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Sorry, it's veeery superficial and often very wrong. Women can be very careful, test you, slow down the development to make sure, your purposes are honest etc. And her rejecting reaction can also be caused by your own clumsy or too fast actions.
To all young men reading this, focus on your life purpose and don’t waste your precious life journey on damaged women who will bring misery to your life.
Its the classic Julius Caesar Handbook. Caesar dismissed his rebellious legions multiple times, the legionaires always ended up crawling back to him, begging to be re-enlisted. I guess women are just like Roman legionaires
Dangerous advice. "Initiating" can easily be interpreted as "you made her feel uncomfortable and we have to terminate your membership and ask you to leave".
One of the point to judge is that when you ask her out, maybe she is really busy on the date or time you suggested, but if she just said "no, I'm busy", that's all, she don't really wanted to see you. If she have the intention to meet up with you, she will respond "no, I'm busy, how about xxxx?", she will provide a date or time which she is free, that's the difference.
Fellas, if she has genuine burning desire towards you you'll know, you won't even have to go looking for tips on TH-cam she'll make it real easy for you it'll be as clear as daylight, you won't even remember to question yourself or your worth. Anything other than that it's not worth it, any slight bit of doubt from her towards you means you're not her first choice, means she have multiple men in her line-up, ask yourself do you wanna be a backup guy or a first choice. I say this from years and years of experience, it's not worth pursuing if she hesitate even a bit. Save yourselves from a lot of heartache and pain by only going after the ones with high interest in you. Although I have to admit you have to experience painful heartbreak at some point in order to be able to grasp the reality of the whole dating world.
My key conclusion from this video: If you find someone online and you show your interest in them and they refuse to take a leap of faith by meeting you personally, then you're no more than a texting buddy to them.
@@jcowan99 If that's the case, then I guess you'll have to decide whether to keep things the way they are OR make a clear statement of action and stop texting, if you refuse being just a texting buddy. I was in this situation 2 years ago and I decided not to go with the "just texting" thing.
Excellent reminders! I've been eyeing up a girl who's been VERY flirty with ne in grabbing my thighs, getting up really close, constanly fixing her hair, baring her neck, shoulders and legs, something I don't think she does with others. But she calls me 'friend' over and over I've let that one go as I've seen other girls actively pursue me.
My God...what's it like having your life set to "Easy" mode? I'm genuinely curious. I've never had a girl grab my thighs, get up close or do any of the other things you mentioned. And I'm sorry, you said you have other girls actively pursuing you? None of what you're describing has ever happened to me in my entire life, I'm struggling to wrap my head around it.
@@fuzzypanda1684 I'm a lot wiser now and flirting like this without showing deep concern for me could be just testing her value and just looking for attention and a ONS. She was a colleague so I couldnt move it forward. Your work in getting the woman you want is in being the best man you can be in terms of skill set, posture and self-assurance They will come as you upgrade yourself
Seen it all before, most men fall hard which something you have to manage and then dating gets easier. If she’s interested go for it but don’t change yourself in anyway to meet her needs. Stay the person you are and focus on the things you want in life. I’m attracted to woman who have their own life and friends, my life is my life and I go about it all the same dating or not.
as a guy who has experience with girl that in a relationship but keep clinging on you, i couldnt agree more, it happens years ago and its not a good one... listen to tripp guys, just...dont bother with a girl in a relationship even though she said she wanna break up with her current bf..just stay away...leave her alone, and just go look for other girl whos single.
I don't have any of these problems. I am so glad "texting late" isn't on the list. She does respond, and sometimes does texts me first. We meet in person, have a great time together, she's not on her phone, we're both making eye contact, she doesn't talk about other guys, doesn't refer to me as a friend. She even suggests hanging out too but because her replies are late, sometimes I'm afraid to ask her to hang out. I think I have shown signs of interest to her, but I am not quite sure where I stand.
I wouldnt worry about slow replies provided she is still keen to meet up and is affectonate and caring when youre together. Some people just arent massive texters or are genuinely super busy. Obviously if they dont reply for days then that is an issue but as long as youre seeing her regularly and she wants to meet up with enthusiasm then you're golden.
She sent me this video, but receiving a restraining order wasn't one of the signs you mentioned. I think il go talk to her maybe shes just on her period.
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Hey guys! Pro tip: I am a very sociable and bubbly person-I'll talk to anyone for anything. I have found men mistake friendliness and conversation for romantic interest. I'm simply being sociable, helpful and friendly. I make interest very obvious.
No1 sign- You are watching this video. When a girl really really wants you, she will love mountains to be with you, you wont be second guessing if she likes you
I was dating this for girl for 6 months she let me go basically wasn't feeling it. I let it go I didn't chase and she got with someone else. 7 months later she gets back in touch with me saying how she feels she made a mistake letting me go...... so we started talking again as friends she left the guy she was seeing and we started to see eachother more. She kept saying she wanted to keep us as friends as she wasn't ready for anything else I respected that but at the same time she kept showing interest by doing and saying certain things to me. We even stayed out together nothing happened but during that time i didn't make a move on her because I was respecting her boundaries but she was holding my hands, linking my arms when were out and even snuggling up to me she never said stopped doing it so I was hella confused. Afterwards she started getting distant I confronted her about it and said she only sees me as a friend and I was pushing for a relationship even though it was her showing interest and her calling and texting me all the time. She even told me she loved me so in my head I'm thinking okay we're official right? Ngl I was really pissed off. I told her I can't just be friends with her and If I was stick around seeing her with another man I would feel uncomfortable. So I let her go. She's come back into my life 2x now despite me letting her go I dunno what else she wants me to do
I dated a girl 5 times, every thing was great but as soon as I expressed my feelings to her, she said I am friend to her. She also rejected holding hands last time. This is definitely clear now. She is not interested.
If you are semi-dating an attractive woman in a large city she is never single for more than 6 hours. She will always have orbiters she can instantly date at any time. My sister was never single for more than a few hours from the age of 12 to 30. Most of the girls I semi-dated had at least one boyfriend (sometimes they would not tell me until after a few dates) and a dozen orbiters.
I had experience with a girl who dated someone, but she lied to me that she and her guy are not talking anymore. I found out that she was still dating her guy secretly.
I started having feelings for a girl and once when I found she had a boyfriend I moved on immediately. I knew even if she was attracted if we were to become characters in each others lives I would 100% be in the friendzone. It was hard to give up on someone I just met but I had to.
Did the right and practical thing here. Just move on. One of the simple reasons that well-organised men tend to be partnered is that they don’t waste time on lost causes …
Thank you for giving examples showing how we can like a guy’s company and friendship, but just not be interested in more than that. I think a lot of guys think that the two go hand in hand and that if we reject physical intimacy, we are rejecting them. We’re not. Your examples show it. Sometimes we genuinely and sincerely like the guy; we just don’t want physical intimacy with them. I like grilled shrimp. I don’t like breaded shrimp. If you offer me grilled shrimp, perfect! If you’re only selling breaded, I have to pass.
She had high interest with me. Dated few times with some intimate moments. After knowing she'll be resigning and will work miles awat, I pulled back and I became hot and cold towards her (silly me I know). She frienzoned me coz of it telling my friends I'm inconsistent. Eventually she lost interest and ghosted me. I still like her though. Can't blame her.
I'm of the mindset that the woman has to earn and obtain the date from me. Think about it, men rarely has the strength to say NO, a man that can say no to a woman is very powerful. Woman love to fight for their men, to earn it means it's a challenge and woman loves challenges. This is how you bypass the flakiness when woman are playing game. A woman is unable to play games with high value men that set the tone for the interactions.
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Yep, if she is dating someone else, whether or not she breaks up with him, will cheat, or stay with him forever is 100% dependent on how she feels about HIM, not YOU. Inexperienced guys do not get that. You are wasting your time trying to raise her interest level in you because she is invested in another relationship. It is like someone trying to sell you a cool car when you already have a car. There is no such thing as some killer line, or trying to talk to her about how he is a bad BF to her. Because she is going home and sleeping with him and sees and talks to him everyday. Even if she thinks she would get with you in a second, if she was single, when she gets home and he does something cute, or rocks her world in the sack that week, or takes her to dinner or whatever, she forgets all about you. If you know she is 100% seeing someone (even if you do not know the guy personally), do not ask her out, text her, or wait around. It can be forever.
Some 6 months back, she showed disinterest when I tried talking to her, I also distanced myself and didnt talk to her or see at her for next 6 months. Now since last one month when she notices me around she turns towards her pc and gets busy with the work and doesn't look at me, while when I look back to her there's slight dullness in her eyes. Now she doesn't make eye contact and, whenever we come across she always look down. Is it a sign of hate or do we have chemistry?
*Would appreciate a prompt reply.* I was wondering if this could be a sign that a woman is interested in me. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. On her last day (Jan 2023), she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the said "out of shell" conversation. Not to criticize her action and encouragement! Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something. But perhaps not. I'm starting to wonder if she has a boyfriend. I saw her last night at a different bar. I pretended I didn't see her in the dancing crowd, she noticed me (I think after I accidentally bumped into her), put her hand on my arm to get my attention, and said hi. It was a very brief talk, given the dancing and loudness. So of course, I did not ask for her number or to be my date at this swing dance next month (I was considering doing so if I ran into her again). But it's not just that. She was with a group of friends, and one of them was a guy she talked with. He _could_ have been her boyfriend. What would be the signs (aside from kissing, obviously)? *_You_* say and ask, *_I'll_* reflect on their moments as answers. I don't want to get my hopes up; I'm thinking the potential "she-likes-me" signs would be influenced by her relationship status.
How do if I know if a woman who cheated on her husband with another woman and got divorced and the home breaker left her.....but she told my sister that I was the best guy she ever f**ked.. What should I do? She already gave me her number after 20 years of no contact....but she text me first
What if at the moment the women was not seeking relationship ? And she is maybe interested but not ready to commit and the guy was too fast? What’s your advice on that ?
One thing I know about dating. Guys, not that it's not on the cards, BUT, sex talk isnt a good starter to a relationship if you want a meaningful one. Be a gentleman is another. None of this talking smack. And another, actually be single and have time to yourself before stepping into another relationship 🙂
A woman will invariably talk about it when good and ready. What men need to understand is that if a woman talks about it on Tuesday doesn’t mean she will want to talk about it on Thursday. Second thing is … never, ever talk about it more explicitly than she does.
Girl I like messaged me with a ❤️ & stuff sent me a few messages then ghosted me. I asked her to hangout but got ignored. Idk this vid makes me feel like I have to just let go
Yep, move on Bro, she was probably just seeking attention. Be careful not to give to much attention though (=being needy. Don't do that), and move on. An interested woman will make it easy for you.
@@Sniperkitten971 yeah.. oh well, gotta love the friendzone 😂😭. my buddy wants me to go to tennessee during Xmas, might do it.. says women are alot nicer down there 😏 lol
I dont see any of those signs shes so.flaky in text but she wants me to have a date with her but we are on a quarantine i feel she wants me to talk personally than texting so she doesnt mention she has a boyfriend she was a single women
All of this is just time wasting behavior. Most women are afraid to just be up front with guys. There are very few mature women that know what they want and go after it.
What if she throws in the word occasionally 'buddy' right after she is flirty, touchy feely and doesn't reject physical advances at all (she starts them) but plays hard to get after meeting up on text always
There’s ONE SIGN not five, 10, 20, 30 signs: if u don’t hear from her in any capacity, she’s not interested. Period. There’s not enough “busy” in the world that won’t prevent a woman from contacting u. No one is that busy. Fellas, get yourself an older woman and avoid the games.
You had me until you said get yourself an older woman … I used to do public surveys. Young women were generally delightfully cooperative. But with every advancing year more difficult. And the ones over 50, I had to have a few stiff drinks before I’d approach them. Of the men, young men were cooperative if a little clueless. Men 30-40 straight forward helpful. Real old guys, grumpy but cooperative (I could live with that). And that’s just for a public survey.
@@penguinvic9892 I can only speak from my experiences. The younger they were the more games they played. In the era of texting, emailing, posts, likes, and profiles, it’s easier to play games. With an older woman, they’re mature, secure, experienced and lived lives. The game playing stuff is over. There’s no “i wonder if she likes me, she didn’t answer my text” nonsense. When u ask a younger woman how she’s doin and all she writes is “good”, that’s someone that doesn’t wanna talk. Ha.
What if you told her that you like her and she said "That's Nice" (She was talking to guy/had a boyfriend at that point i told her, shes not with him now) and now she knows you like her and she still flirts and holds your hand lets you hug her from behind pinch her leg towards her thigh, what does that mean so confused with this girl, don't know what to do?
@@sassasins031 i was going to tell her one more time that i want to be more than friends and then sje what she says, and then do the no contact. Plus what going to make it hard is that we kinda work in thr same department how would i go cold contact in that situation?
My problem is that I've been friends with a certain girl for 6 and half years and in that time I slowly feel in lover with her and my dumbass confessed my feelings to her and I got rejected she's still my friend but I can't get rid of my feelings for her and it's been 8 months since I told her, my friends say that we would make a really good couple but she doesn't like me as anything more than a friend I don't know what to do
Stop being friends it's not fair to her to have a fake one who wants to smash and be more more friends and it's not fair to you to suppress what you want and feel to live in her frame. Just end it. Because staying around definitely doesn't help because it shows her you are weak and willing to put up with shit you don't like. Which will never make her like you and make her like you even less more and more as a romantic option. While you can't make her feel a certain way you also should not put up with her not feeling the way you want and remove yourself from the situation.
@@guitarman0365 I forgot i posted that, she stabbed me in the back so i completly cut ties with that bitch, best decision ive ever made, now i actually have a girlfriend who love me for who i am.
Here are my 5 Examples she's not interested in you: 1.The conversation is always you talking and her just commenting to your response's 2. She does not ask for your number 3. She never starts the conversation first 4. She makes excuses to end conversation 5. She talks about other guys. Let me know in the comment selection below What you think!
I agree. I've experienced all of these many many times over. Im 38 years old now and still a virgin who has never had a serious relationship before or ever even got a woman out on a date in my life.
Those are pretty spot on. You can tell by talking to a.girl.qho.iant interested just by the conversation, she really doesn't contribute or ask you anything.
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Sorry, it's veeery superficial and often very wrong. Women can be very careful, test you, slow down the development to make sure, your purposes are honest etc. And her rejecting reaction can also be caused by your own clumsy or too fast actions.
To all young men reading this, focus on your life purpose and don’t waste your precious life journey on damaged women who will bring misery to your life.
So true !
sex is a need
What do you mean by damaged woman?
Lulu Channel the narcissists and those with daddy issues who can no longer pair-bond with any man or cleanly socialize with other human beings
Rounak Sadhukhan but it shouldn’t control you, if it does, you’ve become an uncontrollable animal, hence, you should be put down.
Self respect is when you have the power of walking away from anyone including women. Then she will crawl back to you so rapidly.
Solid point.
not true at all
@Pretty Babygirl I prefer the term pursuing, both putting in the effort. If he/she is not putting in the effort, fuck them, move on.
lol not always, but at least you’ll have peace.
Its the classic Julius Caesar Handbook. Caesar dismissed his rebellious legions multiple times, the legionaires always ended up crawling back to him, begging to be re-enlisted. I guess women are just like Roman legionaires
Just 1 sign. If she likes you, she makes it easy!!!
If she plays hard to get, WALK AWAY!
Very solid point, I like that
I’ve been told I have to play hard to get my whole life lol
No boys don’t listen to him.. we like to play hard to get even when we have a crush on someone
No, it’s the total opposite.
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Guys initiate. if she likes you she will respond. It’s supposed to work both ways. if not just move on.
Dangerous advice. "Initiating" can easily be interpreted as "you made her feel uncomfortable and we have to terminate your membership and ask you to leave".
Just put video speed on 1,5x it's easier to listen to him
2x is better
THANK YOU!!!!
Good tip, haha. I wonder what I sound like...
i made it 1.75x 😎
Played it on .5x and he sounded drunk lmao 😂😂
One of the point to judge is that when you ask her out, maybe she is really busy on the date or time you suggested, but if she just said "no, I'm busy", that's all, she don't really wanted to see you.
If she have the intention to meet up with you, she will respond "no, I'm busy, how about xxxx?", she will provide a date or time which she is free, that's the difference.
She would counter offer
Fellas, if she has genuine burning desire towards you you'll know, you won't even have to go looking for tips on TH-cam she'll make it real easy for you it'll be as clear as daylight, you won't even remember to question yourself or your worth.
Anything other than that it's not worth it, any slight bit of doubt from her towards you means you're not her first choice, means she have multiple men in her line-up, ask yourself do you wanna be a backup guy or a first choice. I say this from years and years of experience, it's not worth pursuing if she hesitate even a bit.
Save yourselves from a lot of heartache and pain by only going after the ones with high interest in you. Although I have to admit you have to experience painful heartbreak at some point in order to be able to grasp the reality of the whole dating world.
My key conclusion from this video: If you find someone online and you show your interest in them and they refuse to take a leap of faith by meeting you personally, then you're no more than a texting buddy to them.
This is literally happening to me right now 😂
@@jcowan99 If that's the case, then I guess you'll have to decide whether to keep things the way they are OR make a clear statement of action and stop texting, if you refuse being just a texting buddy. I was in this situation 2 years ago and I decided not to go with the "just texting" thing.
Excellent reminders!
I've been eyeing up a girl who's been VERY flirty with ne in grabbing my thighs, getting up really close, constanly fixing her hair, baring her neck, shoulders and legs, something I don't think she does with others.
But she calls me 'friend' over and over
I've let that one go as I've seen other girls actively pursue me.
You took too long to act
My God...what's it like having your life set to "Easy" mode? I'm genuinely curious. I've never had a girl grab my thighs, get up close or do any of the other things you mentioned. And I'm sorry, you said you have other girls actively pursuing you? None of what you're describing has ever happened to me in my entire life, I'm struggling to wrap my head around it.
@@fuzzypanda1684 I'm a lot wiser now and flirting like this without showing deep concern for me could be just testing her value and just looking for attention and a ONS. She was a colleague so I couldnt move it forward.
Your work in getting the woman you want is in being the best man you can be in terms of skill set, posture and self-assurance They will come as you upgrade yourself
I can t get past the friend zoned, no matter what!!
Seen it all before, most men fall hard which something you have to manage and then dating gets easier. If she’s interested go for it but don’t change yourself in anyway to meet her needs. Stay the person you are and focus on the things you want in life. I’m attracted to woman who have their own life and friends, my life is my life and I go about it all the same dating or not.
thanks tripp ..
you are not crying , I am
This really helped... thank you. This list was insightful 👍
as a guy who has experience with girl that in a relationship but keep clinging on you, i couldnt agree more, it happens years ago and its not a good one... listen to tripp guys, just...dont bother with a girl in a relationship even though she said she wanna break up with her current bf..just stay away...leave her alone, and just go look for other girl whos single.
AMEN!
In that situation right now. Held on for 2 months and I could not agree more. It totally sucks, even more so, since she is a coworker. Never again!
Thanks for bring it back to earth brother
I got you.
Don’t get caught up in the “friend” thing. The same girl I’m digging out still calls me bro. Could be a NY thing 🤣
It is lol
I don't have any of these problems. I am so glad "texting late" isn't on the list. She does respond, and sometimes does texts me first. We meet in person, have a great time together, she's not on her phone, we're both making eye contact, she doesn't talk about other guys, doesn't refer to me as a friend. She even suggests hanging out too but because her replies are late, sometimes I'm afraid to ask her to hang out. I think I have shown signs of interest to her, but I am not quite sure where I stand.
I wouldnt worry about slow replies provided she is still keen to meet up and is affectonate and caring when youre together. Some people just arent massive texters or are genuinely super busy. Obviously if they dont reply for days then that is an issue but as long as youre seeing her regularly and she wants to meet up with enthusiasm then you're golden.
When she says she has a boyfriend then say you do too because she made you go gay.
SOOO painfully obvious BUT we just don't want to face or admit it.
She sent me this video, but receiving a restraining order wasn't one of the signs you mentioned. I think il go talk to her maybe shes just on her period.
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If she's not interested in you she won't let you ride in her vehicle 😂😂😂😂😂
Actually, a really good sign!
Ohh God 😅
i was knew the "friend" thing saying it all the time
It's a bummer. It's happened to me too. Now we know.
I got all these 5 signs and still kept pursuing wasted 1month,i wish i had watched the video before!
Just a month? Consider yourself extremely lucky.
Tripp she told me, her requirement to get into a relationship, it has be friendship before dating and she can give what she has. I'm confused!
When she uses the word "friend", in that context, she is just being polite. You're really not friends.
Not being polite she’s just trying to let u know
Yup you're right
Good point Robert.
Hey guys! Pro tip: I am a very sociable and bubbly person-I'll talk to anyone for anything. I have found men mistake friendliness and conversation for romantic interest. I'm simply being sociable, helpful and friendly. I make interest very obvious.
That's the problem for me rn 😬
I legit don't know if she likes me or not so i won't make a move.
Also she's a 10/10 for me and I'm like 4/10 maybe 5
No1 sign- You are watching this video.
When a girl really really wants you, she will love mountains to be with you, you wont be second guessing if she likes you
I know all the signs but this refresher keeps it ingrained in my brain
Yup, exactly.
I was dating this for girl for 6 months she let me go basically wasn't feeling it. I let it go I didn't chase and she got with someone else. 7 months later she gets back in touch with me saying how she feels she made a mistake letting me go...... so we started talking again as friends she left the guy she was seeing and we started to see eachother more. She kept saying she wanted to keep us as friends as she wasn't ready for anything else I respected that but at the same time she kept showing interest by doing and saying certain things to me. We even stayed out together nothing happened but during that time i didn't make a move on her because I was respecting her boundaries but she was holding my hands, linking my arms when were out and even snuggling up to me she never said stopped doing it so I was hella confused. Afterwards she started getting distant I confronted her about it and said she only sees me as a friend and I was pushing for a relationship even though it was her showing interest and her calling and texting me all the time. She even told me she loved me so in my head I'm thinking okay we're official right? Ngl I was really pissed off. I told her I can't just be friends with her and If I was stick around seeing her with another man I would feel uncomfortable. So I let her go. She's come back into my life 2x now despite me letting her go I dunno what else she wants me to do
I should know these by heart by now.
Wish I knew the 4th one much, much earlier. My college life would have not been ruined😔
Tripp, you are a gold mine, my friend.
I dated a girl 5 times, every thing was great but as soon as I expressed my feelings to her, she said I am friend to her. She also rejected holding hands last time. This is definitely clear now. She is not interested.
When she tells you kindly to go take a hike by yourself mean she is not interested in you.
it is clear from the look. without wasting time. if she likes you she will tell you with her eyes
Eye contact key to the game
Love yourself and respect yourself.
Shit all point exactly happened in my life🤦🏿♂️... feeling like idiot for not seeing clear signs
Don't feel bad. Now you know and that's what's important.
If you are semi-dating an attractive woman in a large city she is never single for more than 6 hours. She will always have orbiters she can instantly date at any time. My sister was never single for more than a few hours from the age of 12 to 30. Most of the girls I semi-dated had at least one boyfriend (sometimes they would not tell me until after a few dates) and a dozen orbiters.
So it's up to you to stand out.
I had experience with a girl who dated someone, but she lied to me that she and her guy are not talking anymore. I found out that she was still dating her guy secretly.
Sign 1 you’re here
I started having feelings for a girl and once when I found she had a boyfriend I moved on immediately. I knew even if she was attracted if we were to become characters in each others lives I would 100% be in the friendzone. It was hard to give up on someone I just met but I had to.
Did the right and practical thing here. Just move on.
One of the simple reasons that well-organised men tend to be partnered is that they don’t waste time on lost causes …
Thank you for giving examples showing how we can like a guy’s company and friendship, but just not be interested in more than that. I think a lot of guys think that the two go hand in hand and that if we reject physical intimacy, we are rejecting them. We’re not. Your examples show it. Sometimes we genuinely and sincerely like the guy; we just don’t want physical intimacy with them. I like grilled shrimp. I don’t like breaded shrimp. If you offer me grilled shrimp, perfect! If you’re only selling breaded, I have to pass.
She had high interest with me. Dated few times with some intimate moments. After knowing she'll be resigning and will work miles awat, I pulled back and I became hot and cold towards her (silly me I know). She frienzoned me coz of it telling my friends I'm inconsistent. Eventually she lost interest and ghosted me. I still like her though. Can't blame her.
Gotta move on from her for sure.
she just told me I'm like a brother to her that all the hugs means nothing 😂😂
older women do it to 56 year old woman did tip number 4 which I immediately rejected and reschedule!
This is exactly what I needed to hear
If I dont get eyes contact i dont even bother
I'm having an opposite issue, why does a girl push away when you express you are just friends?
Yup on to the next one. Just started talking to this smoke show 🔥🔥🔥. And she's giving me a couple of these signs. God damn love is a mother f*****
still looking at this even though i know shes not intrested its like im hoping the angels win the world series by 2030
If the girl is not willing to meet up, why did they swipe right and matched?
lol
After seeing this, I think I’m in a good spot, thank da lord 🤧
Thank you so much it's really helpful ☺️
More like 5 signs she’s not worth my time.
Restraining order....threats of violence.....keying your car....poisoning your dog....etc...
If you have any doubts and ask yourself, without watching the video, yes, she is probably not into you.
I'm of the mindset that the woman has to earn and obtain the date from me. Think about it, men rarely has the strength to say NO, a man that can say no to a woman is very powerful. Woman love to fight for their men, to earn it means it's a challenge and woman loves challenges. This is how you bypass the flakiness when woman are playing game. A woman is unable to play games with high value men that set the tone for the interactions.
what if shes stalking in social media like checking out my stories ?
DANNYBOY aka Dan Da Man504 Furlow ya she is I think I have something similar to say about my issue. She mostly checks out my Snapchat right before it expires.
She called me friend several times...
Thanks Tripp !
Damn bro I was kinda freaked out about watching this but now I'm kinda relieved non applied to me.
Boys put this on 2x and turn captions on
Shimmi Shanga thank you
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What if she takes long to reply to your messages and does not want to talk on the phone does that mean she is not interested
Most certainly.
Can I just sit down alone with her and tell her , I’m interested in her and want to go on date ? It would be much easier like this way ….
She changes the locks on the house
Thank you. ...Tripp
For play with 0 escalation when pursued?
Yep, if she is dating someone else, whether or not she breaks up with him, will cheat, or stay with him forever is 100% dependent on how she feels about HIM, not YOU. Inexperienced guys do not get that. You are wasting your time trying to raise her interest level in you because she is invested in another relationship. It is like someone trying to sell you a cool car when you already have a car. There is no such thing as some killer line, or trying to talk to her about how he is a bad BF to her. Because she is going home and sleeping with him and sees and talks to him everyday. Even if she thinks she would get with you in a second, if she was single, when she gets home and he does something cute, or rocks her world in the sack that week, or takes her to dinner or whatever, she forgets all about you. If you know she is 100% seeing someone (even if you do not know the guy personally), do not ask her out, text her, or wait around. It can be forever.
As a girl I rely 😅 . Very good points. All true.
You came here with a specific girl in mind? Sign 6
I've never met a girl who has been single for more than a few weeks, let alone 9 months.
Unless there is something seriously wrong …
A friend? Sshhiii I ain’t even getting the friendzone
Fancy seeing you here!
Some 6 months back, she showed disinterest when I tried talking to her, I also distanced myself and didnt talk to her or see at her for next 6 months. Now since last one month when she notices me around she turns towards her pc and gets busy with the work and doesn't look at me, while when I look back to her there's slight dullness in her eyes. Now she doesn't make eye contact and, whenever we come across she always look down. Is it a sign of hate or do we have chemistry?
*Would appreciate a prompt reply.*
I was wondering if this could be a sign that a woman is interested in me. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. On her last day (Jan 2023), she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the said "out of shell" conversation. Not to criticize her action and encouragement! Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something.
But perhaps not. I'm starting to wonder if she has a boyfriend. I saw her last night at a different bar. I pretended I didn't see her in the dancing crowd, she noticed me (I think after I accidentally bumped into her), put her hand on my arm to get my attention, and said hi. It was a very brief talk, given the dancing and loudness. So of course, I did not ask for her number or to be my date at this swing dance next month (I was considering doing so if I ran into her again). But it's not just that. She was with a group of friends, and one of them was a guy she talked with. He _could_ have been her boyfriend. What would be the signs (aside from kissing, obviously)? *_You_* say and ask, *_I'll_* reflect on their moments as answers. I don't want to get my hopes up; I'm thinking the potential "she-likes-me" signs would be influenced by her relationship status.
How do if I know if a woman who cheated on her husband with another woman and got divorced and the home breaker left her.....but she told my sister that I was the best guy she ever f**ked..
What should I do? She already gave me her number after 20 years of no contact....but she text me first
Thanks tripp!!!
Doesnt feel comfortable with you meeting you one on one in a public place?? I never understood that
What if at the moment the women was not seeking relationship ?
And she is maybe interested but not ready to commit and the guy was too fast? What’s your advice on that ?
Move on... For how long will you be her backup then? Should you wait years for this woman....
One thing I know about dating. Guys, not that it's not on the cards, BUT, sex talk isnt a good starter to a relationship if you want a meaningful one.
Be a gentleman is another. None of this talking smack.
And another, actually be single and have time to yourself before stepping into another relationship 🙂
A woman will invariably talk about it when good and ready.
What men need to understand is that if a woman talks about it on Tuesday doesn’t mean she will want to talk about it on Thursday.
Second thing is … never, ever talk about it more explicitly than she does.
What if you know from other sources that she has a boyfriend, though she never brings that fact up in conversation?
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I will post a video about this soon
Ouch! Gringy topic.. But it is needed to be learned.
I know, but it's an important lesson.
Girl I like messaged me with a ❤️ & stuff sent me a few messages then ghosted me. I asked her to hangout but got ignored. Idk this vid makes me feel like I have to just let go
Yep, move on Bro, she was probably just seeking attention. Be careful not to give to much attention though (=being needy. Don't do that), and move on. An interested woman will make it easy for you.
@@Sniperkitten971 yeah.. oh well, gotta love the friendzone 😂😭. my buddy wants me to go to tennessee during Xmas, might do it.. says women are alot nicer down there 😏 lol
I dont see any of those signs shes so.flaky in text but she wants me to have a date with her but we are on a quarantine i feel she wants me to talk personally than texting so she doesnt mention she has a boyfriend she was a single women
All of this is just time wasting behavior. Most women are afraid to just be up front with guys. There are very few mature women that know what they want and go after it.
What if we been intimate/sexual already& date a few times but now she decides to go hang with her friends instead of me?
What if she throws in the word occasionally 'buddy' right after she is flirty, touchy feely and doesn't reject physical advances at all (she starts them) but plays hard to get after meeting up on text always
This sounds like she's not interested. If you're ever not sure then just ask her out on a date and you'll be able to tell from there.
If she does any one of these things move on.
quick question I had a girlfriend and I was in relationship she broke up 💔 with me.
I had these
There’s ONE SIGN not five, 10, 20, 30 signs: if u don’t hear from her in any capacity, she’s not interested. Period. There’s not enough “busy” in the world that won’t prevent a woman from contacting u. No one is that busy. Fellas, get yourself an older woman and avoid the games.
You had me until you said get yourself an older woman …
I used to do public surveys. Young women were generally delightfully cooperative. But with every advancing year more difficult. And the ones over 50, I had to have a few stiff drinks before I’d approach them. Of the men, young men were cooperative if a little clueless. Men 30-40 straight forward helpful. Real old guys, grumpy but cooperative (I could live with that).
And that’s just for a public survey.
@@penguinvic9892 I can only speak from my experiences. The younger they were the more games they played. In the era of texting, emailing, posts, likes, and profiles, it’s easier to play games. With an older woman, they’re mature, secure, experienced and lived lives. The game playing stuff is over. There’s no “i wonder if she likes me, she didn’t answer my text” nonsense. When u ask a younger woman how she’s doin and all she writes is “good”, that’s someone that doesn’t wanna talk. Ha.
Older women are damaged stale goods. You can't build only learn from them. Most aren't worth it they divorced for a reason/single for a reason.
Meet with friends ??. Friend maybe better to score with / on
Luckily I don’t care
Question to this? I already Met her, she dosen’t talk to me over few days but still has you on social media? What should i do
What if you told her that you like her and she said "That's Nice" (She was talking to guy/had a boyfriend at that point i told her, shes not with him now) and now she knows you like her and she still flirts and holds your hand lets you hug her from behind pinch her leg towards her thigh, what does that mean so confused with this girl, don't know what to do?
Idk the girl but it might be a test?
You are in the friendzone. Go no contact with her.
@@WalkerTheSpy what kind of test? She knows that i like her more like just messing with me
@@sassasins031 i was going to tell her one more time that i want to be more than friends and then sje what she says, and then do the no contact. Plus what going to make it hard is that we kinda work in thr same department how would i go cold contact in that situation?
@Tripp Advice some advice please 😂😂😂 should i just try and kiss her 😂
There is nothing wrong about calling a girl you like a friend or vice versa. Friends often become fuck buddies or even potential partners
tnx
My problem is that I've been friends with a certain girl for 6 and half years and in that time I slowly feel in lover with her and my dumbass confessed my feelings to her and I got rejected she's still my friend but I can't get rid of my feelings for her and it's been 8 months since I told her, my friends say that we would make a really good couple but she doesn't like me as anything more than a friend I don't know what to do
Move on bro
Stop being friends it's not fair to her to have a fake one who wants to smash and be more more friends and it's not fair to you to suppress what you want and feel to live in her frame. Just end it. Because staying around definitely doesn't help because it shows her you are weak and willing to put up with shit you don't like. Which will never make her like you and make her like you even less more and more as a romantic option. While you can't make her feel a certain way you also should not put up with her not feeling the way you want and remove yourself from the situation.
@@guitarman0365 I forgot i posted that, she stabbed me in the back so i completly cut ties with that bitch, best decision ive ever made, now i actually have a girlfriend who love me for who i am.
Here are my 5 Examples she's not interested in you:
1.The conversation is always you talking and her just commenting to your response's
2. She does not ask for your number
3. She never starts the conversation first
4. She makes excuses to end conversation
5. She talks about other guys.
Let me know in the comment selection below What you think!
I agree. I've experienced all of these many many times over. Im 38 years old now and still a virgin who has never had a serious relationship before or ever even got a woman out on a date in my life.
Those are pretty spot on. You can tell by talking to a.girl.qho.iant interested just by the conversation, she really doesn't contribute or ask you anything.