How To *actually* Receive PRINCESS TREATMENT 👸
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 พ.ค. 2024
- #feminineenergy #lostfemaleeducation #princesstreatment
A lot of people may grimace at the idea of treating a woman like she’s a “princess” but it’s actually a completely normal and valid desire for women. Let me explain…
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Chapters:
Intro - 0:00-2:28
The feminine as the judgmental ideal - 2:29-5:55
Is he a prince or frog? 5:56-7:42
How men fall in love - 7:43-11:21
Take sex off the table - 11:22-13:03
Value self respect OVER male attention - 13:04-14:26
Charm instead of nag - 14:27-19:07
Treat him like a man - 19:08-20:47
Actually take care of yourself - 20:48-21:18
Outro - 21:19-22:23
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Ladies, take notes! I’ve been married for 10 years and I am now having to deal with the consequences of the feminist brainwashing of my generation ! I would have paid for this type of information back in my dating days! Sigh. But God is gracious and redeeming!
So, if you’re young, single or fairly newly wedded, listen to what’s she’s saying; she’s spot on!
Things can improve and change!💜
Thank you so much for your endorsement 🩷🩷🩷 God bless
idk, what shes saying sounds very much like traditional feminism. trad feminism is the idea that man and woman are different beings, with different strengths and weaknesses that should be honored and respected. we are different but equal. dont act like feminism is all horrible because you can vote, go to school, have a bank account, get out of an abusive relationship all because of feminism. assault and sexual abuse is taken seriously because of feminism.
That actually isn’t “traditional feminism”. That’s Christianity! Women and men are equal in worth because we’re made in the image and likeness of God… but, different in design, as He made us male and female. That is originally a Christian belief, not a feminist belief.
@@Highwizardd I agree with you completely. Alot of women these days flaunt the power of choice in everyone's faces as if they had this all along. People are very entitled, as if what they have is because they deserve it and not because it was fought for. Their anger towards feminism is misplaced.
"If he worships himself, he'll expect you to worship him too" WOW.
I learned that lesson the hard way! Haha.
Damn right ! 😆
@@JasmyneTheodora "If she worships herself, she'll expect you to worship her too."
@@Hammerhead137 legit. Get someone else who does what u do if not too bad.
WOW, indeed. Given the topic and message of the video, you don’t see the hypocrisy?
Thank you for not equating princesss treatment to materialism
Of course
This is so good!
It’s character… chivalry. Picking you up for dates, sending you his time of arrival. How he talks to you even when he is frustrated. Valuing your time, not pressing you for sex. Romantic gestures like kissing your hand, and asking intrinsic questions to get to know you. Compliments of your intelligence and your character not just your beauty or sexualizing you.
Value self respect OVER male attention 🎉 👏
I think that's not only in regards to male attention,is to regards to any attention. If you don't care about you who is gonna? But when it comes to that there were two things women did, valued more male attention than valued themselves and the opposite,start to think they "need no man", "i'm the only person that matters", and that kind of thought, thoughts that end any relationship, not because the man "doesn't accept strong women" but because a relationship is based on the two sides giving their best and thinking about the other person,not themselves, how is the relationship gonna work if you also don't value the other person's opinions and point of view? We should all have balance in life.
*I must agree. Ever since I've been celibate my life has improved in every way. A bonus is better treatment from men. If only women knew that abstinence and listening is the key. Great job!*
Yes!Thank you!
Sorry listening to who? I’m a bit confused?
@@treciaingabire4161 Communication in general. The Bible does say one must be slow to speak and quick to listen.
So true my friend told me this I now understand.
@@treciaingabire4161 listening to men, listening to people in general. This is my other channel I'm answering from.
My husband and I waited to until marriage. 20 years and three kids later, we’re still very happy. We dated for two years and got to know each other really well. I think in big part because we weren’t having sex. There was time to just have fun and talk and consider whether or not we are a good match. When you jump right into sex, you may overlook a lot of things. Love this channel! God bless
See that’s actually very nice. I honestly think a lot of guys have issue with that is because if they know the woman had sex prior to being with him and then say that the immediate question in their head will be “why didn’t those other guys have to wait but now I have to?”
Do I let them know that I have no intentions of sleeping with them.i am a mother of two and it can be somewhat tricky and with some man acting like they are doing you a favor just to date you as a woman with kids.
@@mvelokhanyile7784 Tell them ,the right man will love you , honour you and your decisions plus your kids
You've inspired me ❤,I'm gonna wait
I know it’s hard, but think about it. Do you want a man who thinks that he doing you a favor rather then y’all both bringing benefits to each other?
I’m a man and I approve her message
Thank you kindly!
“Let him do the man, so you can be the woman.”
Amen! Not corny at all, Jasmyne. Fantastic video! 🌸
Amen, indeed!
Let the man be the man. Courting, pursuing, initiating most contact, professing his love, and romancing you.
@@basicinfo2022 then submit to the man
@@johnsmith1034 Her husband is the one she should submit to, not just any man.
@@johnsmith1034 once they are your husband yes not before marriage
You’re a breath of fresh air. I haven’t allowed myself to be fully feminine for so long because I’ve been afraid of being vulnerable and getting hurt. You give me hope for having a loving, Godly marriage one day. Thank you. 💗
Be careful with narcissistic men so. Being vulnerable yes, with the wrong person a clear no.
So true. Thank you.
When a man thoughtfully treats me with respect and consideration, it gives me the freedom and security to be more soft, kind and feminine.
When he is selfish and treats me with disrespect, my walls go up, I become more masculine and the claws come out.
Men who give women princess treatment are wise. If you want to open the flower, you have to shower it with gentle rain and sunshine.
Its my first time meeting someone who has exactly the same values as me! S*x for me is a really big thing, but for the people around me its kind of a casual thing. So i felt guilty taking it off the table, now i know i was right!! I felt the same but didnt knew how to word/describe it. Alsooo you are really beautiful in an ethereal kind of way♡ my mom always used to say if a person is religious they have this type of beautiful beauty, which in my language is called 'noor(the best word to describe it!)'. Im gonna subscribe your channel!!♡
My best friend and her husband were both virgins and waited until marriage to have sex. Her husband is a Christian youth pastor at the church and they have two kids together, 1 boy and 1 girl. I admired their storybook, fairy-tale, Christ- conscious life. It was wholesome and beautiful until one day, he up and left her with the kids like she was nobody. He broke her heart and her spirit. It was like he just changed his mind out of the clear blue sky and snatched the rug from underneath her. She became suicidal and was put in a mental institution. By the grace of God, she's finally starting to be herself again but it has been a journey. I pray God blesses my friend with what she deserves. Waiting is definitely great but having a man that is real even after the deal is even better, either way, protect your heart !!
I’m so sorry for your friend 😭 I’ll be praying for her and I pray this NEVER happens to me
It helps me to heal from my recent break up where I was the man in the relationship, and he was the princess 😢🙄
Hahahaha nooooo😂
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❗️ I vowed to never find Myself in this situation again.
So was I and it was soooo tiring to remind that he was the man but in this house his mother used to treat him like a girl and a child! Thank God I got tired and run after 6 months ❤️ there are still good one out there
Holy crap! This is EVERYTHING!! I've done the majority (not all but most) of this without knowing, and it's true. I feel like a "useless" wife because I don't DO anything I feel I need to (working on some), but my husband loves me and always has. I never had to EARN his love or attention. He loves me for me, as hard as it can be for me to understand that concept. I was raised by a family of feminists and none are married, but they always told me to do everything myself, never count on a man, etc etc. But it's EXACTLY the opposite that my husband loved. I was innocent, pure, loyal, peaceful, etc. and he loves that. He doesn't have to worry about me, and I don't have to worry about him. He protects me from the outside world, and I protect his peace by being there for him.
It was all just too simple/"easy" to be true, I never believed it even as it was happening to me because I was always told otherwise.
How I wish I could share this with my girl friends without them getting offended (idk if they would, but I'm too scared to try) 😅 lol
Wow, that's amazing! You're so lucky that you found a genuine man and managed stay the way you are. I used to be like that too, but now due to hopelessness and some bad experiences I'm starting to think that the world and people are so much different from my core beliefs and natural temperament and that I need to change.
Cheers 🙌🏼
You did earn his love. He didn’t just love you for no reason because that’ll imply that you have nothing to offer. You had to have had something that made him decide to fall in love with you
What does it mean that he protects you from the outside world?
@@WorstDruidEUAs he outearns her and handles most of the decision making. She's the copilot who's just there as potential backup, but doesn't have to do much of the heavy lifting.
@@PermanentHigh that sounds like support and copiloting indeed but what's the protection in particular from in the outside world? I'm really struggling to understand what would be the practical examples of that, what exactly is the protection from in the outside world? I'm trying to understand and hopefully apply it but protect from what for example?
This came at the perfect time. My long term boyfriend and I just broke up and I was so confused and hurt and was wondering why God let this happen only to realize how binded I was by his manipulative behavior. He is the exact man you are talking about that worships himself and only views me as a female regardless of how much I did for him. (I cooked, cleaned, gave him gifts, and acted like a wife when I was only a girlfriend) I am so grateful for this fresh start and I know that my future man will be a prince and not a frog!
As a young orthadox Christian in courting ive held it sternly that i will not be handing over intimacy until my wedding day and jasmyne youve just affirmed that i am on the right track. Thank you and may the lord bless you☦️❤️
Yes. Dont lose your virginity before marriage. I regret my past. And now im 34 and scarred. I hope you find a good husband and create a beautiful family
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@@etcwhatever i agree. I’m 20 years old and lost my virginity at 17 to a random guy I found on a hook up site because I felt ‘left behind’ in this new culture and ‘empowered’ by modern feminism. Ever since then I’ve given myself to every man that I’ve dated. It’s no wonder it never worked out. I deeply regret it so much. I think I did it because I was scared and didn’t believe anyone would go through all that trouble for me. I thought the only way I would be loved or valued would be through my body or what I could give/offer to them. I wish I grew up thinking I was worth more as a little girl. So I could have waited for the right ‘prince’…
Hi Jasmyne,
You should make a video on the different stages of relationships (feminine side; including expectations for masculine roles):
-singleness
-finding a partner
-getting to know
-dating
-fiancé
-married
-during marriage
Yes I’d love this!
Yes! It’s all so new some of us
As a man, I applaud this God oriented, complementarian attitude. So many speakers on these topics will either demonize men or women (usually out of bitterness) and seek no means of mending the relationship between men and women. You provide a lot of wisdom for both women and men in a very positive delivery that encourages our cooperation which is far too rare to find on the internet. Thank you
why is jasmyne consistantly spitting fax ?!
Ohhhhh hahaha 😆
Please.. we need more women like you. Honestly I'm tired of feminists, aggressive, rude woman. I'm a very soft woman. Who belives in traditional gender role, God, femininity, masculinity, modesty, health. But sadly I don't find friends with the same mindset 😔
@MostBasedPrincess Agreed
@MostBasedPrincess no we shouldn’t… we should be loving towards disbelievers. They are not our enemy, the devil is. God said to treat all people with love, so that we may possibly win them over to Christ.
I know how you feel. It’s hard to find likeminded people.
I have the good mindset you're taking about
I felt this. I love my friends very much. They're wonderful ladies, but it sucks that I'm the only one like this. I can't discuss or brainstorm these topics with anyone 😢
My fiancé asked me to be his girlfriend the first day he met me (of course I said no because I didn’t know him) I didn’t have to do anything for him that night just show him my great personality and have great conversations with him. I wasn’t even looking to date at the time I randomly met him via his cousin who’s my friend. I didn’t do anything for him until maybe 7 months later when I made him a meal. All we did during that time was have deep conversations and create great memories. I didn’t have to do anything for him to fall in love but be my amazing self ❤
It's complicated. I'm a very masculine woman, brainwashed by the patriarchy and radical feminism, I admit. Sometimes it feels like the only way to succeed in this world is to lean into your masc energy. But there are different rules when we're with a man vs when we are by ourselves. I realize there are only 2 dynamics here: you're either playing his wife or his mother. Women are inherently nurturing so when a man is childish, wounded, and emotionally unavailable, it triggers our mothering instinct to heal and help. Men who have not done the work on themselves have no business being in a relationship because of this. Most men simply aren't ready for a woman. Only a healed man or at least someone with a spiritual or personal development practice can ever hope to co-create the space where a woman can be what she truly is.
it’s so refreshing to see a perspective like this instead of all the toxic red pill and feminist BS coming from both sides. As a man i believe a strong faith in god and rejection of lust and materialism will heal the relationships between men and women 🙏
I agree. But im angry about rude males and i dont feel like trusting anyone anymore.
This might be one of your most beautiful and introspective videos you've ever made
I think all of them are, but this one sent me to a deeper self-reflection (edit for grammar)
Wow, thank you soooo much!! Means so much to mr!
This normally backfires and normally leads to getting played, cheating and other things of degeneracy. Honestly, once you have sex with him, if he decides to stick around then he actually wants to stay with you. Anything before that is really up in the air.
This is a backwards approach… to engage in the most intimate act as some sort of examination to see if someone will actually stick around? Haha..no.
Thank you for this, PMS has been making me act up around him a lot and I just want him to forgive me and know that I love him a lot. I wanna be his princess.
Letting my husband know which phase of the month I’m in has been really beneficial! One thing that really helps is telling him I can’t handle “light touches” during my lower hormonal times. Deep, secure hugs over light touches avoids “over stimulation” and me getting annoyed 😆
Make sure you are taking high quality supplements like VitB6 and VitD3 etc. I'd recommend homeopathy as well. He should treat you with kindness during these times. It's not easy at all.
Recently I watched some videos of another youtuber that I really like, also recently turned christian, and he also said, if you want to seek a real relationship, take sex off the table. At least for some time. So true 💞
Impish made me chuckle out loud. I love this video and I believe every woman and girl should watch this
😆🩷🩷🩷 thank you so much
I subbed to uuu
So true
Thank you for including my quote in your video!
❤, Alison Helena☦️
This video is it! It’s so wholesome. I really appreciate the fact that you’re one of the women who still pushes this❤.
Jasmine, we really REALLY appreciate all the effort you go through to talk to us! In getting married in two months to a wonderful man who treats me like a princess and I want to continue inspiring his masculinity and giving him the respect he deserves, so thank you for the reminders, tips, and encouragements! God bless ❤️
Charm instead of nag
Request instead of demand
Inspire instead of command
From experience, this absolutely works! ❤
This is brilliant 😊
You are wise beyond your years Jasmyne Theodora! I love to get your insight on these feminine topics and how to function in a society where women and men have been fed false information! ❤❤❤
You should have podcast, you explain things so well with so much maturity x
"Your job is not to make a man fall in love with you" -- THANK YOU! I needed to hear this! I've been feeling this pressure on me that there is something I should DO to provoke love and not just BE and RECEIVE. And women (Godly women) urging me to go after him and show him attention and understanding and support. No. I cried out to God "I need to feel like a woman!" I was even labeled as proud for refusing to call and contact him after his withdrawal.
I agree with everything said here, particularly the "Five nonnegotiables" and the block near the end about how to communicate effectively with your husband. Good stuff.
I am so grateful I found your channel. It has caused so many things about my life to change for the better. Thankyou for the work you do Jasmyne 😍😍😍
This video deserves to be studied and I’m gonna study it this weekend. Amazing video, thanks for this Jasmyne 🎉
Girl you just packed a sermon and crash course in leveling up and relaxed femininity in one video. Got my subscription. ❤
I appreciate this video and the feeling of it too. I find that so much feminine content on the internet has a "masculine rush" to it that feels rather like an oxymoron, as the energy observed isn't the energy advised to adapt, which definitely creates a lot of friction between theory and practice. Watching this video felt like leading by calm example, and phrases and theories I've come across on "feminine energy" social media, that have felt hard to grasp and execute became clear as day here. I appreciate this video so much and cannot wait to go and be inspired by the rest of your channel. Best Talia.
loved the video !! these tips are so incredibly valuable. i love how everything is relevant to the modern day. it makes it so much easier to visualize how I can implement these tips to my daily life, especially as a younger college student that is surrounded by demoralized men and feminist circles. may God continue to bless you and your family !
This was truly helpful. I'm glad this popped up at an opportune time, so I could watch it. I have been ready to give up on my relationship, but you have given me hope. I'm also making a special playlist to share with my children when they are older. Thank you for what you do.
And an unpopular opinion that I have is that Dragonball Z has horrible artwork.
Girl. I needed this SO. BAD. This is the perfect timing… God brought me to this video. Thank you so much for your guidance ❤️
Loved this vid so much!! I might have to watch it again down the road. Nagging has always been something I’ve really struggled with…not proud to say it, but it’s true.
Your insight always reminds me of the woman I want to strive to be.❤
Thank you for youre Godgiving gift! I'm so blessed about this and the confirmation is on time! Thank you so so much! Much love sis!❤
girl you’ve earned yourself a new subscriber! this video was so refreshing! and you hit the nail on the head w/ everything
Regarding the asking, social media has def made it feel like the right man should know always what to do and say so I liked that you touched on it. Closed mouths don't get fed! Ofc there's a balance and some things you should not have to communicate
One of the best videos you’ve made…and you make a lot of good ones. Keep speaking truth 🎉❤
WOW, WOOOOOW!!! Came for my entire throat and I needed to hear all of it. So grateful for this enlightenment.
Glad it was helpful!
The best advice video I've come across so far.
Everything you said was perfectly said, and so true. Great video 👏🏾🎀
I’ve actually never heard this explained this way. Subscribed immediately
Yay! Thanks!!
You're very well spoken, and a very articulate communicator. I really enjoy listening to you. Thank-you.
I started my celibacy journey last year and I know for a fact that the man God has for me will respect my decision. ❤
Yes 🙌
You are throughly intelligent..,deep dive in your discussions. I've watched this video 3 times. Learn more and more
Thank you for sharing all of this valuable tips, as a woman who is on her femininity journey this helps. Also love your transparency!! 😊👍🏾💃🏾
Ahhh love this for us ladies. Thank you for this message Jasmine, Lots of love from SA 🇿🇦
You shared some seriously amazing gems that are so true! Love your content 💕
This video has lots of gold nuggets. Thank you
‘Men have been demoralised by androgyny’… would love to know more about what you mean by that, because if a mans ego can be fractured by self expression.. I don’t know what to say
Precisely…
oh wow , I'm glad to know the BTS insight shared at the end.. I could've thought these 22 minutes simply came out perfectly directly.. thinking to myself "dang.. why can't I be THIS concise and well-spoken with no pauses when recording?!
Took me 2 hours to get 22 minutes worth of clear speaking 🫠😆
Thank you , this helped me a lot , I've done a lot of things that were mentioned as not to do and yes there are consequences to those actions , I am grateful to know the solutions and move forward. I love you sister , I Thank God for using you to sow fruitful seeds ❤
THANK YOU. I appreciate every word you said 😭
This was very insightful. I understood and appreciate the way you talked about these subjects with religious and non religious perspectives in mind. I am not religious and many ways I move through the world are similar to a lot of religious practices. Many parts are beneficial, like no sex before marriage. I do not want children nor do I want to have sex with someone before being committed for health reasons too. It’s a bit hard finding content like this that can be digested even if I’m not religious. ( some people’s messages get drowned out by their dislike of something)
This was a great video and you make princess treatment make sense with the way you clarified everything.
I absolutely love her advice as a young women!!! She is amazing❤
This is good stuff!! Thank you for this great message and reminder to us ladies!👌🏾👏🏾💜
I love how active you are in the comments section.
Having an audience was a far-fetched dream for me not too long ago 🥹 I love being able to connect with anyone who takes the time to listen to my content
beautiful response@@JasmyneTheodora
One of my favorite videos of yours 💗 thank you Jasmyne.
I'm obsessed with your content and your voice. Thank you
Pshhhh thank you soooo much!!
My goodness! The gems you dropped in this video were weighted! You spoke to my soul and with all that you mentioned I feel so confident in my progress as a woman and that is exactly what's required of me since I'll require my husband to be the amazing man God has called him to be. I'm excited subscribe and to watch other videos of yours 😊 thank you.
I learn something every time I listen to you. Thank you for the information you share
Of course!! So glad to hear!
As a man I'll just add that most of us are disillusioned (or "bitter" as you called it) from consistent experiences with women who claim to value their femininity, but just use that as a smokescreen to rationalize narcissism. So it will go a long way to intentionally communicate that in return for princess treatment you'll proactively show him a special level of respect, honor, and softness. It'll help bring a lot of guys' red pill guard down.
Jasmyne, you need to keep making videos like this. Although Sheraseven gives similar advice, she doesn’t tell women the good side of men and explain how they are capable of showing love and they are only good for how much money they have. Your advice on men is more God centered and I am glad I found your channel.
Loved this one, thanks for the time and effort. Every single point was worth hearing for me!
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This was so calming and valuable! Thank you!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼love this!!! Amazing content that EVERY teen girl needs to hear.
I'm really impressed by this video, I'm not usually the one to comment on videos and tbh I really just clicked on this ytb recomendation without expectations if not just a silly list (that we usually find in the comment section) but... This is GOLD! ❤
God bless you and your family. ❤
Wow, thank you! God bless!
Girl this vid really helped, i struggle so much cause i had barely any feminine help in my life so I can be quite blunt and cold towards people or even defensive. But the video was informative thank you very much.
This was a very good video, you've put into words concepts that have been coming in and there. It should be taught in school. Also, I find you to be very beautiful and you express in such a soft and graceful way what a healthy feminine energy is. Thank you 💖
this is so good, jasmyne. SO. GOOD.
I feel so honored to receive such a comment. Thank you!!
Again. Your videos help me to be feminine woman. I had only a present dad in my childhood so I really struggled to understand the concept of a feminity.
Thank your. ❤
Video Idea: your fav books about womanhood, christian-feminity
This was a blessing to me! Thank you
Thank you for posting this!
I really appreciate your videos and the knowledge you share 😊❤❤
Fantastic video! Thanks Jasmyne
Glad you liked it!
“Judgmental ideal” I had never heard of that concept before, interesting
The way I subscribed immediately idk how I’ve never ran into you before
Great advice ❤I love this video. I totally agree with everything that you said 🙏🏿👏🏿
I just discovered your channel not to long ago and I get ready to your videos every morning now 🥰 love ya for these videos
Thank you for your videos ! Im from France and it’s really satisfying to hear those things ❤
Glad you like them!
This video was everything I needed to hear. Thank you so much.
Glad it was helpful!
This video was amazing 🙌🏾
i'm not married (don't think i can handle being in any relationship) but my sister is and I think there's a lot of nuggets of wisdom in here that she will find inspiring and helpful!!
Yay! Thank you!
Love all of these points, thank you for sharing ❤ also you are so gorgeous ❤
I love this video!!! Really needed to hear this although I get this wisdom from my mom, it’s great to hear this from another woman.
I am a beautiful goddess. We all are. 🥰
I'm so glad!
Thank you so much for this! We needed this so much
So glad!
I love this topic and really appreciate you sharing. I can feel so guilty for not knowing these things. I believe I've not had great experiences in romantic relationships becuase of this which seriously hurts, but like someone else in the comments said, thank God for grace and understanding now. 🙏🏾
Glad it was helpful!
Very articulate, thank you for this beautiful video.
You are so welcome!
Thank you princess of God! Your words sounds like Big sister advices in my mind.
I’m 3 minutes in and wow, I have to agree!