Let's think together. Why do foreign ladies like Japanese men?
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It’s the quietness and not aggressive for me. Tall and slim fit. Respects privacy and space. Polite, fashionable/cool and educated. And because I prefer the asian descent because I am asian also. I prefer asian culture. There are some differences but many similarities. I like Japanese men care about their hair and style.
Can’t speak for all the Japanese but the drying of hair, brushing hair like in Japanese dramas are real. It is true Japanese men are busy and maybe looks cold because foreigners believe they are not sweet but it is good if a man is not always sweet 24/7 because you will feel giddy and happy when he does sweet things for you. Hehe. More actions than sweet talking.
Why i like Japanese men, because they’re so polite, kind, humble. They read in between lines. Attentive. Know how to treat you. They think thru things. Hard to explain but I’m pretty much culture shocked when i met 1 the first time before.
I like japanese man because their personality is similar to mine since I was born in brasil but raised by a japanese family. I’m quiet, shy, I never want to bother anyone and I really mind about what other people will think about me in public.
It’s not so much about their physical appearance. I don’t like thin men, and in Japan there are men that are very skinny. I also don’t like very muscular men, I prefer normal shape or a little chubby. The guy doesn’t have to be very tall, but I prefer taller than me.
Many men in japan use glasses and I found attractive men who use glasses.
In America, my last boyfriend was 190.5cm, so he was too tall for me. The Japanese guy that I like currently is around 180cm. I am staying in Japan for one month just to see him 😂 He’s sweet and polite. I like his smile. Haha…I studied abroad in Korea, but kpop didn’t have affect on me. Even I grew up in America, I tend to like Asians, since I am Asian.
i believe because theyre really polite and theyre pretty cute. the hurdle is the reading the atmosphere.
I'm 20 and live in Tokyo. I find the salarymen who wear the suits and polished leather shoes on the metro subway really handsome. They are slender but there is an elegance. I think in the west the men are muscular and taller but no refinement or beauty. Also, when some guys roll up their shirt sleeves in the summertime now. it's so sexy~
what i like about Japanese guys is that they are able to read between the lines. i don't have to say everything and they still understand. they are very attentive, notice details and that's important for them. this makes me feel very close to them. they seem so gentle because of that. i like to appreciate the small things in life and i feel like they do too. i feel like i could sit with them together, just enjoying to be there together. sitting in silence together or talk about small things. enjoy with them every moment just as it is. that's happiness for me and i feel like i can share it. 🌸
i wrote this before watching to the end.. . now i finished watching.
Yes! I totally agree with you, the capability to understand and read the atmosphere is definitely the most attractive point for me 🙂🌸
I also like the Samurai air of not complaining. I like Samurai.
(I don't really know what k-pop is, so that's not the reason for me)
I like Japanese culture, places especially in Osaka and Tokyo. JPY men I encountered are cool, shy, generous and gentlemen 🫡that I feel so blessed 😇
Santi is so BASED keep it up man seriously it seems rare for these discussions to be so raw and real!
cheers!
We’ve been together for 5years… all I can say is that Japanese men never complain plus they’re afraid of fighting lol 😂😂😂
Ahhaha yes. Afraid of arguing and don’t like confrontation.
Lol 🤣🤣🤣do you want him to fight??😂😂
I absolutely agree with your points of view why foreign girls could prefer a man from Japan but your opinion of what we see in a Japanese man isn't meet mine.I am Hungarian and what I like in Japanese men are their eyes,the shape of their mouth,their hair.I don't like muscles either.And that's all,as for the appearance.I don't want to generalize but I'd say that men from european or other countries aren't as reliable,kind and honest as men from Japan..I kinda feel sorry for ourselves anyway because we can only chose from what we have and there are a lot of really good person here,too,but that's not the common...Or I don't know maybe I should just want what I can want...but I don't like aggressive,pushy,self-satisfied men who only want a girl for just a little while and then exchange us like clothes...I think we aren't too different from Japanese girls if it comes to what we need.We want to be loved and we want to love.We want to take care of a man who protects us.We want a happy family life with him.We want to sew his torn clothes..we want to cook and bake for him..we want to take long walkes and talk..we want a man who we can trust in...I think we just want a man with whom we can feel like a woman...not all of us going to parties all night and look for men to spend time with...women are women everywhere...I don't think this is too much but if you are a girl in Europe or in America...you hardly can find this in a man.So I'm not surprised that a lot of girl travel to Japan to find a boyfriend...but it's not possible for every girl so people in Asia think that we love how things goes here...but that's not exactly true....🤷♀️
I would imagine they are unique, polite, considerate and romantic. But, too many foreign women forget to follow cultural rules when they go to Japan and make a fool of themselves. So sad. Thankyou Santi
Dear Santisan, I think if you look at the outside, height and muscles are not everything. In my opinion, japanese men are often very handsome, especially the face. Also, I like the way japanese men dress and take care of themselves. But I am shocked to hear how much (young?) japanese men try to be western. For many ladies, a man who is attentive and reads the atmosphere is worth his weight in gold. When it comes to compliments: Yes, you can overdo it. And I don't like superficial sweet talk. But girls ( and women) sometimes are a little insecure or shy. Giving an honest compliment about something positive about her or about sth she did for you is like a caress for the soul.
I think following makes japanese men attractive (my personal opinion)
Regarding the body, they are not too big, not too muscular. There are many woman (as me) who like slim men. When they grow older they are still slim, their body weight will usually not exstremly escalate.
The most dont loose hair. Until old age they have hair. Then, Japanese men dont smell. Many dont use deo, because they dont need. And even the people who use deodorant, they are never really smelly.
Regarding the character, japanese men are still gentlemen. They are caring, are polite and forward thinking. Often people make the mistake to think those men are shy, but its not. Politeness (not speaking direct) doesnt mean someone is shy. I love that they are not touching, but have good manners, are educated.
Important: Of course every person is individual, it is not possible to generalise all japanese men.
It's the eyes, silky hair, and cute smile for me! Hi Taka (OneOKRock)! Ok and sir hiroyuki sanada too😁
But seriously maybe it's just human psychology. We tend to be intrigued by what is foreign (and most of the times seemingly unreachable) to us. Like a mystery we always want to unravel? Maybe there's some sort of scientific study about it somewhere out there.
It wasn't even the Kpop thing that got me. Actually, its Kenshin Himura and the guy who plays Shin Sawada in Gokusen who reeled me in!😂
Japanese men are very attractive !
Amazing video ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Haha I'm not into kpop so it's not the reason for me, Japanese are cute yet sexy at the same time, humble, responsible, neat and reading the atmosphere is definitely attractive too
what a handsome japanese man
The reason why I love my Japanese boyfriend is because his good both words and actions
For me, it's because they are really talented on animations. And plus, most of the songs I love is Japanese. And they are cute and they are clean in their surroundings
Cause they are the real version of anime boys :)
🎶 And I wear my sunglasses at night, So I can, So I can, Keep track of the visions in my eyes🎶. 😁 Anyway, this was an amusing break down. I like how you listed desirable traits for Japanese men, only to end with "because of K-Pop"😂. I can't speak for other women, but it is a shame K-pop is the conclusion most people come to nowadays when someone says they find Asian men attractive.
I love you santi san
I like Japanese hair style >-> a lot..I like kirito like hair style.
Also I like short, slim, cute and shy guys.
I want a shota xd
Gud day santi.do japanese men also fall in love even if as they say they are "ice cold".do they enter into a relationship not just because they are attracted physicaly or for practical reasons only but because they are romanticaly in love like in the movies kind of thing.if yes, how can you tell if they are truly in love.how do they express it.i hope santi that you can discuss about this in one if your videos thank you so much.
Haha I like that you said you wont say what countries men compliment too much but you were like *kiss* bella!! I'm Italian and those men definitely do too much lol
Santi, I am attracted more towards Asian men than I am people of my own race. While there are some here In my country they are the typical "American boy" style where they are a little more rude and selfish unlike the ones I met overseas in Korea and Japan. Is it wrong for me to be searching for someone online through an app while not in the same country? If not is there more apps I could use that is English friendly? Do the men not like foreign women searching for serious relationship while across seas?
I have been studying Korean and Japanese as well as their cultures and have fallen in love. I would love someone to share that with
15:32 “Bella Bella” 😂🇮🇹
lol he’ll be mentioning about uniqlo and the next thing: *uniqlo ad*
Watching from Sri Lanka.😊
I’m so glad you returned to this format too! I just didn’t have the time to watch the longer episodes or join live, unfortunately.
Just wanted to comment on your points from my perspective.
Appearance: From a vain perspective, I find more Japanese men match my physical preference as height and muscle are not important to me personally, but I strongly strongly dislike facial hair 😝 In Australia, most men have facial hair. Also, rather than seeing them as fashionable, it’s more to me about being presentable. Again, in Australia compared to Japan, there are still a lot of men who don’t care enough about their appearance such as never ironing their clothes or being ok wearing clothes with stains or holes. That isn’t to say that is all Australian men by any means, just there is more of them here than I saw in Japan. I am a bit OCD, so I cannot stand men who appear slovenly (and I think the facial hair ties into this). However, a lot of Australian women disagree me.
Personality: I still think that this is too individual and really depends on the person even though there are some typical cultural characteristics. The pros and cons of cultural influences on personality can still be outweighed by an individual’s personality. But for me personally, I am not that comfortable with loud displays of love and I don’t think it is as common in Australia either (at least in my age group). Although it is more so than Japan, it’s not to the levels of the US and much of Europe unless you’re watching reality TV. I don’t find that my Japanese boyfriend can “read the atmosphere” any more than anyone else I know, at least in a western context, so I don’t find that particularly beneficial (nor a negative). Maybe if we lived in Japan I would notice and appreciate this more.
Talent: That is such an odd one, I think you are referring to the groupie mentality, haha. I think more people would be swayed by shared hobbies and interests, and actually Japanese are pretty good at having a hobby and keeping up with it (compared to Australia). Personally, even if I don’t share a hobby with someone, I would find them more attractive if they had a hobby they were passionate about.
KPop: Totally not my thing, I’m not big in pop music in general and I really don’t like their hairstyles 😝
I don’t consider myself to be “exclusively attracted to Japanese men” though just because my boyfriend is Japanese. But those are my reflections on the topics you covered and how they would relate to me personally.
Lol. Your videos are amazing. btw I am Uniqlo too. jajajaja
Sunglass awanai kunai hahaha your real trully frank😝 intresting santi👋
Hey! Santi, nice to meet you. ..... can you please answer my question ... I met a half japanese guy online and then we met in real life ..... and after some meetings we became friends and then we started seeing each other often! I started getting feelings for him.... after approximately 2 years of friendship he asked me if I wanted to go on a drink with him , I answered yes but I got drunked easily after 2-3 shots because I never drinked before ..... now he was sending me to my hotel because it was late and that night I accidentally kissed him I remembered correctly and then next day when I asked him what happened last night I can't remember .... so he just told me that I sended you to your room and nothing more ......we're still friends but I can't forget that moment. .... what will happen if I try to take a first step because he's to shy to do that. .... can we be able to become a couple or I'll just ruin our friendship too. ..... so,I want your opinion on this... I think I'm falling for him day by day
this video makes me laugh loud
Question pls- Do Japanese guys really like foreigners females? And Do Japanese guys make public displays of affection for their girlfriends? Do you do public dating?
ありがとう Santi!
13:54 hahahaha i like this part haha
Japanese men are responsible, very down to earth and true to his word. ❤️ I know this is not applies to all japanese men, but mostly they are.
I forgot to add that I think Japanese men are hot and my name is Ashleigh
What if I say I don't know why I love or like Japanese men but just find myself loving them generally... I love Japanese men like I love my life 😭I can't help it
I guess appearance is important.. I think a lot of foreigner like japanese people face and them being skinny, also fashion sense. Here males dressing up as homeless, rare case when men care about their looks. Not to mention acting as total jerks most of the time. Don't get me wrong.. not everyone are like that, but majority is.
What I find atractive in man is his mind. A clever man is a sexy man. I dont really care about appearance. However, my boyfriend is most atractive man in the world to me (even though he think he is not atractive in his "natural" way).
Hey Santi I was wondering would Japanese guys date foreign women and would they date plus size women bc I'm a plus size woman and I'm American and I love your videos
sure, check next live :)
Japanese men are not known to be so romantic or sweet.
But I like the fact they are hard working, quiet, humble and passionate with their jobs.
You are hilarious omw
i have a friend japanese before ..and i like him so much but he lie to me now we are not talking by the way he live here in phil
For me I have to say Keanu Reeves was the first guy I started to have a Asian crush on and than my brothers friends that were Asian that made me started to like their features because how exotic and different. From where I grew up. Before I discovered Kpop and their fashion clothing in the early 2000. I say it’s the eyes that I’m attracted to and the jawline.
Japanese people have nice cheeks, training everyday the face muscles from lot of smiling :)
So does it mean Gackt looks dumb with sunglasses ? Jk 🤣😂
I think it’s because of how popular anime and K-pop have gotten.
Question: how difficult is to find a gay couple in japan? let's say I want to date a girl but I'm a girl too
I will answer on Live tonight! Please watch that! ^^ cheers
You look like av actor 😊😊😊
Bro what is your height and weight??
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Me: idk japanese men have a very interesting culture, interests, personality, some are even handsome...🤔
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Well i watched Rurouni Kenshin series and i got curious of Japanese men and culture, i literally love Kenshin and Takeru Satoh in his vlogs (maybe it's just famgirling thing 😁), i still think that Jaapn has a tendency to have a toxic disciline, strictness and rules but maybe it's just my extreme thinking being raised in a suepr religious (toxic) background.
I think Korean men are very different physically and personality wise from Japanese men.Japanese young guy generally have small faces and different features,and Koreans are not so passive.
I personally like Japanese men because of their face and haïr.
They are very stylish and have piercings they do skin care and makeup too.some Japanese guys look so nice with blonde hair.
They look so handsome in suit and kimono with a mask,
They bow a lot and it’s very cute to talk to a shy person who smiles a lot and is quite
For me it’s easy to talk to them I don’t like straightforward men. Of course if you know Japanese and you talk to Japanese men it’s fun to be with them sometimes they are funny and have a nice voice and accent.
Another reason could be handsome Japanese actors such as taishi nakagawa or there are many cute TH-camrs please count Santi san also in it.
by the way I wrote a comment on your previous video asking that I’m meeting a Japanese university guy and he invited his friend too.is it okay to invite your friends in Japan to meet a girl for the first time,What is he thinking and what if I like his friend more should I tell him or he will read the atmosphere on his own.My full comment is on your previous live video.
Thank you for reading
I love your channel🏮✨🎢
ok ill check :)