3 signs that your ex is starting to regret the breakup

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  • @sayless1445
    @sayless1445 ปีที่แล้ว +3258

    They can regret all day, but words without action is manipulation ✌🏾✌🏾

    • @shyfelder4252
      @shyfelder4252 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes it is...please believe it

    • @ThuliMade0509
      @ThuliMade0509 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Don't want them back, good riddance

    • @tarawiselove
      @tarawiselove ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Say it again!

    • @zuks.n
      @zuks.n ปีที่แล้ว +15

      💔that hit me harder than I expected

    • @unchaineDLife
      @unchaineDLife ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THANK YOU 🎉

  • @belindaoleary4000
    @belindaoleary4000 ปีที่แล้ว +2593

    … narcissist always come back .. don’t fall for it

    • @donnacanadas7687
      @donnacanadas7687 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Lml werd my narcissist ex lol

    • @aprilfoster4725
      @aprilfoster4725 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      "Deez narcs be narcing"

    • @shannonarmstrong6364
      @shannonarmstrong6364 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Exactly, trying to force themselves to act correct now just so they can call with the BS

    • @peterssister421
      @peterssister421 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Say it AGAIN!!!!
      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @Dreambutterfly8831
      @Dreambutterfly8831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes they do! It’s always an agenda, never genuine.

  • @clariceoliver2127
    @clariceoliver2127 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    My dad was so wise. He told me along time ago before he died. He said if u keep going back to your past. How will u ever find your future? What u say dad. He said daughter he’s a X for a reason.

    • @MrsLadylaw
      @MrsLadylaw ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Needed to Read This... THANK YOU!

    • @melissaflowers
      @melissaflowers ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️🙏👍

    • @clariceoliver2127
      @clariceoliver2127 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MrsLadylaw you are more than welcome. You got this

    • @mylord5264
      @mylord5264 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What a great father! ❤

    • @linneittalewis5191
      @linneittalewis5191 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yesssss, VERY WELL PUT!!!😅

  • @aliwk1094
    @aliwk1094 ปีที่แล้ว +597

    Some come back just because they failed to find someone else. They wouldn't regret sh1t if they were successful. They'd be talking crap about you to another woman right now if they could.

    • @samanthag.6251
      @samanthag.6251 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Accurate

    • @shraddhamyageri821
      @shraddhamyageri821 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      true af gone through it

    • @frankburton5460
      @frankburton5460 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      No they wouldn’t. Yeah a little boy might do that.. if the relationship was short.. maybe.. but if the relationship was a real one.. The man will miss you. Don’t play “bigger person” If you want him TELL HIM. Men feel unwanted and low enough already in this world.. So letting him know that he means something is a great way to pour into him.

    • @2.22am
      @2.22am ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine is doing that, talking that and telling lies to another bitch who knows i was betrayed.

    • @YungGun
      @YungGun ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@frankburton5460exactly... thank you!!

  • @papichulo4022
    @papichulo4022 ปีที่แล้ว +1171

    They can miss me forever since they left. Dueces ✌

    • @Megan-thedreamer13
      @Megan-thedreamer13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup, no need to come back n take their sorry asses back.

    • @MH62-01
      @MH62-01 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      💯💯💯💯 for real bye

    • @Delaine2005
      @Delaine2005 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      💯💯💯

    • @melasher7670
      @melasher7670 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is some self eestem in action, right here. 👏 👏 👏

    • @christines9227
      @christines9227 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ikr same he left months ago. then text me today asking if I’m seeing someone!? Boy bye you rolled the dice 🎲 and walked away so you fucked around and found out.😂🎉🎉🎉 👍🏽.

  • @jovankrstic250
    @jovankrstic250 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    It means nothing but them wanting that ego boost, and as soon as they get it, they’ll waste your time AGAIN

  • @andreipopescu349
    @andreipopescu349 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Who has time to wait for a man who doesn't know what he wants!?

    • @kennettabradford6566
      @kennettabradford6566 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly 💯

    • @thomasnorthcastle4130
      @thomasnorthcastle4130 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This would apply if you had told him what you want.

    • @tonitv9991
      @tonitv9991 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      women are tired of teaching men

    • @damnitjoey1019
      @damnitjoey1019 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Actually this can go both ways, my ex didn’t know what she wanted, it dragged on for months before I finally said no more

    • @tezdun9911
      @tezdun9911 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh please it was u who played games

  • @kaycees1111
    @kaycees1111 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Not always.... Sometimes it's just wanting to see if he could.
    USE YOU AGAIN!!!

    • @waltsturvee4651
      @waltsturvee4651 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Only if he reaches out first, don't bring up nothing other than how he gon make it up to ya. Use ya imagination naming the consequences for his actions

    • @zm8w88
      @zm8w88 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      u could and will spot it tho, if yall were young maybe he just was young and stupid and now he regrets it bc he found out u were his ideal girl and grew up, is it likely? no but it could be true trust ur instincts which i think u have but dont just mess it up for everyone saying simple things like this

    • @thecatnamedTesla
      @thecatnamedTesla 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      absolutely, thats what happened to me just now, stuoid me i fell for it, wanted relationship so much i ignored ALL red flags which were very red. totally disappointed

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zm8w88once you have a kid on ME YO ASS IS DEAD BUILD YOUR COFFIN ! CAUSE WTF 💀MEN PULL FAST ONES AND LOSEE EVERYTIME !

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zm8w88ain't no young and dumb shit ! 😡😏

  • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
    @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +28

    Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

    • @user-lk9jp1nt4h
      @user-lk9jp1nt4h 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
      @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @user-lk9jp1nt4h
      @user-lk9jp1nt4h 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @user-lk9jp1nt4h
      @user-lk9jp1nt4h 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      he is Father Akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @CynthiaTomlin-u5b
      @CynthiaTomlin-u5b 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤️

  • @eli30013
    @eli30013 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Regret is not the same as remorse

    • @richym3899
      @richym3899 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@raqueledwards6061how so? Just cuz you say something that sounds profound doesn’t make it true or even logical in the slightest. (Those words are literally synonymous)

    • @raqueledwards6061
      @raqueledwards6061 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@richym3899 whatever okay LOL maybe so that's because I'm not the most logical person I'm more emotional I think with my heart and not my head but obviously you probably don't get that so it's irrelevant to the point but thanks for your comment have a nice day 😹🤣😂😜

    • @richym3899
      @richym3899 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@raqueledwards6061 okay….? As cute as you thought your response was, I didn’t attack your character. I just made an observation that you two don’t know the meaning of those two words. Sorry if I ruined your day, it wasn’t my intention 🙏🏾

    • @raqueledwards6061
      @raqueledwards6061 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@richym3899 it's okay LOL it would be an absolute shame if I have lived on this purple 37 years and don't know the difference between the two words I actually do but it's okay thank you for your apologies no harm done♥️👍🙏🫶

    • @BillRWare
      @BillRWare ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@richym3899Regret and remorse are not synonymous.

  • @garciamckenzie-ewing9864
    @garciamckenzie-ewing9864 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Ex are an Ex for a reason!! No one wants an narcissist back in there life. Leaving them is a blessing DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK!! No contact.

    • @hearttready
      @hearttready หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Beware if she comes back...she failed to destroy you... she's coming back to finish the job.

  • @SoGorgeous7
    @SoGorgeous7 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    If they left , leave them to the left. Delete and block. They left you for real. They meant it. Okay.

    • @navooodya
      @navooodya ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesssss❤

    • @MevrjannahHirzallah
      @MevrjannahHirzallah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@BeautyQueen2023Xjust curious and trying to understand their mind /mind games and it gives a sort of relief as well at least for me

    • @repulse_wkey4432
      @repulse_wkey4432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I DIDNT IT WAS MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP AND I MISS HER SO FUCKING MUCH I DIDNT UNDERSTAND THE TRUE VALUE OF HER SND I MESSED UP AND NOW SHE HAS TOLD ME FO MOVE ON SHE HAS ANOTHER MAN I I REALLY JUST WANT TO DIE

    • @Loricreatez
      @Loricreatez 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@repulse_wkey4432🙏🏾

    • @ochubajoshua6061
      @ochubajoshua6061 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same with me here

  • @ReneeArnoldx
    @ReneeArnoldx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Cool videos. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

    • @ShishiraNair
      @ShishiraNair 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @ReneeArnoldx
      @ReneeArnoldx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

    • @ShishiraNair
      @ShishiraNair 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

    • @ReneeArnoldx
      @ReneeArnoldx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.

    • @aterriblefate5699
      @aterriblefate5699 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ReneeArnoldx hello again bot!

  • @handl7803
    @handl7803 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    And when your ex get back the same senario will repeat itself and you get hurt over and over and over again

    • @ankitmahto5323
      @ankitmahto5323 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      U seem to speak from experience...

    • @lambadic8298
      @lambadic8298 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not if theyve learnt and understood their behaviours

    • @MonishaJefferson
      @MonishaJefferson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats what exactly happen to me don't go back a few days ago

    • @ranicebeautyparlour6371
      @ranicebeautyparlour6371 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My case 😢

    • @IroquoisPliskin-rb7qw
      @IroquoisPliskin-rb7qw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. People who truly love you wouldn’t do that to you. Only take them back if they call you back or show up at your house a minute later showing that they regret what they did. Otherwise i can’t and won’t trust you ever again. They can say whatever they want. You don’t know what they did all those nights knowing what they did to you.
      Backup probably didn’t work out and now weeks or months later they show up and you can tell they haven’t reflected nor have they regretted their decision.
      Show some self respect. They didn’t feel the same way as you did, otherwise they would have never left you.
      Much love and strength to all of you ❤️

  • @bartbollen8166
    @bartbollen8166 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    They can regret all they want. Door gets shut once they leave

    • @kapingandiadia5433
      @kapingandiadia5433 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅

    • @bartbollen8166
      @bartbollen8166 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @BeautyQueen2023X And here my fellow gentlemen is the definition of delusion.

  • @glendalewatkins7906
    @glendalewatkins7906 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    That's exactly what happened to me for the past 2 months...honestly dont go back...old conversations will resurface an just piss you off again...

    • @rayo_rude
      @rayo_rude 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was just thinking about that; spot on

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Period lmfaoooo tf😂,💀

    • @MonishaJefferson
      @MonishaJefferson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @fordperformanceandoffroada376
    @fordperformanceandoffroada376 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Yep I got all three .. asked to be friends as well , I said I can’t go from romance to friendship. She said I want to see you , I said are you asking me on a date , she said I just want to see you , I said nah unless you ask me on a date . Friends catch up , I don’t want to be friends . She then said will you come on a date with me .. I said yes but I want to take things slow you broke up with me so my trust has been damaged. But I’m open to rebuild things slowly.. thanks coach your videos have been awesome .. yes I used the no contact rule and all the tips coach has given..

    • @ElSenorEls
      @ElSenorEls 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Update?

    • @IroquoisPliskin-rb7qw
      @IroquoisPliskin-rb7qw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s not enough! Trust me. If she really loved you, you wouldn’t have to tell her. A Person who knows what they did, especially someone you have been with for a long time would be regretful asf! I took mine back… never again!
      Someone who truly loves you would love you without teeth, with only one arm or leg… whatever. Someone who loves you would live under a bridge with you if you didn’t have anything. Someone who loves you would not be able to sleep at night, knowing what they did to you!

    • @zeekay3205
      @zeekay3205 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please tell me you avoided this woman. She is bad 🗞️📰🕵🏽‍♀️

  • @aneishasingletary4553
    @aneishasingletary4553 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Just block them no need to further the fake.

    • @jacquelinebeavers7533
      @jacquelinebeavers7533 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THAT!

    • @shannonarmstrong6364
      @shannonarmstrong6364 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💃🏿🥰

    • @amayautumn
      @amayautumn ปีที่แล้ว +24

      BLOCK AND DELETE!

    • @JessicaJohnson777
      @JessicaJohnson777 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I would rather get my number changed🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @caseteamcouture8633
      @caseteamcouture8633 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this! My sons birthday is Sunday so the narc I know is trying to “further the fake” by pretending to be a family that day. I’m staying the course… ignore, ignore, protect my peace, ignore.

  • @petergriffiinbirdistheword
    @petergriffiinbirdistheword ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm good 😂 FYI please don't take this short seriously. Narcassist and toxic people also do these things and it's not because they miss you or regret how they treated you. Some people are just comfortable with you and others just want you back, so they can have the upper hand. If you broke up with someone or they broke up with you, the best thing you can do for yourself is move forward and find someone you deserve.

    • @ranicebeautyparlour6371
      @ranicebeautyparlour6371 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can I say thank you a thousand times???? This is so apt!!

  • @victory9086
    @victory9086 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    PSA TO ALL MY EXES STAY AWAY ...I WISH YOU WELL....IM IN PEACE AND TOTAL DIVINE PROTECTION AND JOY UNSPEAKABLE

  • @Kreginecelestine
    @Kreginecelestine ปีที่แล้ว +183

    An Ex becomes an ex for a reason…don’t ever go back ladies!!!

    • @jacquelinebeavers7533
      @jacquelinebeavers7533 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      FACTS!

    • @talia.w8
      @talia.w8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yet he did it because he thought it was the only way to solve things. he still loves me and wants to be with me it shows.

    • @jermainerobinson4220
      @jermainerobinson4220 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Don't ever go back men

    • @raqueledwards6061
      @raqueledwards6061 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactly they're done that too many times and I found somebody else that I care about and that I may be in love with that I see a future but I'm trying to take it slow

    • @charlieb7916
      @charlieb7916 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Or guys

  • @brandonwayne6131
    @brandonwayne6131 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    No matter what never go back

  • @glamorouslee3812
    @glamorouslee3812 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I regret divorcing my ex husband and he regrets no longer having access to my lifestyle. We all have regrets that we must live with.

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I doubt he misses the crack rocks and Newport cigarettes that much

  • @vagu5478
    @vagu5478 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I don't want my ex to miss me,I want him to be happy. No hard feelings. Not because I don't care but because I do.

  • @triplejmom7826
    @triplejmom7826 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This is why when a relationship with an ex ends you cut off all communication, especially if you know they’re not the one you want to marry. The relationship ended for a reason. Narcissists do everything he’s describing & they don’t want you back because they miss you & etc they want you back just to mistreat you all over again. Walk away.

    • @MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom
      @MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly they don’t see a future with you

    • @TaheishaLake
      @TaheishaLake 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just because they are your ex doesnt mean they are a narcissisist

    • @triplejmom7826
      @triplejmom7826 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TaheishaLake did I say anything about my ex? What specifically is wrong with what I said? Do you think it’s healthy to go back to a relationship that ended over & over again? If it keeps ending it’s time to move on. All I said was that narcissists do what he’s describing. I’m not wrong.

  • @alwaysaccurate8725
    @alwaysaccurate8725 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Toxic sign they want u back
    -They talk crap about u to others
    -They appear pissed or sad on social media
    -The reach out to argue for emotional response.
    Dont go back its a trap.

    • @melissaflowers
      @melissaflowers ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyday knowing it after tons of hours and years 3 years to figure out the fake and the real threat to angels

    • @jacquelinebeavers7533
      @jacquelinebeavers7533 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Codependent sign. You still checking for your old boo! Get on with your life. He's gone for a reason. Stop fielding all the bs.

    • @jonathanwade3882
      @jonathanwade3882 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s been constantly texting my toxic ex-friend behind my back and told my ex-friend not to tell me what she’s doing.

    • @jonathanwade3882
      @jonathanwade3882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Polly’s World This is why I never back out of a relationship. If you're gonna regret it, don't do it. Nothing towards you or anything

    • @delaw2xoxo269
      @delaw2xoxo269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep your list seems more like what I experienced

  • @Megan-thedreamer13
    @Megan-thedreamer13 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    The ex moved on fast n dated someone else n took her on vacation. He was her sugar daddy. But, that rebound ain’t working out so well. He’s been coming around a lil more. We share a 22 months old but I still think he’s trying. Showing all the signs. Smh. I’m good tho… peace out homie

    • @jacquelinebeavers7533
      @jacquelinebeavers7533 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Never go back. Never take him back. He showed you how he feels about you and your child. Get the child support the baby deserves and walk. Don't you dare look back!

    • @Megan-thedreamer13
      @Megan-thedreamer13 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@jacquelinebeavers7533 he’s been coming around n tearing up… I’m still good tho!! It’s only because his rebound didn’t work out.

    • @504gucci4
      @504gucci4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      "22 months old" ? Just say your baby is almost 2

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right ! Let's talk aboy it

  • @jacquelinejacobs9613
    @jacquelinejacobs9613 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the truth. As We rise to see another day. You are so on point bless you.

    • @melissaflowers
      @melissaflowers ปีที่แล้ว

      My precious Daddy woke me up for school by knocking on the wall flicking on and off the light and saying Rise And Shine Peewee time for school. I honor him in Heaven knowing he's crying for all unfree children that's all of humans being used up and not knowing it for 17 years. Daddy I saw Heaven but not before my x made me walk through his real devel and the secrets held are never outloud but you can feel it your gut and God will hang them where the sun won't shine on their crowns. My ex made critical recklessly and preplanned a new one in me I've never been so ashamed with human beings acting this out on any level it will be fixed but on Gods Time and justice is coming. Run angels run with me. Don't stay behind trust and believe the Holy Spirit came on me through the darkest days I spent closest to a real devil that's waiti g in him now.

  • @HRHisokthx
    @HRHisokthx ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Or they sleep w your friend to make you jealous. Or they stalk you. Or they call and hangup. And they never confess cheating on you

    • @melasher7670
      @melasher7670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stalking isn't regret or being love lorn, it's called CONTROL. "If I can't have no one can", is a stage that no one should experience.

    • @jacquelinebeavers7533
      @jacquelinebeavers7533 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You shouldn't be checking for ex boo. Block him and move on. Why do you need an apology? Would you believe it? His actions showed you who he really was. If you're done, then you shouldn't have any contact with him. YOU control that!

  • @cobalt222jr
    @cobalt222jr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This gave me the answers that I’ve needed for the past week. She is reaching out to me indirectly right now.

  • @zoezoe6444
    @zoezoe6444 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Of course he missed me. 😆 🤣 5years don't just fade away that fast

    • @michelefrasier2614
      @michelefrasier2614 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Damn right GIRLLL ‼️

    • @petrabland3519
      @petrabland3519 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      In a normal person's mind you may be missed but in a narcissist mind they do not care. It's all about control.😔

    • @MevrjannahHirzallah
      @MevrjannahHirzallah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It depends. If you had a house and a car and he wasnt all that stable himself....someone can use you for years just for money and other things

    • @mariomunoz7167
      @mariomunoz7167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Try 16+ years. She left me for some acquaintance friend of a friend, came back, we had a son and now she went back to him.
      Still trying to finalize the divorce. The bum she went with is 30yrs old, still living with his parents and has no papers. Tsk tsk

  • @donnacanadas7687
    @donnacanadas7687 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My ex has did all the above but the reality is that he don't want me bit don't want no one else to have you

  • @iamjen.B
    @iamjen.B ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Run far from the narcassist.. Dont wait or hold ya breath for an apology or regrets. Dont feel sorry for them and stop sounding like you miss them excuses 24/7. Run mi seh🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🚫

  • @janierobinson6512
    @janierobinson6512 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Action speak louder than words thank you God for this message in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 amen thank you brother for this message amen 🙏😇

  • @the_anythingchannel3099
    @the_anythingchannel3099 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is 100% true. I left my home state 5 years ago. But before I left I thought I was dating a grown man. He asked me don't move to Georgia but I did but 18 months after I left he got married to another woman. But he told me that we were not officially hitched so I moved on to Georgia. Within the last 6 months he been trying to ask me to friend him on my Facebook I told him I'm glad he happy to be married and I hope him and his wife be together forever. But you need to move around on me 😁🎤

  • @patriciacasillas312
    @patriciacasillas312 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    If that person chose to leave, they can stay gone.

    • @mariomunoz7167
      @mariomunoz7167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @BeautyQueen2023XHer comment didn’t imply anything of that nature. Yet you’re reaching.
      It’s clear that you did somebody wrong and you strongly dislike this video that’s pin-pointing your Karma.
      Enjoy.

  • @CR-xh3zd
    @CR-xh3zd ปีที่แล้ว +18

    An ex is an ex I'm not looking for or give a damn about signs of regret. I'm looking to the future not out the rear view

  • @jacquelinesylvester6051
    @jacquelinesylvester6051 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Totally done with mine, will never date another Cancer

    • @adelante3938
      @adelante3938 ปีที่แล้ว

      Word

    • @benjamin6429
      @benjamin6429 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo us cancers are hurting too 😢

    • @mansurian6403
      @mansurian6403 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is Cancer I m Aries 😢

  • @hahadarrie
    @hahadarrie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow those signs are so subtle. Thanks for your help.

  • @justinaolabode8534
    @justinaolabode8534 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Narcissistic behavior 😅. Can never be happy for a long time and can never let go or move on.

    • @sreyen1065
      @sreyen1065 ปีที่แล้ว

      how do I know if he's a narcissists??

  • @macktastik7575
    @macktastik7575 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There will be no communication. Nothing but radio silence. I do not care what you regret. You are an ex for a reason. Have a happy

  • @solarhead2040
    @solarhead2040 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If they treat you like you don't exist. Hurt you on a regular basis. Put you down all the time. Don't show the love that your giving them. Or anything else. Just let them go. They have no empathy for anyone but themselves. If they cant see or care about all the memories you have and how low and shite they made you feel. Get rid of them. You deserve better in your life.

  • @syreetamcfall9580
    @syreetamcfall9580 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Once a breakup happens, I block and delete it immediately!!! The pain is real, and I definitely don't wanna be reminded of the bs!!! I also let them know NOT to contact me any futher, peacefulness shall be regained.

  • @babyhandgrenade4004
    @babyhandgrenade4004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so good at what you do. This is so on point. I found out that I'm pregnant by my ex and when I told him, he wanted to step up and he's actually been treating me very well. He said he wanted to come see me so he picked me up and he actually took me on a proper date. He said he just wanted to do things like we did before. He wanted it to be like old times and it was. Of course we're not jumping right back into a relationship especially not because of our daughter but I just thought it was nice. I left him and first we were at each other's throats but it was nice to get to a good place with him. I hate feeling like I have any enemies but sometimes in this life people are not going to like you. I'm getting off track though. It was nice to catch up and to actually have it feel like old times again.

  • @judah2427
    @judah2427 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you're still in contact with your ex that's not your ex but the one that got away!

  • @kyrianjoseph1403
    @kyrianjoseph1403 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mine isn’t regretting,becasue I left him a voicemail with how he made me feel in the six years we were together.

    • @adriannichols1862
      @adriannichols1862 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You should seek some therapy and I'm not saying that in a degrading way I'm saying it because you tell him how he made you feel and the 6 years you were together is not going to hurt him the way that you were hurt and I understand people tell people how they felt thinking that they'll be hurt in the same way it never goes that way that's just the truth

    • @claudettecameron875
      @claudettecameron875 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree, some do not even deserve a face-to-face. Voicemail, text, or a letter is good enough especially if you were disrespected and called them out over and over. It's not about being cold... We must value our self-worth, and take back our power.

  • @TemptressMoon
    @TemptressMoon ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don’t even need sign number one. If they break up with me what they do and feel after the fact is not my business or concern. Should have thought twice

  • @JennaMaBob
    @JennaMaBob 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos can be comforting, and yet so damaging.

  • @paulyoung1685
    @paulyoung1685 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    F#$% them ex bro... all they trying to do is bring you pain. Be resilient, be a beast. Thiers 100 ways to move on.. even in pain.. just keep moving..❤

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you dude I appreciate your videos.

  • @nicolajames5037
    @nicolajames5037 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Don't care not concerned with your regret

  • @ElizaMancilla-n1z
    @ElizaMancilla-n1z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Upon watching this video!!I'm moving on guys!!I love my career!!for my future!!and wish me good luck!!I'm fine guys!that's was a close book!!many thanks!!❤❤❤

  • @msladybug3961
    @msladybug3961 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How about a resounding NO to #1, #2 and #3. An EX is that for a reason and/or REASONS. NEVER forget WHY because, IF you do, you'll have some regrets to talk about; that is if you are still alive. 🤔

    • @melissaflowers
      @melissaflowers ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally I'm almost at body death prayers angels run don't touch em they will see. You must run with me every child needs Tus level of humanity taken to their rightfull place. Hell in earth is for the ones to be held and will be reaching zero elevation

  • @TheUltimateBreakupCoach
    @TheUltimateBreakupCoach ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why I wrote my No Contact book Silence is your Superpower … no contact HAS to be done right ♥️

  • @bbeautiful6390
    @bbeautiful6390 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    BLOCK. THEM. ITS CALLED STALKING. 🙄🤓

  • @Sahdemir94
    @Sahdemir94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything this guy is telling is he telling to with his eyes! ❤

  • @guywithahelmet9597
    @guywithahelmet9597 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s gone… it sucks. I wish her the best in life. I tried my hardest and it got me nowhere. I hope she’s doing ok.

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    • @Nicolas_Salerno
      @Nicolas_Salerno ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s because you tried your hardest she’s gone. Women want men who do their own thing, and never falter.

    • @DarlingLove-ku3eu
      @DarlingLove-ku3eu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Nicolas_Salernono

  • @kennymeadows2688
    @kennymeadows2688 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like this channel it's calming especially with the music in the background

  • @jaywool9129
    @jaywool9129 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My ex-husband kept showing up over my sister's home and she asked me to leave. Never go back that man will never changed.

    • @biancalord488
      @biancalord488 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ex husband keeps coming to my house. It sucks because he only says hi to our son

    • @jaywool9129
      @jaywool9129 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@biancalord488, don't let him in. Make an appointment with the courts that he can only see him through supervision through the courts. Change your locks and when you get a chance save money and move to an unknown place tell your children don't give him the addressor new phone number. If he wants to talk it must be supervised because it is not ok you don't care what lies he tells them. This is for your safety and protection and find another job where he does not know where you work at. You have to let the beast in you come out. You have this take your time if you need to get counseling do that. Here are some pointers I've learned along the way. Some one suitable, reliable. Genius, supportive, good work ethics etc. There is more you can add your list too. You are going to need a car so get your driver's license ok. Make it work. It will be hard but guess what your child or children won't be little forever. You must work as a team. Peace and blessings.

  • @5-minutecraft608
    @5-minutecraft608 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro each word u say it's really hitting me to the core......love u bro....

  • @violetenergy4392
    @violetenergy4392 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    He's been regretting it for over 10 years😅🤣🤣😅😅🤣 I left him in 2010.

  • @collinkuntz9604
    @collinkuntz9604 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    During an argument, I had a moment of weakness and spoke from a place of fear and anger. She took that and slept with another dude and month later engaged and moved in with the new guy. Yet I'm here being fool wanting back what Is gone 🤦

    • @mansurian6403
      @mansurian6403 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      U ok bro now 😮

    • @coreymurchison5769
      @coreymurchison5769 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@mansurian6403 right ? Now I want an update

  • @ralphparker277
    @ralphparker277 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's right I experienced this 3yrs ago and just last year. Thanksgiving dinner at her mom's house, and Christmas with the dame woman for six years. Everything you saying is correct

  • @transition799
    @transition799 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I blocked him. He's been blocked about 3 months. I have never done this before but I have to!!! It's for ME 💞💖

  • @mrrexyy8039
    @mrrexyy8039 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happened to me the exact 3 of them 9 month ago, little did she know I started to move on and focus on my life, stay focused all my brothers out there

  • @hilaryjoseph9706
    @hilaryjoseph9706 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This would only matter if you want them back

    • @Obi-WanKinobi
      @Obi-WanKinobi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or they just want them back, because not everyone is a revenge seeking monster

  • @melanier7309
    @melanier7309 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes, they regret treating you so badly, which made you leave the relationship.

  • @xenon_octaves
    @xenon_octaves ปีที่แล้ว +3

    who else on the earth has the freaking idea to take her back ... breaking up implies that they are supposed not to see each other again

  • @KAMAYA2018
    @KAMAYA2018 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m really proud of you. You’re doing really good. You’re really doing really good. Oh, I would never forget what you said.

  • @mrreddington777
    @mrreddington777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They can ask or watch my stories all they want. I got ghosted after 4 years together and if she ever dares to try to contact me, she’s gonna be disappointed I’m not interested.

    • @winninginlife
      @winninginlife 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No marriage after 4 years....no wonder you got ghosted. She was probably gone after year 3 and decided not to wait any longer allowing you to waste her time. Men are slow asf!!!

  • @SozjeCat.
    @SozjeCat. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes they feel guilty. And they need you to forgive them so they find release from the guilt. The guilt is karma.

  • @VETASALMONE11
    @VETASALMONE11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Calling from anonymous numbers and breathing on the phone then hanging up

  • @Personwithacrazyfam
    @Personwithacrazyfam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Narcissists don’t change, they change lifes..

  • @colorado_koolaid2625
    @colorado_koolaid2625 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My ex just text me a month later saying I’m sorry it didn’t work out but I’m glad we met… stop playing games we are grown

  • @TamkenatMansoor
    @TamkenatMansoor ปีที่แล้ว

    These are also signs of a time wastimg, non committal guy reaching out for his dopamine hit. As long as they do not want to mend the mistakes and come up to your level in the relationship, it is going to be just another cycle of the same BS. Don't fall for it and please stop encouraging people to wait and settle for bread crumbs.

  • @SonrieSmiley
    @SonrieSmiley ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want the past relationship to stay in the past. It's worth nothing to me to know if they regret or not. I have moved on

  • @ditadrosa3482
    @ditadrosa3482 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If My Presence Didn’t Matter. My Absence Will Be Felt.
    Hope, Health and Healing This Holiday Season! 🙏🏼💕😇

  • @commonsenseprevails1433
    @commonsenseprevails1433 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really wouldn't know because I block them in everything. I never hear from them again.

  • @tanlight45
    @tanlight45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U parted for a reason that's why HES A EX PERSON. ❤

  • @FuzzyColors2012
    @FuzzyColors2012 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My partner just broke things off with me…idk what to do…it’s my first heartbreak and I feel sad and numb all at once.

    • @adelante3938
      @adelante3938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any update? Im dealing w same thing...

    • @javierlandaverde4108
      @javierlandaverde4108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It goes away with time. It will make you stronger.

    • @mansurian6403
      @mansurian6403 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dayum I m at this point 😢

    • @Obi-WanKinobi
      @Obi-WanKinobi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @pollynkirote9097
    @pollynkirote9097 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All good signs bro,but once he's out their no coming back..i don't look back ever

  • @marcycat
    @marcycat ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What I do is permanently not his business.

  • @fallen605
    @fallen605 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A man walks their is already one to replace them men are like buses one every 15 min but they haven't figured out that first date is their interview to the next date

  • @Dell-sc1tp
    @Dell-sc1tp ปีที่แล้ว

    Love that your advice is short & sweet💞

  • @sylviabooze7122
    @sylviabooze7122 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I wouldn’t know I blocked him as soon as he walked out the door.

    • @debbiemccoy8
      @debbiemccoy8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Blocked, deleted AND changed my phone no.

    • @christines9227
      @christines9227 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn that was fast 💨 😂😂😂 😩 👍🏽

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably because you already had pookie and ray ray as backups on your Instagram

  • @tru3g3mini44
    @tru3g3mini44 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well thank God they’re not regretting me.😮‍💨

  • @samantharamos6688
    @samantharamos6688 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U made me laugh way b4, stay the course, but, that made me spit my water out

  • @hadrain85
    @hadrain85 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She did in 2 months but not anymore

  • @jennifermarie1230
    @jennifermarie1230 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think my narcissistic ex is trying to contact me to TORTURE me more!!
    Today he "wants to come by to see the Cats" 😂😂😂😂
    Yah right sure.

  • @80skid83
    @80skid83 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I may miss her , doesn't mean I will break no contact

  • @deniseabrams7212
    @deniseabrams7212 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Soo true... Not falling for it🏃🏃🏃✌️✌️

  • @Goddessluv22
    @Goddessluv22 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They do pop up at houses..😆😆

  • @denisewhite5145
    @denisewhite5145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SALUTE KING ❤
    THEY ARE CALLED A (EX) FOR A REASON !
    KEEP IT MOVING !

  • @thabisilechoko2104
    @thabisilechoko2104 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just block em... There shouldn't be any communication between yall after the break up... Buh-bye

  • @darylwhite3187
    @darylwhite3187 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I may just be 13 and my ex was the only thing holding me to gether and when she left me i went through a mager depression stage and now that i have fownd this cuz she has been ackting like that 24/7 so thank you so much for posting this.

  • @jumpedintheriverwhatdidise5499
    @jumpedintheriverwhatdidise5499 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No contact is only something men should do. because a woman asking to come back is fine. The man may or may not want to reconcile but it will not make him see her any worse. because women are allowed to be vulnerable and needy. men don't mind that. if a man asks to get back the woman sees him as weak and needy thus lowering the attraction further. so as always it's in the woman's hands

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why chase a girl who doesn't want to get caught? Screw that.

  • @countcrow
    @countcrow ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nope not a peep in 3 months. He's with someone else now

    • @degun4521
      @degun4521 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good he got places to be

  • @lingy74
    @lingy74 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Missing someone is separate from regretting that you broke up.