I bet... If you get close to a guy's ear... And you whisper "I want you to kiss me" he's not gonna think twice... It's not about what you say ladies it's about how you deliver it
*Understanding how to kiss passionately is interesting, but let's not forget that consent, communication, and emotional connection are essential elements of any intimate moment.*
Starts at 3:28 🙂 Step 1- invite him to initiative the kiss nonverbally. Step 2- once he initiates, meet him where he's at then slow him down. Step 3- Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations. Step 4 - use your body to deepen the passion of the kiss. Step 5 - Guide him to kiss your neck. Step 6- Kiss all of his hotspots There you go! Enjoy all of your kisses☺
Kissing is so important. If that doesn't go well, not much else will. I had a first date with a guy back in 95 and I STILL remember our first kiss. Wow, was like being hit with lightning. We dated awhile but split up as he wanted marriage and kids right away, I didnt. I had to love him enough to let him go find his person.
My best kisses have been when u haven't thought about what I'm doing, but rather let the moment guide me. Honestly... If I was to be thinking of my next move I wouldn't be enjoying it.... All my compliments have come when I've just felt the moment. If I have to be doing 10 different techniques in one kiss, it becomes all about showing off. My top tip for kissing : have intention behind the kiss. There.... Saved you another video.
Well yeah BUT it’s like everything. Like sales for example, you get the training, the rebuttals etc but once you get in front of the client you let it flow but now you’re equipped and all you learned comes naturally and then the client says how wonderful you are and how excellent and smooth everything went well yeah! That’s because you trained for it and didn’t just go at it. Same here, you get a little training and once you are there you let it flow and then he thinks you’re a Goddess. I’ve been testing some of the tips on such videos like this and OMG the guy I’m seeing now is extremely into me! And I’ve created the tension so much that our first kiss is going to be out of this world!
@Helene B what type of intention? Like I want him to do this to me, or like I wanna explore, or like beyonce put it: to show him u appreciate him P.s. ik this was a long time ago
@@kenzawalker3881 u can’t say someone he/she isnt old enough to kiss cause its there moment not yours they choose when they wanna kiss for the first time and no one else!
been single for my whole life never had a relationship never kissed anyone before ain't got a boy and yet here i am watching kissing advice when i got nobody for me to practice it upon lmaoooo anyways it's always good to learn and be prepared cuz who knows lmaooooooo
My man and I are great kissers. He just texted me the other day how much he loves kissing me. Then he followed with this text, “No one can be a great kisser alone. Gotta have compatibility to make it awesome like us!” Here’s the real kicker I’m 65 and he’s 46 and our kissing and love making is ooh la la! Yes, I’m a cougar and damn proud of it!
You should be Proud. And why do Older women with young Men have a Label. "cougar" A 60 year old Man with a Girlfriend. 50,40,30 is Perfectly normal. Where there label??
Yes I use a vaginal suppository 2 or 3 times a week that my physician recommended. It’s non hormonal and contains hyaluronic acid. Plus another product that has enhanced my arousal and orgasms. The company name is Bonafide. It really has worked for me.
@@gerryhurdelbrink3321 if I'm bad I m not sure. But wth full love, passion, feelings emotions wth full soul heart full into himslf I m supposed to kss, love..
Thanks for doing this video! I just recently discovered the series Outlander (a bit late to the party I know!). I think the points you made here about polarity and male and female energies was beautifully illustrated and played in Claire and Jamie's relationship. What you talked about here reminded me of their wedding night scenes, where you see them find and explore each other and bond with one another in the process. Interestingly, I read that scene in the book and that level of intimacy and connection is not written, so the actors and production team deserve a lot of credit for creating something very special and not easy to do with a camera crew in the room!
I literally watch that again and again! To remember for my next relationship. You can feel the passion, the equal male/female energy and the love and admiration in that scene!!
@@AmalaHolt It was so exciting at first, but then the producers had to put a frantic sex scene in EVERY episode. . .EVEN at their DAUGHTER'S WEDDING! This is pure voyeurism!
I've been totally wanting to check that out, thanks for the reminder! I don't really watch TV, like at all, but it sounds like it'd be right up my alley! Historical adventure romance? Count me in! Maybe I should check out the books too...
1. Invite him to initiate the kiss nonverbally: smile and triangle eye gaze; open body language; licking your lips; allow to an akward pause in the conversation 2. Once he initiates meet him where he s at and slow him down: if he kisses you aggressively, pull back and invite him to come in again, but softer 3. Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations
@@sharimontgomery4795 the triangle refers to both eyes and the mouth, what you do is basically just switching from looking at eye1 to looking at the mouth and then back to eye2 (or eye1)
Dancing with your dog was hilarious and so on point. I kiss my man passionately and entangle my fingers in his hair, then I slowly back off and lightly brush my lips against his and then go in for another “attack”. It drives him wild! He never knows what I’m going to do when I just give him that “I want you” look.
I have learned to do this for awhile now. I call it the “ art of surprise”! And use your imagination for the next stages. I have never seen men beg for more. Ha I love it!
Yes, I playfully kiss mine teasely on the corner of his mouth and back off and then go for the bottom lips and then really kiss him while I am holding him . He loves it and it feels good for both of us.
I was very open and he still didn't kiss me until I told him I wanted to kiss him and he told me oh men never really know 🤷🏽♀️ then he kiss me ,but some men are clueless.
Thank you so much for this video. I practiced the techniques you shared in this video, last night. Me and my guy ended up having a night I don’t think either one of us will ever forget. I believe the kissing was the key from taking it from fun hangs to fireworks and insanely crazy connecting. Thank you ❤
You are opening my eyes to things I didn’t know about men. Mom never told me any of these things? I wonder if she knew? Most women don’t know any of this stuff.
Been kissed 3 times in my life (I’m 19 on Saturday) and it was the same guy each time but on two different occasions. Yeah he basically stuck his tongue into mouth 🤷♀️👀 I dated the guy for a month although it didn’t feel like a relationship. I’m now in a very much happier relationship with a guy from Sweden (I’m from England, I should have mentioned that) in December it will be 6 months for me and him. I haven’t seen him yet because of Corona, however, I’m thankful for this video because I’ll use these tips for when I go to the airport and see him when I’m able too 🥳☺️
Loved this one, Mat!! The definition of Polarity was so clarifying... love the concept that I'm the "conductor" because as a theatre artist I translate that to "director" and understand that it's not a place of overlording power but a place of creative encouragement. I love the comments about me guiding him to where I want him to kiss me. I've been shy about this.... not anymore.
I have been doing those things subconsciously whatever you have said in this video and got complements about being a good kisser.....everyone should follow this whenever they are kissing❤️❤️❤️...in my opinion, just go with the flow gently...that will drive him crazy...
I've been in a long term, long distance relationship, we are going to meet for the first time next month. I can't wait to kiss him and have him kiss me. Thanks for the tips.
I am super reactive when a man starts to kiss me especially in the beginning, because this puts him even more into his masculine. Also, if im really into a guy my whole body trembles. You have to be like 80% feminine and 20% masculine. I have gotten feedback before that I was too verbal, but usually that was because I was uncomfortable and I was too much in my masculine and not trusting my feelings.
I wanna talk i need to express as usual I think m not sure but I doubt I m this type if wth him ever,, atleast my love talk my feelings emotions fr him overall mine fully I wanna b into him in his soul/chest.
These tips are great. I'm not in a relationship right now (single AF after breaking a long term relationship) , but I'm sure these will come in handy one day. I haven't kissed anyone in over 2 years so just thinking about what it was like to experience a good kiss got me all hot and bothered lol. Now I just need to find someone to practice on.... and figure out how to do it safely given current circumstances 😂😅
This is so entertaining to me. I was initially trying to tell my friend (that happens to be a boy) that a French Kiss is definitely NOT the same as a cheek kiss or *La Bise*. Now I'm just finding ways to show him all types of kisses~
I met my boyfriend on a dating app. We met 4 days after we started talking. After we had breakfast we went to put gas in his truck. While he waited, he came around and opened my door. He leaned in and kissed me like I have never been kissed before. He was definitely in his masculine energy! I had no thought of kissing him on our first date so I was pleasantly surprised. We have now been together 4 months and his kisses are still just as amazing as the first. 🥰🥰🥰
I love kissing. The way you kiss is going to make or break a relationship moving forward. I like someone that knows how to softly kiss me. If you shove your tongue in my mouth it’s over. I have never cared for French kissing. I like being playful and like you said building up the tension. I just found your channel. I like hearing a man’s perspective. 💕🐺
Wow Mat, Thank-you - I was giggling like a young girl all the way through!! - It’s The fun way you delivered the information that made me giggle!!🤭😁 I’ve heard about polarity and you gave a very clear explanation. It’s good to hear this from a man’s perspective. Best wishes to you. 👌🏽👍🏽👏🏽💫😃🌟🌈
great advice, Matt, I really enjoyed the video and I am really looking forward to trying out some of these tips, that I have never tried in quite the same way! 😘
Why do you have to judge a man by how well he kisses? The only things you should look for are love, respect, and a desire to spend your life with him, right?
I honestly don’t think there’s a bad kisser out there. It’s more that the style they like to kiss in isn’t compatible with yours. It’s all about chemistry and compatibility.
Kissing style can tell you a lot about a person. I've dated a couple men who were non-kissing kissers. Meaning they allowed me to kiss them, but didn't move their lips. They might jam their tongue into my mouth, but never did they give themselves, never did their lips suck at mine or engage at all. As I got to know them better, I found the same emotional withholding in how they related across the board. The kiss shows much about the emotional availability of a person.
This is your best video ever, mat! I was nearly chocking when i saw the hens hahaha! I'm liking your content more and more, even the background is really attractive
I would like to see a video on how to keep a guy from French-kissing on the first date! I don't want to turn him on too much early on. I don't want to give him signals that I'm ready for sex when I'm not. I need more help letting him know I DON'T want to be too physical early on. Actually, I'm even afraid of inviting him to my home for coffee after dinner. If we end up on the couch, things happen that I don't want to happen. How do we let a guy know we like him, but do not want sex anytime soon? We need A LOT MORE HELP with that! Thanks
Matt do you understand I am doing this completely through texting? Good thing I’m the older woman. As he begins taking long pauses and he hangs up purring I know he’s going to sleep wrapped up with me tonight though I’m 2,000 miles away. There’s a challenge. Never experienced or expected this with my young love. Guide me along Matt. You’re the expert! A year left overseas.
Lil too for ya peeps out there who haven't missed a ton before! Play with the hair on the back of their head while you do it it makes them crazy! Twirl it, pull it but only a tiny bit they'll loveeee it!♥️
Men can b shaved also.. as last Yr as usual i was into imagination about guys fr timepass sx/single pain so.. if guys r full shaved or so little cut hair or naturally smooth head then also do continue.. its love its feelings emotions .. not dance steps or yoga steps or physiotherapy tactics or our religious rituals movements that selected memorised steps or applying only learnt these things. He has neck , back, ears, smooth head, shoulder, arms, belly, hands.. so do touch do grab do disturb evrythng severely as opportunities n rights n punishments in disguise also all true feelings emotions 😂😂😂😂😂😂 n he poor person just hav to accept.. women power 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just tell him. He either gets offended or he learns, but that's up to him, you can't control his choice. Either option is better than just letting a bad kiss continue, if you ask me.
I am divorced for 4 years ago. He was my first real love. Now i am 48 years old. 4 years no relationship, never kissed a man after my divorce. I have feelings for somebody, but he does not know that. I only know he likes me. So come on with your tips...greetings from The Netherlands
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Good kissing is really about getting into your feminine. Be in the moment, enjoy yourself, and let your body respond. If you are enjoying yourself I guarantee he is too. Then those requests or even demands make you feel even more sexy and feminine when he jumps to make it happen!
Gah, I love to kiss and don't get to kiss enough. I love that first kiss when you finally touch lips, lightly touch your tongue on his lips and pull back a little and then finally start opening your mouth. Oh, God. Help me.
Oh honey...this woman never kisses and tells 😘😘😉 The edits are so funny LOL and your little giggles 😆And that close up to your eyes and face goodnessss Matt🙈🙊are you trying to kiss us through our screens??😋
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Me, being single, working from home, absolutely not a guy in foreseeable future: ohh yeah nice recommendation, this is totally what I need.
Me too, 🤣
Ya me too. Everyone teaching how to kiss or touch. All my female group singles and locked 🔒
Mood. It does seem we are jobless.
Totally understand you buddy 😆
Same 😅🤭
I bet... If you get close to a guy's ear... And you whisper "I want you to kiss me" he's not gonna think twice... It's not about what you say ladies it's about how you deliver it
I literally commented the same thing, but kept it short with "kiss me".
Need to look him in the eyes first.
That's a really good idea, I wonder if I have the courage to try that...
Facts
yup!
*Understanding how to kiss passionately is interesting, but let's not forget that consent, communication, and emotional connection are essential elements of any intimate moment.*
Amazing Thanks for sharing!
Who would kiss passionately without both consenting? I mean wth
i don’t kiss unless it’s serious…❤😂
Isn't that understood if, by this point, you're in this situation....?
@@moonstar1126🙄🙄🙄
Look at me taking notes like I have someone to practice on 😭
Use your fist to practice on. I need to do video and show.
ditto, but mines for if i ever meet someone worth kissing like this :D
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here!😂
Heheheheheeh ohh 🤣🤣dear
Starts at 3:28 🙂
Step 1- invite him to initiative the kiss nonverbally.
Step 2- once he initiates, meet him where he's at then slow him down.
Step 3- Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations.
Step 4 - use your body to deepen the passion of the kiss.
Step 5 - Guide him to kiss your neck.
Step 6- Kiss all of his hotspots
There you go! Enjoy all of your kisses☺
Well done!!
❤️
Vardhini R love kissing my Man all over his Body
Not all hero’s wear capes 👏
Hold my beer, I got this one!
Kissing is so important. If that doesn't go well, not much else will. I had a first date with a guy back in 95 and I STILL remember our first kiss. Wow, was like being hit with lightning. We dated awhile but split up as he wanted marriage and kids right away, I didnt. I had to love him enough to let him go find his person.
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new Earcandiee❤️
Love .. then why didn't u marry him ? Love, sx only wth lovers/spouse..
You are not wrong on that one
The best kisses happen when thinking goes dormant and feeling rules.
Thanks for sharing!
But “HELLO SIR, I WOULD LIKE YOU TO KISS ME NOW!” Is how I always initiate
When you're already dating the guy it doesn't NOT work 😂
😂😂😂
My best kisses have been when u haven't thought about what I'm doing, but rather let the moment guide me. Honestly... If I was to be thinking of my next move I wouldn't be enjoying it.... All my compliments have come when I've just felt the moment. If I have to be doing 10 different techniques in one kiss, it becomes all about showing off. My top tip for kissing : have intention behind the kiss. There.... Saved you another video.
Agreed. When there are real emotions and true attraction from both the partners everything just takes off.
Well yeah BUT it’s like everything. Like sales for example, you get the training, the rebuttals etc but once you get in front of the client you let it flow but now you’re equipped and all you learned comes naturally and then the client says how wonderful you are and how excellent and smooth everything went well yeah! That’s because you trained for it and didn’t just go at it. Same here, you get a little training and once you are there you let it flow and then he thinks you’re a Goddess. I’ve been testing some of the tips on such videos like this and OMG the guy I’m seeing now is extremely into me! And I’ve created the tension so much that our first kiss is going to be out of this world!
Totally agree
@Helene B what type of intention? Like I want him to do this to me, or like I wanna explore, or like beyonce put it: to show him u appreciate him
P.s. ik this was a long time ago
@@meagant4155 I mean to have passion behind the kiss. If you really like someone you'll automatically have intention.
When you're done kissing his lips, plant a kiss at the corner of his mouth. He won't be able to resist the urge to kiss you again.
Thx bc this is mah first kiss I’m 14 eeek and I have anxiety 😰 *von just breath ur ok* oh yeah I talk to myself as well
@@bl0odytuness415 you’re not old enough 😭
So true.
@@kenzawalker3881 my first kiss was when i was 10......and a serious kiss not just a kid kiss.....
@@kenzawalker3881 u can’t say someone he/she isnt old enough to kiss cause its there moment not yours they choose when they wanna kiss for the first time and no one else!
Am I the only one seeing him as one of the two robbers in home alone movie?:D
😮😮😂😂😂
Hysterical! I’m taking how is a former attny going to tell us this?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
been single for my whole life never had a relationship never kissed anyone before ain't got a boy and yet here i am watching kissing advice when i got nobody for me to practice it upon lmaoooo
anyways it's always good to learn and be prepared cuz who knows lmaooooooo
How old r u
🤣😂me too
Your first kiss will be amazing because Matt gave some incredible techniques. Also a kiss should never be rushed...
same😂
I can tolally relate to you..... Got nobody and yet watching this video🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
My partner was very shy when we first met. I ended up leaning in to kiss him because I could feel his nervousness. He was very happy that I did 😁
So happy for you my dear!
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you. I love your videos 🥰
My man and I are great kissers. He just texted me the other day how much he loves kissing me. Then he followed with this text, “No one can be a great kisser alone. Gotta have compatibility to make it awesome like us!” Here’s the real kicker I’m 65 and he’s 46 and our kissing and love making is ooh la la! Yes, I’m a cougar and damn proud of it!
You should be Proud. And why do Older women with young Men have a Label. "cougar" A 60 year old Man with a Girlfriend. 50,40,30 is Perfectly normal. Where there label??
Crystal Dating Coach we talk about that all the time! If he was older and I was the younger one no one would say much about it.
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LouAnn Bristol Yes Girl!!!!
Yes I use a vaginal suppository 2 or 3 times a week that my physician recommended. It’s non hormonal and contains hyaluronic acid. Plus another product that has enhanced my arousal and orgasms. The company name is Bonafide. It really has worked for me.
When the kissing is good, you can be sure the next stage will be pretty great. If not, best not to even think about taking it there!
oh absolutely agree with you there!! :)
Thats usually true💋
You are soo right. Bad kissers are a terrible sign.
@@gerryhurdelbrink3321 if I'm bad I m not sure. But wth full love, passion, feelings emotions wth full soul heart full into himslf I m supposed to kss, love..
Thanks for doing this video! I just recently discovered the series Outlander (a bit late to the party I know!). I think the points you made here about polarity and male and female energies was beautifully illustrated and played in Claire and Jamie's relationship. What you talked about here reminded me of their wedding night scenes, where you see them find and explore each other and bond with one another in the process. Interestingly, I read that scene in the book and that level of intimacy and connection is not written, so the actors and production team deserve a lot of credit for creating something very special and not easy to do with a camera crew in the room!
I literally watch that again and again! To remember for my next relationship. You can feel the passion, the equal male/female energy and the love and admiration in that scene!!
@@AmalaHolt It was so exciting at first, but then the producers had to put a frantic sex scene in EVERY episode. . .EVEN at their DAUGHTER'S WEDDING! This is pure voyeurism!
Hi my sister has recommended I watch Outlander too. I am really late to the game but am looking forward to it!
I've been totally wanting to check that out, thanks for the reminder! I don't really watch TV, like at all, but it sounds like it'd be right up my alley! Historical adventure romance? Count me in! Maybe I should check out the books too...
@annpommer52
Oh, ok, cool, thanks!
Thank you so much Mat for not only giving such good tips but also making learning them so entertaining with your energy
Amazing! love hearing that @Rose Milan❤
I like the way you explain things! It's so emotional and clearly 🙂
And really good to know!!
Happy to hear that!
1. Invite him to initiate the kiss nonverbally: smile and triangle eye gaze; open body language; licking your lips; allow to an akward pause in the conversation
2. Once he initiates meet him where he s at and slow him down: if he kisses you aggressively, pull back and invite him to come in again, but softer
3. Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
what is a triangle eye gaze?
@@sharimontgomery4795looking at his eyes -> lips -> eyes
@@sharimontgomery4795 the triangle refers to both eyes and the mouth, what you do is basically just switching from looking at eye1 to looking at the mouth and then back to eye2 (or eye1)
You have a very gentle, descriptive and funny way to explain all these! I really enjoyed it!
Thank you! 😃
lmao, I dont know why I pressed on this when I never even had my first kiss 😂😭
Same.
Gotta prepare!
Got touched.. I need his forgiveness.. I'm shit
Well I'm curious lmao, did you get your first kiss yet??😂
@@deryaguler7748 funnily enough no 🤣
Dancing with your dog was hilarious and so on point. I kiss my man passionately and entangle my fingers in his hair, then I slowly back off and lightly brush my lips against his and then go in for another “attack”. It drives him wild! He never knows what I’m going to do when I just give him that “I want you” look.
mmm that's the way to go Lindsay!! it's all about mixing it up :)
I have learned to do this for awhile now. I call it the “ art of surprise”! And use your imagination for the next stages. I have never seen men beg for more. Ha I love it!
Yes, I playfully kiss mine teasely on the corner of his mouth and back off and then go for the bottom lips and then really kiss him while I am holding him . He loves it and it feels good for both of us.
The clip of chickens was hilarious!
I wish if d dog kissd his lips full mouth passionately then agreesively as he said about sensation n intensity
I was very open and he still didn't kiss me until I told him I wanted to kiss him and he told me oh men never really know 🤷🏽♀️ then he kiss me ,but some men are clueless.
very true haha... sometimes you just gotta take control :)
09:36 This had me in stitches! (Not least the look on your dog's face! 😂) Thank you for all the amazing content.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you so much for this video. I practiced the techniques you shared in this video, last night.
Me and my guy ended up having a night I don’t think either one of us will ever forget. I believe the kissing was the key from taking it from fun hangs to fireworks and insanely crazy connecting. Thank you ❤
Great job!
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I always thought leaning towards his ears and whisper in a sexy tone, "kiss me" was good enough? Lol
It maybe is, it just depends on the situation lol
That would work for me!
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
You are glowing, Mat! Love your energy! I can tell you are genuine, compassionate and driven to help us! Yay for you! 🎉🙏🏻💕
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you. ♥ :)
You are opening my eyes to things I didn’t know about men. Mom never told me any of these things? I wonder if she knew? Most women don’t know any of this stuff.
Movies
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.
I love love love kissing, it’s like when u resonate the kissing just flows, great advice
Exactly!!! its a dance!!
❤️🐶..your dog prop scene was priceless! 😁Thx for sharing
Glad you enjoyed it DM❤❤❤
This is the first time I'm watching your videos. You are cracking me up with your examples! Well done!!! I'm hooked now!
Yay! Thank you!
Hi 😍😍😍❤❤
Yes, Mat, just recently found you. I really enjoy your vids and loved this one. Great info and entertaining! ❤️
Been kissed 3 times in my life (I’m 19 on Saturday) and it was the same guy each time but on two different occasions. Yeah he basically stuck his tongue into mouth 🤷♀️👀 I dated the guy for a month although it didn’t feel like a relationship.
I’m now in a very much happier relationship with a guy from Sweden (I’m from England, I should have mentioned that) in December it will be 6 months for me and him. I haven’t seen him yet because of Corona, however, I’m thankful for this video because I’ll use these tips for when I go to the airport and see him when I’m able too 🥳☺️
Thanks for sharing!
Loved this one, Mat!! The definition of Polarity was so clarifying... love the concept that I'm the "conductor" because as a theatre artist I translate that to "director" and understand that it's not a place of overlording power but a place of creative encouragement. I love the comments about me guiding him to where I want him to kiss me. I've been shy about this.... not anymore.
Thanks for sharing!
@@Mat_Shafferwhy I didn’t find you 3 years ago????❤
Dude I love how you explain that stuff with your saxophone and stuff. You make it down to earth and I enjoy your videos. Have a blessed day :-)
I appreciate that! Thanks much 🙌❤️
Entering into a new relationship, and this is invaluable advice. Love it❤
Yes! Thank you!
I have been doing those things subconsciously whatever you have said in this video and got complements about being a good kisser.....everyone should follow this whenever they are kissing❤️❤️❤️...in my opinion, just go with the flow gently...that will drive him crazy...
I've been told I'm a great kisser a lot until i watched this video and I'm like yaaaaaaaaaaaaaas............ I'm a goddess
I appreciate your opinion on this!
I love that awkward pause before the kiss!!
Amazing!
Mat: I like to kiss a friend or a new date on the cheek. They are not expecting it and I think I think it makes them feel appreciated.
Thanks for sharing!
Normally I get bored quite fast watching these type of videos but yours are very interesting and entertaining! You got a new subscriber😄
Awesome, @Kathrin THANK YOU! 🙌🙏❤
There's an entire ocean staring at me during the whole video...😍
That's a beautiful line!
BOOM thanks my dear so glad you enjoyed it!:)
Ocean eyes
I don't know but I'm laughing my ass of watching this😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
SAME
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Currently you are the best coach on my list!
Wow, thanks!
I’m not in a relationship yet but thank you for sharing this amazing tips 🧚♀️
You’re welcome 😊
I'm dying..I'm corpse.. 😢 .. none but I'm alive corpse
@@TinTin-ir8wx I hope you are well…
I've been in a long term, long distance relationship, we are going to meet for the first time next month. I can't wait to kiss him and have him kiss me. Thanks for the tips.
Wonderful!
Will be using this lip locking advice tonight! 😊 Thank you!! I love your infectious energy.
Yeahh good luck!! ;)
Great video! Loved the dog looking from the bowl to the human and back, nice one!
I am super reactive when a man starts to kiss me especially in the beginning, because this puts him even more into his masculine. Also, if im really into a guy my whole body trembles. You have to be like 80% feminine and 20% masculine. I have gotten feedback before that I was too verbal, but usually that was because I was uncomfortable and I was too much in my masculine and not trusting my feelings.
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I wanna talk i need to express as usual I think m not sure but I doubt I m this type if wth him ever,, atleast my love talk my feelings emotions fr him overall mine fully I wanna b into him in his soul/chest.
These tips are great. I'm not in a relationship right now (single AF after breaking a long term relationship) , but I'm sure these will come in handy one day. I haven't kissed anyone in over 2 years so just thinking about what it was like to experience a good kiss got me all hot and bothered lol. Now I just need to find someone to practice on.... and figure out how to do it safely given current circumstances 😂😅
wonderful thank you for that feedback!!
😂I can’t even with this video Mat!! Hilarious, good, and SO entertaining! 👏👏👏👏 you are the best!!!
Yay! Thank you Raquel T🙏❤
Yes! I’m in orchestra and it helps me understand 10x better!!😆 THANK YOU
You're welcome!! ❤️
Tastefully done. You’re awesome Mat. Love your advice ❤️
Thanks so much!
Your videos help remind me how to practice the spirit of warmth and generosity in our marriage when it feels cold ❄️ or stingy. Thank you!
I’m so glad this helped you!
This is so entertaining to me. I was initially trying to tell my friend (that happens to be a boy) that a French Kiss is definitely NOT the same as a cheek kiss or *La Bise*. Now I'm just finding ways to show him all types of kisses~
Glad you like it!
That kiss you described with that woman sounds weird AF. Run, Mat, run!!!
HAHA I did!! :)
Can you make a 2020 version including masks and how to work with that?
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Eye contact and telepathy ✨
Start a romantic fire & burn the damn masks.
@@fireybutmostlyfriendly4299 amen
I met my boyfriend on a dating app. We met 4 days after we started talking. After we had breakfast we went to put gas in his truck. While he waited, he came around and opened my door. He leaned in and kissed me like I have never been kissed before. He was definitely in his masculine energy! I had no thought of kissing him on our first date so I was pleasantly surprised. We have now been together 4 months and his kisses are still just as amazing as the first. 🥰🥰🥰
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Hi Mat!!! That is exactly how I impart my opinion on kissing, and sex. It is an art form, exactly like dancing together.
Absolutely right!
I love kissing. The way you kiss is going to make or break a relationship moving forward. I like someone that knows how to softly kiss me. If you shove your tongue in my mouth it’s over. I have never cared for French kissing. I like being playful and like you said building up the tension. I just found your channel. I like hearing a man’s perspective. 💕🐺
I'm happy this resonated with you
Wow Mat, Thank-you - I was giggling like a young girl all the way through!! - It’s The fun way you delivered the information that made me giggle!!🤭😁 I’ve heard about polarity and you gave a very clear explanation. It’s good to hear this from a man’s perspective. Best wishes to you. 👌🏽👍🏽👏🏽💫😃🌟🌈
Glad you enjoyed it!
Granma here..me n also mom of grown up man 😢
I watched this for new tips... but guess what?...you totally talked through my usual moves.... good to know I'm doing it right 😂😊😘💋
I smiled like an idiot watching this cause I can’t waitttt for the next time I see him so I can do these
I hope it helps!
Who ? I m asking myslf.
While kissing...touch and caress the nape of his neck. Drive him wild!!
YEAH🙌
First tease eachother,build tension and finally explore what he likes and defenitely lkiss his innerear,it drives him wild😘
YES exactly!!
Strip tease or belly dance winds them up.
Guy here-
As good as these tips were, I was more impressive with the musical terminology that was pretty accurate. Good work! :)
Glad you liked it!
"I'm coming in Hot!" 😂😂😂😂😂
I like u
Really
I need u
Seriously
I love u so so much i m intrested merry me
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Yep, “I’m coming in Hot!” was to die for!!! 😂😂😂
I used to date a guy that when I kissed behind his ears he would come completely undone. I absolutely loved it, and honestly miss it.
Thanks for sharing!
Who's listening and smiling hahaha
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Dreaming of heaven in afterlife mayb..😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
And totally imaging my first kiss with the guy I am in to.
great advice, Matt, I really enjoyed the video and I am really looking forward to trying out some of these tips, that I have never tried in quite the same way! 😘
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you. :)
Matt I seriously like the way you openly explain each and every tips. Thank you.👍
My pleasure! I hope it helps.
Nothing worse than a bad kisser.. such a turnoff
AGREED!!!
Why do you have to judge a man by how well he kisses? The only things you should look for are love, respect, and a desire to spend your life with him, right?
I honestly don’t think there’s a bad kisser out there. It’s more that the style they like to kiss in isn’t compatible with yours. It’s all about chemistry and compatibility.
Kissing style can tell you a lot about a person. I've dated a couple men who were non-kissing kissers. Meaning they allowed me to kiss them, but didn't move their lips. They might jam their tongue into my mouth, but never did they give themselves, never did their lips suck at mine or engage at all. As I got to know them better, I found the same emotional withholding in how they related across the board. The kiss shows much about the emotional availability of a person.
What to do about sloppy kissers?
You are so fun to watch, professional and easy to understand. Specially for English as second language. Thank you for this !
Thank you! 😃
So so great! Thank you again for such awesome tips...cant wait to practice these techniques!🖤💜
Happy I could be of help.
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This is your best video ever, mat! I was nearly chocking when i saw the hens hahaha! I'm liking your content more and more, even the background is really attractive
Glad you like them!
I couldn't stop staring at your eyes! Beautiful!!
They're like an actual ocean!
That's very sweet. Gargi Chaturvedi ✨
Matt!! The Sahara dessert line with the slight Bronx accent I am literally lolling!!! xoxox Matt!
I would like to see a video on how to keep a guy from French-kissing on the first date!
I don't want to turn him on too much early on. I don't want to give him signals that I'm ready for sex when I'm not. I need more help letting him know I DON'T want to be too physical early on. Actually, I'm even afraid of inviting him to my home for coffee after dinner. If we end up on the couch, things happen that I don't want to happen.
How do we let a guy know we like him, but do not want sex anytime soon? We need A LOT MORE HELP with that! Thanks
Verbal communication.
No French kissing or wet kisses too early in..that's a turn off too.. Don't put a stake on a cold grill..make it Hot so it will sear nicely..
You flat out tell him what you want. He’ll be taking notes. 🗒️
Matt do you understand I am doing this completely through texting? Good thing I’m the older woman. As he begins taking long pauses and he hangs up purring I know he’s going to sleep wrapped up with me tonight though I’m 2,000 miles away. There’s a challenge. Never experienced or expected this with my young love. Guide me along Matt. You’re the expert! A year left overseas.
Thanks for sharing!
Wow thank you so much! I've never had kissed a man let have a man who I've wanted to kiss, but now that I do! definitely good to know!
Thank YOU❤❤❤
Straight to the point, love it
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
My ✨human✨ personally enjoys when I initiate ☺️
Happy to hear that!
I scored 💯 on these techniques. Thanks for validating my moves! 😉😎💋
Great job!
your view of kissing with the polarity and the connection is so beautifully conveyed! nice! :)
Thank you so much 😀
@@Mat_ShafferI agree! So well done. You explain it so well. Thank you. ❤️
Hi Matt. Your video sure made me smile listening to you. Thank you for the tips. I will try them
Wonderful!
Wao Mat, that's so sweet...can't wait !
Thanks
Glad you like it! woooh thank you🙌❤
lol when an attorney turns TH-camr... this is the level of happiness you get!
You are hilarious... great video 👌🏼
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
Lil too for ya peeps out there who haven't missed a ton before! Play with the hair on the back of their head while you do it it makes them crazy! Twirl it, pull it but only a tiny bit they'll loveeee it!♥️
Men can b shaved also.. as last Yr as usual i was into imagination about guys fr timepass sx/single pain so.. if guys r full shaved or so little cut hair or naturally smooth head then also do continue.. its love its feelings emotions .. not dance steps or yoga steps or physiotherapy tactics or our religious rituals movements that selected memorised steps or applying only learnt these things. He has neck , back, ears, smooth head, shoulder, arms, belly, hands.. so do touch do grab do disturb evrythng severely as opportunities n rights n punishments in disguise also all true feelings emotions 😂😂😂😂😂😂 n he poor person just hav to accept.. women power 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks for sharing!
I LOVE these tips. I'm 34 and ur giving me more ideas 💡
Glad you like them!
If he’s a bad kisser... tongue poking... HOW do you get him to change the way he kisses to this method...? WITHOUT hurting his feelings..? Thanks.😊
Say. "I like it when you move your tongue slowly" Even if he never kissed you like that. Now he knows that what you want. 😉
Just tell him. He either gets offended or he learns, but that's up to him, you can't control his choice.
Either option is better than just letting a bad kiss continue, if you ask me.
By talking about it.. but in a non-aggressive, playful way.. if you want to get what you want.
You don't have to say anything. When he's not doing it right pull away then come back in and show him how it's done. Practice makes perfect.
@@AmalaHolt helping, supporting, caring, love
Thank you so much, I'll definitely be trying this tomorrow with my partner! Splendid explanation for beginners!
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
I am divorced for 4 years ago. He was my first real love. Now i am 48 years old. 4 years no relationship, never kissed a man after my divorce. I have feelings for somebody, but he does not know that. I only know he likes me. So come on with your tips...greetings from The Netherlands
Thank you!
absolutely right...thank you for the informations.....❤❤❤
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You are hilarious 💋 it is a fantastic feeling when he says your the best kisser hes ever known ... Yea it works!!❤
Thank you so much!
Its soo difficult to kiss when in love never realised
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
Good kissing is really about getting into your feminine. Be in the moment, enjoy yourself, and let your body respond. If you are enjoying yourself I guarantee he is too. Then those requests or even demands make you feel even more sexy and feminine when he jumps to make it happen!
Great point!
Your video are so informative and fun to listen to. Thank you 😊
You are so welcome! ❤
You crack me up! Great video!
Glad you enjoyed!
I so enjoy your tactful approach on otherwise taboo subjects... you are so amazing. Delightful.
Fantastic! Thanks so much!
It's taboo? How? Love, kss, sx ..normal.. its not ra p, or kil ling, or being ant type wrong to ppl.
@attiliadin I agree completely. Great tips and very tactful way of presenting. Thanks @Mat_Shaffer
Gah, I love to kiss and don't get to kiss enough. I love that first kiss when you finally touch lips, lightly touch your tongue on his lips and pull back a little and then finally start opening your mouth. Oh, God. Help me.
Thanks for sharing!
Love your sense of humor, very funny! 😂
Thanks much! haha🙌❤️
Oh honey...this woman never kisses and tells 😘😘😉
The edits are so funny LOL and your little giggles 😆And that close up to your eyes and face goodnessss Matt🙈🙊are you trying to kiss us through our screens??😋
Aw thanks you’re making me blush;)
@@Mat_Shaffer Lol my comment is from like 3 years ago😂