Reality is, sometimes we are just not what he wants, they keepe us as place holders til who they think is the one comes along, then spin the block when they realize you were the real deal. Walk away and stay away, you deserve someone who sees your worth from the beginning.
We talked for 8 years trying for him to change his attitudes towards me not realising “you can’t change him but you have the power to change yourself by walking away”!!🎉🎉🎉
My loyalty has kept me in situations my common sense should have taken me out of. I'm an empath and people take advantage of it all the time. Friends, husband, family. I'm tired.
Praying for you mentally emotionally physically and spiritually. Stay focused on YOU self love, and healing. It don't matter how long it takes you to get, as long as you get there
Praying for you beautiful take it one day at a time. Some days it hurt some days you feel it. You should listen to rc Blake’s queenology that’s how I started my healing
Excuses are like assholes… everybody has one. No more dealing with the: “I’ve always struggled with this, (or) this is why all of my relationships fail, (or) I don’t deserve you!” Not his internship! And as the millionaire matchmaker says: “No sex without monogamy and commitment!”
I had to teach him to use soap to wash his hands during covid will never see men again the same ever again. Didn't know the difference between body soap, laundry soap, to dish soap. Found out he used my shampoo as body soap
Yes, but I blocked him because enough is enough. I am an empath, he is not ready for a woman like me. I am moving on. It is not my job to teach him or talk to him about his tone of voice, emotional intelligence or emotional maturity. There is a coldness about him. This was his second chance. He blew it. I deserve better! It's his loss🤷🏾♀️
I've done all this, my husband is 52 he's not a child! he knows how he hurts me and keeps doing it no matter how many tears, videos, heart to heart talks etc he never cared!
I did too much. I get it now. Im going to reap a good harvest. I sowed good seed for 42 years. I'll be reaping for me now. Nothing is loss. Those 42 yrs. Are not wasted. Praise God. What a revelation.
Going through that now an I'm fed the f.. up today maybe his last day hearing from me within the 2 years of knowing him at some point we gotta get serious ladies and start holding men accountable
I understand exactly what you're talking about! It's draining trying to find balance of "giving ppl the benefit of a doubt" & also not wasting your valuable time! Because God forbid you walk away too fast then you're told, yal women don't give "good guys a real chance"! And when you stay even slightly too long, its still "yal women need to choose better"! Its literally damned if you do and damned if you don't out here! I've accepted the fact that it will ALWAYS be a woman's fault for every single thing that goes wrong in any relationship for any reason at all, no matter what! So at the end of the day, you might as well just choose peace of mind & your sanity! Im praying you continue working on yourself! 🙏🏾❤️
I missed/chose not to see so many red flags but in his 40s and everyone’s ex and I didn’t ask any questions until it was too late and I was heartbroken and hooked on the hope
Yes this is true it is painful but I have gratitude and I'm learning to love myself more and more found out he is a player thanks for everything thank you for letting God work through you🙏❤️
That's me and my husband sure doesn't see!! Thanks so much for validating my life and that I have given everything and way more than he ever deserved!!
I’m sitting here thinking, it’s unsafe to date or have relationships, because no matter how hard you try as a good woman they want to see you dead before you have peace!
You speak the 💯 truth every word you have spoke on this matter I’m going through it. It’s took me almost a year to get to where I’m at to cut him off. There is only one ME!! To me iam special yes I have took a fought for so long an I got tired of trying you can only do so much by yourself. God will take care of him because I pray 🤲 for him. When you can hurt someone an not feel nothing or act like you don’t. Sorry when you do try to come back. I won’t be the same. I cried to many tears to fight for my family. But I know god is gonna take care of me. Thank you for speaking the truth. I don’t hurt anyone I just treat them good and know gods got this. ❤💛✨✨🙏🏼
😢I'm guilty but I learned the hard way I'm I'm delivered and healing but the most beautiful thing about this I did not let my heart become bitter I saved a spot for true love in my life
Thank you for all your knowledge and wisdom you really confirmed what i need to know .... I was the one communicating and he was silent just turned the tables on me Iam that loving caring person he is taking advantage of me.
After 19 years, im more than happy with myself...I LEFT HIM!! No regrets and proved to myself that I can and "AM" doing it by myself as a single mother. My children( ages 9 to 17) and I are now better off.
This is my first time coming across ur messages I'm shocked at everything u no my word this is confirmation for me thank u so much❤❤watching from south Africa 😊
Every time I expressed my needs or wants I would get this, "I'm not in a relationship to see what I can get. I am in a relationship because I want to be."
(I) released negativity and disrespect because , I know my worth. Healing and not ever looking back at what broke me. I just love how on point you are! Thank you, and God Bless…❤️🎯💯
On point 💯 I'm their walking karma. I'm not afraid walking away once disrespected and my feelings got dismissed. 💪 I know my worth and never chase anyone.
Iiiiiiii n everything is so toxic n its been a long time n I'm tired of going back to the same place i left from for myself n God knows how much i did to much n its not worth it praying for peace n get back to me when i tune in to u it's the truth thanks again for your help i appreciate u for your mentorship council luv ya bro thanks again for u being u keep teaching n know its my time to show me that i love me more cause my god love me best even when I'm not at my best
U know I was mad at you for a while Mr. Jaxn but forgiveness feels good. You words are powerful and sooo REAL!! On point!! Have you ever considered ministry?
You knew when Broke my Heart you knew when you played games that hurt me and I was understanding caring loving and you DISRESPECTED ME IAM GONE Staying in prayer and my peace ❤❤❤🙏🙏
Hi sisters listen to Derrick he is telling the 100% truth I have been thru everything he is saying as an empath, before God healed me to be the Queen I am. God bless you brother for helping women.
Yes, you talk sense. We left good men at grandfather era . Keep speaking your truth. Women must NOT be afraid to be alone if they are not happy with poor treatment. If they disrespect their woman, they need to go. And only come back if they are learning to chamge. I am willing to change and learn from his feedback and would need to be the same with him. Bare minimum
Hey lovely from Aotearoa New Zealand , i really love listening to you i find you a crack up and i needed to hear you today n thank you so so much for your truth, thank you. Love n Light
Thank you Derrick, your truth and your heart show so clearly and honestly. I am lucky I've found your content. I wish you all the best and all the blessing you deserve.
can’t thank you enough for all your words of wisdom! I’ve shared many of your videos with women in my life who need to hear these words as well as claiming it for myself. It’s been such a strength for me to rid my life of men who waste my time and energy. Thank you ❤
Reality is, sometimes we are just not what he wants, they keepe us as place holders til who they think is the one comes along, then spin the block when they realize you were the real deal. Walk away and stay away, you deserve someone who sees your worth from the beginning.
True
Facts!
Facts
Right ✅️
That part
“Let him entertain your absence and all those un replied text messages he ignored !””” 😆😆😆😆😆
Taste 👅 of they own medicine
And what’s good for the goose 🪿 is good for the gander
I JUST WALK AWAY I DON'T PLAY WITH MY LIFE NO MORE😊
I finally walked away! & I'm not looking back ! Blocked him from everything! I pray I never ever see him again!
Praying for you sis I just left too 🙏🏽 we got this 😩💯💯💯💕
I pray the same thing with all my heart ❤
I’m right behind you, Sis. Prayers for all of us.🙏🏿
Amen 🙏
That goes for friendships too.
We talked for 8 years trying for him to change his attitudes towards me not realising “you can’t change him but you have the power to change yourself by walking away”!!🎉🎉🎉
My loyalty has kept me in situations my common sense should have taken me out of. I'm an empath and people take advantage of it all the time. Friends, husband, family. I'm tired.
Me too sis
So true that's me
👋🏾 me too sis
me too
When are you gonna change the situation?
I walk away from Disrespect
With the QUICKNESS
@@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5😅 For real though!
@@jillwilliams7554 💪✨️
I did, and he chased me down.
Good woman come around not to often and I am A GREAT AND BLESSED WOMAN
I’m so heartbroken rn and listening to you helped me so much.
Thank you.
Praying for you mentally emotionally physically and spiritually. Stay focused on YOU self love, and healing. It don't matter how long it takes you to get, as long as you get there
Same 😢 but in therapy and I know God got me
Praying for you beautiful take it one day at a time. Some days it hurt some days you feel it. You should listen to rc Blake’s queenology that’s how I started my healing
Excuses are like assholes… everybody has one. No more dealing with the: “I’ve always struggled with this, (or) this is why all of my relationships fail, (or) I don’t deserve you!”
Not his internship! And as the millionaire matchmaker says: “No sex without monogamy and commitment!”
I had to teach him to use soap to wash his hands during covid will never see men again the same ever again. Didn't know the difference between body soap, laundry soap, to dish soap. Found out he used my shampoo as body soap
Yes, but I blocked him because enough is enough. I am an empath, he is not ready for a woman like me. I am moving on. It is not my job to teach him or talk to him about his tone of voice, emotional intelligence or emotional maturity. There is a coldness about him. This was his second chance. He blew it. I deserve better! It's his loss🤷🏾♀️
So heart broken 💔. I sometimes think about taking my own life.
@@barbaradiaz345Your life matters. Sending a hug 🫂 I don’t know if it helps but God weeps with you
@@barbaradiaz345You are beautiful, a one of a kind creation of God. You are loved on this Earth.
I don't know anybody who is talking more senses than you, D! 💯💯💯
I've done all this, my husband is 52 he's not a child! he knows how he hurts me and keeps doing it no matter how many tears, videos, heart to heart talks etc he never cared!
I did too much. I get it now. Im going to reap a good harvest. I sowed good seed for 42 years. I'll be reaping for me now.
Nothing is loss. Those 42 yrs. Are not wasted. Praise God. What a revelation.
He was passive aggressive and narcissistic, too!!
Please do a video on how men envy women when you get the bag and he will play with her due to his envy
yasss! cuz that jealousy is REAL!!!
Oooooooh yes please!!! I'm telling you that is a real thing, you just confirmed that to me 💯✅
Yeeess
He only does what it takes when I leave. So I'm gone !
That is me! I gave him to much of me!😢! And looking to leave a 23 year relationship!!
Going through that now an I'm fed the f.. up today maybe his last day hearing from me within the 2 years of knowing him at some point we gotta get serious ladies and start holding men accountable
After one year, if he’s not asking you to marry him, you boss out…..
When you've been by yourself for so many, many years ,you know what you DESERVE!!!!!
was alone for 10 years, tried again...wasted time experience and im back to being alone. It only reinforced what I didnt want to deal with.
I understand exactly what you're talking about! It's draining trying to find balance of "giving ppl the benefit of a doubt" & also not wasting your valuable time! Because God forbid you walk away too fast then you're told, yal women don't give "good guys a real chance"! And when you stay even slightly too long, its still "yal women need to choose better"! Its literally damned if you do and damned if you don't out here! I've accepted the fact that it will ALWAYS be a woman's fault for every single thing that goes wrong in any relationship for any reason at all, no matter what! So at the end of the day, you might as well just choose peace of mind & your sanity! Im praying you continue working on yourself! 🙏🏾❤️
@@ericabelcher8760 the devil hates women, ever since Eve was manipulated
I missed/chose not to see so many red flags but in his 40s and everyone’s ex and I didn’t ask any questions until it was too late and I was heartbroken and hooked on the hope
Makes Perfect Sense
He's telling the truth, he's speaking from experience..
You are so correct on everything you said. Especially giving him some sorts of warnings signs to him that things are not looking good.
“You don’t try your best. Nuh-uh. You try accordingly”
Oof… spot on. Thank you.
Yup, I walked away, too. I was done expeditiously.
Your videos are in Rare Form!! They never disappoint. Always on time!!Thank You❤
Keep a journal go back after a year. Your own words wake you up. ❤❤be strong protect your 💜 peace
True
I have my own condo now I can walk away when I want to
Amen 🙏 You never lied 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Yes this is true it is painful but I have gratitude and I'm learning to love myself more and more found out he is a player thanks for everything thank you for letting God work through you🙏❤️
Love you brother from a humble sister 🤗 you are 💯 correct
That's me and my husband sure doesn't see!! Thanks so much for validating my life and that I have given everything and way more than he ever deserved!!
III,I let him go , it’s been 2days! All this is on point! I’m ready to do me now!
Same here been 2 days im good on him
I’m sitting here thinking, it’s unsafe to date or have relationships, because no matter how hard you try as a good woman they want to see you dead before you have peace!
It’s dangerous to date in 2024 especially with these red pill kool-aide drinkers, it’s all a game to them.
100% Big Facts!
Speak your truth because it's helping more than you know! Don't be concerned about the haters. They know you're telling the truth too!
You speak the 💯 truth every word you have spoke on this matter I’m going through it. It’s took me almost a year to get to where I’m at to cut him off. There is only one ME!! To me iam special yes I have took a fought for so long an I got tired of trying you can only do so much by yourself. God will take care of him because I pray 🤲 for him. When you can hurt someone an not feel nothing or act like you don’t. Sorry when you do try to come back. I won’t be the same. I cried to many tears to fight for my family. But I know god is gonna take care of me. Thank you for speaking the truth. I don’t hurt anyone I just treat them good and know gods got this. ❤💛✨✨🙏🏼
I am a empath and you are telling the truth I experience everything you are talking about
I need this! A disrespect is disrespect. What we allow will continue. We need to stop becoming available to people who don’t know our worth.
WOW! 😅 Derrick, big bro you’re sooo on point! ❤
Excellent and on point.
😢I'm guilty but I learned the hard way I'm I'm delivered and healing but the most beautiful thing about this I did not let my heart become bitter I saved a spot for true love in my life
Thank you for all your knowledge and wisdom you really confirmed what i need to know .... I was the one communicating and he was silent just turned the tables on me Iam that loving caring person he is taking advantage of me.
After 19 years, im more than happy with myself...I LEFT HIM!! No regrets and proved to myself that I can and "AM" doing it by myself as a single mother. My children( ages 9 to 17) and I are now better off.
Most definitely on point about issue of teaching him.
Exactly, our mental health and joy is precious we must guard our well being
This is my first time coming across ur messages I'm shocked at everything u no my word this is confirmation for me thank u so much❤❤watching from south Africa 😊
Continue your teaching’s .. we listening 👂 👂👂👂🙏🙏🙏🙏
Every time I expressed my needs or wants I would get this, "I'm not in a relationship to see what I can get. I am in a relationship because I want to be."
You really opened my eyes. I've been so done. I'm finally done giving chances and looking for change. I'm ready to wait for the one.
Thanks for droppin Gems Big Bro!!💪
You telling the truth Derrick !!!
You are definitely talking to me! 👍 thank you
I love you and God loves you for helping good women....Thank you so much......Many blessings to you and family.....
(I) released negativity and disrespect because ,
I know my worth. Healing and not ever looking back at what broke me. I just love how on point you are! Thank you, and God Bless…❤️🎯💯
Right on time thank you!!! Just set boundaries 24hrs ago and left. Shocked myself but I’m proud of myself.
U ain't never lied.
On point 💯 I'm their walking karma. I'm not afraid walking away once disrespected and my feelings got dismissed. 💪 I know my worth and never chase anyone.
Iiiiiiii n everything is so toxic n its been a long time n I'm tired of going back to the same place i left from for myself n God knows how much i did to much n its not worth it praying for peace n get back to me when i tune in to u it's the truth thanks again for your help i appreciate u for your mentorship council luv ya bro thanks again for u being u keep teaching n know its my time to show me that i love me more cause my god love me best even when I'm not at my best
Everything you speak of is What I Lived ! ! !
You’re talking directly to me right now!!!
U know I was mad at you for a while Mr. Jaxn but forgiveness feels good. You words are powerful and sooo REAL!! On point!! Have you ever considered ministry?
This is a powerful message. Thank you!
❤
Yeah that's right,no more talking, I'm a show you.❤
Your wisdom is valued and appreciated.
Definitely agree. It is so difficult for women now days . Men seem
play non stop games . I love your content and your delivery thank you
I need to hear this because my life is falling apart.
You is soo on point ! But its torture when ever i try to leave.
💯 you really got it ! So clever- thank you
Thank you Derrick so much wisdom it's amazing
Yezzzzzz I! I'm right here. You're preaching now!
😳😱 OMG
U
TALKING TO ME 😭.
I HEAR YOU AND I
AM
DONE TALKING TO HIM.
PERIOD ✴️
Thank you! 🙏🏾 This message was confirmation for me 😔
You knew when Broke my Heart you knew when you played games that hurt me and I was understanding caring loving and you DISRESPECTED ME IAM GONE Staying in prayer and my peace ❤❤❤🙏🙏
Always on point ,thank you❤
I'm an Old G, and you're absolutely 💯 right. Thank you Internet Brother.
Your definitely speaking my truth
I hear you. You're speaking facts.
It was like you was there. You are on point
Hi sisters listen to Derrick he is telling the 100% truth I have been thru everything he is saying as an empath, before God healed me to be the Queen I am. God bless you brother for helping women.
I needed to hear this, you are on point!!!
Yes, you talk sense. We left good men at grandfather era . Keep speaking your truth. Women must NOT be afraid to be alone if they are not happy with poor treatment. If they disrespect their woman, they need to go. And only come back if they are learning to chamge. I am willing to change and learn from his feedback and would need to be the same with him. Bare minimum
True that’s what I’m doing snatching the control
Yes I in that currently. Know keep speaking truth please I need to hear this thank you. I love with a hard
Mr. DJ u r ABSOLUTELY CORRECT 1000% 👍🏽
Hey lovely from Aotearoa New Zealand , i really love listening to you i find you a crack up and i needed to hear you today n thank you so so much for your truth, thank you. Love n Light
You are exactly right! Don't worry about those other people, I know for a fact you're exactly correct 💯
Well said! 💯
Yes you are speaking real fact sire!
On point, thanks!!
Thank you Derrick, your truth and your heart show so clearly and honestly. I am lucky I've found your content. I wish you all the best and all the blessing you deserve.
You hit it spot on !
You Speaking FACTS FR
can’t thank you enough for all your words of wisdom! I’ve shared many of your videos with women in my life who need to hear these words as well as claiming it for myself. It’s been such a strength for me to rid my life of men who waste my time and energy. Thank you ❤
Facts brother!!!
Thank you for this message 💯