Can't call us, can't message us, we have removed ourselves from social media, removed you from our lives, you can't find us. We don't care. We have taken all our love, kindness and energy back. That's how you know we are gone for good. Total radio silence. ❤
Facts: There is a level of self-love that a woman feels after getting out of an experience like that. She's not willing to sacrifice herself for anyone else, even if it means being alone. Speaking from experience, it's been 1 year since I physically walked out, but I was gone mentally 2 years prior.
That pain help me grow and see my worth. I loved him to where I lost myself. He was emotionally unavailable to me and very indecisive so when I seen we weren’t growing together I left on a quiet note
I am leaving my Boyfriend because he taking me for granted, not only that his being secretive, there is no intimacy no affection, attention. This relationship serve me no purpose. That is why i am leaving him alone.
I've only been in one relationship my whole life. I haven't been in a relationship ever since I was 26 I am 30 yrs old now. I don't ever wanna feel that way again.
@Keana That part of you that you gave away will always be his. But there’s a lot of good guys out there that will be willing to love you as much as you once loved. And you’ll love again but with a more mature guarded love. Don’t lose hope.
FACTS! ❤ Yes there are quite a few male coaches online that are encouraging a man's arrogance and stroke their ego. God bless the work and TRUTH you share to men and women online.🙏❤
Yes the pain propelled me to greatness. A much greater version of myself, that I was not allowed to feel in the relationship. His deceitfulness was a death sentence to the relationship and to how I would ever look at him again.
I gave him my best and he tried to break me but my God brought me through thank you brother I just always want to say thank you for your wisdom God bless you
I, lost myself in the mist of doing what made him happy. My mental health was drastically affected, told I was a psychopath and etc. But I have been no contact and focusing on my healing and I will never look back!!! He hates me and honestly I am grateful for him coming into my life for those 8 years because it woke me up to so much and changing for the better. ☮️
My ex left me in such a bad state twice, that I know in my heart that the old purely loving me is gone. I can feel myself evolving, and now that I have known someone that treats me like im something it makes me look down upon him even more. I can never go back to that knowing that there is better out there for me
Everyone I ever had a relationship, dated or I genuinely had interest in... have ALL lost me. I am genuinely not interested in rekindling any kind of romantic connection with anyone. I'm mature enough to be polite and respectful... but that's just it. ✌🏽
Hey Ex. You had your chance to get it right, and you didn't. When I walked away, it was the best thing I could have done I don't look back, and I don't do Second time around!! See ya!!!😊
I just experienced this. I walked away & im re creating myself COMPLETELY. I no longer want anything from my past back . I lost myself trying to keep someone else floating above the water .
Major respect to you for acknowledging toxicity. I flipped on him and everyone else so he'll never get that version of me back again. No one will. You're absolutely right- I described it as the old me had died. I
You are absolutely 💯 right Jaxn. That is where I am at. I am 62yrs of age. And he is 47yrs. I gave all that I could to him except controlling my assets and me. And I still got slapped in my face 😢. I will never be involved in another relationship.
When a woman is gone for good she will leave calmly with no anger . She's emotionally disengaged , the love is gone. There's NOTHING worth fighting for.. Its a wrap. ..❤
IT FACTS TRUTH NO RESPECT THAT'S NOT LOVE CONTINUE THE TRUTH U HAVE WALK THROUGH THE FIRE AND FLOATED THROUGH. THE WATER AND GOD BROUGHT U OUT GOOD JOB 😊😊😊
It’s been almost 5 years since I’ve experienced the devastating heartbreak and betrayal. I totally lost myself. I turned to god and went on my spiritual journey. I’m so much better now. When I say I truly lost myself I did. My person of 10 years just walked out. It’s been soon 5 years and I’m currently single not looking for anyone because I’m so afraid to love again. What’s keeping me is god.
From my experience you are speaking real facts. When Im gone, it's forever ( after I heal I rebuild to better version of myself 🎉🎉🎉and could no longer accept trash that was left behind.
I I I I 💯. The thing I will never forgive is the version of me that his actions turned me into, but I'm allowing God to refine me into something better. 🙏🏾
Yeah you Are speaking facts 💯👍 I am doing good now and am done with the B....... . Finally happy , and I appreciate these educational posts- keep going
You are so on point with how the woman feels, see's, and experience that part of a painful break up. I left him for myself. Thank you for making this video its allowing me to heal that part of myself and process it...
This is on point. Everything your speaking on im going through with my husband. Im so emotionally hurt. Im tired of trying to fix our marriage. Ive given him to God. Im moving on, and not looking back. The Narrsissist behavior almost destroyed me
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Nothing but the truth being spoken!!❤❤❤❤
Well I love him and I’m never going to give up!
Like my ex will never find inner peace for walking away from me
He told me he will find another me
Karma is coming back to men who played a Good Woman.
Sooner or later 👍
She came with a type of favor and blessings that he will never get again in his life. Period
Amen 🙌
It doesn’t . Men keep hurting me
@@MS-ns4ki Karma never misses. You may know about it when it happens but you 'reap what you sew'.
Can't call us, can't message us, we have removed ourselves from social media, removed you from our lives, you can't find us. We don't care. We have taken all our love, kindness and energy back. That's how you know we are gone for good. Total radio silence. ❤
🎤🎤🎤🎤MIC DROP!!!!!!
Women leave mentally before they leave physically. When she stops arguing and stops trying to fix things you can’t get her back.
That's where I'm at now. She's done with me.
I'd like to go back there...
"She used to look at you as someone that could hold your heart, now she looks at you as someone that will attack it" that one HIT DEEP!
*her heart
💯
"Pride comes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall."
May 18 will be 14 years. Alone and in peace. The happiest years of my life.
Can’t wait til Im doing me for 14 years alone 😢❤😮🎉
Empaths get it the worst!
ABSOLUTELY!!!😢
When a good girls gone she’s gone forever 😮💨
You definitely lose yourself, never again ! I will never ever return!
Well u saving everyone 🎉
Facts: There is a level of self-love that a woman feels after getting out of an experience like that. She's not willing to sacrifice herself for anyone else, even if it means being alone. Speaking from experience, it's been 1 year since I physically walked out, but I was gone mentally 2 years prior.
I totally relate! I'll never be that woman again. Pain changed me .....had to rebuild myself from ground up....but I love me now ❤
🎉🎉🎉 AMEN
In the healing process right now.
I can identify with this. I'm living alone and in peace now, thanks to God.
“She amazing & something I’ve never experienced “. “Leave her alone until you’re ready so you don’t fumble her “!!! 💯💯💯💯Absolutely
Fact's 🎉
Men too!
Betrayal cuts you to the core and brings death to what was once considered a very unique and special relationship that’s now beyond repair!
Some men don’t want love …. or anything much of value. 🥺
When she calls the police on you, and doesn’t care whether you get arrested or not. That’s how you know she’s gone.
Why will she call police on u.. unless u abusive
Yep when she doesn’t give a fuck whether you get arrested then she’s telling the police the TRUTH
she’s COMPLETELY DONE WITH YOU….
@@user-vx2xq3vi4owhen he bangs your door trying to break in that’s how some women get killed by ex boyfriends
That's right!!!
The pain did completely change me!
My walk with Christ is better! I am free
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Speak that truth!
Amen❤
Amen sister praise God that's who got me through and I love him so be blessed
Amen
He drove me crazy...then called me sick for driving me crazy
That’s the worst. It’s not you. We just got to do our best to choose differently.
❤❤❤ hope you at peace now..
Toxic men playbook!!😢😢😢😢
Gurl. Same. I get called a psycho every time I wanna talk about something 🤦 I'm glad you're out. I'ma get outa here one day.
Gaslighting
The best revenge is a new version of yourself, lovong ourselves enough to never settle for less.
He almost gave me a nervous breakdown 😢I left, and he been trying for 4 years, I will never 😊
Same here. I can relate. Blood pressure went up. Fibromyalgia flare ups
In the blink of an eye, I was changed - forever
Very ture, I'm healing, he did me dirty and said awful things I will never forget..I walked away in silence..Definitely a lesson learned 😊
7 long years of dealing with this & never again ...
😢
Amen never again God bless you
That pain help me grow and see my worth. I loved him to where I lost myself. He was emotionally unavailable to me and very indecisive so when I seen we weren’t growing together I left on a quiet note
I am leaving my Boyfriend because he taking me for granted, not only that his being secretive, there is no intimacy no affection, attention. This relationship serve me no purpose. That is why i am leaving him alone.
I've only been in one relationship my whole life. I haven't been in a relationship ever since I was 26 I am 30 yrs old now. I don't ever wanna feel that way again.
Heyyyy sis ❤ me too. Hugs!!
Good girl, you're knight in shining armour is coming and it will be total bliss, so proud of you😉
@Keana
That part of you that you gave away will always be his. But there’s a lot of good guys out there that will be willing to love you as much as you once loved. And you’ll love again but with a more mature guarded love. Don’t lose hope.
@@carmenkamberos1156 Thankyou🩷
@@abundantlyblessed9201 Thankyou 🩷
Absolutely... Changed everything. There is no turning back, flowers are a cheap apology for repetitive behavior. You're on point
FLOWERS ARE CHEAP APOLOGY FOR REPETATIVE BEHAVIOUR!…good one!😢😢😅😅
9 years , feel nothing , stay numb , would have never thought someone could have been so cruel. Not going down that road again with anybody ! Done
This is a 100% correct and when you get shattered from something like this there is a huge innocence lost
18 yrs gone in seconds.. I'm working on me now 😢
It's never too late to Love on yourself!
Praise God you have to love yourself first before you can love anyone God bless
More strength to u 💞 stay strong
Yh yh exactly as said - it is like a switch went off and now I can’t ever look at him the way I used to
When you tired can't do it no more with nobody period
Completely changed me for the best!
FACTS! ❤ Yes there are quite a few male coaches online that are encouraging a man's arrogance and stroke their ego. God bless the work and TRUTH you share to men and women online.🙏❤
The grass is greener where you water it
Yes the pain propelled me to greatness. A much greater version of myself, that I was not allowed to feel in the relationship. His deceitfulness was a death sentence to the relationship and to how I would ever look at him again.
I gave him my best and he tried to break me but my God brought me through thank you brother I just always want to say thank you for your wisdom God bless you
Facts. When you rebuild, you're not the same.
Completely.. I can’t get back to myself. Praying time will heal 🙏
You will. It takes time to find yourself after the drama. Praying for your healing 🙏
I am in the same boat.
I refuse to let that person take the best of my love.
The next person will get a much better ❤ 💯
Matchmakers 🙋♀️📞
I, lost myself in the mist of doing what made him happy. My mental health was drastically affected, told I was a psychopath and etc. But I have been no contact and focusing on my healing and I will never look back!!! He hates me and honestly I am grateful for him coming into my life for those 8 years because it woke me up to so much and changing for the better. ☮️
Spot on!!!! I lost myself and he made me feel crazy!!! Never again will I ever lose myself. I have happiness and peace now
Amen 🙏
Derrick you will be a big part of my story and how you helped me find myself again and break free. Thank you 🙏❤️🦋💯
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I like the video where you said he changed her now he don't like the version he's got now
My ex left me in such a bad state twice, that I know in my heart that the old purely loving me is gone. I can feel myself evolving, and now that I have known someone that treats me like im something it makes me look down upon him even more. I can never go back to that knowing that there is better out there for me
Everyone I ever had a relationship, dated or I genuinely had interest in... have ALL lost me. I am genuinely not interested in rekindling any kind of romantic connection with anyone. I'm mature enough to be polite and respectful... but that's just it. ✌🏽
THAT PAIN DEFINITELY CHANGED MY LIFE !!!! (FOR THE BETTER)😊
Hey Ex. You had your chance to get it right, and you didn't. When I walked away, it was the best thing I could have done
I don't look back, and I don't do Second time around!!
See ya!!!😊
He traumatized me so much, I could never go back. And I’ll never be the same.
I just experienced this. I walked away & im re creating myself COMPLETELY. I no longer want anything from my past back . I lost myself trying to keep someone else floating above the water .
I am a woman. I understand exactly what and how you're saying everything
He don’t care…my soul is so tired
Major respect to you for acknowledging toxicity. I flipped on him and everyone else so he'll never get that version of me back again. No one will. You're absolutely right- I described it as the old me had died. I
I, as a female, know what your saying is facts from personal experience
Talk Big Brother! This is sooooo TRUE. When I'm done I'm done. Don't need or want my time wasted.
You most definitely spoke truth in this video!! If men aren’t ready please stop playing in women face!!! Thank you for this video ❤🙏🏾
You are absolutely 💯 right Jaxn. That is where I am at. I am 62yrs of age. And he is 47yrs. I gave all that I could to him except controlling my assets and me. And I still got slapped in my face 😢. I will never be involved in another relationship.
But 62 and 47.. u were way too old for him..what were u expecting though
@@user-vx2xq3vi4o NO JUDGMENT.. !!!!YOU do not know the situation with this couple.
Don't bounce back...bounce forward! Love them anyway!
This was 100PERCENT FACTS!
Yes, so true. Healing myself. Will not allow myself to put all my energy in when no energy to be given.
I....He was my husband, and I thought we were happy until he killed my life......
I'm getting back up. However I'm done .
This is EXACTLY EXACTLY what’s happened to me…I can’t find myself! He didn’t lull me, but he lulled me
I lost myself to one of these men and I really don’t think I’ll ever be the same
You loose your mind body and soul the pain is SEVERE.... IT'S DEEP
This is absolutely true! I gave everything & he destroyed me … I’ll never be the same again.
When a woman is gone for good she will leave calmly with no anger . She's emotionally disengaged , the love is gone. There's NOTHING worth fighting for.. Its a wrap. ..❤
Love has lost so meaning to the world
I can feel so much humbleness in his voice that’s a big change… amazing .. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yes. I relate to this. I was monkey branched for no reason after four years together. Never again.
IT FACTS TRUTH
NO RESPECT THAT'S NOT LOVE CONTINUE THE TRUTH U HAVE WALK THROUGH THE FIRE AND FLOATED THROUGH. THE WATER AND GOD BROUGHT U OUT
GOOD JOB 😊😊😊
Never ever find another one 😊 like me 🤫
@Dee Anderson, hear the song :You’ll never find another love like mine, singer Lou Rawls (beautiful song, matches your feelings…)
Facts. He almost had me come out of character with all his games and foolishness. I had to get out of there quick!
It’s been almost 5 years since I’ve experienced the devastating heartbreak and betrayal. I totally lost myself. I turned to god and went on my spiritual journey. I’m so much better now. When I say I truly lost myself I did. My person of 10 years just walked out. It’s been soon 5 years and I’m currently single not looking for anyone because I’m so afraid to love again. What’s keeping me is god.
From my experience you are speaking real facts. When Im gone, it's forever ( after I heal I rebuild to better version of myself 🎉🎉🎉and could no longer accept trash that was left behind.
This is one of the realest speeches I've heard brother. God bless you and all of us going through it. Men wake up!🙏✨️💖✨️🕊
That was me, I changed into a version I did not like
You can only love like that once in your lifetime… no repeats, ever! you learn your lesson good!
I can’t even begin to understand the ways in which he hurt me. I’m still picking myself up. Ten years of hell.
I will never give all I gave to him to anybody except myself
I don't feel like he would ever protect my heart 😢
You are 100% correct.
I I I I 💯. The thing I will never forgive is the version of me that his actions turned me into, but I'm allowing God to refine me into something better. 🙏🏾
That’s right a Good woman comes from God! Amen
I agree. Also NO means NO. Men and women.
God got this queen!!!
Yeah you Are speaking facts 💯👍
I am doing good now and am done with the B....... . Finally happy , and I appreciate these educational posts- keep going
Reminds me of the song " say something im giving up on you". But more words would mean nothing when they contradict actions.
On point he will never give up. I ended it years ago he still thinks he has a chance. I learned my lesson.
One person will make a believer out of you , and F it up for everybody 💯
Can’t ever love like that again if at all
“I”You speak directly to me!!
You are so on point with how the woman feels, see's, and experience that part of a painful break up. I left him for myself. Thank you for making this video its allowing me to heal that part of myself and process it...
This is on point. Everything your speaking on im going through with my husband. Im so emotionally hurt. Im tired of trying to fix our marriage. Ive given him to God. Im moving on, and not looking back. The Narrsissist behavior almost destroyed me
It’s true, once that pain hits. It changes you!
I let him know how I feel. I'm done. I'm too tired for all this.
Absolutely correct, 💯 the loving someone more than yourself, he will never get that back again from me.
You are so on point. Thank you.
Derrick the videos are sooo helpful.