Does Japanese boyfriend get lazy about relationship?
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Hey Santi, just an idea but why don’t you invite the commenters in your radio/channel? Like create a video with them on call, face to face or not whichever you prefer. That way you can get more info on their situation and it’ll be fun interacting with your viewers and subscribers
Thank you Commenter! And Santi for breaking this down! I'm learning a lot.
I enjoy this kind of session because Santi is so serious using his deduction skill and his in depth knowledge in Japanese culture for helping clueless inquirers 😊 Carry on Santi San!
Hello Santi-san! very informative video again like always arigatou! love your "no BS" style of advice. you are really like our "big brother Santi!" niichan Santi ^_^
こんばんは ！
Terrific advice, specially the conclusion. The 20min was worth it haha I love how these type of Santi’s vids are like brainteasers hahaha! Keep em coming guys... 😆😁
I’m facing the same prob right now ahah. My Japanese boyfriend is wayy too shy and also eventho we’re already in a relationship, I am the one who had to tell him that ‘I love u!’ everytime. The only thing he responded was ‘Thank u!’ and too shy to say i love u to me back 🥲 But sometimes he said ‘好きだよ’
it’s hard to understand him tho whether he’s just shy or anything else? But I believe that he loves me and cares for me but he’s just don’t speak too much 😭 I have to push him everytime! I’m sick of it!
Hi Santi-san!
May I know your opinion too on the perspective of a university student? Since this topic focuses on old Japanese man 😅
Thank you Santi san for your videos, I'm half japanese lady together with full japanese man, do you think many japanese men act possessive? I think it could be interesting to examine how japanese man feels about his girlfriend/wife compared with other culture. My partner is rather possessive and likes to occupy me. I think its different compared with some friends relationships.
😔😔😔 This is so sad. Fighting girl!!
Hi Santi, I am from Hong Kong and I have a japanese mix boyfriend which I’ve met him since 2015.
We have been together on and off throughout the years cause i just couldn’t understands much about him.
I would like to know are Japanese guy quiet all the time? Do they close up to themselves and never express much about his emotions?
Every time I am with him, he’s just there to listen and it’s always me that talks, talks and talk which sometimes he finds me annoying.. haha
Also I would like to know are japnaese guy workaholic? he never has time for me but whenever he has he will spend at least half a day for me.
He’s a gentle person and he cares for me in details but he just never express himselves in which sometimes i do find it insecure and impatience as if all the time i have to make the move then he could express himselves more.
Santii, hope you can help me.. i dont know what can i do to make him express himselves more and let him know I am always here for him.
3 jobs is hard, and I had two jobs for three months. I have a full time job, and then my last ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I was so sad, so I wanted to find sometime fill my time to stop thinking about him. Even when I hangout with my friends, I still thought about him. For three months, I worked from 8:00am-3:30pm and then my second job(seasonal job for special event for the city) from 5-11:30pm. I was so tired, but my second job was great, because free uber rides after work and free dinner from food trucks. Even with two jobs working from Monday to Sunday, and I worked so many hours, but I still made time for my friends.
Hey I have a question, as a guy it's hard to find the answer to this online. How do Japanese people feel about hairy people from other countries? For the States I'm considered to be a little hairy, but I think in Japan I would be considered to be really hairy. Haha I know this is a weird question, but it came to mind when I found out people raised in Japan don't usually shave their pubic hair. Sorry if this is TMI!
I saw a couple of videos where That Japanese Man Yuta and Nobita from Japan ask people what they think about beards. As for body hair specifically, I'm not quite sure. I do remember one of my students, who is a businessman, telling me that the reason why salarymen aren't suppose to have beards is because it doesn't look professional.
Jason, thanks for your comment and I like your question. Give me two week and I will upload a vid! cheers!
@@japaneseman Wow thanks! I'm really glad you're answering my question 😁, I'm moving to Japan next year and your videos have been really eye opening. Thanks again ☺️
@@VGNaluri Hey thanks for your insight, I think here some places say beards look unprofessional too but not every where. I was surprised to find out that it seems like a lot of people in Japan think beards are unsanitary. I can kind of understand that though.
Hello Santi-san!
Thank you for replying to my question with a video!
I totally agree with your advice, and I appreciate your honesty.
Out of the 3 types of people, I think he is the second type. He's definitely not an otaku, if anything I'M the otaku 😆 I guess I should just give him his space right now, and in the mean time, I need to think about what I really want.
I have another question, and it's related to the idea of "uchi" and "soto". "Uchi" means the inner circle, while "soto" means the outer circle, right? Do relationships fall in either the "uchi" or "soto" category? Is there a difference if the person is dating another Japanese person versus a foreigner?
For example - If it's Japanese + Japanese relationship they'll both be in the "uchi" category but if it's a Japanese + Foreigner relationship the foreigner will still be in the "soto" category despite being in a relationship.
Thank you for reading this long comment.
Have a good day!
VG, Im glad you enjoyed the video! and about your next question, I think it doesnt matter tbh. first of all, we dont really have mindset to apply uchi and soto to relationship. It doesnt matter whether your are japanese or foreigner. I think how serious you guys are more important. for example, if you just started date with a japa guy, if he invited his hometown and spend time with his family on New Years day, definitely he and his fam thinks you are uchi member. if not, soto. (fyi, non of my ex became uchi member before)
@@japaneseman I see! Thank you very much for the insight.
Same experience, my japanese boyfriend invested time and even money to me. After that, I don’t understand why he can ghost me. It’s been almost a month and still no response from him but he’s active on his social accounts
Me too😔
@@user-mu7wi6ds5d have you met him in person?
Now I know how I can call myself😊
a chasing her dreams girl 😊
Hm,I like it,hahah
That "japanese guys don't like to call or text..." ...it's just so sad. Just a thought, Santi! Could this also be a contributing factor to the suicide rates (I remember having seen your video discussing that topic)? I think you had a video before on how japanese typically just keep to themselves... Maybe that's what is needed! More communication. Opening up a bit more. Talking to people so a person does not feel alone, isolated and alienated from the rest...what do you think? 😊
Welcome to another episode of girl overthinks her relationship with a Japanese man and we all have to watch 20 minutes of it xD
What would you like Santi San to talk about? Please suggest a topic 😊