outgrowing friendships…
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- Josh and Isi with another Qualitty Conversation about outgrowing friendships, becoming more discipline, alpha vs betta male, etc!
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When Josh said prayers without actions are wishes?????’ Baby I took a lap.
THIS!!!
I don’t have friends that have that “growth” mindset as heavy as I do so I really appreciate these chats
Same!
Same. Lately I’ve been realizing that I’m not around people who inspire be. And that’s gotta change soon. Love who is around me, but they don’t inspire me.
Samee
@@Waters.. no shade to but why do your friends need to inspire you ?It's one thing to be with like minded people or have someone motivate you but it shouldn't have a requirement . Just my opinion
@@Nkosazana-yt1 they don’t. But if you wanna be something bigger than yourself, you have to change your community and surroundings to things that align with what you want. I’m ok with the people around me being happy with where they are but I want to meet new people who are also like minded and inspire me in some way. I want a healthy balance. I never said it was a requirement and quite frankly I don’t understand why people get offended by comments like mine and the original commenter…
I agree 100% on having like-minded friends for healthy emotional support. Also Complementary friends are KEY to Growth, those are the ones who are Think Different than you but in a good way-that will lead to Growth.
Great topic and conversation today. I rode my bike and we finished at the same time. This was really great. Thx
"Everytime we've updated as a couple, we've updated our love to match that" - Hydrated Hero
Josh really be preaching though. Like honestly lol the way I was nodding my head this entire video was insane.
Isi I feel like, and I hope this doesn’t come off wrong it’s coming from a positive place, but I think you two moving in, getting your own place, has given you time to live life a little. Gave you time to smell the roses. And sometimes as Virgo’s we go go goooo. And almost never give ourselves a break from being an engine. So I think you’ve just given yourself time to breathe & take in this new life you’ve stepping into. Which isn’t bad but I get what you mean by comparing yourself now compared to then but give yourself a break, you’ll definitely bounce back! This was probably just a woo-sah moment.
I'm a Leo dating a male Virgo and that go, go, go drive in Virgos is crazy! I totally agree with giving yourself time. Virgos are VERY laser-focused in the work aspect so enjoy! You worked hard for it! 😊😊
@@erikasreview lmao yes we are & yes we did work hard! Haha and whew a male Virgo 😅😅that’s different different. They are something else from us Women Virgo’s so I commend you on that.
@@TheCRYSTALLURE GIRL!!! I’m glad a Virgo woman can confirm these Virgo men 😰🥵 but imma stick beside him! 😂😂
I agree my mom is a virgo and shes very hard on herself and she hardly rest and sometimes i wish she would take a break
I’m happy to see this comment! Every time they make a quality convo vid I’m concerned that the value of rest is being overlooked. I don’t want us to let the system work us to the ground in the name of “growth”. It’s so important to rest, look around, reflect. We can’t let this system keep us on a treadmill bc it’ll never stop, no matter how far we get. You put it into words well
I really needed to watch this. I’ve been in a low point in my life where I’ve been completely lazy and unorganized. I know my potential is greater and this video pushed me to do the things I NEED to do, not the things I want for dopamine increases of pleasure.
It's so important to know that being content with celebrating where you are today is not complacency, but more so gratitude. Sometimes as first world people, we get caught up in chasing the future while taking for granted the time we have today until someone leaves the earth. You both worked very hard in college, but what if how you view work & play has to evolve so you don't fee guilty about enjoying life in real time. Your summer relaxation was beyond deserved. I'm a 28 year old musical theatre performer and I own a voice lesson business, so I empathize with both of you. I started writing down what I am grateful for at the end of the week and writing down accomplishments I achieved to help me stay present. HIGHLY recommend this because i can tell you now, as someone who works with kids ....children want parents who are present emotionally and physically. Life of a high earner can cause so much stress and I teach many kids who often feel neglected because they see how consumed their parents are with work. It's a tough balance so I wish you both the best in that.
Because I’m 26 and it is confusing at times! and life is waitin on no one! Still praying on my purpose 💕
Agreed
Another Quality Conversation, another week I am like “Okay, I need to do better”.
I love what Isi said about comparing herself to her college self who was more productive. Yes she could be just enjoying herself but she's being honest saying she can do better. And that's so inspiring cause we all know what full effort from ourselves looks like. So for her to be real with herself is dope.
I'm not a "commenter" but this 1 deserved a comment. Great discussion and very motivating... love the energy💥
PLEASE DONT STOP DOING THESE I LOVE HEARING YALL'S INTROSPECTIVE THOUGHTS AND CONVERSATIONS 🥺🥺🥺
It makes me so happy to hear Josh not play into the whole “alpha male” thing. It’s just corny to see men competing to “belong” so to speak. Something magnetic about a man who just aims to be his best self. Walk his own path. That’s a man who really attracts people and opportunities. This whole fighting to belong to a group, is so childish and is not the least bit attractive at all. I don’t find how the whole male archetype thing is supposed to be magnetic !?! Much respect to you Josh!
Guess put God in EVERYTHING SINGLE thing you do and all your goals, dreams, thoughts, feelings, emotions, health and all align and feel so clear. Sometimes it’s easy to get distracted and loose guidance but it’s easy to bring it I promise just refocus.
3 John 1:2 live by that faith and all will be bless through Christ!
Y’all been treating me real nice. I feel spoiled with these back-to-backs between channels 👀🤗
Right I’ve just been bouncing between the channels 😆
Love these talks 🥰 you guys are such an inspiration to young black men and women
Isi said “I always knew we we’re destined for greatnes” and that’s how confident I wanna be in my relationship 👌🏾🔥
Listening to this while driving to school this morning and…I love these quality conversations. Honestly Josh and Isi, have you ever thought about creating this in a podcast form?
I loved this conversation about alpha males vs betas etc. In my research Alpha male was made up by an author of a book in the 70's called, The Wolf: The Ecology and Behavior of an endangered species . He studied wolves in captivity and saw their aggressive behavior towards other males and the pack in an effort to dominate, creating an alpha. But later he studied wolves in the wild, in their natural state wolves don't need to dominate or be alpha. This author ended up taking back his original theory. The self proclaimed alpha male is the most emotionally immature, a toxic male. I love conversations like this! Thats what I call QUALITY! Love ya'll
I completely understand what you mean Isi.. I have the same struggles when it comes to friendships. To have that dope core group that we can stay in touch all the time.. it is sometimes hard to find and keep. I would call myself a deeply invested/loyal friend as well, but not everyone is looking to grow and continue growing.
Now THIS Ted talk (lol) was much needed!!! Very motivational. Also Josh you should start doing videos on how you trade.-
It’s mind blowing how I decide to watch this video and y’all talking about everything I’ve been thinking about for the week. I’ve said this multiple times but I really appreciate being able to come to your channel and hear such intellectual conversations that stimulate my mind and I leave wanting to change for the better.
I get sad whenever the videos ends. 😩 I literally can watch quality conversations for HOURSSSS long & enjoy every bit of it. I feel like you guys are the only ones I can relate to. They're are very few people who operates at my frequecy in the world of today especially my age (21) and I hate it thats why I spent my whole life with no friends & probably for the most part will never have any because of the way I am. I've just never been the type to have to keep company, VERY content with being alone. I'm alone 99% of the time. I've always been selfish with my time & who & where I spend it with. I always look forward to you guys videos, its the only time I feel sane . You guys are my favorite ❤❤❤ keep it up!
I have to say I’ve recently had a hard time w/ the concept of laziness, because most of the time I feel like it’s a setup to corner you on a hamster wheel. The difference is what I heard from y’all is if your complaining and you’re not where you wanna be that’s really what laziness is. Most of us haven’t even stretched to our visible potential, let alone your REAL potential. 💃🏾Thank you guys I really needed this! Also, don’t feel too bad about enjoying your life 🙏🏾
Transition is tough, when you feel that stagnation you are ready to move on up !!! That’s a good sign . Super proud of you both
This new addition of talking about the life and segments that connect to my 20s and situations in general with ✨quality✨ mics is what I needed. Everything they said just affirmed everything I’ve been struggling with. Just to have people that want to grow is essential and I love it.
“You have to make a conscious effort to love the newest version of your significant other”
I turn 21 and feel lost and scared on the steps I need to take to achieve the life I want so I feel like I need a compatibility partner/friend which I think I'm starting to evolve a friendship into that thankfully and so grateful for her because I do that for others so yeah inspired by Isi and her Vent talk time to change things up and get the same energy I give or I got to leave thank you so much for being role models and inspiration to me and everyone that is bless to find you and be apart of the quality crew
Edit: I definitely have anxiety in general but especially like Josh said function anxiety when not knowing the plan/the steps
I swear yall are influencers who are actually good for my mental health🙏🏾👏🏾
I really loved this quality convo. A lot of what You both mentioned about “death” and having to die to self reminded me so much of Mark 8:34-35. “if anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel will save it.” I love when the content calls into alignment like that and I’m not even sure y’all meant it to. Love this for y’all. Can’t wait to see the operation of your highest selves 👏🏾🤞🏾
I just finished watching this video and wow… now I’m sitting here asking myself what parts of myself am I going to let die so I can flourish and become my highest self. Thank y’all so much💕
I love how you guys motivate and push each other to greatness 🥰
The part about getting lazy after moving really resonated with me! I moved into my first apartment after the pandemic, and I could literally FEEL myself losing ambition and getting way too comfortable. I stopped going to the gym, laid around on the couch all day, and completely lost sight of the person/habits that got me to the success I was feeling in the first place. I'm just now picking myself back up and getting back on track. There's definitely a fine line between rest and laziness that I'm trying to figure out as someone graduating college soon! What's helped me is using my free time to plan things I actually enjoy (trying a yoga class, visiting a new place with a friend, etc.). That way I'm able to recharge and avoid burn out while still being productive and making memories vs. laying around and scrolling. Y'all videos are so inspiring and I love how they encourage so much reflection. Happy holidays to everyone!!!
This conversation resonates with me.
I admire Josh and Isi’s intelligence concerning these various topics and it inspires me to learn more about it.
Can you guys recommend channels, pages or blog that keep you motivated and inspired?
I would like to learn more about topics like financial literacy, business mindset, self love, personhood, emotional maturity, soul healing and wholeness etc.
If anyone has any recommendations in the comments I would appreciated your suggestions.I
I recommend the TH-cam channel Minority Mindset by Jaspreet Singh for financial literacy.
@@keyannamartell9176 thank you!
Isi recommends Patricia Bright’s financial channel. The channel is called ‘The Break’.
The goal to me and what this convo inspire for me is find a balance between the grind and achieving the marks we want to achieve and enjoy life (being) with love ones and doing activities that makes us happy even if it's Netflix it's about balance and how we take everything and everyone we experience and how we let expired us
coming back to this video every time i procrastinate or feel stagnant/lazy 🤌🏾
Definitely saw the dry erase board when y’all did the apartment tour it sits right between the both of y’all’s individual work spaces on the wall 😌
As a 21 year old, I love this! Even though I am in a whole different life stage this was so real to me, especially the friends part and what I need to do moving throughout my 20s
I think the word Isi may have been looking for is “aspiration”, it can be hard to see so many AMAZING women in your age group killin it out here and wondering how do I get there, not in a jealous way at all but more so if they can do it so can I, It is motivational tho
Yassss love the quality vibe ! “Hot couple summer” that’s a cuute phrase 😁🥰❤️💗👐🏾🙌🏾
Imma tell yall right now, you changed my life. Your legacy is definitely already there🙌🏻
I had to watch this over because a friendship I did not think I would outgrow soon came to a sudden halt right after she came to visit me. We went parasailing, to a winery shopping, and more but obviously we weren't meant to stay friends even thoughwe knew each other for ten years. Who knew this would apply to my life a month later! Thank you both! :)
Josh and Isi, my husband and I are 22 and 21 and we feel the same way. Were such a God fearing, loving and genuine couple even as individuals but it’s so hard for us to find the same kind of God fearing loving friends and it sucks. We keep praying for such beautiful people in my our lives and like minded people. Loll please pray that we find blessed friends because we are over it loll!
I’ll be y’all’s friend 😊
Planning out your day the night before gets you prepared mentally and physically for sure
You know what's nice Josh was facing isi toward the beginning and toward then end she was facing him mirroring each other in the way they look at each other its love and very beautiful to see. Also I would try to stay away from the alpha beta mindset, I've seen the freshandfit with aba and preach and found it to be misrepresenting of men and how they can be more then one as josh said and also another dig at men who are called then called simps or beta men. When it's just women no longer want the bare minimum when it comes to their relationships. At least that's my take. Love these talks I replay and have convos with my friends yall bring joy
I enjoyed this. Such a motivating, inspiring and intentional conversation. Please start a PODCAST.
Also glad Josh brought up that about alpha males and the different types of valuable personalities from men!!!!
But can we appreciate Isi and Josh's vibrant clear skinnnnn!!!!!!
I generally don’t comment but I’m trying to be in that wavelength of being my better self! Another great quality conversation 👏🏾
I’m only about 25 minutes in, but I wanna say something while it’s on my heart. Isi (and Josh as well), I think it’s important to also give yourself grace when it comes to calling yourself “lazy” or being in that mindset over the last year & a half. These have been some of the most tumultuous times the world, this country, Black people, young adults, women, etc. have ever experienced. And I am a firm believer that God allowed this to happen to slow us a down a bit and draw us closer to Him and just remind us that He’s in control and that rest is important also! Like I was telling my wife (who also watches your videos) hustle is a beautiful thing, but stillness can be just as beautiful! And it doesn’t have to always take the form of a vacation. Sometimes that just means slowing the pace for a while. So I think the transition that you and I and many others have found ourselves in with picking up the pace again was a vital part of our growth! Also, congrats Josh on the great morning & trading session! Love y’all! Keep shining! 🥰✨
“Hope we like it?” We don’t like this, WE LOVE IT!
ISI you taught me how to take care of my natural hair lol FR
Josh, the playboy trend is getting played out and we’re seeing an influx in lovers boys, not saying you HAVE to do this but it would be so refreshing listening to your perspective on relationships and what keeps them afloat and allowing women to gain more insight to selflessness and how important those things can mean to men or just what a good partner looks like in general. Just wanted to say I love this content and you should post more on hydrated hero.
Omg i am 22 and i feel like I’m going through majority of all the things y’all discussed!! Currently trying to get it together cause the disservice I’m doing to myself is not gonna work and i can’t continue to let my dopamine pleasures consume me anymore.. sounds to me like I’m not the only one and it feels good to know it’s a 20’s thing! Thank you for the quality talks❤️🤟🏾
Y’all should definitely start a podcast. I’d 100% support it because y’all have valuable information.
I love the idea of the warrior in the garden! That's a brilliant illustration of the concept.
I’m 16 and this video is so inspiring for the things I want for my future. Thank you loves !
This!!!!! I run my own business with my husband. It's all we do full time. I'm 24, and This is exactly what I've been fighting. We moved into a downtown loft apartment, and I feel like I got comfortable. Very laid back. I've been actively addressing this and consciously promoting that change within myself for the past two days.
I think this is one of my favorite videos from you guys! It's actually the video that is taking me the longest to get through and I am still not done with it but I wanted to write this comment while I still felt it. This conversation has been so inspiring that I have stopped watching SEVERAL times to do things that I have been putting off, to operate at my highest self, to send out appreciation messages to my friends that have been really through the trenches with me and are growing alongside of me, and to write out plans and goals for myself on paper. I truly appreciate your content! While I'm on my own journey of self discipline, self awareness, and self accountability, this is exactly what I need to be nourishing my mind with on my downtime. Thank you so much for being yourselves and sharing!!! ❤️
I never knew that I needed to watch this video until I rushed to click the mf I love y’all and y’all truly inspire me to become a better version of myself this makes me want to worked way harder than wat I’ve been doing this year I’m only 20 and I got a whole life to live but I needed this one tonight❤️❤️❤️ over the years y’all have truly became my inspo couple to see and watch with every video
Hi Josh and Isi!!! Y'all have me out here taking notes on how to actually become my higher self, be better and do better in my 20s. This was very much needed. Thank you guys so much!
The amount of clarity and direction God spoke to me through this video is UNREAL
this video just told me to get my crap together😭 super needed, operating at my higher self starting now💪🏿
I'm absolutely OBSESSED with these QUALITY CONVERSATIONS! Y'all are dropping straight gems. My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and it's very necessary to have these kind of conversations. We're going through an interesting transition of coming into our adulthood individually and as a couple. Keep these going guys. And best believe I'm watching ALL the ads ❣️🤌🏿✊🏿
Same the energy of their channels is so important
I really wish josh and Isi would start a podcast, I’d love to listen to them while I’m driving to school or work
I love how positive y’all are. I need friends like y’all 💜
I just love that it seems like we're going through the same kind of lessons rn. Love this open dialogue. ❤️
Keep the sticky notes to see all the hard work you had to put in today to experience the joys of tomorrow. Imagine a huge book or a wall of stickes to symbolize your progress overtime! Inspired! Imma probably do this lol! Visual representation may be intimidating, but it can also be humbling and help people visualize the effort over time.
Happy I can have this conversation with yall. Give service to others and the reward will come tenfold.
I turned 18 in March and growing up is so freaking hard. Watching ISI’s videos and your guys takes on a lot of different things has really opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. Since turning 18, (even a little before that) I’ve cut ties with so many people that weren’t good for my mental health and I’ve taken steps to focus on myself. I rarely put up with bullshit anymore. Someone does me wrong or moves differently, gone. And it’s honestly been so freeing. So thank you guys for teaching me a lot of things and new ways of thinking. I still have a LONG ways to go and I’m not even in my 20’s yet. But I love and respect y’all so much ❤️
Same sis 😭😭😭im turning 18 on the 27th of Sept and already I'm experiencing these things scary asf
@@africanzeya7811 happy early birthday! It is definitely scary but as long as you stand your ground and know what you want out of life and people then you’re already half way there!
Y’all are my people💯 I can only hope and pray I come across individuals that are similar as you two🙏🏽
You guys seriously should have a podcast I’m in love with every single one of these deep talks vulnerable conversations you guys have it really makes a difference when you’re growing up in your twenties to know that there are people with the same mindset as you. I’ve struggled for a whileeeee now trying to find people that have this mindset but I understand everyone is at their own pace and people are seasonal sometimes that’s apart of growth. But appreciate the content guuuyysss 💙💙💙exaggerating that because I get how much time and effort you guys put into content. So thanksss and love y’all💙🙂
Definitely love these QUALITY conversations ❤️
Remember who you were!! Fr that resonates with me so much. Like I used to functionnn under that pressure of highschool. But now that I have more freedom its definitely been lax. WE SHOULD DO A 90 DAY SPRINT! Show up as our boss selves and see the quantum leaps we create. #90daysprint
Ugh YES! Same this summer just took it for myself right now I’m taking a gap year and plan on going to college fall 2022, I had an idea to plan on doing the process throughout the year, but honestly like I’m glad I took that summer since it was gonna be my last as a “kid” without responsibilities because I’m an adult and those summers are gonna be gone. I learned a lot but most of all that I took away was how to enjoy seasons because usually I felt like I’ve been just passing by in life, existing but not living, so yea it really gave me a perspective to be fully present and or try to actively be fully present.
This is my favorite quality conversation episode so far because I operate in the same frequency as y’all and it’s so refreshing to watch! Y’all I was taking notes because the gems you were dropping like I had to pause and rewind cause y’all were spitting facts! I’m just so grateful that you guys are walking in your purpose because the content y’all produce individually and together is having an impact in my life. I feel like y’all are my friends for real because I’m learning so much from y’all and even though I can’t reciprocate it I pray that y’all know that you’re making a difference! Thank you so much for feeding me mentally, emotionally and spiritually. These quality conversations are more than just videos and entertainment because it’s adding value in my life and motivating me to operate in my highest and best use so that I can also make a difference and an impact in the world. I literally look forward to these videos every week and it’s perfect that y’all upload on Monday’s cause it fuels me to operate to my fullest potential throughout the week. Anyways I can talk so much about how y’all are changing my life but thank you so much. I love y’all deep 🤍
I like Josh's ideia the list of the attributes of my higher self I will do that thanks Josh!
I love the warrior in the garden concept, it's another habit that I would like to grow. Also the dopamine detox, I want to do it. I spend a lot of time on my phone so thank you for doing these talks. They are very insightful and love you guys!!!! Keep up the awesome work!!!!
I loved everything except when isi said anyone who is satisfied with where they are should stay away from her…I understand wanting to elevate, but elevation is not only a monetary concept. Also it’s good to be content and satisfied at every stage In your life, whilst desiring more. The bible says rejoice even in adversity. We shouldn’t be on a chase for money, nothing wrong with being rich but it’s the mindset. It seems like perhaps money and success has become an idol for the two of you. Look at your hearts more instead of this “higher self” humble ourselves and do all for the glory of God. Love one another, work hard but don’t make idols. Appreciate where you are now and allow yourself to rest in it. Chasing anything other than God and making that your life will always leave you feeling empty and running running running. Store your treasures up higher. The the highest in God. Not ourselves.
Planning definitely allows you to take control! Good for my anxiety too Josh 😊 And minimize distractions when use hot productive things in place
Spoke nothing but facts 🙌🏾
Hey guys! I absolutely love your videos I’ve been a fan for the past 4 years 😭 I found isi’s channel when I first started my hair journey and I’m so proud of how far you both have come. I’ve been watching this amazing podcast on TH-cam called "Nice and Neat" hosted by 2 former athletes and a businessman. I must say the topics are truly amazing and I would love to see a reaction video from you and Josh of one of their videos
I feel like my last three years (21-24) have been solely devoted to fine tuning my inner circle to what I want it to be.
Isi and Josh... These are my exact thoughts, feelings and being....This is 😧!
You two are phenomenal. Love your intentionality in being the best version of yourselves for yourselves, each other, and others in general. It’s refreshing and inspiring to see this kind of love. It gives me hope. Isi (and Josh) I know you’ll like a podcast called To My Sisters on Spotify and TH-cam, by two young black British women. They touch on a lot of insightful topics I know you’ll appreciate. God bless you two even more!
Y’all dropped so many gems !!!! Definitely taking note and aiming to reach my higher self, because right now I’d fire me if I was my own boss !
Wow Josh dropped so many gems in this conversation! I’m so proud🙏🏾 He definitely needs to share his growth, wisdom & intellect as an individual!!! He is thriving internally & I love that for him!!!
So happy y’all posted, I peep 👀 the consistency
I we had more Genuine People like you guys on earth everywhere. The world will be in such a better place. Y'all just motivate me! You also help me and my boyfriend relationship all the time. The both of you guys are definetly creating a impact on so many lives, and I thank God for you both!
I can agree with Josh when it comes to the way our brain functions, because I too have waves of thoughts which trigger my anxiety and make me feel like I'm not doing enough. It could be an Aquarius thing who knows. I really enjoyed this talk it all resonated with what I'm going through and trying to be a better person overall so that I may be a blessing unto others.
yessss my soror dom💗💚 it definitely depends on who you know, what you hear about greek life, and the chapters on your campus. i didn’t know anything about this world before college but joining was definitely one of the best decisions i’ve made. the sisterhood i’ve gained is like no other. it’s so great to be around like minded women and definitely something i could say i didn’t have pre-AKA.
When that Arises and Virgo mix together 💯
Loved the comparisons of birth vs. death. On point Josh! I took notes, lol!
I appreciate this conversation so much. What stuck with me was being your own boss. I never thought about how I need to really MANAGE myself because at the end of the day I am my own boss. And I’ve been doing terrible as well. Staying disciplined is so hard , but when I think about it as a job, it gets easier.
I can relate to Isi a lot!! And I honestly can say that my previous partners have been like josh, a big friend group and I got a handful of homies haha
At 34:31 I definitely agree that you have to ask yourself the difficult honest questions. But I do appreciate that you changed your language from saying "you have to be hard on yourself" to "you have to be willing to be firm and fair" because being "hard" on yourself could potentially do more damage than good. Some people for some parts of their life may thrive on that type of harsh self-talk but it may not always be motivated, then what? Then negative self-talk kicks in and whatever childhood traumas can be triggered and now you find yourself in a fear mode of a plethora of different behaviors. The biggest example I can mention is analysis paralysis. All in all, I know that you have to allow yourself to go through the ebbs and flows of life with grace. When you are at a turning point or pivotal age or just a crossroads in life you are going to have those "low" "lazy" moments when you need to give your body and spirit time to rest to gear up for the next leap in life. 27 is a game-changer but 30 is even more so. You are in your Saturn return years right now and these are the most pivotal for most because this is when you figure out what everything you have done up until this moment in time has prepared you for. And that's for anyone. Spirit has a very special way of moving us even when we didn't realize we were being moved. However unconscious you are about your life it doesn't matter. The seeds you have been sewing since about 21 will show you what your next chapter in life will reflect. Some people move forward and some people have realizations of adjustments and amendments. But that's okay too.
Yep we need a podcast from y’all lol loved everything about this!! I am so thankful I have friends who are like minded and constantly thirsty to grow. It’s so necessary. Focusing on these next 4 years before 30 to really dig deep, find out who I am, and detoxify. Thanks for this chat yall!
Just sitting literally taking notes and wisdom point from this sit down conversation and I see the growth. I feel it as well. I've been watching you guys since cooking in your college dorm and this is amazing. Growth. Both together and individually.
I love the board with sticky notes idea. Definitely gonna begin doing that❤️
Isi your skin thoughhhh! Damn the melanin is poppin in this video. it looks all smooth and silky. Josh looking great as well! Oh and I see yall puttin in the work at the gym, biceps coming throughhh!
ISI is so relatable you sound just like me. It’s crazy I literally was just saying this , I LOVE GROWTH and I thrive being around people who have that mindset to do the same thing!!! I value friendships so much and I enjoy pouring into the people I love, come across etc… and I yearn for that same kind of effort. I love seeing people thrive and enjoy being a part of peoples journey it’s crazy literally everything ISI said resonates with me on every level. ❤️
And when it comes to deep conversation I’m a sucker for them. I can’t entertain anything that’s not that. Sometimes my friends would call me to deep or I’m thinking about something tooooo deep. It’s hard to converse with people sometimes because surface level convos does nothing for me.