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4 minutes in at question #1 & Morgan's "Girlll, get him a cowboy hat!" cracked me up! Somewhat of a new viewer here: I came across y'all watching reactions from Brenda (GIG), Jaclyn, & even i think Mr. Atheist (back when I was being influenced by Progressive Christian ideas) & I thought y'all were "too much". Now that I've watched full videos & not just reactions (& stopped following GIG & Mr.Atheist... still like Jaclyn but that's partly bc of how I've seen her engage w y'all) I find i agree with y'all more than i thought at first.
And seeing y'all notice & want to meet this need of talking about sexual intimacy within marriage is a big deal. It's true. Too many of us grew up in homes where sex was taboo & not something that was talked about. For me it was a grown up thing & i didn't understand what it meant within marriage. Even now, 5 years married w 2 kids, i find myself feeling uncomfortable talking about some of these things w my husband. And it doesn't help then he doesn't verbalize things from his end either. So I'm looking forward to this.
Wasnt bad!
I loved this episode! Communication is so important in a marriage. I was a virgin, my husband wasn’t. But because I was… on our honeymoon it hurt so bad. Like awful! Come to find out I had endometriosis and didn’t know it. So within our first year of marriage I went through surgery, medically induced menopause and gained 60 pounds in 3 months from the drugs they had me on!
My co dude car took such a hit. But my husband is an amazing man. He was with me every step of the way! Because of my health issues it took me time to enjoy intimacy… but I’ll never forget the day I did! We e been married 16 years and it just gets better all the time.
I was taught this - God made us as sexual beings. God created sex to be enjoyed by married people. (Man and wife) Outside of that covenant, it’s a sin. But it’s a beautiful thing that God made so we should enjoy it. Bringing others into your marriage bed is a sin, either physically or porn. But outside of those parameters, “the marriage bed is undefiled.”
Also, sex is a man’s #1 NEED. Not a want, a need.
Communication helps so much in marriage and especially in the marriage bed. Sex is not like a movie or book.
Love your guys’ videos.
Thank you for addressing this topic. I shared my testimony a little bit in the comments below, and also I wanted to say, having grown up in the church, I saw a lot of long faces on married couples. In fact I can barely remember any couples in any evangelical churches, whether they be Baptist or alliance, but barely any couples That look like they were excited in each other’s presence. Isn’t that sad?
@@Dlayne84 There's more ways to defile your marriage bed and that can be dirty talk that contain immoral words. It can be role play like fantasizing about sleeping with someone else by having your husband dress up as a doctor and now you've brought perverted things you learned out of the marriage bed into it. It can be fantasizing about being abusive to one another or daddy daughter role play for example. There's a lot of freedom but remember if a man lusts in his heart its sin so if you lust over sinful role play its the same thing. As for as other things there isn't anything in the bible so go off of personal conviction and consent.
Thank you Paul & Morgan for talking about this in a godly way. There are a lot of videos and books about sex but more often than not it's not done with dignity or decency and even very bad things are advised. Christians shy away from this topic but sexuality is such an important part of a humans physical and spiritual identity. Young adults need this conversation so they eventually gonna get this information probably from a dark place because our society is perverted. Christian parents especially need to step up their game. We know it can be uncomfortable but it's necessary to talk to your children about it, at the right time of course.
So thank you for doing this and even getting specific. Keep up the godly work.
Amen🙏
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this. This subject is sooooooo taboo in the Christian world and that sucks so pleasssssse keep talking about it. I know some friends may feel uncomfortable but I think they can make a boundary not to watch….. but a lot of us need to talk about this. Sure I could google stuff but isn’t it better to watch or read or listen from people I respect or believe in their hearts intentions. I got saved at 19.grew up in continuous abusive in every way kind of environment .after I got saved I just felt lost to understand this. Here I am at 31 still feeling like I have no answers or help for this topic. Please please for the sake of believers, continue to talk about the nitty gritty….❤
I really appreciate you all talking about these things because my husband and I are so new at this and just gaining some perspective from you all is so reassuring, especially those really vulnerable parts. Thank you so much you guys. Definitely will agree, open communication is super important, even if it’s not the best news. So thankful my husband and I have set that foundation and even if it hurts sometimes, we’d rather know the truth than to believe a lie. The word even says, every thing done in darkness will be brought to light - it’s best to just be honest and learn how to communicate.
read some science before it's too late
I have to give such deep deep respect for your willingness to address such a vulnerable topic knowing the likely negative responses. I have to laugh as a wife and mama at 45 years old sharing some of the "toxic" views Paul has shared. I just want to shout Bravo for the wisdom and recognizing how difficult it is to articulate some of these opinions without coming across in "some kind of way" for those on the outside. You heart is so evident for your desire to help young Christian couples and I just truly think that is so wonderful. You are sharing some beautiful wisdom and insight and a kindness sharing in a space that is so hard to break into specifically within Christian community. Sending such love to you both. 💗
Aww thanks so much Kate❤️
Thank you both for having the courage to talk about these things from a Christian viewpoint. I agree so many Christians it seems like are lost and needs to have Biblical help.
You’re welcome!🙏
I have come to terms with the fact that frequency fluctuates. Kids come, illness comes, travel comes, difficulty comes, etc. Sometimes it's hot and heavy every day, sometimes it's a quick one once a week until the next life event comes up. Be open and honest with it, be gracious to your spouse and your circumstances, and know that's seasons come and go! Don't get hung up on a number!
Love this. Experience and years
Married 23 years...glad you are tackling this subject. It's real and important, and you are very respectful of it and honoring each other. I've been able to relate to and agree with all of it so far... Halfway through.😁
Ahh good, thanks for the comment!
I’m an atheist (don’t hate me lol) but your relationship is so beautiful and refreshing. I love how honest and close you guys are, and your sweet little baby melts my heart! I’m married and you guys help me to open up more and have a positive outlook. Much love 🫶
Thanks for watching!❤️
True Christians wouldn’t hate you. 🥰
@@ElleeZee289 True! My husband is Christian and we both have a respect for one another’s beliefs (or non beliefs)! I have love for everyone 🙂
@@raversfantasy I appreciate you. My husband was not a believer until around Christmas. Sometimes it would cause some conflict. But it’s how you respond to conflict that tests the health of the relationship/ person.
Cheers!
May jesus guide you ❤
Definitely a topic that needs to be discussed, I'm not married but I too have heard couples seeming very unsatisfied with their sex life and settling for that when things could be soooo much better. Both have to be willing to work to make that happen. A married couple is in covenant to love eachother to the max and give their best efforts to their spouse and why should intimacy be different?
Communication is so key really. And each person desiring to please and serve the other
Amen, very well said🙏
Loved this. Watched part 2 first and would love a part 3.
I greatly appreciate this video from you guys! I find it so sad that so many churches and Christians are so hush-hush about one of the most beautiful gifts God has created for husbands and wives! Society is shoving the worldly standards of sex upon us, so it’s imperative that God’s guidance of sexuality be encouraged. It’s so easy to let life get in the way of having the needed bedroom time, so thank you both for being real and honest and talking about having a set kind of schedule. One of the books my husband and I have enjoyed reading together (and still want to finish reading) is called: The Gift Of Sex, the guide to sexual fulfillment. It’s Christian based and beautiful! Keep up the great work!!!
Good stuff😊 Thanks for sharing!
I love how honest you guys are. With that honesty I would love a video about the roles of a husband and wife in a Christian home. Especially looking into what a Spiritual leader of a home looks like ❤️
Thank you❤️ We actually made a video about that :) th-cam.com/video/JLFB9qZ_QDI/w-d-xo.html
I think it's important to note that how often sex occurs largely depends on if you're on birth control or not. My husband and I do fertility awareness (no barrier method on unfertile days) and on fertile days we either abstain or use a barrier method. So sometimes if I am very fertile and we don't want to risk it, we agree to abstain so we can go a bit without sex and then when I'm not fertile it's more often. We personally like this because absence makes the heart grow fonder and it's respectful to the woman's body and not abortifacient unlike birth control.
@@ecottingahm17 nope I've had many doctors tell me it is and I have read academic studies in which they determine it is an abortifacient as well as leads to infertility (mm of endometrial lining permanently atrophy). Copper IUD is literally used days after unprotected sex as a plan B alternative bc it is an abortifacient. And BC makes the uterus inhospitable. You can still have conception and ovulate on the pill (obviously not everytime you have sex) but the environment will prevent implantation. This is a documented fact and numerous studies have shown that it can do this and thus the birth control pill CAN be an abortifacient if a woman conceives. Embryos can still be conceived and thus birth control can act as an abortifacient and abort life when this occurs. I'm not going to argue on this and like I said, it's not as though every time a couple has sex they are aborting life, but it is in the realm of possibility if they conceive that cycle.
Birth control is not abortifacient. Birth control works by preventing ovulation, and therefore prevents the sperm from ever meeting the egg and fertilizing it. Birth control does not terminate and expel an embryo (fertilized and implanted egg).
But you are not truly respecting either the reproductive or unitive aspects of sex in marriage using your barrier method. Either be open to life or abstain during your fertile window. Otherwise you are frustrating the sexual act as God intended it.
@@kristinwannemuehler9757 I don't know about that people act like you can only have sex for a baby but Apostle Paul said have sex often so you're both not tempted and another verse says if we don't provide for our families we're worse than an unbeliever. So not trying to have kids before we can properly provide for them seems biblically supported as well as sex to avoid sexual immoral temptations. The whole just have them God will provide is kind of like saying when your gas tank is on E to not get off on the current exit on the freeway but keep heading home God will provide like why would you even set yourself up to breakdown and struggle with no gas and the same goes for a child.
For the faking: Never do so.
It took me years to learn how to please myself, I taught my partner and if I was having difficulties I knew what to do to fix that. Communication is so important for a healthy sexual relationship
Yes on a Part 2&3!!!! It really has been very helpful! 😊
Aww good!🔥
Thank you guys so much for being so open about this ❤
Dying at the “we?” Hahahahahahha
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Thank you for having the courage and humility to speak on these difficult topics.
Your baby is so beautiful. Last time I listened to you, you didn't have a baby and weren't pregnant either. So happy for you two. Peace to you and yours!
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Morgan and Paul, you guys are doing very well. Keep it up. I am very glad that a couple like you guys finally spoke out past the insecurity of sex that most people especially Christians are too afraid to talk about. It doesn't matter if you are a Christian or not, in my opinion, we are all humans created by God to enjoy sex as long as we have sex in the right context and for the right reasons according to the bible. Most things in terms of sex are not sinful if it's to help both partners enjoy it more. And just in case anyone reads this, yes, I am labeling myself as a Christian, and yes, I have a porn issue, but I am not thinking of sex in the sinful way I used to. Thanks for everything you two, and keep it up. I really enjoy your videos. Peace and love.
This has been very helpful! Married 2 1/2 years and still have a ton to learn but already feeling stagnant and a little like missing the mark. I don't want that! All the tips are nice to hear!
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I think what you said about faking it is important, the statistics show that 70-80% of women can’t orgasm through penetration alone so if you can’t talk then to your partner and be honest about it instead of faking
This was great! Deff want to see a part 2! God bless your marriage!
Good!
Here’s my question.
I’m 26 and have never had sex, I’ve dated one girl. Something I’m really self conscious about but is real in my life is that I’m not a muscular guy. I’m 6’ but I’m a skinny guy. I’ve gone to the gym many times but for some reason I just can’t get a lot of muscle gain. No matter what I do, I just can’t get girls to have interest in me. I’ve been told that my face is attractive but nothing really beyond that. So I guessed my question is more directed to Morgan, in the fact that I’m just wondering if my lack of having a muscular body is a big problem? I’m also the only one out of my 4 other siblings not to be married, so it’s been difficult to say the least… I used to be very extroverted but have definitely gotten more introverted this year. Should I hit the gym hard in 2023? I’m currently a part firefighter and a videographer, I just don’t know what to change going into the new year
I've always thought muscles are overrated and I've never been particularly attracted to muscular guys. And I can't be the only one. ☺️ Also, as I've gotten older, personality and character have become more important to me and looks less important.
Well, I personally don’t think that’s something you “HAVE” to have. Not every girl is interested in that. I married my husband, he’s not muscular, but he does have a build body, but he’s thin. Either way, a Godly woman would not be interested in this more than your relationship with the Lord. And what you need is THAT Godly woman, not whoever that claims to be a Christian. Wait in Him ❤
My fiancé is a scrawny guy. He’s 5ft 11 and yes I love him but I also love his body. I’m personally unattracted to heavy muscles. A little bit is ok but once abs appear I’m no longer into it. But I can respect the amount of effort they put to get to that body. Do you have female friends? Or any place to meet single Christian women? No matter how attractive a guy was, if I was single, I would not pursue them if I did not have a common place that I saw them regularly. I asked out my fiancé on a date first. but I didn’t go after him cause I thought he was handsome. I went after him because I liked him.
I don't think you should worry but just confess to God your desire to marry, He is the perfect matchmaker, He knows you perfectly and knows the perfect woman for you. Don't even look for a wife, but pray and seek His kingdom first and all things will be added to you :) God bless you brother.
Baby Luca is your twin, Morgan!!! 💛 blessings and love to you and your sweet family 🥰 thank you both for making this video!! Such an important topic 🙏🏼
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Is the live part not available anymore?
do you ever feel like people need emotional healing in order to have good sex? I think this is huge especially for putting in the work. I have been struggling for years and don't initiate with my hubby because I can't stand rejection or rainchecks etc after sexual trauma I went through before meeting him. it's tough!
Thanks for sharing, that’s a good question we’ll plan on getting to in part 2🙏
@@PaulandMorgan ohh awesome!!
I've wondered if I needed some emotional healing to feel more comfortable talking about sex with my husband. We didn't enter our marriage or relationship as virgins so while i was "experienced" physically i was not experienced in "intimacy" & "vulnerability" & definitely think it impacts our ability to connect emotionally. But not sure how i would even go about healing from the things i did before i was married.
The first question she literally throws back her head in laughter! And i am absolutely here for this!
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. You guess executed this beautifully with respect and wisdom on all the questions that was brought up. As someone who is waiting for marriage. My view on sex is that It’s scary for me and I feel like it’s because Im not as educated on it and you guys making this video helped a lot with my point of view on it. Also I got some good insight on what to be prepared for and how communication is huge and key for everything including Sex. Thank you guys for being bold and talking about something that most wouldn’t. Thank you for the safe space you provided and it felt like you were actually my parent’s and I was in the same room as you, having a conversation about these different topics on sex. You guys are amazing, and keep up with these videos, your a blessing to many including me. May God continue to Bless You and your family!✨❤️🙏🏾
It's been a year, how many bodies?
Also, ladies, always pee after sex!! Don’t want any UTIs & extra trips to the doctors!!
yes please do more videos like this! I'm married for five months and struggling with a lot sexually so I appreciate having someone with experience that I can learn from 💓
I think y'all handled this well!! Wasn't uncomfortable at all!!
Good!
I'm engaged, and my knowledge of sex is only from what the world teachs. I have no clue what and how I'd deal with these desires and sex in general. Super grateful for your Chanel because it's a topic that Christians don't dive into enough.
I don't understand why sex is so taboo for religious people. My mom said the same thing everytime she brought sex up to us kids.
As someone who is a reborn Christian, ill be honest. I didn't wait, I wish I would have waited till marriage. I wish my fiance and I would have waited till after marriage too bc now it's extra hard for us to not fall to the desire of our flesh.
I can tell you, it's not as nerve racking as you think it will be. There's a chance it'll be awkward bc of nerves. I think sitting down and talking about what each person is comfortable, wanting to try,not wanting to do at all is important.
I understand how it can make Christians uncomfortable to get so detailed with talking about sex but i cannot express enough how helpful it is that you do these videos because growing up in the generation i’m growing up in now, my views on sex have been sooooo skewed even my views on married Christian sex haven’t always been right and i’ve been so confused so seriously it is so helpful you both being so honest! Huge thanks❤️
Such a great video love how Paul was being so sweet to you and taking ur lash out 🤩 Luca adorable as always
Haha aww thanks❤️
Asking for prayers for my boyfriend to come to believe in Christ. He wants to, but cant get to it for some reason. He believes in a higher power, but nothing from the bible. Last night we got into a small argument, and I may have gone a bit too far in basically just trying to be right. Our relationship feels off now. We've been together 5 years now. I pray God would reveal Himself to my boyfriend. My heart is crushed because I dont know if in the end we may need to end our relationship. I pray to God we wont. So I ask you all to please help me in prayers please. Thank you to all in advance
will pray. I'm in a similar situation; yes, you may need to break up, and I know it's much harder after 5 years.
In my opinion, I think its best for you to end it……
I’ve been married for 9 years to a man who is not a Christian. I didn’t love Jesus the way I do now and just didn’t take him not being dedicated to Christ that’s seriously before marriage and now…. Boy oh boy is daily living hard. Just being honest and want to share my experience with anyone who this might save from pain.
@@jennifercrews3175 I'm so sorry. I hope and pray things change for you. Similar situation with us, only we have 2 kids. I just became a follower of Jesus in February.
@@Mary-lj2uu I just prayed for your family:) and for you to be filled with the endurance you need for the future and for your children and husband to come to Christ and for patience in the mean time.
As someone who grew up being taught that sex was evil outside of marriage so much so that i started to believe all sex is bad... I appreciate this sooooo much. I actually cried listening to you talk about how beautiful and bonding it is (within marriage) and now, with in just these past 40 mins, I now look forward to sex after marriage instead of fearing it.
You two are such a blessing in my life, as a growing adult your talks mean so much to me, as if an older sibling and their spouse mentoring me. May God bless you for the work you do!
It is bad if your bound to someone, then it's just adultery
What was that website called??
A million thanks P&M ,this video is an eye opener with useful information to me for the future 👏👏👏
Thank you so much for speaking up about this, the Theology of the Body is so good!
Please go ahead and write a book
We need to hear this intimate stuff with purity in mind!
Morgan you said that you “feel like a mom and dad having a conversation with their kids”
BUT MOST OF US NEVER HAD THAT CONVERSATION 😢😢😭
There’s a book that you can find free online called “Intended for Pleasure” and I highly recommend it to couples in premarital counseling. I learned so much reading it 3 years into my marriage!
I feel like I’ve heard good things about that one😊
As a single woman, I find this video really helpful. So thank you for doing this!
Marry me 🎉🎉🎉
i think the guy is good looking. what do you think
It's good as a Christian to hear about sex from fellow Christians
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Love the openness of this conversation, thank you
Hi Paul and Morgan, Thanks for the education and being honest with us. God bless 😃🙌
Part 2 😃
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There are so many issues that can affect people physically, for example, so it's not that people are 'settling'. Medication, past trauma, hormone issues, etc can change a person's ability to be aroused or have a drive for a very long time if not always. You guys seem to both be coming from a healthy place and have no framework for what a lot of the world struggles with. There can be amazing communication, trust, and love and still be issues to have 'amazing sex'. Some people accept that sex is not the most important thing in marriage and they are still very happy. As a counselor I see and hear so many aspects that affect sex and honestly you don't know what you don't know. Like someone who has never been clinically depressed but thinks they can give big statements on how to be happy. It's not that all they might say isn't true but missing a big piece for those who are wired differently. I don't disagree with most things you said, I just wish you would include these truths as well.
Thanks for this video, not many Christians talk about this.
Thank you for this video! Very informative and if u guys can please bring a part two🙏 this is very important for couples who are married! I been married to my hubby for about 5 years and been together for 6! This has definitely opened our eyes more for our marriage!
Aww good❤️ Part 2 is coming!
Wow the fact that y’all are being brave to share this in a tactful way! May the Lord bless you both! The church needs to talk about sex in a more godly open way. It shouldn’t be such a taboo and embarrassing topic. It can help many.
Grace and peace
Thank you!
Questions I didn't even know I needed to be answered 🤣 Thank you so much for your answers!!!!
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I was brought up in the baptist church even after being married, but i found the church suffercating as to what we should and shouldn't do with sex in our marriage so i left years later i got tired of the church. Peter
I love y’all videos, im trying to get better in my christian walk and yall help so much. Thank you🤍
Aww glad to hear that🙏❤️
I appreciate your vulnerability on this topic especially as I am getting married soon. Thank you!
Great topics covered in a respectful, conservative manner. Thanks!
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This is good topics. Thank you. Continue your calling. God is good!
Please do a video or mark in description Christian sex game/apps. It's hard to find some that are appropriate and not pornographic. I'm a newlywed as of July and looking for help but reading Christian marriage books can be overwhelming and contradict one another in their recommendations or they're for engaged couples.
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Married nearly 15 years.. I can highly recommend The Gift Of Sex. I read a lot of toxic Christian sex books newly married and recently read The Gift Of Sex and wow I wish I’d had it earlier in our marriage. It’s a secular book but it’s very safe and is highly recommended by Christian sex educators.
Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is amazing 🙌🏽🙌🏽
The act of marriage is the Book I read by Tim and Beverly before getting married I hadn’t even hugged my husband or kissed him before our wedding day and it was a good read it brings in scriptures and things that help you understand sex in Gods eyes . Loved it but if u struggled for sure with porn maybe wait till u are fresh married but I don’t think it has any graphic things except for like how man and woman parts are and how they work but it was black and white pages nothing to detail
Cool, thanks for sharing😊
Aww Luka is rocking his Magic Merlin Sleep Suit! Marshmallow Suit as i call it. I loved these for my daughter. Even using the larger one for a toddler now.
Thanks for this video guys!!
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I love how raw and open you all are ❤love it
This video is great!! Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is a great resource as well 🙌🏽
Morgan says something about her hair and I am very into hair and I'm just like ahhhhhh!!!!!
And I love y'all's videos but these type of topics make me nauseous and stuff (personal issues I'm working through) and I am single so I am peacing out for now
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Just by reading the thumbnail about sex toys, if you buy them your supporting the porn industry.
Just don't buy from brand affiliated with the porn industry, plenty are just independant businesses.
Porn industry = Satan's industry brother doesn't matter what brand the sex toys are from it's not right and never will be
I was always against s*x on a honeymoon because I DEFINITELY did not want to be like everyone else........... I'm weird that way, but then again, I don't follow any of the world's trends.
Did you have a patricular logical reason for that or was the only reason just not wanting to "be like everyone else"?
I share that thought !!
I have a question.. do you guys think it’s ok for Christians to swear during intimacy?
Here are questions you can ask yourself: Do you think that swearing during intimacy is natural? Do you think that this comes from porn? Do you think if Jesus was married, he would want his wife to swear?
Is that Holy?
I think this is a great question and if the answer is no it’s not okay, then a follow up question would be: what do you say to express yourself but avoid swearing? Porn being the only “example” (terrible example) so omitting that, it leaves people a little lost not really knowing of alternatives.
Your friends feel uncomfortable..
...well, maybe videos like this shouldn't necessarily be watched by your parents, your siblings, your pastor or close friends that you meet every day. 😅
Haha
I think sharing shows them as theyre themsekves journeying and learning. May be interesting how perspective shifts over time.
I’ve been married for a little over a year and would love a part 2! I’m glad this topic is starting to be discussed more in Christian settings but I feel there is a huge lack of resources for women with the higher sex drive than the man. Thoughts?
Thank you guys!
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Would love to see more videos like this!!!
Awesome!
Totally off topic and maybe I’m outta line but I do think Luca could benefit from a faster flow bottle looks like he’s taking a long time to eat and more sucks than swallows. Anyways love you guys great video
God bless and have a Merry Christmas
You too!
It's really good! And helpful.
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Thank u sm ! Very helpful.
I am a eunuch. I will never have sex nor marry. It was a medical problem and, while I am not happy about it, I have to accept what is. I tend to stay to myself and avoid women in social situations.
I’m sorry to hear that.
@lamontsimpson4871 Don't be sorry! It spares me from the incredible disfunction within today's marriage relationships. I live alone and work my job. Soon I believe that America will fall to Communist government and then it won't matter anymore!
@@user-dr7bx3uo6z you know I alway thought I wasn’t gonna be enough or be able to satisfy the woman I decide to end up getting with but now I know I have to accept what I have and that if don’t work out then it doesn’t work out. I always make up fake scenarios in my head and end up hurting my feelings but now I realized I can’t do that anymore and that it’s not of God.
Nice to hear couples who are getting their sex lives back after having a baby. I'm about to have our first any day now our sex life has already slowed down in quantity (although we're still maintaining good quality of intimacy) and amidst all the joy of being new parents, I do sometimes feel sad thinking about losing the level of intimacy between us we had before.
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Well you're conscience about it and if he is too then you guys can make it happen post baby. It's more when the couple is passive about it that things go down hill
Praying together before doing committing it to the Lord seems to work good for me and my wife
Just curious y'all never said anything about oral sex ..is that included like is that aloud in a marriage just curious if y'all do that honestly...I hope u see this and answer lol I gotta know I will still tune in to ur next video
Paul in a previous video defended oral sex in marriage, but I cannot remember which one it was. Hopefully someone else here does.
Probably cover that in part 2 😊
Hey, do you guys ever address the topic of birth control or NFP head on? I think it's safe to assume we're basically assuming ai birth control is being practiced whenever these discussions take place and I think the topic of "ai birth control" is a pretty big issue that simply goes under the radar far too often (or we assume it's not really a topic the bible speaks on), which I used to think, but I'm not so sure anymore.... what is this about? This is about God, right? Jesus? No? So how does this relationship with Jesus effect our sex lives? Anyways, if you do discuss birth control head on, that would be a cool video.
How do you have sex for just intimacy and lovey dovey without sinning? Are condoms, IUD ,birth controls etc sinning? Also is oral sex a sin?
Not a sin at all! Read Song of Solomon and read a commentary if you need help with the metaphors. ❤
This was so interesting! Can’t wait for more sex talk videos but also would love to see dating and love as well! 😊
Awesome😊 We plan to do more!
I am here for you honey. Are you looking for Godly man ?
How do you guys feel about sex in public, but it’s not like public indecency or anything...It’s like sex in secret but in a public space/ place like outdoors with no one to see or whatnot if that makes sense....like no one knows about it or can see it etc
Morgan : thats just stop being a baby 😂
Once your having sex inside of marriage, do you think there are ways you can still sin? Such has bringing toys into the scene or different positions?
YES God made sex to be Holy, but the world has normalised all these carnal sex positions so most Christians don't know right from wrong now so take this as a confirmation from the Lord. The only sex position allowed in the martial bed is the missionary position with the Husband being on top of the Wife, anything other than this is outside of God's will and is sexually immoral, for example the doggy style position what do you think God thinks when he sees a husband and wife having sex like dog's did God create humans to act like dogs? God created man and beasts separately don't be deceived by what you've seen on the internet or what you've heard from other Christians online. Another thing oral sex, anal sex and masterbation in or outside of the marriage is sexually immoral, our mouths are for eating and speaking and our anus is for defecating and masterbation is unclean and defiles your Holy temple whether it be self masterbation or from your partner it's still a sin. Finally the sex industry belongs to Satan God does not want you using any sort of sex toys this is not Holy and not what God intended, but Satan the deceiver will try everything to lure you into defiling your martial bed and giving him legal right into your marriage. Please don't fall for temptation be careful of certian types of clothing also because there are spirits attached to everything especially most lingrie so be careful of what spirits you are invitimg into your bedroom sorry if this was to much but I hope this helps. God bless you 🙏🙏
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them
Ay this dude just really doesn't like toys
If were using a sex toy, you were no longer using your spouse. You were using a piece of plastic. They have a hand.
Yes "talk like a cowboy " 🤠 😂😂
Very good video tho y'all had me hanging on every word lol
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Your honesty on this subject is so wholesome 😊
hey guys you've blessed me so much and God bless you and your baby.love you guys
Y'all are talking about these expensive dinners. I can't imagine spending more than $80, and that was my whole family. 😬
Haha I feel you
Baby Luca looks just like Morgan. (I think) He is lovely!!!❤
Haha❤️
Are there limits on sex acts in a Christian marriage?
I have always said that what a man and wife do in bed is between them and the Lord. But having said that : whatever is not of faith is sin....don't force or manipulate your spouse into something they cannot in good conscience do. Porn is also off limits.
We give our thoughts in this vid :)
I believe sex toys are ok in the bedroom, "together with your spouse"
There isn't anything wrong with sex toys as long as they are generic in nature and appearance. If they are used to help enhance the intimacy between the couple and aren't used to replace the partner then it's really not a problem. The Bible doesn't talk about them so it's an area that each couple needs to decide for themselves if they are okay with it.
Also from a medical standpoint they can be very useful when the wife gets older and it becomes harder for her to become aroused like she did when she was younger. It can help to "warm her up" so that when it comes time to penetrate her, it isn't painful for her. But in the end, its a personal choice that only the couple can make and honestly is their business if they use them or not.
Love this episode from Bangladesh.
That's heaven. God bless you both.
Good job guys. You are doing it all in a very carefull and holy maner👍🏻 be blessed
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Thanks for this video
Welcome😊
I have much more to say on this topic, but that'll wait till this weekend. I am sort of an expert in this field.
For now this will have to suffice, modern Christian marriages need much much more passion: th-cam.com/video/VMZUmVmoxGw/w-d-xo.html
Ohh I’m married so I don’t really need a help from other people to come !!! 😂😂😂
Sometimes we don’t even have energy for sex!