A Story of One Foreign Lady. One night stand in Japan and her love with Japanese man.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ม.ค. 2022
- Today we talk about A Story of One Foreign Lady. One night stand in Japan and her love with Japanese man. Are you interested? Let me know what you think in a comment?
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Malaga you are so lucky to be such an attractive lady. I hope you meet a great guy who appreciates you. Please keep looking for the right one.
I like your frankness! My impression is both were "cruising".....
Life has no subtitles, you understand it or not. But we are lucky we have Santi to translate it for us.
I agree, it sounds like the man was never interested in a relationship. I kind of assume if a person talks about going to a hotel when you first meet them, they don't want anything serious.
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The guy was a player. It baffles me when there are ladies believe a guy likes them when the guy hasn’t even shown much respect or effort. Santi san said was true. I agree. In asian culture, being too aggressive, easy, liberated is not a good thing. Even if the times are changing there are still people who will prefer traditional ones for a serious relationship. Not saying you’re a bad lady Malaga. I just hope you’ll be wiser next time. Get to know someone first before giving in.
He will break your heart even if he contacts you. A man who likes a woman will do anything for a woman he likes. Don’t be too possessive too. Maybe that scared him too.
I think people aren’t understanding her point. She kept asking if he’s married because before going out for a drink, she already asked him that question and he said he’s not married. I guess she went out with him only because she confirmed that he’s single, but she found out that he lied. That’s the whole point, I don’t think she was looking for a serious relationship with him.
She must be really hot… initial attraction is looks anyway, but some of these really good looking ladies can’t get married for some reasons
3 rounds make sense now why is she thinking so much. So much entertaining.
3 rounds
Honour + dignity ↘️↘️↘️
Okay, okay I get it that lady crazy 😪 the man did not want you honey. You can do better for the love of God!!!!
Interesting story👍
Haha🤣🤣 ur face after they did it the second time…love ur content!!
Very well said, Santi san.😃👍
Malaga, value yourself.Know your worth,so you could attract and keep a great guy. You are worthy more than you think you are..Goodluck.
I feel for you Malaga~🥺 But you deserve to be treated with respect, and that man wasn’t respectful to you from the very beginning. Approaching you the way he did, how he acted and treated you the whole time, I agree with Santi-san and everyone else who commented: he just wanted to have fun.
Asking the married question from the beginning is a very person question, for Japanese people especially. Those kinds of questions people usually don’t ask about unless you’re close with them, so he probably freaked out and didn’t want to have that kind of stress in his life. If he has a cushy lifestyle, like Santi-san explained he might, he definitely does this kind of thing often, so he probably just wants to have more fun. Definitely don’t contact him again. I think that if you do, you’ll end up hurting more than you did before. Like opening a wound again after the scab has just formed. Protect your heart and your mind. You don’t need that kind of bad energy and negativity in your life🥺💙
Japanese guys who do “nanpa”, who can speak English, look for foreign women to hook up with, usually are aggressive. At least for me, that kind of aggression is uncomfortable & I would say that most Japanese people would say that too. So that’s a red flag for me and I would be turned off tbh.
Healing is hard, especially when you can tie a feeling and an emotion to a memory; especially a great feeling🥺 Time heals most things, so please cheer up~🥺 Please remember that you are special and you are gifted with beauty. Find someone who will see you and not just your outside beauty, but your inner beauty as well~☺️💙 There are many fish in the sea of the world. There’s gotta be lots more men who will treat you with the respect you deserve💙
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Awww..Marissa, you took the time to type this up with lots of love! Said wonderfully--what an ace! I hope Malaga doesn't waste her time and energy on someone who doesn't want to love her back, and I hope she gets someone who will love and treasure her.
@@generalgeneral9087 😅😅😅 Ahhh…no way~~~ lolol🥲 but thank you for your kind words😅🥺💙 That’s just the kind of person that I am tho, so it just comes naturally for me lol😅 Clearly, she’s struggling and hurting, so as selfish as it was for me to put my opinion on her and to suggest things that she might not welcome, I felt like if this were me or my sister or my friend, how would I want someone to tell me something like this when I’m hurting or how I would talk to my loved ones. Even if I don’t know this person, I still think that she deserves a little bit of kindness and understanding, especially if she’s feeling lost; I don’t want her to feel alone and hopeless because I’ve felt similar feelings and I’ve been down the same path a time or two. I remember how the words people told me affected me, whether they were negative or positive, I still remember those times. So I hope she’s doing her best with whatever she chooses🥺💙
This will be interesting topic 👀
I think he wanted and tried to be with her, that’s why he contacted her, but she was too proud so she ignore him. She let it be it one night stand. I’m 25, nobody ask me out :(
Thank you Santi, always thoughtful and no bs. 11 .11 (year) is Singles’ Day in China. In my country, it is a marketing gimmick to purchase online goods with more discounts.
Dang! 4 years! 😲
The truth can hurt most of the time. I hope Malaga will finally move on and find someone who she derserve.
Im a fan of a lot of japanese shows as an american, how popualar is SASUKE(ninja warrior) and Run For Money? like does all japanese know what sasuke is
Move on , it’s a one night stand for a reason lol😆
Okay first off, Santi, your thumbnail🤭 . Gold star🌟. 2nd, Malaga listen to Santi on this one. I'm sorry you feel you missed out on a relationship with this person. However, from your story, I don't believe this man wanted a serious relationship anyway. I mean, from the jump, he openly ogled at you to your face which to me is already a red flag of F' boy behavior. And all the other factors in your story just point to him wanting to have a good time. Just take this as a learning experience and move on. I pray that you get things figured out and that your heart can heal from this experience✝️💓. Also, if your comfortable, please keep us posted so we know your okay🤗.
I really like these stories, nothing better than reality ... it's something a little crazy but it's entertaining.
Girl ! This man just wanted free sex, I think it's obvious why are you feeling overwhelmed with his life? I don't understand!
I guess if you don't forget it that day is because "the good" never forgotten!😉
Come on girl, keep going living your live!
Thanks for the video and regards.
Hi Malaga, if you are reading this, I hope you have moved on and found the man who loves and adores you. You cannot forget the Japanese man because he was so attractive in your eyes, the way he approached you (romantic isn’t it? Like in good movies which is really unrealistic), his package and 3 rounds of …He had a good time with you. Treat it as a good memory and one of those unforgettable experience, nothing more. When you asked - are you married? You had an intention to pursue things further. But he doesn’t want to (he just wanted to have fun). For him to leave you right after the act, he either is married with kids (Japanese man spends weekends with his wife and kids) or just want to be left alone (assuming he is single). To meet in Singapore is just another opportunity to have more great sex. Don’t call him. You deserve so much better. There is a better man out there. Ask yourself what you really want. Great sex is not necessarily love. But with love, you can achieve great sex with respectful and open communication. ❤
its was nothing girl,but just one night stand..and guy just making stories only just for nothing to talk..forget him..its not serious..
if it have 1st or 2nd meet and still have communication maybe its ok to assume..
But really it was nothing...no hurt feelings..find other guy...
Santi san have you experienced one night stand too?
No, Santi-san is a pure and innocent boy.
if you watch this video, you know the answer😌
and, btw im not boy, im middle-aged man lol
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I want be approach by rich guy
Sorry, but Malaga wrote she cannot forget the sex with him... So it was "just" sex for her, too, right 🙄? So it's not the person she is missing (sorry when I'm wrong...)...