4 Important Keys to Make Him Fall In Love
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ค. 2024
- So you want a man to fall in love with you, eh? Well here are for 4 important keys (and one CRITICAL PRINCIPLE) that will make a man want to dive in HEART FIRST :)
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How do I get a man to fall in love with me? What's the key to attracting love? How do I make a man fall for me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so here is a video sharing the most important things you NEED to keep in mind if you want to win a man's heart for good.
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0:00 Intro
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0:43 You Get To Give Him Something to Fall Into
1:38 He Needs A Clear Target So He Knows Where to Jump
3:30 He Needs to See and Feel Your Depth Before He Leaps
5:49 Make Him Understand That The Water Is Warm
10:15 What Is Your Dominant Emotional Set Point?
9:41 Ensure That The Current Is Calm and Smooth
13:31 Recap
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Sweethearts, here are Mat's 4:
1. He needs a clear target of you (boundaries, likes and dislikes)
2. He needs to see and feel your depth (deep questions, vulnerability)
3. Make him understand that the water is warm (emotional safety, 5 love languages, praises)
4. The current is steady and calm (your inner dialog, are you emotional stable, look after yourself, love yourself, be positive)
well done Irma! thank you!
Thanks Irma 😊
As usual, it's such a pleasure listening to your wise words 👏👏 Thank You Mat ☺️☺️
5. Have a Life...that doesn't include him. Men love a challenge!
Thank you for the summary, I took notes 🙂
His eye colour is amazing
Just the way he explains in depth with great examples to remember what he is explaining.
Yes, he's one of my blue-eyed guys!
Cause it’s blue 😂
that’s exactly what i was thinking aqua color
I really like the shorter hair style. That, along with the lip hair and beard, shows how handsome he is. I like his videos and great information.
*Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.*
Provide Emotional Safety
Treat yourself like someone you LOVE
Ensure the current is CALM and SMOOTH
Ask Quality Questions
Be vulnerable and set the stage
Cater to his love languages
you got it Taymar!!!
I am always hot for my husband after 47 years married...got married at 23....we still got it.
Happy to hear that!
Inner dialogue is definitely something I have to stay consciously aware of
Exactly you got it Santos Acosta!
I listen to advice when it’s given in this way calm voice I have sensitive hearing issues,thank you for not yelling.
Thank you so much!
Treat yourself like someone you love
Thanks so much my dear!
So true! Thank you 😊
Right on, Mat!
Love your new backdrop, Mat! 😍
Great points, thank you!
Yay, thank you Ladanii! Yes we are very excited about the new studio set up, appreciate that feedback :)
I absolutely loved this video. Amazing advices, analogies and examples! Thank you so much.
Glad it was helpful!
Love when you summarize all the important points at the end of the video!
Glad you like it!
Absolutely another great video thank you so much Mat!!
Thanks so much Sharon! Glad you liked it! 🙏❤️
I LOVE how you shot this video!! I LOVE the natural light and the background setting. GREAT JOB!!! I hope you continue to use this background and lighting set up for all your videos. AMAZING JOB!!!
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Mat is spot on and most informative with all his subjects.
Thank you Susan🙏❤
One of the BEST videos I have watched! Wonderfully honest information expressed authentically. Thanks Mat!
You are so welcome Kiva Girl! 🙏
This video is all I need, thank you!❤
You're welcome!
These are great tips Matt, you are the best relationship coach on YT.
Thank you so much Natalia Wisniewska, your beautiful words truly touch my heart! It's my honor and purpose to support you 🙏❤️
Amazing, briliant, breaktrough content. Thank you so, so much, Mat. 🤗🙂
Thanks so much Týna Turková! 🙏❤️
Oh Thank you so very much Mat! This is such vital information! You make it so interesting and easy to understand! I truly appreciate and admire your genuine approach and heartfelt encouragement! Best, Linda
Thank you so much your beautiful words, Linda R 🙏❤️
I like how you did a recap Mat. Thank you! 🙂
Thanks so much Teresa Nunez! 🙏❤️
I love to watch Mat's videos because most of them are so accurate and the biggest point is, Mat's explanation in all of his video. He explained the points and elaborates it clearly every time. Big thanks, Mat!
You are welcome! I appreciate that🙂
Mat, thank you for the wise words. You are so much more informative than any other one on here! I appreciate your time.
My pleasure!
Another great video mat thank you ❤️
Glad you enjoyed it!
Amazing. Love the style and deeply involved motivational tools.
Glad you like it!
Such a great video from a great coach, thanks Matt.
My pleasure! Hope it helps
Thank you for such a great and precise good advice.
You are so welcome rolita12! 🙏
Happy Birthday Mat 🥳! I am so that that you have finally found your purpose! Your journey has lead you straight to where you are today. I appreciate the wisdom that you share with me. I will admit, I have had somewhat of a difficult journey myself, but in different ways. I am starting to realize that I live within my comfort zone. I am a shy woman. I am beginning to understand why I am the way I am. Now it is time to reform into a new me. Thank you for your encouragement and words of wisdom 🤗.
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
Great analogy with the pool and depth of ocean. I put in my notes for reference
Thank you so much!
Thank you. Very valuable information.
Glad it was helpful!
This dominant emotional set point concept is really resonating.
good!!
Thank you so much for sharing this incredible video with us❤️❤️❤️
So glad you enjoyed it! :)
Love the new set up Mat. These are some really great tips to remember and to live by!
Thanks so much angela! 🙏❤️
Awesome and beautiful advice. Thank you ❤
You're welcome😊
Best video i watched today. Thank you mat❤
Wow, thanks! really appreciate that
Great video and I love the new backdrop :)
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Love all these Matt!!!
Thank you!
So inspired and deeply touched by what you shared in this video ! Thank you Mat !❤
Thanks so much too!
A really valuable video Mat thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful! :)
Dear Mat! Congratulations! Best wishes for your personal and professional life! You are sweetest man and kindest soul!
Thank you! You too!
Your videos are well constructed and simply powerful...thanks..great program.
Glad you like them!
Thank you so much , you are the best English teacher too ! And your videos are so real and positive !
Wow, thank you!
Super great analogy with the water :) it works so well for all the points !
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Amazing video and thank you for the wisdom 😃
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you Mat. Relate much to this four ways... It is true. Yours truly from Germany❤️
Thanks for watching!
Wow, I actually had a pen and paper put and was Journaling in some of the tips, advice amd words of wisdom. Very well done! 👏
Thanks so much!
HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAT, ENJOY YOUR DAY
Happy Birthday Mat🧁🍰🎂! 💋💋
I love watching & listening to your channel..thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much! So nice of you ❤❤❤
I like how you summarize items at the end. I forget what the first steps are sometimes lol. You are the only one really speaking on emotional intimacy like this for men. Anyone else doing this?
Thank you!
So helpful; and your analogy of diving into water explains so much. You are gifted !
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you ! Great video! I'm applying this to myself 😘💙❤
You got this!
Thank you, this video is gold 🥰
You're so welcome!
i loved this video you look great thank you for all this bucket of useful tips 🤩💁♀️
You are so welcome Luna Ghr! 🙏
Happy Birthday! :) I bet it was wonderful, We are grateful for you and all your work you put in here, there, everywhere ...
Thank you so much!
Love so much this video thank you for amaizing advice 😍😍😍
You're so welcome! ❤❤❤
I like my men like I like my tea: strong, hot, & sweet
That's great!
Very greatful videos you make mat.. I really appreciate you dive deep into my heart, its bulls eye.. Very heartwarming. Thank you so much for this lesson
Thanks so much elvira labartine! 🙏❤️
This is great.your voice and new set make for a wonderful video. Loyd and clear what your discussing, I made mistakes in. I learned do much through your course Mat.
Glad it was helpful!
THANKS for your videos, I like your calm voice and logical simplicity of guidance 💚
Amazing! love hearing that!
Love this advice Matt... also suggest...i told my Male interest that he should consider counseling (as I have)...to process past relationship issues ...before we totally dive in...and he is doing it...I am so grateful...bottom line... have self respect and ask for what you want and need! And yes...praise praise praise...I love how you meet my needs
Love that!
Great topic and advice 😊
Glad you like it!
Great advice Matt. And just to let you know, your eyes, are incredible! Carribean blue! 👀 😳😉 the " lucky girl" that gets to look into them. 👀😊 just "sayin." 😉
Thanks so much Shelley Loewen! 👀😀
Wow! Beautiful eyes matt! 😀
Woow I love your new video Mat 😍🙏🏼💜
Glad you liked it!!
Wow, this video is gold, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us
Glad you enjoyed it!
Your channel is Amazing ,Thank you 👍🏻😁
You're welcome!
Thank you so much other tips you share us... 😘
You are so welcome CHONA MACALISANG! 🙏
this stuff is wonderful help. I am loving refining my skills as a woman dating a younger man. I do want support in asking deep and sensitive questions.
I am 63 and Ry is 30. He is laid back and quiet. Doing belly dance or strip tease attention to them, the men love it.
I move better than most young girls and in better shape.
You got this!
I love your yo videos ‼️
Glad that you love it . Thank you! 🙌❤️
Hey, Mat This has been one of the most useful pieces of info about what guys want. A lot of women want the same things too. And you really have a fantastic eye colour, it's crazy man. Love it
I appreciate that!
Great video 😊👌
Thanks!
Quite simply awesome
Thank you! Cheers!
Thank you, Matt. Your points are so true. I have a great lesson from a recent date about myself. I will love myself as I loved him so that I prepare for the right one to present. Thank you. You are an excellent teacher.
Perfect!
Amen!
I need to look at myself again! I feel open, but he does not know my questions......
I need to listen....🥰🌻🌻🌻🌻🙏🏻🧚♀️🧚♀️😔
Exactly you got it Nancy McLoughlin!
Happy Birthday 💕your Magnette!
thank u again so inspiring being old now i realized loving a new man is awesome .
You are so welcome 🥰
so true and got it all except the touch language cause we are 8k miles apart .thank u dear matt for this
Thanks so much Grace Jones GJ! 🙏❤️
Great!! Thank you
You are welcome!
Hey Mat, I just found you and love the way you softly speak and review at the end. You have a unique way of helping us ladies understand how to communicate with our man. Thank you ❤
Awesome! Thank you!
OMG your blues eyes are just amazingly hypnotic. I’m gonna have to listen to this again to retain everything you were saying, I kept getting lost in your eyes , for real.
OMG are his eyes real? I'm curious!
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
I so needed to hear this. In so in love and don't know what to do with it.
You love him...do you feel his love? Don't fall in love by yourself.
You are really intelligent... worth it
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
Your presentation shows your professional training. I am a woman of a certain age(basically at that invisible stage) divorce is damaging the separation after a fourth years relationship. I've pushed anyone & everyone away. So over the passed three months I have unaware that I have been dabbling in you tips with out knowing it. So thank you for reinforcing what I have been ignoring right in front of my eyes.
Glad my content resonated with you ❤❤❤
You video is so fun & helpful. Great swimming example 🤣
You are so welcome!
Really good talk! Smart, articulate man! Thank you, Mat Shaffer. Jackie 💙
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Do you consider knowing to know each other is a part of in relationship? I was confused ..what is the good ecpectation of this situation?
love the way you mention about warmth! Let them know the water is warm to fall :p
Happy to heat that!
Congratulations great topic .Very interesting. I like your new studio , Lighting is woww. And You Mat looks excited, inspired and energized🙏❤️💪🤗💥
Be well always❤️.
I'm going to watch again...net is slower here😊
YES! It's a huge upgrade. 😊Thank you Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired
for noticing the positive energy.
Great tips Matt i agree strongly i have warm, calm and soothing, waters within me an my friend fell in love with me first, before i fell in love with him. You are so right about the touching on a man, i started first with his hair, playing in it then he became comfortable, moving into warm water's. I experience this 3 years ago. Now we are bestie. Matt you are giving very good advice.😍😍😍
Thank you so much!
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🎉🎈🎉Happy Birthday Mat!!🎉🎈🎉
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Very interesting vlog 👍. Thanks for sharing this @mat shaffer 🙏🌸
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Wonderful and working ideas...🧡🧡🧡, love from the Netherlands
Thanks so much! 😊
One of your best videos. Thank you ❤
So glad my content supports you :)
Always, it had helped me a lot.. I'm in a better place now. Thank you for you work❤
I've been using the tools you've been teaching... We are classmates from HighSchool and have reconnected after 40 years 😳 both of us have shared with each other the way our lives were and where our life is going now... The various things I have communicated with him is basically like planting seeds and now I need to feed it... It's not manipulative ... It HAS been growing by his efforts of calling me and sharing his current events... I am looking forward to seeing where this is going to go 😊
Update?
This is an inspiring story!
I love this content. It simple and very well explained in ways how to have a man fall in love to a woman. Thank you
Glad you like it! Many thanks, L D ❤️
I love watching your videos i learn a lot godbless.
So glad you enjoyed it! 🙂 Many more to come!
Love watching your vedio thanks much appreciated 👍🙏😉
Thank you!
Love your voice Mat..I am watching your videos just to listen to your voice..the learnings obtained are secondary. Thank you nevertheless.
Glad you like them!
Thank you so much!
You're welcome!