Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
All the things he mentioned are great, but, first and foremost: a CLEAN bathroom is an absolute MUST. Women will tolerate/accept a lot of decorating faux pas, but a bathroom that is not clean and does not smell fresh is a deal breaker.
I love the video. I have full marks on most of it. One thing I might add is that If you play an instrument or instruments, be sure that it is obvious. It is always a conversation starter. I play two musical instruments and they are in cases in my tv room.
EXCELLENT brotha !! 9 year 56 yr old bachelor, from the WARDROBE, to this Home Furnishings video are alll AWESOME. * mY single Home detached garage and landscape are all A1, designed maintained by MYSELF, married neighbors, my lady friends be trying to MARRY ME tho LOL. * I tell them I'm single by CHOICE rofl
FOOD!!! Don’t forget about food, or light snacks, including, good , Cold fresh water, juices as well. I used to have a crystal candy bowl on my table for mints and things like that.
If that Voodoo album doesnt help your "cause " it ain't D'Angelos fault or she might be devoid of feelings ..ditto for Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite or almost anything Prince . Cheers O.G. !
Invest in cashmere throws, if possible. They are on the expensive side, but it works also have a library. It may seem old-fashioned but it tells your company that you’re an intellect as well. This is cool. Thanks for sharing.
Once again my man the style O.G. comes through. I follow this mans advice like no other. I have such an inviting comfortable place that women often say, "You know we don't have to go anywhere" I'm cool right here....😉
@TheStyleOG: Im not a bachelor, im a married man. I do love the additions my wife made to our place like plants 🪴 and scented candles. That diptyque roses 🌹 candle you posted i actually have and its AMAZING. You hit with the cocktail 🍸 bar. Im working on getting my home cocktail bar up to par. I need to update my bedding 🛌. The bathroom stuff is also great, and there's more fixtures id like to add. Great reminders, ill definitely upgrade! Keep up the great work!
Nice sound system, Alexa or iPod home. Both systems have an assortment of choices in wireless Bluetooth speakers that offer surprisingly premium sound performance and can be placed discreetly around your entire home even outside on patio. Speakers can be placed in the open as well seeing that the designs are mostly non imposing.
Thanx! Outstanding write-up... One thing to add might be rubbish cans that close and open with a touch of your foot... Bath bedroom and kitchen, here...
I agree with all 11 points. I'll throw another one in there that happened to me. HAVE SOME FOOD IN THE FRIDGE. Not just old take out from the past weekend.
Thanks for this Jeff. Makes a lot of sense. And I'm glad you highlighted the fact that these things are not just functional since as guys we often just think of things in terms of functional, technical and practical. I guess we tend to be wired that way. The way you explained what qualities the things you mentioned would bring and what benefits they have will be a help to a lot of guys watching this.
And if you are able, a fire pit! Natural if possible. My firepit has been a hit with the ladies. And heck, I enjoy it even without company! You can cook, chill, and be warm all at once!
Your talking style and body language reminds me of another youtuber, Flemlo Raps , a sports, content creator. Good job bro! Keep up the good work. Thanks, Im gonna go get a couple plants this weekend.
Suggestion: i have accent carpeting in certain rooms. my living room (OFF WHITE Deep Plush) style DIANA (GCG102A) Dining room( ANTHRACITE/Cream) quality SABRINA (CALIFORNIA SHAG/ IVORY) SAFA adds to the personal creative touch. My family & Lady friends love my carpets, makes them over stay, massaging they feet in comfort,
Clean, organized, & detail ( such as comfy looks) is always key with the bachelor pad. Make sure your bathroom is very clean, no dishes in sink, and your bedroom ( bed made) is tastefully & simply decorative. Don’t overdo. You will bd fine Gents.
I've read that women do indeed have a stronger sense of smell, plus their eyes are more sensitive to color palettes. So for the fellas, putting extra effort into one's home (and dress) enables a woman to feel more comfortable, less guarded, and ultimately safer.
I would like to add that you need to keep up with the home trends with subtle contemporary accents to know that you are a current and a renaissance man. And not old fashion. A library or just having 'books,' are panty dropper! Always have a book or books around.
First time running across this brother. He has some great points but you don’t want to do any of these things for women. Do them for yourself! Not a woman. Good hygiene and cleanliness is a given. Stand on your purpose!
Shoe storage mat next to the door. As soon as they come in I tell them to take shoes/boots/sneakers/sandals etc off. Just makes the women feel more comfortable walking thru the pad with no shoes on. One less thing they gotta "take off" later. Plus for sanitary reasons I don't need them tracking anything from them walking outside into my house.
Not just wall art, women love seening your family on the walls. A sound system. I am in tech so women, like my led nightstand, lights around the house that can change colors. I nice clean bedding.
Kitchen ware. Good knives, but not a matched set. Show some diversity. Nice block or wall storage. I have a legit butcher block that rolls around kitchen that the ladies all try to fit in their car when they leave...... ;)
I would agree with all of your points here, but... don't overdo it! From memory (I've been with the same woman for 20 years), women like to walk into a man's home and visualise how they could improve his life in some way. If everything is too perfect then they may think that you are don't need / aren't interested in letting a woman into your life. However, having a pleasant, clean and comfortable environment with no nasty smells or too much mess is always a good idea!
I have Dragon Ball Z figurines and plushies, Yoshi plushies, Pokemon figurines and plushies, Sonic the Hedgehog figures and an arcade tabletop on display at my bachelor pad. I'm 37. I'm not kidding.
And as far as the artwork coming from a professional artist please don’t buy store brought art find some local artist in your area. You are helping local artist and possibly starting a art collection
Style O.G., you ok bro? You look as if you're not enjoying doing these vids anymore. I'm actually concerned for you my brotha and hope you mental and physical health is fine. Respectfully my brotha...
A killer sound system and some flowers
Like it!
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Quality carpets and rugs from the door to the bedroom!
Like it!
Nice cooking supplies, and good coffee
Like it!
All the things he mentioned are great, but, first and foremost: a CLEAN bathroom is an absolute MUST. Women will tolerate/accept a lot of decorating faux pas, but a bathroom that is not clean and does not smell fresh is a deal breaker.
Absolutely! A fresh bathroom is a must!
I love the video. I have full marks on most of it. One thing I might add is that If you play an instrument or instruments, be sure that it is obvious. It is always a conversation starter. I play two musical instruments and they are in cases in my tv room.
Sweet!
EXCELLENT brotha !!
9 year 56 yr old bachelor, from the WARDROBE, to this Home Furnishings video are alll AWESOME.
* mY single Home detached garage and landscape are all A1, designed maintained by MYSELF, married neighbors, my lady friends be trying to MARRY ME tho LOL.
* I tell them I'm single by CHOICE rofl
Keep rocking it!
Style O.G, you're always on point. Much love and appreciation
Appreciate the love! Keep it stylish.
FOOD!!! Don’t forget about food, or light snacks, including, good , Cold fresh water, juices as well. I used to have a crystal candy bowl on my table for mints and things like that.
If that Voodoo album doesnt help your "cause " it ain't D'Angelos fault or she might be devoid of feelings ..ditto for Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite or almost anything Prince . Cheers O.G. !
This is TRUE... 💯
Invest in cashmere throws, if possible. They are on the expensive side, but it works also have a library. It may seem old-fashioned but it tells your company that you’re an intellect as well. This is cool. Thanks for sharing.
Great point!
Once again my man the style O.G. comes through. I follow this mans advice like no other.
I have such an inviting comfortable place that women often say, "You know we don't have to go anywhere"
I'm cool right here....😉
Know wut that means!!!
@@bennisford1712 I've saved a lot of money.
House plants and candles 👊🏾💪🏾
Always a good touch!
@TheStyleOG yes Sir 👊🏾
100% on the garbage can and unscented wipes in the bathroom. Little things like that are a huge help for women
Indeed!
Did not think about that. Ty kind sir
FAAACCTS
Butt wipes?
Damn... 🤔
@TheStyleOG: Im not a bachelor, im a married man. I do love the additions my wife made to our place like plants 🪴 and scented candles. That diptyque roses 🌹 candle you posted i actually have and its AMAZING. You hit with the cocktail 🍸 bar. Im working on getting my home cocktail bar up to par. I need to update my bedding 🛌. The bathroom stuff is also great, and there's more fixtures id like to add. Great reminders, ill definitely upgrade! Keep up the great work!
Keep It Stylish keep it Fresh! AND CLEAN!!
Always keep it classy.
1. Moroccan Area Rugs
2. Turkish Ceiling Lamps
3. Library Book-display
4. Incense [the smoke gets 'em everytime]
Nice sound system, Alexa or iPod home. Both systems have an assortment of choices in wireless Bluetooth speakers that offer surprisingly premium sound performance and can be placed discreetly around your entire home even outside on patio. Speakers can be placed in the open as well seeing that the designs are mostly non imposing.
Thanks man this was very informative
Glad it was helpful!
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks for watching and you too!
Great video. Hope this helps me in the future
Artwork...record collection...candles and insence...
Agreed!
Thanx! Outstanding write-up... One thing to add might be rubbish cans that close and open with a touch of your foot... Bath bedroom and kitchen, here...
Appreciate the suggestion!
Thanks Jeff. You put some thought into these suggestions.
Appreciate that!
Thanx bro. I never really thought about this stuff. Much respect, you got yourself a new subscriber. Keep it up.✌
Appreciate the love and welcome aboard!
I agree with all 11 points. I'll throw another one in there that happened to me. HAVE SOME FOOD IN THE FRIDGE. Not just old take out from the past weekend.
Food is love!
Also a wine rack full of different types of wine
awesome…remodeling my pad now, appreciate the ideas & suggestions💯
Appreciate the love!
House plants are a plus mood
Also candles
I would add a nice, Hi-Fi stereo to the list. Music sets the mood, and a music player on a phone just doesn’t cut it.
good call!
'Hi-Fi stereo' ... lmaooo
Hi Fi, how old are you😂
*Jeff been The Style OG for years! Salute, King.* 💯
Salute!
Style OG. you are the man. The bed setting picture was off the chain. All of the aesthetics really inspired me for my next house. Thank you.
Thanks for this Jeff. Makes a lot of sense. And I'm glad you highlighted the fact that these things are not just functional since as guys we often just think of things in terms of functional, technical and practical. I guess we tend to be wired that way. The way you explained what qualities the things you mentioned would bring and what benefits they have will be a help to a lot of guys watching this.
No worries!
Idk if you have series on bachelor pads if not it should be a series 🤞🏾 if you do decide to go that avenue
not a bad idea!
Dope vid Og and sent this to my nephews
Thanks!
Very helpful thank you
You're welcome!
My crib is already plushed, O.G. now I gotta add on after watching this. Great video!
Appreciate that! Make it a masterpiece.
Great advice my man!
True style is everything that expresses who you are as an individual. Big Salute for this video
Salute!
Always great ideas and points. Much appreciated!!
Glad you found it helpful!
Great content bruh
Thanks!
I'm a sucker for a great candle 😍 I have a huge candle collection 🤷🏾♂️
Candles set the mood!
These tips even apply for a newly-weds' home too.
Thanks OG Jeff - me and the Mrs are applying these already before this video!😎
Fantastic!
Don't overdo it. Too much looks cluttered
Agreed!
Yeah definitely less is more
Right… minimalistic views
Clean lines
Clean lines
Quality content as usual. Salute!
Salute!
I was waiting on this for years ; thank you
No problem!
If you have an outside yard, include beautiful foliage that is colorful yet inviting.
And if you are able, a fire pit! Natural if possible. My firepit has been a hit with the ladies. And heck, I enjoy it even without company! You can cook, chill, and be warm all at once!
Good stuff
this man stay on point .. fellas listen up
Salute!
The Style OG always with something enlightening.
I try!
Your talking style and body language reminds me of another youtuber, Flemlo Raps , a sports, content creator. Good job bro! Keep up the good work. Thanks, Im gonna go get a couple plants this weekend.
Style on G can You Do a video on Gifts, Travel and Restaurants Ideas, expensive or Frugal for a Special Lady for Her Birthday or Special occasions? 🫡
good idea!
Area rugs from Turkey and Morocco add a nice touch
Agreed!
Fellas, since we are having this conversation ....invest in a air purifier....and organic cleaning products I use method and ever spring products
appreciate the input!
Style O.G. got all the answers man
I try!
Fish Tanks... I've always had one. Even as a kid.
Bar glassware hack- Goodwill has a ton
Excellent video 👍
Appreciate it!
I love watching all your videos whether it applies to me or not I do like to cook and clean the house up when my wife comes home tho
Keep it stylish and keep her happy!
Throw pillows and blankets help make your space more inviting
Bobby B checking in ✊🏾
Good advice, as always, congrats on 600k subs.
Appreciate the support!
My woman will do what’s she’s told
Morning wood.....
Suggestion: i have accent carpeting in certain rooms.
my living room (OFF WHITE Deep Plush) style DIANA (GCG102A)
Dining room( ANTHRACITE/Cream) quality SABRINA
(CALIFORNIA SHAG/ IVORY) SAFA
adds to the personal creative touch. My family & Lady friends love my carpets, makes them over stay, massaging they feet in comfort,
Clean, organized, & detail ( such as comfy looks) is always key with the bachelor pad. Make sure your bathroom is very clean, no dishes in sink, and your bedroom ( bed made) is tastefully & simply decorative. Don’t overdo. You will bd fine Gents.
Solid advice!
@ U r da man OG. The advice u give is ALWAYS on point! Much Respect 🫡
12 - gun cabinet or display
I've read that women do indeed have a stronger sense of smell, plus their eyes are more sensitive to color palettes. So for the fellas, putting extra effort into one's home (and dress) enables a woman to feel more comfortable, less guarded, and ultimately safer.
No alcohol in my home. Been sober since 3-15-15.
Cool. An espresso machine is also good. The key is to always be prepared to take care of your guests or a special gf.
@alfacentauri3686 I'm a sparkling water kind of guy. 😉
I'll drink to that.
@ceeze9923 🤣🤣🤣
You are awesome man.
Thanks!
Dope 👌
Nice Jacket!!!
Outside of making sure my crib is clean...it's a typical bachelor's crib! I need to do better! LOL
I would like to add that you need to keep up with the home trends with subtle contemporary accents to know that you are a current and a renaissance man. And not old fashion. A library or just having 'books,' are panty dropper! Always have a book or books around.
IKEA has a lot of great, affordable, stylish and affordable things for your home.
Great tip!
Wall decor is like the most basic one along with some banana leaf plants
Salute OG salute we gotta keep I would mean essentials for the woman
Salute James!
First time running across this brother. He has some great points but you don’t want to do any of these things for women. Do them for yourself! Not a woman. Good hygiene and cleanliness is a given. Stand on your purpose!
Shoe storage mat next to the door. As soon as they come in I tell them to take shoes/boots/sneakers/sandals etc off. Just makes the women feel more comfortable walking thru the pad with no shoes on. One less thing they gotta "take off" later. Plus for sanitary reasons I don't need them tracking anything from them walking outside into my house.
good stuff
NIIIIIICCEE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Salute!
Not just wall art, women love seening your family on the walls. A sound system. I am in tech so women, like my led nightstand, lights around the house that can change colors. I nice clean bedding.
💯
Women love the mirrors on my bedroom ceiling.
#Throwback
Books!
Agreed!
Kitchen ware. Good knives, but not a matched set. Show some diversity. Nice block or wall storage. I have a legit butcher block that rolls around kitchen that the ladies all try to fit in their car when they leave...... ;)
I dig 👌
Salute!
OG bring the background music back.
SALUTE.
I would agree with all of your points here, but... don't overdo it! From memory (I've been with the same woman for 20 years), women like to walk into a man's home and visualise how they could improve his life in some way. If everything is too perfect then they may think that you are don't need / aren't interested in letting a woman into your life. However, having a pleasant, clean and comfortable environment with no nasty smells or too much mess is always a good idea!
nah, most women want to visualize how they will decorate the place you get together..
I don't know why I was expecting to hear Navy Chinos lol
Hilarious!
I have Dragon Ball Z figurines and plushies, Yoshi plushies, Pokemon figurines and plushies, Sonic the Hedgehog figures and an arcade tabletop on display at my bachelor pad. I'm 37. I'm not kidding.
I don't have a TV in the bedrooms. They always ask why I explain that I want a quality rest and relaxation in the bedroom
very healthy choice
@TheStyleOG thank you and I forgot to mention a clean bathroom/bathrooms
And as far as the artwork coming from a professional artist please don’t buy store brought art find some local artist in your area. You are helping local artist and possibly starting a art collection
Style O.G., you ok bro?
You look as if you're not enjoying doing these vids anymore. I'm actually concerned for you my brotha and hope you mental and physical health is fine.
Respectfully my brotha...
I'm well, but i appreciate you asking. much love!
You named liquor…..but I’m surprised you left out wine. That and some true wine glasses.
good call
Women love seeing a nice queen size air mattress. 😂
My Bachelor pad was terrible. I think my wife just looked past it ... maybe she wanted a project.
Fish Tank
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Salute!
👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Salute!
every guy's apartment looks the same because of videos like this
contradicts one of the most important points i made which is to have personal touches to make your place unique, but carry on...