Solid breakdown (pros and cons) of both sides. Long-term relationships provide consistency, companionship, and build trust overtime. It’s also important for both partners continue to grow individually (have drive and goals) and not fall into a comfort zone where they don’t progress in life (stay healthy, keep good habits, keep the drive to improve) because it can cause resentment or doesn’t align with the other partner’s life goals. That’s when people began to ask themselves if the relationship is holding them back or if they settled too soon. Great video!
So the main reason I watched this is because I'm kind of interested in what it's like dating a girl, and I would like to have a gf. However I just discovered I'm VERY nervous about dating a girl, because I've never done it before, and I'm a very shy guy because of anxiety!
No problem. I don't have any Cons It Might sound selfish to some others but not for me. It's my house. I do and I want I go where I want. I don't have to compromise the remote is. Don't need anybody ragging on me. I've dealt with other people's baggages and 2 husbands. All my life so it's beautiful.🎉
The key message is at 11:11 . Do your best to find a woman who shares the same values that you have. .. in everything from money, to diet, health, hobbies, pastimes, lifestyle, emotional support, discipline, goals and most importantly child rearing. Do not compromise. The pain of disappointment or rejection is nothing compared to the pain of divorce. If that means staying single then so be it. If you can check all the boxes then maybe you have a chance of a successful relationship or marriage.
I've had a few employers mock me for never having gotten married and they'd do it in front of my co-workers. I did not choose to be single. Singleness chose me. What would you say or do in these work situations ? Quit ?...probably not.......get a lawyer who will only tell you to get another job like that's an easy thing to do. Try to Defend oneself for not doing anything wrong?.....not a good idea.......Punch the SOB out...the best idea but it won't work........then there are the married co-workers who openly question the sexuality of any unmarried co-worker they see........your PROS & CONS video here is interesting but life and people can be pretty cruel.
I have a friend who never got married or had children. That dude has been able to afford all the cool stuff that most married guys can only dream about having, with the freedom to boot. Your employers and co-workers may actually be envious. If you look at it that way maybe you can rub it in their faces.
In my opinion, a man should try his best to have a timeline looking something like this: late teens: figure out where he stands in terms of SMV from an objective standpoint. Unless you're literally top 3%, you're not likely to have a lot of success here. early to mid twenties: combination of looksmaxing + general smv max (generally doing well in life, whatever that may be for him), start hooking up regularly with a wide variety of women. Avoid serious relationships. mid to late twenties: Hopefully be maxed out in terms of SMV (enter a stable, pref. high paying job, have a good physique etc), have as much sex as you want / can get. Do this until either a) you get tired of the shallowness or b) a really good woman comes along. Late twenties and beyond: enter a relationship you take seriously, hopefully after seriously vetting the woman. Either this is the right girl, you buy a house, get kids and live happily ever after - or, it turns out to be a mistake at some point and you either stay single or jump back on the horse, depending on circumstance. I think its very important that any man entering a serious relationship needs to have a sense of value (i.e. not out of scarcity as mentioned in the video), and also have felt that he had full access to casual sex over a longer time period, and chose to be in a relationship because he knows that he will not be fulfilled from casual sex long term.
A relationship cost money and it takes effort to talk to a girl etc, I just don't see the point of doing all that for a nut. I hate pics, I'll hate to fall in love with someone that doesn't want u back.
Solid breakdown (pros and cons) of both sides. Long-term relationships provide consistency, companionship, and build trust overtime. It’s also important for both partners continue to grow individually (have drive and goals) and not fall into a comfort zone where they don’t progress in life (stay healthy, keep good habits, keep the drive to improve) because it can cause resentment or doesn’t align with the other partner’s life goals. That’s when people began to ask themselves if the relationship is holding them back or if they settled too soon. Great video!
Good points brother, definitely agree! 💯
Stay single stay happy. Today's relationships are materialistic.
Thank you for calling out the Alpha/sigma male crap that is annoying asf
Good video. Very good way explaining them both.
you always speak facts. love this🔥
Very smart person. wish you the best in your youtube journey
I’m 35 male no kids no wife no GF! But…. I had four bad witches in the past cause great damage to every pillar in my life. I’m currently rebuilding.
Totally sounds like what I was thinking. Great video. Liked and subscribed.
Thanks for this content 💪
So the main reason I watched this is because I'm kind of interested in what it's like dating a girl, and I would like to have a gf. However I just discovered I'm VERY nervous about dating a girl, because I've never done it before, and I'm a very shy guy because of anxiety!
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Being shy is a liability and detrimental to finding a girlfriend who will respect you bro. Find some way to work out of it.
No problem. I don't have any Cons It Might sound selfish to some others but not for me. It's my house. I do and I want I go where I want. I don't have to compromise the remote is. Don't need anybody ragging on me. I've dealt with other people's baggages and 2 husbands. All my life so it's beautiful.🎉
I love this, mate 👍
The key message is at 11:11 . Do your best to find a woman who shares the same values that you have. .. in everything from money, to diet, health, hobbies, pastimes, lifestyle, emotional support, discipline, goals and most importantly child rearing. Do not compromise. The pain of disappointment or rejection is nothing compared to the pain of divorce. If that means staying single then so be it. If you can check all the boxes then maybe you have a chance of a successful relationship or marriage.
“Single is where it’s at fellas” -guys who aren’t single by choice
Asking the internet if you should be single or not lmao. That’s the first mistake right there.
There's no harm in looking for advice. Always take everything with a grain of salt when it comes to these issues.
If you have to ask you are most likely not getting any anyways and don’t have the option
Now we on the same page..I love the info..
Men keep your options open always look to improve the girls you date and sleep with never settle for less.
You just Gained a SUBSCRIBER!
I also played the field for years and got laid 7 times with older women above 35 years. I think my game is on top.
I hate going out I hate it so much never getting succsess.
Real
Humans only live for so long, true companionship is rare but worth if you select the right partner
I've had a few employers mock me for never having gotten married and they'd do it in front of my co-workers. I did not choose to be single. Singleness chose me. What would you say or do in these work situations ? Quit ?...probably not.......get a lawyer who will only tell you to get another job like that's an easy thing to do. Try to Defend oneself for not doing anything wrong?.....not a good idea.......Punch the SOB out...the best idea but it won't work........then there are the married co-workers who openly question the sexuality of any unmarried co-worker they see........your PROS & CONS video here is interesting but life and people can be pretty cruel.
I have a friend who never got married or had children. That dude has been able to afford all the cool stuff that most married guys can only dream about having, with the freedom to boot. Your employers and co-workers may actually be envious. If you look at it that way maybe you can rub it in their faces.
In my opinion, a man should try his best to have a timeline looking something like this:
late teens: figure out where he stands in terms of SMV from an objective standpoint. Unless you're literally top 3%, you're not likely to have a lot of success here.
early to mid twenties: combination of looksmaxing + general smv max (generally doing well in life, whatever that may be for him), start hooking up regularly with a wide variety of women. Avoid serious relationships.
mid to late twenties: Hopefully be maxed out in terms of SMV (enter a stable, pref. high paying job, have a good physique etc), have as much sex as you want / can get. Do this until either a) you get tired of the shallowness or b) a really good woman comes along.
Late twenties and beyond: enter a relationship you take seriously, hopefully after seriously vetting the woman. Either this is the right girl, you buy a house, get kids and live happily ever after - or, it turns out to be a mistake at some point and you either stay single or jump back on the horse, depending on circumstance.
I think its very important that any man entering a serious relationship needs to have a sense of value (i.e. not out of scarcity as mentioned in the video), and also have felt that he had full access to casual sex over a longer time period, and chose to be in a relationship because he knows that he will not be fulfilled from casual sex long term.
A relationship cost money and it takes effort to talk to a girl etc, I just don't see the point of doing all that for a nut. I hate pics, I'll hate to fall in love with someone that doesn't want u back.
I dont't want to deal with NAG! NAG! NAG! NAG! NAG! NAG!
You are the MAN!