HOW TO DEAL WITH A BREAKUP | Salice Rose

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  • HOW TO DEAL WITH A BREAKUP | Salice Rose
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    With over over 5.7 million followers on Instagram, the 22 year old bilingual Peruvian/American comedian influencer, Salice Rose, was born in Lancaster California and has always held a strong ambition to make others smile which catapulted her to be in front of the camera. In her own words, Salice expresses that she isn't always aware if her followers are laughing with her or laughing at her but regardless as long as it keeps them smiling then that's more than enough for her to keep on creating content. Aside from cracking jokes and participating in adventurous dares Salice also has a strong passion for both music and dance. Being an avid hip-hop and belly dancing aficionado, Salice loves to spend any extra time she can on the dance floor breaking a sweat!

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  • @punkrdoodles
    @punkrdoodles 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1246

    "Do you want to numb it, or do you want to overcome it?"
    Holy shit.

    • @manuelrios1810
      @manuelrios1810 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brittany Mack can you write down the second quote

    • @15VmzBeauty
      @15VmzBeauty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brittany Mack my boyfriend is numbing it w drugs..lost him to drugs :/

    • @punkrdoodles
      @punkrdoodles 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Virginia Zimianitis I am so sorry 😢 Praying for you...💙

    • @joiyvonne9024
      @joiyvonne9024 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Virginia Zimianitis same here

    • @juliettemelody6579
      @juliettemelody6579 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg she just made my day😗😚😙😀😁

  • @irisg9870
    @irisg9870 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2666

    who else cried their heart out because this video reminds you of the shit you've been through:(

    • @arelycastruita1299
      @arelycastruita1299 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me she helped me a lot tho

    • @irisg9870
      @irisg9870 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arely Castruita same all the way

    • @arelycastruita1299
      @arelycastruita1299 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iris Guajardo yup same

    • @jhanvilohani5448
      @jhanvilohani5448 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iris Guajardo yeah I did bcoz smetyms crying is best

    • @tamasailaukempa2725
      @tamasailaukempa2725 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm still in love with this girl. Yet she doesn't love me. And she told me she not lesbian no more.

  • @AlondraBurgos222
    @AlondraBurgos222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    i'm gonna watch this every night until i fully heal.

    • @tyresearodgers5594
      @tyresearodgers5594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How are you? Is it better? It’s killing me I’m in so much pain

    • @Dess-xt7kw
      @Dess-xt7kw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tyresea Rodgers so am i. I feel you

    • @GrisCB
      @GrisCB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope you heal quickly 😢

    • @TangieS0315
      @TangieS0315 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @carlossantillan1824
      @carlossantillan1824 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So am I.. she’s on point...

  • @miriamrojas7198
    @miriamrojas7198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    Someone who ignores your phone calls and allows you to go to sleep with that anxiety and depression ..... 😭😭😭💔

  • @Alyssa18633
    @Alyssa18633 7 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    Tip: if you have to go to bed feeling anxious / sad every night, DUMP HIM

    • @gabbyzamora361
      @gabbyzamora361 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alyssa I needed this...

    • @milomorin83
      @milomorin83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I realized that too late

    • @sidlusk6713
      @sidlusk6713 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alyssa AGREE

    • @kaitlynmelvin7471
      @kaitlynmelvin7471 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was me my whole relationship with a guy I was with.

    • @vipprincess5770
      @vipprincess5770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need my friend to see thissss

  • @jessicamanzanal4808
    @jessicamanzanal4808 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    my mans jus broke up with me 2 days ago and he said he lost feelings. how does someone lose feelings so quickly? what the shit.

    • @kenyaalia3194
      @kenyaalia3194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      jessica manzanal same

    • @kylie-.-
      @kylie-.- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      jessica manzanal same here beautiful, he broke up with me yesterday:( i’m pretty sure his friends had something to do with it

    • @peanuthead6908
      @peanuthead6908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      jessica manzanal my ex ( we just broke up 3 days ago) he lost interest in me a month before we ended and he faked it with me he hugged me kissed me and everything but it was all fake just to not "hurt my feelings"

    • @ughitsdiana
      @ughitsdiana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      jessica manzanal exactly like how the fuck

    • @riulia4908
      @riulia4908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I’m in this fucking boat with you guys.

  • @giz7496
    @giz7496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    he broke up with me, 2 hours ago. now im here crying and listening to you.
    it’s still day 1 of the break.
    i don’t know if i can handle this.
    it hurts really bad.

  • @nicoletran6094
    @nicoletran6094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I came here to write this for anyone who might need it right now. Exactly 2.5 years ago my ex and I broke up. I remember watching this and crying my eyes out. Yes, it is easier said than done but you can do it. I want you to know that you are not alone and that you WILL be okay. And I want you to know that I empathize with your pain. I know exactly how it feels, crying at 3 AM and wishing that person was there, and that everything was back to how it used to be. I know exactly how it feels to completely open your heart up to a person, to be so vulnerable, and to share everything with them. I know exactly how it feels to have the same person crying to you and telling you how much they love you, yet a few months down the line, leaving you completely by yourself and effortlessly moving on from you. I know exactly how it feels to have been so "loved" by someone, who would always be there for you and support you in everything you did; but yet now you're crying at all hours of the day wondering whom you can turn to now that that person is not here anymore. I know how it feels....and you know what else? I KNOW You WILL be OKAY. You are stronger than you think. You will be able to get through this. You will grow to love yourself again, and you will come to learn that there is NOTHING (love, happiness, stability, hope) they can give you that you cannot give to yourself. This is not the end of your world. Time will keep ticking. The earth continues to spin. The seasons will pass. And slowly but surely, you will move on. One day you will look up and say, with complete honesty, "I am okay." I have been through it, and I know as much as it pains you to hear the quote "This too shall pass," I want you to hold onto that, even if it's just a tiny bit of hope, I want you to hold on. Believe in yourself. You will get through this and perhaps return to this video, but this time not in pain and tears, but in complete PEACEFULNESS, pure ACCEPTANCE, and unconquerable STRENGTH and SELF-LOVE. And when that time comes, I promise you will feel so GRATEFUL for this heartbreak.... And perhaps you will also comment something like this to give another person hope that you were able to overcome that miserable heartbreak...
    ...and so will they.

    • @lizbethjohanafernandez1134
      @lizbethjohanafernandez1134 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can I ask how long you guys were dating ?

    • @SE-zz5fo
      @SE-zz5fo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God! This was beautiful😭 it feels so confusing . But I know that god has better plans for me

    • @moyobug
      @moyobug 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m going through a breakup after being together for 26 years.😢💔😭

    • @kyliegudbaur9960
      @kyliegudbaur9960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much for this

    • @gisellemichellecenteno7482
      @gisellemichellecenteno7482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is something i needed to hear.

  • @ObiWanAnole
    @ObiWanAnole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    The hardest thing is that he seems totally ok, talking to girls already, everything. I was such a good girlfriend, supportive and everything. It hurts that he never returned the love I gave. The worst part is that after all of this, I still love him. I needed this.

    • @Adrianagrace
      @Adrianagrace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @bluelikeu7830
      @bluelikeu7830 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I can relate.But yk someday there will be someone who will treat you as good as u treat them and apreciate your Love

    • @i36459
      @i36459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same. How are you now almost a year later ? Hope you're happy 😊

    • @arlettemunguia1913
      @arlettemunguia1913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ermerritt I can relate to this soooooo bad. And did you got over him?

    • @4EverWithHim1
      @4EverWithHim1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Definitely can relate. He got a girlfriend a week after we broke up.

  • @showjumpingqueen8111
    @showjumpingqueen8111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    my man just broke up with me yesterday, saying that he just didn't want to date anymore. I gave my all for him. My heart is broken and I feel like I was to blame

  • @amzile2772
    @amzile2772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    I was good before him
    And i will be good after him

  • @tyresearodgers5594
    @tyresearodgers5594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    He told me I was worth everything and still left.

  • @reinag-g9877
    @reinag-g9877 6 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    I needed this. I’ve only had 2 hours of sleep with red puffy eyes. What I feel today doesn’t have to be what I feel tomorrow.

    • @rose968
      @rose968 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reina G-G How are you doing now?

    • @tattoobarbie4831
      @tattoobarbie4831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel u baby keep ya head up

  • @lorenafernandez7393
    @lorenafernandez7393 7 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    "And broken people are the ones that will die legends, never forgotten and so beautiful" Is now my new favorite quote

    • @lowkeypanda9466
      @lowkeypanda9466 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lorena Fernandez same

    • @zayjabar3936
      @zayjabar3936 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lorena Fernandez wooow 😍😍i love this

    • @badbitch7682
      @badbitch7682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lorena Fernandez I READ THIS AND SHE SAID IT AT THE SAME TIME

  • @dylan-dd5jp
    @dylan-dd5jp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    He cheated on me. He lied about it. I wanted to die. I felt betrayed. I had no one to talk to. _but now I think you helped me feel a bit better._

    • @miadesima8454
      @miadesima8454 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lxnnarr u still talk to him

    • @yasmin34511
      @yasmin34511 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are we talking about the same person?

    • @sophiacoichy2117
      @sophiacoichy2117 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love hope u fell okay now

    • @i.s4005
      @i.s4005 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      svgarplumz i also don’t want to live anymore :(((((

    • @itschillwill6239
      @itschillwill6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The same thing you went through I'm going through rn😔

  • @MariaRamirez-vc7dt
    @MariaRamirez-vc7dt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Day 3 after the break up, I've been crying throwing up, motivated, unmotivated, frustrated, anxious. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I think I'm in denial right now, I want to believe that in a couple days we'll talk and fix things. And I know that I just might go back to him but deep down I know better. I hope I stand my ground. I fucking love him but IF HE REALLY WANTED TO BE WITH ME HE WOULD REGARDLESS OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES

  • @jessicac310
    @jessicac310 6 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Everyone going through a break up needs to watch this at least once a day. I promise. You will be okay.

  • @elizabethrodriguez96
    @elizabethrodriguez96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    “before you met this person, you were okay”
    this is why i love you!!!!!

    • @angelesvalor5770
      @angelesvalor5770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I became a better person during my relationship... That sentence can't be used on me that makes me feel sad :( but I hope i can continue being this new person even without her.

    • @desislavalazarova6634
      @desislavalazarova6634 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelesvalor5770 i understand you.. same goes to me. He made me feel alive, he made me happy. :/ i hope and pray to get over him sooner. Good luck!

  • @ekaterinapetrova8975
    @ekaterinapetrova8975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Salice: CRY, cry like you've never cried before
    Me: say no more

  • @illy9723
    @illy9723 5 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    im dealing with a bad break up rn and this helped, thank you.

  • @emmagarcia9159
    @emmagarcia9159 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1271

    I saw this in my notifications and I'm like... did she make this for me?
    After watching this video, this is exactly the things I've needed to hear
    and I think anyone going through this should watch this video

    • @nsanchez9961
      @nsanchez9961 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emma Garcia sameee

    • @ashleyroland446
      @ashleyroland446 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emma Garcia
      same

    • @abcarodefg
      @abcarodefg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Emma Garcia I feel you

    • @traviesascott
      @traviesascott 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Emma Garcia I know exactly how you feel.

    • @mayacole8833
      @mayacole8833 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Emma Garcia yes I am and I'm pregnant so it makes it even harder but I will get through this with the power of God and myself and my unborn child well make through this is only the Strom because what comes after a Strom comes out the sun and it shines on everything as will I
      Thank You Mama Biscuit for your inspiring video love you bye

  • @yaz7979
    @yaz7979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Even though I've already watched this, every time I miss the person badly I come and watch this. Somehow it just reminds me that I'm strong enough To get through it.

  • @eriennerojas
    @eriennerojas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    My fiancé just told me he probably never loved me. He hasn’t for a long time. But he still proposed to me and got my hopes up. He made dating profiles behind my back. Talked to girls behind my back. Made me feel like I was absolutely nothing. I’m hurting so so so so bad. I’m screaming crying every morning for hours on end. My logical side knows I’ll be okay and I know it was never my fault and I’m out of his league. But the hurt is killing me currently. Thank you for making this video.

    • @seanaeve5456
      @seanaeve5456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same thing happened to me with my ex. I found his dating profiles and messages to other women. It sucks at first but once you end it and move on life becomes a beautiful thing and nothing can stop you! I hope you'll feel better soon. God bless 🙏 You can do this!

    • @samanthagonzalez7806
      @samanthagonzalez7806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you now 😢

    • @sayurimota8043
      @sayurimota8043 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Erienne Rojas girl that so sad 😒

    • @ryolaandrade4921
      @ryolaandrade4921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't worry girl... u will be fine !! Just rememeber you wont die!!! And if u dint die , u should not worry , it will only hurt alot for some time , but eventually you will feeel awsum, ur life will go back on track ... just be positive, love urself!! And wait for karma !!!

    • @sararodriguez7877
      @sararodriguez7877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erienne Rojas your pretty

  • @niayah908
    @niayah908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "Whatevrr u feed ur brain will come a reality" best qoute EVER

  • @whitwhit4625
    @whitwhit4625 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Here's how i'm getting over my 2 and a half year breakup:
    #1- Remember that it's going to hurt. It is normal. Cry all you need to.
    #2- Know that things DO GET BETTER. No matter how much it hurts now, know that everything happens for a reason.
    #3- Remember there is ALWAYS someone better. It's cliche..but there's more fish in the sea. Find someone who will want your time and will be obsessed with you..
    #4- Stay busy. Go out with friends, go on nature walks, listen to music, work more...etc. If you stay busy, you'll never have time to think about that person. AND the pain will fade more and more everyday.
    #5- Know that your time could be spent on things that could better you as a person. Crying over someone is a waste of time.
    #6- Get rid of everything that reminds you of that person. (if you can). Get rid of clothes, or any objects that was given to you. (donate them maybe?)
    #7- Like Salice says, know your worth..You will eventually recognize yourself and your needs. Sometimes you do need to stay to yourself. And DON'T go out immediately looking for love...let it come to you...let it all play out.
    #8- Know that in a couple of months, this person will literally be irrelevant to you. You won't even remember their middle name. 😂😂 You will have moved on...Just like your past relationships. EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY ❤ "Take a deep breath, mourn the loss, and start living again." 😘

    • @baby916mama
      @baby916mama 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whitney Baugh #6 contradicted #1..but I get where you're coming from 💘

    • @whitwhit4625
      @whitwhit4625 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emily Aurora how? getting rid of some things that remind you of that person will help ease the pain...I didn't say it would eliminate it. lol...but im glad you read so closely and got some advice. Only trying to help some folks.

    • @imabeautyr8526
      @imabeautyr8526 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whitney Baugh to be just like

    • @baby916mama
      @baby916mama 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      My fault...I mean #5 contradicted #1

    • @whitwhit4625
      @whitwhit4625 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emily Aurora lol okay. smh. Hope you got something out of it. Not arguing over what contradicted what 😂.. I was giving advice to people who need it. Have a nice day ✌💕

  • @CheskaSilva
    @CheskaSilva 7 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    mama biscuit's words slapped my face with reality

  •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Just broke up with my boyfriend ,I'm gonna be okay ,I don't know how but where there's a will there's a way
    I'm crying but I deserve better

  • @kabreyaleveston7738
    @kabreyaleveston7738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This shit real bro. I cried for her and cried for her, apologized and begged for her. I watched her leave me. Now I’m here. Thank you for this video

  • @brienicole5020
    @brienicole5020 6 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    "before you meant this person u were okay" ugh i love u

    • @naomiritchie8268
      @naomiritchie8268 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      brie nicole but I wasn’t he was what made me ok

    • @kimmy.K
      @kimmy.K 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Naomi Ritchie girlllll me too! I was helpless and depressed without him, he made me happy

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Break up is something that's really frustrating but don't feel sorry for yourself. Feel sorry for them for leaving someone who will never ever leave their side.

    • @hannahandlogan3078
      @hannahandlogan3078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A New Love Official I don't understand how u do it. All I wanna do is die

    • @rose968
      @rose968 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      HANNAH AND LOGAN How are you doing now?

    • @kimmy.K
      @kimmy.K 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HANNAH AND LOGAN me too I just broke up w someone who clearly doesn’t Care Ab me anymore but it hurts. I keep Thinking Ab the good times and how I’ll never meet someone I can connect with like him

  • @joannaleyva2102
    @joannaleyva2102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Tell me why you can be with someone for years or on and off months and as soon as you breakup where are the feelings? They just dont care? Or it seems like they pretended to in the relationship..there not as hurt as you.. they dont even text or call they just go replace us.. while were here getting over the breakup. Crying. In the relationship there’s always one person that cares more in the relationship. And in the end I’ll show who. In the end its the person getting over the breakup while the other one is talking to other people like the breakup never effected them 😣

    • @Deebest10
      @Deebest10 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joannaa Rose so true

    • @Marentthu
      @Marentthu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm going through this right now and it really sucks. I'm extremely sad, and he has found another girl he likes. It's been 3 days. He found her on Tinder and talked to her behind my back while still in a relationship with me.

    • @ivan-bg6cl
      @ivan-bg6cl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mann he just broke up with meh bru we was bout to hit 4 momths tmw br

    • @jdmluck9283
      @jdmluck9283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wonder the same thing how a person can be in a relationship and just break up with the person with 0 fucks given like they never even care.

    • @Jaaysilva_
      @Jaaysilva_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with this completely!! A heart NEVER breaks even, it would be amazing to talk to you girl! I'd love to share my story :(

  • @piscesprincesa2384
    @piscesprincesa2384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Please pray for me right now. I’m going through the hardest breakup ever. 1 year together, living together, loving each other and him being sus with me more than three times. I need a hug.

    • @iHwanniex3
      @iHwanniex3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lexi xoxo be strong. I was in a three year relationship, living with for two years. He cheated. And he left me because he fell out of love with me.

    • @9l3zx
      @9l3zx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      b my friend i might go through the same thing rn😭

  • @alizerivera8967
    @alizerivera8967 6 ปีที่แล้ว +940

    this really freakin helped me and put me in the best mood and gave me so much hope. thank you so much.

    • @cc-of8tz
      @cc-of8tz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alize Rivera EXACTLY.

    • @gabyramirez3257
      @gabyramirez3257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alize Rivera same

  • @feefee971
    @feefee971 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I stayed in a relationship because I was so use to this person. When it ended it hurt soooo bad but honestly, I am so much happier and better off without them.

  • @emilyschaub6159
    @emilyschaub6159 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    i guess this is my first heartbreak. i was heartbroken over someone i never got to be with.

    • @elijahthao6699
      @elijahthao6699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes because you think bout how fuckin amazing you two would have been 🥺

    • @sarahclairem6295
      @sarahclairem6295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too i got led on and i allowed it. It's the worst and so hard to stop.having hope

  • @user-ud6yq7it6m
    @user-ud6yq7it6m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It’s hard when your bf acts soo nice to you and does everything for you but you find out he’s been lying to you and hanging around people I said not to behind my back...but I broke up with him after over 4 years. It’d be easier to do if he was an asshole to me but he’s always been nice to me but I cannot deal with a liar, especially someone who is so good at it

  • @zombie817
    @zombie817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    How much pain can one human tolerate ... theres nothing like heart ache.

  • @rayahvakasiuola3852
    @rayahvakasiuola3852 7 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    why is she sooooo good at explaining things!? like she understands us!! like, she makes it easier to understand and to feel

    • @isabelloarenas8949
      @isabelloarenas8949 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      so true my friend told me to look her up bc my boy friend just left me and i need help getting over it..

    • @nicolalist7258
      @nicolalist7258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Rayah Vakasiuola, she understands the pain and hurt someone else could be going through and wants help her babies out!

  • @danielaramirez7706
    @danielaramirez7706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The best part about this break up I can sleep early now and I don’t have to worry about every month presents I can have friends now

  • @sandraorduna6795
    @sandraorduna6795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He just broke up with me saying that he feels like we are drifting apart. I honestly didn’t know he felt that way cause we haven’t argued or anything prior to the breakup. He gave me a promise ring and talked about our future. The breakup came out of no where. I thought everything was fine but I guess it wasn’t

  • @chericch
    @chericch 7 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    Can we talk about how salice is a fr blessing 😭💍💯❤️

  • @j3lly685
    @j3lly685 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    6 months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years. Days away from my birthday. I cried in public. I cried in front of my family. He broke up with me like nothing we had was real. I questioned love. I didn't believe in love after that moment cause what I thought what love was, was in that relationship. I'm still struggling to this day. Everything around me reminds me of him and the memories we had. Seeing this video, made me feel like a brick has lifted out my chest. Your words has made me cry. Every sentence has made me realize that there's somebody better for me and that I do deserve better. Thank you so much. God bless you

    • @useranon7880
      @useranon7880 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stay strong love xxxx

    • @allymoreno4430
      @allymoreno4430 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jelly Nelly exactly what happened to me days away from my bday too, 3 months ago he broke up with me but now I forget about him a lot and I see that I'm way happy I was so depressed with him, I did everything I cried but I spent a lot of time a lone and dealt with it and had fake conversations with myself and what I would say to my ex of 3 years

    • @anaig1728
      @anaig1728 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jelly Nelly does dog poop remind you of him

    • @j3lly685
      @j3lly685 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anai Gonzalez yes plus vomit too

    • @anaig1728
      @anaig1728 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jelly Nelly lmao

  • @sydneyzheng4560
    @sydneyzheng4560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    we broke up in the beginning of the summer, it's almost the end and i'm still not over it.

    • @eval3509
      @eval3509 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i broke up during the summer, how are you feeling now?? I'm not completely over him but i'm healing slowly.

  • @michaelajeakins5578
    @michaelajeakins5578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I want to let you guys know everything will be okay you aren’t the only one going through this I am too and so are many others remember you are loved and I am praying for you ❤️ have a good day

  • @anissafrancois
    @anissafrancois 6 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    Watching this every morning gets me through.💛

  • @abbygarcia4633
    @abbygarcia4633 7 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    The same day this was posted I broke up with my boyfriend I had been with for 3 years. Im so confused because we both tried so hard but there's something missing. Like you said when we were good we were so good and when we were bad shit was terrible and Honestly my heart couldn't couldn't take it anymore. I pray to god that he takes him outta my heart 😔thanks for this video , ❤️

    • @shelleyroman255
      @shelleyroman255 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Abby Garcia same for me! Things will get better. Everything happens for a reason.

    • @Beautybyraquel13
      @Beautybyraquel13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Abby Garcia same for me love, we gonna get through this!

    • @BTAPublicRelations
      @BTAPublicRelations 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abby Garcia am going threw the same and all I can do is cry

    • @callistamarkham5443
      @callistamarkham5443 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      3 1/2 years.

    • @iloveYouhSike
      @iloveYouhSike 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      me i broke up with my baby of 3 1/2 too. but i naturally started liking this other guy and always prayed for it to go away this really sucks

  • @takiarasadee2835
    @takiarasadee2835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the fact that he BEEN stop wanting me, BEEN stop caring about me & more…. i ignored all of it. i tried & tried because he was someone i really wanted to be with.. even though he treated me like NOTHING. & it’s definitely was another girl in the pic & that’s why he was acting the way he was. i been wanting to let go but i didn’t because i was willing to go through hell & back for him… but it was nobody but God who showed me what i need to see for me to actually have that courage & leave.

  • @preacher5992
    @preacher5992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I recently had my heart broken by a girl who i gave the world to. Wanting to die and cry almost every night. I want to thank you for the video. It is helpful me heal.

  • @claribelespino4891
    @claribelespino4891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I fucking love you and everything you stand for. You are the kind of person this world needs more of. Thank you for this.

  • @ericasky
    @ericasky 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I just got out of an abusive relationship not too long ago. There were so many times where I was like "I miss him so much, i dont care, I'll deal with it". WTF was I thinking? He deliberately tried to make me feel like I was never good enough, and always wanted to hurt me. Honestly, what got me over it was being alone. I went for long walks, listened to music, meditated and watched a lot of Mama biscuits videos, and I have never felt so strong. I know my self-worth. I know that I'm more than what my ex made me feel like. I'm me baby! Ain't nobody gonna take that away from me. Thank you Salice! I love you and if anyone is going through a bad breakup, know that you will be okay.

    • @ericasky
      @ericasky 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yees girl! We are stronger than ever

    • @iluvnickjonas0502
      @iluvnickjonas0502 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for this comment. I left a controlling relationship today. I'm hurting so bad right now. I know it's the right thing to do, but a huge part of me is saying what you said. How long did it take you to get through it?

    • @ericasky
      @ericasky 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know it hurts at first. It feels like a huge chunk of you is missing. But just know that you don't need that person to define who you are. Trust me girl, I know you don't want to hear this right now, but you've already proven to yourself how strong you are by leaving! It took me about 2 weeks to get over it because I knew that my ex was a low-life human who didn't deserve my tears. You are beautiful and strong.

    • @iluvnickjonas0502
      @iluvnickjonas0502 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for replying, honestly this means a lot. Right now I need to hear this, and I have nobody around who truly understands the pain. I know I deserve so much better and that this will take time. I just wish I could fast forward the next few weeks. I just want to truly feel happy again. Thank you so so so very much for the kind words

    • @ericasky
      @ericasky 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely no problem. You will get over this. It may feel like a long time because your brain is all over the place, but when that day comes, you'll feel really good. You will definitely be ok! In the beginning of my breakup, I didn't have anybody to talk to. I had to get through it myself and because of that, I know I've become stronger. You're so strong already. Everything will be okay Natalie

  • @lizaaag
    @lizaaag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going through this now.. 6.5 years.. but I can honestly say this video has helped me so much already. My emotions are a roller coaster. I cry randomly. But I know there's s light at the end of every tunnel. I'm ready for my light.

  • @andreamontes6656
    @andreamontes6656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Damn I was just crying an hour ago, I felt like shit for breaking up with my boyfriend and I love him knowing he's not good for me. But this video really helped!!! Self love is something I'm working on. I love you thank you!

  • @cylizzlexo
    @cylizzlexo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    you have no idea i needed to hear this. you have helped me get out of bed and stop waiting for him to call.

  • @eastarbunny
    @eastarbunny 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    1. Relate 2. Relate 3. Relate
    Dayum. Love is more confusing than math, but at times, more beautiful than art

  • @ruthj4601
    @ruthj4601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "you stop letting them hurt you".

  • @LexiLex2629
    @LexiLex2629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You're allowed to outgrow someone" I love that!

  • @Pico214
    @Pico214 6 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I’m balling my eyes out rn and I really appreciate this. It hurts so bad and I shared 6 years of my life with him, but I needed this.

    • @jailenevazquez0625
      @jailenevazquez0625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate 😢

    • @sandragutierrez888
      @sandragutierrez888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      im fucking crying too man

    • @haileyann5476
      @haileyann5476 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      yiskahh your gonna b okay sis

    • @killwill6215
      @killwill6215 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh homegirl i feel u. How are you dealing with yours

    • @motavatior166
      @motavatior166 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you. I just got out a 6 month relationship.

  • @angelicaelias2009
    @angelicaelias2009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    It's day 3 it's 3am and this fucking hurts man 😔

    • @remyj8565
      @remyj8565 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      a n g e l i c a e l i a s we will get through this together

    • @booniggah4637
      @booniggah4637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      its month 4 and... yeah :/

    • @dreamerlife6000
      @dreamerlife6000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Welp😪 it’s only been one day but even so we needa Be strong 💪 we got ourselves so head up remember your worth you are a Queen don’t let anyone treat you like less💖

    • @wendyochoa7088
      @wendyochoa7088 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same shit hurts like a bitch :(

    • @111lonerider
      @111lonerider 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      been a month already can this get any worst???

  • @terminator-lv5su
    @terminator-lv5su 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Pray for me...going through it.
    UPDATE!! I've been looking up things nonstop and found Browning's guide on getting your ex back ( exback.today ) a few hours later we're meeting up when before it was no contact :) I think things are really looking up!!! It's so great when you find a way to get them to understand how you feel !!

    • @meowmep1366
      @meowmep1366 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      luis enrique pereira cisnero hows it going?

  • @jaredgaming4k
    @jaredgaming4k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she told me to move on , there's someone better for me . I never felt so alone in my life before , the feeling is like , I was not ment to be here in this world anymore , I try to move on with my life by seeing other girl's but no one touch my heart like she did

  • @cherishdestiny2003
    @cherishdestiny2003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    it’s so mfn hard and hurts so much💔😪 especially with this being my first break up and wit my first love it hurts a lot 🤧 and I never knew I was going to go through this and I just wanna be happy again

    • @maddie3239
      @maddie3239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Cherish Destiny same :( I’m not sure what I’m gonna do tbh. I feel hopeless and ik that sounds cheesy but it’s true. First love dumps you it hurts bad man

    • @kikibear12146
      @kikibear12146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@maddie3239 FACTSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!...BUT REMEMBER LIKE SALICE SAID "YOU WERE OKAY B4 U MET THEM"!!!....

    • @Tanmaya7x
      @Tanmaya7x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My boyfriend just blocked me from every source we had Idk what to do

    • @lovescult
      @lovescult 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😭😭

    • @sofieb1653
      @sofieb1653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You will trust me . I had my heart broken 3 times and this one now 4th hurts the most . I feel the pain you’ll be happy and then you’ll whole mood will change and a roller coaster of emotions . And you want them to message back or wake up and it being a dream .

  • @ninaisabel4712
    @ninaisabel4712 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I broke up with my cheating boyfriend 6 days ago. We were together almost 3 years and he was cheating the entire time. I can't tell you how much I needed this video. I find myself blaming myself for not putting out or blaming God for letting him hurt me, telling myself that if I was thinner, prettier, smarter, maybe he'd love me. Thank you so much for this, I'm tying not to cry in my school's library but damn.

    • @reinequeenslay4641
      @reinequeenslay4641 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nina Isabel my ex boy cheat on tired relationship 4 years ago this video help 🆘 overcome this

  • @eshaanation4001
    @eshaanation4001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago and i havent went to school people been texting me asking if i was okay i didnt respond just becaue it wasent okay but now that i watched this video i wrote down all my tips and when you said feed your brain i went to my mirror looked myself in the eyes and Fed my brain and the crazy thing is i walked in ma bathroom with tears coming down ma face and came out with a smile . now when i wake up in the morning Im gonna act like ive never dated this person i dont know who is and that he dont exists and the same vibe and energy and postitivty i had before i met him is the same thing im gonna have when i Wake up in the morning :)

    • @gabby3729
      @gabby3729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NyeTopGaming my BF j broke up with me and I haven't gone to school too

    • @transgenderunclenamedtrunk8486
      @transgenderunclenamedtrunk8486 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you? My boyfriend just dumped me and I don’t want to go to school tomorrow and see him. My heart will rip apart. I want him back so bad😭

  • @jackiepereira8232
    @jackiepereira8232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video helped so much. I just broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago. He was very controlling of me yet was always able to do what he wanted. The final straw was when he asked to marry his friend to “help her out” while I was miscarrying our second baby. He never did me any favors, or returned the kind of sacrifices I made for him. What he did wasn’t right but at the end of the day I can’t blame anyone but myself because I LET IT HAPPEN. I miss him so much but I know I can’t go back. If you read this, thank you.

  • @leaivekic2357
    @leaivekic2357 7 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    I broke up with my boyfriend today because of all these things. He treated me wrong i cried more because of him than i smiled. I needed to hear this🙏🏼thank you😭❤️(excuse my english it's not my first language)😊

    • @alejandrapineda7547
      @alejandrapineda7547 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      stay strong girl

    • @caracadayona15
      @caracadayona15 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lea Ivekic same

    • @royasadegh1246
      @royasadegh1246 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lea Ivekic this is what is happening to me and I just broke up with him

  • @lovelybaby1375
    @lovelybaby1375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday, we were together for over a year and what's difficult is that she was also my best friend and she still wants to be around but it's too difficult. she lost feelings for me romantically and it hurts because we talked about the future and how we would decorate our place and the dogs we'd get and fuck it hurts

    • @hsteeves
      @hsteeves 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lovely baby I'm in the exact same position right now man. She still wants to be best friends since we were before. It'll take a while, but if you guys can still talk, talk about happy things, despite how hard it is. Unless it's hurting you to see them then try your best to get over it. Look at it like this, you can still be close, you can still love eachother, just without the romantic part of it. I know it's hard. In fact, I'm struggling to to do it right now but I'd rather live with her in my life than not at all. It has been nearly a week. I'm suicidal, for many reasons, this completely broke me. But I'm still pushing along. I think you can too.

    • @vanessaaunchman1727
      @vanessaaunchman1727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lovely baby if u ever wanna talk I’m here for you💗cuz I feel the same way

    • @milomorin83
      @milomorin83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here... he still love me but he's not in love with me anymore. He wants me with him and and he wants me to still live with him, but i still love him like the first day. Its too fucxing hard. We broke up 2 days ago because of that. Im destroyed.

    • @annahammarlund413
      @annahammarlund413 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My ex broke up with me yesterday and I feel like crap he lost feelings for me but i did’nt but I Will be ok I guess😣

    • @tamz6352
      @tamz6352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally feel that. Going through the exact same and it's crazy how things change so quickly

  • @alessiacell8234
    @alessiacell8234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video brought me to tears. I have just recently got out of an abusive relationship and watching this video has helped me so much. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love you, Salice. You are truly inspiring!

  • @daniellesomers7481
    @daniellesomers7481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true.. We were all OK, living and breathing before this person... Which means wel be fine after this person. That's a really important thing to remember ❤️

  • @kyleetingstrom1224
    @kyleetingstrom1224 7 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I am honestly crying so much right now. This video is so real, so truthful, so honest. I just can't. I just went through an insane break up and am having a hard time dealing with all of it. Thank you so much Salice. You've opened my eyes and thank you for that.

    • @julisasparks3603
      @julisasparks3603 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kylee Tingstrom I believe you can get through this, there is an amazing life ahead of you, more then the man could ever give you! It will be better then you could imagine! Stay strong God bless you

    • @kyleetingstrom1224
      @kyleetingstrom1224 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much!! I really appreciate it :)

    • @kyleetingstrom1224
      @kyleetingstrom1224 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much!!!

    • @julisasparks3603
      @julisasparks3603 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kylee Tingstrom you are very welcome. Stay strong

    • @yoitsdianna5436
      @yoitsdianna5436 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kylee Tingstrom Same. I may only be 15, but my heart hurts so badly. It's been 2 months since my break up and till this day, I still cry all the time. I don't see life the same anymore. It's hard for me to do anything because I get upset easily. I lost a person who was the only one there for me, but also who switched up on me at the end and not giving a fuck about my feelings towards him. I don't want to open up to anyone else because I really saw a future with this person. We planned so much together and now it's all gone. 😔😞

  • @SofiaLopez-vs9ft
    @SofiaLopez-vs9ft 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She's sooooo good at advice preach

  • @naruhinastarr
    @naruhinastarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband cheated on me multiple times while I was pregnant with my son. I just gave birth 2 months ago to my son and now we are filing for a divorce. I feel so down right now, he treated me so bad and physically assaulted me after I confronted him. He also emotionally abused me, saying that I am not good enough and I don’t make enough money as him.
    I still wanted to stay with him and to make our marriage work. We’ve been together for 5 years so I was very invested in this relationship. He wants a divorce and I am devastated. Thank you so much for this video. It helped me feel better

    • @innogee8423
      @innogee8423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @selb4034
    @selb4034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me and my boyfriend just broke up. Over a year and a half relationship. Left my parents house to be with him at 16 cus they didn’t approve of him. I still think my parents were in the wrong because he is definitely a good guy, we just weren’t right for each other. The love we had was real, and we were both really hurt. But I just wish him the best and I wish me the best, so I can hopefully overcome the pain of not being with him anymore.

  • @sparklesthepikachu
    @sparklesthepikachu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    i'm here because my ex of three years dumped me bc he didn't wanna be in a relationship anymore but now he's dating the girl i was worried about !

    • @anita____0804
      @anita____0804 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      sparklesthepikachu Jesus...im so sorry....

    • @ericaphillips6557
      @ericaphillips6557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Girllll exact same happened to me smh

    • @celinesmyth01
      @celinesmyth01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Girl I’m the same I was with my ex for over 2 + years and he broke up with me cause of the exact same lame excuse he gave me but now he’s with my ex best friend the girl I was worried about all long sense I introduced him to her. So girl I understand you’re hurt but believe me it gets better! I’m now with my previous boyfriend and I couldn’t be happier :)

    • @trinitymishele9010
      @trinitymishele9010 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      sparklesthepikachu same girl

    • @saf5284
      @saf5284 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Istg there was a girl I was always worried abt. If my ex ends up with her I’m just gonna be like I freaking told you so

  • @sophie_marie1016
    @sophie_marie1016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    It’s not even been 24hrs since I broke up with my boyfriend. So much shit he did but I was so blind to it all that I just forgave him every time. Never do that. Thank you so much salice. I woke up this morning with a heavy feeling in my heart and chest and I’m finishing your video with it gone. Thank you ❤️

    • @alexandraschrader9044
      @alexandraschrader9044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sophie_Marie Same here girl. Know your worth and don’t let anybody take that from you! We got this.

    • @jamiedias1609
      @jamiedias1609 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here.

    • @Jaaysilva_
      @Jaaysilva_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing happened to me girl omg! i'm also feeling that heaviness in my chest :( Keep your head up babe! I hope you find the man of your dreams he's out there I promise !

    • @eyerollgod
      @eyerollgod 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same thing here

  • @lilythomson6866
    @lilythomson6866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    this just saved my life, thank you thank you thank you

  • @Cinnamonroll1269
    @Cinnamonroll1269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I know this wideo is over year old but...you gave me hope, thank you Salice. This is video that I needed not saying "its going to be fine" I needed facts

  • @marcosfarias3711
    @marcosfarias3711 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i love how she cares so much about people😚😙😙

  • @jadyrodriguez3210
    @jadyrodriguez3210 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    getting cheated on is the worst💔💔

  • @wormguts4586
    @wormguts4586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i really needed this... i’m really going through it... i fell in love with a guy, he treated me like i have NEVER been treated... i felt like i was finally *seen* and loved, but i just sat there and didn’t pursue shit. i stayed in a shitty relationship with someone who i don’t feel a connection with. someone who sees our arguments as “just disagreements”. i stayed with someone who isn’t the same as me- we are two COMPLETE opposites. i live with so much fucking regret now, i genuinely sob to sleep almost nightly at this point.
    he is in a relationship with someone now, and it’s none of my business. i need to remember the past has passed and my heart will grow stronger and i will pick myself back up. things will be okay.
    thank you for such a beautiful video and message... truly, thank you.

  • @tracksuitrob5348
    @tracksuitrob5348 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone says "you were okay before this person came into your life" but I definitley wasn't. I was weak and he helped me through so much dark shit. I don't know how to get through anything without him. I love him. It's killing me.

  • @dananegron
    @dananegron 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    So glad I found this. My ex broke up with me a month ago, after 7 1/2 years together. I didn't see it coming. I had to move back with family (who aren't great either) on the other side of the country, and start over from scratch. No car, no college, no job. I've been so depressed and almost suicidal, but God is holding me back from that. I don't know how I will get out of this hole and ever have a life where I can support myself, being 26 years old now.

    • @Rid97527
      @Rid97527 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dana Skaggs sending you so much love x

    • @dananegron
      @dananegron 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rid97527 Thank you!

    • @alexisaaa6
      @alexisaaa6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here im a guy.. girlfriend left me after 5 years living together.. it has been 2 weeks still cry my heart out i understand your pain

    • @dananegron
      @dananegron 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexis Perez I'm sorry, I hope it gets better for you. Now its been about 4 months after, and I feel so much better. So just give it some time

    • @alexisaaa6
      @alexisaaa6 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did he ever look for You?

  • @makaelacarey1708
    @makaelacarey1708 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Me and my boyfriend broke up two days ago. It was a toxic relationship and he was constantly breaking up with me. We were together for two years and he was my best friend. I knew we shouldn't be together, i had gut feeling. I ended things and I've never experienced this kind of feeling before. I feel completely broken. This video helped me a lot. Thank you so much.

    • @shannondevey6538
      @shannondevey6538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Makaela Carey I’ve just gone through the exact same. Toxic relationship and I’m constantly crying my eyes out every single night. Trying to get myself through it and be positive

    • @amanduhvee4208
      @amanduhvee4208 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shannon Devey wow girl me too 💔

    • @cloosh
      @cloosh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Makaela Carey how are you doing now? ❤️

    • @shannondevey6538
      @shannondevey6538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I got back with him but wrong decision, I’m going through the heart break once again and it’s worst than ever. All my friends are busy so I don’t have the company to keep my mind of things so I’m fucked 😂

    • @cloosh
      @cloosh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shannon Devey ur not alone. we don’t know each other but if u need someone to talk to i’m here for ya :))

  • @melissareyes8588
    @melissareyes8588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im currently crying... listening to this... but i needed to hear this! This pain im currently feeling i cnt even explain it. 💔 but like you said ima be okay

  • @stephaniesalvatorlamb2956
    @stephaniesalvatorlamb2956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was looking for something like this to help me get over the breakup this week with my ex-fiancé. This was perfect!!! Thank you so much for putting into words what I was feeling in my heart ...you’ve encouraged me. I cannot thank you enough

  • @glimpseofashh
    @glimpseofashh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I actually said "mamma biscuit" in the beginning💗💗 love you

  • @mayarodriguez7065
    @mayarodriguez7065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    this was honestly the best video. i just got out of a relationship like literally today. i thought I loved him because the way he made me feel and he made me happy at times. but he was just not good for me. we were once arguing over text and he told me to kill my self and that I was a bitch and all that and I just cried. cried so much. so I stopped texting him and he texted me back and he was just saying like I was just kidding don't do it I love you so much. i should've left him but I didn't I made myself believe that he did love me. I knew he cheated but for some god damn reason I stayed. and so today, we officially broke up and I've just been so devastated but after watching this video and really listening to you I feel 10x better. I'm going to go love myself and just really focus on the better things in life other then dumb ass boys. thank you so much mama biscuit. you are my IDOL ! ❤️

  • @cassidybird-sutfin9624
    @cassidybird-sutfin9624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am now dealing with the hardest break up ever. This video really really helped me. You posted this almost three years ago and people like me still are watching. So thank you...

  • @Emily-gh2nt
    @Emily-gh2nt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bruh the #1 thing she said, "You're gonna be okay." Like that already was, awesome. I'm gonna watch this probably every single day to feel better.

  • @bbxkuhh5255
    @bbxkuhh5255 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He never hurt me ,he loved me ,he treated me different ,I meant everything to him , but we got separated by our parents and I miss him ,I can't get over him

    • @ftdtxiace5829
      @ftdtxiace5829 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rdg04 exactly what I'm going through, we had a great relationship and we loved each other but I had to leave to Texas and we had to separate

  • @bryanalucero9440
    @bryanalucero9440 7 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    I love my momma biscuit so much.! who else cried while watching this?💖

  • @stephaniefunes3431
    @stephaniefunes3431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i remember watching this when i wasn’t heartbroken and i didn’t think anything of it but now that im really hurt i cried my heart out through the whole video

  • @aftonhoward6615
    @aftonhoward6615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    GIRLLL I didnt want you to stop talking. My breakup is just recent (4 days) but I'm the one that finally realized i needed to leave after 12 years (first love). As I sat here and cried I told myself I needed to not be alone. I found ur video and am so happy I did. I will take everything you said and keep it with me. God bless you

  • @julietagracia4030
    @julietagracia4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and half. Always that he was gunna be the one. But, he wasn’t willing to fight for me the way I was for him. I feel like it’s the end of the world right now but I know I’ll get through it. Thank girl ❤️

    • @arideneros9015
      @arideneros9015 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Julieta Gracia
      Same here! is it better now?

    • @julietagracia4030
      @julietagracia4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ari De neros yes girl! We worked together and after we broke up I got to see his true colors and it disgusted me. I was over him within 2 weeks.

    • @arideneros9015
      @arideneros9015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Julieta Gracia Girl it's day 8 as of right now. I'm in so much fkn pain. I can't believe the nerve of this guy. He's out and about and I'm I'm so darn miserable. He says he loves me but doesn't show it. I'm blocking him from all social media tomarrow. I'm glad your out if this misery. Good night 🌃 and thanks for the reply

    • @julietagracia4030
      @julietagracia4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ari De neros it was like that for me too he was out already on a date the day after we broke up! But once he showed me how immature he really was, I was happy it was over. If I can tell you anything girl it’s that he truly doesn’t deserve you! They say they love you but if they don’t show it, that ain’t worth shit! Never settle girl! Know what you want and don’t stop till you get it. So many girls out here settling for boys who treat them like shit, it’s sad. Trust me girl your better off, I hope the pain going away too because it’s truly one of the worst feelings in the world.

    • @arideneros9015
      @arideneros9015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Julieta Gracia Girl, thank you so much for your words! Seriously, every word means so much. Doing better now! I made it out lol
      Thank you again!

  • @mariahdouglas8131
    @mariahdouglas8131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I just broke up with my bf he was an abusive man who used me for my body and I just got all my shit and left I wrote him a note and said by I'm now with my mom and not even 5 min. later this video was posted

    • @batbitess4121
      @batbitess4121 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You've got this! We're all supporting you through it- I'M SUPPORTING YOU THROUGH IT! You can do this. We all go through very tough situations in life.. and I have too. I understand. Know your worth baby

    • @honeybadger_
      @honeybadger_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm kinda late, but remember that, we all love you and YOU'RE GONNA BE OK!! ♡

    • @jaritzavalencia1263
      @jaritzavalencia1263 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mariah Douglas god is good 🙏💖

    • @zombiesquirrel4056
      @zombiesquirrel4056 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mariah Douglas you got this girl forget him 😍

    • @angiebernardinolopez1406
      @angiebernardinolopez1406 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mariah Douglas hope you feel better queen 👑

  • @missuserge
    @missuserge 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just got out of a 6 year relationship 3 days ago and I feel like dying. Literally been crying since then. Crying as I’m writing this. I feel like I’m chocking and suffocating. Can’t eat. I feel sick to my stomach. I feel like someone punched me in the gut. I needed this video. Thank you🙏🏽😢😞

    • @marinahernandez1872
      @marinahernandez1872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      R R same ! 🥺

    • @marinahernandez1872
      @marinahernandez1872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      8 almost 9 years tho

    • @missuserge
      @missuserge 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marina Hernandez
      Wow! Just take it one day at a time. It’s been about 6 weeks for me now and I have ok days and horrible days. Try to keep yourself busy and occupied you will get through this.

    • @marinahernandez1872
      @marinahernandez1872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      R R thanks girl! Same for you! Focus on yourself and practice self love! We got this! ❤️

    • @naruhinastarr
      @naruhinastarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh I know how you feel. Been with my husband for 5 years now. We just had our son 2 months ago and I found out he was cheating on me multiple times while I was pregnant. It really feels like a punch to the guy and feels like I’m dying. He physically assaulted me and cops were involved and he went to jail. He’s been emotionally abusive, and he wants to file for a divorce now. I feel so lost now. How are you doing now?

  • @courtneyyazzie2436
    @courtneyyazzie2436 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this. My heart is hurting so bad. I was with this person for 5+ years, brought a beautiful baby boy into this world. Only to have him cheat on me when our son was around 6 months. While I was home and being the best mom I could be, he found interest in another lady. He came running back, only to find out she was pregnant. I’m so confused on everything. My world was turned upside down. He was my everything. All I ever wanted was my family together.

  • @lydiadavidsmeier8549
    @lydiadavidsmeier8549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This shit is so real. I think every person that's been hurt, every person that wants to date someone, basically every person should see this video. 💆

  • @feliel93
    @feliel93 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    i just got out of 4 years relationship bcus he said that he's unsure with his feeling anymore. Thank you for this ❤

    • @ilovemakeup56af
      @ilovemakeup56af 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      feliel93 I wasn't in one that long was only 4 months but know the feeling my ex left me and said he needed time to do him but he slept with his co worker 2 days after we broke up then the next day told me that he still had feelings for me but then got with her a week later but is lieing to me about it

    • @ilovemakeup56af
      @ilovemakeup56af 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well either him or his friend Hannah was lieing to me she told me he has a new girlfriend but he keep saying he not . And he was my first for like everything . Now it just feels like he left me for her, that he found somone better and just bailed on us after promising me that would never happen. And he knew that I was worried about that happening he promised he wouldn't do that But that's pretty much exactly what he did because he met the new bitch at his work then left me a week after he met her

    • @ilovemakeup56af
      @ilovemakeup56af 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      He also knew that all my other ex's just bailed when things get tough instead of working things out he also promised he wouldn't do that But he did so pretty much he did everything he promised he wouldn't do and made the new girl the same promises he made me

    • @eshaneb6671
      @eshaneb6671 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday because he’s not interested in a relationship anymore, he still cares and we still love each other but she’s just unsure right now and I’m hurting so bad. We were two years ❤️

    • @eshaneb6671
      @eshaneb6671 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It feels like a part of me has died

  • @diegoelizarraras5909
    @diegoelizarraras5909 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was the reason we broke up. I hurt her.
    And I regret every bad moment we ever had to this day. This video helped me open my eyes up even more on how to treat your girl like a queen before it’s too late. I hope she gets through this quick because I still love her and hate seeing her hurt because of me. If I could go back I would and not make that stupid mistake. She was really good to me for over 2 years and I threw it all away and took that time for granted. Treat your gf with respect and make her feel truly loved before it’s too late guys. Because when she’s gone it’s gonna be the worst pain you feel.

  • @stacyx0xo
    @stacyx0xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're amazing. Thank you .