The Power of Embracing Rejection | Farrah Smith | TEDxGainesville

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  • @Timefairyjina
    @Timefairyjina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Algorithm recommended this somehow, and I am grateful.

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m glad you liked it!

  • @chrisegnatz3668
    @chrisegnatz3668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best Ted x I've seen.Sounds like she had a great dad.

  • @brandahmessenger433
    @brandahmessenger433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really needed this today. Thank you so much. I did not know details of Emmy lous romantic love, her music still blessed my life. I will be music. And stop depending on what become the painful immediate love betrayals in my life - for validation to go on. God is puting breath in me, there must still be a reason he sees. But to my credit, it’s hard find purpose when love is missing and your bucket (receiving) at older ages, is still empty from being kicked over. Thank you for these words.

  • @DasMoose9001
    @DasMoose9001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s like I needed to hear this.
    “Obviously, I’m not 20”
    You don’t look far off, you like happy and healthy in fact.
    Tells me I’ve been doing this ALL wrong and need to change some things, thank you for sharing this.
    The Moth and TED Talks have been a center point of my positivity lately.

  • @ironmurs6903
    @ironmurs6903 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She had an amazing father 💗

  • @outlaw565
    @outlaw565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for sharing your story, and I appreciate your work with Sea Shepherd !

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I am glad you liked it. I appreciate your passion for Sea Shepherd too!

  • @ReverendBrown.
    @ReverendBrown. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thongs change scent from one end to the other.
    Knowledge is power.
    God bless

  • @jamienease6024
    @jamienease6024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this message!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Jamie! I am glad you liked it.

  • @patriciac.1546
    @patriciac.1546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Choosing courage, passion and determination over fear, doubt and insecurity. Stop attaching self worth to the outcome of events. Struggle with mental health and you need professional help along the way don’t ever feel bad about that. Change your relationship with rejection. Excellent message Farrah, thank you. P.S. if you can do a video with a similar message for kids it could be life changing.

  • @jenniferstrickler3944
    @jenniferstrickler3944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your work and story! Great message and thank you for sharing!

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Jennifer. I am glad you liked it!

    • @DrizzyDre2324
      @DrizzyDre2324 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@farrahesmiththank you for this.. wow I needed this. I been so down on my self for similar reasons. ❤thank you soooo much .

  • @shelleytheman2215
    @shelleytheman2215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great talk! Thank you!

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I never thought of this strategy to adopt except for going to counselling. I would rather practice radical acceptance on what others think of me right now. That is how I define embracing rejection for myself. Which is not to say that I would reject someone for rejecting me altogether when they in turn instead need me the most. Sure helped save time while I was doing door to door selling too. Helped me avoid getting hurt in a few confrontations too.

  • @Pebblesmas
    @Pebblesmas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, amazing! Your story of your dadmade me cry, but i really hope i would say that to my son too, besp proud if yourself, u'm sure your dad is enormous proud

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

    • @shelleytheman2215
      @shelleytheman2215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@farrahesmithyour talk made me cry! You’re an amazing speaker!

  • @kenthomas1535
    @kenthomas1535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eight minutes into it and finally she gets to the point...

    • @ironmurs6903
      @ironmurs6903 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s called build up…kinda how good stories tend to go.

  • @Bronsluv
    @Bronsluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her timeline is bonkers. Riding in a car with Bobby Kennedy and her boss? She would have to be in her 70s.

  • @ashmeadali
    @ashmeadali ปีที่แล้ว

    Build spiritual confidence the easy way. Sing HU everyday. The free HU app shows how.

  • @rodgeraarons8997
    @rodgeraarons8997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great story.

  • @amadelia77
    @amadelia77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good Farrah

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't understand the part about Amsterdam background check. What was that about?

  • @robert767
    @robert767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very beautiful lady and smart and strong

    • @farrahesmith
      @farrahesmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Robert!

  • @jackcastro7259
    @jackcastro7259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thats powerful

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm sure she's had a lot of rejection 😕

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amsterdam! 🤪😻 I probably ran into you.

  • @ProvenHueMan
    @ProvenHueMan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Inherently i have always realize the power of harnessing the fuel that comes with rejection just never really labeled it. I think sometime I subconsciously seek it , damn im so twisted. But, im n that state now n ima kinda glad because i know it fuels me. Im mad but im not stressed. Lol 😈

  • @evolution686us
    @evolution686us 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well, ain’t work for me with ADHD raised by covet narcissists mother. And I was the scapegoat in the house. 😑

    • @apples.oranges
      @apples.oranges 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We all have those “was was” stories from our past. Many of us could write at least one book. Leave those wases in the past. Seek therapy if you must. Find your purpose then give it away. God Bless PS Don’t let anyone take your purpose away from you.

  • @Bronsluv
    @Bronsluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Talk about rejection, I reject your whole story.

  • @ghostsofwargow2511
    @ghostsofwargow2511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    There is no power in “embracing rejection”. It’s just depressing overall and shows how unwanted you are by women or men, wether it’s because of your looks, money, or social status. Some people have it all, and some have nothing at all no matter what they do.

    • @WD-zk6fg
      @WD-zk6fg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep, sounds like a buzzfeed title attempting to use Mr. Miyaga/Steven Stegall martial arts mental gymnastics to change your outlook on life from one tedxtalk. I would recommend reading The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. You might also just look up the actual lecture as I believe it is on TH-cam.

    • @alexlarkins4218
      @alexlarkins4218 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are obviously a leftist. Materialism and determinism?? Is that your religion?

    • @102ghostbuster
      @102ghostbuster ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel bad for you

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That attitude is not going to take you far.

    • @ghostsofwargow2511
      @ghostsofwargow2511 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thejessifar4619 Doesn’t matter, SHTF will happen soon anyway, hope you’ve been preparing for what’s to come soon 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @rogerbeaird3320
    @rogerbeaird3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drinking problem we ran.out lol

  • @ishlight3772
    @ishlight3772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah…..
    Sorry but men suffer usually WAY worse.

  • @zuluboy4056
    @zuluboy4056 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s up with women not taking showers…? I don’t even do that and I’m a man

  • @calebchristopher9283
    @calebchristopher9283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This girl has never experienced true rejection or abuse 😅

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Getting rejected by people, colleges and jobs count. She never claimed that she experienced abuse. Rejection and abuse are different things.

  • @rocketta.chique5761
    @rocketta.chique5761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ngl this entire Ted talk feels like a passive aggressive flex instead of actual useful info and advice

  • @mikishwagg
    @mikishwagg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Second, I guess!

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @jumakhanrahyab6666
    @jumakhanrahyab6666 ปีที่แล้ว

    How selfish and cruel one could be to sell the story of abandoning her father at the time of need as “inspirational” story? And it is so sad most of comments found it inspirational.
    Don’t normalize such stupidity!

  • @johnr5252
    @johnr5252 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rejection? Her looks alone would open a lot of doors.

  • @chrisskinner6291
    @chrisskinner6291 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And

  • @rogerbeaird3320
    @rogerbeaird3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oooo

  • @petercsigo3314
    @petercsigo3314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Embrace this 👎

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She probably will because she knows your opinion of her doesn’t really matter.

  • @bibletriviaUSA
    @bibletriviaUSA 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tedx rejection

  • @MichaelBrown-zp1sf
    @MichaelBrown-zp1sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    poor little rich girl problems.

    • @thejessifar4619
      @thejessifar4619 ปีที่แล้ว

      Problems are problems, no matter who you are. Rejection and loss (especially of her dad) are still worth grieving.

  • @Dr.TJ1
    @Dr.TJ1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everybody has a story to tell and I don’t think hers is all that special. Also, Bobby Kennedy Jr. went from doing fantastic and important environment saving work to being an anti-vax crack pot and conspiracy theorist. He writes crazy stuff on a subject on which he has zero expertise, which is always sad to see. I wouldn’t count chauffeuring him around as a great moment in anyone’s career.

  • @damianosalaris6080
    @damianosalaris6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fourth

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @yohannesnurga4887
    @yohannesnurga4887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5th

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @jarnoboumaa
    @jarnoboumaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First? I guess

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @DREDIRECTS
    @DREDIRECTS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Third, i guess%

    • @tedxtaiks2899
      @tedxtaiks2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Message me on WhatsApp*
      *dial Area code 4106354182* ❤️

  • @nomuddywater5978
    @nomuddywater5978 ปีที่แล้ว

    That voice& message is the new green of pestilence,,,,who needs round up when she could just talk to weeds terrorists, or anything else that lives ,/,,barbie plastic is more human