheradar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39885

    Three against one is significantly unfair, but at least he went easy on them.

    • @rrezonbeqiri5059
      @rrezonbeqiri5059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1693

      Nah the host kept smiling cuz he know he spitting facts

    • @Pomiferous
      @Pomiferous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1197

      Jordan generally takes great care to go easy on his detractors.

    • @qzon_981
      @qzon_981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +593

      They had us in the first half, not gonna lie

    • @_91K_
      @_91K_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

      Hahaha. Jordan be like Jackie Chan lone fighting kungfu-hooligans easy.

    • @Pomiferous
      @Pomiferous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +330

      @@_91K_ They were easy pickins for sure.It's nice to have an easy day at the office from time to time.

  • @neildonaldsonlotusexcelresto
    @neildonaldsonlotusexcelresto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3656

    It amazes me how many of these interviewers just do not understand the difference between 'equality of opportunity' and 'equality of outcome'.

    • @paddym27
      @paddym27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      this is basically the entire problem

    • @capenjck
      @capenjck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      In my opinion idea of equal outcome it is a product of envy. The belief that one person having something that another does not is unfair. The fantasy that two people have the same job should be paid the same even if they perform at different levels. Now that I think about it, could it be about self worth? You being paid more than me suggests that you are worth more than I am. People on the left need constant validation, they need to feel of equal value as people.

    • @paddym27
      @paddym27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@doomnotron there are plenty of examples of this disconnect even when there is no language barrier.

    • @SJKKA
      @SJKKA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Virtue signaling is not logical.

    • @joestasitunes
      @joestasitunes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm a bit new to this terminology. So is Peterson arguing that we should have "equality of opportunity" while the feminists want "equality of outcome"? Or am I getting them mixed up? Can someone please clarify

  • @LarryDraughnMusic
    @LarryDraughnMusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    This was a beautiful interview because the agenda was to ask the man what he thought and why he thought those things. It's obvious that Jordan is light years ahead...and I think that's a large part why they stay out of the way to give way for his brilliance. I love this interview and will be coming back to watch over and over.

    • @db7819z
      @db7819z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah I wish we had a show like this in the US

    • @deej3209
      @deej3209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think JP is one of the most emotionally and intellectually intelligent people alive on the planet today. I find so many don't actually listen to what he has to say. They hear a part of it, misconstrue it, and try and pick a fight at their own peril ;-)

  • @patrickcpuc5
    @patrickcpuc5 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Watching the female guests expressions when he "educates" her is by far the best part of the interview. You can tell it resonates with her logically, but you can see the conflict within her political beliefs. This man is simply speaking the truth with facts and data and not involving emotions in any of his conversations. I very much enjoy listening to him speak..and by the looks of it, so did the panel, even if it made them question their politics and beliefs.

    • @karlpach.9487
      @karlpach.9487 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I noticed that too. She looks at him in a very interesting way after he corrects her in a forceful and direct, but so kind and truthful way.

    • @Don_Coyote
      @Don_Coyote ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's because these women have never been put in their place.
      Once a real man talks to them in a civil manor, they get a sense of rebirth − in a way.
      This proves that we as society need to learn how we control our emotions, listen more and talk less, instead of being all in our feelings, get defensive and feel like we're being attacked. Because usually, it's a matter of understanding.

    • @OpenRevorg
      @OpenRevorg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Your interpretation is doubtful. She’s appalled.

    • @jeffspicolli593
      @jeffspicolli593 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      LOL. I'm thinking the woman on the panel still believes that woman should be equally represented in all proffessional and high paying jobs but with little to no representation in difficult, strenuous, dangerous and low paying jobs while the fellow with the beard is mulling divorce himself.
      One of the best panels hosting Dr. Peterson yet.

    • @CuriousCritter9
      @CuriousCritter9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I do believe it is a conflict in her, because in Sweden they put rational thought and knowledge very highly, so they can't really reject science. And at the same time they rate equality highly. So it surely must have put her in a very difficult place mentally.

  • @DjBlakkTux
    @DjBlakkTux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3132

    Jordan Peterson isn't provocative, people are just easily offended nowadays.

    • @byronlippe
      @byronlippe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      to be provoked is more of a response.

    • @braulioxDify
      @braulioxDify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      As he said in order to think you have to be willing to be offensive

    • @preachthepoet2442
      @preachthepoet2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      People are bitches now days

    • @neojon4871
      @neojon4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      In a world where people watch TikTok, each clip only lasts for seconds, more and more adults are acting like babies.

    • @rizzo9197
      @rizzo9197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And a great quote I recently heard "It is very important not to offend people but it is equally important that we as a people not be so easily offended" - Unsure ; )

  • @ctr_1602
    @ctr_1602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8311

    Peterson's patience with people CONSTANTLY misunderstanding him, even when sitting in front of him, is simply unmatched

    • @Hug_life
      @Hug_life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      seriously! It's like they already made up their mind about him and his views and so when he comes on and has completely logical answers to their "gotcha" questions that aren't extremist or mysogenistic, it doesnt even matter! It's like they don't even hear him. They just hear what they thought he was going to say lol

    • @johnapostolopoulos4
      @johnapostolopoulos4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Its not missunderstanding. Its trying to lead the person thats hearing this to the wrong conclusions. "So what you are saying is...." and peterson has great experience in not falling for that. Once you hear his answer you realise that the question is stupid/missleading and you recognise that....hopefully.

    • @justwondering1967
      @justwondering1967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      I don’t think they could unpack his ideas fast enough to keep up. I think he loses them at times and they revert back to “everyone should be equal because that’s fair”. He has mastered patience, no doubt.

    • @technanapi4076
      @technanapi4076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@justwondering1967 Really? To me it's just a blowhard kind of dog paddling through any and every question with the same answer, ..." That's not what I meant".

    • @Kwansmusic
      @Kwansmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought about this I think its because of the way he talks. He talks like a robot.

  • @cesarchiarelli8039
    @cesarchiarelli8039 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    This man has been an angel on earth. He’s causing an tremendous positive impact on our decadent world. I’m so grateful for having him spreading verities around. It was much needed.

    • @smmlf676
      @smmlf676 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree. He's one in a gazillion.

    • @anthonybaransky137
      @anthonybaransky137 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He IS greatly needed

    • @makirichi
      @makirichi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope and humility. He's
      like an elevator that makes us see the big picture of where we come from, where we are and where we seems to go. This vertical ascending shows how fragile is humans in this chaos but also the strength we also have available to fight against our own prejudice and vulnerability. Such great ambassador for humanty.

  • @MZRTMusic254
    @MZRTMusic254 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The lady's facial expressions whenever Jordan is speaking is just wholesome... The cameran understood the assignment

    • @hotinvasile3959
      @hotinvasile3959 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂👍

    • @penjamipesonen
      @penjamipesonen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The Live Director is the person who chooses which camera is used in which situations and directs the Technical Director who operates the switcher.
      The cameraman filming the lady is assigned to film only the lady.. so yes, you are correct, he probably understood the assignment.

  • @bychen5011
    @bychen5011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2103

    Jordan Peterson: "Science has shown" "Studies have shown"
    Others: "I think" "I feel"

    • @kenrehill8775
      @kenrehill8775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Anonymous that all the left have. In the centre we deal in fact.

    • @MrStuartp
      @MrStuartp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      They are hell-bent on social activism, empirical evidence is just an annoyance to them.

    • @cgme7076
      @cgme7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MrStuartp :: You do understand that you're talking about two different groups of one political party, yes? God, we humans are so flawed with our tribal thinking...

    • @MrStuartp
      @MrStuartp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@cgme7076 I think you are not getting what I am saying, bit quick to judge.
      I'm referring to the feminist politician. Peterson lays out how gender quotas have been done, studied and failed. Yet she still has to hold on to her ideology and simply state she 'disagrees', like that's an argument against what he is saying?
      Maybe watch the video again so you understand lol.

    • @cgme7076
      @cgme7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Paul Stuart :: You said “they” not “feminists”. Thanks for clarifying.

  • @joshdeal6468
    @joshdeal6468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30453

    You have to respect the Scandinavians, they actually let him speak more than a few seconds.

    • @jonasrettig327
      @jonasrettig327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +978

      Josh Deal All Talk Shows should be like this. Let everybody talk and listen...then answer. I think that’s so much more productive.

    • @donnadizucchero
      @donnadizucchero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

      I just ADOOOREEEE Skavlan! When i want comedy/entertainment i watch Graham Norton, when i want to learn what's in the head of a person i am interested in (Ester Perel, Adele, Jordan B.Peterson, Sofia Helig, Ricky Gervais, some people from European cultural/political scene) - i click Skånlan. He is an amazing listener, but even more the audience amazes me, so modest, nice people...

    • @innominatum9906
      @innominatum9906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@judasiscariot8396 He's just an immature little fuckboy acting all edgy by having that account-name.

    • @UnbeltedSundew
      @UnbeltedSundew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@innominatum9906 you said, to a guy who called himself Judas Iscariot. lol

    • @paullambert8701
      @paullambert8701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +432

      You don't know what you are seeing here. It is not a matter of letting him speak. It is that Peterson is far too cerebral for these people to react quickly, and they are a bit intimidated when encountering English speakers. It is important to note that this discussion goes WAY outside the box of allowed discourse in Scandinavia. They have never heard such arguments before. Notice at 8:00, Annie Lööf does not actually address the point being discussed, but simply slips back into a very safe cookie-cutter discussion about the kind of world she wants her children to live in with regard to equality. Any Swede in a group of 2 or more people would express that opinion exactly the same was as if they had a string in the backs of their necks to pull in order to talk automatically.
      Swedish discussion programmes on TV that feature only Swedes speaking Swedish are constant shouting matches. The topics of discussion tend to be banal and pedestrian anyway. This particular show is very much the exception.

  • @insomnia4139
    @insomnia4139 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    "The lack of our best hurts everything" - best part for me

  • @deantsar6246
    @deantsar6246 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Thank God that we have Jordan Peterson to speak to us in a way that resonates to our very soul.
    He speaks from the heart, and combines this with great moral principles.
    I find his speaking to be educational, inspiring and full of hope, that good will triumph evil, and give someone a meaning to their existence.
    May God continue to bless you Jordan.
    🙏

  • @LOGAN-lu4nz
    @LOGAN-lu4nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1809

    You can see from their faces thinking, ‘this guy makes sense but we can’t let him win easily’

    • @SdotThompson
      @SdotThompson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      That's how you can know they aren't operating in good faith. None of this is ever really about making things better, always about implementing a belief in what they think is better. Ego and narcissism. Power. Nothing more.

    • @DiamondDomers
      @DiamondDomers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@SdotThompson I'll actually disagree on the bad faith aspect of your comment. As with all good idea you shouldn't just immediately take what makes sense in one aspect and then not carefully scrutinise it, let's not forget that these people have their own ideology and trying to rationalise both the pre existing and new idea, so of course they will try analyse what dr. JBP is saying. I believe that other than some pointed questions by the host, that this was an incredibly civilised and rational conversation compared to other talks.

    • @Jay-eb7ik
      @Jay-eb7ik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      To be honest, it was a better conversation because of it. I want to see how he handles these things so I can learn from it. Just agreeing wouldn't be fun.

    • @ClubeSocial
      @ClubeSocial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@SdotThompson What governs it all is the virallity of the content. They can't let him win easily because content matters, or else you could just put a text-to-speech voice on a blank screen: no one would share it.

    • @ClubeSocial
      @ClubeSocial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also the answer for this computational problem is truth.

  • @goodkisser8591
    @goodkisser8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6810

    The look on her face for all 38 minutes is like she’s still trying to take in the fact that 25 years of science contradicts her opinion

    • @rpj1231
      @rpj1231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      I understand she wants to empower her daughter but saying that boys have its easy, to make a success on this planet is not fair, and what the science shows what happens when you try to force a square peg in a round hole... Maybe I'm wrong but that what understand.

    • @tmike9470
      @tmike9470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      I don't think they understood what he was saying. I mean the questions they had were pretty strange given the discussion of Peterson

    • @goodkisser8591
      @goodkisser8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Paranoix _ the majority of people with similarly-themed false beliefs continue to embrace them and live in denial since it brings them more comfort and value - sadly though this simultaneously continues the spread of misinformation and the damage it causes. Hopefully she’s able to acknowledge the truth and move forward comfortably with it

    • @angelmendez7651
      @angelmendez7651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      The smile on her face when Peterson referenced her topic and acknowledges agreeableness :D 27:45

    • @allrequiredfields
      @allrequiredfields 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Christ, I just had to pause the video to say just this. That look confusion mixed with self-righteous indignation is just so pathetic. And she just keeps fucking repeating herself as if simply repeating what she feels to be true enough times, he'll eventually stop refuting her points and go 'oh, I'm sorry; you're right'.
      It's just disgusting.

  • @GrahamS67
    @GrahamS67 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    A skillful interview because he actually listened and let his guest speak which is, after all why he's there.👏👏👏👏

    • @bryans6151
      @bryans6151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i have never heard such utter nonsense in my life. He is a bully and a narcisist. And golf is silly , Graham is a silly name. I think you should shut up and listen more to your older and wiser brothers.

  • @foxgood
    @foxgood ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This man is my new hero, I can't get enough of his conversations.

  • @rationalword1907
    @rationalword1907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4311

    Ironically Dr Peterson's arguments and attitude are far more caring and respectful towards women than feminism.

    • @QkFrosty
      @QkFrosty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Exactly, a lot of women are realizing it thankfully

    • @BeefWellington1
      @BeefWellington1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hahahahaha it’s actually fucking hilarious

    • @liemduong6729
      @liemduong6729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @HandyMan101 Thats not a true statement...

    • @BaibaVulgaris
      @BaibaVulgaris 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @HandyMan101 well, that's narrow-minded statement. Woman is there to provide next generations,she grows a person inside her and for this reason I hate when men say "women love men conditionally". Can you raise and educate your kids , pay your flat bills, get food without money? Just with your unconditional manly love? Then me as a woman cannot, I need food, place to live etc and if I create a family with a man I want a man to be able to support me and our children! So I find your statement humiliating..

    • @BaibaVulgaris
      @BaibaVulgaris 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @HandyMan101 lmao, you have nothing to support your point so instead of replying to my questions you just threw in a general bullshit, haha, thanks for proving me and the whole order of the family and life right!:))

  • @umbragegigglygirl09
    @umbragegigglygirl09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5725

    I love that even though they all disagree with him, they're all letting him respond fully. This is what I like to watch.

    • @Brandon75689
      @Brandon75689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I mean, this is probably more of a show where if they speak out of turn they have to leave. Also Jordans more out of whack discussions have been with the host who controls the conversation.

    • @_91K_
      @_91K_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      I agree. But it's also because they are incapable to interject, and seemingly having a hard time digesting the facts Jordan brought on them.

    • @dkillips
      @dkillips 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      they had some humility. indoctrinated likely, but in the face of competence had the strength of character to entertain the possibility that they were wrong, or at least they could improve. this is NOT an example of a leftist. this is an example of a liberal, commendable work.

    • @orangswiss8946
      @orangswiss8946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Well, i agree, they let him talk. What else could they do? They at least understood that they had nothing to say at the level of Peterson.

    • @user-wv3fj5uu4h
      @user-wv3fj5uu4h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@orangswiss8946 there's people like cethey newman who just spits bullshit eventhough she knows none

  • @sirjaya2534
    @sirjaya2534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Without a shadow of doubt, when JP speaks about how his father spent time with him, despite his being a 'task-master', and especially when he recalls the feedback from people on the positive effect he has had on them, it touches his heart profoundly. It's like the recognition that his work on building individuals' self-esteem gives his life true significance. You can see that he is close to crying.
    He is both highly cognitively and emotionally intelligent, as well as being intellectually competent. Powerful gifts he has. Must also be exhausting and lonely at times.
    People think they'll have a discussion with him but his level of genius is quite unmatched. He just talks sense and has done his research to make him an expert with tremendous knowledge and outstanding communication skills. I really admire his heart and mind.

  • @lucreziamapelli
    @lucreziamapelli 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I could listen to him for days.

  • @adambartlett6277
    @adambartlett6277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6687

    It's genuinely scary how many people can't grasp the difference between equality of opportunity and equality of outcome

    • @crazyg74
      @crazyg74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      mate, spot on. I was trying to come up with a better word than scary, but I couldn't!

    • @Uriel-Septim.
      @Uriel-Septim. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      Maybe it also have somthing to do with the fact that many people want what they wrongly consider a "fair" world, where nobody schould be better then the next person, many people have a hard time grasping, that some are born with a higher IQ and some just higher and some are more beautiful and others seem`s to have all the luck or are born in to a family who made a lot of good choices in the past and get a advantages that way Etc. Etc. Etc. insted of playing the hand they where giving and get the most out of it, they whine about a unfair world.
      "There have always been and always will be those who are driven by hate and want to blame those who are happy, creative and productive for their misery." --Terry Goodkind.

    • @mightydane5144
      @mightydane5144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      one of the biggest factors in the destruction of the west

    • @Uriel-Septim.
      @Uriel-Septim. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @Skitzofrenix "Education is not merely neglected in many of our schools today, but is replaced to a great extent by ideological indoctrination."--Thomas Sowell.
      "Ours may become the first civilization destroyed, not by the power of our enemies, but by the ignorance of our teachers and the dangerous nonsense they are teaching our children. In an age of artificial intelligence, they are creating artificial stupidity." --Thomas Sowell.

    • @sachinjoshi1386
      @sachinjoshi1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Equality of opportunity is a myth as long as "Inheritance" is in play. Inheritance of both assets and liabilities. Ban inheritance and then we'll talk equality of opportunity.

  • @Gaudion
    @Gaudion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1445

    Jordan Peterson: "The science, the literature, the history, the data, the statistics..."
    Annie Loof: "I feel..."

    • @reznovnata3889
      @reznovnata3889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Ben Shapiro enters

    • @balazamon
      @balazamon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@reznovnata3889 shapiro is a controlled RINO, he is glenn becks little jew

    • @reznovnata3889
      @reznovnata3889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@balazamon what?????

    • @balazamon
      @balazamon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@reznovnata3889 ben shapiro is controlled opposition, he is glenn becks clone and is part of the never trump opposition. he lied about lewandowski and is nothing more than a shill

    • @brandonlesko3126
      @brandonlesko3126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The Three Fs of female speech: Feel, Felt, and Feeling.
      "I just feel so...", "And it made me feel like...", "I'm feeling...", "I felt so..."
      Who needs Logic & Reason when you have feelings & emotions?

  • @tilen4508
    @tilen4508 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This man is a living book of good advice, supported by data and science. I listen to him every day. Thank you Jordan 💜

  • @kennethblaabjergfog2197
    @kennethblaabjergfog2197 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Nice to see that people who disagree can still have a good discussion without sorting to verbal personal attacks. Respect!

  • @Crookqt
    @Crookqt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1005

    He doesnt provoke me, he makes me think clearer.

    • @FabianJacquin
      @FabianJacquin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      "Provoking" is how some people can barely conceptualize what are actually just challenging ideas.

    • @bluejeans5770
      @bluejeans5770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@FabianJacquin After "provoke" comes "offensive" then micro aggression...

    • @verminsfate
      @verminsfate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bluejeans5770 Yes! then "hate speech" and "violent speech" which is how the extremists justify protests and getting physically violent because you are committing "violence" with your speech

    • @get8bit
      @get8bit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's a thought provocateur.

    • @marshmallowvampire8503
      @marshmallowvampire8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @ChillBuilds
    @ChillBuilds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1586

    Jordan Peterson: "The data shows quite clearly..."
    Someone else: "But I don't feel like..."
    Jordan Peterson: "THE. DATA. SHOWS. QUITE. CLEARLY...."

    • @kevinodom2918
      @kevinodom2918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      And Remember these are the same people who claim to believe so strongly in science. Obvious they only use when convenient, ignore when they don't like. They're the true science deniers.

    • @RawMaterialENT
      @RawMaterialENT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yet the data on climate change or the existence of god he can ignore right?

    • @RawMaterialENT
      @RawMaterialENT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Jim Browski the right are wildly anti intellectual, climate change, trans (studies are out), trickle down..always wrong about everything, systemic racism, fucking wearing masks and corona virus, election fraud. You have to be partially lobotomized to be on the right

    • @eristef
      @eristef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@RawMaterialENT Nothing here has anything to do with "The Right" or "The Left". Forcing people to be either with you or against you is a great way to push people away from you.

    • @totalrobot
      @totalrobot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@RawMaterialENT your tribalism is on full blast.

  • @danielconnolly8565
    @danielconnolly8565 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What a pleasure to see educated and, more importantly, respectful adults going about their business. I’ve huge admiration for all 4.
    Jordan has them absolutely transfixed.

  • @tweetdezweet
    @tweetdezweet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just rewatched this, the most respectful conversation with Dr Peterson by people that disagree with him on certain topics 😊

  • @makhseed
    @makhseed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5337

    An actual interview and a discussion about topics they disagreed on. Not a non-stop barrage of attacks or attempts to smear him. Up vote

    • @vakhtangi24
      @vakhtangi24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yeah, Finally!

    • @thoticcusprime9309
      @thoticcusprime9309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@vakhtangi24 no they tried

    • @JustinBailey91
      @JustinBailey91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      I think the host asked because he geniunely didn't understand. Trying to live by leftist media ideology gets confusing I'm sure.

    • @SirDavid247
      @SirDavid247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I do not think they even understood the point of ( outcome ) or preferences, men and women are equal but they obviously have different preferences ( at least in certain areas of life ) , that is normal, why are they being skeptical about it?!

    • @TyCollage
      @TyCollage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was thinking the exact same thing, made me reflect.

  • @IamINERT
    @IamINERT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1700

    Why can't people understand this man?
    He is speaking with facts. He isn't biased.

    • @milokaz2753
      @milokaz2753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I do understand him 🙂 Love being a woman, love hid message. I find it to be true.

    • @ericdodson2644
      @ericdodson2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I think you answered your own question.

    • @woozie___
      @woozie___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      They just hear the labels that other biased individuals place on him to fit their own agendas, i.e. "Jewish shill" vs "nazi".
      It breaks my heart that people don't actually hear his message. So much good to get out of it for people of any gender or color. Be the best you can be, take on the responsibilities that frighten you and meet those challenges, and thereby create a meaningful life. So many people are looking for meaning these days. It's easy, it's within you.

    • @bucktownxxx
      @bucktownxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Because many people are incompetent.....that's why people like him exist in the first place

    • @chriswhite2151
      @chriswhite2151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Because they are biased. They are emotionally invested in their own world view and resent that the facts don't agree with what they already believe to be true. It can't be that they are wrong, so it must be him.

  • @CD-lw6fl
    @CD-lw6fl ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I enjoyed this very much. A civilized conversation without anyone insisting on their own beliefs as being paramount. Jordan is such a well spoken individual, clearly educated in many areas besides clinical psychology. The truth of what he speaks comes out clearly if one is not stubborn to a single thought of how things are or should be. I loved the honour that he gave his parents for his growth outcome.
    Thanks again

  • @subhayandas14
    @subhayandas14 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How fast he swiches between topics and bombards them with knowledge and proper argument. His intelligence is monumental ❤

  • @justinkim7202
    @justinkim7202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    "Admitting vulnerability is not weakness. It's courage."

    • @MIck-M
      @MIck-M 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They cannot grasp the concept that to admit vulnerability is courageous, while vulnerabilities within themselves are in no way virtuous or automatically 'brave'.

    • @MrRavellon
      @MrRavellon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Admitting vulnerability is like saying: "I have a weak spot, right here, see? You can strike it if you want. I can handle that. It won't destroy me."
      Nothing's weak about it, as long as that is true. If you can survive when your vulnerability is exploited you can survive anything.
      Pretending there is no vulnerability is to be afraid that you can't, in fact, survive that.

    • @z33n1c3
      @z33n1c3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts!

    • @justinkim7202
      @justinkim7202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MrRavellon Actually, what Dr. Peterson meant is that to admit vulnerability is to accept that there's something wrong with you and that you've gotta fix that. And to fix that, you often have to "go into the unknown". Pretending that there is nothing wrong with you is to avoid facing the facts/truth about yourself in order to avoid having to do anything about it, which means you can stay in your little comfort zone.

    • @MrRavellon
      @MrRavellon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@justinkim7202 no, that's weakness you're talking about. Weakness is a flaw. Vulnerability is not. Anything you care about deeply enough creates vulnerability in you. To "fix" those vulnerabilities you would have to stop caring. That's not a good thing.

  • @Johnny-lj5ef
    @Johnny-lj5ef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2651

    The bald interviewer was asking Peterson for a way to divorce his wife

    • @vaneyes5137
      @vaneyes5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

      Ikr!!! "hm hm hm .. how old does the kid have to be for me to gtfo?"

    • @SohamBhattacharya3105
      @SohamBhattacharya3105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      He was already divorced at that point. That's why he was interested in the topic.

    • @luigichallis1439
      @luigichallis1439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      This made me laugh a lot.

    • @LivieLiv723
      @LivieLiv723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Lol I read this hilarious comment right when he started to inquire lol 😂

    • @GabbrEL
      @GabbrEL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Looked like it! It's pretty much the only subject he asked clarifications for.

  • @danielrichardson4868
    @danielrichardson4868 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is probably the best interview in the history of the world given the setting, the timing, the group dynamic, the duration, its the perfect balance, thank you to all involved

  • @abanikohli4022
    @abanikohli4022 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how they actually are interested him as a person. They let him speak and calmly try to understand his opinions whether or not it matches theirs.

  • @Yesirr44
    @Yesirr44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5961

    His ideology is basically, make children strong so they can be useful to society despite their gender and race love this guy

    • @SdotThompson
      @SdotThompson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

      So simple and so true. He's the only one that came into the conversation to have a conversation, the rest came to score points and profess their virtue.

    • @sacryss
      @sacryss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That'd be true if he wouldn't base his ideology on religious dogmas

    • @samjohnstonemusic6328
      @samjohnstonemusic6328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      @@sacryss I understand why you would presume that because on a surface level, it certainly seems that way. But in listening to his lectures on Genisis and his talks with Bret Weinstein and Sam Harris, he’s no religious nut. He isn’t a biblical literalist. He draws a lot of fundamental truths from religious texts without accrediting them with any scientific recognition. From an atheists perspective, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    • @jonlee1290
      @jonlee1290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@sacryss only certain fundamentals. I was raised Christian. Got away from church early. Never enjoyed it. However I am also morally based in certain Christian fundamentals. Not all of course.

    • @user-ty9xy3by5k
      @user-ty9xy3by5k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      You can't even call it an ideology really. It should be common sense.

  • @gabykahn4602
    @gabykahn4602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2770

    Lmao the bald guy sneaked in a quick therapy session for himself

    • @GameCrawler
      @GameCrawler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      Hahaha that's what I was thinking. When he said "Go back to the divorce question" I knew he wanted some therapy lol

    • @R9000S
      @R9000S 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      Yeah balled guy legit red pilled in front of our eyes

    • @nickaduda6032
      @nickaduda6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheRealRoch108
      @TheRealRoch108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      HAHAHAHA

    • @djlunaticdreyfuss7562
      @djlunaticdreyfuss7562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hairist :)

  • @dougsherman1562
    @dougsherman1562 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wonderful lecture, timeless. Watching this again reminds me of my college years. Dr. Peterson is a natural teacher and these videos are a treasure for young people.

    • @davidsvarrer8942
      @davidsvarrer8942 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, thanks for calling me young. I have learned more from him about how to behave, than anyone else. He is one of the reasons I am able to live a loving life with a great great woman and my daughter, and able to provide not only finance but also being a father and a husband. Sure, it takes that I choose to tell the truth, stand up for myself, find self-encouragement, etc. - but - this gentleman Jordan Peterson is so full of great encouragement in his tough tough tough ways to put things straight as he thinks them. He has thought so long and far, about those things he says, so that he has made his utterances extremely valuable for us. So, as a 60 year old now, I am learning from him, implementing, and having success with what I learn from him. What a man... What a leader...

  • @JESWEATSHIRT
    @JESWEATSHIRT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was actually incredible, I’m always in awe but the way Peterson is articulating himself relentlessly here is extraordinary

  • @erichaynes4049
    @erichaynes4049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2813

    He is a master at speaking to people who hate him and don't understand him.

    • @aaciahussain9086
      @aaciahussain9086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      He’s the one where there is an attempt at being “provoked” - he simply chooses not to be.

    • @palmereldritch7777
      @palmereldritch7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What about the people who dislike him and DO understand him ?

    • @erichaynes4049
      @erichaynes4049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@palmereldritch7777 There are plenty of those people, and many of the things they say are worth listening to, but I've never seen or heard him be interviewed by someone like that.

    • @palmereldritch7777
      @palmereldritch7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@erichaynes4049 Interviewed or debated ?
      As an interviewer you hopefully give your interviewee the space to make his own statements. You just ask a question, and you can ask a tricky question, but you don't engage in criticism - cause hey if you're not gonna fight it, then you are having a debate, not an interview.
      Seeing more and more debates with Peterson, with people who do understand him and see where he's getting at ....and simply don't agree with his premises and the stuff he just assumes to be true.
      For example his analysis of Bible stories, going deeper and deeper, is for him a proof of Judeo Christian tradition being on a higher level than other religions. Uhmmm, Really? why ? Just because he can look deeper and deeper nd see more meaning?
      Hell, you can look at any work of art worth it's salt and find deeper and deeper meaning in infinite layers. You can look at the stars and find infinite meaning. (and people did and do- even Judeo Christians).
      so does that make the Bible a "special book above all others" ? Mweeeh, no, not from where i'm standing.
      And his analysis itself seems to be on somewhat shaky ground- projecting his own ideas into the book. (for the record i think the Bible was more or less designed that way - hence you have 100 and counting different varieties of bible interpretation and which one is the correct one? Jordan Peterson's ?). so is it the book, the stories as Peterson himself claims? Or the interpreter?.
      Personally i'd say it usually falls somewhere in between. There are a few scientists and artists who can communicate exactly what they want. but even then it is what people get out of it - or not.
      Butin the end that doesn't make the Bible a "special" book. just A book. (with some interminable boring passages between some good yarns. And a couple that make no sense whatsoever- you know the one)

    • @palmereldritch7777
      @palmereldritch7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@XFR18 yup, and if he can't get his message across that well, maybe he has a problem in communicating. On the whole I'd say it's quite clear though and the more I listen to him the more holes appear in his narrative.

  • @ShogunV
    @ShogunV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5307

    It's shocking that saying "men and women are different" is shocking

    • @Kathayne636
      @Kathayne636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      He's just saying the most obvious, simple things in a concise way and everyone thinks it's mind-blowing. Like he says, this stuff isn't even contested amongst those who study the field.

    • @Kathayne636
      @Kathayne636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      I don't understand how it's controversial in the least.

    • @Laweryn
      @Laweryn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Yeah, all of a sudden biological common sence is controversial...

    • @dh0514883
      @dh0514883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Damn you and your pesky statistics and data. As the lady says in this video after hearing exhaustively scientifically proven facts: I disagree

    • @redoxhilk1055
      @redoxhilk1055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      k 9 9
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      . 9

  • @sajjadsaddam2012
    @sajjadsaddam2012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    All the guests were so respectful ! Thank you for the kind and calm discussion

  • @augustokist4207
    @augustokist4207 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jordan is so incredibly well spoken

  • @computerservant
    @computerservant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1625

    I was impressed by the questions that were asked. In American media, the interviewer never, ever, ever asks about the interviewee. The interviewers just argue, smirk and talk over them. Probably one of the best interviews I've seen in a while.

    • @joethomas8640
      @joethomas8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      watch JP and a british legend Russell Brand conversations, they are really good

    • @donmcphil2167
      @donmcphil2167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes!
      The Questions Were Amazing.

    • @MrKlotzi123
      @MrKlotzi123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well that's American Televsision for you, since your best Interviewers are either Dead or in Prison.

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES

    • @johnfused8281
      @johnfused8281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joethomas8640 british legend ?

  • @DeusExMachina50
    @DeusExMachina50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2519

    This is like watching a world-class chef feed caviar to a baby.

    • @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels
      @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      That or he's capable of rational thought and doesn't bend the facts to suit an agenda.

    • @TheBonjela100
      @TheBonjela100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      This is one of the best analogies I have ever read

    • @judgedredd31
      @judgedredd31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m going to use that analogy but substitute caviar for a food that’s obviously perfect in taste AND texture.

    • @TheBlitzgundam
      @TheBlitzgundam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Or a world class chef feeding caviar to a hobo and expecting a well thought review about said caviar. Pardon for the hyperbole.

    • @dp582
      @dp582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels But that's just it isn't it? Lefties and rational thought don't mix together well

  • @crispy.monkey
    @crispy.monkey ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Nice to see him in a relaxed interview without people trying to unsettle him.

  • @marteumar8429
    @marteumar8429 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    27:19 I love it when JP laugh 🥹 he’s such a dad. Our favorite internet dad ❤️

  • @Ghalion666
    @Ghalion666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9185

    They always ask "why is your audience primarily male" early on like they are gonna catch him being misogynist or something. Every damn time

    • @karkkimarkkinat2109
      @karkkimarkkinat2109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +717

      I've noticed the same thing. They always ask it with such suspicion, like there's something wrong with that. So fucking annoying.

    • @PIEOHMY95
      @PIEOHMY95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Yup so annoying

    • @trollnerd
      @trollnerd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      It's a pretty reasonable question....

    • @alexnezhynsky9707
      @alexnezhynsky9707 5 ปีที่แล้ว +433

      @@trollnerd It is a reasonable question, but you need to take context into account. There's a recurring pattern among every interviewer who asked him that question. It's not a coincidence.

    • @Violka1987
      @Violka1987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +546

      I am his female viewer and I am baffled by this question every time. Of course his advice is primarily for men, so it will attract more men. But he's not excluding women and any woman can learn a heck of a lot from listening to him, especially when it comes to choosing a partner for life and family. I learned what to be aware of and what to seek. I actually WANT more men listening to him and taking his advice to heart.

  • @goodkisser8591
    @goodkisser8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2203

    Jordan: cites 25 years of constantly replicated scientific studies and factual data
    Blonde girl: well I don’t think that

    • @aestheticleviathan7028
      @aestheticleviathan7028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Common Sense how does that come into play here at all? Please explain

    • @robo2729
      @robo2729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Common Sense trump derangement syndrome is real...you are my example.

    • @rbike3032
      @rbike3032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I watched a TED talk about this feminist who was making a documentary about mens rights activists, and she goes on to say how she wasnt actually listening to them but just waiting for them to say something offensive, ect. She realised that what was the piont if they didnt listen, people's veiws may differ, but that doesnt mean we cant LISTEN.

    • @FramedSabotage
      @FramedSabotage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@rbike3032 That was most interesting to watch to see her explain how she didn't understand what she had been doing. How it took her a long time to see herself and the other side and break free of her ideology. It had so much power of her.

    • @xk4mix
      @xk4mix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Its more like: "I don't feel that is true." That is the irony .

  • @BelieveNoGod
    @BelieveNoGod ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Skavlan, for doing shows like this.

  • @georgef3936
    @georgef3936 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was very impressed with all the people who took part in this discussion
    It was so different to many interviews or shows featuring Jordan Peterson which can wind up being unpleasantly combative.
    Those asking the questions seemed to genuinely want to find out what made him tick. And they did a pretty good job of that.
    The questions were insightful and fair. And the sorts of things a lot would want to know about Jordan Peterson.
    I’m assuming they had quite different perspectives than he had on a number of issues. But that didn’t motivate them to try to catch him out. They seemed to want to genuinely learn about him.
    I congratulate them all. There was a real gentleness and fairness shown by everyone. And we all learnt something.
    It’s the best interview I’ve seen of Jordan Peterson.

  • @isaiahgere9283
    @isaiahgere9283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2177

    Who else noticed that Jordan Peterson just gave these people a free therapy session?

    • @paulitovz
      @paulitovz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      And he gave all of us a great lecture :)... I really wish him the best

    • @giacomolontra3707
      @giacomolontra3707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      good point.

    • @anthonymuc
      @anthonymuc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sure as hell wasn't free, tho🤣 likely one of the most expensive sessions he's ever given lol

    • @akshay_creates
      @akshay_creates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I legit thought the bearded lad was actually there for therapy hahaha

    • @quantumreality2009
      @quantumreality2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😹😹😹😹😹 so true 🤘🏾🤘🏾

  • @dissidentpriest381
    @dissidentpriest381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1440

    Peterson: "Men and women are different"
    Everyone else: "So you hate women?!

    • @charlestruppi7793
      @charlestruppi7793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Also:
      Peterson: “it’s awesome that all people, men and women, have equal opportunities”
      Female politician: “I don’t agree with that because I want my daughter to have the same opportunities”

    • @jackcottington9970
      @jackcottington9970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Peterson: You have to deal with problems as they arise
      Also Peterson: *Eats all the Klonopin*

    • @PlantBia
      @PlantBia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charlestruppi7793 I think she was aggreeing on that regard

    • @stehfreejesseah7893
      @stehfreejesseah7893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackcottington9970 It's obvious watching his older videos that he was on Xannies,

    • @jackcottington9970
      @jackcottington9970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stehfreejesseah7893 The best parts of Peterson is always the stuff he chooses to leave out. Like the idea that the just like the wise king is the counterpart to the tyrant, the adaptable citizenry(in the form of a stable democracy) is the counterpart of chaos. And just as order is associated with the masculine and therefore strength; chaos the feminine and therefore care. I really hope that it has occurred to him at this point that the thing he is railing against in the modern world is the thing that he missed in himself. I say that not because I dislike the man, on the contrary, I hope he recovers with inside and is able to help others.

  • @ciankai
    @ciankai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I actually love how these people do not interrupt him while not necessarily agree with him. This is what interviews and debates should look like. Well done Scandinavia! Definitely subscribed.

  • @IAmJaguarPaw.ThisIsMyForest.
    @IAmJaguarPaw.ThisIsMyForest. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "People are stronger than their misfortunes."
    "The lack of their best hurts everything!"
    "Can't get any better than that."
    Three perfect quotes........and he was barely even trying.

  • @jarheadjunkremoval4548
    @jarheadjunkremoval4548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Mr. Peterson is way above their reading level.

    • @joshdunham7167
      @joshdunham7167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's a problem because he is expecting us to follow, people like you and me often look up the words we don't understand or even screenshot the quotes that really resonate with us but to people who don't strive for betterment it comes off as condescending and think of him as the guy who uses big words because he's full of shit.

    • @six_waterbottles6wb129
      @six_waterbottles6wb129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@joshdunham7167 well depending on your level of literacy, what hes saying isnt necessarily difficult to follow, you just have to listen carefully. Besides that, i think the biggest problem is his explanations are very accurate but not very concise, for someone who doesnt speak English as a first language it can be hard to follow in that case. I really dont know how to deal with this from Mr. Peterson's position; if he is more concise, they twist his words and force him to explain with more depth, and if he is very careful about his words, he says too much and they dont know how to respond. His examples help, but if im being honest, you cant force someone to listen to you carefully, ESPECIALLY if they think youre wrong. This leads to difficulty communicating because you're left with the question, do they want to hear your answer? or do they just want to hear you parrot what they already believe...
      I agree that it comes off as condescending though, and for people that arent very emotionally mature, they get defensive almost immediately. I really hate that though, it is so dumb that people get defensive just because the vocabulary he chooses, he wouldn't be forced to be so meticulous in his wording if it weren't for people constantly trying to twist his words and misrepresent him. But i believe at the end of the day because of these videos and the people that truly do decide to listen to him, his message will get out to people it resonates with, like you and I.

    • @weenie7746
      @weenie7746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A large majority of my life consisted of literacy so I cant say that I can sympathize with people that don't understand what he says. Literacy is an acquired skill, it's not inherited. Context can help you understand the words that he uses.

    • @ricgreve
      @ricgreve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@six_waterbottles6wb129 I don't know where you are from, but in Scandinavia virtually everyone is fluent in English and are familiar with English academic nomenclature. I know this because I am a Dane. Generally people under the age of 35 are nearly as proficient in English as in their native language. Scandinavians are able to understand him perfectly well... If they want to.

    • @ricgreve
      @ricgreve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @William Leonard I thought that was one of Duke Nukem's catchphrases.

  • @TaraNikita
    @TaraNikita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1585

    I literally cannot understand why people find JP so "controversial."

    • @josephmatthews3078
      @josephmatthews3078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree. I could understand someone subscribing to different data and forming a different opinion but as he says, he is simply telling the truth as he sees it.

    • @SamohtNox
      @SamohtNox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      because he speaks truth to power....the culture today does not care about truth they care about irrational emotional behaviour and giving into those feelings to the detrement of the individual or society...it will create more grievances and more authoritarian behaviours...in extreme cases, persecutions!

    • @erwinsorno6908
      @erwinsorno6908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Never underestimate people's capacity for ignoring/denying uncomfortable truths.

    • @derekwood3189
      @derekwood3189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Arrogance. Narcissism. Watch her face as the interview goes on. From about the 15 min mark every time the camera cuts to her, her smirk is growing, as she's retreating into what she believes and building and submitting to her own confirmation bias of "this pos". Now what I want to see is her watch this back, with a body language expert breaking it down to her. Doesn't even consider his points, which are backed by between 25 and 100 years of psychological study.

    • @shaunr5450
      @shaunr5450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SamohtNox and often they are such miserable people that when they force people to also think the way they do, it is satisfying. Either the power over others or their own feeling of moral superiority drives them. No facts can tell them they shouldn't believe these things. The people in power either have ulterior motives or honestly feel they know what is best for us better than we know what is best for us.

  • @niceattitude4280
    @niceattitude4280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I so often come back here to listen to this conversation again. I am so impressed by how he manages to make his point so clear and almost undiputeable, how easy it seems for him to answer to these really diffucult questions and how he also can show himself as someone with empathy and good will for all the people out there. It's like listening to the best possible mentor/teacher that could ever exist. Thank you Mr Peterson, I hope you can go on and enlighten us for a long time to come.

  • @concernedcommenter8258
    @concernedcommenter8258 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way he speaks is so unfiltered that you can tell by how he speaks how much he knows and how honest he is.

  • @silviacarolinalangowski8442
    @silviacarolinalangowski8442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2188

    I am so tired of women seeing us women as ” victims”, no! I am a mother of 4 boys! I like being a feminine intelligent woman!!!
    LOVE Dr. PETERSON! Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @warrioromarzthefirst5949
      @warrioromarzthefirst5949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Its all about common sense. Glad to hear your point cheers me up.

    • @ikatrimeynarsihombing9903
      @ikatrimeynarsihombing9903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I am woman too and I agree your points

    • @JosephineMarch7
      @JosephineMarch7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly! Thank you.

    • @thefaithful4337
      @thefaithful4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I'm a 16 year old girl and I totally agree.

    • @garsm2290
      @garsm2290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Peterson is basically saying what? That rich white men are badly oppressed.

  • @brandonconway3819
    @brandonconway3819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +945

    I love how there is no interrupting. Why can’t anyone else at least do this

    • @buellterrier3596
      @buellterrier3596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Many Scandinavians I have met have shown this kind of politeness. I think it is a cultural thing.

    • @andreasaa2000
      @andreasaa2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@buellterrier3596 It is a cultural thing. We learn it, at least I did, from a young age not to interrupt, else it turns into chaos.

    • @buellterrier3596
      @buellterrier3596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@andreasaa2000 And that is one of the reasons why I love Scandinavian people and their culture. I met some of my best friends from there. I hope you never change and stay a good example for the world.

    • @denasewell
      @denasewell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree, Scandanavian people are extremely polite.

    • @steamingsilver
      @steamingsilver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      watch any Indian Debate and you will lose your mind. no kidding, just try

  • @mightyactraiser5045
    @mightyactraiser5045 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was the most respectful interview I have ever seen with Jordan Peterson. Normally the others present make constant attempts to tear him down, prove him wrong or set verbal traps.
    Thank you for this well-spoken and respectful delivery.

  • @deadshotinvestor4555
    @deadshotinvestor4555 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Smart to let him talk and listen like the other guests did. Their silence shows their intelligence. What an opportunity they had to sit there (in person) and drink from the firehose of brilliance and wisdom Jordan was spittin'. And what an opportunity we have to have this TED-Talk-like wisdom at our fingertips. Thanks and respect to Jordan! WOW!!!

  • @margaretglatzel2893
    @margaretglatzel2893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2470

    I get so frustrated with this woman every time I see this interview. She's not listening at all. She just keeps saying, "so, what's wrong with equality then" and he's not saying there's anything wrong. He's saying equality leads to diversity of choice, meaning people may not choose the same paths. It is not hard to understand!

    • @kylerodgers2045
      @kylerodgers2045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      I will give her respect.. I mean, you should see some of the Americans interviewing women that want to talk about Gender equality with him, oh man.. so unnecessarily rude.. She listened more than most, though she may have doubted his ideals, you can see she was trying to understand in her eyes

    • @MrLoobu
      @MrLoobu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Yea nothing she says even has anything to do with what hes saying.

    • @aubreyholman1951
      @aubreyholman1951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I K R? 😆 It's the "I know you are but what am I? " approach to reason.

    • @boohacker
      @boohacker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      *massive difference in intellectual capacity, she wasn't able to follow what he was saying, let alone formulate an ongoing debate...

    • @capenjck
      @capenjck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Agreed. It seems to me that what she wants is for children to be raised gender neutral, that girls and boys can think alike ignoring DNA or whatever it is that makes the genders inherently different. She fails to comprehend that equal opportunity does not mean equal outcome. Even though girls have the opportunity to become fighter pilots they may not become fighter pilots by choice. So the outcome isn't an equal number of men vs women pilots.

  • @rileymilovich
    @rileymilovich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1447

    Look at how civil and quiet these people are while Peterson talks, even though they don't agree.

    • @joesalazar2634
      @joesalazar2634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ryan milovich good point and I agree with you but I also think they are learning not only about him but in general.

    • @Ashlanmilo9814
      @Ashlanmilo9814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ryan milovich because they don’t have the intellectual capacity too have a realistic debate with Peterson.Its not a good strategy too listen if you not agree, furthermore if it is on camera. If you suggest that is good, a Dialogue from Peterson without that people would be much better

    • @rileymilovich
      @rileymilovich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Ashlanmilo9814 I am speaking more on the difference between these people and your typical American.

    • @manu144x
      @manu144x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ryan milovich yes because Americans are taught to be confident no matter what.
      One guy showed the stats that they rate lower than average in education international ratings, but they are at the top when it comes to confidence.

    • @tonyg490
      @tonyg490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rileymilovich That will change. The reason Scandinavian people/Canadian people are considered more polite is because they haven't been infected with multi-culturalism to the degree that America has. Once they get a more diverse nation and the politics center around their differences like America it will be the same.

  • @Danomite99
    @Danomite99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Far too often people are unable to translate their thoughts into accurate words of description.
    Peterson commands the English language like it’s an extension of his brain.
    It’s simply incredible.

  • @SacredNerve
    @SacredNerve ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some of the facial expressions on Fredrik's face as Jordan was making certain points in a very direct way were just "PURE GOLD"! He couldn't believe what he was hearing! Haha!

  • @KizaWittaker
    @KizaWittaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    “The evidence proves that you are wrong.”
    “I don’t agree.”

  • @nicholasmcgee4630
    @nicholasmcgee4630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +927

    How to prevent divorce:
    1. Learn to negotiate
    2. Be clear about what you want
    3. Resolve conflicts as they arise
    4. Tell the truth

    • @19RaxR91
      @19RaxR91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Absolutely, and one other point, which imo has to Top that list - figure all of that shit out BEFORE marrying.

    • @Xfranman
      @Xfranman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      5.) Buy her A HUGE 💍💎

    • @adamnixon2886
      @adamnixon2886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      6. Never leave any bruises
      It's a JOKE

    • @halconsalvaje
      @halconsalvaje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Xfranman no man Diamonds are a scam only for people to spend money thats BS.. create something on your own and gift it to your special one ..

    • @dochollywood4576
      @dochollywood4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Simpler alternative..............do not get married. Do not let her start moving her things in. Do not let yourself be guilted or otherwise coerced into taking the relationship any further then you are comfortable with. If at some point you start thinking about marriage, buy your house and anything of any real value that you dont want to loose at least a year before you get married. Do not let her move in till after you are married. If she doesnt like that idea and starts in with "but sweetheart, I want us to buy a house together" then she is not after your love. She is securing her retirement and pre-buying her boarding tickets on the cock carousel all at your expense. I'm not telling anyone what to do. Just offering a few helpful hints to avoid what so many of my friends went through. Oh, and above all, when it comes to lawyers, retain yours first and spare no expense. Good luck.

  • @christheguy5554
    @christheguy5554 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks to Joe Rogan, I listened to the Dr. talk for two and a half hours on the JRE podcast four years ago. He has made me a better man , husband and father to my family.

  • @liambirch6333
    @liambirch6333 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I feel sorry for Jordan, he gets far to much abuse from people who have only ever heard an out of context sound bite and never taken the time to truly listen to him. The guy is nothing short of a hero!

  • @GamerJay0007
    @GamerJay0007 ปีที่แล้ว +861

    I love that he was under attack at first and then ended up being a therapist for the rest of the panel.

    • @Orson2u
      @Orson2u ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Your characterisation of this interaction is very insightful. Thank for sharing!

    • @Jiggajayraider
      @Jiggajayraider ปีที่แล้ว +50

      He does that to everyone that tries to denounce him and his message. They end up getting a free session from the best clinical psychologist in the world. #LongLiveDrP

    • @Xtina2525
      @Xtina2525 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YES! LOVE JP! 😃

    • @krislynn5965
      @krislynn5965 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Orson2u What do you mean? They attempted many times to compartmentalize his arguments for a "win" and misrepresent his arguments in order to get a "win". The consistent looks they give him during the interview are smirking smugness and doubt, just waiting for a logical slip to pounce on.
      You're out of your damn mind of you think this panel wasn't in most parts hostile towards his position.

    • @GamerJay0007
      @GamerJay0007 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@krislynn5965 just because they were hostile doesn’t mean they weren’t getting a therapy session. They were subconsciously receiving therapy. Go watch again.

  • @phxnetworkjunkie4596
    @phxnetworkjunkie4596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1341

    He pisses people off, because he's so genuine. So wise. So articulate

    • @866martin
      @866martin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think that is a wonderful statement and so clearly true. If more people would just take a little of there time and listen and comprehend what mr Peterson is saying this world would be so much better and informed. He’s really dedicating himself to make life better for everyone but these days people don’t like or except reality

    • @paulfrancis783
      @paulfrancis783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry, I don’t think this is Jordan Peterson. I think he is trying to be someone he is not, seems like he’s fighting with his ego all the time. Seems like he’s suffering, and has warped visions of life. That’s ok, but I don’t think he’s enlightened enough for these ‘lectures’. We have got past this outdated ideology.

    • @DeaconStJohn-wi2uy
      @DeaconStJohn-wi2uy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@paulfrancis783 how have you come to that conclusion?

    • @paulfrancis783
      @paulfrancis783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@DeaconStJohn-wi2uy that’s what I see from a psychoanalytic perspective. I’m not saying he’s a bad person, he comes across as a troubled person. His recent struggle with his health and addiction is well documented and I have no problem with that. However, to me it’s hard to believe this is the person he is when he’s at home. Sometimes I struggle to make any sense of what he’s saying.
      I watched one of his talks with the volume muted, I saw severe pain in his body language. Analysis of his body language and behaviour shows many tells. This leads me to think he may not be fit for these lectures.

    • @DeaconStJohn-wi2uy
      @DeaconStJohn-wi2uy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@paulfrancis783 fair enough I respect your analysis, are you a physiologist or anything along those lines just out of curiosity?

  • @muttleydk
    @muttleydk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know this is an old video, i am from Denmark, and its super clear that a huge problem with Jordan Peterson is that most people misunderstand him, he is using many words people dont know, that is of cause not him being wrong, but it is him being right, without others understand what he is saying.. You see people fishing for examples all the time when talking with Jordan Peterson, and many times he gives an example when asked, but the example is just as hard to understand.. He need to remember that he isnt talking with someone like himself, he is talking with "normal" people.. and when he do interview with people who dont even know english very well, like here, he really need to talk like he would talk to someone 10 years old..
    Jordan Peterson is so amazing, it is just hard to agree with someone you dont understand.. And that is really one problem we have in the world, alot of stupid people have alot of power, and if the smart people cant talk in a way so the stupid can understand, it helps nothing to have all these smart people.

    • @matts6139
      @matts6139 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That really makes sense, even someone like me whose first language is English needs to look up words he uses. One thing I would push back on though is communication is a two way street. Peterson can try to talk in a way that's easier to comprehend but the listener must also give him the benefit of the doubt. If they don't fully understand don't fill in the gaps with the worst possible ideas.

    • @muttleydk
      @muttleydk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@matts6139 You see many clips of JP saying things like Men and Women are not the same, and we should accept that.. and that there really isnt any pay gap between Men and Women.. that creates a first impression of JP that make it that much harder for some people, mainly women, to understand what he is really saying.. So if these people are not told what he really is saying, in a way they can understand, their mind will never change.. that is not the fault of JP, but just a fact of life, and if JP want to help people, he need to speak so they can understand..
      Its like when i want to talk computer programming with my mom who is 77, i need to change everything to normal life examples.. :D
      But i get what you say, i just wanted to share what i feel is a problem with amazing people like JP, not a problem with JP, but a problem for JP.. :S
      Have an amazing day.

  • @smaswqa4208
    @smaswqa4208 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The woman and the interviewer listening to Peterson with a smile is hilarious. The expression "damn he makes sense" sums it up perfectly.

  • @Trollseeder
    @Trollseeder ปีที่แล้ว +1505

    They actually treat him like a guest even if they disagree with him. Amazing panel.

    • @samathanolivia5618
      @samathanolivia5618 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very active on web.

    • @furerorban9324
      @furerorban9324 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sick Old Misogynic Jordan Peterson kissing the Nazi Terrorbanus hard for 50 million HUF:
      "my message to Hungarians:
      Do not rebel against your Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian culturerace"

    • @cusomano5419
      @cusomano5419 ปีที่แล้ว

      They ask the dumbest questions. Whats this obsession with equality? Are women incapable of getting jobs? Are women so stupid they cant lead?

    • @samjames5183
      @samjames5183 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes great conversation and very respectful panel

    • @calysagora3615
      @calysagora3615 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Welcome to Scandinavia, folks. A civilized culture. 🤗

  • @interstellar618
    @interstellar618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3207

    They were however far more courteous than any American liberal would've been.

    • @dr.martinlroberts1908
      @dr.martinlroberts1908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Maybe but Americans (and more specifically those living in the north of the US) tend to more blunt/straight forward than people in the EU about everything so it may seem that way when they are really just as angry (if your talking about the crazy activists). There are radical and rude people for every opinion that exists.

    • @kingfischer
      @kingfischer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@dr.martinlroberts1908 I find Europeans (especially Germans and Scandinavians ) to be shockingly blunt :P

    • @naughteedesign
      @naughteedesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      there was a massive level of passive/agressive going on. levels of which should not be possible.

    • @alexhoward1884
      @alexhoward1884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      American liberals like Sam Harris? You participate in the same identity politics that Peterson was criticizing yet are completely unaware. You should listen to his ideas more closely.

    • @adbarnett5
      @adbarnett5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I don't think they understood what he was saying. The blonde said that women in her culture should be able to go into whatever job, right after Peterson said that was fine.

  • @dennishuxley747
    @dennishuxley747 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This guy is an absolute treasure

  • @amyswanson1096
    @amyswanson1096 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for posting this I am so grateful for talks like these

  • @lildragon6415
    @lildragon6415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    Admitting vulnerability is not the same thing as weakness...
    That was an amazing point.

    • @jellyrun1
      @jellyrun1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sound s good but its plain stupid !

    • @kylewilliams1090
      @kylewilliams1090 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      :)

    • @Gr8Layks
      @Gr8Layks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jellyrun1 *Almost* as stupid as your comment.

    • @kuganpillay9948
      @kuganpillay9948 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it is the same..ask anyone who is coming after you, challenging you in a sport or for a job....

    • @Komnenit
      @Komnenit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's actually strength.

  • @PedroHeyMan
    @PedroHeyMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    their facial expressions trying to understand what Peterson is talking about is fantastic

    • @joshuawhitaker2913
      @joshuawhitaker2913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was thinking the same thing lol

    • @jeffferris7844
      @jeffferris7844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I don't think that their facial expressions are ones of not understanding; I think the expressions are basically that he doesn't know what he is talking about, and they just waiting to try and unravel what he is saying and throw it back in his face to try and discredit and undermine his expertise.
      Jordan is the expert: the 3 amigos are not.

    • @SheikhRahman
      @SheikhRahman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@jeffferris7844 it's both. I've had that look before. It's partially the look of attempting to process the concepts after having to translate them to your native language. It will give you a headache if you do it for too long

    • @fredrikandersen78
      @fredrikandersen78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jeff ferris Aside from Peterson virtually never having an opinion about anything he can’t back up with solid facts and evidence, I don’t think the participants so much disagreed with him as they had difficulty understanding a fairly sophisticated level of English, as well as difficulty expressing their thoughts in the same fashion about a complex topic. Maybe I’m wrong, but those facial expressions looked to me like inquisitive fascination with a sprinkle of confusion.
      Many people in the comment field is giving the people in the panel a hard time for being too sensitive, missing the point, etc. I don’t think that’s it at all. This is not the Trump/Biden presidential debate, it’s Sweden (Norwegian host), where people respectfully listen and ask questions to try to understand each other and maybe find common ground.

    • @mbrown5494
      @mbrown5494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I couldn't tell if it was a language barrier, or disdain.

  • @NigmaSix
    @NigmaSix 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have seen this interview several times in the past 5 year and i am rewatching it again this year:
    she wants to "teach kids how to play with dolls" and "to make boys more sensitive".
    Does anybody else thinks there is something fundamentaly wrong with this message!?
    Boys have to be less so that girls can be more!!??
    How about we leave boys being boys as they should, and let women choose their own path without the need to belittle boys for that purpose??
    I truly think this man (and others) finally brought to light an understanding of what society and schools are trying to do to our young men. Its a breath of fresh air. Thank you Mr. Peterson.

    • @lu-vly
      @lu-vly 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah...this woman is "one of those" feminists.

  • @jacarebanguelatoyotacamry4552
    @jacarebanguelatoyotacamry4552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im Brazilian and after see yours lectures my life change positive

  • @geraldm4728
    @geraldm4728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9002

    Why do people have such a hard time understanding the difference between equality of opportunity and equality of outcome? Also why are people so shocked to hear that men and women tend to make different choices and have different priorities in their lives? Men and women are different. It is not a difficult concept.

    • @MattieK09
      @MattieK09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +605

      In their minds difference = bad

    • @henriklybeck579
      @henriklybeck579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@MattieK09 Sorry to bother you mate but are you saying that the same people that support multiculturalism and LGBT rights consider differences to be bad? I mean you're probably not saying that but in that case your comment is an oversimplification that doesn't give credit to the swedes when it's due.

    • @MattieK09
      @MattieK09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      ​@@henriklybeck579 Well that's not a accurate way to frame them. But, YES, those in the cult of intersectionality do not like any facts that are adverse to their narrative. Literally 1000s of YT vids you can watch.

    • @henriklybeck579
      @henriklybeck579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@MattieK09 I mistook you to be making a generalised statement about swedes, which you obviously weren't, so I did the same. I agree with you though so thanks for opening up your comment.

    • @uniquename846
      @uniquename846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yeah, but the weird thing is, I think the lady really truly believed it when she shared her thoughts around 12:30 in such a striking way.. Peterson has mentioned the swedish situation before, but these people are treating him like he just dropped off of mars.. look at how silent they are.. She really believes that a person is plastic, that parenting/culture can shape a person.. and what if she's actually right.. As for Peterson from the Americas, where the push for individuality, personality, loudness, and selection for elevated testosterone actually occurs more naturally, perhaps he is mistaken that this translates easily to areas of the world that are perhaps on a different course.. maybe Scandinavia is actually a few generations away from real ambivalence of outcome.. (science may observe, but perhaps doesn't entirely know where humans are heading).. Perhaps toward the historically murky territory of pre-christian european culture, which I haven't heard peterson really speak on, which contained a variety of queens and powerful priestesses, and perhaps more equality in the hierarchy at times.. some of these dark web intellectuals should maybe talk about the social structures of pre-christian europe (edited for my poor grammar that I don't want to remain here forever)

  • @brungus9709
    @brungus9709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    You could tell by the looks on their faces that they disagreed with Jordan very often, but always gave him all the time he needed to answer. None of the questions were framed in a negative way towards him. Bald guy got the help he needed to divorce his wife. Great interview!

    • @rupertkelly4982
      @rupertkelly4982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol

    • @owo5869
      @owo5869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Brungus No many questions are framed in a negative way.

    • @reuben8140
      @reuben8140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      鄭茂廷 I guess it’s better to say that they were critical rather than hostile, which is preferable

    • @astroballs7
      @astroballs7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bald guy was already divorced before this. He got insight of how he should of done it better

    • @wakeupwakeup7617
      @wakeupwakeup7617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The problem is people have been and are being brainwashed. Forcing "equality" on people isn't about equality, it's about disruption of natural harmony and keeping us bickering among ourselves about bs whilst letting the "elite" destroy us and our offspring.

  • @Toptier-qn5yk
    @Toptier-qn5yk หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this started as a debate but ended in a teacher teaching the class

  • @thanos834
    @thanos834 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Did anyone else notice the guy in the brown sweater, genuinely wanted information from Jordan about how to help his situation. He knew this was the best opportunity to get help from one of the greatest psychiatric clinicians. He understood the truth to Dr. Petersons words and motivations.

  • @steve-5530
    @steve-5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2956

    That lady’s confused face can only be the result of her realizing her entire world view is a sham

    • @sanchitverma8687
      @sanchitverma8687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      we all went through the same the first time we met peterson

    • @davidturner1641
      @davidturner1641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      shez more nuts than our resident squirrels

    • @davidturner1641
      @davidturner1641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sanchitverma8687 my entire world isnt a shhammmm. I have had to learn and change.

    • @sanchitverma8687
      @sanchitverma8687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Eric Miret good for you

    • @sanchitverma8687
      @sanchitverma8687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@davidturner1641 obviously it was a joke. we all found enlightening insights when we first heard what peterson had to say.

  • @jackmag4056
    @jackmag4056 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I never understand one word this man says , but I can listen to him for hours on end , his tone is so reassuring , and comforting

  • @dinosaurdude5668
    @dinosaurdude5668 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the best interviews, thank you.

  • @adamajs3836
    @adamajs3836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    Jordan is the type of guy that you can pick a conversation with at a bar and forget about time passing by.

    • @CondaCorneri
      @CondaCorneri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love Jordan. Such a wise man.

    • @drivingschool11
      @drivingschool11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pretty much... exactly!!

    • @PianoGesang
      @PianoGesang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does anyone notice the sheer height of his forehead?

    • @catchpen
      @catchpen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PianoGesang it's called a fivehead

    • @ramziiiii
      @ramziiiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He's too smart to be in a bar
      Maybe in a coffee shop