The kind of guys that go to these conventions are the kind of guys that say “let me play devils advocate here” in an argument about some important shit like abolishing slavery.
I really need you to go to this video th-cam.com/video/rfAvTTGDSUQ/w-d-xo.html and check out a specific comment under the name SugedaBoss1. The replies are making me sad... And disgusted.
i love that women openly saying they deserve rights is “acting like men” and men expressing genuine emotion and caring for the people around them is “acting like women” like my dudes i dont think those traits are gendered i think it’s just called being a functioning human being
@@djdee6386 "sexual assault bad and we should stop that" and they respond with like "what if the roles were reversed??? huh??! answer that sjw snowflake"
@@djdee6386 Gosh, it hurts my brain knowing that this comment is basically a comment someone would make unironically "Oh, so defending yourself from a killer is okay, but punching an 8yo kid in the face isn't? You liberals don't have any brain cell.."
Wouldn’t that just prove that a woman’s only job ISNT to just birth children ?? Like then why would god or whatever u believe in even bring her to this earth if she doesn’t have a purpose😂
ForevaLaTrelle dad: “alright so what do we always say” Daughter: “women are objects” Dad: “very good. Now, you’ve been out of the kitchen for two whole minutes. If you stay out anymore you might grow a penis”
the fact that these guys remind me of my dad and all the men in leadership at my old childhood church is unsettling You know what, i bet he's gonna take mom and little bro still living at home out to see this conference XD
One time my stepbrother said "if women are equal I can hit a girl then" and I told him he wasnt allowed to hit boys either because its literally illegal. His brain short circuited.
Hitting anyone isn't how it should be and yes it's assault either way. How about you act like an adult and solve your issues with words instead you monkey.
i looked the website up and it literally advertises itself as "the mansplaining event of the year" and i literally wheezed i was laughing so hard. anyway, kurtis thanks for being educated and a good person
The Flying Dutchman the argument should be to not hit anyone. Point to the feminists who think men shouldn’t hit women in self defence. every feminist I know thinks gender doesn’t matter in self defence, because arguing otherwise is just arguing that women are too weak to cause damage, which is an anti-feminist belief.
When me and my friend were talking about this thing we literally said the same thing. Also, aren't we already able to have "unlimited babies." Like, who's limiting the amount of babies we can have?
I've always noticed that books written in and around the 1800s by WOMEN have always portrayed women's views completely differently than books by MEN. In books like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, Little House on the Prairie, Gone with the Wind, ex cetera, the women are usually sensible, strong, intelligent and not just weak emotional wrecks who love to cook and clean. In short, they actually have personality traits besides being kind and nurturing. While books by men usually portray at least one woman as a weak, stumbling idiot who has no purpose in life but to bear men's children.
Really? I mean negative stereotypes exist for a reason but usually the stories written by men also have a strong, sensible female lead (or sidekick). I specialize in roman/greek/german medieval history so the 1800s are not my expertise, but even in medieval stories you often have multiple good women and one bad counterexample (for example in "Wigalois", you have the princess who is loyal to her betrothed and does not give up on him even when he seems to be dead. or the antagonists wife (some duchess) who cunningly bargains for her husband to be released. the only negative stereotype is the wild fisherwoman who finds the protagonist unconscious and takes advantage of his state by stealing from him and later gaslighting him. - none of the women in the book had children or were mentioned for that purpose) A lot of medieval stories that I read were based around that structure: 2-3 good women and 1 bad example which seems about alright to me.
@@wolfsmaid6815 both the examples you mentioned are still defined by their role in relation to their male counterpart (staying loyal to him, getting him released, etc). Not saying there's absolutely no independent women in all of history pre-1800s, but there's a massive increase once the masses became literate and publishing became a thing. A lot of medieval and ancient stories have been influenced by countless re-writes through pen or oral storytelling. This blurs the line of authorship, and they become the product of a community rather than a single person. However if you look at novels in the last 250 years, where we know who the author was so we can draw a clear line between male and female authors. And like OP said, those written by women definitely have more developed female characters than those by men
@@cutecakes2228 Because women in general are defined in relation to their male counterpart. I never claimed that they existed independently from their surroundings. Just like a toddler would define a dog as "not a cat", we often use opposites and their relations to one another as one of the most basic forms of definition.
@@wolfsmaid6815 Speaking in terms of characters, they can be defined by what they do in the story. An abundance of female characters' sole narrative purposes are to support the males' journeys, rather than having their own.
right. I cant tell you the last time someone else's gender or expression made me confused bc it makes 0 difference to my life. youre a dude that "acts like a girl"? ok, how does that effect me? or you? or anyone besides him? I just don't get it. thon what planet is this such a pressing issue?
Jahnavi Raman what’s crazy is that these are the same type of men who are the first to call a woman a gold digger for wanting anything...women can’t work, they can’t be housewives and be taken cared of...what CAN we do?? Jeez
Luna nothing. That’s the point. They hate us for everything we do that isn’t sucking their dick, popping out babies, cleaning up after them like children, or making them a sandwich. “Make Women Great Again” uh I think you meant “Make it socially acceptable to abuse women and treat them as sub human again” To be fair, I guess the second one doesn’t have as much of a ring to it.
These dudes don't like women's rights because that means women have the _right_ not to be with them. I'm sure that's a liberty that women nationwide are taking full advantage of.
They’re actually upset that women are setting higher standard, these are the same men who tell woman to set higher standards when they have any complaints about men. Or the answer is always for women to be more ‘submissive’.
I bet this information about woman losing most eggs by 30 isn't even true, it wouldn't make sense evolution-wise for women to have so little time to reproduce
@Glenna Smith Actually, it's a joke about the desire to corrupt innocence, and it's consumptive nature. They don't want to date a virgin. They want to consume her virginity and have her end up a needy (but loyal) slut. They want her to be a virgin first so they can feel special, and therefor valuable AKA everybody is insecure. It's a weird but understandable conflict.
@Glenna Smith its pretty obvious that most of them want virgins so virgins don't have anything to compare them to. not too much different from incels who complain about girls not wanting them while not being worth anything themselves.
“Women have been unhappy since 1970!” No, women have been unhappy the whole time. We just weren’t allowed to open our own bank accounts until the 1960’s, or open our own credit lines w/o discrimination until 1974. Meaning when we got financial autonomy, we started speaking out more often.
The thing is, women happiness indicators are going down since 1970. But you know which indicators go down as well? Men happiness indicators. They are just twistings statistics to "support" they ass backwards thesis. Life is getting a bit shittier each year for EVERYONE.
@@yusraaa4221 what the fuck are you talking about genuinely, please tell me youre trolling. The original comment was 8 months ago. Woman ask now “you happy?” Woman say no. Woman back then repressed and had no righty rights, you ask woman then woman say yes im happy, if my husband says I am.
@@microwavedforks First of all, youtube doesn't organize comments by date so it doesn't matter how old it was. Second, i'm explaining that what right-wingers are usually referring to when they talk about women's happiness is a particular statistic, and the nature of a statistic involves being asked, not waiting for the subject to "speak out", like the comment was claiming
@@zvanev adress the fact that women have been holding conventions for decades to "train" men, biggot!!! I'm not a native speaker and I don't care to look up every word as long as you get the message
16:37 My girlfriend is very into traditional femininity. Her aspiration in life is to be a housewife. She’s been like this since she was little, and made it well known when I met her. But she’s also a feminist who believes in equal rights. That can coexist. And no one is forcing these women to reject traditional femininity??? There are plenty of women who enjoy that, and choose that path.
Also with feminism - if someone (not you) was abusive towards her, she’d be allowed to leave, because being a happy housewife buzzing round the kitchen and cleaning up various fluids doesn’t automatically mean you sign up for a lifetime of abuse (or.. it shouldn’t, anyway)
as a woman watching this video actually brings me to tears. its so genuinely frightening and disheartening that men like this are out there :/ sometimes being a woman is so tiring
but kurtis!!! im new to watching ur videos but thank u for always bringing awareness to things/people like this & simultaneously being hilarious u are the best
My mom was abused physically and verbally by the men in her life because of small mistakes she made. To this day, she still walks quiet and flinches whenever i raise my hands near her, even when we moved away from her abusers. Men like him make me incredibly sick to my stomach.
I hope your mother has gotten better. These dudes seriously need to go touch some grass and get some vitamin D from the sun, because they seem to live in some isolated cave in some random place in Antarctica.
@@theta3873 Tbh I sort of disagree because it’s very possible for women to end up in abusive relationships. They could end up with a guy like that and not know it at first. Whatever it is, it does happen. Maybe you meant it in a different way, but that’s how I took it.
@@theta3873 Yeah but that's only if they know about who they truly are before they date them. The guy could just fake it until the woman is unable to leave the relationship and he can be his asshole self
Real gender equality is - "Women should not hits men and men should not hit women" . And punishment should be equal for both men and women for hitting each other. And Self defence should be legal for both genders.
the sad thing is that most of these men do know that feminism stands for equal rights. the problem is that they genuinely don’t want women to be equal under the law or in society.
okay but imagine this... you go through 9 months of pregnancy, give birth, which is a major body changing experience, and then raise a child for 18 years, and then that child turns out to be one of the misogynistic men at this convention... id die
they absolutely have mommy issues lmao they lost all control of their life so they feel like they need to control women’s lives just to have control of something
the white hat-pink hat thing is like saying “imagine if i said i hate mondays but instead of mondays i said jews. THATS TERRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!” like. its not the same. 💀
I think it's turn off when you raise your femininity by 500%. So then they can have an infinite amount of babies. At least if the math was right. And I think it even works if you are a man because then you will be a 400% woman.
If it's not self-defence, don't hit. It shouldn't matter if you're a boy, girl, non-binary, gender-fluid, etc, if it's not self-defence, DON'T HIT PEOPLE!
The problem is they are taught "chivalry" as "don't hit women" when it should have just been "don't fucking hit anybody"... PERIOD (unless ofc self defense)
Imagine spending long grueling hours trying to give birth to a kid. You raise and teach it, making tons of sacrifices along the way so that your kid can have a good life, only for ur kid to grow up and say “make woman great again”
To be fair, bad parenting is often the reason people like this exist. It doesn't have to be full on abuse, but also not preparing them for important things liike how to treat other people.
@@olivercharles2930that is a valid factor and tbh I wish parents would teach it more. But that still doesn’t give u the right to diss an entire gender (expecially if one of them gave birth to u) because ur an insecure loser
@Democrats are cunts "disagreeing with you"? You spelled "invalidating and disrespecting your individuality and being sexist and creepy fucking assholes" wrong. We're not scared of all men. We're scared of men who are like you or these clowns or could potentially be like you or them.
Yes! That irritates my husband so much. He went on a rant about how you can't babysit your own kid because it's your kid. The mom isn't the only parent with you popping in and getting paid to stay with YOUR KID.
they probably didn't even want kids, yet for some reason still decided they would have them anyway, because creating life just because and not caring about it is a good idea right
That’s a big point men make. They’re like ‘if women want equal rights and they want to be treated as equals, that means we can hit them’. It’s like, is that really your big takeaway from this?
Ms. Makerspace Actually, yes. If a woman wants equality that differs from historical traditions, why then do majority of women admittedly continue to engage in slight and light assault upon men? There are so many stories of women not being believed when they report marital rape to LEOs but there are just as many stories of domestic violence against men in traditional romantic relationships and police laugh, literally. If women want equality then they will suffer the consequences of my jujitsu and military training because that’s how I’d treat any other male combatant. Gone are the days of “I was just playing” when I receive a dick punch or “I’m sorry. I was emotional” when I’m slapped for looking at another woman or didn’t communicate. Equal rights = equal fights! May the best trained human win.
My brother actually went to a 21 convention once. The way it was advertised he thought it would give helpful tips to men on things like fashion, grooming, etiquette, health and all that good stuff. But needless to say he was very disappointed
Is he still interested in learning that sort of stuff? I’m happy to help him out for free, just bro to bro. Shit’s hard to teach Yourself (speaking from experience) and I’d just be happy to be able to help out
The more I read about feminism, I'm convinced that 90% of the argument against it is "Please, for the love of god, you used to believe in doing childcare and housekeeping for free because you had a uterus and we need you to come back to that, because it was so, so great for us."
The other 10% is pointing the leniency towards female pedophilia, domestic abuse, sexual assault and in some cases female crime in general. Don't get me wrong, most domestic abuse and sexual assault is done by male criminals, I am not doubting that. I just think there are some issues worth taking into consideration that don't fall into the usual misogynist spiel from MRA clowns.
Isn't single motherhood a male issue, seeing how the man walks out of the relationship Edit: I want to clarify that the issue of single motherhood is a complex one with many different factors that lead to it. A lot of single mothers are Co parents, the result of the man leaving or the result of the mother taking the child. I'm just saying that too often the pressure and responsibility of raising the child is placed on the mother alone, while the man who had equal claim and responsibility to said child is often dismissed. That it's her fault for sleeping with him and not his fault for walking out. If you're going to address the women who make bad choices or take the children, you must also address the bad men who leave their children.
well using their logic, women don't know how to be women anymore and are consquently leaving the men no choice but to leave them alone with their child.
@@deelee6345 Ah yes, I remember when my girlfriend didn't kiss the ground I walk on once, I felt this unbearable urge to leave and never contact her again, I barely managed to fight it off
@@jocelynducourant3803 okay but ... they're still having sex with a man that's leaving or doesn't care. just because you're having sex outside of marriage doesn't mean the man just doesn't exist anymore and doesn't have any responsibilities.
Suhaana Arham the funny thing is you can easily stump ANY of them spewing this bullshit. They hate people using government aid so just bring up the current orphan statistics. Then proceed to explain how the orphanages will be flooded and most of the kids will be forced to live on the streets. Just see what they say afterwards..
Shy Saw this comment I’m about to say from somewhere else and lemme tell you IT IS GOLD “The men are coming to help” “Lets just replace to with a comma” “The men are coming, help”
While legally it is okay to hit someone in self defence. It is deemed more okay for a woman to hit a man, than a man hitting a woman in any other situation. Im not a very violent person, but I have no problem hitting a woman in self defence, of course I probably wont go to punches right away, but just because it is a female attacking me, doesnt mean I will just let them think it is okay to do so, and will promply defend myself.
Juan Sanchez I don’t think their comment was addressing common sense cases like self defense. They are saying we should have a mentality that no one should hurt anyone legally
Juan Sanchez basically I’m saying that comment wasn’t claiming you couldn’t defend yourself. It was addressing the mentality these men have about equality.
Juan Sanchez This wasn’t about self defense, hence why it wasn’t mentioned anywhere in my comment. If a woman walks up to a man and hits him, that’s assault. If a man walks up to a woman and hits her, that’s assault. You can’t go around hitting anyone. There is no defense for “equal rights means I can hit women”.
My bio dad wouldn’t let my mom go to school or get a job because of his stupid pride even though he didn’t make enough to support us, on multiple occasions he’d quit his job without having another lined up, and he refused to work multiple jobs. My mom had to covertly go to job interviews and then act as if she had just gotten a random job offer just to keep food on our table, until my dad just up and abandoned us when I was about 12. Single motherhood isn’t usually the woman’s fault in my experience
I think it's somewhat rare that it's on the mother. Especially at a young age I imagine the fathers are more likely to wanna avoid responsibility becaue they're not emotionally and romantically mature enough. This ofc goes both ways but I imagine it's easier for the father since he's not the one carrying and giving birth to the child. Just look at the kids Kyle and Jason from the TLC show Unexpected. They're around 16, I think? and he's not mature enough to be a parent and he winds up mentally abusing Kyle and blaming her for his stupid actions.
I've actually been to a vacuum convention, it was hosted in the same convention center I was going to another con at. I didn't stay long though, kinda sucked
@@elisecode2212 It did actually lol and what's better is I didn't even know it until I stepped into a large hallway with, I shit you not, those science fair project boards on tables with pictures of vacuum cleaners on them, mixed with the lack of any people there and it was.. bizarre to say the least 😅
"Then can I hit women too?" is so disturbing. Have they been wanting to hit women so bad that's the first thing that pops in their minds? And why would you ever think it's okay to hit men? Please seek help.
a guy from my old school who goes to my current school asked me "am i allowed to hit a girl if she hits me??" and i just know he meant it in a "omg feminism equal rights equal fights" way :(
I don't understand.. Maybe, I'm not getting the point but I think men are allowed to hit a women back for self defense... You shouldn't just stay quiet and be beaten just because it's a woman... I feel like people will start making a fuss when a woman gets hit by a man but when it's swiched, most people just stay quiet..
@@lemonqvartz Feminism is sooo not about equally beating up each other. People shouldn't beat up each other in the first place regardless of their gender.
@@astrid8678 If a woman is trying to seriously harm or kill a man of course they should fight back. But what's wrong is wanting to hit a woman who is doing nothing and wanting to get away with it because of "equality". And also guys hitting guys are definitely wrong too.
as a single mom, it BAFFLES me that WOMEN are always blamed for becoming single moms 😂 like you know MAJORITY of the time it’s bc the *GUY* ….LEFT…..right???
It's sad. People try and justify it by saying "she should have chosen her partner more carefully." Wait. Should they have chosen more carefully? Oh shit now I'm thinking blame actually lies on both sides.
It's both parents fault in my opinion. The man was a coward and ran. And sadly the mom did not do her due diligence as far as condoms and picking a good guy goes
@@sinjunmorris701 well in most cases (like mine) there’s a lot of manipulation involved pre pregnancy. my ex husband/baby daddy was an amazing boyfriend actually all the way through my first pregnancy & we even got married 4 months later & things were great. a month later i got pregnant with my daughter & the stress of it all (i was still going to college & working on the weekends as a server & he worked doing hvac installment which was decent money but not the best) caused a complete shift in character for both of us. we ended up becoming really toxic and emotionally abusive to each other until i decided to leave, 8 months pregnant with a one and a half year old. the first two years i tried and tried and TRIED to get him to coparent with me and be involved with his kids (he was a great dad with my son pre-divorce) and he just went MIA for months at a time then would pop up for a couple weeks and disappear again. there was absolutely no way for me to have known he was going to do that when i got pregnant the first time. i will say, in the last year he has finally stepped up and started being more consistently involved but it took a really really long time & i never told him he couldn’t see them or anything i would reach out to him, take the kids to him, plan things for him that he would bail on, etc. although i wasn’t a great wife, i was never a bad mother.
These feel like the type of men that would be perfect for us girls to pull a prank in and try to tell them something about a women that is false. Like you tell them that we don't actually do face masks, that's just our face layer peeling off. We just came up with the term face masks so we could talk about it in front of guys..... idk those are always so funny to me.
I get what you're saying, but actually, yeah, menopause and the tolls of childbirth are stopping us from having unlimited babies. I don't really understand what they think going to this convention will do to our bodies, though...
@@afooz again, no we just don't want unlimited babies. But just to humour you, even if we didn't have menopause we wouldn't be able to have unlimited babies because we can only have 1 baby per year and because at some point we are going to die of old age
It’s so telling with men like this that they’ve never actually listened to a woman explain what feminism means to them. They just have their own crazy assumptions, and assume everyone agrees with them.
Mallory Gantner i would now like to pour one out for our friends who lost the vacuum convention this year. Not a drink though I’m talking about the real show of respect: dumping out a portion of your vacuum bag’s contents
“Men act like women, women act like men” **gasp** *woah* *people* acting like *people* (Edit: woah i guess i'm funny, also everyone’s responses are hilarious)
kurtis really put it perfectly with “woman can be stay at home moms if they want, but you’re allowed to not want that” because that’s EXACTLY what “the future is female” means.
The irony of them saying ‘how dare feminist break away from the traditional family structure, they’re enforcing their beliefs blah blah blah’ yet they’re berating women who don’t want to be housewives. Feminism is the ability to choose what you want to do with your life, these idiots don’t seem to understand it
@@OkayMay749 funny, because there are also other feminists wants to blame men for everything. Of course, they don't exists in this PERFECT group right?
@@steveman751 and from seeing your previous comment it seems that is something you dont agree with. Now tell me, which part of treating women equally and respectful is sooo disturbing to you? Im very curious.
he’s not even being like overly feminist, he just being a decent guy, like i worry when people start commenting, oh wow kurtis conner’s a simp! like did we leave basic human decency in 2019?? 😂😂
Some of my family members are overweight but they still always eat healthy, stay active and of course beauty is subjective but I still love them inside and out. Some people just have bad metabolisms or have physical ailments that prevent them from being perfect and skinny and that shouldn't be considered ugly!
@@SoftFryMildlyOverSalted as long as one is active and not worsening their health no one has the right to shame them, actually we have no say in anyone's personal business at all. I'm not obese per say but have PCOS which makes losing weight a bit more difficult than usual (am gradually losing weight not just very drastically), I'm only ridiculed for my chubby features which should not even be considered death threatening now, no one is caring about my health when insulting, they are only hating the way I look. Someone who cares would be much more kinder. I don't get this argument regarding body positivity at all like no one is saying that bad health is okay and should be looked at in a positive light they're just saying not to be a dick and disrespect people who have certain body types.
@@falling_awayyy just say you dont understand medical science and still think bmi is an accurate and important metric, it looks marginally better than what you said.🙄
@The elephant In the room fathers are not needed for the mental development of children. Ever heard of single mothers? My mom is a single mother and I turned out fine, I didn't need a dad to mentally developed🏃♀️
@@BlazzyistryingDamn, if only you went to that convention by the time you left with 500% more femininity you wouldn't even be able to add at all unless it was adding another baby to the family I'm glad I didn't go if I went and got 500% more masculine I'd just die of heart disease before I left the building
@@hauntedhotel8565 well... these guys don't care about overpopulation... as long as it's THEIR (read: white) babies. They want the rest of us (including lefty white folks like me) to somehow both be sterile AND be forced to carry to term. Yeah, I don't get it either.
i feel like those men were beaten by a girl in a stupid ball game when they were like 5 and they have dedicated their life to putting women down. kinda like batman’s story... more like... badman
Great video and great comments from the men here who are supporting women. it's so nice and refreshing to see videos and read comments from men speaking out against misogyny and supporting women. Sadly when women advocate for themselves they often still receive misogynistic responses and too often a woman's opinions are taken less seriously than a man's. An example of this is a few years back when I lived in a small, very deprived rural UK town, i often took my then toddler son to the local community center as it was one of the few places that held toddler groups where I got to know the manager of that centre. Despite her good relationship with the local MP and being good at her job for many years, she sadly found that once she stopped refering herself as "Christina" but instead shorted her name to "Chris", she was taken more seriously in emails and got much better responses. This was from 2019, not 1919 btw.....
literally. they always say “women post booby and get like she live on easy mode 😡😡” like no chad, we can’t walk alone at night. we get harassed and catcalled everytime we go out. we get misogynistic comments all the time. and on top of all of that we don’t even get paid the same. no kyle we do y live on easy mode
@@diosol_ I'm just happy that there are guys out there Kurtis and that we are slowly getting equality. I'm just sad that more men like Kurtis aren't out there and many people (males and females) think of equality as 'hitting men/women".
@@akashborah3675 no we get catcalled every single time we go out, you aren’t a women don’t comment on that. i have experienced this. 1 in every 5 women are r4ped. america isn’t the only country people like you need to realize that. yes the pay gap is real but not in america.
@@akashborah3675 yes men don’t have it easy at all, but you are not a women, you should not speak for them, idc how many women friends you have. i’m a women telling you i can’t remember the last time i went out and didn’t get catcalled or hit on.
The kind of guys that go to these conventions are the kind of guys that say “let me play devils advocate here” in an argument about some important shit like abolishing slavery.
Holy crap that's accurate.
I really need you to go to this video th-cam.com/video/rfAvTTGDSUQ/w-d-xo.html and check out a specific comment under the name SugedaBoss1. The replies are making me sad... And disgusted.
AlyssaBars14 god that’s disgusting. I didn’t know misogyny was so accepted by TH-cam. Men like that are pathetic
@@Recyclablee right?? It's so common, it seems like I see them everywhere
Jealin Nicole they be like “lemme play the devils advocate” like they not the devil.
“we need something positive for women, destroying feminism is the key to that.” i don’t think i’ve ever heard anything more conflicting than that.
god I know 😂
GOD that made me so angry...
They just hate women finally having a voice of their own
(Not a single female voice in the crowd.)
I disagree
idk ??? He meant destroying 3rd/4th wave feminism which is literally hurting more women than it’s helping.
i love that women openly saying they deserve rights is “acting like men” and men expressing genuine emotion and caring for the people around them is “acting like women” like my dudes i dont think those traits are gendered i think it’s just called being a functioning human being
Why do you love it?
@@shoopshoop7650 its called sarcasm
Im pretty sure most pickup artists are soulless manipulative psychopaths, just look at the speakers expression, somethings not right there
FACTS
@Suffer No Fools ok boomer
He really went “women can be empowered but I can’t be racist??? Disgusting.”
“you say you like cupcakes huh? Now replace ‘cupcakes’ with murder, not so cool now”.
@@djdee6386 this is literally all their arguments are 😭
@@djdee6386 "sexual assault bad and we should stop that" and they respond with like "what if the roles were reversed??? huh??! answer that sjw snowflake"
those two things have absolutely no correlation what😭 the stupidity in some people is insane
@@djdee6386 Gosh, it hurts my brain knowing that this comment is basically a comment someone would make unironically
"Oh, so defending yourself from a killer is okay, but punching an 8yo kid in the face isn't? You liberals don't have any brain cell.."
**a woman that cant have kids exists**
*those guys:* *is she even female?*
infertile? you mean *u s e l e s s*
fEmAlE. nice touch.
Wouldn’t that just prove that a woman’s only job ISNT to just birth children ?? Like then why would god or whatever u believe in even bring her to this earth if she doesn’t have a purpose😂
they honestly prob think that smh
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Also, can we talk about how the website has a 25% discount for "young women ages 18-25"? So, so gross! My skin is crawling ugh
I'm LITERALLY dying.
🤮🤮🤮🤮
Saving my money so I can go and kick their ass
Wow! Gross!
ozzie pants that’s a yikes from me dog
The fact that many of these men have daughters is disgusting
I don’t support kidnapping but in this case i don’t think it’d be wrong to kidnap them and give them to an orphanage
The Devs i also don’t support kidnapping but yes
ForevaLaTrelle Gosh those poor kids. I know this is the land of the free but some people really shouldn’t be allowed to raise tiny developing humans.
ForevaLaTrelle dad: “alright so what do we always say”
Daughter: “women are objects”
Dad: “very good. Now, you’ve been out of the kitchen for two whole minutes. If you stay out anymore you might grow a penis”
the fact that these guys remind me of my dad and all the men in leadership at my old childhood church is unsettling
You know what, i bet he's gonna take mom and little bro still living at home out to see this conference XD
One time my stepbrother said "if women are equal I can hit a girl then" and I told him he wasnt allowed to hit boys either because its literally illegal. His brain short circuited.
Hitting anyone isn't how it should be and yes it's assault either way. How about you act like an adult and solve your issues with words instead you monkey.
Thats so scary how they repeat that,s if they dont already do it and that the only thing they can think of is violence when it comes to women🤐
and if ur first thought when talking about women’s rights is being able to hit them back? 😭 dude?? 😭😭
Homie must've still had beef with that one girl from recess that one upped him and he got booed at @@sophierodriguez9713
@@sophierodriguez9713They were talking about hitting them in general, not hitting them back.
i looked the website up and it literally advertises itself as "the mansplaining event of the year" and i literally wheezed i was laughing so hard. anyway, kurtis thanks for being educated and a good person
I'd love to see a video of how many women actually show up to this 😂. They'll probably have to cancel.
Isabella Carbonari kurtis is the Only thing that gives me hope maybe ever
Oh dear Jesus don’t they know NO ONE likes, wants, or needs mansplaining
Erica Raths if only they did. maybe then the world would be habitable again 🙄
if the world is going to start ending because of global warming and deadly plagues, I hope it finds their conference room first 😇🙏🏼
bro when men are like “oh soo can hit a girl now?” bro why do you want to hit women so bad? you can’t hit anyone legally
@The Flying Dutchman what? It is acceptable to hit back and gender doesn't matter. It's funny how some men think, that women disagree with that.
@The Flying Dutchman Well those men don't speak for women. Feminism means fighting for equal rights and accepting equal responsibilities.
The Flying Dutchman the argument should be to not hit anyone. Point to the feminists who think men shouldn’t hit women in self defence. every feminist I know thinks gender doesn’t matter in self defence, because arguing otherwise is just arguing that women are too weak to cause damage, which is an anti-feminist belief.
@@isabellekh8112 why cant ppl just like not hit other ppl? regardless of gender...
Calm down it’s one sentence
“get pregnant and have unlimited babies” sounds like a threat, i actually screamed.
Same 😰
@@nunpho reminds me of that thing during WW2 Italy(5+) and Germany (4+), where if you had a lot of babies, you got an award...
it sounds like a really weird promotion at dave and busters
When me and my friend were talking about this thing we literally said the same thing. Also, aren't we already able to have "unlimited babies." Like, who's limiting the amount of babies we can have?
It's so funny how in the paragraph below that they said "have as many babies as you want" like. So then what if I want to have none. What now.
as a woman, i can confirm we raised our femininity by 500%. I have spawned 728 babies this year!
oh please, I’ve spawned 1,456 babies!
Ive spawned 4. Problem is im a guy
@@offcialaa2progamr good lord
@@offcialaa2progamr 😨
@@offcialaa2progamr👏👏👏👏
how did they unironically say "the men have arrived to help" WHAT LMAO
I know, I'm dying OMG
It hurts
Omg i love that movie(pfp)
"Cocaine's a helluva drug" - Rick James
They really thought they did sum😐
Some fucking white knight shit lmao
“the men have arrived to help”
*o h g o d*
*trying not to roll eyes*
they just have to feel needed...
for some reason that made me want to throw my phone as if it was burning my hand.... what
I physically gagged, ugh
That sentence actually made me feel so gross I had to pause the video and take a minute to recover
"fellas is it gay to treat women like human beings-con 2020"
Leah X lmao
Leah X same
Leah X SAME
It's only gay if you say women and men are equal 😔
Giving child support to female rapists yea sure "treat wahmen like human"
I've always noticed that books written in and around the 1800s by WOMEN have always portrayed women's views completely differently than books by MEN.
In books like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, Little House on the Prairie, Gone with the Wind, ex cetera, the women are usually sensible, strong, intelligent and not just weak emotional wrecks who love to cook and clean. In short, they actually have personality traits besides being kind and nurturing.
While books by men usually portray at least one woman as a weak, stumbling idiot who has no purpose in life but to bear men's children.
Really? I mean negative stereotypes exist for a reason but usually the stories written by men also have a strong, sensible female lead (or sidekick). I specialize in roman/greek/german medieval history so the 1800s are not my expertise, but even in medieval stories you often have multiple good women and one bad counterexample (for example in "Wigalois", you have the princess who is loyal to her betrothed and does not give up on him even when he seems to be dead. or the antagonists wife (some duchess) who cunningly bargains for her husband to be released. the only negative stereotype is the wild fisherwoman who finds the protagonist unconscious and takes advantage of his state by stealing from him and later gaslighting him. - none of the women in the book had children or were mentioned for that purpose) A lot of medieval stories that I read were based around that structure: 2-3 good women and 1 bad example which seems about alright to me.
dont forget how they always gotta sexualize the women in the story too
@@wolfsmaid6815 both the examples you mentioned are still defined by their role in relation to their male counterpart (staying loyal to him, getting him released, etc). Not saying there's absolutely no independent women in all of history pre-1800s, but there's a massive increase once the masses became literate and publishing became a thing. A lot of medieval and ancient stories have been influenced by countless re-writes through pen or oral storytelling. This blurs the line of authorship, and they become the product of a community rather than a single person. However if you look at novels in the last 250 years, where we know who the author was so we can draw a clear line between male and female authors. And like OP said, those written by women definitely have more developed female characters than those by men
@@cutecakes2228 Because women in general are defined in relation to their male counterpart. I never claimed that they existed independently from their surroundings.
Just like a toddler would define a dog as "not a cat", we often use opposites and their relations to one another as one of the most basic forms of definition.
@@wolfsmaid6815 Speaking in terms of characters, they can be defined by what they do in the story. An abundance of female characters' sole narrative purposes are to support the males' journeys, rather than having their own.
"women act like men and men act like women! it's so confusing!" wow it must be so hard to have to treat others like individual human beings ?
Cici Calamity lmfaoo what these idiots mean when they say “women act like men” is that women are getting jobs
right. I cant tell you the last time someone else's gender or expression made me confused bc it makes 0 difference to my life. youre a dude that "acts like a girl"? ok, how does that effect me? or you? or anyone besides him? I just don't get it. thon what planet is this such a pressing issue?
Jahnavi Raman what’s crazy is that these are the same type of men who are the first to call a woman a gold digger for wanting anything...women can’t work, they can’t be housewives and be taken cared of...what CAN we do?? Jeez
Luna nothing. That’s the point. They hate us for everything we do that isn’t sucking their dick, popping out babies, cleaning up after them like children, or making them a sandwich.
“Make Women Great Again” uh I think you meant “Make it socially acceptable to abuse women and treat them as sub human again”
To be fair, I guess the second one doesn’t have as much of a ring to it.
it’s almost like traits aren’t solely based on gender.... nah can’t be that
The dude at the beginning was definitely the kid who says “let me play the devil’s advocate...” when your talking about the Holocaust in history.
the truth of this is astounding, we all knew that kid lol
"Of you consider the context..."
“I mean, Hitler wasn’t THAT bad”
Or slavery for that matter
"Let me play Devil's Advocate-" No. You are the devil
These dudes don't like women's rights because that means women have the _right_ not to be with them. I'm sure that's a liberty that women nationwide are taking full advantage of.
U killed me, I'm dead
These dudes are mad because they feel like they lost a possession they previously owned and could use whenever they wanted
@@sarahbarabe8470 So true.
They’re actually upset that women are setting higher standard, these are the same men who tell woman to set higher standards when they have any complaints about men. Or the answer is always for women to be more ‘submissive’.
What? How do women these days NOT have the right to be with men they don't like? Women can leave a relationship anytime
"until ~90% of their eggs are dead at age 30"
...do they realize that 10% of a woman's eggs is still TWO HUNDRED THOUSAND eggs?
I bet this information about woman losing most eggs by 30 isn't even true, it wouldn't make sense evolution-wise for women to have so little time to reproduce
No that would require 2 things they don't have. adequate sex education. Working brains.
Bold of you to assume those men know anything about woman biology 😂
not just that, but that “statistic” is a flat out lie
I don't think this dude realizes much, tbh.
so abortions should be illegal, but if the father leaves it's the mother being shamed for staying?? honestly wtf
Women just can't win 😔
Even the option of abortion was illegalized by men it's almost as if all radical men want to keep women down for themselves it's so fucked up
Abortion is murder unless it’s to save the life of the mother
funny how he says “equal rights means i can hit women” like not having equal rights stopped them in the first place
Katherine Moss right
did you know technically you’re kate moss
aya winslow no it’s not like it’s my name or anything
OH MY GOSH R O A S T E D I'M STEALING THIS
Katherine Moss sister kate is short for katherine most of the time technically your screen name is kate moss but okay
"Men want debt-free virgins without tattoos."
Incidentally, I am a debt-free virgin without tattoos, but I don't want any of these men.
The real male fantasy is having sex with a virgin, getting them tattooed, and putting them in crippling debt.
Hell yeah.
@Glenna Smith Actually, it's a joke about the desire to corrupt innocence, and it's consumptive nature.
They don't want to date a virgin. They want to consume her virginity and have her end up a needy (but loyal) slut. They want her to be a virgin first so they can feel special, and therefor valuable AKA everybody is insecure.
It's a weird but understandable conflict.
@Glenna Smith its pretty obvious that most of them want virgins so virgins don't have anything to compare them to. not too much different from incels who complain about girls not wanting them while not being worth anything themselves.
@@seigeengine you definitely misused aka, also Bruh you in multiple comment sections doing this.... smh
@@seigeengine sounds like a niceguy/whiteknight thing to say ngl...
“Women have been unhappy since 1970!” No, women have been unhappy the whole time. We just weren’t allowed to open our own bank accounts until the 1960’s, or open our own credit lines w/o discrimination until 1974. Meaning when we got financial autonomy, we started speaking out more often.
The thing is, women happiness indicators are going down since 1970. But you know which indicators go down as well? Men happiness indicators. They are just twistings statistics to "support" they ass backwards thesis. Life is getting a bit shittier each year for EVERYONE.
Wow must be so hard, try being roasted alive by Putins bombs
No. It’s a study that asked women. Not a study waiting for women to speak out
@@yusraaa4221 what the fuck are you talking about genuinely, please tell me youre trolling. The original comment was 8 months ago. Woman ask now “you happy?” Woman say no. Woman back then repressed and had no righty rights, you ask woman then woman say yes im happy, if my husband says I am.
@@microwavedforks First of all, youtube doesn't organize comments by date so it doesn't matter how old it was. Second, i'm explaining that what right-wingers are usually referring to when they talk about women's happiness is a particular statistic, and the nature of a statistic involves being asked, not waiting for the subject to "speak out", like the comment was claiming
Kurtis’s little “eh-hih” after he makes a dumb joke is the only thing that brings me joy
every time he says dude he gives an angel its wings
MP mental terrorism?
@@Richjunior1 so you are saying you have to literally fight people to achieve smth? Why else would you need physical strength to get your way?!?!?
MP spell attic for me
@@zvanev adress the fact that women have been holding conventions for decades to "train" men, biggot!!!
I'm not a native speaker and I don't care to look up every word as long as you get the message
I never understood the whole equal rights = you can hit a woman. Um. Do they not realise they legally can't hit a man either? Because that's assault?
snig222 EXACTLY!
AMEN
Yup! It should be looked at equally
snig222 ikr
It’s like they’re just looking for excuses to hit a women
16:37 My girlfriend is very into traditional femininity. Her aspiration in life is to be a housewife. She’s been like this since she was little, and made it well known when I met her. But she’s also a feminist who believes in equal rights. That can coexist. And no one is forcing these women to reject traditional femininity??? There are plenty of women who enjoy that, and choose that path.
THATS WHAT IM SAYING ⁉️⁉️
As long as that’s not the standard for every woman and they can choose to go down that path!! Exactly!!
Also with feminism - if someone (not you) was abusive towards her, she’d be allowed to leave, because being a happy housewife buzzing round the kitchen and cleaning up various fluids doesn’t automatically mean you sign up for a lifetime of abuse (or.. it shouldn’t, anyway)
I would absolutely love to stay at home and cook and clean all day and I’m a trans man
@@eldritchcupcakes3195 slay
Raise your femininity to 500% sounds a lot like those ads for games that say “pass this level and you’ll be legally skilled”
Sounds like they're selling supplements.
legally a pumpkin
prageruwu you can legally go to Disneyland
I cant get to PINK level though
“unlimited babies”
someone wanna tell them what menopause is?
Get Real 💀 you’re 100% correct there
They wouldn't understand it
they did say "with the time you have left"
SO YOU ARE PART OF THE FEMINIST KKK?
We should just freeze all their sperm and kill them
imagine carrying a child for 9 months, spending all that time and energy raising him just for him to become a pickup artist
Can we get an F in the chat for his mum
@@kosalraman2381 F
ITS TOO LATE TO ABORT ME NOW MOM! (Plus you wouldn't be able to anyway 😝)
@Mutiara Aisyah F
F
as a woman watching this video actually brings me to tears. its so genuinely frightening and disheartening that men like this are out there :/ sometimes being a woman is so tiring
but kurtis!!! im new to watching ur videos but thank u for always bringing awareness to things/people like this & simultaneously being hilarious u are the best
@@g1rl2die4let’s not pretend like there aren’t millions of women who openly hate all men.
Literally so sad and frustrating. I might burst into tears from how these idiots are exploiting poor women who attend these sexist conventions 😭
@@g1rl2die4 Kurtis is the ally we all need
equal rights ≠ you can hit men and women
equal rights = you can’t hit either cause that’s assault
edit: i heard y’all and changed the /= to ≠
And thats on period except if you hit in self defense
You could use '!=' for not equal to next time (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
True
Fucking thank you that's what I've been saying
YAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS
"90% of their eggs are dead by 30"
Uh... even if that were true, that would still leave 72,000 perfectly viable cells...
What fuckin pseudoscience ass bull shit are they spewing
@@evannn6277 its bro science🗿😂
You only ovulate around 400 in your life
Remind me of Adams ruins everything the one where they talked about fertility and women in their 30’s
What’s up with these guys and feeling like they NEED to reproduce, THE WORLD NEEDS LESS OF YOU GHOULS NOT MORE
“Raise your femininity by 500%” feels like a line from an alternate universe where there are infomercials for HRT
Friedrich Sarah E. Thompson HAHAHAHA
This comment is SO good
I WAS THINKINH GHE SAME THINH YOUR MIND
Funny you should mention that, I was listening to a Christian radio station (don't ask) and there WAS one, for men!
I'll get a uhhhhhhhhh lower your feminity by 500%
My mom was abused physically and verbally by the men in her life because of small mistakes she made. To this day, she still walks quiet and flinches whenever i raise my hands near her, even when we moved away from her abusers. Men like him make me incredibly sick to my stomach.
ugh. has she gotten professional help for it, like therapy if possible? does seem like she's still affected by it :(
That sounds more like torture than abuse...
I hope your mother has gotten better. These dudes seriously need to go touch some grass and get some vitamin D from the sun, because they seem to live in some isolated cave in some random place in Antarctica.
10:40 my mind immediately went "I mean four female ghostbusters? The feminists are taking over"
"I'M AN ADULT VIRGIN"
Same!! Vine will forever rule my life
Sameeeee
Movie bombed badly tho
Naslav 90'3 So? Then it was just a bad movie, the sexist outrage wasn’t warranted
Shariya Yeaqub YEEES
ironic that they’re asking for 1G when they can’t even find the G-spot
I DIED 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THIS COMMENT!!
😂😂😂
this needs to be the top comment-
KSBABAJV IM CACKLING
They can't even find the clitoris 😂
"I can hit women now."
Like you weren't already being abusive towards women haHA
They don’t get the chance, no woman self respecting or not would stoop low enough to date or be with these guys.
@@theta3873 Tbh I sort of disagree because it’s very possible for women to end up in abusive relationships. They could end up with a guy like that and not know it at first. Whatever it is, it does happen. Maybe you meant it in a different way, but that’s how I took it.
Ikr. These guys think that domestic violence doesn't exist and that hitting someone physically weaker than them is something revolutionary.
@@theta3873 Yeah but that's only if they know about who they truly are before they date them. The guy could just fake it until the woman is unable to leave the relationship and he can be his asshole self
Real gender equality is - "Women should not hits men and men should not hit women" . And punishment should be equal for both men and women for hitting each other. And Self defence should be legal for both genders.
the sad thing is that most of these men do know that feminism stands for equal rights. the problem is that they genuinely don’t want women to be equal under the law or in society.
When you're put on a pedestal for so long equality feels like oppression-funkyfrog
@@poison-LICKTHEPOISON Just what i thought, spitting facts.
"unlimited babies" dude out there tryna make the sims 100 baby challenge a real thing
HAHAHA THIS HAD ME DEAD
Literally what I was thinking
I was playing my 100 babies save file while listening to this video lol.
I'm dead💀😂
lmao 😂😂
the only positive of corona is that this event is cancelled now
My thoughts exactly
For a second I thought that you guys were the same people-
@@Salthat oh hahaha
mother earth knew what she was stopping
Sonic The Nicholas Cage still be cancelled or delayed probably
okay but imagine this... you go through 9 months of pregnancy, give birth, which is a major body changing experience, and then raise a child for 18 years, and then that child turns out to be one of the misogynistic men at this convention... id die
Well if your a piece of shit mother that abuses her son yeah that might happen.
I wonder if they would actually say those things to their mother
oh my god.... i want to cry just thinking about this
@@xiii9154 Your right I feel like most of those men have major mommy issues
they absolutely have mommy issues lmao they lost all control of their life so they feel like they need to control women’s lives just to have control of something
the white hat-pink hat thing is like saying “imagine if i said i hate mondays but instead of mondays i said jews. THATS TERRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!” like. its not the same. 💀
You can tell by how only one side felt the need to have their uniform obscure their identity
And then men get offended when we say "toxic masculinity exists"
These men are just toxic in everyway
I agree that toxic masculinity exists. I just get pissed when certain people misuse the term and claim that any masculinity is toxic masculinity
Danny DeVito I’ve not heard people do that personally
Maisie Moo x no offense to you but I definitely have
Danny DeVito non taken 😂
"And have unlimited babies!"
Wait until they learn about menopause....
Menopause is murder, haven’t you heard? (I’m joking, these ppl just make me want to shoot myself 😎)
Menopause is MUR-TER
10:40
And infertility too! They’re gonna be *SHOCKED* 🤠✌🏻
I think it's turn off when you raise your femininity by 500%. So then they can have an infinite amount of babies. At least if the math was right. And I think it even works if you are a man because then you will be a 400% woman.
If it's not self-defence, don't hit. It shouldn't matter if you're a boy, girl, non-binary, gender-fluid, etc, if it's not self-defence, DON'T HIT PEOPLE!
like i'm so confused do these misogynistic guys just go around smacking people?
The problem is they are taught "chivalry" as "don't hit women" when it should have just been "don't fucking hit anybody"... PERIOD (unless ofc self defense)
Your profile pic is so cute
@@toenail997 thank you!
Or hit everyone. Just don’t discriminate.
Imagine spending long grueling hours trying to give birth to a kid. You raise and teach it, making tons of sacrifices along the way so that your kid can have a good life, only for ur kid to grow up and say “make woman great again”
To be fair, bad parenting is often the reason people like this exist. It doesn't have to be full on abuse, but also not preparing them for important things liike how to treat other people.
@@olivercharles2930that is a valid factor and tbh I wish parents would teach it more. But that still doesn’t give u the right to diss an entire gender (expecially if one of them gave birth to u) because ur an insecure loser
Your son says "Make women great again" and you just tell him you're about to make him an infant again because he clearly needs a do-over
@@Pragabond amen to that!
Women: "can yall just respect us maybe"
**That** man: "tHaTs LiTeRaLlY tHe Kkk"
And you know these particular men don’t give a damn about racial equality either
I love the implication that large groups of women are getting together to systematically commit extralegal murder of men
@@username-mk4qv How do you know?
@@shoopshoop7650 You just know my guy.
shoop shoop well, they have Stefan Molyneux as a speaker and that guy promoted racist eugenic ideology... sooooooo
“Why are women so scared of men?”
“Because men like that exist? Why kinda question....”
Democrats are cunts I don’t think it’s because of simply “disagreeing” that makes women scared of men....
@Democrats are cunts "disagreeing with you"?
You spelled "invalidating and disrespecting your individuality and being sexist and creepy fucking assholes" wrong.
We're not scared of all men. We're scared of men who are like you or these clowns or could potentially be like you or them.
Democrats are cunts bruh read a book or somethin get out of these replies 😂
Democrats are cunts what
Prolly just a troll ignore em
These are the type of men that call taking care of their own children “babysitting”.
Yes! That irritates my husband so much. He went on a rant about how you can't babysit your own kid because it's your kid. The mom isn't the only parent with you popping in and getting paid to stay with YOUR KID.
Lmao
they probably didn't even want kids, yet for some reason still decided they would have them anyway, because creating life just because and not caring about it is a good idea right
@@jamesneville8179 most of em have this idea of "continuing the legacy" or "carrying the family name" like they're the hottest shit to ever exist
Raggy and u wondering why nobody is entertaining this dumbass comment lmao anyways, next
A convention for women run by men is like a Black History Month event being hosted by Mel Gibson.
LMAO
Mel Gibson's Holocaust Awareness Month lol
👏👏👏
I hate when people say "oh I can hit women now??" Like who said you could hit men? How about no one hits anyone
Exactly
Exept for self defense, obviously
Right? It's still assault, you can't assault people.
That’s a big point men make. They’re like ‘if women want equal rights and they want to be treated as equals, that means we can hit them’. It’s like, is that really your big takeaway from this?
Ms. Makerspace
Actually, yes. If a woman wants equality that differs from historical traditions, why then do majority of women admittedly continue to engage in slight and light assault upon men?
There are so many stories of women not being believed when they report marital rape to LEOs but there are just as many stories of domestic violence against men in traditional romantic relationships and police laugh, literally.
If women want equality then they will suffer the consequences of my jujitsu and military training because that’s how I’d treat any other male combatant.
Gone are the days of “I was just playing” when I receive a dick punch or “I’m sorry. I was emotional” when I’m slapped for looking at another woman or didn’t communicate.
Equal rights = equal fights! May the best trained human win.
“Have unlimited babies” yes we will raise our spawns numbers until we have an army big enough to attack the convention.
This. Deserves. Top. Comment. Award.
Okay having babies is not a bad idea afterall...
Canon fodder
Lol
Just open the door and gets immediately swamped by a tidal wave of infants
"YES MY SPAWN, LEAVE NONE ALIVE AHAHAHAHAHA"
My brother actually went to a 21 convention once. The way it was advertised he thought it would give helpful tips to men on things like fashion, grooming, etiquette, health and all that good stuff. But needless to say he was very disappointed
He spent at least a grand on it too. My condolences.
I'm curious, what was it like? Like what subjects did they discuss lol
I might consider actually going if that's what they talked about. Oh, and if it wasn't fucking $1000
I feel so damn bad he paid a grand just to have incel shit which he could have for free, i feel so bad too cuz he sounds like a normal dude
Is he still interested in learning that sort of stuff? I’m happy to help him out for free, just bro to bro. Shit’s hard to teach Yourself (speaking from experience) and I’d just be happy to be able to help out
The more I read about feminism, I'm convinced that 90% of the argument against it is "Please, for the love of god, you used to believe in doing childcare and housekeeping for free because you had a uterus and we need you to come back to that, because it was so, so great for us."
What's the 10%
@@Ducket "Women are sluts and not sucking MY dick so we need to punish them."
The other 10% is pointing the leniency towards female pedophilia, domestic abuse, sexual assault and in some cases female crime in general.
Don't get me wrong, most domestic abuse and sexual assault is done by male criminals, I am not doubting that. I just think there are some issues worth taking into consideration that don't fall into the usual misogynist spiel from MRA clowns.
That’s true, but this video isn’t about that @@olivercharles2930
Isn't single motherhood a male issue, seeing how the man walks out of the relationship
Edit: I want to clarify that the issue of single motherhood is a complex one with many different factors that lead to it. A lot of single mothers are Co parents, the result of the man leaving or the result of the mother taking the child. I'm just saying that too often the pressure and responsibility of raising the child is placed on the mother alone, while the man who had equal claim and responsibility to said child is often dismissed. That it's her fault for sleeping with him and not his fault for walking out. If you're going to address the women who make bad choices or take the children, you must also address the bad men who leave their children.
Gabriel Heard although that’s true, often single mothers are more often caused from having sex outside of a stable relationship, or marriage
well using their logic, women don't know how to be women anymore and are consquently leaving the men no choice but to leave them alone with their child.
@@deelee6345 Ah yes, I remember when my girlfriend didn't kiss the ground I walk on once, I felt this unbearable urge to leave and never contact her again, I barely managed to fight it off
@@gabrielheard2287 this comment deserves more recognition i wheezed-
@@jocelynducourant3803 okay but ... they're still having sex with a man that's leaving or doesn't care. just because you're having sex outside of marriage doesn't mean the man just doesn't exist anymore and doesn't have any responsibilities.
“Not all men.”
You’re right, Kurtis Conner would never treat me like this
Unfortunately a very small minority of men think of women as human like Kurtis
@@aurora8749 Facts
@@aurora8749 It's getting better right? I'd like to think so. ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
@@unnithan-sg4gm not from my experience
@@aurora8749 oh okie
"Unlimited babies"
So who's gonna tell them that it's a women's uterus and not a vending machine?
Besides, even a vending machine has limits
You still gotta pay and even then you might not get what you want
My mans think it’s a spawn 💀
I’ve been putting coins in the wrong place for years.
Suhaana Arham the funny thing is you can easily stump ANY of them spewing this bullshit. They hate people using government aid so just bring up the current orphan statistics. Then proceed to explain how the orphanages will be flooded and most of the kids will be forced to live on the streets. Just see what they say afterwards..
Get pregnant and have unlimited babies sounds like a black Friday deal at michaels.
it sounds like a Sims cheat code
100 babies challenge irl!
I love how they complain about single motherhood as if men have no part in that
like they wouldn't be single if men didn't leave them
Yeah I was literally just about to point this out... the reason they’re single is usually cause the man left 😒
Lmfao just don't be single loser
@@doodle9495 don't be single? ahhh yes, if you don't have a house, just don't be homeless
@@jahnaviraman5411 lmfao just get the joke it's not that hard lmfao
"The men have arrived to help"
Let's just change the "to" to a comma
The men have arrived, help
PleaseI'vebeenstuckinhisbasementforeightyearsmakehimletmegoplease-
💀💀💀
more like a period lol
The men have arrived comma help
Dont forget the exclamation point at the end
Imagine your husband tells you that they bought tickets to that convention??? Like sorry we have divorce court that day tf
ikr i'd get outta that relationship as soon as possible
Immediately make a divorce tiktok even before the documents are done
That's why I am lesbian!
divorceeee court?! I'm going to mexico and changing my name to pepito, fuck that bitch
Unless he follows it up with "what would be the best thing to scream at them to troll them"
"Equal rights equal fights"
Fun fact! Fighting is actually illegal (In court they call it assault)
Ok but... if they want women to stay in the kitchen, and not work... where are the women supposed to get the $1000 to go to the convention from?
Their worky-work husbands
Isaxism Their husband who walked out on them when they found out she was pregnant, duh
Isaxism their hardworking masculine husband obviously
asking the real question here
DeadMemes NeedToStayDead YALL ARE GETTING PAID?? Sign me up!! 😩
"the men are here to help" my chest physically hurts
the only help i need after this is from a goddamn therapist dude
Of laughter or cringe? Im all the above
Shy Saw this comment I’m about to say from somewhere else and lemme tell you IT IS GOLD
“The men are coming to help”
“Lets just replace to with a comma”
“The men are coming, help”
“Equal rights means I can hit women!”
Um, since when was it legal to hit men? You can’t hit anyone. That’s called assault. What’s wrong with you.
While legally it is okay to hit someone in self defence. It is deemed more okay for a woman to hit a man, than a man hitting a woman in any other situation. Im not a very violent person, but I have no problem hitting a woman in self defence, of course I probably wont go to punches right away, but just because it is a female attacking me, doesnt mean I will just let them think it is okay to do so, and will promply defend myself.
Juan Sanchez I don’t think their comment was addressing common sense cases like self defense. They are saying we should have a mentality that no one should hurt anyone legally
@@ursidaeexe3879 that would be nice, but with how people are raised now, it's probably not going to be a non violent future
Juan Sanchez basically I’m saying that comment wasn’t claiming you couldn’t defend yourself. It was addressing the mentality these men have about equality.
Juan Sanchez This wasn’t about self defense, hence why it wasn’t mentioned anywhere in my comment. If a woman walks up to a man and hits him, that’s assault. If a man walks up to a woman and hits her, that’s assault. You can’t go around hitting anyone. There is no defense for “equal rights means I can hit women”.
My bio dad wouldn’t let my mom go to school or get a job because of his stupid pride even though he didn’t make enough to support us, on multiple occasions he’d quit his job without having another lined up, and he refused to work multiple jobs. My mom had to covertly go to job interviews and then act as if she had just gotten a random job offer just to keep food on our table, until my dad just up and abandoned us when I was about 12. Single motherhood isn’t usually the woman’s fault in my experience
I think it's somewhat rare that it's on the mother. Especially at a young age I imagine the fathers are more likely to wanna avoid responsibility becaue they're not emotionally and romantically mature enough. This ofc goes both ways but I imagine it's easier for the father since he's not the one carrying and giving birth to the child.
Just look at the kids Kyle and Jason from the TLC show Unexpected. They're around 16, I think? and he's not mature enough to be a parent and he winds up mentally abusing Kyle and blaming her for his stupid actions.
we need men calling out disgusting misogynistic men, and I really am so grateful for men like Kurtis. It restores my faith in humanity
Restores my faith in men 🙄
This comment sounds like it was written by Tenko Chabashira from DRV3(I agree with you though)
Really it does restore my faith is humanity and men
sadly i don’t see very many men like kurtis in real life. i only met one and he literally passed away but that’s besides the point
@@user-jw3xm3yj9t misandry at its finest, folks
This whole thing makes me absolutely sick. I'll never understand these people
I would agree but not when you have that name and profile pic
People? This is men in a nutshell
@@Maximallity That's not cool.
Some of these "incels" are just badly misguided.
They are not irredeemable.they can still be good people.
If this crap wasn’t $1000 I’d love to go there with a giant lesbian flag over my shoulder in the most masculine clothes I own.
honestly i absolutely love the sentiment and enthusiasm but even if this shit was free id be too scared to go lol
i'll join you
Laufie Na'l if enough of us go we could turn it into a pride convention
@@Laufie id go with you
@@ewils9753 oh my god id love that
I've actually been to a vacuum convention, it was hosted in the same convention center I was going to another con at. I didn't stay long though, kinda sucked
i can't tell whether the setup to the joke actually happened or not lol but i like it
Well you"re going to both anyways so suck it up
you graduate pun school
@@elisecode2212 It did actually lol and what's better is I didn't even know it until I stepped into a large hallway with, I shit you not, those science fair project boards on tables with pictures of vacuum cleaners on them, mixed with the lack of any people there and it was.. bizarre to say the least 😅
The word con describes the shitshow you attended more accurately than the word convention
why pay a thousand dollars for men to talk down to you when men on twitter will do it for free
Kyle Walt +
Yeah how it's so Handy :D
(This is a joke, just in case someone takes a wrong way)
Kyle Walt
And the twitter guys are way better at it
TRUE LMAO
It's their fav hobby lmao
Their whole convention is the physical embodiment of the ‘I’m an adult virgin’ vine.
My fiancé and I did in fact sing this to each other while watching
Emma I don’t know why but that’s so cute and wholesome for me lmao
Black Knight Fool okay.
Black Knight Fool it wasn’t a reference, I just said okay. Sorry you’re so mad about a simple joke. I’d suggest you move on.
I'm sorry black night fool but what the fuck
"Then can I hit women too?" is so disturbing. Have they been wanting to hit women so bad that's the first thing that pops in their minds? And why would you ever think it's okay to hit men? Please seek help.
a guy from my old school who goes to my current school asked me "am i allowed to hit a girl if she hits me??" and i just know he meant it in a "omg feminism equal rights equal fights" way :(
I don't understand.. Maybe, I'm not getting the point but I think men are allowed to hit a women back for self defense... You shouldn't just stay quiet and be beaten just because it's a woman... I feel like people will start making a fuss when a woman gets hit by a man but when it's swiched, most people just stay quiet..
@@lemonqvartz Feminism is sooo not about equally beating up each other. People shouldn't beat up each other in the first place regardless of their gender.
@@astrid8678 If a woman is trying to seriously harm or kill a man of course they should fight back. But what's wrong is wanting to hit a woman who is doing nothing and wanting to get away with it because of "equality". And also guys hitting guys are definitely wrong too.
@@Diana-pe5eu Ohhh, i see the point. Srry lol, i thought this was talking about how guys shouldn't hit a woman no matter what
as a single mom, it BAFFLES me that WOMEN are always blamed for becoming single moms 😂 like you know MAJORITY of the time it’s bc the *GUY* ….LEFT…..right???
LITERALLY!! Like why is the mom being shamed and hated on when the guy was the problem? ☹️
Fr
It's sad. People try and justify it by saying "she should have chosen her partner more carefully." Wait. Should they have chosen more carefully? Oh shit now I'm thinking blame actually lies on both sides.
It's both parents fault in my opinion. The man was a coward and ran. And sadly the mom did not do her due diligence as far as condoms and picking a good guy goes
@@sinjunmorris701 well in most cases (like mine) there’s a lot of manipulation involved pre pregnancy. my ex husband/baby daddy was an amazing boyfriend actually all the way through my first pregnancy & we even got married 4 months later & things were great. a month later i got pregnant with my daughter & the stress of it all (i was still going to college & working on the weekends as a server & he worked doing hvac installment which was decent money but not the best) caused a complete shift in character for both of us. we ended up becoming really toxic and emotionally abusive to each other until i decided to leave, 8 months pregnant with a one and a half year old. the first two years i tried and tried and TRIED to get him to coparent with me and be involved with his kids (he was a great dad with my son pre-divorce) and he just went MIA for months at a time then would pop up for a couple weeks and disappear again. there was absolutely no way for me to have known he was going to do that when i got pregnant the first time.
i will say, in the last year he has finally stepped up and started being more consistently involved but it took a really really long time & i never told him he couldn’t see them or anything i would reach out to him, take the kids to him, plan things for him that he would bail on, etc. although i wasn’t a great wife, i was never a bad mother.
i'm organizing kurtiscon, buying my segway rn
HAHAHAHA I’m down
Inr none of that CAR garbage 🙄
2 legends interacting 🥺🥺
can you make sure that we stand outside for 5 hours in the heat?? thanks
Nora Kelly sound good
My biological urge as a woman is to take a nap
MOOD! 😂
Same sis same...
Couldn’t have said it better myself
Me too sis me too
I feel that
“From the kitchen to the bedroom”
Ah, yes! The only places women exist!
“And beyond”
Omg do we get to go outside too wow what a treat!
michaela ah yes, the kitchen. where they cook all the meth and drugs that’s how women become rich. ✨
No, not outside... the bathroom. Come inside
THIS IS A JOKE I JUST WANT TO MAKE A JOKE I DONT MEAN TO OFFEND ANYONE ISSA JOKE
Yeah into the garden 😂
@@ashleyanne929 And I thought this joke couldn't get any better
Women can have some outdoors, as a treat
"Have *unlimited* babies"
Does he... Does he think someone else is forcibly stoping us from having babies? No, we just don't want to
Infertility has left the chat
These feel like the type of men that would be perfect for us girls to pull a prank in and try to tell them something about a women that is false. Like you tell them that we don't actually do face masks, that's just our face layer peeling off. We just came up with the term face masks so we could talk about it in front of guys..... idk those are always so funny to me.
@@Bee-kv5tx omg yes! Those guus are the perfect target
I get what you're saying, but actually, yeah, menopause and the tolls of childbirth are stopping us from having unlimited babies. I don't really understand what they think going to this convention will do to our bodies, though...
@@afooz again, no we just don't want unlimited babies. But just to humour you, even if we didn't have menopause we wouldn't be able to have unlimited babies because we can only have 1 baby per year and because at some point we are going to die of old age
The lack of self awareness in those men is ASTOUNDING
Facts bro
The lack of self awareness in this convention is assssstronomical
Even a fictional character would be more self aware than those men
Beg to differ. They know what they are doing, abs it’s very insidious.
So when feminists call men toxic and tell them to be better is that not lacking self awareness?
"equal rights mean i can hit women then?" no Johnathan, assault is illegal
Starberrys Yea the same if she hits you
Black Knight Fool hitting someone out of nowhere is considered assault tho??
Unless, we are in Seattle where mutual unarmed combat is legal
They say that as if anything is stopping misogynistic men from hitting women now. We've seen the domestic violence statistics.
Why do they instantly think of hitting women??? Like we arent being beaten by men already
It’s so telling with men like this that they’ve never actually listened to a woman explain what feminism means to them. They just have their own crazy assumptions, and assume everyone agrees with them.
Sad to think the dry bean convention was probably cancelled 😔
Blair the cat
Even worse, the wet bean convention 😤
#drybeanconventioniscancelledparty
And the vacuum convention. Those poor people.....
Mallory Gantner i would now like to pour one out for our friends who lost the vacuum convention this year. Not a drink though I’m talking about the real show of respect: dumping out a portion of your vacuum bag’s contents
Greatest tragedy of 2020
“Men act like women, women act like men”
**gasp**
*woah*
*people* acting like *people*
(Edit: woah i guess i'm funny, also everyone’s responses are hilarious)
Alexandria Elizabeth ikr??? How dare they
Noooo. Not the people desease 😩
Oh my god these uppity modern women, they're, like, wearing pants and stuff
@@riabouchinska fuck that, dude, i want to go back to when women wore skirts and those pierce-your-fucking-eye-out-with-her-nipple bras
Whaaaattttttt mind blown how is that possibleeee
Someone should tell these dudes that the Handmaiden's Tale wasn't a how to manual
That dude who gave the speech looks a little bit like Fred Waterford, not gonna lie.
This is a little too accurate-
Terrifying future predictions
*handmaid’s tale
@@lynseyread6163 AMAZING contribution and correction bruh!!!
kurtis really put it perfectly with “woman can be stay at home moms if they want, but you’re allowed to not want that” because that’s EXACTLY what “the future is female” means.
House spouse. Works for regardless of who stays home and rhymes!
This is it! Like, exactly it, its perfect.
Tala Habern rich bitches 😂
The irony of them saying ‘how dare feminist break away from the traditional family structure, they’re enforcing their beliefs blah blah blah’ yet they’re berating women who don’t want to be housewives. Feminism is the ability to choose what you want to do with your life, these idiots don’t seem to understand it
@@OkayMay749 funny, because there are also other feminists wants to blame men for everything. Of course, they don't exists in this PERFECT group right?
You just know these guys got rejected by the popular girl in high school and kept that grudge going pathetically into adulthood
the vacuum convention has to be the most wholesome place. that’s adorable. look at those guys 🥺
I just know those would be the people to offer you their sandwich when you don’t have a lunch
Aww
I bet their faces just light up when you ask them what their favorite vacuum brand is :,)
@@stephvancheri4877 If those people could stop being misogynistic and use that energy to appreciate vacuum cleaners that would be great thx.
@@juliaparks121 "wait you wanna know?? youre the first person!!! i like---"
Kurtis definitely drank his “respect women” juice today as well. Proud to have you as our mayor, sir
he doesn't evn have to drink the juice,, hes naturally good at bein a decent human being and i stan
I heard that Kurtis' blood type is respecc women so...
Nah he's just a feminist now I guess
@@steveman751 and from seeing your previous comment it seems that is something you dont agree with. Now tell me, which part of treating women equally and respectful is sooo disturbing to you? Im very curious.
he’s not even being like overly feminist, he just being a decent guy, like i worry when people start commenting, oh wow kurtis conner’s a simp! like did we leave basic human decency in 2019?? 😂😂
my heart goes out to these men's daughters. it breaks my heart to know how they'll grow up being taught these values
Assuming somebody wants to mate with these dipshits? Quite the stretch.
@@thomaskole9881 you'd be amazed at how many self-hating women with no self esteem would fall for guys like this
imagine being their mothers...................
Plus I doubt these guys would have any feelings about raping. Not like they treat women anything less than objects like anyways
What values
Some of my family members are overweight but they still always eat healthy, stay active and of course beauty is subjective but I still love them inside and out. Some people just have bad metabolisms or have physical ailments that prevent them from being perfect and skinny and that shouldn't be considered ugly!
that’s not how it works, they might seem to eat “healthy” but if they’re overweight they’re eating more than they’re supposed to
@@falling_awayyy than why does my mom eat half the daily recommended calorie intake and still get insulted by retarded doctors for being overweight
@@SoftFryMildlyOverSalted as long as one is active and not worsening their health no one has the right to shame them, actually we have no say in anyone's personal business at all. I'm not obese per say but have PCOS which makes losing weight a bit more difficult than usual (am gradually losing weight not just very drastically),
I'm only ridiculed for my chubby features which should not even be considered death threatening now, no one is caring about my health when insulting, they are only hating the way I look. Someone who cares would be much more kinder.
I don't get this argument regarding body positivity at all like no one is saying that bad health is okay and should be looked at in a positive light they're just saying not to be a dick and disrespect people who have certain body types.
@@falling_awayyy just say you dont understand medical science and still think bmi is an accurate and important metric, it looks marginally better than what you said.🙄
These men: women need to have unlimited babies
Also these men when they have to be responsible for those babies : -_- excuse me?
Right? And they’re the same men who want to abolish child support bc it’s “unfair to men”🙄
@The elephant In the room its not killing imo
@The elephant In the room if you cant give the child the love,support,and proper environment abortion is an answer.
@The elephant In the room fathers are not needed for the mental development of children. Ever heard of single mothers? My mom is a single mother and I turned out fine, I didn't need a dad to mentally developed🏃♀️
@The elephant In the room being happy, mentally stable, being a decent human being 🧍♂️
4 female ghostbusters? the feminists are taking over!
*im an adult virgin*
I heard this in my head 😭😭😂😂
Amara Okeke // Me too 😭😭😭😭
WJJWJWJW LMAO
I was looking for this
Lmao and plus, the female ghostbusters movie was pretty good
"Pickup artists and garbage men should swap names."
Not my line, but it's so true.
🤣🤣🤣
True and so are whores
@@redshaman650 what
Amen
👌👌👌
So if I, as a trans woman, go to the 22 convention and raise my femininity by 500% would I suddenly be able to get pregonat?
I am 88% sure, however I am a cis woman so my calculations may not be completely accurate
@@BlazzyistryingDamn, if only you went to that convention by the time you left with 500% more femininity you wouldn't even be able to add at all unless it was adding another baby to the family
I'm glad I didn't go if I went and got 500% more masculine I'd just die of heart disease before I left the building
I wish I could raise my femininity that high and get pregnant 🥺
@@Pragabondbut what if you add 500 north american...ity
I fully support your struggle to become able to get prrrreganté
these are truly the kind of men who hear you say "im a lesbian" and reply with that "i can change that"
cyberwiife oof my spouse’s twin brother is one of those 🤢
There's literally a guy in the comments who responded to a lesbian and said "stop faking"
FUCK YOURE SO RIGHT
"I can fix that"
oh my god exactly
“unlimited babies” wait until they find out about menopause
I don't think they know anything about women to he honest😂
Them after finding about menopause: *I go crazy*
and overpopulation, "unlimited babies" would be horrible
@@hauntedhotel8565 Yeah!
@@hauntedhotel8565 well... these guys don't care about overpopulation... as long as it's THEIR (read: white) babies. They want the rest of us (including lefty white folks like me) to somehow both be sterile AND be forced to carry to term. Yeah, I don't get it either.
i feel like those men were beaten by a girl in a stupid ball game when they were like 5 and they have dedicated their life to putting women down.
kinda like batman’s story... more like...
badman
fliegu I’m dying a cookie and a gold star for you 🍪⭐️
Badminton.....
@@Oliveoilbaths that was horrible
I love you
bro, are you on some hormone replacement therapy? Your comments are so full of estrogen!
@@Richjunior1 what does that even mean?
Great video and great comments from the men here who are supporting women. it's so nice and refreshing to see videos and read comments from men speaking out against misogyny and supporting women.
Sadly when women advocate for themselves they often still receive misogynistic responses and too often a woman's opinions are taken less seriously than a man's.
An example of this is a few years back when I lived in a small, very deprived rural UK town, i often took my then toddler son to the local community center as it was one of the few places that held toddler groups where I got to know the manager of that centre. Despite her good relationship with the local MP and being good at her job for many years, she sadly found that once she stopped refering herself as "Christina" but instead shorted her name to "Chris", she was taken more seriously in emails and got much better responses.
This was from 2019, not 1919 btw.....
Damn, I feel bad for her.
The men who organized this wouldn't last a day as a woman honestly
literally. they always say “women post booby and get like she live on easy mode 😡😡” like no chad, we can’t walk alone at night. we get harassed and catcalled everytime we go out. we get misogynistic comments all the time. and on top of all of that we don’t even get paid the same. no kyle we do y live on easy mode
@@diosol_ I'm just happy that there are guys out there Kurtis and that we are slowly getting equality. I'm just sad that more men like Kurtis aren't out there and many people (males and females) think of equality as 'hitting men/women".
@@akashborah3675 no we get catcalled every single time we go out, you aren’t a women don’t comment on that. i have experienced this. 1 in every 5 women are r4ped. america isn’t the only country people like you need to realize that. yes the pay gap is real but not in america.
@@akashborah3675 yes men don’t have it easy at all, but you are not a women, you should not speak for them, idc how many women friends you have. i’m a women telling you i can’t remember the last time i went out and didn’t get catcalled or hit on.
Most of us probably wouldnt lmao