Definitely understand. My family members often keep shoving things I'm allergic to or that have lactose or other things that my body just doesn't handle. Often they demand I eat it, in spite of my severe suffering afterwards. Was staying with my mother in the hospital during a procedure, they demanded I eat something they brought, even though I knew I was allergic to. Ended up having to go for meditation at 3am in the morning, thankfully the Walmart was open at that time. I need to get stronger at my no, as this kind of thing has happened multiple times. I think you are an incredible and inspiring woman. 🤗❤🐈🦋🌞
thank you Cindy, I dont really understand the point of forcing someone to eat something they don't like or cannot eat due to sensitivity or allergy. I just don't. I should have mentioned this in the video because it happens to me too. I have learned to be strong in my no as the aftermath is so bad.
> they demanded I eat something they brought, and you gave in to reptile terrorism? oh boy, oh boy. you need to learn these 3 words: "fk off, knts". And off the knts will fk.
Hi Joy...only 4 minutes in and I have to stop to say this! I hope you believe me ..the INFJ-T and HSP told me that I did not know everything that I was feeling about you! You being honest doesn't surprise me at all...I knew you are in pain BUT to be honest I thought it was childhood trauma pain...which you had/have but I hadn't put my finger on a physical illness! Now, I can totally feel it! You room is always dark, quiet, and calm which tells me that you are in pain...I am in emotional pain fighting my narc ex of 40 years so I too want dark, cold, quiet, calm and peace in my beautiful little apartment in downtown Carmel, In! You are so precious and I distinctly remember my first video of yours BUT didn't know then that we both were INFJ'S and HSP! I just thought you were a beautiful angel who loved nature and God! Which you are! I don't have a disease with my stomach BUT my stomach and bowls are affected tremendously by stress and I get headaches! Plus I need my RX'S and so forth! I totally feel you! I am so sorry that you are in pain...I also am not pitying you! I don't want it either I just want respect and dignity! Rock on sister! You are wonderful!🌺🙏😘❣
Excellent Joy! You were bravely honest and you will and have already help people! I wish I could hug you! Your cat is beautiful! I am going to take a nap! You made me think! 🌺😘🙏 Until next time my You Tube friend!
Ohh the Pitty vrs Grace thing is huge for me too, its so hard when you want to be strong and comforted at the same time. I have learned from you and God to love is to let love and I am trying to receive love now without so much guilt and discomfort.
Yes, much to be grateful for! I too take vitamins and study nutrition as well. My dad is a Nutritionist so that also helps, but he only got his degree when my mom was diagnosed with Melanoma Cancer but he helped her live 8 years longer than expected. He is helping us all now though so that is a blessing!
My late aunt was celiac: there is ibs and gluten and chocolate and cheese alleriges and ibs in my life. I developed ibs and chronic alleriges and sinusitis - I naturally live with chronic, daily discomfort...I appreciate what you said about resenting the heredity God gave you...I feel the same sometimes..for me learning to accept what we are given rather than resent it is about the most empowering and freeing thing, but ultimately the hardest thing for us to learn.
♥️ you’re strong Joy and a great role model for your daughter. 🤗, love the floral cardigan 🥰. 💪 Found out that I’m unsubscribed from your channel, would have commented sooner.
This is Dean, I'm having fun playing with the Hebrew. Great to have you back with a new video. I've had/have the same stomach problems. I understand completely. I fortunately don't have the chronic pain. Sharing this will help others. תודה רבה!
How did I miss this video, I just finished watching it all and without pity, I'm so sorry you experience this ❤ I couldn't begin to imagine how this must be to live with. What your son said was true though 😊 you are very compassionate and kind. You're brave to come out and open up about something so personal and even embarrassing at times to you, I liked getting to know you better through this video ❤😊 thankyou for sharing. Oh I gotta edit this because I also forgot to mention that I'm pretty sure I have that same cardy you're wearing as well, in pink too! 😀
Ugg, I so understand. I have chronic pain for over 8 years now and just last month figured out what was causing it. Yes, I also feel embarrassed about the pain. My kids and husband are deathly allergic to certain foods and we have other diet restrictions and it is so hard because people who do not understand this don't tell me correctly what is in the food and yes we have had some scares. I now do not eat our or at other peoples houses because it is too hard. I carry digestive enzymes everywhere with me because our stomachs cannot handle much. It is tiring but know you are not alone in this and it is hard, sending you tons of love and smiles! I am watching till the end!
It takes a strong person to admit their challenges.... Especially something that has been with you for so long. I don't say this lightly, but I do believe God has a purpose for even the most challenging things in our lives. Yet look at the person you are Joy... This has made you even stronger, when many people would have just given up or turned away from God... You choose to let the love of Christ still shine from your eyes.. Praying that God gives you the strength daily to overcome and that the Holy Spirit will one day give you a blessing of total healing.
Welcome back! I think we've all been around some adults that are extremely picky about their food even though it has nothing to do with their health. So I'd imagine how a waiter might lump you in with the picky people and roll the eyes when you start to ask about ingredients. I'd be angry if I were in your situation at being put in with picky food people category because your situation is not a preference. Pity is a strange word that can mean a certain looking down upon another, if that is the intention of its usage. Grace is what we all need and hope to have from others at some point. How hard it is for those that look out in pain and find no grace, no mercy from others.
not so much anymore, but years ago waitstaff used to roll their eyes or get really annoyed when I asked for no bun, no bread no croutons ect....it was as if I could read the thought bubble above them which said "girl you are way too skinny to be skipping carbs" I am not picky at all, I love lots of things, strange combinations and I will try anything, so long as it doesn't contain the ingredients that hurt me
Good to see you, hope you are well other than your tummy troubles. I've always had stomach issues too, mostly from anxiety, I had ulcers when I was 11 years old.
Again just had to stop and tell you that this just happened to me today! My stomach started feeling funny andcI knew I had to get to my toilet immediately....I again don't have any real issues just stress! I made it and felt better! I am to the point that I am intermittent fasting JUST to get my food digest and out! Also please be kind to yourself and never worry about asking what's in your food...you are ABSOLUTELY right....YOU need to know because you will suffer in you don't ask! You are a different INFJ...you are shy reserved and I am NOT!😆 I am glad you are being honest...you will help others! I am shocked that you are able to work!🌺
@@joyousprairies9313 yes it makes sense! I have my own cleaning business...just me...I have always loved to clean...$$$ BUT when stress gets me....like fighting for my financial security against a narcissist to a T....basically a psychopath and I am the rare one who will finally bring him down.. Well the stress can cripple me and I need to stay home! There is no way to push through for me...it mental and physical! I have found out that many have been the recieving end of his temper tantrums therefore his friends are deep down wanting, waiting, watching to see what happens! From my research they say INFJ is the one to put your money on! Plus I know for a fact that God has his hand on my helping navigate each step of the war and timing everything and me finding out more evidence! It's almost over and then after 40 years and at 58 I will be done with him BUT will not be completely at peace until he is dead! Yep! I just said that to anyone reading this! When it's his time that when the real hell will begin for him...he fears death and knows no God....he has no beliefs! I was young and dumb and then beaten down into submission in every way BUT physical! I allowed it! NOT ANYMORE! Stay strong beautiful Joy!!
@@joyousprairies9313 I know...I let it out mainly talking outloud so I am preparing to speak face to face with him! I also know that many people out there especially us highly sensitive people are susceptible to Cluster B abuse! Thank you Joy!
I suffer from Crohn's disease. GERMAN NEW MEDICINE,have you tried that? You need a tinfoiled hat,you need to change the way you see things. I've been researching about German New Medicine. I treat my disease without pharmaceuticals because they didn't work for most of my symptoms. And long term use of the pharmaceuticals for my disease come at a price,stops working and complications. Cannabis helps me greatly with my disease. Inflammation, pain,lack of appetite, nausea, etc. But what it really does that many don't realize. Cannabis helps your body into homeostasis so your body can naturally heal itself. Also do intermittent fasting to control symptoms. Basically rest your body, getting it into rest and relaxation so you can digest your food to get as much nutrition from your food. Like you,I do struggle at times with my disease. But I'm doing this with nobody teaching me. Great video. Love how open and honest you are in them.
intermittent fasting is a way of life for me as I basically wait as long as I can each day before eating. rarely before 10am. CBD with distillate greatly helped my anxiety and circular thinking but has helped little with the digestive stuff. I will look into German new medicine. thank you
Hey joy this is big Quinn 559 I sense a little hostility from last video,I'm seeing a pattern and that is negativity not talking about you but speaking of patterns but should I call out someone doing wrong when I'm doing things dishonest to them like invading they're privacy? I'm talking about something I'm going thru. I was always taught two wrongs nevermade a right, so it's extremely hypocritical to nit pick and destroy they're character and involve outside people. how do you quite the noise??? Wish I could not a pitty party honest question
@@joyousprairies9313 I agree with what your saying about patterns,I have someone trolling me.it feels miserable because they are justifying it supposedly because I'm a bully make me like dirt.should I shut myself from the world because it's killing I kinda am starting to believe them that I am a bad person
block them, in all forms. it's the only way to handle a consistent troll. sorry you are going through that. I have as well. it rocked me at first but now I just block and carry on. Be thankful they showed their true colors right away. makes things much more simple
We missed you! ♡
missed you too
Definitely understand. My family members often keep shoving things I'm allergic to or that have lactose or other things that my body just doesn't handle. Often they demand I eat it, in spite of my severe suffering afterwards. Was staying with my mother in the hospital during a procedure, they demanded I eat something they brought, even though I knew I was allergic to. Ended up having to go for meditation at 3am in the morning, thankfully the Walmart was open at that time. I need to get stronger at my no, as this kind of thing has happened multiple times. I think you are an incredible and inspiring woman. 🤗❤🐈🦋🌞
thank you Cindy, I dont really understand the point of forcing someone to eat something they don't like or cannot eat due to sensitivity or allergy. I just don't. I should have mentioned this in the video because it happens to me too. I have learned to be strong in my no as the aftermath is so bad.
> they demanded I eat something they brought,
and you gave in to reptile terrorism? oh boy, oh boy. you need to learn these 3 words: "fk off, knts". And off the knts will fk.
Hi Joy...only 4 minutes in and I have to stop to say this! I hope you believe me ..the INFJ-T and HSP told me that I did not know everything that I was feeling about you! You being honest doesn't surprise me at all...I knew you are in pain BUT to be honest I thought it was childhood trauma pain...which you had/have but I hadn't put my finger on a physical illness! Now, I can totally feel it! You room is always dark, quiet, and calm which tells me that you are in pain...I am in emotional pain fighting my narc ex of 40 years so I too want dark, cold, quiet, calm and peace in my beautiful little apartment in downtown Carmel, In!
You are so precious and I distinctly remember my first video of yours BUT didn't know then that we both were INFJ'S and HSP! I just thought you were a beautiful angel who loved nature and God! Which you are! I don't have a disease with my stomach BUT my stomach and bowls are affected tremendously by stress and I get headaches! Plus I need my RX'S and so forth! I totally feel you!
I am so sorry that you are in pain...I also am not pitying you! I don't want it either I just want respect and dignity! Rock on sister! You are wonderful!🌺🙏😘❣
thank you Kim and now you know what the pain is 🙂 I do so love nature, and God ❤
Excellent Joy! You were bravely honest and you will and have already help people! I wish I could hug you! Your cat is beautiful! I am going to take a nap! You made me think! 🌺😘🙏
Until next time my You Tube friend!
Thank you and Leo the cat says he knows he's a stunner and thank you 😆
Ohh the Pitty vrs Grace thing is huge for me too, its so hard when you want to be strong and comforted at the same time. I have learned from you and God to love is to let love and I am trying to receive love now without so much guilt and discomfort.
the guilt thing...oh it so needs to go. It's been a struggle for me too, learning
Yes, much to be grateful for! I too take vitamins and study nutrition as well. My dad is a Nutritionist so that also helps, but he only got his degree when my mom was diagnosed with Melanoma Cancer but he helped her live 8 years longer than expected. He is helping us all now though so that is a blessing!
Good to see ya again. I have missed you as well. Thank you for sharing that with us. May God richly bless you.
My late aunt was celiac: there is ibs and gluten and chocolate and cheese alleriges and ibs in my life. I developed ibs and chronic alleriges and sinusitis - I naturally live with chronic, daily discomfort...I appreciate what you said about resenting the heredity God gave you...I feel the same sometimes..for me learning to accept what we are given rather than resent it is about the most empowering and freeing thing, but ultimately the hardest thing for us to learn.
accept and love and care for what we were given....thats the most difficult and freeing, yes, yes it is
most diseases we have are not god but government given.
♥️ you’re strong Joy and a great role model for your daughter. 🤗, love the floral cardigan 🥰. 💪
Found out that I’m unsubscribed from your channel, would have commented sooner.
what in the world unsubscribed? TH-cam does odd things sometimes 🤔
Has it anything to do with turning off notifications from my IPhone settings? I’m not even subscribed to INFJ Nomad and Marty Glean channel
@@monathinkworth2339 I have no idea, I never turn on notifications
Figure maybe there was someone out here suffering and feeling alone. I hope your story and wisdom will help another hurting soul. 🤗🙏🕊❤🌺
I hope so too
This is Dean, I'm having fun playing with the Hebrew. Great to have you back with a new video. I've had/have the same stomach problems. I understand completely. I fortunately don't have the chronic pain. Sharing this will help others. תודה רבה!
thank you Dean, sorry you struggle with a similar situation
It's horrific feeling when mind's or body's working order is more or less uncertain. I'm glad to see you after some time. Be blessed
How did I miss this video, I just finished watching it all and without pity, I'm so sorry you experience this ❤ I couldn't begin to imagine how this must be to live with. What your son said was true though 😊 you are very compassionate and kind. You're brave to come out and open up about something so personal and even embarrassing at times to you, I liked getting to know you better through this video ❤😊 thankyou for sharing. Oh I gotta edit this because I also forgot to mention that I'm pretty sure I have that same cardy you're wearing as well, in pink too! 😀
thank you darling. this cardigan in pink......oh sweet heavens 😍
Ugg, I so understand. I have chronic pain for over 8 years now and just last month figured out what was causing it. Yes, I also feel embarrassed about the pain.
My kids and husband are deathly allergic to certain foods and we have other diet restrictions and it is so hard because people who do not understand this don't tell me correctly what is in the food and yes we have had some scares.
I now do not eat our or at other peoples houses because it is too hard. I carry digestive enzymes everywhere with me because our stomachs cannot handle much.
It is tiring but know you are not alone in this and it is hard, sending you tons of love and smiles!
I am watching till the end!
😘
We will break bread together in Heaven and you will be able to enjoy it! May God richly bless you and your daughter!
I do miss bread, and cinnamon rolls
i feel you 100% i'm INFJ and celiac... Just keep our spirits up!
It takes a strong person to admit their challenges.... Especially something that has been with you for so long. I don't say this lightly, but I do believe God has a purpose for even the most challenging things in our lives. Yet look at the person you are Joy... This has made you even stronger, when many people would have just given up or turned away from God... You choose to let the love of Christ still shine from your eyes.. Praying that God gives you the strength daily to overcome and that the Holy Spirit will one day give you a blessing of total healing.
Great to hear from ya again! You're one of my favorite people
thank you
@@joyousprairies9313 You're very welcome
Sending some prayers your way for your tummy young lady do you and the family are always in my thoughts🐶😎🐶🤗❤️🤗❤️
thank so very much
heap on the prayers, I will take em anytime
Welcome back! I think we've all been around some adults that are extremely picky about their food even though it has nothing to do with their health. So I'd imagine how a waiter might lump you in with the picky people and roll the eyes when you start to ask about ingredients. I'd be angry if I were in your situation at being put in with picky food people category because your situation is not a preference. Pity is a strange word that can mean a certain looking down upon another, if that is the intention of its usage. Grace is what we all need and hope to have from others at some point. How hard it is for those that look out in pain and find no grace, no mercy from others.
not so much anymore, but years ago waitstaff used to roll their eyes or get really annoyed when I asked for no bun, no bread no croutons ect....it was as if I could read the thought bubble above them which said "girl you are way too skinny to be skipping carbs"
I am not picky at all, I love lots of things, strange combinations and I will try anything, so long as it doesn't contain the ingredients that hurt me
Agreed 🤗❤🙏
this is why ppl are sick - they do not make and grow their own food. henche they poison you as they have always promised.
Good to see you, hope you are well other than your tummy troubles. I've always had stomach issues too, mostly from anxiety, I had ulcers when I was 11 years old.
stomach ailments seem to be common among us worrying overthinking folk
Again just had to stop and tell you that this just happened to me today! My stomach started feeling funny andcI knew I had to get to my toilet immediately....I again don't have any real issues just stress! I made it and felt better! I am to the point that I am intermittent fasting JUST to get my food digest and out!
Also please be kind to yourself and never worry about asking what's in your food...you are ABSOLUTELY right....YOU need to know because you will suffer in you don't ask!
You are a different INFJ...you are shy reserved and I am NOT!😆
I am glad you are being honest...you will help others!
I am shocked that you are able to work!🌺
I work because I didn't give myself the option to not work if that makes sense. I just carry on and thrive regardless
@@joyousprairies9313 yes it makes sense! I have my own cleaning business...just me...I have always loved to clean...$$$ BUT when stress gets me....like fighting for my financial security against a narcissist to a T....basically a psychopath and I am the rare one who will finally bring him down..
Well the stress can cripple me and I need to stay home! There is no way to push through for me...it mental and physical! I have found out that many have been the recieving end of his temper tantrums therefore his friends are deep down wanting, waiting, watching to see what happens! From my research they say INFJ is the one to put your money on! Plus I know for a fact that God has his hand on my helping navigate each step of the war and timing everything and me finding out more evidence! It's almost over and then after 40 years and at 58 I will be done with him BUT will not be completely at peace until he is dead! Yep! I just said that to anyone reading this! When it's his time that when the real hell will begin for him...he fears death and knows no God....he has no beliefs!
I was young and dumb and then beaten down into submission in every way BUT physical! I allowed it!
NOT ANYMORE!
Stay strong beautiful Joy!!
you are strong, what a story you have to tell, thank you for sharing that bit with us, with me
@@joyousprairies9313 I know...I let it out mainly talking outloud so I am preparing to speak face to face with him! I also know that many people out there especially us highly sensitive people are susceptible to Cluster B abuse! Thank you Joy!
I suffer from Crohn's disease. GERMAN NEW MEDICINE,have you tried that? You need a tinfoiled hat,you need to change the way you see things. I've been researching about German New Medicine. I treat my disease without pharmaceuticals because they didn't work for most of my symptoms. And long term use of the pharmaceuticals for my disease come at a price,stops working and complications. Cannabis helps me greatly with my disease. Inflammation, pain,lack of appetite, nausea, etc. But what it really does that many don't realize. Cannabis helps your body into homeostasis so your body can naturally heal itself. Also do intermittent fasting to control symptoms. Basically rest your body, getting it into rest and relaxation so you can digest your food to get as much nutrition from your food. Like you,I do struggle at times with my disease. But I'm doing this with nobody teaching me. Great video. Love how open and honest you are in them.
P.s. CBD works well if you don't like cannabis with THC.
intermittent fasting is a way of life for me as I basically wait as long as I can each day before eating. rarely before 10am. CBD with distillate greatly helped my anxiety and circular thinking but has helped little with the digestive stuff. I will look into German new medicine. thank you
Hey joy this is big Quinn 559 I sense a little hostility from last video,I'm seeing a pattern and that is negativity not talking about you but speaking of patterns but should I call out someone doing wrong when I'm doing things dishonest to them like invading they're privacy? I'm talking about something I'm going thru. I was always taught two wrongs nevermade a right, so it's extremely hypocritical to nit pick and destroy they're character and involve outside people. how do you quite the noise??? Wish I could not a pitty party honest question
clarify please, I dont quite understand
@@joyousprairies9313 I agree with what your saying about patterns,I have someone trolling me.it feels miserable because they are justifying it supposedly because I'm a bully make me like dirt.should I shut myself from the world because it's killing I kinda am starting to believe them that I am a bad person
block them, in all forms. it's the only way to handle a consistent troll. sorry you are going through that. I have as well. it rocked me at first but now I just block and carry on. Be thankful they showed their true colors right away. makes things much more simple
I don't know, peanut butter and chocolate chips sounds like good nutrition to me! 🤣😎
it's good, that's a fact! nutrition wise, far too much sugar and processing but mercy, so yummy
Yummy 😉
Sup Baby Cakes!