15 Surprising Things That Turn Women On

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  • @vj442315
    @vj442315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    1. Nonverbal Communication In public
    2. Outward displays of Intelligence (e.g. Reading books)
    3. Wear Glasses (Not Sunglasses)
    4. Handling stress/negative moments well
    5. Wear a watch
    6. Brag about her to family and friends
    7. Bring her a cup of coffee
    8. Acts of Being a good dad
    9. Apologize when you are wrong
    10. Give her space (don't be clingy)
    11. In public, put your hand on the small of her back
    12. Chip in on prep, cooking, and cleaning up of a meal
    13. Share your food with your lady
    14. Make it a habit of being present
    15. Wear grey sweatpants

  • @coldsoldier313
    @coldsoldier313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    As a married man, these are straight gems that my wife will definitely benefit from. Thanks, OG!

    • @moisterxxx
      @moisterxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never apologize to women, even if you did wrong.

    • @coiledsteel8344
      @coiledsteel8344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@moisterxxx
      Use Your Pimp ✋Hand
      When Needed.

    • @doejohnathon3487
      @doejohnathon3487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait a minute when you fuck up you acknowledge it like a man u apologize and leave at her move get on ur hog or super sport and take off for while

    • @moisterxxx
      @moisterxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@doejohnathon3487
      You never wrong in front of a woman, if you are - you will lose respect forever - Yes maybe that's childish to act like that but that's the only thing that will keep you important in her eyes, real men or nice men, are left behind broken and used.

    • @jeffreycicero6685
      @jeffreycicero6685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moisterxxx What?

  • @Havaseet2
    @Havaseet2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I tried the coffee thing. I put on a nice watch as you recommended and brought her a morning coffee in bed. She was furious! She started screaming and yelling then chased me out of the house with a cast iron frying pan...
    Apparently this only works on women who know you.

    • @VEGANzUmebies
      @VEGANzUmebies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hahaha

    • @rjdez3589
      @rjdez3589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🤦🏻‍♂️😂😂😂

    • @georgemaxwell3467
      @georgemaxwell3467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂

    • @jacobyengland8866
      @jacobyengland8866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks for the laugh🤣

    • @TheTorqueAholic
      @TheTorqueAholic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂 You’re supposed to set the coffee down on the nightstand, not in the bed where you spill it all over her. Pro tip: watch/ask how she makes her coffee so you can make it the same way

  • @schappell2537
    @schappell2537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I agree with all 15. Being cared for does it for me. I went on a date to a amusement park and he pick me up, put me in the ride and made sure I was safely strapped in before he did it for himself. I fell in LOVE. I've never seen anyone do that except a parent.

  • @ms.leosmiles7361
    @ms.leosmiles7361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Jeff,
    Also a ladies finds attractive when he is health conscious and shows that he is interested in hers as well.

  • @nrs525
    @nrs525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    Definitely on track with intelligence. Nothing is sexier than a man who can converse intelligently about many topics! Also taking time to continue pursuing hobbies it’s very attractive. Shows dedication, consistency, and gives a couple something to talk about. Great video!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Appreciate the input Nicole !

    • @louiscyfer6944
      @louiscyfer6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      how much does it help to try to look smart with glasses, but not be able to live up to the image in conversation?

    • @mann8098
      @mann8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@louiscyfer6944 probably not much once that conversation starts 😂 but perception is reality!

    • @louiscyfer6944
      @louiscyfer6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mann8098 perception is not reality.

    • @NkrumahTure
      @NkrumahTure 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excellent comment, sis.

  • @beatricesmith3979
    @beatricesmith3979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    As a Senior Citizen & Widow after almost 30 years of marriage, I find your Channel Jeff on point in directing Men to be mature in several aspects of life. Women are also attracted to Men who are honestly grounded in their relationship with God.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Appreciate you Beatrice!

    • @coiledsteel8344
      @coiledsteel8344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beatrice You seem to be Ageless IF You're a Senior Citizen.

    • @Rationalreason777
      @Rationalreason777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which god?

    • @rollskreet6227
      @rollskreet6227 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Scott Stevens, there's no need to choose which one as there is only one.

  • @cordellporter6941
    @cordellporter6941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man, I'm 41 and now learning these things and checking up on your other videos. Thanks for the knowledge brother. It's changing my life for the better, one day at the time.

  • @lisam4739
    @lisam4739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Yes yes yes and yes. Also, when a man holds the woman’s hand when he takes her to the bedroom or just out in public.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Appreciate the input Lisa!

  • @katrinasmith1464
    @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow! We are 43 Strong. You hit this Out of Park from the 1st example of the man being present in a room full of people while catching each others eyes with a subtle smile or wink as he walks through the room . Trust and believe he's definitely gonna get that call it a night kind of love❤. The whole look book is On Point . Thanks for the shout out Jeff to us ladies. Be Blessed

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My answer is based on the man that is mine.

  • @tanishatalks1822
    @tanishatalks1822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Good information,Sir! The touching of the small of the back, sharing the food hit it and being present 🤩

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks TaNisha!

  • @ladymariej4156
    @ladymariej4156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Holding eye contact when holding a conversation, and putting his phone away(or face down). It's a subtle way of showing he is considerate and engaged. A man can go from "meh" 😒 to "I can't wait to see him again"😍
    And share dessert!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Appreciate the input Marie !

    • @CharlesTurnerTheKing
      @CharlesTurnerTheKing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds About Right

    • @aishalove513
      @aishalove513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree with putting his phone away but definitely not face down.

    • @johnnyblaze2257
      @johnnyblaze2257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do the eye contact thing all the time, I have oddly light brown eyes for a pacific islander who can Easily pass for a black/brown guy with straight hair just because I have a heavy Brooklyn, NY accent, I know women love it so I be like ->👀👁️ 😆

    • @ladymariej4156
      @ladymariej4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@johnnyblaze2257 Lol you have an advantage😄

  • @elconquistador1352
    @elconquistador1352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Oh man, with 1.5x speed the vids are perfect now. Good info, man.

  • @curtisstapleton7167
    @curtisstapleton7167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This is a really sharp look thar playa. Saaaaalute !

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Salute Curtis !

    • @Ainimeshorts
      @Ainimeshorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I bet you he is not wearing pants 🤣

    • @twinningtwins4721
      @twinningtwins4721 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ainimeshorts 😂😂 the work from home uniform

    • @nigell.8705
      @nigell.8705 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts. @The Style O.G. that color suit with that shirt and tie is 🔥

    • @tomhoustonthumb
      @tomhoustonthumb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ainimeshorts lmao

  • @diamondpieces
    @diamondpieces 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Omg you hit it on the nail... eye contact while distant, being a great father, helping with household chores (just the initiative) 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the input Diamond!

    • @r.9874
      @r.9874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Being a great father is something women have a hand at too. A father raises his kids, but many of these women are not great mothers and men have to help raise them as well.

    • @eugenegreen6070
      @eugenegreen6070 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ,

    • @sgtbrownty
      @sgtbrownty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some women get used to this and take him for granted and the man doesn't feel appreciated.

    • @VicMansaMusa
      @VicMansaMusa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sgtbrownty true!

  • @MrShinobi797
    @MrShinobi797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The Blue Theme is KILLER Jeff...SALUTE!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @teach1reach120
    @teach1reach120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Definitely on point!! We as women love the attention of our men in every situation!!! So......Salute to you Jeff!

  • @jmlafia3998
    @jmlafia3998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can do all you said except share my food. If the girl likes what I'm eating, I will order it for her. When I see a meal I like, I'm mentally prepared to enjoy every bite of it. I can not divide my happiness, but I can help my woman experience the same thing by ordering her what I'm enjoying. No men enjoys sharing his food, so if you find one, stay with him coz he loves you a lot.

  • @jmorgan0829
    @jmorgan0829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nothing is more appealing when a man can converse who's well rounded ,keeps a clean home,very considerate and especially who extremely neutering..being able to cook is just an added bonus. Great list bro ❤

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Sis !

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesssss

    • @warrenfinch8034
      @warrenfinch8034 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Crazy" by The Product G&B

    • @Kinosec-10
      @Kinosec-10 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly, I rarely bother to ask men I meet anything about themselves anymore because they either go on and on about themselves, or answer- but never ask me anything back. If a man initiates a conversation by not mansplaining but asking me something about myself, then I know he’s worth my time.

  • @Zofer-1920
    @Zofer-1920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This might be one of the most rock solid lists to date!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate that!

  • @georgette-fe6bl
    @georgette-fe6bl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Well done! One more... Let your lady know you value and respect her opinion. "That's a good thought", "I value your opinion", "I appreciate you saying that"

  • @RhondaLa1103
    @RhondaLa1103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Jeff! Those were all great. I’ve never given much thought to a man wearing a watch, very good point. I’d like to add to the list, being passionate about something. Whether it’s work, a hobby, cars, clothes, or food, have something that makes you excited, and share it with your lady. I love for a man to share his intimate knowledge about a subject, and to see the spark that it puts in his eyes.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate the input Rhonda !

    • @markanthony5965
      @markanthony5965 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Jesus,Mom, Bro SiS and Boxing

  • @sarahyoseph9154
    @sarahyoseph9154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All of these were on point and made me all warm and cheery, but I definitely can't stop smiling at the last one, got us all figured out lol!

  • @vdavis55
    @vdavis55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great tips bruh!
    One other tip is being able to make a woman laugh. Laughter tends to allow women to be more of themselves without having their guards up all the time. It's been my golden rule and has worked 99.9% of the time.

  • @RobinsWatchJourney
    @RobinsWatchJourney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Be careful with the “absence.” Too much of it leads to “Out of sight, out of mind.”

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only with people who were never really into in the first place.

    • @JoiCarlaBodyBar
      @JoiCarlaBodyBar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed. This is from a woman.

    • @CCobraProductions
      @CCobraProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ha, ha, ha....or give her an inch and she is gone a mile.

  • @haleylynn1369
    @haleylynn1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with this list. I’d also add- Guys Who Are Nice To Animals. Guys In Suspenders (Think Christian Bale on American Psycho, Patrick Swayze on Ghost) Guys Who Are Good Dancers. Guys In White Tank Tops (Think David Boreanaz on Angel or Buffy) Guys Who Play An Instrument Or Sing. Guys Who Can Fix Things.

    • @HueWoman
      @HueWoman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely the fixing things part...

    • @Kinosec-10
      @Kinosec-10 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Guys who not only can fix things, but do it without being asked! Women love a man in a tool belt, for sure

  • @broussi
    @broussi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've been wearing glasses mostly my entire life. I've always gotten complimented by the ladies. It definitely gives off a certain look especially when I dress up.

  • @iamk_truth6968
    @iamk_truth6968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just got a new member to the party man I love the info brother need more like you unk

  • @skyemcgowen4766
    @skyemcgowen4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nailed all of them! And, the gray sweatpants thing is true and I never thought about it before.

  • @katrinastallworth5996
    @katrinastallworth5996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate the fair and accurate perspective ❤

  • @beansngreens8006
    @beansngreens8006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Another one of the 43 here... ALL of these! 👍🏼. But the hand in the small of the back? Oh yeah!! ❤️. And of course, the gray sweatpants. Works EVERY time! Fantastic job, OG! ❤️🙂👍🏼

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks as always for the feedback!

  • @tineshiabobbitt62
    @tineshiabobbitt62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Hey Jeff! That suit and those glasses 🥰. Yes you are on 🔥 I love a man that is smart and can take the lead! Yes when he shares his food puts his hand the small of your back definitely a turn on. Your content is always great! Stay safe!

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thanks, keep dropping knowledge brother

  • @ronaldjules2236
    @ronaldjules2236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Once again Jeff your subtle suggestions are making impactful waves for the men that are thriving to improve their character and content. Salute Sir!!

  • @marciabentley9557
    @marciabentley9557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    From one of the 43 😉: You're definitely on the right track. 👍 About the sweatpants - they're soft to the touch, they slide beautifully over a man's physique, and they're easier to remove.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Appreciate the insight Marcia !

    • @Peri2C
      @Peri2C 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You hit it! I love them. I bought my man black ones this winter because he won't wear gray, but I made sure that they were super soft, long enough (b/c 6'4" means truly long legs) and of course have pockets.

    • @timothybright7064
      @timothybright7064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OH OK.

    • @thewedword
      @thewedword 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your insights Ms. Bently

    • @BroDJTheWednesdayWord
      @BroDJTheWednesdayWord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate the 43's input, thanks for keeping it 💯 with the brothas 😎

  • @itsover123
    @itsover123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    OG, OG, OG...all I can do is smile, I'm blushing from your questions and answers... Wow! when you put on those glasses I was finished... Anyway who is the lucky woman that tells you our secrets?

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Have a woman that spills all the beans ! Lol

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The good dad thing is such a HUGE turn on for me. Men who genuinely love and enjoy their kids are so hot🔥. Cooking me a meal is a close second.
    The apology thing is also huge especially if it's genuine and accompanied with changed behavior.
    Great list per usual.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Marie !

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely

    • @MarieAmicalola
      @MarieAmicalola 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Slim Sith it speaks to character. Most men who don't take care of their kids aren't good people in many other ways. Also, there are single fathers out there. 🤣 Attraction is unique for everyone no need to reduce it to judgement and name calling. Have a great week.

  • @ms.leosmiles7361
    @ms.leosmiles7361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ge, Jeff
    And to add to ur heavy hitter list is that the ladies will also find most comforting and loving that he begins and ends his days & nights safely with her.
    Be safe & stay healthy.☝

  • @dannareese4574
    @dannareese4574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Tie game on P.O.I.N.T!! My favorite tip was sapiosexual....nothing like intelligence! SALUTE!!

  • @c_robzilla
    @c_robzilla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch a lot of your videos and man oh man you really help expand my way of thinking. Iron sharpens iron and man sharpens man. I love being a sponge and soaking up all of this knowledge. Salute to you O.G.

  • @theblackknight9783
    @theblackknight9783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    My wife told me she feels protected, when I lay my arm over her at night when we're sleeping.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I like it !

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kool

    • @ExistNNature
      @ExistNNature 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh yeah! That's a great feeling..👊

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with your wife✔️

    • @barryjoseph4116
      @barryjoseph4116 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheStyleOG i like your youtube channel but not in love with anybody i hate black women

  • @FemininitywithMommaGail
    @FemininitywithMommaGail 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mannnn!!! When you put those glasses on!! Good God from Zion! You took your sexiness to a whole other level. Woo! I agree with the apology. Most men will buy flowers or other gifts to apologize instead actually verbally apologizing. Great tips HQOG! Great video as always. I think that it is absolutely charming that you will actually help your lady with prepping and cooking. Priceless

  • @andrewantonazzo4095
    @andrewantonazzo4095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Salute from Detroit! Love the channel!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salute Andrew!

  • @Londa.G
    @Londa.G 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wear glasses if you really wear glasses or contacts not to look studious. "Ain't no future in yo frontin". That's a turn off. Yes, we love a man that wear a watch and we love men who are true watch connoisseurs even more. I've gifted wood, engraved watches to a couple of my male friends. Addition to bringing us coffee in the morning, the fact that you're up EARLY before us is a turn on in itself. Being raised by two kings, being a great father brings you to the top of the list as far as I'm concerned. Again, another GREAT video Jeff. Keep up the good work!

  • @acb0059
    @acb0059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1) I had to rewind when the Style OG put on those glasses 👓 lol. Seriously, once again he is spot on.....I won’t list any, because they all were great! I gotta make sure all men I know subscribe to this channel

  • @alfonsoarrona88
    @alfonsoarrona88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great tips Jeff, looking sharp, that tie is amazing!!! Take care mi amigo

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Alfonso !

  • @adrianjeffrey2897
    @adrianjeffrey2897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've made plenty of these mistakes in relationships. Especially the
    "be present" one. Good stuff brother I wasnt even gonna watch. Thought I knew it all lol. Style O.G does it again

  • @jaenice7066
    @jaenice7066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Definitely on point and entertaining Jeff. These Gems are a no brainer when in a relationship. Teach and preach. Tradition and old fashion romance will never go out of style. 👏🏽👍🏽👑👔🎊

  • @micheller.9808
    @micheller.9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree with all the points. Jeff one thing that is also a big turn on is having mature & intelligent social media behavior. I mean like not being so publicly & blatantly thirsty in the comments every time a woman posts a pic or a man posting very childish/immature things on his page. I’m currently not really on SM But when I used to be I remember seeing this quite often & it was like the nail in the coffin for any potential possibilities 🧐🧐🧐

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Appreciate the input Michelle !

  • @anthonyparker8771
    @anthonyparker8771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This topic and many of your topics are on point, a lot of the younger crowd will not understand the concept, and relationship rituals, many are not taught. they need to be tuning in to your channel. keep it up, i am always listening, still fine tuning my game, and I am a O.G. Kudos

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salute Anthony !

  • @JJPHILLYLG
    @JJPHILLYLG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Number 16...Don’t execute any of these things unless it’s genuinely because you want to.

  • @crystalwatley2710
    @crystalwatley2710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your points couldn't be more spot on

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the feedback Crystal !

  • @myburritobaby
    @myburritobaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The bragging on her in public is huge. It goes both ways too. I know men love it too 💜

  • @davekc2482
    @davekc2482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dropping gems O.G an apology always gets me hugs and kisses salute!

  • @salex3766
    @salex3766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    as a women I agree with everything said even the pants bit. I would add: men who love and respect their mothers; men with a 3 day beard.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the input!

  • @kaidi06
    @kaidi06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The glasses part is true. Every lady I dated (and my current wife) would always be captivated when I put on my specs.

  • @bonnybeyer9888
    @bonnybeyer9888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Small of the back thing, definitely! Being present!!!

  • @cliftonsledge962
    @cliftonsledge962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The list is on point, but the suit and tie and pocket square is on fire 🔥, great look O.G. It looks classy.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Clifton !

  • @tweetingsparks
    @tweetingsparks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh wow. Tie game on fleek. 👍🏽

  • @antonioricardovaldes619
    @antonioricardovaldes619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I completely agree on the helping out on the cleaning and preparing. Strangely I am currently with a woman who doesn't want me anywhere near our kitchen when she's cooking. She has an existing system which she doesn't want me interfering or ruining.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      appreciate the input!

  • @jadoreluv6891
    @jadoreluv6891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As I always say, your content when it comes to the ladies is always on point. Must be experience😏. Well done

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Jadore !

  • @jasonellis9777
    @jasonellis9777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel into that old school sitting in the living while my girlfriend cooked. After a few times of dirty looks that I didn’t understand, she said you know you can come help prep dinner, I worked all day too. That hit home. As little as opening cans, microwaving something, getting items out of the refrigerator or basically just offering to help can go a long way. And she will notice you getting up from your show or off your phone to help!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed Jason !

  • @marklance4022
    @marklance4022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Bottom line fellas when you're with your lady give her your undivided attention ! Great advice jeff !

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Mark !

    • @dinos9607
      @dinos9607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL! Seriously? This is the No1 thing to avoid as per all the dating coaches. A man has to have a purpose in his life and has to give his undivided attention to his activities, particularly his professional ones. The woman, even the woman of his life let alone any random girlfriend, has to be a compliment but not the focus. Giving a woman your undivided attention is one of the main factors of lost attraction. Women do not like men who give them full attention precisely because that signals weakness and a lower prospect for success. Women want you to do your thing, to be successful and them to cling along the way enjoying your success. Women are cheerleaders, men are footballers. A footballer won't give much attention to cheerleaders, he has his game to play.

    • @amgmarco2803
      @amgmarco2803 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dinos9607 facts

  • @katrinasmith8134
    @katrinasmith8134 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Job Jeff. I kmow that you talk to men but your videos also gives me as a lady a mirror to look into for self improvement and for my Boo. Thanks for all that you do. Be Blessed!!!

  • @Bklynmason72
    @Bklynmason72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Another great video Jeff! My wife loves when I have my hand on the small of her back. She feels protected. I think another turn on is when men show their faith in God in numerous ways including praying over a meal for example. It shows vulnerability and strength at the same time.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the input Joseph !

    • @Penelope416
      @Penelope416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never thought of prayer that way. Seeing it as two contrasting elements. Makes a lot of sense.

    • @gwaaiedenshaw8310
      @gwaaiedenshaw8310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting

  • @allanclaridge6279
    @allanclaridge6279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything you mentioned requires a man to be confident in himself. Being able to appear by her side in a crowded room and her knowing your scent is awesome.

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’re speaking true facts, Jeff! One huge turn on is a positive, optimistic guy. There’s this guy that likes me. He’s a cool dude, but a HUGE PESSIMIST! He complains or finds the negative in just about EVERYTHING! It’s hella annoying and is one of the things that keep me from giving him a chance. To see a man that can keep his cool and chooses the positive road is very attractive.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      appreciate the feedback!

  • @ksouth3642
    @ksouth3642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heyyy Jeff #44 here checking in!🤣🤣I love it!!

  • @glenngray6859
    @glenngray6859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What up my bro Og. You just keep putting out the powerful videos My G. So much great advice for free. Salute my friend.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salute my friend !

  • @Cremson4
    @Cremson4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations on the 43 woman subscribers. 👑

  • @soulsistag66
    @soulsistag66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I enjoy your videos! I like how you do what you do. A nice suit, clean shoes, along with a pair of socks with an unexpected pattern and/or color is a turn on for some. Agreed! The “attach at the hip” thing is not cool. And, when you make a phone call, lead the exchange. Don’t expect the person you are calling to “carry” the call initiated by you. Good day, Ya’ll!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the input Gwendolyn!

    • @aprilt.3868
      @aprilt.3868 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, Sis! 👍🏽

  • @michaelbeck7799
    @michaelbeck7799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great as always, Jeff. I am thinking you may be the right person to talk to Melli Monaco before somebody gets hurt! You are the man.

  • @Jebro439
    @Jebro439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great list don't forget Grilling and being a handy man around the house

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That too !

    • @jonmolnar5440
      @jonmolnar5440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well I'm out...

    • @ksmith3064
      @ksmith3064 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a woman , being a handy man @ home is definite a turn on !! ❤️❤️

  • @Ainimeshorts
    @Ainimeshorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Has anyone ever told u that ur voice is surprisingly similar to that of Samuel L Jackson. Great video.

    • @Ainimeshorts
      @Ainimeshorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But overal different tips than most of the videos out there. Really like the quality content in this video. Big fan of the suit as well

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks!

  • @mookeychase0907
    @mookeychase0907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was in the middle of your beckett simonon joint when I got the call for this vid…

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My man Mook ! What’s good ?

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah they are Nice shoes

  • @donniecain4266
    @donniecain4266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have the same color and style of suit ! I wore a red- blue argyle pattern tie like yours with a white straight colour shirt and of course a white picket square !!!

  • @davon_DaGod
    @davon_DaGod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My deep voice .... enough said

  • @MrKobe24dr
    @MrKobe24dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything you said was all facts. 💯💯💯👌🏾. That suit is 🔥

  • @DOMSKEE75
    @DOMSKEE75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not just yoga pants and leggings but the Sundress too LOL

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love the sundress !

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for the compliments ❤

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessssss Jefff we here watching you. Your videos are always 💯💯💯💯. We love it when you put your phone down and have a conversation with us.🎉🎉

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Queen !

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheStyleOG I keep telling you your best color is blueeeee💙💙💙💙💙

  • @butterygudness7577
    @butterygudness7577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tell her this: I heard you’re good at algebra - Could you replace my X without asking Y?

    • @ddraft234
      @ddraft234 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤦🏾‍♂️🤣

    • @olliec.243
      @olliec.243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cringe

    • @georgecrawford6869
      @georgecrawford6869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell her "If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put "U" and "I" together."

    • @sonakelvin4029
      @sonakelvin4029 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woow

  • @kennethsteele6808
    @kennethsteele6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man! You are on-point on this topic, Style O.G.!

  • @tj9801
    @tj9801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    T J
    I’m one of the 43 ladies! As always you look sharp, especially in that blue blazer, shirt, and tie. Very handsome!
    In terms Of the tips, I agree 100%. I love men who are confident and who show authority. A man who reads, fixed something in my home, pumps my gas, and keeps a calm demeanor in the face of chaos, is a huge turn on.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate the input TJ!

  • @Chris-hz3bt
    @Chris-hz3bt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Video as always!!! Love the tie I'm telling you if you get enough ladies in here you can start a dating site!

  • @sweetjonesie1
    @sweetjonesie1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You nailed it!!!

  • @dinkydavid5388
    @dinkydavid5388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you start putting time stamp or the list of what's in the video in the description?

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, l think already work hard enough..

  • @ivychurch8247
    @ivychurch8247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    A clean house is the "1st" turn on and a man who systematically cleans up with you to keep the house medically clean!!!!!!!!

  • @Jason_The_Man
    @Jason_The_Man 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh man! “Good Dad”! 🧨🔥. That is a huge one.

  • @yolondalogan3309
    @yolondalogan3309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Much like men who are mesmerized watching a woman apply her lipstick, I like to watch a man shave his face...very intimate and often leads to other things..

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great one Yolanda! Definitely should have been on the list

    • @yolondalogan3309
      @yolondalogan3309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you had enough additional suggestions would you consider doing a part 2 video? And maybe a video on little known ways men show interest in a woman?

    • @Ms_Sharpie
      @Ms_Sharpie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Yolonda Logan Facial hair grooming is near the top of my list, too!

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @michaelmartin9270
    @michaelmartin9270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your absolutely right Jeff I have a home library with over 300 books and a home gym I recommend books all the time people come to my home and expect a gym but don’t expect me to be the voracious and avid reader that I am I been reading 2 books a month for about 15 years my books of the month for this month are Napoleon Hill think and grow rich and Carter G. Woodson The Miss Education of the negro. I even have other men ordering certain books that I read and I have enrolled back in college to get another degree and I have a very nice watch collection. appreciate your channel bro

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it Michael!

    • @michaelmartin9270
      @michaelmartin9270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheStyleOG indeed bro indeed keep it up bro your an Inspiration to a lot of us brothers

  • @blesspayne1449
    @blesspayne1449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've used a lot of advice you give, so I know it's good. Especially about apologizing. Even if you are always right apologizing shows you can humble yourself and not be pompous. And like I always say, If you want the glory you got to be willing to take the blame.

  • @rashaunwilliams1926
    @rashaunwilliams1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great info as usual. All you Young OGs...take note

  • @aprilthompson5154
    @aprilthompson5154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Well manicured hands go very nicely with a sexy watch.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tell em April !

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesssss and also hands that Doesn't feel like course Sandpaper

    • @tishreni5183
      @tishreni5183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of the first things I notice on a man.

    • @gymeni
      @gymeni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ve been trying to bring men into my salon to have their hands and feet tightened up. I’ve even run specials, but they just haven’t taken advantage of them. Oh, how they underestimate.

    • @katrinasmith1464
      @katrinasmith1464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gymeni Do a video of a few men 2 or 3 for a Demo. It might be great if it was somebody who is popular as person, friend or family member. Ijs . That you're not completely out of option. Be Blessed

  • @Shawntraci
    @Shawntraci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. I have learned these through trial and error on my journey to become the best me. One thing I always try to do is "be the sunlight in my woman's universe." Keep bringing these tight videos for the gentlemen Sir! Oh and that suit combo is proper!

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate you Shawn !

  • @Miss-Ann-Thrope
    @Miss-Ann-Thrope 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice teeth and good breath are a turn on. Straight, white teeth are sexy. Punctuality, attention to detail, and planners with great follow-through are attributes I find attractive in men. Finally, men who are intelligent, possess mechanical, or carpentry skills are keepers.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the input Dawn !

  • @robertwilliams2136
    @robertwilliams2136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I listened to this twice 🙏

  • @morningsun3510
    @morningsun3510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Coffee ☕️ ❤️

  • @shredapowell1185
    @shredapowell1185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am very new to your channel and I give you a 10 out of 10. All of the topics were dead on especially guiding a women in the room with your hand. That is definitely my weakness. Keep up the good work. I’m learning a lot from your channel.

  • @nick6149
    @nick6149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Summary guy:
    1. Can’t her eye from across the room at an event
    2. Outward displays of intelligence.
    3. Wear some regular glasses.
    4. Take life’s ups and downs with stride. Don’t panic
    5. Wear a watch.
    6. Brag about her to your family and friends.
    7. Bring her a cup of coffee in the morning.
    8. Be a good dad.
    9. Not having a problem apologizing when you’re wrong.
    10. Give her some space.
    11. Gently put your hand on the small of her back and direct her.
    12. Chip in on the prepping, cooking, and cleaning up of meals.
    13. Share your food with her.
    14. Make a habit of being present.
    15. They love us in grey sweatpants.

  • @Mrgiftedsoul
    @Mrgiftedsoul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy page is full of gyms already got a like and comment keep working