How to know she's not interested through text

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  • @forkingdom-side3049
    @forkingdom-side3049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The key words in a relationship is simply "Understanding" and "Communication" without one of these it will not last!!!!

  • @sirokemunto3280
    @sirokemunto3280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The problem with this relationship thing is those we love don't love us and those who love us are not the ones we love🤔

  • @vickymawutor5213
    @vickymawutor5213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You know,the fact that a lady gives you her number does not mean she probably wants to hear from you often through texts or calls. Sometimes, it's just courtesy...if she bluntly says no when asked she may be seen as rude. Great piece Jess.❣️❣️

    • @siphisojere1178
      @siphisojere1178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn't know that

    • @chinedufelixie7814
      @chinedufelixie7814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol, i see no reason why you’d give your number to a person you’ don’t wanna talk to. It’s makes no sense, or you just make it clear to him that you’re not interested, if he starts calling or texting.

    • @gundamt437
      @gundamt437 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chinedufelixie7814 I agree. Normal people will take what you say as common sense, and a reasonable conclusions....but alas some women aren't reasonable 😅

    • @nowsage
      @nowsage 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plot twist. Simple truth girls love it when they have lot of guys crushing on them even though they are not interested and that is why they give out their numbers

    • @lawrencemensah9888
      @lawrencemensah9888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chinedufelixie7814 I agree with you.

  • @yawampofo8529
    @yawampofo8529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Short replies was what I spotted first. Jess needs to be protected guys. Ladies are scared. 👍👍👍👍

  • @emmanuelmbao686
    @emmanuelmbao686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    And I qoute " she's your future wife only in your head"🤣🤣.. Jessica you make my days

  • @Dhamirs
    @Dhamirs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You just dropped a bombshell right there Jess. Every single one of those points are accurate to military level precision. There was a certain girl that was acting like that and I just cut her off including blocking her temporarily. Took a couple off weeks meeting other girls and started posting their pictures wishing them their birthdays on my status. I removed the block for her to see and ALAS! Now she's chasing me and begging like an idiot.
    Moral lesson: Communication is key. Relationship is a two way traffic. If it doesn't work that way, cut them off and meet other people. Don't be shy to let them know that you are meeting other people. There are very few things that women want, and one of those is a man they can't have.

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Crystal clear advice Jessica!
    Actions speak louder than words so we must have a spirit of discernment to read between the lines.💯🎯

  • @enockgouyo6262
    @enockgouyo6262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I'm basically in this situation, thanks for talking about it. I think I'm gonna move on and get to know more people

    • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
      @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Enoch, you should have backed off long ago. Life's too short to waste time over one girl. She's not your source of oxygen. She's not the only girl in town.

    • @enockgouyo6262
      @enockgouyo6262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 Thank you so much my brother. Because of her i denied more than three proposals but I think now I'm gonna be more opened and get to reach out to more ladies

    • @isaacthompson9706
      @isaacthompson9706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. I really love her...

    • @ErvinTagoe
      @ErvinTagoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@enockgouyo6262 Solid choice. Best to move on

    • @Shamanimeloveryt6
      @Shamanimeloveryt6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 but him love har

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    After 24 hours, if I don't hear from her, I'd blacklist, block & delete her contact for good.
    I never beg girls. It's not in Genesis 2:18.

  • @ismailpatel7222
    @ismailpatel7222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When she shows you the first time who she is believe her .....facts

  • @noxious8008
    @noxious8008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Most guys need to hear this, and am one of them lol. Thanks.

  • @abxgalela5275
    @abxgalela5275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You always telling the truth, I think I'm little bit matured because most of the points you says I know them from my own knowledge 🙏❤️🇿🇦

  • @cruisefamilytv1472
    @cruisefamilytv1472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when you're rejected go out there meet other people thank you Jessica ❣️❣️❣️...

  • @justsaying993
    @justsaying993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is actually one of the realest videos I’ve seen on this topic ngl

  • @abdulkadirabdulsamad604
    @abdulkadirabdulsamad604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is exactly what I'm going through currently. Almost everything she does. Imagine you willing to take a girl out, she is telling she is always busy or even say it boldly that she is not interested in any hangout.

    • @gundamt437
      @gundamt437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If she is telling you she isn't interested in hanging out, isn't that a good thing that you actually know?
      Or am I misunderstanding what you are saying

    • @Olight_om
      @Olight_om ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gundamt437 True , she is a good lady for her to tell you plainly

  • @Tunjio
    @Tunjio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks very much for this...I'm in this situation and I know deep down she's not into me..I just needed to hear all your said for validation...moving on swiftly

  • @TedVeroTV
    @TedVeroTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great points. Usually the signs are very obvious, the trouble is not wanting to see them 👏❤️❤️❤️👏

  • @nountrending
    @nountrending 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks Jess. I've been in this situation of recent, we've been friends for four years but she has all this attitude you listed. She never told me she's not interested, I've been the one forcing everything cox i love her but I'm not getting loved in return this really hurts honestly. I've complained severally thinking maybe she doesn't know of her attitude but it got worse. If she has told me long time ago i would have just left her. I had to stop everything I've been doing before and she doesn't care either. I've moved on with someone else now I'm happy.

    • @mwongelsaac9713
      @mwongelsaac9713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Woooow l believe l also need to move on with this gal cause l have the same issues, this gal.just comes back to me when she is in problems

    • @nountrending
      @nountrending 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mwongelsaac9713 That's the best thing. One day you will just find out that she's married to someone else meanwhile you are there waiting thinking you had a wife. It will be a worst heartbreak so it's better you move on with someone that truly loves you the way you are.

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hate to say it but that's a beta mindset (Being in the friendzone in the hopes that she will like you with time). You should've let her know of your intentions from the get go so that you don't waste your time nor her time. 4 years is a lot

    • @ekpemeisong1331
      @ekpemeisong1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are lucky.

    • @nountrending
      @nountrending 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rassy_ I did actually. Seems she's not ready. She's still building career. Probably she want me waiting.

  • @danielkibet8419
    @danielkibet8419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is awesome 🥳🥳 I am learning day in day out. Great thanks Jessica 🥰. Much love from Kenya 💪

  • @limejuice2356
    @limejuice2356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you text her once and doesn't answer or reschedule, never text her again.
    There, simple.

    • @romeodavis9957
      @romeodavis9957 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts bro I've been there If a woman or man says we have to reschedule that person has to be a man or a woman of their word some folks these days can't be straight up

  • @akonluis6457
    @akonluis6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another type is that who text you first but will hardly go pass greeting. Sending you greetings from 🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being a victim of this one too many times and I seen to be getting the gist now. Thanks for putting it out there for us all to see. It's great to know where we have all had faults and correct it adequately and be free from bondage which has held most of us down.

  • @AineelAdu
    @AineelAdu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you Miss Jessica OS
    It's hurtful what we can do walk away as gentlemen 😭

  • @samuelwadada2488
    @samuelwadada2488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My whole was boring... I know Jesse is going to make me smile ❤️❤️💤

  • @johng2996
    @johng2996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Straight and timely message for me😃, thank you for the advise.

  • @arthurjames9979
    @arthurjames9979 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessica you are 100% correct.

  • @andrewlee5848
    @andrewlee5848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much 😭...I guess I have to face the reality I'm in now.

  • @andrewayeni
    @andrewayeni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmnnn 👏🏽 I love your transition on the advert right there! In/out instead of you repeating it 😂 Key note is Communication & Understanding 👌

  • @derrickcalhoun5119
    @derrickcalhoun5119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow....this happen to me...every step except the last one, although this was an out-of-state situation...but I eventually accepted that she was not interested beyond just being a friend awhile ago. Thanks Jessica for the confirmation.

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The genius on it again. Indeed truth lives here 🙌 looking great Jess!

  • @tribalchiefjeff
    @tribalchiefjeff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jess wore the shades and this became so so serious

  • @tobiseed1562
    @tobiseed1562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content. Hope most guys will take these useful information and safe themselves from current or future heartaches

  • @lovebeing9840
    @lovebeing9840 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you Jessica, you are really helping us

  • @aseiduphyllis7906
    @aseiduphyllis7906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been the one initiating the chat and it sometimes takes her 2 days to reply. Thanks again.

  • @emmanuelchukwu8331
    @emmanuelchukwu8331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely brilliant if Men would respect themselves

  • @kyngryan422
    @kyngryan422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From 🇯🇲& I am watching your videos over couple months now and I enjoyed all it motivates me inspired Me a lot thanks for taking the time out to Give ppl These Informative Contents

  • @peteromeizaadabara9727
    @peteromeizaadabara9727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    C’mon Jess! 😂🤣
    This boss lady vibe been getting deep 😎😍
    Every move from your walk to sitting down and talking exudes too much confidence 🥵🤓
    All I’m saying’s ya breathtaking, period!!!!!

  • @petertosh6860
    @petertosh6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nakupenda sana Jessica.
    Salamu kutoka 🇩🇪 🇰🇪

  • @eliazarvalentine7690
    @eliazarvalentine7690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jessica I’ve been in the situation for the past month and I couldn’t figure out what the heck was going on thank you for opening my eyes,
    I’ve been wasting my time and energy and this girl for nothing.

  • @brainyguy6734
    @brainyguy6734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're talking to me. I'm dead 😭 and have been taken for granted for a very long time. I complain every time, but no changes. She does all these 6 signs. This is so heartbreaking right now! I have wasted time and money!!!

  • @sundaymuchika763
    @sundaymuchika763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well articulated as usual

  • @bestsoccerfreestylehub1123
    @bestsoccerfreestylehub1123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was once in that situation and I accepted it

  • @nabalegwameddy1002
    @nabalegwameddy1002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for always informing us about some stuff like this, bless up 🙏

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loving the intro! Amazing work, my friend 👏🏼❤️🏆

    • @aaronategeka2295
      @aaronategeka2295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love the feeling good vibe, the dress code just nailed it

  • @Smartih
    @Smartih 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said Jessica: “she is your future wife only in your head” !
    I fell in love with a girl I just met… and after five msg exchanged… I have realised it.

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The good thing with me is that I am a researcher so I notice trends instantly and automatically. The moment I notice I am the only one initiating conversation, I am out. Immediately

  • @Effekts1992
    @Effekts1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nicely put Jessica! I can relate with this, definitely.....Good work of art(this video) as always. Further successes

  • @intergalactic11
    @intergalactic11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fully explanatory!
    Jess, you're adorable!
    I have to absorb and assimilate all these truths.
    Be blesseth!

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quick recovery from the cold/flu messing with your sweet voice.

  • @moboyejallow5486
    @moboyejallow5486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your confidence...and this video is the best gift you can give dash to my fellers.

  • @SAM-lb4iy
    @SAM-lb4iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Jessica,
    Good stuff, I love your work in Nairobi Kenya.👏

  • @nemonemo3685
    @nemonemo3685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do not simp

  • @eigobike3929
    @eigobike3929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nobody is too busy.

  • @corrickkonie
    @corrickkonie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome! Straight forward and precise. Thank you for the heads up to us men.

  • @jivonstephen6677
    @jivonstephen6677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Obviously for most people but yea lol , I'm always here still watching . Hope all is well with you Jess and glad to hear you every time . Have a wonderful day ok .

  • @mugerwafredrick4725
    @mugerwafredrick4725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You know what your doing!!!!!

  • @fambaassumani2253
    @fambaassumani2253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watched lot videos from u, but this one here is a sensational and high quality message. Wowow, incredible. Je t'aime beaucoup ma belle. Thank you darling.

  • @OLUROPOJADU
    @OLUROPOJADU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been in that situation; i know better now. thanks for talking about this; much appreciated

  • @bobbyajomiwe9617
    @bobbyajomiwe9617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jessica, this was really helpful... you're as awesome as always👍

  • @m.r_goat
    @m.r_goat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another content worth watching❤

  • @intelligentleader123
    @intelligentleader123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessica l love your advice so much. You are such a previous jewel.

  • @chessclarke2831
    @chessclarke2831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boom Jessica did it again 👏🏽

  • @erniemyers1239
    @erniemyers1239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome topic so much truth to this content.you are doing a great job lov ❤ l love the difference in your appearance looking so gorgeous

  • @ezrakaunda3208
    @ezrakaunda3208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jessica you have made me. Keep up doing the great job.

  • @BaltazarDeniega
    @BaltazarDeniega 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well said it's so opening not only eye but mind to .greatly said.welldone

  • @unclejosh4998
    @unclejosh4998 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Jessica

  • @yirehmiyahmagsayo361
    @yirehmiyahmagsayo361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks a lot maam, for a women like who tell the truth about women, we can understand every video you sahred in youtube maam😇😎💪🇵🇭👍🥇✌️🏆

  • @ChisomAkahTV
    @ChisomAkahTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My girlllllll. My friend in my head...keep being amazing

  • @muriithispeaks485
    @muriithispeaks485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a soothing voice Jessica. Great content

  • @timothyogaro1381
    @timothyogaro1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really got inspired by this video, thanks a lot Jess

  • @chopgamer3719
    @chopgamer3719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First much love 🥰 from Nigeria

  • @jorgerios8472
    @jorgerios8472 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you always initiate text just walk away.

  • @ezeigwechukwubundu3999
    @ezeigwechukwubundu3999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best start...
    Really cool 😎😎

  • @mohammedhasim3632
    @mohammedhasim3632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u so mch n very true.....having same situation madam

  • @wilkeansbellamy1143
    @wilkeansbellamy1143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the heads-up Jess👊

  • @fossnevergiveup2061
    @fossnevergiveup2061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very meaningful Thought.Thanks #Jassica much love to Everyone watching this channel 🙏❤️

  • @siphisojere1178
    @siphisojere1178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Jessica today you are spot on the my current situation 😂😂

  • @IsaacLuis-e6l
    @IsaacLuis-e6l 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just hit it on the nail right there... keep Up opening minds..

  • @worldvideos501
    @worldvideos501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jessica i'm really happy watching this, this is exactly what i've been going through, i talk something and next message from her *OH* thanks for this video i've learnt alot.. na to stay my own now be that

  • @dilinwabuokei2519
    @dilinwabuokei2519 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess, you're a gift you're a gift to men. I owe you a drink whenever our paths cross.

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely Jessica, your advice is always right on the spot and you are simply a most beautiful wonderful and awesome person and with a big heart!
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @charlesfinley1893
    @charlesfinley1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Question, what about dealing with your ex? She left cause she felt I didn't make her a priority. She does respond and at times quickly. Her schedule very busy.

  • @fambaassumani2253
    @fambaassumani2253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica. You are really awesome. This message today is very very very good. You nailed it. You are the best. You're from different planet. Incredible. Lot of love and respect Darling. Love u. Thank you.

  • @wilfredsaho3332
    @wilfredsaho3332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Second to like the video❤️🙏🏿thanks Jess

  • @michaelaniah4646
    @michaelaniah4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks jess
    God bless u
    This was really helpful

  • @bakermamboleo377
    @bakermamboleo377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Jessy...thanks for the great content,it came just after I had the knowledge to manuvour the days I came across such a lady,thanks to God for having shown you this, not every relationship coach talks about it, thumbs up .

  • @ogbefunaugustine1483
    @ogbefunaugustine1483 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are just too much in all u do .this is exactly happening now to me! I'm grateful for this video.jessi.thanks to you very much

  • @BloodandSweatTV
    @BloodandSweatTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this amazing video ❤️

  • @imanishimwerenovat8622
    @imanishimwerenovat8622 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whatching from Lusaka Zambia 🤝

  • @TimothyGPTSanders
    @TimothyGPTSanders 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When i notice this happening, i immediately delete the contact number. Most women dont want to deal with men and i understand this now, especially through text 📱

  • @uploadupload7696
    @uploadupload7696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the advise.Keep up the good work

  • @arbabadam3532
    @arbabadam3532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica thanks so much for your wonderful information really helpful

  • @augustineguidotti812
    @augustineguidotti812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're really the best, thank you for this, it's really helpful

  • @romainspuyt9634
    @romainspuyt9634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Jessica thanks for this video/for talking about this subject,so like yeah I'm in this situation,but I've decided to take a ride and go out and meet other people.(Ladies specifically)

  • @danieloche1442
    @danieloche1442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm doing exactly what is discussed here...it feels like i watch it before the relaeae.😂

  • @marvinkalela3528
    @marvinkalela3528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% well articulated

  • @teddyjack3520
    @teddyjack3520 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. This video enlightened me.

  • @kingsleymoore5427
    @kingsleymoore5427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your absolutely spot on Jessica, your amazing 👌🙏

  • @gidipraisemusic2022
    @gidipraisemusic2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow you said it all thank you very much mum.... ❤️❤️