1:07 although I fully agree and that is something that helped me not respond emotionally in a reactive manner, once a chick said to me: “You know that people that think too much about their answers are actually creating a lie”? I took a little bit of more time and replied: “Could be, or could be that the person is actually listening, processing the information and putting together the correct answer to reply to someone who they think deserves this effort but, one can never know”. She was speechless…
She was telling you she's lying every time she pauses to think, because her view of what's going on in other people's minds is a reflection of how her mind operates.
I really like the simplistic method you create your videos, you're not screaming you're not foaming at the mouth for people to like and subscribe. You cut through all the BS and stupid thumbnails and clickbait and get right into it.
I’ve personally only made the mistake of showing my feelings too quickly with a girl i really liked early on. Didn’t say ”I like you”, but I was waaaay to caring about her and sent her a kissing emoji after a few days of talking… Never doing that again
I once heard from Dr. Laura, as a single man you need to be in contact with 4 women at a time. This will ensure at least one date for the weekend. Sometimes 2 dates. Friday or Saturday or Sunday. Dr. Laura cited women's fickleness as the cause. When speaking to 4 women during the week really chills you out so you're not behaving desperately. Great advice.
I really don't think that focusing on money, status and appearance are "easy". I think that advice loke speaking slower is far more easy. But I'm gonna keep it anyway
how can you tell if she's holding back because she thinks you'll have an emotional reaction, or if she's holding back because she's afraid of not seeming like your type?
If you have to change who you are in 10 different ways to keep her from running away - don’t bother in the first place, she wouldn’t be a good fit for you . Be yourself and let things be as they will be.
No it isn't, scoring points is a more aggressive fake tactic he is talking about being more natural and to stop acting like you're feverishly pursuing her. I mean scoring points can work if the physical attraction is overwhelming for her but even then a woman that attractive has handsome men all the time trying to pick them up. The whole point of the video and it works for both sexes is stop trying to treat people like a celebrity because most of the time you'll just be looked on as a fan.
How to do in a first date: Don’t talk too much, instead let her do the talking. If you can’t stand listening to her for whatever reason for more then 10 minutes straight, make an excuse, pay your part of the bill and leave. If you didn’t even had to wait 10 minutes to figure out, probably you are already engaged in a conversation and things can move one. Simple. 😊
3:33 if her enthusiastic history is about her spring break trip months ago with other 3 single friends, don’t over react. Just notice the 🚩 and adjust your expectations.
It's cliche.. but just be yourself, be confident. it doesn't matter if you express your feelings a little. It doesn't matter if you like her pics on IG. It doesn't matter if you try to win points and impress her . Just be yourself. Be confident. And above all be handsome.
All these things come naturally if you date girls you don’t care about. Choose girls that choose you, not the other way around. As Patrice O’Neill said “ perfection is when you like her and she loves you” it’s a rough game, be ruthless
Just came on the video to comment. As a ladies man myself I'll tell you not to be any certain type of way that's outside yourself. But this guy needs to make videos with numbers in the title so understand.
The thing is: Those things all help a lot with women being attracted to you but it isnt helpful at all that this only works so well because you really dont care 😅
i think youre bang on here. 95%+ of people watching this video will simply try to emulate this behavior instead of working to make it natural. Girls are generally socially adept and are more socially keen on average than men, so this fake nonchalant demeanour will be seen through very quickly and honestly is more cringe than regular fumbles
A snarling grin, showing teeth and laughing uncontrollably, is an American thing. I never see this overseas. People are generally more reserved in public while still being easily approachable and friendly.
stop being reactive - mix in fake outrage/being shocked (byt something irrelevant that she said) dont fall for thrist trap - avoiding staring because "you'll get caught" is kinda gay, instead interrupt girl when she babling and say "i'm not listening to you right now, i'm busy staring at your tts/ass) or slow clap, and say "good job you wore this thing for me so i have something to focus on (do that with ones that you already meet before and have some sort of rapport)
Bro, I could have used this video before I ruined everything lol
dont worry bro there'll be more opportunities
Everyone fumbles bad at some point man. You’re gonna nail it next time
Rip in peace and use it to grow strongaaah FUAAAAAA
Girls like guys that are liked by other girls. Make sure you are the guy other girls like. You will never run out of options.
Real
1:07 although I fully agree and that is something that helped me not respond emotionally in a reactive manner, once a chick said to me: “You know that people that think too much about their answers are actually creating a lie”?
I took a little bit of more time and replied: “Could be, or could be that the person is actually listening, processing the information and putting together the correct answer to reply to someone who they think deserves this effort but, one can never know”.
She was speechless…
She was telling you she's lying every time she pauses to think, because her view of what's going on in other people's minds is a reflection of how her mind operates.
@@JohnMcAfee-se9ms yep, absolute projection on her part.
I really like the simplistic method you create your videos, you're not screaming you're not foaming at the mouth for people to like and subscribe. You cut through all the BS and stupid thumbnails and clickbait and get right into it.
I’ve personally only made the mistake of showing my feelings too quickly with a girl i really liked early on. Didn’t say ”I like you”, but I was waaaay to caring about her and sent her a kissing emoji after a few days of talking… Never doing that again
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😂😂 same man but for me i sayed i liked her but i was freind zones😢
Damn never care for her again
This dude is telling the truth ..ive done every single thing he says since i was 18 and ive had my share of women (ps im 20 now )
lol @ “I’ve had my share and I’m 20 now”…. Not making fun of you homie, just laughing at my younger self (I’m over 35).
I once heard from Dr. Laura, as a single man you need to be in contact with 4 women at a time. This will ensure at least one date for the weekend. Sometimes 2 dates. Friday or Saturday or Sunday. Dr. Laura cited women's fickleness as the cause. When speaking to 4 women during the week really chills you out so you're not behaving desperately. Great advice.
Who the hell has the time, effort, or money to be going on dates every single weekend???
@@psi23k no one said they had to be fancy dates. As for time, usually single guys have an abundance of free time.
These are really great videos and very informative! Thank you!
Actually the pause genuinely give you time to think not just fake appearance of thoughtfulness
All these points melt away when you’ve got a few women on the go. Neediness just doesn’t exist then.
The problem with that being that once you're in a relationship, unless it's open or you're cheating, you only have one woman
I really don't think that focusing on money, status and appearance are "easy". I think that advice loke speaking slower is far more easy. But I'm gonna keep it anyway
how can you tell if she's holding back because she thinks you'll have an emotional reaction, or if she's holding back because she's afraid of not seeming like your type?
If you have to change who you are in 10 different ways to keep her from running away - don’t bother in the first place, she wouldn’t be a good fit for you . Be yourself and let things be as they will be.
Things like “fixing your speech” or take a moment to answer a question we all can benefit from not because of a particular woman
No, don't be yourself if yourself is a loser.
"Stop trying to score points"
This whole video is about to score points🤣🤣
No it isn't, scoring points is a more aggressive fake tactic he is talking about being more natural and to stop acting like you're feverishly pursuing her. I mean scoring points can work if the physical attraction is overwhelming for her but even then a woman that attractive has handsome men all the time trying to pick them up. The whole point of the video and it works for both sexes is stop trying to treat people like a celebrity because most of the time you'll just be looked on as a fan.
How to do in a first date:
Don’t talk too much, instead let her do the talking. If you can’t stand listening to her for whatever reason for more then 10 minutes straight, make an excuse, pay your part of the bill and leave. If you didn’t even had to wait 10 minutes to figure out, probably you are already engaged in a conversation and things can move one. Simple. 😊
3:33 if her enthusiastic history is about her spring break trip months ago with other 3 single friends, don’t over react. Just notice the 🚩 and adjust your expectations.
To the guys that make it as far as starting a conversation with a woman. W .
Jesus is the only way to salvation ❤❤❤😊
So basically I shouldn't look or act desperate and be myself? Wish I knew earlier before I fucked everything up
It's cliche.. but just be yourself, be confident. it doesn't matter if you express your feelings a little. It doesn't matter if you like her pics on IG. It doesn't matter if you try to win points and impress her . Just be yourself. Be confident. And above all be handsome.
All these things come naturally if you date girls you don’t care about. Choose girls that choose you, not the other way around. As Patrice O’Neill said “ perfection is when you like her and she loves you” it’s a rough game, be ruthless
Just came on the video to comment. As a ladies man myself I'll tell you not to be any certain type of way that's outside yourself. But this guy needs to make videos with numbers in the title so understand.
The thing is: Those things all help a lot with women being attracted to you but it isnt helpful at all that this only works so well because you really dont care 😅
i think youre bang on here. 95%+ of people watching this video will simply try to emulate this behavior instead of working to make it natural. Girls are generally socially adept and are more socially keen on average than men, so this fake nonchalant demeanour will be seen through very quickly and honestly is more cringe than regular fumbles
A snarling grin, showing teeth and laughing uncontrollably, is an American thing.
I never see this overseas.
People are generally more reserved in public while still being easily approachable and friendly.
What brand t shirt!?
The brand is called “Vince”
07:58 Jawad
In my culture you have to go tell the girl how you feel
what culture does that?
@@brettm6016 Haiti
Common sense
Same in my culture as well, But you know those girls are become advance and don't follow cultural norms.
@@brettm6016 asian? in japan the man have to confess his love first...kokuhaku
Disagreeing with women got me blocked on social media.
Based Gigachad 🤣🤣
Instructions unclear. I created distance and knocked out my crush
Yeah… guilty of all of this… eff
Thank god I’m a Black man.. slightly different rules less calculated 😂
stop being reactive - mix in fake outrage/being shocked (byt something irrelevant that she said)
dont fall for thrist trap - avoiding staring because "you'll get caught" is kinda gay, instead interrupt girl when she babling and say "i'm not listening to you right now, i'm busy staring at your tts/ass) or slow clap, and say "good job you wore this thing for me so i have something to focus on (do that with ones that you already meet before and have some sort of rapport)
What the hell are you talking about lol
blud thinks he’s handsome 💀