The Power of Embracing Rejection | Farrah Smith | TEDxGainesville
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- Farrah states that one of the keys to success is being prepared for rejection. She says it's the people who recognize and accept that rejection is simply part of the process that cultivate the mindset for resilience and reach their full potential. Farrah encourages us to view each rejection as redirection to something even better. Farrah Smith has spent a decade working for Sea Shepherd Conservation Society, one of the top ocean conservation organizations in the world. Farrah received her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and Sociology from UCLA and is a proud alumnus of Brendon Burchard's world-renowned High-Performance Coaching Academy. She is also a certified Life Coach and CIJ Insight for Life Instructor. Farrah regularly contributes to Entrepreneur.com as a member of the Entrepreneur Leadership Network, and her advice on personal and professional development has also been featured on Forbes. She founded Farrah Smith Coaching as part of her passion and commitment to empowering teens and young adults in leading happier, more intentional, productive, and purposeful lives. Farrah was named one of the Top 10 Life Coaches That Can Elevate Your Life in 2021 by Yahoo Finance. Farrah has spent a decade working for Sea Shepherd Conservation Society, one of the top ocean conservation organizations in the world. Farrah received her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and Sociology from UCLA and is a proud alumnus of Brendon Burchard's world-renowned High-Performance Coaching Academy. She is also a certified Life Coach and CIJ Insight for Life Instructor. Farrah regularly contributes to Entrepreneur.com as a member of the Entrepreneur Leadership Network, and her advice on personal and professional development has also been featured on Forbes. She founded Farrah Smith Coaching as part of her passion and commitment to empowering teens and young adults in leading happier, more intentional, productive, and purposeful lives. Farrah was named one of the Top 10 Life Coaches That Can Elevate Your Life in 2021 by Yahoo Finance. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Algorithm recommended this somehow, and I am grateful.
I’m glad you liked it!
Best Ted x I've seen.Sounds like she had a great dad.
I've been rejected by women all my life. I'm now 75. Rejection saps confidence, induces resentment, jealousy, bitterness, low self esteem - and loneliness. It affects every aspect of one's life including working life - as it did in my case. I feel worthless. For me it's been the worst thing in my life - and I've had cancer!
I really needed this today. Thank you so much. I did not know details of Emmy lous romantic love, her music still blessed my life. I will be music. And stop depending on what become the painful immediate love betrayals in my life - for validation to go on. God is puting breath in me, there must still be a reason he sees. But to my credit, it’s hard find purpose when love is missing and your bucket (receiving) at older ages, is still empty from being kicked over. Thank you for these words.
Love this message!! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you, Jamie! I am glad you liked it.
Thanks for sharing your story, and I appreciate your work with Sea Shepherd !
Thank you! I am glad you liked it. I appreciate your passion for Sea Shepherd too!
It’s like I needed to hear this.
“Obviously, I’m not 20”
You don’t look far off, you like happy and healthy in fact.
Tells me I’ve been doing this ALL wrong and need to change some things, thank you for sharing this.
The Moth and TED Talks have been a center point of my positivity lately.
Thongs change scent from one end to the other.
Knowledge is power.
God bless
She had an amazing father 💗
I love your work and story! Great message and thank you for sharing!
Thank you, Jennifer. I am glad you liked it!
@@farrahesmiththank you for this.. wow I needed this. I been so down on my self for similar reasons. ❤thank you soooo much .
Her timeline is bonkers. Riding in a car with Bobby Kennedy and her boss? She would have to be in her 70s.
Great talk! Thank you!
Great story.
Thank you, Roger!
I never thought of this strategy to adopt except for going to counselling. I would rather practice radical acceptance on what others think of me right now. That is how I define embracing rejection for myself. Which is not to say that I would reject someone for rejecting me altogether when they in turn instead need me the most. Sure helped save time while I was doing door to door selling too. Helped me avoid getting hurt in a few confrontations too.
Wow, amazing! Your story of your dadmade me cry, but i really hope i would say that to my son too, besp proud if yourself, u'm sure your dad is enormous proud
Thank you so much!!
@@farrahesmithyour talk made me cry! You’re an amazing speaker!
Thats powerful
Thank you!
Choosing courage, passion and determination over fear, doubt and insecurity. Stop attaching self worth to the outcome of events. Struggle with mental health and you need professional help along the way don’t ever feel bad about that. Change your relationship with rejection. Excellent message Farrah, thank you. P.S. if you can do a video with a similar message for kids it could be life changing.
So good Farrah
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Thank you!
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Amsterdam! 🤪😻 I probably ran into you.
I didn't understand the part about Amsterdam background check. What was that about?
I believe she smoked weed
Eight minutes into it and finally she gets to the point...
It’s called build up…kinda how good stories tend to go.
Inherently i have always realize the power of harnessing the fuel that comes with rejection just never really labeled it. I think sometime I subconsciously seek it , damn im so twisted. But, im n that state now n ima kinda glad because i know it fuels me. Im mad but im not stressed. Lol 😈
Well, ain’t work for me with ADHD raised by covet narcissists mother. And I was the scapegoat in the house. 😑
We all have those “was was” stories from our past. Many of us could write at least one book. Leave those wases in the past. Seek therapy if you must. Find your purpose then give it away. God Bless PS Don’t let anyone take your purpose away from you.
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This is a very beautiful lady and smart and strong
Thank you, Robert!
I'm sure she's had a lot of rejection 😕
Did you even watch it?
Drinking problem we ran.out lol
And
What’s up with women not taking showers…? I don’t even do that and I’m a man
Second, I guess!
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Oooo
Talk about rejection, I reject your whole story.
Tedx rejection
Third, i guess%
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5th
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That voice& message is the new green of pestilence,,,,who needs round up when she could just talk to weeds terrorists, or anything else that lives ,/,,barbie plastic is more human
Fourth
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This girl has never experienced true rejection or abuse 😅
Getting rejected by people, colleges and jobs count. She never claimed that she experienced abuse. Rejection and abuse are different things.
First? I guess
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How selfish and cruel one could be to sell the story of abandoning her father at the time of need as “inspirational” story? And it is so sad most of comments found it inspirational.
Don’t normalize such stupidity!
There is no power in “embracing rejection”. It’s just depressing overall and shows how unwanted you are by women or men, wether it’s because of your looks, money, or social status. Some people have it all, and some have nothing at all no matter what they do.
Yep, sounds like a buzzfeed title attempting to use Mr. Miyaga/Steven Stegall martial arts mental gymnastics to change your outlook on life from one tedxtalk. I would recommend reading The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. You might also just look up the actual lecture as I believe it is on TH-cam.
You are obviously a leftist. Materialism and determinism?? Is that your religion?
I feel bad for you
That attitude is not going to take you far.
@@thejessifar4619 Doesn’t matter, SHTF will happen soon anyway, hope you’ve been preparing for what’s to come soon 🤷🏻♂️
Yeah…..
Sorry but men suffer usually WAY worse.
poor little rich girl problems.
Problems are problems, no matter who you are. Rejection and loss (especially of her dad) are still worth grieving.
Ngl this entire Ted talk feels like a passive aggressive flex instead of actual useful info and advice
Rejection? Her looks alone would open a lot of doors.
Embrace this 👎
She probably will because she knows your opinion of her doesn’t really matter.
Everybody has a story to tell and I don’t think hers is all that special. Also, Bobby Kennedy Jr. went from doing fantastic and important environment saving work to being an anti-vax crack pot and conspiracy theorist. He writes crazy stuff on a subject on which he has zero expertise, which is always sad to see. I wouldn’t count chauffeuring him around as a great moment in anyone’s career.