Signs a girl is using you
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ธ.ค. 2013
- There are several things to look for. First of all, does she seem to always have other plans, and you are second to other people? Does she cancel at the last minute if she finds something better to do? Does she take a long time to text you back, and then gives only a one word answer when she used to put a lot of thought into texts? Basically, if you feel like she is not putting any effort into the relationship, you are probably right. Listen to your gut feeling!
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You know when a girl is using you when the only time you see and hear from her is when its beneficial for her or need something.But, when you need something she will not respond , she will ignore you or talk her away out of contacting you.
Men, if woman heart not into you its in someone else. Even if your married to her ... her heart can still be with another man.
a woman who cares for you will go out of her way for you. Thats how you know where she stands with you.
TEXASMADE you said a mouthful
When they always want to borrow money, then never have anytime to spend with you.
Alexander Lapp same smh
When you first meet a female, you are always her 2nd choice. It doesn't matter how much she seems to likes you. You shouldn't be sitting around waiting for her to text you back. That's just putting pressure on yourself. Trust me.
It is not a matter of being number one or ten. What really matters is how she treats you. If she doesnt put any effort, just keep jerking you around, takes a long time to respond your texts and doesnt even reply. Why keep pursuing them? Just the the hint and move on
E-Live Da God a “female”? Human or animal?
No Bro, Not all the time I’d say sometimes.
I understand people like that! Why can't they just be straight and say they' 're not interested? People are nuts!
+shiningcross wow thats actually a really good way of putting it.
+shiningcross So very true!! My thoughts exactly.
Funny. When I tell people I'm not interested, they call me a heartless, shallow bitch... no matter how 'nicely' I say it.
Because she is finding another guy, when she will tell you without problems and with pleasure she is not interested
I may be the exception. I prefer the truth. It affords me real choices! Don't stop!
If she give signs of no interest leave her or she will leave you soon or later and it will be worse, or just start looking another girl and when you find it kick her out
I pray to God that one day I can find a mature, intelligent, beautiful woman like Marie Dubuque. I am so tired of manipulative, disrespectful, users. I am one of those good guys who is faithful and responsible and fit. But no... I keep meeting self centered people. Tired of online dating too, full of self centered gold diggers. I'm afraid one day I may give up on women and that scares me.
Jonvolca Man Join the club...I already have (given up)
Jonvolca Man
I've given up too. It's just not worth the effort for what you get in return. The first six months are great but after that it's all pain and misery.
Jonvolca Man Just don't go GAY. Invest that time into improving yourself to attract quality women that can't w8 to get with you.
3rd world countries
JaVaughn McGregor 3rd world countries
This shit happened to me this is why I stopped falling in love with chicks
Same man
What goes around comes around when she used a person somebody will use her
This video is 100% accurate. Luckily for me I saw the warning signs early and I cut her off completely b4 should do the damage thankyou marie.
I agree with you totally. I was dating a crazy Gemini woman who thought she was a player of some sorst. She told more lies than there are leaves on a tree. So out of the blue I blind sided her and cut off all contact with her.
Thank you. I'm moving on from her. I've tried to be in their life just so they would have a good life. But as soon as a text from one of her abusive boyfriends, shes runs off in la la land, she breaks her heart, and she goes to the next guy who ends up using her again.
I'm done, I'm better off without her. I wish her well, but she doesn't wish me well.
Great video thank you. I think my female friend is using me, she always wants me to do things for her and listen to her problems all day
I gave up on women.
if there is true love between, youll have a fight over whos paying haha. or you'll pay together.
Thanks Marie,
Unfortunately I'm going through same thing with a girl that I really like. I see all those signs pointing that I'm not her priority. It's sad when you love someone that doesn't even look at you as something else than just a friend 😢
How to tell if a girl is using you?............. She's dating you.
One of the best bits of advice a Buddy gave me years ago: there's another one rt behind her, she shows any serious red flags: next! Plenty of fish in the sea. Keep that attitude in your head, if this doesn't work out, oh well, best of luck, bye. No hard feelings. Be willing to move on. Don't sell yourself short, don't allow dependence. If u can embrace this it's very freeing.
sounds like all the girls I've ever met
She 1000 percent correct
Thank you...I needed to hear this. ...been in a long distance for 5 years....The gut is always right....
Marie thank you for your video. I wish I could have seen this video months ago. It would have save me time, drama and money.
I've been used before and as a guy it is really kinda common for me to be used for my body and that sucks especially when I'm really into someone. It definitely screws with you mentally. I'm still kinda trying to figure like "okay you like my body and think I'm attractive but what's wrong with me like why don't you wanna go on a date or go hangout?" I've just kinda thought ab giving up on a serious relationship honestly.
Guys you can literally tell in the first glance with you meet a woman. Come on man. Diamonds are a beautiful thing that people die for every day but never even get the chance to even look at them. Don't let a woman be your blood dimond.
Thank you Madame. I just f??king lost it. I f??king lost it. When this girl started to make a new friend where she had no clue who this guy was. Right in front of me. I just and can't take her back, just listening to your video, you made a very good point. It really doesn't make any sense when her focus is on another guy.
100000000% accurate accurate accurate accurate accurate, you saved my life..
This video helped me out a lot even though my situation is with a friend, but what you said and described was precisely 100 percent accurate on top of what I mentioned in the past, now I know that it is time for me to distance myself a little but. Thank you so much! :)
If she is breathing she is using you.
Dennis Mevis if she farts then she is using you
lotuswar yep..hahaha.
Dennis Mevis if she doesnt massage you down there then thats just being a bad host
lotuswar I agree
Dennis Mevis i been told woman talk too much because something is missing in their mouth
You just described my wife.
If you call her and her phone is busy but she doesn't return your call ... guys she is not interested
thank you, clearly put.
simple, smith and clear.
I like your videos very much. They are really interesting. You are an expert. Congratulations!
You know it takes a Lady to find out what another woman is up to...
Thanks for opening my eyes!
amazing video, thank you. it helped a lot x
Always makes you feel you said or did the wrong thing. Makes you feel you constantly need to apologize.
Gregory Timmons so true
My gut tells me I'm on the top of her list but she has too many "guy friends", and I know she flirts with some. So the minute I slip up in the relationship she'll feel like she always has a backup which is no bueno. Definitely not pursuing that, but I'm gonna have fun with it before I full on ghost her ass.
Dude i slipped up and she went to her guy friend
Didn’t get to have fun with it either sadly
U told the TRUTH 👍😁
I have no problem with a woman using me for money as long as she is bringing something to the table that I want also. Basically I treat it like an employee employer relationship. She is free to terminate her employment at any time with no hard feelings.
Her job description includes but is not limited to, being faithful to the relationship (no cheating), sex without an attitude, when I want it (meaning I don’t want to hear she has a head ache or she’s not in the mood for it, or I am to tired), fun to be with, no bitching, has some class so she won’t embarrass me when we are out in public or with family and friends, and so on.
For a woman that can offer this and more, I have no problem paying for any one of, any combination of, or all of the following but not limited to. Her apartment rent, car payment, clothes, college tuition, makeup, groceries, popular plays, taking her on vacations with me and paying for her expenses, seven day cruises… on a cruise we wake up in the morning and she’s excited about doing whatever it is I have planned for us, no bitching or whining, when at a club she only has eyes for me, she maintains her residence and I maintain mine, no moving in with each other. If you marry her you’re going to be paying for these things anyway, so what’s the difference?
When she is no longer able or willing to perform her job description satisfactorily she is put on administrative leave to be given time to think if she really wants to continue her “employment”. If she does not take corrective action or chooses to end her “employment”, she is given a severance package, all benefits discontinued, and my best wishes for where ever life may take her.
No messy divorce, no trying to get her to move out, no hard feelings, and no lawyers. I get to keep my house, car, bank accounts, and even with the severance package it is still a bargain compared to if I had married the b*itch and then went through a messy divorce, lost halve my sh*t and had to pay “vaginamony”.
Thank you. It is so simple but true.
She will offer to pay, knowing long term she will strip you down for cash. Its a psychological reaction.
thank you for this...I steer clear of them...
You are brilliant! Thank you very much!!!
always on pointb💯
Wow you are very accurate, wise words
Plz make a longer detailed video on it...
It would be really helpful.
It seems like every girl I talk to. Users.
Richard Warren 3rd world countries. but even some of them will manipulate
You've got a train them to step up
Always....
this is real and good advice ….super
Smart women
Relationships are transactions, you have to pay to play. So if you don't want to get used go join a monastery
kironyo kironyo I’ll join a monastery
Spot on
She never does "errants" for me!
Most Scariest and Sad Video ever I have seen till now.
i had a female friend like that.
You're spot on!!!
I've been without a girlfriend since 2013. My last one she was like this. But I live in Los Angeles. There is so much to do here, it's not worth worrying about any person. Just walk away
thanks Maria for this lovely video, it just came at the perfect time. I have a girlfriend now that is exhibition almost 90 Percent of this sign. always have something more important, does not feel like calling, she does not for me. my gust tell me to dump her. I just did that few hours ago. thanks very much.
Bonjour Marie...votre nom est trés français...parles-tu français? Merci pour la vidéo!
Thank u, ur right
Girls instinct
This girl we had been talking regularly in social occasions she would intend to sit next to me. But then told me that she liked a guy who was in my training class. A few days later she asked if wanted to talk alone and she decided to rest and pick a spot where he would walk out of class. She asked me deep questions occasionally glancing but I could also see her constantly looking over towards where he was. I think she used me to make him jelous. Because now he is off and although we say hello and smile she is giving me the cold shoulder putting in her earphones and gave a death state to me today.
thank you so much
Does this apply when your partner stays on their phone and you even feel 2’d to her phone and her needs?
the sign is THEY ARE USING YOU!
Any man who comes in contact with female coldness face to face knows what kind of creature the female is, her actions will make you wake up really quickly that this world isn't all sun shine and roses like we've been led to believe. Iv had a girl seduce me and then act incredibly aloof, then she's nice again like she's changing masks, when I experienced it it shook me to my core.
They are unconscious of their own behaviour which makes them on par with an animal in my book. I completely understand why they were property for most of human history, its fucking obvious, I completely understand why the word of a woman in Islamic court is worth 1/3 that of a man's its fucking obvious. Women are born moral relativists and they can accept ANY behaviour if she can rationalise it to herself, this also makes her utterly remorseless. Any boy who experiences a cold heart like that becomes a man quickly.
Facts bro 💯💯💯
Thank you
Sounds like my current relationship.. ohh well
There is no greater manipulator than a woman.
u are right.i will leave my gf.. thanks for advise
thank you
The Truth 💯💯
This girl replay only not often as much cause i was annoying to her on all the messages i sent to her just to TALK to SISTER but they think im obessed within her and pushy witch im not .how can u fix that haven dreams after 2yrs still and still wont go away?
Will a girl denial her feelings for me if she isn't comfortable around me?
"If you weren't so damn good in the sack you'd a been kicked to the curb ages ago."
Can u do signs a friend is using you please
I want to get a girlfriend but all the girls at my school (Prison) are well not right for me, every single one of them are the same, like they all look the same and are super skinny and are always on their phones using Snapchat and Instagram and it makes me sick, I want a fat girlfriend that isn't like everyone else... is that to much to ask???
@2:12is the best part of the video
beautiful smile
Thankkss
Oh sorry I asked this before seeing this video
can you helped with my ex relationship?
Madam Marie , I know a girl on a phone but she denied to meet me all the time and I have not meet her but keep telling me she loves me for about 2 years , on the other hand we made a video call earlier, Further, she gives me gift of a quarter of what I have gifted her through her sister or friends and I feel very weird bcoz I have lost my time, money,mind, prestige, body . But she keeps me calling me every day for a 5 mins in day . Waiting 4 Ur reply - Madam Marie Dubuque
Is there an email that I can send you about my situation?
They would rather spend more of your Money. Than to spend time with you.
If she is a female she will be using you ( if you let her).
tbh all the honorable men these days have gone MGTOW...join the movement!
william mccarty, tbh the juice just is not worth the squeeze. I went my own version of MGTOW almost 4 decades ago, in my mid-20s. My life improved dramatically overnight, and I do mean overnight.
I do have a question about this girl I have been seeing, however I do not want to broadcast it all over the internet.
I believe in being discreet, and broadcasting my problems for everyone over the Internet to read is definitely not discreet.
Do you have perhaps a business website where I could contact you via email, and send you my question?
My girlfriend character as really change she avoid deep communication with me not like befofe i don't understand if she as already got got another dude?
I will suggest you to observe her for a month..but before that you must tell me did she change suddenly or she was changing and you were just feeling it??..i have got some experience on this matter and according to that i would say if your partner changed suddenly and is showing strange behavioural pattern then dont react too much..just be normal and see what they do..whatever you do just dont let her feel that you care coz she has changed..now 2 things can happen..no 1..cheating factor as u say is taking place and she dosent care about anything else..no2. If she is playing mind games immediately that will break away and she will behave normally...so observe..but trust me dude in this kind of situation its better to pull back..you really dont know what's going through her mind and that potion of doubt is a proof that you relation will break coz relationship is all about trusting each other..good luck
the wall....undefeated.
Marie, I'm dating this guy and he's been cancelling our dates lately, but right afterwards he wants to book another day, so we always have a date ahead of us. He is sweet and seems to like me but he always cancel in the last minute. And when we see each other (on his conditions), he just wants to hang out outside, like going to the movies, but then he wants to go home without me (I've slept at his house occasionally). He asked me if I wanted to spend New Year's Eve with him but I don't know If i can trust him. He doesn't seem to be out for just sex. What's his problem, and what should I do?
S S, do not spend New Year's Eve with him! You will get hurt. Tell him you have other plans. I have this feeling there is another girl in the picture. Don't settle for this bozo. You can do better.
Thank you!
S S, I see your remark is four years old but, I hoped you dumped this loser. It's very rude and disrespectful to cancel at the last minute for no good reason, whether it's a date or just friends going out.
Been dating this girl, on our first few dates I bought the dinner, she say " you know you dont have to pay for everything"
Shes been wanting to come over to my place almost everday after work, one day I didnt get home till almost 730ish Didnt have time to cook or anything, she said " i can grab you something on the way over"
Im usually pretty skeptical, from pervious times getting shit on/burnt but not sure if its sincere or just saying that to be nice?
ObamaBinLaden remember what CoachCoreyWayne says on TH-cam. Women are testing us all the time, everything is a test, every second they wanna know whats in ur head. Test them back!! Be sick one day and hungry , see what she does. Remember her actions . Have car problems , see what she does. Some women are groomed to take care of men, some don't know, and some run game.
I have this girl I know she is always all ways asking me for a ride in money so is she using me? please help
I had the same problem except it wasnt money . She was new in town gave her rides (health issues cant drive) used me for weed hook up and sex . Dated her for a few months then her friend told her not get involved with me because i am seperated but still married ..which she knew from the start. And since then she doesnt answer my txt or any questions about what she did that day or that night , is always busy or not feeling well or her brother is in town .. who i never met any of her friends in 3 months we dated and she met ALL of mine friends. Since then she found her own dealer so not needed there .. and got a message can you take mom and i to get some medical stuff and then after we can have sex .
Man was i stupid didnt even see the signs ..
Sounds like you've been there Marie
oh my gosh, this always hppens with my friend. she always invites me over to her house, BUT when we go out (we are both platonic girl friends) I always pay and drive us and she promises to pay me back but never does. And the one time, I asked her to use her car and to pay for HER OWN share of food for that ONE occasion - she started getting all salty. I appreciate her hospitality and everything BUT I feel like she should be the one paying or at least be a bit more sensitive cause she is working but I am not. And I am friends with her sisters on facebook and they post really racist shit. Anyway, I am tired of it. She only calls me up when she needs something, or wants to go out somewhere (with me paying) I dont like it. Cause I get the vibes that she bitches about it later. like WTF
F#ck , she used me for two years. I just didn’t realize it, so naive on my side
You know a girl is using you when she only calls you on payday!
Guys come closer and lets band together for a selfie, then we will sing 'Bella Ciao'
ohk now i got it she's using me but how do i remove the attachment!!!!
no contact
Hi Ma
Sad truth 😢
Yep
had a person do all this to me
Appreciate your heartfelt advice, but todays women would NEVER offer to pay in the slightest, with online dating, they go on dates and have men pay like its a damn sport- they dont feel bad in the slightest to let a man do these things. Hope and pray there still genuine women, not these shallow, heartless, materialistic, futile minded women of today.... if their consciousness was only half as deep and wide as their eyebrows.. maybe I'd find someone worthwhile
we were dating for three years. we broke up and the day of she started having sex with someone else. she obsesses over whether or not he likes her( he is just using her as fwb, I know this because I saw messages) and she said why am I like this. my boyfriend loved me. what am I doing??? she moved out and says right now she needs space and time away from me. and maybe one day we'll be back together. we've been broken up about 2 weeks and we had sex last night. she put "the sex with him(other guy) is not nearly as amazing as I thought. not like my ex... I'm just wondering if this is a phase and will get over it eventually or if there is no chance ever for the future?
p.s. she said he gives her motivation and he has a light that I don't have. ( I think it has to do with the fact that she gets excited to see him)
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