Your EX ONLY FEELS The Pain of LOSING You WHEN it BURNS (Make THEM Feel REGRET)
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- Your EX ONLY FEELS The Pain of LOSING You WHEN it BURNS (Make THEM Feel REGRET)
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Before social media your ex use to miss you, now these people dump you hop on a dating app and on to the next. They do not care, I was the dumpee and even though I miss him like crazy, I have to accept he was not good for me and move on.
AMEN
I’m a dumpee too , the way this sit hurt errr 😌💔
Amen me also 😮🫶🙏
Thats really sad(sit on my face pharao goddess)
There is some truth to the fact that there is an illusion of more options.
But quality connections and relationships are truly hard to find. If they were actually committed and the relationship was mostly positive, I have seen exes come back often.
That said I wouldn’t wait for several months and put your life on hold. If you are ready to move on then that is the right decision for you
"Dare them to find someone better." I don't know why, but that felt really profound. That line just helped me completely surrender.
they burn from the stds
I needed to hear this. I'm making myself sick from stress. I loved him so so much...
The moral of the story, in all honesty it is just better not to take your EX back and just let it go. If you have to go through all the hoops of making them earn you when they didn't value the first time.
Well tbh honest, i don't always abide by that "An ex is an ex for a reason" line. People are flawed and make mistakes, sometimes very serious ones. People lose themselves you know...The fact that the ex left you doesn't mean they didn't ever value you truly in the first place. It's just that time makes limerance fade and some people can't understand their emotions truly, so they assume the relationship is over. You have to give them what they want to see how they measure up to that, and if they are a good person you might give grace if this person didn't manipulate and abuse you. Many relationships become even stronger after a breakup, because they know why they came back to one another.
Amen
@@alex_6911 With that being said, I am not a licensed therapist or counselor, neither am I Bob or Barbra the builder. Its called SELF-esteem. The individaul has to be willing to do the work. Individuals are not responsible for another persons being and existence and their past trauma due to the reason of dumping the dumpee. That expectation, patients and burden is too much to be placed on the person that was dumped. As humans we need to stop taking on that task. The dumpee has their own process and self recollection to go through after the break up.Thats too much work and in the end their will be no compensation and reciprocation
@@alex_6911 It depends on the context your taking about but I know what perspective I'm coming from.After a person dumps you and leave your life for what ever reason is not an indiviauls concern(dumpee) and should not be eithier. A person who values you will not leave you because they don't want to loose you to begin with.
@@alex_6911 It is not the responsibility and duty of a Human being to babysit an emotionally unavailable person. Doing so will destroy your virtue
No contact is either a negotiation or a permanent severing of souls..,. It’s sad. But I still believe it’s best after a breakup.
It has worked both ways for me.
"Dare them to find BETTER than you!"
Damn that a sick line, pimpin
Oh boy, I want him to find someone else. Repeat the bullsh I refused to tolerate anymore. (Theres no way he changed for the better with me)
Heres my story: 2 1/2 months ago there was a soft break up leading to a real break up 2 weeks later. I tried to get her back for 3 days straight, she became hostile so i decided to let her be, stumbled across no contact content and tried it out. We both reached out to each other so we spoke briefly once every 10ish days, only thing i did was apologize and tell her if she’s single years down the line and i am we should give it another shot. I’ve gotten over the breakup and am no longer in my feelings but then today she told me she still loved me and she tried to come over and have sex and cuddle but it wouldnt be healthy to see her rn so i said no. Take this as a sign to stay strong
If someone cheats on you YOU SHOULD NEVER WANT THEM BACK!! Once your bedroom is defiled you should loose ALL feelings for that person!! Yeah you had arguments because you had to stand your ground but the move of cheating is never the answer. Once this happens it’s over. It’s filthy. Nasty. Disgusting. Move on. The roles will reverse. The way you feel now they will receive Karma! Stay strong out here people. It’s real!!
I don’t want to spend any energy on making him regret. I just want to move on and make my peace. I have let him go. May he be at peace with his decision.
It's better to heal and break the soul tie and stop letting your EX spin the block. People do not deserve all of you and they do not need a 2nd chance. The EX coming back a 2nd time will be worse than the first time and you will be in a worse place and still have to heal when you should have moved on in the first place. Going back to them lets you know as a person you have a toxic pattern,
So true, I learned the hard way
Facts
But if the ex has a "roster", you will only be missed when it becomes your "TURN" again
I deleted my social media, I truly wish her the best. I'm not reaching out to her, it's hard when you have kids together, but she' hasn't acknowledged her behaviors or anything else. I'm good
How are you guys coparenting currently?
A woman will never account for her actions. Just let her miss you bro. But your ex is an ex for a reason. Remember that.
Going through the same situation as you right now…
My situation is the same 😢
Stay strong. U deserve better
She broke up with me about a year ago. Did no contact for a while, she never came back. Eventually I found someone new who makes me happy and now she wants to get back together and realizes that she made a huge mistake. We have a three year old together so it’s tough for me still.
what are you going to do
@@rashidarowe7882 I don’t know. For now staying with this girl. But to be honest I don’t know what the best move is. I guess I could add she immediately got into a new relationship and I guess that ended bad. I also worked on myself so much, I got a higher paying job, a side hustle, and bought a new truck.
@@rashidarowe7882 her life is also obviously much worse off
Do you still love her?
@@GinNBoost I do but she has always been a pain in the a- this new girl I’m with is so easy and agreeable
“Dare them to find someone better”, love that quote, Blessings!!
So many life lessons learned from the pain of mistakes from relationships but that is necessary to grow as an individual to become the person you were meant to become.
💯. Thanks for watching
The path of healing will be a painful yet rewarding journey, keep on the path and I am sure love will find you again.
This message that "your ex must be demoted so they'll think twice about breaking the bond you had again" from 13:53 to 17:18 was exactly what I needed to hear in my current situation. But it was nice to hear what life experience brought you to that insight via that lullaby voice you have. Good bedtime listening so it reaches the subconscious...
It took me some to realize that
You saved my mental state Brother thanks .
Lock in brother! You got this. And it’s a blessing to help you through this
Hi Hi, Coach! 👋 Only a narcissist won’t miss you. They have no regret, empathy, love and so many other vile traits. They discard you. Thanks for your candor.
That is true if your ex is a narcissist then yes they will probably just find new supply. Or contact you just to use and drain you. Definitely let those types of people go forever
So true they move on very fast. On to the next supply .
I feel so stupid i broke no contact because i got triggered by a rumor now she said not to contact her again.
@@rashidarowe7882so true while messing with your mind then texting his new supply😮
This video is so on time. I just got a breadcrumb text yesterday after 3 months. He said “hey how are you, sorry I’m just responding” the F!? I didn’t immediately reply. (Had the thinking, he’s not my priority!) I waited till the next morning to collect my thoughts. I said “ I don’t know what to say to you other than, it’s not ok” Sure enough, he has still not replied a day later.
The games.. I’m not here for it.
Sad truth is you wrote too much and showed you were still so vested. He Like feels he can have you back anytime. Gotta detached and stop caring so much.SMH .promise your right the games!
Heartbreak will cause you to make poor decisions. Once you come out on the other side you realize no contact and actually wanting the person back is crazy. I know many people who are watching are likely hoping their ex will come back. I say this with love, do you want someone back who didn’t pick you and thought they could do better? Most times people do not come back because they realized their errors, they come back because they can’t replace you. It’s not because you’re irreplaceable it’s because finding someone, anyone, that you connect with is hard. They circling the block because you’re as close as they can get, but they will continue to search while misleading you. And leave again.
Never give someone who didn’t see the value you in the first time a second chance. They didn’t just wake up and realized how much you meant. That second chance is self motivated
After trying so hard to make a 5 yr relationship work he didn’t think I would move on and kept bread crumbing me. I started talking to an old friend and he saw us together. Let’s just say he didn’t take that well. I never expected that to happen but realized it needed to happen and that way humbled that man.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
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An engineer who can communicate that’s great coach. You don’t know how rare you are
Thank you for opening up about your personal life, Coach. It makes you that much more real and relatable. I love your channel. Peace!!
I appreciate the feedback! Thanks for watching, and good luck on your journey
Never cheated. Never physically abused. Just thought I was husband of the year. She would post how much she was in love with me then, one bad argument, and she stated in 2 months that she had no more feelings for me and moved out. 13 years together. 2 beautiful boys together. She turns 36 this week. Mid-life crisis along with a new job making 6 figures, and she let it get to her head. I'm not perfect, but I am working on myself. No contact for a week so far. She texted today about some bills. I did not respond. Have to sell my house. She uprooted my life and my children's lives. I can not take her back if I wanted to.
Thank you so much for your honesty! You have helped me through some of the darkest days of my life. I remember being so lost after my break up but I am seeing such a bright future now on my terms. Once again, thank you so much!
❤
I exited out after she broke up with me. I tried the no contact but the only way for me to get through it was to completely cut off what was causing me pain. I wish her nothing but the best though.
So what happen? Did she come back
@@dingguite2014 shes back now calling once a week..but I'm not investing my time in it any longer
Coach, you smoother than KENTUCKY WHISKEY! God Bless you son.
Love all your content Mr B. I’m on a different level of my journey. I have been rebuilding my confidence and learning not to take other people’s actions towards personally. I’m making peace with the breakup and realizing I have a lot to offer only with the women that are on the same wavelength as I am. Not everybody deserves me and I don’t deserve just any woman. I am strictly focused on developing myself into a high value man and am detached from any and all possible outcomes. Simply put I don’t want to be with any woman who does not want to be with me no matter what my feelings towards her are.
Wow!!!! This one was good. I think it’s because I had the chance to hear your story. I miss my ex terribly though.
Im in a relationship for my ex for almost 5yrs, i tried everything to fix our relationship how many times, i did everything because i told him i love him but our last conversations makes me realized that its enough. He said he dont love me like before and he dont have plan for me. I accept it with calm. And i blocked him in all social media. 4days now with contact to him. I pray that God will heal me from my broken hearts🙏
Thank you coach the last 7 minutes of your video really spoke to me and made me self reflect. I made mistakes too with my ex. She did too. She still reaches out but I’ve also been reflecting on what I want in a relationship. Thanks for the great video. I really needed to hear that. ❤
My ex of 9 years kicked me out from our apartment 3 months ago, over a fight that was regular you could say. Nothing crazy happened. I went to my moms for the night and she never let me back in. She emailed ne separation papers. I treated her very well overall. She hid the cats and the stepdaughter. Just crazy and doesnt make sense.
Im guessing she has bpd after reseaeching this over the last many weeks. This was completely unfair & unjust because I am a good person and was on the lease. Im staying with my parents. The shock and trauma I went through was legit deep pain.
Why were you living with a woman
This honestly seems like intentional sabotage as an ez out. You may have dodged a bullet with her doing this. It's gonna be hard. But the universe did you solid by allowing this to happen. You'll be way happier in the future guaranteed 💯💪🏾
@@mrkeitt There is something definitely wrong with this ending because the cruelty involved should have no place for someone who took care of her and family for 9 years. How can you just close the door and that's it see ya? A week before this happened I had my brother over for some beers. I took him downstairs so he can cab it home and when I came back upstairs and went to lay down, she opened the door and started a fight saying " how dare you disrespect me in front of your brother? I said "What are you talking about?" She said " You gonna deny it then?"
I said "deny what?" And she said that I am gas lighting her. I told her this is the 3rd time she has caused a commotion after a Saturday evening having some drinks. I said I worked all week, the groceries are done, the bills are paid. The family and cats are fed, and she would talk over me and said I have an anger problem. She stonewalled me for 1 week and the day she kicked me out, I told her it isn't friendly for her to go that, and she said that she is not responsible for how I feel. That led to another argument and she went bizzerk and said she doesn't love me anymore. I went to my parents for the night and was never let back in.
I just went thru the same ,and have 8 year old Daughter together. She kick me out and was hooking with her ex Not even a week after she kick me out ! Man shit hurts . But I pray he steps up to the plate for the kids. She has a 12 year son also from a previous relationship. He calls me Dad ! I don't understand this Shit!!!
@David-nu6kw She either got another guy,or the baby daddy is coming back. I guarantee it
I like the way you talk and explain things..love it
Thanks for watching!
Yes i continue watching your videos sir.....but some scammers using your picture and asking money...
I love hearing your story and you as a man showing vulnerability. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
I appreciate the feedback, and thanks for watching!
My ex texted me yesterday and she was like it wasn’t my will to text you but I want to forward this important message to you but I told her to f*ck off i don’t need it and blocked her 😇😌
lol
Yes!😂😂😂
King!
good
Power to you she was probably bread crumbing to see if you were needy!!
He was crazy over me at first but as soon as I really liked him he ran away.
I was being really sweet to him and out of nowhere he says don’t ever call me or text me again
All I could say was OK
I guess there had to be signs leading up to this but I’m sure I was idealizing him and placing him on a pedestal he didn’t deserve
He will most likely eventually reach out but I refuse to call - beg - act needy - apologize
I know for a fact I am an extremely beautiful person inside and out - his loss
He's lost you remember that you are worthy of better 💯
Sounds like he loved the chase! My ex was the same way!
Glad you know that.🥰 I feel the same about me but its wasnt like that after he left. With love bombing phase damn it was a real demage for me. But glad we both think we are still beautiful. Indeed their loss.😁
Thank you so much Coach, I'm now on a fresh break up and you are really helping me on my mental health
Everyone understands energy amen
Thank you for sharing your experience with us coach 👌🏾. I pray I heal from all this. I have mixed emotions but I’m going to be okay.
Thank you for sharing at such a depth. So much credibility! Day 18 no contact.
Month 2 🎉
This man is a Model with a lot wise words.
Addendum:
This Video made me Listen to the Lost Boyz -Renée again...
Ya know coach, ya videos helped me cope with some of my hardest dayz in my 45 years, aint sayin god hasnt blessed my road with the most adventoures life a man could live, still some dayz i think of my 20 year long lastin love, of course still shedin tearz some dayz but i feel ya words coach you had them Tuff dayz and your wisdom helped a lot. You really an amazin human being.
For my shortys Mr cheeks
Lost Boyz 4life renee my love
A Ghetto love is the law that we live by....
This is also true when you are getting to know them, dating and build trust with a new person. I am an engaged anxious, I am an avoidant. I try to explain avoidants to others... This is a great story🔔
Bro went from Chuck E. Cheese job to 100k on youtube yesssir coach🙏🏽💯
Thank you for another video, i like videos where you actually talk about yourself and experiences. Ive been watching your videos since 2022 you have helped me a lot. My life is so much better I can truly say I have found myself and im content.
I started no contact 10 days ago.
She has rang 5 times and has left a nasty text towards me on monday morning. I did not react, stayed in no contact. She rang again last night twice on private number and I texted her an hour later saying "you wanted me to leave you alone and move on, so Im doing that. Take care."
I rang twice to see if I was blocked or not. To see if my messages went through. Turns out I'm blocked. So back to no contact.
4 and half year relationship.
Lord.. That is awful. Sounds like she's confused. Give her what she asked for, and don't cave.
More from the best relationship/break-up dynamics coach EVER! Great video. Thank you 🙏
When your ex leave u the other supply is going on roller coaster Frfr so many lies will come out there mouth😅😅😅
Looking good Coach Blac.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Love the stories you add in with these videos. You’ve been super helpful, as I’ve been going through a very tough break up and I’m very confused.
What if attraction is so much gone so that they will just not feel the loss because negative behaviours where just overweighting the positive ones?
I’ve learned to leave room for disappointment self love best love ❤
Than you so much for sharing, and for all your videos. I only found you recently, after a long period of no contact. It worked. My ex reached out 2 weeks ago and we have had a few brief exchanges ever since. I have been polite but have held back my usual energy. Your videos have helped me feel supported in doing so.
I was wondering if you’d consider doing more content on how to handle when they come back, knowing that you’re not THEIR rebound. My ex and I had a situationship rather than a long-term, committed relationship. He gave me mixed signals and ultimately slow faded me to pursue someone that did the same thing back to him. Got a taste of his own medicine. Needless to say, it didn’t work out. I’m under the impression it hit him pretty hard and it seems like he realizes what I had to offer is actually what he wanted in the first place. But how do I know that this is genuine and he’s not just trying to numb the pain of the other person not working out? And would making him work hard to get back together with me, like you describe here, be the test?
My ex after a month of break up he reached me out on WhatsApp, that hi, I hope you're fabulously well, I replied briefly, , hi am doing well , he said lovely, I didn't reply again it's now a week of silence I don't know what his intentions are
I love the share.,listening and typing. I'm grateful coach, thanks
They always feel bad and miss you once the seperation ellation phase ends. Which can last a decent amount of time depending on how the breakup went. If you begged and smothered them for weeks-months your chances of them feeling regret decrease drastically unfortunately. But you learn to never do that again in your next relationships.
A great way to get over an ex is to set a realistic financial goal and put all your focus onto that.
Hope everyone can find peace.
My ex we work together and what he does is try flirting with the other women.... they are not his type ... especially if you seen his kids mothers and what they looked like.... anyway I have moved on and loving myself again.... I guess he thinks I'm going to get jealous.... nope he can have any of them just shows me the real him😂😂
Coach we were married for 8 years, struggled all this time to be a good husband that I can be . Then fights arguments heated up so much, disrespect , discontent ego came between. Then one fine day she says I not obligated to stay married to you and we separated . God dumped. She is relefed very happy . Posting pictures of her being happy . We have one child . And now trying to keep up as good father. It's fresh . It hurts when someone you love says I don't want to grow old with you. But it is what it is . She is successful. Hardworking and individual focused in life. But as a wife , I still don't understand why? Whenever I go to drop my son at her place , the strong emotions come out so much I recall everything and hardly look into her face. Slowly moving forward. Step by step coach . Not easy at all.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
good video from a man's prospective.
Thanks for watching!
My breakup of a 15 year relationship was extremely bitter. She had cheated on me for years and I found out toward the end. Tried to make it work, but I broke it off and she then flipped it around and reverse discarded me heinously after I told her I regretted saying I wanted to end things. Told her she was dead to me and that she should never contact me again. Haven’t spoken in three months. I don’t want to get back with her, but I do want to forgive and receive forgiveness from her for my own healing. Will no contact work in this situation? She hasn’t spoken to her own family in over two years.
don’t do it. DO NOT DO IT. she has been using you for years. she doesn’t deserve your kindness, not even 1% of it.
My wife dumped me for other women..we are on separation time 2 years then apply for Divorce. I wish her big family and lots of money that what she wants money. I give her what she wants No contact over a year. Don’t care what she doing I concentrate on my future on my own opened business what going really well. After divorce I will be more open to proper relationships now Iam still healing I take my time with my emotions. Iam proud of myself i did that hard step I accept it she never loved me. One what I keep is do not see her anymore in my life. She got what she wished for.
Always so helpful ❤
I have children with her have gone NC outside essential texts from our children. It’s like she doesn’t care 😔 or notice.
I was in a shakey spot in life and dumped my girl. Things weren't going welI. Over the course of 7 month things improve. I see her at church and shes hot and cold. I invite her out and now she just got a new bf. A few weeks before she was single....
Feel like my heart is ripped out... its done... cant go back once shes been with someone else...
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
Great video coach as always ❤
You are so well spoken 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Absolutely 💯
so true we were both young and didnt know what a relationship needed. now we have been seperated it is my fault not listening. not being emotional validating and unappreciative. she felt worthless and it was my fault. having 3 children will burn you out. not that i didnt love her but my energy was with the kids and work instead of my wife and we both didnt have anymore to give. but could of been avoided if i wasnt blind but researching for myself i find my faults
My ex dumped me 3.5 months ago. Went no contact immediately. This Friday June 7th was supposed to be our wedding date. We both go to the same church and were ministry leaders until I stepped down after the breakup. She’s been living it up and happy-ish or at least creates the illusion of that. Found out she’s finally entering the depressed/missing us stage. I’ve been absentee since and have lost 75lbs, changing careers and fixing myself in every way… leveling up. Kind of curious if I shouldn’t appear again. I do miss her and definitely do love her, just have no idea what to do. I know I should probably just move on but my heart won’t let me.
I feel your pain buddy
Appear like superman. She will notice it for sure
I am in the same situation, 2 mths but we are married, I just do not know how to deal with this... I write, I talk yet I can not find a solution to the hurt and pain... I am doing my best with the NC... it is hard, very hard...😢
😪 mine was supposed to be June 8th
Gave a ex a second chance who left me for another woman, guess what? I found out his cheating again with one of his old ex 😢. He try to explain, i didn't want to hear a thing. I block him in my all social media, I love myself to much, i will never put myself in that position again. His dead to me, i dont even want to how is doing in life. His no longer my problem
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
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How should I address the fear and anxiety of them never coming back to me?
Does this apply when they moved on quick to an another relationship?
Mine dipped out of a 8 year marriage after i bought her a mommy makeover. Since eighteen, she's been a mother and a wife. She never got to live her twenties. At 38 She sacrificed me to go play.
Mourned her departure for 1 month. Now I am in a great place and currently dating. Looking back, I can see she was not good for me.
Rebound...
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING AND CARING.
Thank u coach for helping me through this tough time I really appreciate u
Thanks!
damn in his black suit era. thanks for the wisdom king
Coach she came back 2 days ago saying she missed me etc then proceeded to do the same things I had a problem with now we aren’t talking again 💀
Thank you for this
Coach been in NC for 63 days. My ex was always private with social media. I recently discovered she changed to public. I feel like shes starting to possibly miss me but wants to bait me with charged emotions to reach out. Im staying the course but am I in the ballpark?
10 year relationship and 3 children. She dumped me 5 month's ago. The guy she's seeing in such a downgrade 😂. She still wants to hangout and be friends. NOPE! She's a narcissist and an avoidant 💀
There are so many men in these comments that are NOT being honest about why their ex went no contact and are using this man platform to Hoover and manipulate women back into their lives or are just in denial af and are playing victim. The whole idea is just SICK. Shame on y’all!
What if your ex keeps coming back eventually not getting over the past and doesn’t want you back??
Great video thank you
Mines came to visit me today
Hi can you make video about GHOSTING ? please 🙏
I am going on 4 and a half weeks of no contact. This is the second time he walked away
I am devastated. He walked away the first time in feb spent 7 weeks no contact then reached out i took him back only a month later he did it again. What is wrong with him
I am just scared of being alone 😢
It will be almost 3 months and I haven't seen a sign that she missed me. She only celebrated my birthday and is still following on instagram. Idk man most of the time our realtionship is good and we loved each other very much. She just told me ''The frequency of our fights increased'' and ''i am very frustrated and exhausted. I tried too much'' etc etc. I am still on no contact but what should I do? We dated for like 1.5 years nearly.
My ex is five months pregnant and she is in a rebound relationship that ain't helping her and ask for my help but constantly puts me down and hurts me and I want to do for my child but it's hard
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
He made his social media private days after I made mine private. Is he testing me? Almost 1 month of no contact.
He may do that to either not have you see what he’s got going on
He’s hurt and wants distance for a bit
Doesn’t want to see what you may be doing
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 our last convo was a fight over text and im still blocked since then. i think hes trying to hurt me back and provoke me to beg like ive done in the past to unblock me but ive been pretty good at no contact now.
i’m early this time 😂😂
Even when they monkey branched and left you for another man after 11 years and 2 kids?
Mines is trying to get my attention and always been shots my post or pics
What if they say ‘I hate u”
Dont contact me again’
would NC work?
I wish I could believe that Coach but ok
What will happen if the dumper is taking therapy with a breakup couch and you go no contact ?
Right!
Thank you for your videos. I would like to request a video on how to navigate when your ex monkey branches to a coworker. Rushes the relationship with a marriage ceremony (not legal), buys a house with the woman, and now has had a baby. We were together 21 years with kids, and now he has been with her 3 years that I know of and has done all of this plus at one time was taking her on great vacations that we never went on. What usually happens on those rushed relationships, especially once a baby comes along? Does it prolong the rebound? I also realize that some rebounds/monkey branches work out for the long term.
Right off the bat I can tell she was too old for you. Same age makes her fussier. She needed to look up to you as a dominant figure, regardless of your career. She would have defaulted to obedience if she was younger than you. She would have started at the demoted state without you even trying.
What does it mean when they follow you on social medias because she just follow me last night
He broke up with me ain't say nothing until I asked he said I thought I told u I ain't know what to say at the time so I hung up then later I text him my thought bout it left it alone but we do share a child together but he's starting to breadcrumbs me because he always talking bout the good times did I still have a picture took wen we was friends I told him know I erased it but it's on fb & ask me if i wanna go to Cleveland browns game with him in August
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
Which fraternity brother?