The Art of Speaking Femininely! *life changing*
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 มิ.ย. 2024
- #feminineenergy #lostfemaleeducation
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Chapters:
Intro - 0:00-2:58
False stereotypes - 2:59-4:09
Common inelegant speech mistakes - 4:10-6:45
Present, gentle tone - 6:46-9:53
Tactful expression - 9:54-14:38
Unhurried cadence - 14:39-16:02
Adaptability - 16:03-16:52
Positive reinforcement - 16:53-17:36
Responsive listening - 17:37-19:48
How to ask for something - 19:49-21:45
Saying "No" & Boundaries - 21:46-24:00
10 Feminine Speech-Swaps - 24:01-24:56
Outro - 24:47-25:34
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Hello everyone, welcome to my channel! I'm Jasmyne Theodora, I'm an Orthodox Christian and I make content about the art of femininity (from a virtuous, Godly perspective), lost female education and faith. Please subscribe if you enjoy my content and thank you so much for watching.
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Background? Bachelor's degree in psychology
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(if you see this, comment an unpopular opinion of yours!) - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Beautiful ❤
OMGG hii!!
Means so much coming from you 🥹
So glad to see two of my favorite femininity channels supporting each other! ❤️
Alexandra!!! 😭💖
I would LOVE to see a collaboration between you two! Both of you have an incredible amount of depth and rare wisdom in your content.
What helps me with “um” and “like” is slowing down when I speak. Gives me a chance to pause and think about what I’m trying to say
I love this! I’m in elegance school and these things are all so enriching & aiding in my growth & development as a lady 💖💓
Excellent!
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I truly want to work on being more feminine and elegant. Thank you so much. I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m Catholic and I love my Otho sisters and brothers!
Another awesome video! Thank you :)
One of my go to's when someone offers me something and I decline, "I don't care for 'blank', but thank you for offering." I find it to be the nicest way to say you don't like something while still being polite without having to oblidge the other person by taking the item.
Love that!
wow ...i.think i need to learn more on the art of speaking femininely....
This comes at the right time, I hope to speak softly, especially removing the fluff words.
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Totally relate to the idea that finding God leads you to celebrating your femininity and therefore fully embracing its core characteristics and finding meaning through it ❤️ Thank you for the video
Awesome. Thanks for watching!!
Your content is so important. Thank you for teaching me what society tries to erase from womens minds.
🩷🙏 love to hear this!
This video provides great tools for refining feminine speech 🌸! I wish someone gave me this advice when I was younger. I used to be insecure regarding my low pitch and slower speaking pace, thinking it wasn't feminine enough. It took me years to appreciate my natural pitch. Speaking slowly allows me to articulate my thoughts more clearly before speaking and not stumble. I've received sincere compliments on the gentle and calm tone of my voice, which always warms my heart ♥️ . Since embracing Christianity, I've become even more intentional about my speech when interacting with others. ✝️💕
Thank you for this edifying message!
The type of communication you're showing is the type of person that has purpose, is living in the present (Orthodox Christian constant strive) and is a strong, compassionate woman.
I just finished sewing my veil last night. It's my white ine for Divine Liturgy and Orthos. The other colors I'll wear for during the week and Vespers.
I appreciate your style so very much. You're lovely. Your insight and encouragement is beautiful.
I'm glad to see that I'm still subscribed also💙🇬🇷☦
Thank you do much!! And yes, glad to see you’re still subscribed ☺️
So much**
Absolutely, addressing inner change as a woman of God instead of just as a "good person" or something similar, has been game changing for me too. Gave me more purpose, guidance and determination...becoming a better woman has also made me into a better person, better believer etc. but the focus on the feminine aspect and my pride as a daughter of the Most High really helped me.
Wow I've seriously been thinking about this topic for a few weeks and how I just don't know how to go about it! Thank you!
Hope it was helpful! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment.
I was nervous about having to implement these tips, but I found that a lot these habits I already have thanks to working in a retail pharmacy. Working in the service industry has done so much for my feminine speech!
Whenever i say i love you or complimenting my partner, i realise that i say it super cheery, cutesy, and playful. I didnt even realise i did that until now
The examples at the end of the video were great! They highlight as well that speaking maturely often aligns with speaking elegantly.
Glad they were helpful! Thank you for commenting!
I appreciate the way you speak. A lot of information is gathered in a short time. It's almost like a crash course.
Exactly. My voice: it is profoundly deep and warm. Feminine. More motherly. To communicate with a high pitch voice does not flater me.
That’s what I’m noticed about the younger generation. How they speak is brusque, not classy. But there are those who show the level of education with the way they express themselves, their vocabulary.
Your way of making videos has greatly inspired me for when I start my own channel!
Your structure is so effective. You speak very clearly and all your points have a clear connection to your main thesis. As a visual learner, it especially helps that you write the sub-subject that you’re speaking about, in the left corner - and keep it there ‘til you’re done! It really adds clarity and facilitates understanding.
I am also incredibly inspired by your setup and presentation. They really add to the feminine vibe and beauty in your videos. They are an external showcasing - the fruit - of the femininity you teach about in your videos.
I actually enjoy it when you speak a little quickly at random times because it shows your excitement lol.
I understand your point and the importance of speaking slowly though.
Thank you for taking the time to put this video together. Its amazing. I listened twice over. Have a blessed week ahead 💖
Ahhh thank you so much!! And I’m so glad it resonated with you. 🩷🩷
I looooove all your videos! So refreshing! This is so useful!
Oh I definitely needed this one! God bless you!💕
So grateful I found your channel! ❤
The disarming part was so powerful ❤
Im glad and excited you did a video about this! I feel very drawn to feminine communication lately, and I'm learning about it, practicing it! I loved to find you were going to post this video🥹.
I'm at the start of video😄 thanks!💜
Edith: Loving the funny expressions and voice tone examples😂💜
Hope you find it valuable!
@@JasmyneTheodora yes! I love it Jasmyne, so helpful! we are blessed that you share all this feminine wisdom for free with us!🥹💜
I love how well researched and practical your videos are 💕
Yes I totally agree with what you are saying about being more refined as you connect your growth with your femininity
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I loveeee. I been struggling going from a hard character woman to a more soft woman. You help a lot
So thankful for the valuable information in this video! Thoughtful communication is so important 👏🏼 can't wait to put these into practice.
You seem very mature and a respectful person, i love how u care about others ❤
I loved this video. So much useful and needed knowledge. Realized that I’ve lately and even just earlier today handled situations quite improperly. I’ll definitely try to start changing my demeanor from now on because what you describe sounds so fruitful and much more beautiful!
I'm so happy I found this amazing channel❤
These are all very useful & sound advice. Thank you WOG. Have a Blessed Sunday 🙏🏾.
Thank YOU for watching!! 🩷🩷
Thank you ❤❤ I’m a little hard around the edges with speech and listening sometimes. I appreciate the tips on speaking more softly and allowing others to finish out their thoughts without interrupting.
You are literally a breath of fresh air ! It's makes comprehension effortless. I can't wait to articulate this new communication style into my vocabulary 😊
I'm so happy I found this channel❤
Thank you! I really enjoyed this video🤍⛅️
Thank you for putting the saying swaps that really helped. I have been working on talking softer as well and this is so very helpful.
Glad it was helpful!
Loveee these self building videos❤
Love it. Thank you for sharing this 🤍
The content in this video is gold ❤
Love this, so much great advice for being a good human and I really liked the swaps at the end. Nice touch!
Glad you liked it!!
This is actually one of my favorite videos that you've created. Thank you so much! I'll definitely try my hardest to apply this to my daily life.
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loved the vid and I'll start using it to my benefit.🥰
This is a really good one, thank you so much! This is something I really need to work on. I love all your videos!
Thank you very much. Glad you found it helpful!
So worth to watch!!!
I was driving home from work today and thinking to myself that I wanted to begin to speak in a more feminine way. Judging by others reactions when in disagreement, I feel that I may come off too abrasive at times! This video was perfect, totally made for me! I appreciate you❣️
Your povs are so good all of these qualities are in my friend I appreciate how humbly you speak love to listen you
Very good !! Love the voice inflection and facial expression and tones highly entertaining!
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I love how many people are talking about wanting to improve themselves in these comments, especially those of you who are realizing how your words have affected others. I’m going through the same thing, as a teacher with a really challenging class! Seeing you ladies acknowledge it and choose to work on it is so inspiring and encouraging.
I love your content so much. God has really used you to bless me on my journey to being my authentic feminine self.
You speak so well I am inspired to speak better when I hear you videos ❤
Wow, thank you
i love this girl she’s dropping what noone was thought in school
Thank you so much 🩷🩷
Thank you so much for another wonderful video. It has truly been a blessing to watch your content, and I love your message. God bless you 🙏
Thank you soooo much for your support!
I love these videos ❤they helped me a lot
Thanks for making this, it was very helpful.
Happy to hear that 🩷🩷
This is an amazing video Jasmyne! ( I see your psychology side in this video :)) Speaking well is something I really need to work on.
Thank you so much for your support, Marianna! It doesn’t go unnoticed in the slightest.
An awesome video! Thank you ❤😊
Love this!!! ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this! I think I usually have quite a feminine voice and do these things already but hearing them explained helps bring things full circle! Plus I do that back of the throat voice strainy thing after I’ve been talking for awhile and get lazy and I needed this reminder LOL
Btw you look glowy and gorgeous and I love this outfit piece! 💗🫶🏽
I thought before that when my period starts, and I have a job that makes money and am a mom that I would be a woman. Woah, this goes in depth.
I feel like I have sub consciously prayed to God “Lord, I wanna be a woman.”
And I got your channel!
I'm so glad you made this video. Being nore ladylike is how i stumbled upon your channel last year and speaking softly was one of my goals. I gave uo to focus more kn ny relationship with God, but I'm glad you made this video 😊
I get a mot of complains about hiw loud i am
Hope it helps 🩷🩷 God bless!!
When you speak of times the question that comes to me is
What do you think mouthing I love you with no tone at all means. This just made me analyze what is going in the silence.
Thank you sister for another great video 🤍💗
Wonderful video! Could you maybe make a video about helping your partner through a rough patch and help him become less stressed and be his peace?
Thank you again for all the knowledge you spread, I have learned a lot from your videos!
Yayy🎉
Maybe an "Art of grace" video coming soon 😊
For your patience, I will dedicate the video to you when I make it haha 😃
@@JasmyneTheodora thank u sooo much🙏😊
Thank you so much for this video.
It's my pleasure
Loveeeeeee this information and your spirit! Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤
Thank you so much!!
Thank you!❤ heading to make some notes)
This is very informative and useful. Thank you.
This was great❤
You are so appreciated. thanking for sharing
You are so welcome!
This is a very helpful video. Thank you!
I'm so glad!
I love this video so much! It’s so helpful and while I’m much better with my speech I still struggle with speaking very quickly. My grandma used to call me motor mouth when I was a child. 😂 I also still struggle to manage my tone when speaking because while I’m speaking tactfully it doesn’t really help when I’m saying it in a negative tone like when I feel upset for example.
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks! I am working on having more feminine tone. I feel like it’s a defense mechanism to not be soft
Thanks for commenting, Monique!
Thank you for being you!🤍
I love this video. I also struggle with a hurried cadence that I am working on. It's definitely exacerbated by increased stress/ anxiety lol
Same! 😂
I enjoyed this lesson! Thanks so much
Glad you enjoyed it!
I find this video really useful!
It seems so strange that you have to teach people just some basic etiquette manners nowadays, I feel the same way, I was taught by my parents that it doesn’t hurt to say “thank you” or “pardon me” etc, and it’s so deep into my mind that I just really say it automatically😅 it would be great if more people could talk politely.
As for your speech, it was surprising to know that you struggle with smth honestly, I always admire how gracefully you can deliver you thoughts and it also inspires me to check the way I speak and add more softness and femininity 🌸
Whatever camera and lighting you’re using for this one is my favorite love you
Good to know!! Thank you ☺️
Thank you 💕 . I really struggle with this.
Hope it helps!!
Thank you, nice video! I do agree that you talk very fast which can be challenging for us who dont have english as native language. I will try to play your video with the speed down. 🤗💕
Good job with your videos, keep on!
I absolutely enjoyed watching to this video. One thing that kept coming up for me is how the people you're surrounded with affect your energy including the way you speak. My current roommate is known for speaking abrasively and sometimes people say it's disrespectful. But as her roommate, I've come to see her in different ways. She's actually a nice person but her speech suggests otherwise. When we first became roommates, I was so perplexed that someone spoke to me in that manner. Usually I don't like conflict but I found myself having the need to protect myself and stand up for myself. I'm sad to say that this has affected my general style of communication. I think I'm starting to have a similar communication style to her's(I pick up mannerisms quickly). I'm wondering how I can cultivate a feminine way of speaking when I'm surrounded by someone who gets on my nerves almost everyday.
My other friends have suggested that I change rooms but I don't want to do that because A. It would be hectic moving in the middle of the semester and B. I think there are benefits to living with someone who's quite different from you. You get to learn more about yourself and grow.
Anyway, we've got a few months left together in this room and I'd like them to be harmonious. How do I help facilitate that with how I speak in the face of conflict?
P.s I'm Cognizant of the fact that people from different cultures speak differently. This might be the case for my Liberian roommate. I should also add that we're both international students.
Love this thank you
You are so welcome!
I love this , watching from Nigeria
This will help me communicate better
Thank you so much Sis
Glad it was helpful!
What a great video! Thank you :)
Absolutely!!
Lovely content! ❤
Thank you!
Small comment for referencing!
Thank you very much, it's a subject I have a lot of trouble with...
I lack examples and education on how to express myself and as a result I have bad habits and there are certain logical rules that I don't know well...
Thanks again :)
This is amazing! I'm currently an 18 year old girl who's struggling of how blunt I am with my wordings and sentences that even my Mom see it sometimes. As I watch some of your videos, it inspires me to get into my feminine side which I evidently have when I was younger that I kinda lost as I grow older. Thank you so much for your vids, I really do want to become more feminine physically, mentally, emotionally, and through the way I act and treat others. Have a blessed day(. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) 🫶
Thank you so much for your support! God bless!
Thank you so much your, an inspiration your videos are helping me become a better woman each day ❤️ 🙏💕 may God bless you 😊
So happy to hear that. Thank you so much. God bless 🩷🩷🩷
Thank you for this video. I was trying to tell my husband about something I was reading but I was having trouble finding the words after I was done he told me wow you just said like about 100 times. Lol he was blunt but then apologized and asked me to tell him again. I realized hard it was and what a habit it is for me to say like when I’m not sure how to convey something.
Great video as usual
Thank you soooo much!!
my voice just gets so deep
sometimes without me noticing😭
thank you ❤
Thank you so much 😊
This is hard for me! The one issue I have is that I'm very sarcastic and blunt with those I've grown comfortable with so it is hard to sound more feminine while joking. I have filtered my speech a lot more but still a work in progress!
I have no issue when it comes to strangers or professional people. I think when my husband and I have children, I will be much better ❤
Good tips!!
This is an area I REALLY need to work on.
Hope the video helps!
Good swaps. I will use a few of them
Awesome!