I often find myself ruminating about friendships. I do have friends, but life gets so busy for everyone that I sometimes feel forgotten. I’d love to see a video on becoming a mom and maintaining friendships-especially since I’m expecting my first baby in April. I’m worried about losing the connections I have and wondering how to make new friends as I step into motherhood.
I'm 61. People have consistently ghosted me. Also I've been fired over 200 times since I started working in 1978. Usually I don't ever get a reason. In the firings they'll say something innocuous like, "it's just not working out." In my social life I've gotten a few WHY answers : "You're just too weird " "Why do you keep coming to this place when you know that no one wants you here." "I think you use your ADHD as an excuse to be an asshole. It's why you don't have any friends." I got a formal diagnosis 15 years ago and got SSD so I'm able to live independently without having to ask my parents for money. I've been watching your videos religiously for a couple of months now. I've gotten some answers from them. Smile more, don't talk so much, don't bombard people with too many texts, give people a break. Basically to chill out and relax and stop trying so hard. Do you have any more advice for me? I did a TH-cam search for "why do people hate me?" I got a few good sources for experts in emotional intelligence. I think I need a blueprint. "When you encounter a new person do this :"
Jefferson Fisher has been especially helpful. Can you suggest something, a resource, one of your videos? Thank you for what you do to try and help us. 😊♥️
Would love content on navigating big social groups (especially big social groups of women). How to know you are in a group or whether the group likes you or how to get included in a group
I often find myself ruminating about friendships. I do have friends, but life gets so busy for everyone that I sometimes feel forgotten. I’d love to see a video on becoming a mom and maintaining friendships-especially since I’m expecting my first baby in April. I’m worried about losing the connections I have and wondering how to make new friends as I step into motherhood.
I'm 61. People have consistently ghosted me. Also I've been fired over 200 times since I started working in 1978. Usually I don't ever get a reason. In the firings they'll say something innocuous like, "it's just not working out." In my social life I've gotten a few WHY answers : "You're just too weird " "Why do you keep coming to this place when you know that no one wants you here." "I think you use your ADHD as an excuse to be an asshole. It's why you don't have any friends."
I got a formal diagnosis 15 years ago and got SSD so I'm able to live independently without having to ask my parents for money. I've been watching your videos religiously for a couple of months now. I've gotten some answers from them. Smile more, don't talk so much, don't bombard people with too many texts, give people a break. Basically to chill out and relax and stop trying so hard. Do you have any more advice for me? I did a TH-cam search for "why do people hate me?" I got a few good sources for experts in emotional intelligence. I think I need a blueprint. "When you encounter a new person do this :"
Jefferson Fisher has been especially helpful. Can you suggest something, a resource, one of your videos? Thank you for what you do to try and help us. 😊♥️
Would love content on navigating big social groups (especially big social groups of women). How to know you are in a group or whether the group likes you or how to get included in a group