I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me." The End
A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman. Thank you Derrick! Great video!
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
He can’t come back, I blocked him on all platforms for my own peace, my healing and my financial peace. Clean and very painful cut that was needed. When you show up for 7 years in every way, every day and get betrayed and discarded for a quick fixes, so many chances I gave him, so many and still adored him and wanted to marry him, caused me much hurt, you can’t come back from that. I don’t go backwards.
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
Right, and not to mention them running through women during the relationship so why take them back after the breakup. That's something to take into consideration and a reason NOT to take him back.
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister. I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯. Stay blessed Derrick ❤
Dear Sir Your videos are an extreme help for me. I sincerely appreciate your time on these issues. The only part I am not sure could apply is the part about him coming back. Nonetheless thank you and please continue. Respectfully submitted Devi Lamart
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
Ladies , these weak men cannot handle the truth. The truth of a real humble, strong and integrated woman. We are beautiful and we know our worth. Keep on glowing up ladies. we are unique and some cannot love like we do. Just like Derek said we are truly rare. Amen.
Mm wonder how that is when he has a rebound to go to and she accepts how he is. She accepts what he does . Even though he has already came back to me a couple times when things don’t work for him or he is held accountable he goes back to her .. smh after 4 kids 🤦🏽♀️ I wasn’t perfect and some things I’ve said pushed him away but I put my boundaries up & I’m getting right this time for me myself and I and my kids
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
He left went to another female then I gave him another chance and he left again. I know I have a mouth I’m not perfect although I showed up every time for him. He didn’t want to meet my needs.
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
My husband broke me down to nothing, I couldn't even work for 3 years because I took care of our son who was born 1lb and came home from the hospital with a trache and on a ventilator. I had very little to no help from him.
Single Life is sounding really good right now I don't like all the mind games
Oh yes doesn't it sound good . I'm getting to that point .and it's kinda feeling refreshing
Exactly 💯!!!!
I am a once in a lifetime woman 😊❤, there is someone out there,who will love , respect, and appreciate me , aameen
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As soon as I get my finances fixed it's over,I won't be controled,there will be someone out there who will appreciate me.
Omg, I felt this! I’m in the same situation and can’t wait until my time comes.
I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Same here❤
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Exactly 💯 !!!! Love yourself......
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
I call that big T*tt energy.
Kids know what's going sometimes more than us She's a blessing ❤❤❤😢
Men are not intimidated by women they just don’t want you
AWWW
....MEN ARE READY. A REAL ONE. ONE THAT LOVES N SETVE GOD. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️💜🎈🎈🎈🎈🙏🏾✍🏾
Thank you BBLESS ❤
absolutely work on your self ladies and keep that door closed ✌️💕
Rejection cannot devalue you if you know who you are.
Rejection will measure your self love.
Absolutely!💯
I like that. ❤
A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me."
The End
Yup! He left twice and keeps coming back. I used to love him, but now I’m starting to find his behavior boring.
User and abusive
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A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
That's true or his own personal self esteem is too low to think he deserves you. My ex is "spinning the block now". I'm about to see what happens....
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
Exactly 💯 !!!!
Absolutely, stand your ground 👏
Wish I'm strong enough to feel this way too.
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman.
Thank you Derrick! Great video!
I feel like I could’ve wrote this myself!
Left me tweve years now ..he never got married again
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
Great message, "If he adds no value SUBTRACT," I love it !
@@hazeldunson7258 Thanks Lovely. It makes total sense. Seasons Greetings! 🎄🫂
Derrick has this power to make me laugh and heal at the same time. Bless him 💛
Totally agree 💯
Yesss! He is a blessing. Really grateful to come across his channel and videos 🤗
Ohhh yess!! I’m soo glad I found him during this time of my breakup… he makes me feel soo validated ❤ Thank you Derrick!!
His voice 😍
The devil will drag you down and come back to finish you off slam the door in his face
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
They can't wait me out. They've tried, yet failed MISERABLY.
He can’t come back, I blocked him on all platforms for my own peace, my healing and my financial peace. Clean and very painful cut that was needed. When you show up for 7 years in every way, every day and get betrayed and discarded for a quick fixes, so many chances I gave him, so many and still adored him and wanted to marry him, caused me much hurt, you can’t come back from that. I don’t go backwards.
He says he will never chase. He has a huge ego. 😢
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
They always circle back. Once that door is closed, it stays closed.
Thank you for the reminder.
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
He can’t handle his own frustrations is so damn accurate
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
I am a once in a lifetime woman…
He can beg all he wants, Ain't no going back to that POS EVER, EVER
NEVA!
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
Right, and not to mention them running through women during the relationship so why take them back after the breakup. That's something to take into consideration and a reason NOT to take him back.
Factz....this is exactly what happened to me 3 yrs later right now he tryna come back smh
This was the only message I needed to hear so I can officially go on with my life. Thank you so much!!! ❤
You are absolutely correct. I'm looking better, feeling better, and doing better W/O him.
Pissing in his own yard that is golden.
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
I'm that woman you have to come prepared for.....yes I'm her...thank you D👏
Me too
me too
Me too 😊😊
Thank you Derrick. I needed this message!❤
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister.
I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
Oh he's gonna learn
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
We are not emotionally compatible, he is emotionally selfish!! there is no coming back to me!!
Thank you so much for this message. I needed this!❤ God bless you Sir!
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
Trying to get him out of my heart its been 3weeks now still going so what do i do now?
Go 🙏 and pray. Break the soul tie with him and when the tie is broken you will be free from all the hurts.
I really don't mind him fumbling tha ball,I can hold my own he thought I was completely broken but now he don't know my strength.
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🙋🏿♀️. Yup D. HE left…but he wanna come back. Nope. 🙅🏿♀️
Thank God for my blessings
“Spin the block” 🎯 great parable …
Thank you for being an added blessing in my life. I appreciate your support and mentorship.
You just make me feel so much better about myself.
Like the song “IF YOU LOSE HER “ from Joe says he’ll feel a hole in his soul . Walk away !!!! It’s his problem
Amen 😮😢😊
Yep that was me he'll need me before i need him
That's me right now... I've told him again and again.... Now I'm out the door.
All the best to you. Shoulders back, chin up, you got this! 💪✌️
Wishing you: Eyes in the back of your head, too ~ for the best 360° view on the High Road ~ where Love.Honor.Cherish thrives.
Same 🙏🏻 grieve in peace
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯.
Stay blessed Derrick ❤
I already have my guard up.
Yep, he left, ghosted me. Came back. I let him back twice. Smh
She was younger, and that’s about it…Spin the block is an understatement!!!😘
Every ex of mine has tried to come back. No thank you :)
Thank you Jesus. So powerful!!
“Glo up” thank you baby❤
Dear Sir
Your videos are an extreme help for me. I sincerely appreciate your time on these issues.
The only part I am not sure could apply is the part about him coming back.
Nonetheless thank you and please continue.
Respectfully submitted
Devi Lamart
He came back around the block, and I told him I love myself now so I can't go back to him. 😊❤
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
Yesss!! I can FULLY RELATE!! THANKS DERRICK!
He left twice before, and came back. He broke up with me again because he can’t let go of his ex.
He does this back and forth because you allowed.
Im a once in a lifetime women ❤❤
Thank you, I need to be strong
Thank you. This message has helped me realize what i need to do to begin my healing and glow up.
Yes! Yes! Do it! 🎉
I know I'm a once in a lifetime woman! There's a few men feeling the loss of me. Thankfully my guard is up, thank you for the reminder to keep it up.
Please let me know when you have that webinar you were talking about….I need it!
I see this 💯, straight facts. He's without a single excuse...tik tok. Im Glowing up. And will continue to do so. 😎 thank you!
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
Shera Seven say that too about building up guys. That’s a “pickmeisha”.
Date on your level ladies. A great lesson to learn!
Wow! Wow! Wow! This is everything I needed to hear! Thank you for this encouragement! I appreciate the content you post.
Ladies , these weak men cannot handle the truth. The truth of a real humble, strong and integrated woman.
We are beautiful and we know our worth. Keep on glowing up ladies. we are unique and some cannot love like we do. Just like Derek said we are truly rare. Amen.
Hi! Your shirt and all your muscles .. it’s a lot! 🙏
Boom! Facts and thank you so much. I pray all the blessings for you and your loved ones.
Will men come back for a woman after more than 20 years?😊❤
Heck yes. And just as that-kind-of delusional, when they still don't get it...
Absolutely!!! When he ran out of gas. Oh yessss!!!
You’ll get” hey how you doing”.
@@browneyes9507 I know that's right
Yes ma'am! 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Yes they do
Mm wonder how that is when he has a rebound to go to and she accepts how he is. She accepts what he does . Even though he has already came back to me a couple times when things don’t work for him or he is held accountable he goes back to her .. smh after 4 kids 🤦🏽♀️ I wasn’t perfect and some things I’ve said pushed him away but I put my boundaries up & I’m getting right this time for me myself and I and my kids
I am better off alone im tired of the games men play wjth us ladies...i start to lose respect for him if he wants me to do the chasing. Screw that 😒
Yup Derek still calling but the one that left. Stay gone plz!
They call such woman the ‘nice girl’ and those are not winning according to society
Current situation…🤦🏾♀️
He leaves and keeps coming back. This time he can't come back. Blocked
This has to be my fave of yours ....There's so much truth in this ... its almost soothing ! Thank you ❤
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
You’re restoring my faith in men.
Thank you for bringin the truth🔥
is hard to be with someone the you love and then switch like a light turn off with Attitude with no reason
TEACH BROTHER. THIS IS GREAT TEACHING.🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️✝️🍂🍁🍂🍂👩🏼❤️👨🏼🍂🍁
He left went to another female then I gave him another chance and he left again. I know I have a mouth I’m not perfect although I showed up every time for him. He didn’t want to meet my needs.
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
Self love is everything
Im a good. God. Fearing. Person. I. Just want. To. Chill. God. Got. Me❤
Loneliness do surface, but when we were together I felt so so alone and he was there daily , so no no no coming bk he was a dependent
This was just what I needed, THANK YOU 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Message received ❤
I LOVE YOUR TRANSPARENCY! THANK YOU!!
Oh yeah he mos definitely said he knows he'll never find another ME.. And he got the love from me he never had nor did the family setting ever
He can’t watch me because he is blocked !!!!!!!! I don’t want to show him nothing! That’s between him & God on what he missed out on!
My husband broke me down to nothing, I couldn't even work for 3 years because I took care of our son who was born 1lb and came home from the hospital with a trache and on a ventilator. I had very little to no help from him.
Thank you! Best answer now will be silence❤
Im a once in a lifetime woman.Ive been the one who walked away from all the relationships after giving so many chances.ive never looked back.