Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
Starting my healing journey after being fumbled. He will realize I had nothing but genuine love for him. Whatever happens now on is on him.Thank you for the insight.
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable. He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
He broke me when I was very young and wouldn’t speak to me or looked at me since. So I never was told why. The last thing he said to me was cruel. After attempting to stop my pain, I repressed the memories. 43 years later, it all came back, including the pain. I reached out again, to ask why, and he blocked me. Still, no answer. So, I wrote a book about the experience.
@@daniellehalo6923 -Thank you for your words. I am still going through the healing of it, since I repressed it for so long, I never allowed myself to grieve from it until now. So imagine healing from a break up that happened when you were 16, when you are 60!
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38. He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you. No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
Took me years of therapy but im glowing up now. I took my heart back!.... Back from every 💔.. the resentment i get from them is crazy.. accountability is very important. I took accountability for accepting n even getting even out of anger ( ladies it doesn't work)
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
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Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽
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To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled.
It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!
I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.
Thank u...... ❤❤❤
Going thru it now 😢💔
I like that 👏👏 keep rolling
now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...
Thank you.
It sucks tbh
Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔
Right.......
Been there..... for sure!!
It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.
💯💯💯
@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘
Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯
That part
Amen 🙏 ❣️
Ooooooo you said it
It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤
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Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten
Yes Michael facts
Oooo that part 🙌💯 I can forgive but there are certain levels of disrespect... It's like ✌️✌️✌️
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
Facts.
💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯
Yep. What she supplies
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He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
Why not divorce him??
Mine did too before I fully got away.
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....
Exactly, at that point, you're wasting both of y'all time @@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
Been there. I can relate.
Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌
😢
He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
Me too
No. Men don’t love and feel like us
Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.
Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did
Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯
Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
You can see this one hits him different.
I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.
Yeah... this is very personal.
U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮
Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it
C'mon that's the song that always comes to my mind in these type of situations...yesss👏👏
After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.
U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥
BOOM
It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!
Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤
Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏
I agree
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤
@@KeishaWilliams-e6dI agree.
That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
This message deserves Gold Thanks
I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
KARMA IS REAL❤
That part !! 💯 💯 💯
Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽
Starting my healing journey after being fumbled. He will realize I had nothing but genuine love for him. Whatever happens now on is on him.Thank you for the insight.
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship …
Thanks for keeping it real❤
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
I was knocked down but I wasn't knocked...I accepted my circumstances, I healed, and now I'm happy.
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.
Woman love you first
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
my ex is regretting it as we speak and has turned to God.
Derrick I’m going through it now my husband left me after 20 yrs
Sorry to here that my husband left me also after 20 years it’s very painful I’m going through it also
Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable.
He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
Do narsaccist men have a conscience?
You damn sure preaching the truth❤
Amen. I am patiently waiting for my day.
He broke me when I was very young and wouldn’t speak to me or looked at me since. So I never was told why. The last thing he said to me was cruel. After attempting to stop my pain, I repressed the memories. 43 years later, it all came back, including the pain. I reached out again, to ask why, and he blocked me. Still, no answer. So, I wrote a book about the experience.
So sorry you went through that.
@@daniellehalo6923 -Thank you for your words. I am still going through the healing of it, since I repressed it for so long, I never allowed myself to grieve from it until now. So imagine healing from a break up that happened when you were 16, when you are 60!
Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊
Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38.
He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you.
No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
UR AWESOME U HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANK YOU ❤❤😊
Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾
Thank you for speaking the truth.
Took me years of therapy but im glowing up now. I took my heart back!.... Back from every 💔.. the resentment i get from them is crazy.. accountability is very important. I took accountability for accepting n even getting even out of anger ( ladies it doesn't work)
Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?
ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.
No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
That pain is definitely different.
This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️
Wow! A Great woman is still out there...
My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed
This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts
THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!
You are speaking the God's honest truth.
Thank you for this
I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.
Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔
Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?
Kept coming back because u chose to play 2nd option and not 1st priority
STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!
That's true God is not mocked.
Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿
That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
6 ft 5" !!!
You have an amazing topic very amazing
Nobody deserves a chosen one!
im here asking myself, who's that girl that opened your eyes? Who's she? im glad you healed too
talk is Cheap anyone can afford it....
Brotha
You STILL have so much more to learn
I feel so hurt and lost 😞
It gets better hold on
You will be fine
Its just a matters of time
Youre Speaking Facts, Speaking from Experience, and my Ex is gonna feel it soon 😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢
Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am
Thank you Derrick !!
Good Message! 💯
Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤
Love You Derrick 💓💓💓
I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize
BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.
Real Talk 🙏
Continue to do the good work.
A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑
Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u
Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!
Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤
How do I keep going with this broken heart . Do I just tear it out 😣
Great message ❤️
Thank You
Wow this video alone has made me respect
Ty for this message 👍
Awesome information and so true