Are you setting yourself up for more narcissist abuse?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 พ.ค. 2024
- Setting boundaries is not as easy as we think. We often times aren't actually even setting boundaries. We are simply inviting more abuse.
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😢yes...after each battle i feel stronger to wellcome future mistreatment😮💨
Thanks Vital 🙏
Excellent!
Thank you
You can't make peace with trouble, it only craves more trouble
Indeed
opened my eyes on this one cheers
YW 🙌
Sir, the only boundaries they understand is fatal
Just curious as to what the boundary would be with a co worker who has barely veiled hostility towards you - indicated by the tone of voice they use when forced to deal with you and pointedly ignoring you and pointedly making a show of speaking and being friendly to other colleagues in front of you. I 've tried ignoring them but just seems to make them worse.
I just posted a video about BOUNDARIES, it might answer your questions. Also, look out for upcoming webinars: www.vitalgermaine.com/upcoming-events
It didn't, that's why I asked. Thanks for the response!
This is exactly what I'm going through with coworkers too!
@@sooozannah33 Observe & document the odd veiled or disrespectful behaviors & attitudes. Address it with the person privately if they deny or continue..go to boss or supervisor with the issue & documentation. Depending on their response determine if the job is worth the money efforts & your health.
Soozannah, *you're giving away your power.* Life is about dealing with thousands of people who will *barely veil hostility toward us.* Work on how you respond to them. Most people would just ignore it, laugh at them, speak to the supervisor, or look for a new job. As long as the coworker isn't your boss, ask yourself why you are ALLOWING them to trigger you. You can't control people.
I think at some point prisons should allow men and women to be able to communicate more. Because y’all don’t understand how much they need that. Of course under conditions and strict regulations like no contact for the first half depending on the charges. If you’re just a robber you should still be able to have contact with women. It’s not hard to get a lot of people to just make the best out of the little they have. It’s necessary.
Yelling is the least of this, they're killers, sir. What do they care if you walk away, that only intensity it
It's not about what THEY care... it's about YOU and your wellness.
You cant go nc with a narc coworker unless you leave the job which some people cant afford to do
In life, everything is a choice.
Sometimes all your choices suck.
You have to choose the one that sucks the least.
@@AFAskygoddess well tell that to someone who has a family to support and a mortgage or rent to pay.
@kittywitty6507 , if you can't change your circumstances, change the way you look at your circumstances. My corporation had a merger. I was miserable working for them for 12 years before I could retire, but I endured it up because my other choices were worse. Again, we must accept that all alternative choices can suck. That's all I was saying. That way of looking at it isn't giving away my power. There's peace in that.
To really do that, I'd have to catch a murder case, sir
Sir, if I really set boundaries, and say that they'd cross those boundaries beyond coming back from it.and it was fatal.
Who is in trouble then.
Sir, if it got to that point, they definitely wouldn't let you walk away. I'm sure of that.
"they would LET you" - therein lies the problem. You have empowered them and undermined YOUR own power. YOU have the always have the choice as to what happens next.
What is you come from a culture without boundaries? Especially toward women? You can't say all of them are narcissistic, right?
Break the culture and be YOU... as a women in a "man's world" it is not easy. But one must keep fighting to overcome oppression in all its forms.
Do you train people to dodge bullets. All they understand is fatal
Hi, sir,
I appreciate your videos.
But in this crooked society world we live in, it really doesn't pay to really be kind at all . This world refuses to allow anyone to truly be kind to them at all. This world takes kindness as weakness. From top down. That's what we've been taught through the media and everything else. I know where I live, sir. I also know people. That's why I am the way I am.
You probably won't understand me,but I know exactly where I am. People are just who and what they are, and they've always been.
If you know who you are and are happy with your situation, then absolutely stay calm and carry on.
All these types of people understand is ,fatal
That's not how it goes down, sir
Please, understand me. These fools don't understand respect. Respect is a foreign language to them.i already know.
The only thing, again, that they understand, is, fatal, sir. Do you understand my comments
You're mistaken, sir. There is no healthy boundaries. All there is is fatal
No disrespect, but what are you going to do to them. Give them a time out
Sir, no disrespect intended, but you must live in a rich white suburban neighborhood, sir,
I don't. 💔
Respectfully, you are assuming and judging me without knowing who I am, my past or current situation.