Society Vs. Self Identity: Knocking Down the Walls of Heteronormativity | Koosha Nouri | TEDxUCSB

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  • As Koosha said it best, the key to acceptance is understanding and the key to understanding is education. Through reflecting and analyzing his own personal experience, Koosha aims to conceptualize social constructs that hold young boys back from self acceptance. Koosha Nouri is a 20-year-old Iranian American from Oakland, California. As a communication studies major, Koosha loves analyzing societal trends and social practices that ultimately shape our culture. Koosha is currently a research assistant for the UCSB department of communication, and is analyzing mainstream media coverage of Immigration and the cognitive/physiological response of individuals who consume this media. Koosha’s love for communication research has led him to observe facets of his personal life to explore how society has shaped his personal identity and self perception. As an openly gay man, Koosha has applied his communication knowledge to analyze the effects that cultural attitudes surrounding heteronormativity have had on his journey of self discovery. Through reflecting and analyzing his own personal experience, Koosha aims to conceptualize social constructs that hold young boys back from self acceptance. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @UmairActorModel
    @UmairActorModel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So relatable on so many levels! Loved watching this and hearing about Koosha's experience. Thanks for sharing!

  • @adjanisorento7639
    @adjanisorento7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Listening to your story is like looking at a mirror well said mate

  • @siakarrobi5944
    @siakarrobi5944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well Done, Koosha!

  • @m.7877
    @m.7877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this!

  • @peterjanssen5901
    @peterjanssen5901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Personally I have absolutely no problem embracing my feminine side: Rancour, Bringing up the past to win arguments, not taking any accountability for the stuff I do, emotional blackmail, but to name but a few.
    I mean, who says that the Lilith and Jezebel spirit is just for women only, how incredibly heteronormative.

  • @maxkozak9702
    @maxkozak9702 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Using heteronormativity to perpetuate discrimination is not OK, but there's nothing wrong with assuming everyone is straight until proven otherwise because the majority of all of humanity is straight. It's no more discriminatory than assuming everyone that has a house has a fridge in it by default at least if they're not extremely poor. The problem is when people start attaching value judgments to things. There is nothing wrong with being labeled as abnormal because abnormal just means outside of the norm, geniuses and prodigies are technically abnormal but nobody calls them that in the context that activists interpret the term.

  • @pandakuo1
    @pandakuo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌🏻❤️

  • @andybray9791
    @andybray9791 ปีที่แล้ว

    We support citizen go now

  • @user-qq4wt9wf8d
    @user-qq4wt9wf8d 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    human experience lovelead

  • @fawkewemf5616
    @fawkewemf5616 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @ioliiixe6931
    @ioliiixe6931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Heteronormativity is healthy and valid, only haters resent and try to demonize heterosexuals.

    • @madspunky
      @madspunky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Luckily, this speaker isn't doing that : )
      Just to be clear: heteronormitivity is indeed fine. It's the norm, and that's okay. It's only not okay when somebody wants to be different from that norm and is punished when doing so.

    • @Gayboy21
      @Gayboy21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Humans are just primitive… there’s a bunch of issues in the world we have to try and solve
      As of right now we can’t 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @unpreeable
    @unpreeable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Heteronormativity", lol wow, so being straight now has a negative connotation

    • @burntpaperhearts
      @burntpaperhearts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Heterosexuality has always been considered normal whereas LGBTQ has not. Heteronormativity is the word that encapsulates that. No negative connotations are attached to being straight here, just a word to recognize our current society and how LGBTQ has a ways to go until they are also considered "normal" and not marginalized.

    • @zuk232
      @zuk232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@burntpaperhearts thank you for your answer ! ❤

    • @keithacord3957
      @keithacord3957 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Duh YES

    • @mewhenimt4ans
      @mewhenimt4ans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      No one's talking about straight people ☠️ heteronormativity is different geez

    • @bl33q94
      @bl33q94 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      geez dude

  • @goldenjutsu
    @goldenjutsu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is the law of biology and science jesus you need to send your seed to your new generation jesus christ

    • @guyyoudontcareabout9223
      @guyyoudontcareabout9223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You clearly failed to

    • @MrKry
      @MrKry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hum... Actually, you don't! Doesn't really bother me, personally, if there isn't a new generation. Not all people are governed by basic drives. Also, respecting and including a minority doesn't make the majority obsolete... Realizing that not all people will be straight and making society open to that will make exactly no difference in how many people choose to reproduce.

    • @amee1491
      @amee1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guyyoudontcareabout9223 😂😂😂😂😂😂