You’re comment about privilege....yeah..you’re an incredible kid. To have that perspective at your age is one of a kind. I’m 33 years old and I didn’t have that perspective in my early 20s. You will go far in life. Onward and Upward.
"Would that guy be strong? No. No, that guy would be injured immediately..." idk why but I laughed so hard at that. Love you're videos man. You always bring up some really interesting topics. I remember thinking to myself a couple months back "Man this guy really has it all figured out". Thanks for keeping it real with us.
Well I totally understand u John. I have to do 2 exams and complete the MSc thesis in bioinformatics in 2 months. Plus, studying Python and making application for PhD (really REALLY time consuming). I totally understand you and I can say that in case I won't be able to graduate at the end of September I will be ok too. Many students from my year are already graduating right now, these days. (I have SMA condition, just saying) But they are not living my life,they are not learning programming, because they do Biology. I am doing Biology and trying to learn Informatics together. I chose this way. It will be my future. But I know that it won't be the end of the world if I will lose some good PhD opportunity because of my different attitude. Just do what u can. Take your time. I won't be able to be 100 focused if before breakfast I would not read my 4 5 pages of a book, now it is The Pillars of the earth KF. Take your time. Greetings, from Italy.
Of course I am fortunate. I love biology, and I forced my self to like bioinformatics too, since it is the only way through which I can fulfill a biology career. Bioinformatics did not exist 15 years ago. I am very lucky. Still, it was very hard to compete with let's say normal people, every day. Now it is quite hard and challenging. But this is also because I am 28 y.o. This guy, John, is so young, he has a very growth mindset. If he will be able not to loose his focus in the next 5 6 years, he will do great things.
@Hari Seldon. Count the number of "I"s and "my"s in the comments you've written. Then reread what these lovely people wrote to you and thank them for their caring comments. I'd suspect one of your bigger issues is selfishness. With that said i still found your story interesting and inspiring. Just remember to thank the people who deserve it along the way. ~
Thanks. Of course) I already ordered 3 more. Can't wait until it's come. btw not sure if i'm writing correct because i also learn english as a 2nd language. And have to say that for me John's videos helps in this case too =)
As someone who's studying computer science (a dream/plan of mine since I was 14) while recovering from 5 years of severe chronic depression and other mental disorders (yes, diagnosed and all), I love seeing these honest videos of yours where you explain that even productive people like you struggle sometimes. They remind me that I am not failing my recovery if I still struggle from time to time, because that's something healthy people are not fully protected from either, they are just more protected than I am. Sometimes I feel bad because I am taking things very slow and still struggle a bunch, but if healthy people still struggle in their normal-paced lives, than I, as a mentally ill person, am totally allowed to struggle just as much in a slower paced schedule. It's something I have to remind myself of every single day, and your videos about this stuff really help with that. And on the other hand your productivity vidoes make me look forward to when I can work at my full potential again, because when I am in a good phase, I can be just as much of a workerbee as you in your good times. Just gotta be patient, I am out of the roughest phases of depression by now, so it's not that much of a long road ahead for me anymore.
Needleworker's Realm I almost cried with your comment. I'm also dealing with mental health problems and lately I had been feeling useless and really slow. But your comment really change the perspective I had of all that. Thank you
You have depression because you think you have depression. Once you condition your brain into you having mental issues it gets reality. The real thing is to solve the issue causing that and not the depression itself
Honestly saw some of your videos, in your channel and thought wow, this guy is a robot. Seeing this made me realise he is human. Dude, life matters. Rest Matters, doing nothing is a doing something. Be happy don't cramp things to increase productivity. I am just gonna subscribe to you just for this channel. Finally some truth
I originally deicided to watch your videos for learning English and got motivations for studying, but I also fell for your thoughts and other features that are hard to explain. I know this is an really old video but I hope you're always doing very well☺️
Ahhhhhh I just made a video about my mental health called ‘coming out of depression’ and I was sooooo scared to post it and put myself out there. Seeing other people make vulnerable videos about mental health really inspires me so thank you so much for making this💗
This video is so great,because this past week I've been struggling really badly in studies and haven't been able to manage time or even get enough sleep. It's so great to see you show your authentic self because that normalizes failure and makes me feel like IT'S OKAY EVERYONE GOES THROUGH IT. So thanks a lot
I agree that taking time off is a key aspect of growth. It's often over summer break that I spend time on reflecting and coming up with new ways to approach the next school year. Take as much time off wherever and whenever you need John. By doing so, you can become a much more well-rounded person and produce quality videos for us. I'm excited that you're back!
There’s so much to do and so much going on that we try to involve ourselves in all of it. Sometimes I have to realize that I can only do one thing at a time and rest is definitely important and sometimes neglected.
You are like the brother that I always wanted...thanks for always inspiring me to do better I start my 3rd semester of college next month and strive to be amazing like you😌
Thank you sooo much for caring yourself!! We are waiting for your amazing videos! And your words are so comforting.. Thank you!! We believe in you!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼
Wow. Your videos always come at just the right time. I've been struggling, suffering with anxiety and feeling ovehwelmed. I've taken a week of to rest. Three days in, I'm starting to feel like me again - however, I was feeling guilty for taking time off, but this video is a reminder that we all need a bit of 'me' time, from time to time. We're not machines, we're not robots, we're human and need to rejuvenate from time to time.
This is really what I needed right now. I felt bad for slowing down my activities in the last days and this video helps me a lot. I don't know how you always know what to do to help other people but this video surely helps many students. Also I'm sorry for my English (I am no native speaker)
Don't worry about your English, it's pretty good. It didn't cross my mind you're not a native speaker, till I read your sentence saying you're not. As for non-native versus native speakers: a motivated non-native speaker can learn English better than native speakers who are not motivated. Take that from a non-native speaker who almost speaks English better than her mother tongue.
I understand your situation completely.... Totally relatable but that was because I took it for granted that when I was on the verge losing everything... I realized what I had.. I was stressed, anxious, half-dead..now I realize just live life for each moment and I loved every second of what I did.. with passion. Thanks for your amazing advice.. And inspiring me to join Harvard.. :)
Johan Chrispin listen,I know full well how that stuff works and I appreciate your concern but Im not one to kill myself I don't regret anything...I learn from my mistakes knowing full well I'll make a mistake today and not being unhappy but rather excited that tomorrow I'm gonna be a wiser person.. the girl I loved with all my heart killed herself as well, I know how crippling the depression can be for your loved ones and ,therefore, I learn and try...picking myself up and giving it my all to achieve what lays ahead of me and accepting it thusly. I am pursuing excellence, not success...because aiming for success will blind you, while on the other hand, if you have excellence... success will pursue YOU.. besides I'm ready to chase my dream in computing... I'm 4 grades ahead in maths and I could have a job as a game developer if I so wanted.. but that would take not only my chance to learn much much more from those who made mistakes, including myself, but also would stop me from living life like the teen that I am.....once again thank you for your time and for your concern..may God bless you, everyone and all of his creations.... Take care!
Fariz TGK omg wat a beautiful letter I appreciate it n may god be wit u too wish u best of luck n also I love that part where u said don’t aiming for success will blind u instead excellent becus success will pursue u omg I was always thought aiming for success was the key to being fulfilled omg like Steve jobs once said “don’t settle for anything less then excellence” OMG take care much love sincerely johan🙂
You are by far my favorite channel. I love your honesty and how you share every aspect of your life, both good and bad. All of your advice really means a lot as it resembles what I am currently going through as well. The idea of rest seemed crazy to me, as I used to believe that I had to be productive every single day of the year. It's taking a lot of work, but I'm finally allowing myself to just chill for a bit. I hope you keep on resting, you deserve it!
Just discovered your channel and have been binge watching for the past 2 days and I loved your genuine honesty and humbleness in this video. I know many people look at others and fail to realize that we are all human and can be restless at times. This brief vid was very inspiring.
Amazing video John, I’m currently on a rest right now from TH-cam as well. People don’t understand how hard platforms like TH-cam can be. Keep your head up!
THANK YOU for this video John. As someone that works hard, sometimes too hard, and experiences burnout, I’m so grateful that you shared this lesson with your audience. It’s such an important and under appreciated idea
John Fish!! 😭😭😭 Thank You so much for sharing this!! Thank You so much for being TRUE. I overthink a lot and I struggle thinking that I’m the only confused person in this world because everyone seem to have their life together. But this video opened my heart and my mind. It’s helping me to embrace myself, accept my flaws, cherish my failures, and love myself. Thank You John Fish!!! You inspire me to be true 💗 All the love to you - You’re the man
I consider you as my brother, I've been struggling a lot few months i luckily found out your channel and things started to fall into places gradually. I learnt good lessons from you i adapted your ways of dealing with things and i also started with day planning as you do. I sat back and i started to read book you suggested, i usually didn't read much but i gave it a shot i found out its a way you talk to great successful people. I also love computers and now im learning how to code and really im loving it. I stopped and i looked back and gave a thought i learnt i lack in discipline, im trying to achieve my goals i write before sleep for the next day and its showing good results. I would always remember you, your efforts did made a difference. its been 15 days I've been checking into this channel and it made me a complete different personality. All The Best :)
Dude. I needed this. I feel what you have been going through so hard right now. I took no break after school finished this summer and truly regret that decision. I get my break in two weeks and I know, like you have said, I need the break. I need the rest. Everyone does once in a while. It just helps to clear your mind and not worry about anything in the word. Never stop growing.
Dude I've been watching your videos lately and I love them but they were making me feel bad about myself sometimes because I was perceiving you as perfect. Mental health is a big road block for me a lot of the time. I'm really glad you showed your human side, it really puts things into perspective.
I always seem to come across one of your videos when I need it the most. Thank you for being so honest and open. I think you're absolutely lovely and brilliant. I admire you. I took this past semester off because school was getting to me so badly. I've been feeling guilty about it, but I suppose this was my resting period. I think I'm ready to go back now. Truly, thank you.
This is so inspiring. Such was my experience in my first year into architecture. It was more of art and I barely new how to hold a paint brush, let alone knowing of the different series of the 'B' pencil. Worst part is that everyone around me looked like they had it all figured out. Not once, not twice, did I get myself blasted by my lecturers. I was the class punching bag. I felt like a living joke for the first time in my life yet deep within me I knew I was more than capable of doing better. At one point in the second semester I just felt I had had enough and I decided to step aside for two weeks. There were thoughts of switching courses and everything but I'm grateful for a close friend of mine, Eric, who pulled my hand and brought me back on track. Second year has passed and in my own analysis, I have grown a lot in my academics and as a person. Currently catching up on a few reads to boost my self being and all and I must say I feel confident again in a long while. Most notably, "Start With Why" by Simon Sinek and "Tough times don't last, but Tough people do" by Robert Schuller have stood out for me. My only prayer is that in this third year that's fast approaching, I can compound my progress. Cheers from KE!
Hi John, I want to say thank you for sharing with us your struggles and growth. It is warm to see someone in a similar age to struggle but more importantly to struggle together. Thank you John.
Your comments about growth with relation to working out are very intriguing. A lot of people think that its a waste of time to work on themselves and if they just focus on outside things they can ignore their inner problems. The problem is, just like exercise, healing IS growth. After spring term I was feeling really burned out and struggled to make it through the end of classes, so during the next two weeks I basically lounged around the house, watched livestreams, and played games with friends. I hadn't had any guilt-free free time for almost a year, and since then I feel like I have more enthusiasm and perspective about life than I did for the entire last year. This proves to me that mental rest is absolutely as important as physical rest for growth. Really glad you're taking care of yourself, I was starting to wonder what had happened to you!
This is as candid as it gets on TH-cam. Burnout is a bitch, and that anxiety pre/post sleep is a real struggle. Journalling is what helps me get through it. All the best brother, as the other comments are saying on this video. You will achieve great things. Best of luck figuring out what 'great' means for you. We're all trying to do the same :)
You are very inspiring in my life. The way you remind everyone that we are all human. I recognize the struggles you are feeling right now, and that hit me. Even any one who seem so productive in their own way, no one can pull everything through without rest. Thanks for reminding me that.
Thank you John, i'm in grade 9 and you really motivate me to work harder for my goals. I was struggling for the past 2 years in highschool but this year I have really improved not only my grades but my overall perspective on life.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK !!!! P.S.:Amazing video,I wish that more people understand that sometimes the biggest success it to learn how to rest.
Thank you for this video, I've also been struggling and I think I was feeling the same way as you. Taking some time off is needed 😇 A friend of mine always said "Balance is Perfection", your words reminded me of him. Stay awesome and much success to you😇
I love this video. It’s so honest, and I can relate to this so much, I’ve been struggling the same way. Now I feel burnt out. Rest is just as important as being productive.
I am so glad I came across your channel... i can honestly say u have given me tools that I can use to pursue my goals. Just want to say thank you. Wish u nothing but the best John. Get your rest and unwind my friend, looking forward to your future content
hah you published this vid during my struggling time! I know what you are talking about truly. I didn't take 5 days off after complete huge project and instead I lost 14 days doing nothing because I struggled a lot during first days of July. Best greeting and be good soon mate!
I've been thinking a lot recently, struggling as hell. I can totally relate. And it's so nice to know that I'm not alone. Thank you for your shares and wisdom advice.
Thanks. I have been studying for 10+ hours straight these past few days, and only yesterday, when I experienced a bad headache and felt faint, did I realize that I have been pushing myself way too hard. I sort of had been starving myself as if I was punishing myself, and honestly it was a dumb move. I have been struggling with depression, anxiety and the feeling of failure all my life, so I thought maybe going all out with my studies would be a relief and all that. Something that would make me feel valued and actually have a purpose to go on. Although getting good grades didn’t make me as happy as I thought I would have been. It’s hard to understand, no one does, really. But thank you for this video. You reminded me that I needed to rest, to blow off steam and be free of what’s been chaining me these past few days. So I took a day off today, not studying or reading, and just took my friends out for lunch. I did felt relaxed for once. Gah, this was a long write. Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! With your outlook towards life and personality, you will definitely change people’s lives. Keep it up, dude! 🙌🏻
I just graduated university and am very much in a struggle period. Watching this video was really refreshing and made me feel less lonely. It's as if I know that I need to rest and get some head space but every time I leave it for a few hours, I feel guilty and the stress piles up. Would be great to make some more vids for us strugglers!!
You are amazing!! So wise and with such a kind and thoughtful soul. I enjoy watching your content and hope you have a wonderful bit of summer before school starts up again!
Hey John! Thanks for sharing your struggles with us, it’s super cool the way you inspire us not to give up after a mistake or a failure or anything I mean people like you, geniuses like everybody else have failures too, they do mistakes and we all are same, we all do mistakes, cuz nobody’s perfect, but some people prefer not to give up and crush it, while others don’t even want to try again and give up. That’s sad
I have always seen TH-cam and being a TH-cam like being forced to make something valuable but you saying that it’s simply wanting to connect with people just put a lot of pressure out of my shoulders and now i have my reasons to become 🙏🏻❤️ tanks for ur contents love them all
Your video helped me to realize that rest is growth and recovery, and it helps with our mental status for prevention of breakdowns when times are hard. Awesome video John
Thank you for this video! I needed to hear this. Have been struggling with anxiety and it feels like I have hit a wall the last couple of weeks. I need to rest to grow and to be me again. Thank you
John, I have to say, I'm a big fan of your videos, I stumbled across your channel whilst looking for book recommendations, your videos have a lot to offer, and you talk with lots of passion and always have a positive/informative message, keep it up man! 😄
I appreciate your honesty, it's so refreshing. We're all human and being a human is tough shit lol great perspective and great attitude. Keep on moving forward, bud
So nice of you to come up with this video. I think it's really important to have such videos and content from youtubers/ social media influencers so that people don't get misled by an illusion that's created on the social media. Everyone's profiles and pages are like a repository of the high points of one's life, not the entire life! Crucial to have such content out there.
I really needed to hear this , since I started watching your channel I’ve always looked up to how hardworking and passionate you are and I always blamed myself for the times I assumed I wasn’t working as hard / not 24/7 365 as you said , so thank you for sharing this! 💖
Excellent commentary. Vulnerability is how you learn the most about yourself and others. Thank you for being open with us and for your careful insights and reflection.
I understand completely where you're coming from and wish you all the best my man. This video has also inspired me to develop to be a better person and try this mentality in my own life, I am so grateful I found your channel. I must say you are such an entertaining person to listen to. I have watched many other youtubers try to create these types of videos and others like it (a commentary or whatnot), and it is so great to see that you can deliver this amazing video and inspiring talk in one take. As compared to others who constantly cut and edit in order for themselves to not become boring or repetitive while you have kept me engaged the whole video.
Keep up the awesome content dude and make sure to relax and have fun with it. You've really motivated me to improve myself and I've been reading a lot more sense your video about a book a week.
Hello john , i really hope you will feel better soon and the anxiety will gradually wear away . You are a very honest and brave person because i know there's a non-ending depth to the words we use when we want to describe our negative feelings or downfalls so i totally understand how brave and willing to be positive you are . While watching your video a thought crossed my mind and that is how there's a current social pressure where rest is considered a crucial part of progress but unfortunately it's approached in a stressful manner . It's like people stress themselves out to have rest .personally i believe rest has no actual specific form or rules , it could be just freeing yourself from the norms of whatever you've been doing or just changing your mindset and priorities for a short period of time . What you're passing through is the most relevant thing ever and coming from a person who's got straight stars in their igcse's i know how it feels to see people think you're always grinding , please dont let that upset you . You're a wonderful person , i wish you a very pleasant stay at harvard and a happy future wherever you go afterwards.
“It’s exciting. Learning to deal with things like this, is an opportunity.” I absolutely love this approach. Thank you for showing me I can look at my failures and anxiety in a new perspective :)
Glad to know you’ve been doing alright, been wondering where you’ve been. It takes a lot to expose this side of your life, but I’m glad you did it, it’s so relatable for everyone and a reminder that no one is perfect. Take care love!
This shows that you are a genuine person. I have been through something similar, wherein the team which I work with at office was asked to put in as many hours as possible. That took away our weekends as well. Now we have entered into a lean period for some time, and hence are getting a little time for ourselves. I can definitely see the differences!!
I am really happy that I found your channel. I have been struggling as well with College but I know I will get better and live my life with intensity and passion!
You’re so awesome. Youre so inspirational and so thoughtful. I can never get enough of your videos, and I really appreciate the explanation :) glad to hear you’re doing well, but I also love that you embrace struggling and failing because that’s a big part of being a human.
... I love your sincerity... this world needs more people like you... as a student ... I learnt the same thing.. rest and take care of ourselves it’s the most important thing in the world. Thanks for your video. 🙂
Love your honesty in the video, when we see a Harvard student we simply imagine you all have it all together. But you were clear and honest about it humbly.
Excellent video. I've learnt from my second year at university the exact same. I'd spend the day revising, then watching youtube, then revising etc. It's a vicious cycle. My brain wouldn't have the same focus, I'd get more stressed, more tired and most importantly my brain wouldn't process information. Sleeping, exercising and socialising are the keys to success when studying.
Same thing is happening to me from few weeks. Now, I know I'm not the only one. Not taking rest was a bad idea, all the fire and energy i had, its all gone. Thanks for sharing 👍
Burn-out syndrome happened to me in my junior year in college too. I also learned how important resting and relaxing are. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Hi John, Im also taking computer science as my choice of degree (second year now) and I could say that it has been very stressful for me. I've had my ups and downs, mental breakdown, gave up, I've cried and all sorts of depressing things (and I'm a guy :D). Trust me, life was difficult for me. Then, I saw your videos, it inspired me. I started a journal, my time management has improved and I've started living my life to the fullest. I read books and made time for my hobby (drawing, etc...). So thank you for changing me. And as a fellow CS student, your my inspiration + hero. Stay strong, dude. :D
Nice to see you again, John. I’m learning too much with your lessons and insights. It’s normal you burned out, because you don’t stop anytime (I guess) and it’s good that you know that. I’m from Angola and 24/7 I speak Portuguese, so I’m not only learning “how to be productive” or how to be who I wanna be, but I’m improving my speaking and listening skills in English. I really miss you, guy. Nice to see you again, again. Now, in Portuguese: Muito Obrigado, John!
Struggle is an indication of growth. What doesn't challenge you, doesn't change you
Shirleen O someone’s watched Rocky a few too much times Haha
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#truth
There is not always direct correlation
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger
What I most like about your channel is that you are human.
Felipe carmo Brasil? 🇧🇷
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Felipe carmo why other youtubers are animals??
You’re comment about privilege....yeah..you’re an incredible kid. To have that perspective at your age is one of a kind. I’m 33 years old and I didn’t have that perspective in my early 20s. You will go far in life. Onward and Upward.
Joshua Mueller i reAlly really love how you are so humble! Not easy to say
"Would that guy be strong? No. No, that guy would be injured immediately..." idk why but I laughed so hard at that. Love you're videos man. You always bring up some really interesting topics. I remember thinking to myself a couple months back "Man this guy really has it all figured out". Thanks for keeping it real with us.
Yeah and then he would rest for two days.
Висша сила! Благодаря ти! Rich Piana is also floating up to his neck in gear. Not really someone to look up to.
You can’t compare a guy who’s been on gear for years to an average lifter, you missed the point
D B wasn’t talkin 2 u buddy
D B however I think you’re right
Well I totally understand u John.
I have to do 2 exams and complete the MSc thesis in bioinformatics in 2 months. Plus, studying Python and making application for PhD (really REALLY time consuming). I totally understand you and I can say that in case I won't be able to graduate at the end of September I will be ok too. Many students from my year are already graduating right now, these days. (I have SMA condition, just saying)
But they are not living my life,they are not learning programming, because they do Biology. I am doing Biology and trying to learn Informatics together. I chose this way. It will be my future.
But I know that it won't be the end of the world if I will lose some good PhD opportunity because of my different attitude.
Just do what u can. Take your time. I won't be able to be 100 focused if before breakfast I would not read my 4 5 pages of a book, now it is The Pillars of the earth KF.
Take your time.
Greetings, from Italy.
I respect you a lot. I hope all goes well with your studies!
Of course I am fortunate. I love biology, and I forced my self to like bioinformatics too, since it is the only way through which I can fulfill a biology career. Bioinformatics did not exist 15 years ago. I am very lucky.
Still, it was very hard to compete with let's say normal people, every day. Now it is quite hard and challenging. But this is also because I am 28 y.o. This guy, John, is so young, he has a very growth mindset. If he will be able not to loose his focus in the next 5 6 years, he will do great things.
In the future you will look back and you will thank yourself, good luck 😊
Hari Seldon Im on my last Bachelor Exams and I am really scared. Got 1 month left for 5 exams. I know I can do it but the fear kinda restricts me.
@Hari Seldon. Count the number of "I"s and "my"s in the comments you've written. Then reread what these lovely people wrote to you and thank them for their caring comments. I'd suspect one of your bigger issues is selfishness. With that said i still found your story interesting and inspiring. Just remember to thank the people who deserve it along the way.
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i read 3 books since the last video due to motivation you gave =)
Yurner0oo0 i’m finishing two! it’s really nice to follow John :)
Congrats. Keep it up.
Thanks. Of course) I already ordered 3 more. Can't wait until it's come.
btw not sure if i'm writing correct because i also learn english as a 2nd language. And have to say that for me John's videos helps in this case too =)
i've read 2! :D
Wow, you guys are awesome. I'm gonna watch it after this haha
As someone who's studying computer science (a dream/plan of mine since I was 14) while recovering from 5 years of severe chronic depression and other mental disorders (yes, diagnosed and all), I love seeing these honest videos of yours where you explain that even productive people like you struggle sometimes.
They remind me that I am not failing my recovery if I still struggle from time to time, because that's something healthy people are not fully protected from either, they are just more protected than I am.
Sometimes I feel bad because I am taking things very slow and still struggle a bunch, but if healthy people still struggle in their normal-paced lives, than I, as a mentally ill person, am totally allowed to struggle just as much in a slower paced schedule.
It's something I have to remind myself of every single day, and your videos about this stuff really help with that.
And on the other hand your productivity vidoes make me look forward to when I can work at my full potential again, because when I am in a good phase, I can be just as much of a workerbee as you in your good times.
Just gotta be patient, I am out of the roughest phases of depression by now, so it's not that much of a long road ahead for me anymore.
Needleworker's Realm I almost cried with your comment. I'm also dealing with mental health problems and lately I had been feeling useless and really slow. But your comment really change the perspective I had of all that. Thank you
Needleworker's Realm quick question: did you have prior programming training before enrolling for computer science?
You have depression because you think you have depression. Once you condition your brain into you having mental issues it gets reality. The real thing is to solve the issue causing that and not the depression itself
Your sentences are clearer and more coherent than most of the "normal" people haha, you should not underestimate your inteligence
not cool men, don't speak without knowledge
needed to hear this
Honestly saw some of your videos, in your channel and thought wow, this guy is a robot. Seeing this made me realise he is human. Dude, life matters. Rest Matters, doing nothing is a doing something. Be happy don't cramp things to increase productivity. I am just gonna subscribe to you just for this channel. Finally some truth
It’s so refreshing to see some honesty on this platform. This video earned my subscribe to say the least.
I originally deicided to watch your videos for learning English and got motivations for studying, but I also fell for your thoughts and other features that are hard to explain. I know this is an really old video but I hope you're always doing very well☺️
Ahhhhhh I just made a video about my mental health called ‘coming out of depression’ and I was sooooo scared to post it and put myself out there. Seeing other people make vulnerable videos about mental health really inspires me so thank you so much for making this💗
This video is so great,because this past week I've been struggling really badly in studies and haven't been able to manage time or even get enough sleep. It's so great to see you show your authentic self because that normalizes failure and makes me feel like IT'S OKAY EVERYONE GOES THROUGH IT. So thanks a lot
I agree that taking time off is a key aspect of growth. It's often over summer break that I spend time on reflecting and coming up with new ways to approach the next school year. Take as much time off wherever and whenever you need John. By doing so, you can become a much more well-rounded person and produce quality videos for us. I'm excited that you're back!
So true
Spifey wtf spifey... two random creators (no offence) that i like, completely different, just showing up wow! Hi spifey if you’re reading this!
How'd you end up here
why is there a warless in the coment section??...
Spifey Wow i never thought i would see you here
I actually watch you. Spifey is a Minecraft gamer just like me.
I love this message, it really resonated with me. I, and I assume everyone else as well, appreciate this sort of honesty. Thank you for doing that!
There’s so much to do and so much going on that we try to involve ourselves in all of it. Sometimes I have to realize that I can only do one thing at a time and rest is definitely important and sometimes neglected.
You are like the brother that I always wanted...thanks for always inspiring me to do better I start my 3rd semester of college next month and strive to be amazing like you😌
Thank you sooo much for caring yourself!! We are waiting for your amazing videos! And your words are so comforting.. Thank you!! We believe in you!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼
I saw all of ur videos it really really really helped me out in all ways
Thank you so much for being here I needed you and your words.
Wow. Your videos always come at just the right time. I've been struggling, suffering with anxiety and feeling ovehwelmed. I've taken a week of to rest. Three days in, I'm starting to feel like me again - however, I was feeling guilty for taking time off, but this video is a reminder that we all need a bit of 'me' time, from time to time. We're not machines, we're not robots, we're human and need to rejuvenate from time to time.
Dammit, John. I was just starting my project and your notification shows up 😂. Now I gotta stop everything and watch
This is really what I needed right now. I felt bad for slowing down my activities in the last days and this video helps me a lot. I don't know how you always know what to do to help other people but this video surely helps many students.
Also I'm sorry for my English (I am no native speaker)
Don't worry about your English, it's pretty good. It didn't cross my mind you're not a native speaker, till I read your sentence saying you're not. As for non-native versus native speakers: a motivated non-native speaker can learn English better than native speakers who are not motivated. Take that from a non-native speaker who almost speaks English better than her mother tongue.
Hey John I appreciate you keeping it real in all your videos watching your videos have helped grow just in the past few months, thanks!
this guy is so dedicated to everything he does and his passion is so genuine, he’s a literal role model. he’s legit my inspiration
I understand your situation completely.... Totally relatable but that was because I took it for granted that when I was on the verge losing everything... I realized what I had.. I was stressed, anxious, half-dead..now I realize just live life for each moment and I loved every second of what I did.. with passion. Thanks for your amazing advice.. And inspiring me to join Harvard.. :)
Fariz TGK no harvard is hard omg someone a individual in social media said a Harvard kid kill himself becus he got an -A in a class omg pls don’t go
Johan Chrispin listen,I know full well how that stuff works and I appreciate your concern but Im not one to kill myself I don't regret anything...I learn from my mistakes knowing full well I'll make a mistake today and not being unhappy but rather excited that tomorrow I'm gonna be a wiser person.. the girl I loved with all my heart killed herself as well, I know how crippling the depression can be for your loved ones and ,therefore, I learn and try...picking myself up and giving it my all to achieve what lays ahead of me and accepting it thusly. I am pursuing excellence, not success...because aiming for success will blind you, while on the other hand, if you have excellence... success will pursue YOU.. besides I'm ready to chase my dream in computing... I'm 4 grades ahead in maths and I could have a job as a game developer if I so wanted.. but that would take not only my chance to learn much much more from those who made mistakes, including myself, but also would stop me from living life like the teen that I am.....once again thank you for your time and for your concern..may God bless you, everyone and all of his creations.... Take care!
Fariz TGK omg wat a beautiful letter I appreciate it n may god be wit u too wish u best of luck n also I love that part where u said don’t aiming for success will blind u instead excellent becus success will pursue u omg I was always thought aiming for success was the key to being fulfilled omg like Steve jobs once said “don’t settle for anything less then excellence” OMG take care much love sincerely johan🙂
Yup, you too...take care,
Fariz.
Hey John, just wanted to say that I'm happy you're okay. I was afraid you were not too well. Stay strong :)
You are by far my favorite channel. I love your honesty and how you share every aspect of your life, both good and bad. All of your advice really means a lot as it resembles what I am currently going through as well. The idea of rest seemed crazy to me, as I used to believe that I had to be productive every single day of the year. It's taking a lot of work, but I'm finally allowing myself to just chill for a bit. I hope you keep on resting, you deserve it!
Just discovered your channel and have been binge watching for the past 2 days and I loved your genuine honesty and humbleness in this video. I know many people look at others and fail to realize that we are all human and can be restless at times. This brief vid was very inspiring.
Amazing video John,
I’m currently on a rest right now from TH-cam as well. People don’t understand how hard platforms like TH-cam can be. Keep your head up!
THANK YOU for this video John. As someone that works hard, sometimes too hard, and experiences burnout, I’m so grateful that you shared this lesson with your audience. It’s such an important and under appreciated idea
I love how raw your videos are. it was oddly comforting and relaxing to listen :)
John Fish!! 😭😭😭 Thank You so much for sharing this!! Thank You so much for being TRUE. I overthink a lot and I struggle thinking that I’m the only confused person in this world because everyone seem to have their life together. But this video opened my heart and my mind. It’s helping me to embrace myself, accept my flaws, cherish my failures, and love myself. Thank You John Fish!!! You inspire me to be true 💗 All the love to you - You’re the man
I consider you as my brother, I've been struggling a lot few months i luckily found out your channel and things started to fall into places gradually. I learnt good lessons from you i adapted your ways of dealing with things and i also started with day planning as you do.
I sat back and i started to read book you suggested, i usually didn't read much but i gave it a shot i found out its a way you talk to great successful people. I also love computers and now im learning how to code and really im loving it. I stopped and i looked back and gave a thought i learnt i lack in discipline, im trying to achieve my goals i write before sleep for the next day and its showing good results. I would always remember you, your efforts did made a difference. its been 15 days I've been checking into this channel and it made me a complete different personality.
All The Best :)
Dude. I needed this. I feel what you have been going through so hard right now. I took no break after school finished this summer and truly regret that decision. I get my break in two weeks and I know, like you have said, I need the break. I need the rest. Everyone does once in a while. It just helps to clear your mind and not worry about anything in the word. Never stop growing.
Dude I've been watching your videos lately and I love them but they were making me feel bad about myself sometimes because I was perceiving you as perfect. Mental health is a big road block for me a lot of the time. I'm really glad you showed your human side, it really puts things into perspective.
I always seem to come across one of your videos when I need it the most. Thank you for being so honest and open. I think you're absolutely lovely and brilliant. I admire you. I took this past semester off because school was getting to me so badly. I've been feeling guilty about it, but I suppose this was my resting period. I think I'm ready to go back now. Truly, thank you.
Love the honesty. Thank you for keeping it real John. Loved your message in this video.
This is so inspiring. Such was my experience in my first year into architecture. It was more of art and I barely new how to hold a paint brush, let alone knowing of the different series of the 'B' pencil. Worst part is that everyone around me looked like they had it all figured out. Not once, not twice, did I get myself blasted by my lecturers. I was the class punching bag. I felt like a living joke for the first time in my life yet deep within me I knew I was more than capable of doing better. At one point in the second semester I just felt I had had enough and I decided to step aside for two weeks. There were thoughts of switching courses and everything but I'm grateful for a close friend of mine, Eric, who pulled my hand and brought me back on track. Second year has passed and in my own analysis, I have grown a lot in my academics and as a person. Currently catching up on a few reads to boost my self being and all and I must say I feel confident again in a long while. Most notably, "Start With Why" by Simon Sinek and "Tough times don't last, but Tough people do" by Robert Schuller have stood out for me. My only prayer is that in this third year that's fast approaching, I can compound my progress. Cheers from KE!
This guy is so real....
Hi John, I want to say thank you for sharing with us your struggles and growth. It is warm to see someone in a similar age to struggle but more importantly to struggle together. Thank you John.
Thank you for always being so honest and transparent with us! Can't get enough of your wisdom!
Your comments about growth with relation to working out are very intriguing. A lot of people think that its a waste of time to work on themselves and if they just focus on outside things they can ignore their inner problems. The problem is, just like exercise, healing IS growth.
After spring term I was feeling really burned out and struggled to make it through the end of classes, so during the next two weeks I basically lounged around the house, watched livestreams, and played games with friends. I hadn't had any guilt-free free time for almost a year, and since then I feel like I have more enthusiasm and perspective about life than I did for the entire last year. This proves to me that mental rest is absolutely as important as physical rest for growth. Really glad you're taking care of yourself, I was starting to wonder what had happened to you!
This is as candid as it gets on TH-cam. Burnout is a bitch, and that anxiety pre/post sleep is a real struggle. Journalling is what helps me get through it.
All the best brother, as the other comments are saying on this video. You will achieve great things. Best of luck figuring out what 'great' means for you. We're all trying to do the same :)
Hey! Thanks for your honesty. Take care of yourself. You have a LOT going on. : )
Listening to you talk about your struggle really made me feel better about where I have been lately. Thanks for opening up to us.
I love the way you express yourself! ❤️ and sure we all struggle with many things. Thank you for sharing this video!
You are very inspiring in my life. The way you remind everyone that we are all human. I recognize the struggles you are feeling right now, and that hit me. Even any one who seem so productive in their own way, no one can pull everything through without rest. Thanks for reminding me that.
Great quote you mentioned and it’s true. People tend to fail when they aspire towards greater things and through that they learn how to succeed!
Thank you John, i'm in grade 9 and you really motivate me to work harder for my goals. I was struggling for the past 2 years in highschool but this year I have really improved not only my grades but my overall perspective on life.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK !!!!
P.S.:Amazing video,I wish that more people understand that sometimes the biggest success it to learn how to rest.
Thank you so much for sharing this fam. Been watching you for awhile now and I really appreciate the message in this one. Thank you
Thank you for this video, I've also been struggling and I think I was feeling the same way as you. Taking some time off is needed 😇 A friend of mine always said "Balance is Perfection", your words reminded me of him. Stay awesome and much success to you😇
I love this video. It’s so honest, and I can relate to this so much, I’ve been struggling the same way. Now I feel burnt out. Rest is just as important as being productive.
You’re so real! Your voice is very comforting, and thank you for sharing what you feel.
I am so glad I came across your channel... i can honestly say u have given me tools that I can use to pursue my goals. Just want to say thank you. Wish u nothing but the best John. Get your rest and unwind my friend, looking forward to your future content
hah you published this vid during my struggling time! I know what you are talking about truly. I didn't take 5 days off after complete huge project and instead I lost 14 days doing nothing because I struggled a lot during first days of July.
Best greeting and be good soon mate!
I've been thinking a lot recently, struggling as hell. I can totally relate. And it's so nice to know that I'm not alone. Thank you for your shares and wisdom advice.
No, thank you man. Ur vidoes are so motivational. I've seen most of them in a few days. Keep on doing what you do and good luck.
Thanks. I have been studying for 10+ hours straight these past few days, and only yesterday, when I experienced a bad headache and felt faint, did I realize that I have been pushing myself way too hard. I sort of had been starving myself as if I was punishing myself, and honestly it was a dumb move. I have been struggling with depression, anxiety and the feeling of failure all my life, so I thought maybe going all out with my studies would be a relief and all that. Something that would make me feel valued and actually have a purpose to go on. Although getting good grades didn’t make me as happy as I thought I would have been. It’s hard to understand, no one does, really. But thank you for this video. You reminded me that I needed to rest, to blow off steam and be free of what’s been chaining me these past few days. So I took a day off today, not studying or reading, and just took my friends out for lunch. I did felt relaxed for once. Gah, this was a long write. Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! With your outlook towards life and personality, you will definitely change people’s lives. Keep it up, dude! 🙌🏻
I just graduated university and am very much in a struggle period. Watching this video was really refreshing and made me feel less lonely. It's as if I know that I need to rest and get some head space but every time I leave it for a few hours, I feel guilty and the stress piles up. Would be great to make some more vids for us strugglers!!
Thank you for being so fricking honest and trying to explain what other people just don’t want to talk about. Thank you for being you. Thanks.
I was honestly feeling this rn thanks for this man I appreciate you trying to help us from your experiences
You are amazing!! So wise and with such a kind and thoughtful soul. I enjoy watching your content and hope you have a wonderful bit of summer before school starts up again!
Hey John! Thanks for sharing your struggles with us, it’s super cool the way you inspire us not to give up after a mistake or a failure or anything
I mean people like you, geniuses like everybody else have failures too, they do mistakes and we all are same, we all do mistakes, cuz nobody’s perfect, but some people prefer not to give up and crush it, while others don’t even want to try again and give up. That’s sad
I have always seen TH-cam and being a TH-cam like being forced to make something valuable but you saying that it’s simply wanting to connect with people just put a lot of pressure out of my shoulders and now i have my reasons to become 🙏🏻❤️ tanks for ur contents love them all
Your video helped me to realize that rest is growth and recovery, and it helps with our mental status for prevention of breakdowns when times are hard. Awesome video John
Your energy is so infectious! You inspire me so much and I’m glad you’re back !
Always gonna support you and this channel, can’t tell you how much I’ve learned from you, so thank you for that John
Thank you for this video! I needed to hear this. Have been struggling with anxiety and it feels like I have hit a wall the last couple of weeks. I need to rest to grow and to be me again. Thank you
A friendly reminder: no struggle no gain
A im pretty sure its "no pain no gain" ?
michael_rosen lol I know but I'm trying to help here!!!
A yeah ik just felt The need to point that out :)
John, I have to say, I'm a big fan of your videos, I stumbled across your channel whilst looking for book recommendations, your videos have a lot to offer, and you talk with lots of passion and always have a positive/informative message, keep it up man! 😄
I appreciate your honesty, it's so refreshing. We're all human and being a human is tough shit lol great perspective and great attitude. Keep on moving forward, bud
So nice of you to come up with this video. I think it's really important to have such videos and content from youtubers/ social media influencers so that people don't get misled by an illusion that's created on the social media. Everyone's profiles and pages are like a repository of the high points of one's life, not the entire life! Crucial to have such content out there.
I really needed to hear this , since I started watching your channel I’ve always looked up to how hardworking and passionate you are and I always blamed myself for the times I assumed I wasn’t working as hard / not 24/7 365 as you said , so thank you for sharing this! 💖
Excellent commentary. Vulnerability is how you learn the most about yourself and others. Thank you for being open with us and for your careful insights and reflection.
Thank you for being so real and so honest. This is what makes your videos truly motivational!
I understand completely where you're coming from and wish you all the best my man. This video has also inspired me to develop to be a better person and try this mentality in my own life, I am so grateful I found your channel. I must say you are such an entertaining person to listen to. I have watched many other youtubers try to create these types of videos and others like it (a commentary or whatnot), and it is so great to see that you can deliver this amazing video and inspiring talk in one take. As compared to others who constantly cut and edit in order for themselves to not become boring or repetitive while you have kept me engaged the whole video.
Keep up the awesome content dude and make sure to relax and have fun with it. You've really motivated me to improve myself and I've been reading a lot more sense your video about a book a week.
Enjoy your time away from school and make happy memories with friends and family so you have more energy. well deserved, and keep going!! 🙏🙏💪💪
Hello john , i really hope you will feel better soon and the anxiety will gradually wear away . You are a very honest and brave person because i know there's a non-ending depth to the words we use when we want to describe our negative feelings or downfalls so i totally understand how brave and willing to be positive you are . While watching your video a thought crossed my mind and that is how there's a current social pressure where rest is considered a crucial part of progress but unfortunately it's approached in a stressful manner . It's like people stress themselves out to have rest .personally i believe rest has no actual specific form or rules , it could be just freeing yourself from the norms of whatever you've been doing or just changing your mindset and priorities for a short period of time . What you're passing through is the most relevant thing ever and coming from a person who's got straight stars in their igcse's i know how it feels to see people think you're always grinding , please dont let that upset you . You're a wonderful person , i wish you a very pleasant stay at harvard and a happy future wherever you go afterwards.
“It’s exciting. Learning to deal with things like this, is an opportunity.” I absolutely love this approach. Thank you for showing me I can look at my failures and anxiety in a new perspective :)
I'm in the same boat as you, I've been struggling a lot with mental health,your video has cheered me a bit.
Sameer Vedula 👍
Glad to know you’ve been doing alright, been wondering where you’ve been. It takes a lot to expose this side of your life, but I’m glad you did it, it’s so relatable for everyone and a reminder that no one is perfect. Take care love!
Great video John, strikes a balance and complements all the other videos. Some important points on rest and recharging.
This shows that you are a genuine person.
I have been through something similar, wherein the team which I work with at office was asked to put in as many hours as possible. That took away our weekends as well. Now we have entered into a lean period for some time, and hence are getting a little time for ourselves.
I can definitely see the differences!!
Love your channel. Love the messages and perspectives you're sharing with the world. That's all, Thanks for reading!
I am really happy that I found your channel. I have been struggling as well with College but I know I will get better and live my life with intensity and passion!
You’re so awesome. Youre so inspirational and so thoughtful. I can never get enough of your videos, and I really appreciate the explanation :) glad to hear you’re doing well, but I also love that you embrace struggling and failing because that’s a big part of being a human.
... I love your sincerity... this world needs more people like you... as a student ... I learnt the same thing.. rest and take care of ourselves it’s the most important thing in the world. Thanks for your video. 🙂
Love your honesty in the video, when we see a Harvard student we simply imagine you all have it all together. But you were clear and honest about it humbly.
I appreciate your value John!
Keep doing that.
Excellent video. I've learnt from my second year at university the exact same. I'd spend the day revising, then watching youtube, then revising etc. It's a vicious cycle. My brain wouldn't have the same focus, I'd get more stressed, more tired and most importantly my brain wouldn't process information. Sleeping, exercising and socialising are the keys to success when studying.
Same thing is happening to me from few weeks. Now, I know I'm not the only one. Not taking rest was a bad idea, all the fire and energy i had, its all gone. Thanks for sharing 👍
You my friend, are a hard working, tenacious individual. As seen through viewing your content, your drive will impact the success you will achieve.
Love your videos dude, you're one of the most genuine people on this platform!
Take care of yourself bro :)
Burn-out syndrome happened to me in my junior year in college too. I also learned how important resting and relaxing are. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Hi John, Im also taking computer science as my choice of degree (second year now) and I could say that it has been very stressful for me. I've had my ups and downs, mental breakdown, gave up, I've cried and all sorts of depressing things (and I'm a guy :D). Trust me, life was difficult for me. Then, I saw your videos, it inspired me. I started a journal, my time management has improved and I've started living my life to the fullest. I read books and made time for my hobby (drawing, etc...). So thank you for changing me. And as a fellow CS student, your my inspiration + hero. Stay strong, dude. :D
Nice to see you again, John. I’m learning too much with your lessons and insights. It’s normal you burned out, because you don’t stop anytime (I guess) and it’s good that you know that. I’m from Angola and 24/7 I speak Portuguese, so I’m not only learning “how to be productive” or how to be who I wanna be, but I’m improving my speaking and listening skills in English. I really miss you, guy. Nice to see you again, again.
Now, in Portuguese: Muito Obrigado, John!
The fact that the video is uncut makes it much better.
Thanks for being so transparent with all of us.