If you are over 40 and do not look like Halle Berry or Jennifer Lopez, and a young man from a poor country love bombs you, how do you not realize it's a scam?
Halle Berry and Jennifer Lopez are a poor choice for the looks department because they're not that hot looking! How about Zoe Kravitz and Halle Bailey...or even Dakota Johnson??🙄
I had a foreign man latch onto me in Egypt. I told him I had no money and would be great to move to Egypt to live with him. He legged it pretty fast lol.
well, probably we need to interview these men and get their side of the story. These ladies are just desperate and living with them could be overwhelming
@@manymany5076 I agree with you . I would love to hear the men sides of their saga the whys and the personal feelings of them having to hooked up with these type of lady’s . Do they consider these women ladies or something else ? Do they feel overwhelmed by these women who buy their services.
A friend of mine keeps falling for "Russian Brides" even though he knows that he's being ripped off by every one of these "relationships" the sellers know their marks very well. The love addicted are their best customers....and amen (!) to being single.
We get your point. Some people enjoy the rush that comes from being ripped off, and just like gamblers, with every disillusion a new opportunity opens up in their horizons. @@LeTrashPanda
That only starts with self awareness. Self love can be self deceit. When 99.9 percent see you as a 4 and you see yourself as an 8. Yea! Houston, we have a problem
Instead of seeing it as a big red flag, they feel proud that they still have the ability to "attract young men". Self flattery is a dangerous amd terrible thing.
If it makes any of these women feel better, when I was 19, a Moroccan man named Zuhair was living in my home city in the US asked me out on a date (we worked at the same restaurant) and two weeks later, he told me he loved me and wanted me to marry him. He was good looking but I knew nothing about him. Smelling a scheme, I said no and he dumped me. Six months later, he was married to my co-worker; they stay married two years almost to the day when he bolted - he'd stayed long enough to have US residency. His older brother Rachid had done the same thing. This was 30 years ago! This scam is as old as the hills.
My daughter is only 32 and very pretty yet she's being scammed by an older man (he is 40 and not that attractive) that she met on a holiday (he was the barman at the hotel).
@ileanamuntean7338 my daughter is 21 and could turn heads if she walked around in a bin/garbage bag, she's absolutely stunning but she's exceptionally wise
I was living in Senegal for work, one day this local guy approached me and we started chatting...The day after he told me he loved me...😆He could have waited a bit more to make the whole thing more believable😂
Yep. I have lived and worked abroad and even when younger always had my guard up. Was in a three year relationship with a Guatemalan man who had a business,traveled internationally as a musician,never asked for a dime ...there are genuine people out there.
I don't think these women were in love. I think they just loved the ego boost they had because they thought they were still hot enough to pull a young foreign guy. completely delusional
@@katemarkham1366 I think people get confused with the idea of being in love and actually being in love theres the fairytale type love that I don't think exists then there's the other love that is just a complete ego boost when a younger man from another country who's 30 yrs younger or even 35 40 yrs younger and they think at there age that's love or there is real love and that's meeting somone who you both have a attraction to each other you have similar interests you enjoy the same hobbies or sports ect ect then you date for a while then you actually do love one another because you have built a foundation to build a amazing life together but I also think that not everyone in old age has to be with somone people just need companionship I don't think getting married after a couple of weeks is wise I think it's actually extremely pretty desparate just because you marry somone dosent mean you own them or they belong to you it dosent work that way these young men all wanted visas it was so obvious and I no these women already new this also because they would of had there own family's saying the same thing to them so I no they new because it would be the first words out of my mouth had 1 of my family members doing this
I had to break 18 years friendship, with my best friend because he scammed Canadian woman to get a visa and two years later divorced her and Married a younger woman from his home. I don’t like seeing people being taking advantage.
@@adrianmainz2716don’t be dumb. A lot of these men are good at showing ONLY what they want to show it. Usually takes time before you see the truth in a person. It is also unfortunate that people have no patience. I married my first and only boyfriend I already knew to give people time to show their true selves. Happily married 20 plus and my hubby STILLS treats me like a queen. I know I am blessed and thank God for my father who taught me well how to deal with men. Men always always introduces the representative….FIRST. The representative is the person women want to be with and be friends with. 😌
Yesss, oh how I know this so well!! He was beautiful but gave me more trauma then the passing of my Mother!! But God brought my self esteem and self love up so much since then that I would never again!!
@@NewlifeNewbeginnings2 while that experience would have broken some individuals, YOU emerged VICTORIOUSLY!!! That was the “hidden” gift in all of that trauma and pain! …wiser, stronger and so much more resilient than ever before! 💗 You are FREE! 💗
The best example is Robert Redford in Twilight Zone. He was so young and beautiful and kind the old lady who was scared of Death calling for her, finally opened the door for him. Alas, despite his beauty and charm he was The Grim Reaper....
I think all the women had longines for love . That took over all analytical thinking. Hats of their courage to share their vulnerability . You saved many men- women going through this ordeal🙏
To those who feel lonely, get out into the community; garden clubs, photography clubs, cooking clubs, book clubs, volunteer, etc. If you have a passion or interest in any of these, you'll find like-minded or equally passionate people out there who share your interest. The least that can happen is you'll make new friends, and who knows perhaps develop a deeper relationship with someone in your own community.
His gums are fine. Mine, for example, are nearly black because I am black and have melanin concentration. If I saw a black person with pink/red gumbs, I'd think they have an illness.
@Texas_ice Actually, he has brown gums because he is not caucasian. As for his teeth being discoloured, although some are crooked, they looked very white to me. Look in the mirror, perhaps you'll see a racist staring back.
“It is better to travel alone than in bad company”. Is a saying that’s been passed down at least four generations of women in my family and has helped me no end when choosing not just partners but friends too.
don't think it is/was lust for the women who are starved for love and companionship. perhaps the message should be, think with your head, not with your heart or your genitals.
the only time I was ever lonely was when my husband died, it took me 5 years to recover but I am lonely no more. I am busy, happy, learning new things!
Sweet! " Mobear has a beautiful smile"... compared to what exactly? A camel? 😂😂😂 At least she only lost 8 teeth and got alopecia because of the stress, I think she got off quite lightly! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you live in the UK and are over 50 and a man from Nigeria who is 20 contacts you to pursue a romantic relationship, you should have alarm bells burning into your skull.
I'm almost certain, the mother of this little girl did not die. He knows that this woman has empathy and wanted a child herself and using her feelings to use her as a cash cow again.
they didn't show the phone call...??? that guy will be a LIFELONG! Scammer. They wrote that Julio Eglesias song about him,,,, lol,,, Come ON,,, have to Laugh!
I do feel some empathy for these women. When I met my partner 17 years ago, I was a 30 year old newly single mother after a breakdown of my 14 year marriage. My partner was at the time 19, turning 20 so there is a 10 year age gap. He was french and incredibly good looking. I had my daughter at 28 and, what no one could have known, was I would suffer from the effects of gestational back pain ever since. We dated for a year before I introduced him to my daughter, whose own father barely sees her more than a few hours a year. And we have been happy together ever since. I am in a lot of pain and that has affected my life because im not able to be as active as I once was, let alone the psychological effects of constant chronic pain. And he is just the most incredible person...he has stuck by me through everything and always shows how much he loves me. And he has been the BEST father to our daughter...He's been her dad since she was 3. Sometimes, these guys are genuine! I remember at the time people saying to me maybe it was a scam or something but we are still together in ❤️
I am symapthetic towards Patricia but when she started using phrases such as: 'I felt like a Princess' and 'love at first sight' I did roll my eyes, come on lady!! 😂
Just a lonely lady in need of love & affection as we all need, who was happy a YM was interested, she could still, " pull men" however, she only fooled herself...😔
I know a woman who has married foreigners 3 times. She has hiven out 3 British passports. Amazingly she is always surprised and upset when they leave her as soon as passport is secured 😢 Some women never learn!!!!
He didn't "lose" all those things you gave him, he just sold everything! It's all about money, and not about love at all. Love rat is a good description.
I'm a 50-something man with a receding hairline and an expanding waistline. Why would i ever fool myself into believing that a young and reasonably attractive person would fall madly in love with me (and in the span of two weeks, no less) unless they saw me as a meal ticket or a literal ticket out of their poverty-stricken country?
Its so obvious to everyone else that its a scam but I guess for these lonely women they are just blinded by the attention of someone much younger than themselves
Lonely men lonely women. Makes no difference. The scum is the one chasing after them. Not enough bullets. If you think its not possible in any situation to get love bombed and end up with someone who doesn't really care for you. Well you have some nasty surprises waiting for you. Ton of men and women running around cheating on their so called loves.
My mother-in-law (widow) almost fell for a love scammer at Facebook. Luckily she told us about him. We then found out that he had a lot of fake profiles and we told her about it. I think it often is loneliness that makes elderly women vulnerable to scammers. Man doesn‘t always behave reasonably.
As a woman from a third world country, I can say this much: we do everything in our power to have a man in our lives and do anything it takes to keep our men happy. Our men do not treat us well. And despite all that we do- if they still go for an elderly woman from a first world country, then it's a given that they are going for the only thing we could not provide: a first world visa.
Very well written, youth and seduction as a commodity has always been misclassified as white older male abuse when it is indeed a human one. I am an immigrant from a poor country who moved to northern California and the empowered women behave just like empowered males. I am very good looking and i get followed inside food markets and propositioned daily.
@@r.bishop1127 That is the mindset in a lot of hypertraditional countries. I have met people from places that fit that description and they are shocked when you are not married with kids by 25. I told one of someone I know who had a child at 38 and they were disgusted and acted like it was insanity. Totally different mindset.
I had a couple men try the same thing to me but knew right away they were trying to leave their country and come over to attempt to gain citizenship. The tip off should be how anxious they are to get married before you hardly know them. Also such an age difference and they always say it doesn't matter. Hey if it looks fishy and too good to be true it usually is.
This happens all the time! The key to avoiding these types of situations is to not be so desperate! I feel for these women, but they were clearly very delusional!
I've had this experience in America. Men who come on very strong, talk very sweet, nice dates. They introduce you to friends and family quickly. They talk about marriage in such a romantic way. So many offered me thousands of dollars. I never fell for any of it! Many use dating apps to get the women. Many are already married in their country.
IDK. They are not wise I guess. Remember how most Johnny Depp defenders were and still are middle aged women? just because he was handsome 45 years ago. There are so many scammers who fool these women into thinking they are chatting and in love with the real JD to take money from them. Scamfish channed made 3 videos on these women this year alone.
If a young guy approached me romantically I would wonder why he wasn't after a girl from his own generation. And I'd ignore him. No fool like an old fool! Sorry for being harsh but let's get real ladies!!!
You're a western woman, mature, have lived in the western economy, but then suddenly I am supposed to believe it came as such a shock to these western women when the boyfriend from a third world country with zero employment skills and no opportunity to save any kind of cash, turns up on a fiance visa gets married to them but then have no ability to contribute to the house hold income. I think these women maybe deep down got involved because they thought these guys will be dependant on them and cannot walk away, and how wrong are they.
Why is Michelle still giving him the opportunity to contact her? And even if he is telling the truth about his daughter, why is she insisting to find out? She can still be easily manipulated and scammed. She has not improved.😮
The wife is alive and well and laughing with her husband over the old and stupid English woman willing to fund their lifestyle. This is why I have zero sympathy for these women they are delusional and need therapy for their low self worth.
@@sg5720Yup , it’s delusion unfortunately. And desperation. they all thought they were “the one” and “different” from all the other women their young foreign prince has met. they wanted to be “ picked” by these men SO BADLY and did everything to be picked. When they finally got “picked”, they felt inevitable. The idea of them doing ANYTHING to wrong them didn’t even register in their minds for a second. All red flags out the window. Even if they saw the red flags, they were too desperate to leave them. Their foreign, credit card seeking, wallet loving young boy could NEVER wrong them. 🤥. Ugh. It makes me sad/angry to see these successful women have ZEROO respect for themselves. NONE. its actually aggravating.
These women are not victims of scams. They are victims of their own stupidity. Can they find someone their age? I tried to warn a friend about a guy but she would not believe me. She thought it was love between a 22 year old and her at 60. In the end she lost her savings and her house. The boyfriend meanwhile lives in a «palace» in Gambia with his Gambian wife.
We have a loneliness epidemic in the U.S. Prescriptions for anti-depressant medications have doubled over the past 10-15 years. Anxiety and depression are the new norm, and feelings of social alienation are a huge problem. 😢
When i was actively dating i met a guy at a bar that i hsd met online. His furst words were im a little short of cash right now. I bought us each a beer, excused myself to go to the bathroom, left and never looked back. Never, ever give a man money when you first meet.
Both men and women can be gold diggers and users. There are famous people and even rich people who fall for it every time. If it is a one way relationship consider yourself as being on their payroll. For example you can see Melania doesn’t love Trump. She is just on the payroll. Living the luxurious life dealing with him minimally. Same thing to me. Some people know they are being used for their money but they don’t mind paying…. Like Kanye West and Kim Kardashion. Just saying. The concept of men using women and women using men are classic. People use people to get what they want. Manipulators at work. Basketball players are another example of easy dudes that get manipulated by pretty girls who get pregnant and then they must pay thousands of dollars for 18 years for their child. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
I feel ashamed for those desperate women. These African vacation love affairs are so badly notorious, yet there are still delusional women who fall for this obvious scam.
Happens everywhere, people have to be self aware. Military installations are infamous for this. Traveled the world if you are going to have a fling, do it. Don't bring it home. You are an adult.
I know I do and thats the way it stayed - a fantasy. In fact... sigh... ok... if Id had the money I would've married him except, God blessed me to be broke. And I do look like JLi / Halle Berry ! Another fantasy 🤣 but for a while I felt beautiful. One may think these women foolish but as humans we are wired this way and it feels so real to our psyches....
Those women aren’t victims, they’re predators. Notice how they never fall in love with foreign men their own age & always a foreign young man from a poor country. They’re creepy secs tourists.
These guys that get seasonal jobs at holiday resorts usually come from small villages and will never leave that village EVER, so when a British woman falls for their charms they’ll do everything they can to play the part. It’s not the woman they want, it’s the chance of getting out of the village and getting a VISA. When will these women stop falling for it?! Telling you you’re the love of their life and making dreams together is all part of the visa plan, oldest trick in the book AND they’ll spot you a mile off!
Many of these women are divorced, which is a sure sign that the men they married were undesirable too. I fail to see how people in these posts, think this is just a 'foreign' man thing. How many of them had already been lied to by men who were supposedly their childhood sweethearts? I find so many posts so xenophobic, it's frightening. Ps. I have 3 family members who have married men they met while either working or holidaying overseas. ALL of them are married still, with 20-30 years under their belts, with successful and productive children etc.
I know someone who ended up with over 500k debt because her husband had nothing when he arrived. She had to buy everything for him. She even played for airplane tickets so he could visit his family regularly. Because he wasn’t able to get a loan, she took out loans for him on her name. As soon as he got his paperwork to stay in the country he was gone. Took everything with him and left her up to her ears in debt.
Ugh…. You just know these women had people in their lives that told them this was a bad idea, but they didn’t listen! It’s pure evil to trick someone into falling in love with you, just to use that love for personal gain!
That Michelle also is so clueless about the child thing. There is no reason when surrounded with his very large family that he'd want Michelle to raise his child EXCEPT for material gains ! Schooling, clothing, passport, more money, that's it, all paid by her and other British citizens. Nothing, but nothing else. Block him !
I guess she is trying to have Gov change the law somehow to extend time for getting citizenship..so its not that fast and may deter scammers and protect victims
the thing is it wasn't 'marriage fraud', they willingly and consensually entered into those arrangements. The issue is that either they felt obliged to go ahead when they weren't ready, but that is their judgment call still not 'fraud' and/or hadn't taken enough time to actually understand who they were with, get to know them and their culture and the men's expectations - they were not 'western' with all that comes with it but from cultures that (possibly) don't respect/treat women as equals or the same as in the UK.
Fraud. ???? Come on ladies...you fell for the sweet talk and phony attention. No one twisted your arm..no one to blame but yourself . What's that old adage..."Marry in haste...repent at leisure "..!!
Well, I kinda notice that capitalism is a problem. Everyone wants to make fun of physical appearance. Yet, at the end of the day muscles and loins never seem to go out of style. Not to mention access to lots of money.
I'm 55 and would never fall for this. I don't grasp why single women feel the need to have any man to make them feel like a whole human being! We are already whole, go inside yourself, find yourself, and learn to love yourself. I enjoy being single very much, always have always will.
What's worse than falling in love over the internet and sending money to someone they never met, or meeting them, getting love-bombed, then married. Both want meal tickets and visas/green cards, then off looking for something better. I really don’t understand it myself. I do understand going on holiday/vacation and having a fling, but don't think it's love.
I'd like to know what happens to these men when the women tells the police theyve been scammed. Their visa should be cancelled and they should be forced to leave the country.
I had a patient with severe mobility issues in contact with a man who writes her letters. She has sent him money. He told her he is a high ranking army official in Texas. Every time he gives her a date that he will come and see her some kind “assignment” comes up and he has to cancel. She is so smitten by him and always talks about him. She get angry when people challenge the intentions of this guy. Some of the staff thinks it is someone close to her catfishing her out of money.
My mom's friend got scammed out of $80k from someone fitting this exact same description a couple years ago. I wonder if it's the same person, or a common scam
A common scam they use photos from the internet and claim to be in the military. It’s very easy to do a reverse image search and find out who the real person is.
@@QueenBee-xd1xk It’s a very common scam. There’s a channel here called “Catfished” that has a video every week with a new person falling for that scam. Usually the scammer is in Nigeria and has stolen the photos of someone good looking.
Look, I am a 47 years old woman , people say I am very attractive, but there's NO WAY a 20 something year old guy would come on to me because he loves me and wants to marry me..😂😂😂 Are you kidding me?!
It’s exactly what happened to me but I manage to divorce her prior to the visa arriving. I found out she literally had another life outside of our marriage. Thank God I listened to my intuitions and decided to investigate her and then surprise her with the divorce. Now 4 month divorced and happiest I ever been plus I have met someone else who is in the same country as me.
@@suziesue7767 I know right. I truly did love her and supported her and her extended family financially for 3 years. I was devastated to find out she did that after promising that she loved me and that we had something specially. We are not different in age hence I couldn’t understand why. It’s not even about the money which can be made but it’s the betrayal that I couldn’t get over easily. However, I am better for it now and in a better mind state to be able to see everything clearly. I forgave her but it’s a lesson learnt. But thank you for your kind words.
That's like my nephew train to be a sonar operator in the navy knowing full well he was getting married and going to live in Pennsylvania. I told him he could be a sonar operator looking for land sharks. Lol😊
When you are lonely , you become so vulnerable. I feel really sorry for the women who were scammed by those fraudsters. This is a lesson for the other women who are desperate for love. Never be so blind in love. We must check a person's background completely before falling in love with him or her.
It’s quite simple, really, if you have to spend money on someone to secure their love or company, don’t cry to anyone when you are taken advantage of. Love yourself enough to be fully happy individually on your own. If you need another person to be happy you are very vulnerable to being taken advantage of. Never marry someone who is not your financial equal and who can’t support himself.
Yes they do. Apparently statistics show that women find 80% of men unattractive, which is hilarious because women have never been heavier, according also to statistics. Meaning their standards are getting higher while their quality is dipping lower.
The women might be deluded. But why would you find it so unbelievable for those men to be attracted to the women in the documentary? The guys look rubbish and are total losers with no education. Or are you suggesting that because they are “young or younger”, they should be able to attract a model?
In Morocco the young guys were proposing marriage to every girl they met just hoping someone would take them somewhere else. I remember this young guy was telling this German girl that they should get married and go live together in Germany and she was like " im not so sure my dad will go for that after just 2 days"
Older single women should watch this show as a warning. It's easy to call them naive, but loneliness can cause people to miss the warning signs that someone is using you.
not if you have any sense!!! There is no way I would ever let a man use me no matter how lonely I may get . It's called self esteem and knowing you are worth something
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If you are over 40 and do not look like Halle Berry or Jennifer Lopez, and a young man from a poor country love bombs you, how do you not realize it's a scam?
Most of them arent lookers themselves either
Halle Berry and Jennifer Lopez are a poor choice for the looks department because they're not that hot looking! How about Zoe Kravitz and Halle Bailey...or even Dakota Johnson??🙄
@@beverlyledbetter4906 Um...those women you named are all under 40, which totally misses my point.
@@PerPelle-qt6ti paedophil*a
@@beverlyledbetter4906 No heterosexual man would agree with you 😉
I had a foreign man latch onto me in Egypt. I told him I had no money and would be great to move to Egypt to live with him. He legged it pretty fast lol.
Exactly, tell them your credit rating is in the dumper too.
That man just wanted to get to America. Good for you, telling him that!
Touché girl.
But you sure do bang him Lol
@@chlomyster8526other countries dont use credit!
Watching these kinds of videos make me more grateful for being single and make me realize I’m not as lonely as I thought.
well, probably we need to interview these men and get their side of the story. These ladies are just desperate and living with them could be overwhelming
@@manymany5076 I agree with you . I would love to hear the men sides of their saga the whys and the personal feelings of them having to hooked up with these type of lady’s . Do they consider these women ladies or something else ? Do they feel overwhelmed by these women who buy their services.
A friend of mine keeps falling for "Russian Brides" even though he knows that he's being ripped off by every one of these "relationships" the sellers know their marks very well. The love addicted are their best customers....and amen (!) to being single.
We get your point. Some people enjoy the rush that comes from being ripped off, and just like gamblers, with every disillusion a new opportunity opens up in their horizons. @@LeTrashPanda
Yes 👍
I’m very happy
Work , exercise going home and colouring / painting/ crafting
Busy life 🎉
Tip # 1 Don't marry anyone for at least 2 years.
Tip # 2 Don't give money to anyone you date!
No just don't marry em lol 😂
“It’s a woman’s dream to go to another country and marry a younger man.” Uh….what? That’s not my dream… or anyone else I know. Really, really odd.
Low self-esteem and low everything 😪
Yeah no thanks
Low self esteem
*@Jenk.6196 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅*
I had to rewind that part 3x to make sure I heard her correctly. No one I know wants this. Maybe men. But not women
This is why self love is so important 🤦🏻♀️
That only starts with self awareness. Self love can be self deceit. When 99.9 percent see you as a 4 and you see yourself as an 8. Yea! Houston, we have a problem
So true.
@@danielgardner394 someone can love themself and still have a realistic view of their looks.
Agreed 🤦🏻♀️
SELF LOVE is what gets them scammed.
A 64 year old woman with osteoporosis and a 29 year old young man, how can you not see that you were fooled
Yeah it's disturbing how these women are disillusioned
Like feeding a carrot to a gumsie horse
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Instead of seeing it as a big red flag, they feel proud that they still have the ability to "attract young men". Self flattery is a dangerous amd terrible thing.
@@Nanjayal they think they are a catch, being able to attract young men, Lawd have mercy
I feel so sorry for these ladies. Although I´m a 47 years old single latin woman, I don´t think I would ever fall for anything like this
Don’t feel sorry for them. They’re foolish and stupid
What did he say ,,,your mother is a fool😮.some people are good and get played it happens to the best of us.its ok they are scum
If it makes any of these women feel better, when I was 19, a Moroccan man named Zuhair was living in my home city in the US asked me out on a date (we worked at the same restaurant) and two weeks later, he told me he loved me and wanted me to marry him. He was good looking but I knew nothing about him. Smelling a scheme, I said no and he dumped me. Six months later, he was married to my co-worker; they stay married two years almost to the day when he bolted - he'd stayed long enough to have US residency. His older brother Rachid had done the same thing. This was 30 years ago! This scam is as old as the hills.
My daughter is only 32 and very pretty yet she's being scammed by an older man (he is 40 and not that attractive) that she met on a holiday (he was the barman at the hotel).
@ileanamuntean7338 my daughter is 21 and could turn heads if she walked around in a bin/garbage bag, she's absolutely stunning but she's exceptionally wise
I applaud to these women.
They have the courage to go public to share their stories, so other women can avoid these kind of situations.
This kind of scam is as old as the hills, how we still have women who do not see it in this day and age, is unbelievable 😮😮
No one is going to avoid anything. They are all morons and millions of more morons out there.
The problem is, many will see this and still get fall for it, because they think it will not happen to them.
@@Angela-cc1hd love
@@naceraher9632 Yes in their eyes but unfortunately not in the man's eyes🤔
I was living in Senegal for work, one day this local guy approached me and we started chatting...The day after he told me he loved me...😆He could have waited a bit more to make the whole thing more believable😂
Wha ha ha😂
Yep. I have lived and worked abroad and even when younger always had my guard up. Was in a three year relationship with a Guatemalan man who had a business,traveled internationally as a musician,never asked for a dime ...there are genuine people out there.
😂😂😂😂
I am surprised he didn't say let's marry before saying I love you😅
At least 23 more hours
There's no fool like an old fool. Heartbreaking when you're in love .
I don't think these women were in love. I think they just loved the ego boost they had because they thought they were still hot enough to pull a young foreign guy. completely delusional
I’m amazed at how many old fools there actually are!
Amen
@@katemarkham1366 I think people get confused with the idea of being in love and actually being in love theres the fairytale type love that I don't think exists then there's the other love that is just a complete ego boost when a younger man from another country who's 30 yrs younger or even 35 40 yrs younger and they think at there age that's love or there is real love and that's meeting somone who you both have a attraction to each other you have similar interests you enjoy the same hobbies or sports ect ect then you date for a while then you actually do love one another because you have built a foundation to build a amazing life together but I also think that not everyone in old age has to be with somone people just need companionship I don't think getting married after a couple of weeks is wise I think it's actually extremely pretty desparate just because you marry somone dosent mean you own them or they belong to you it dosent work that way these young men all wanted visas it was so obvious and I no these women already new this also because they would of had there own family's saying the same thing to them so I no they new because it would be the first words out of my mouth had 1 of my family members doing this
My mom always said I rather have my daughter single and sane rather than married and miserable.
Girl your momma was right !
oh me too
Great mother!
AMEN
She's a femanist. Rest In peace
I had to break 18 years friendship, with my best friend because he scammed Canadian woman to get a visa and two years later divorced her and Married a younger woman from his home. I don’t like seeing people being taking advantage.
💯 that's a heartless person so better stay away
He don't care
That’s sad 😢
why were you friends with a predator, in the first place ?
@@adrianmainz2716don’t be dumb. A lot of these men are good at showing ONLY what they want to show it. Usually takes time before you see the truth in a person. It is also unfortunate that people have no patience. I married my first and only boyfriend I already knew to give people time to show their true selves. Happily married 20 plus and my hubby STILLS treats me like a queen. I know I am blessed and thank God for my father who taught me well how to deal with men. Men always always introduces the representative….FIRST. The representative is the person women want to be with and be friends with. 😌
The devil never comes to you as a scary monster personified, he presents himself as everything you’ve ever wanted!
Yesss, oh how I know this so well!! He was beautiful but gave me more trauma then the passing of my Mother!! But God brought my self esteem and self love up so much since then that I would never again!!
@@NewlifeNewbeginnings2 while that experience would have broken some individuals, YOU emerged VICTORIOUSLY!!! That was the “hidden” gift in all of that trauma and pain! …wiser, stronger and so much more resilient than ever before! 💗 You are FREE! 💗
@@Paulaatmdbqdotnet thank you 🙏🏾 😊
Amen sister. That’s why we keep I. Prayer and ask Father God for discernment in everything we do.
The best example is Robert Redford in Twilight Zone. He was so young and beautiful and kind the old lady who was scared of Death calling for her, finally opened the door for him.
Alas, despite his beauty and charm he was The Grim Reaper....
I think all the women had longines for love . That took over all analytical thinking. Hats of their courage to share their vulnerability . You saved many men- women going through this ordeal🙏
It’s great to be on your own and not with the wrong person!
And it is great to be with the right person. 😊
Yes if you can find them!
Here, HEERE!! 👌🙌
no guy in his 20's is looking for a KY Jelly Amazon Subscription relationship😂
I'm with you, had the bad experience, rather be alone !
To those who feel lonely, get out into the community; garden clubs, photography clubs, cooking clubs, book clubs, volunteer, etc. If you have a passion or interest in any of these, you'll find like-minded or equally passionate people out there who share your interest. The least that can happen is you'll make new friends, and who knows perhaps develop a deeper relationship with someone in your own community.
I don't think they're lonely, I think they use romantic relationships as a band-aid for deeper issues.
Dont we have men in the uk that go out with women for their money ? (Or the other way round)
“He has the most BEAUTIFUL smile.”
*camera pans to brown gums and discolored teeth.*
😂
His gums are fine. Mine, for example, are nearly black because I am black and have melanin concentration. If I saw a black person with pink/red gumbs, I'd think they have an illness.
@Texas_ice
Actually, he has brown gums because he is not caucasian. As for his teeth being discoloured, although some are crooked, they looked very white to me. Look in the mirror, perhaps you'll see a racist staring back.
@@joydivision2079😂😂😂
His teeth were conflicted
What did Diane expect !!! when Mobear came with one suite case. SHE WAS SURPRISED!!!!???
Wow 1 suitcase the scam is on
And the tablet, iphone, etc. he "lost" was directly changed into money he sent home.
She is such a heartful woman ! I wish her a true loving man.
Came to clean her out!!!!😂
From the gamba as well 😂😂😂
“It is better to travel alone than in bad company”. Is a saying that’s been passed down at least four generations of women in my family and has helped me no end when choosing not just partners but friends too.
I love this.
It’s a well known saying.
Travelling solo in the world and life is the most bliss.
A great saying
Said by Buddha.
Never confuse lust with love.
The mistake alot of us make
don't think it is/was lust for the women who are starved for love and companionship. perhaps the message should be, think with your head, not with your heart or your genitals.
It’s not even lust…..
Never confuse exploitation with love.
I think the only lust was for money.
the only time I was ever lonely was when my husband died, it took me 5 years to recover but I am lonely no more. I am busy, happy, learning new things!
I can’t believe how gullible and naive these older women are. I mean, it’s amazing they’ve made it this far in life.
But no one says anything when the roles are reversed. Older man much younger woman!!!
@@sbrown4156that’s right! No difference.
Let’s not judge. We all want to be loved and some of us get blinded.
delusional
The lady who lived in Norfolk was much more attractive than her husband.
She lost me at "Mobear, has a beautiful smile"🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Sweet! " Mobear has a beautiful smile"... compared to what exactly? A camel? 😂😂😂 At least she only lost 8 teeth and got alopecia because of the stress, I think she got off quite lightly! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😅💪💪💪😂🚨
If you live in the UK and are over 50 and a man from Nigeria who is 20 contacts you to pursue a romantic relationship, you should have alarm bells burning into your skull.
Definitely 😂
Spot on 😂😂 wouldn't want to no anyways
I'm almost certain, the mother of this little girl did not die. He knows that this woman has empathy and wanted a child herself and using her feelings to use her as a cash cow again.
If she did pass, he is only attempting to OFFLOAD the "burden".
they didn't show the phone call...??? that guy will be a LIFELONG! Scammer. They wrote that Julio Eglesias song about him,,,, lol,,, Come ON,,, have to Laugh!
Spot on target!! You read through the BS. My niece is 14 and we in the family hope she learns the sense to avoid men like this as she gets older
Totally !
I do feel some empathy for these women.
When I met my partner 17 years ago, I was a 30 year old newly single mother after a breakdown of my 14 year marriage. My partner was at the time 19, turning 20 so there is a 10 year age gap. He was french and incredibly good looking. I had my daughter at 28 and, what no one could have known, was I would suffer from the effects of gestational back pain ever since.
We dated for a year before I introduced him to my daughter, whose own father barely sees her more than a few hours a year. And we have been happy together ever since. I am in a lot of pain and that has affected my life because im not able to be as active as I once was, let alone the psychological effects of constant chronic pain.
And he is just the most incredible person...he has stuck by me through everything and always shows how much he loves me. And he has been the BEST father to our daughter...He's been her dad since she was 3. Sometimes, these guys are genuine!
I remember at the time people saying to me maybe it was a scam or something but we are still together in ❤️
I was sooo relieved when she said, i want him out of my life and out of my country. God bless her
If a man asks for money that means he can’t afford you.😊
Women are not property, men don't have to afford women. It should be 50/50.
Sprinkle sprinkle
@@SitavNabi😅
No man who ever loved you would. It should ring alarm bells for any woman who hears a man who claims to love her ask for money.
Prostitution rings are created by friends.😊
I am symapthetic towards Patricia but when she started using phrases such as: 'I felt like a Princess' and 'love at first sight' I did roll my eyes, come on lady!! 😂
Just a lonely lady in need of love & affection as we all need, who was happy a YM was interested, she could still, " pull men" however, she only fooled herself...😔
Who would trust that face…my god he looks like wrongun
Sad
so you think love at first sight does not exist?
It’s lust at first sight not love 😂
It's more sensible when on holiday bring home a fridge magnet skip the bother
😂
😂😂😂❤ spot on
I know a woman who has married foreigners 3 times. She has hiven out 3 British passports.
Amazingly she is always surprised and upset when they leave her as soon as passport is secured 😢
Some women never learn!!!!
3 times? Jeez 😫
She knows deep down that she is getting taken advantage of. She just doesn't think that she can be interesting to men who don't need her
Solitude is a blessing and not a curse, just enjoy being on your own by yourself
I married myself. We live happily ever after.
Exactly 🎉❤😂
Me, too! Very happy and honest relationship.
Me too! But I keep asking myself for money I don't have! 😂😂❤❤
@lewoisil 😅😅😅
Amen th that,Sister!°
He didn't "lose" all those things you gave him, he just sold everything! It's all about money, and not about love at all. Love rat is a good description.
Them expecting the police to do anything is beyond delusional.
😂😂
Someone has to stand up to marriage scammers. Michelle thought its the police.
I'm a 50-something man with a receding hairline and an expanding waistline. Why would i ever fool myself into believing that a young and reasonably attractive person would fall madly in love with me (and in the span of two weeks, no less) unless they saw me as a meal ticket or a literal ticket out of their poverty-stricken country?
You are a smart man!
Some do
Have your fun if you want, but do not fool yourself. DO NOT fall for the BS.
Watch the documentary on men travelling to Russia. Same story.
except none of those men are at all attractive.
"he has the most beautifull smile" - it got me soo good, Lord help this woman..
I thought the same thing
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
TBH, I've seen some British guys dental work!!
😂😂😂
Ugh he's horrible and creepy I'd rather be alone none of the men were nice to be honest 😮
Diane was really in love if she thinks Mobair had a "beautiful smile". 🤣
kkkkkkkkkkkkk
lol
She is British after all…
@@Bernie3000
Was that comment really necessary ..?
@@christinecatt8039 apparently.
I could still understand if these were 15 year old girls in their first love. But women aged 50 and over? How can they be so naive?
I've watched a man in his 80's act much worse than a teen. It's shocking to watch a widower lose their mind.
I watch this while cuddling my two dogs. That’s all you need. A blanket of sleeping dogs and a pillow.
That's right!
I have my stuffed animals with me and I'm very happy!
😂😂😂 wooooiiiiieeee!!! Mi not even a go ask the question I want to. 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😆😆😆🤣🤣😅😅😆😆
تقيء
Do kitties count? 😽
Fur /feather babies of all types are way better than..this. AND self love 💝
They went oversees on vacation and came back with parasites lol
😂😂😂
So true
😅😅😅
🤣👍
🎯🎯🎯🎯
Diane "he lost expensive items" 😂love, he sold them!
J
Haha my aunt did this to me from jamaica, i told her she sold them and not to try scam me because im the biggest scammer lool🎉
😂😂😂
Yep lovers Abode.
Immediately after the wedding Diane began to question why he was so keen to marry her 🤦♀️😢
😂😂❤
Loneliness can do terrible things.Makes men and women so vulnerable.
I am never lonely as I enjoy my own company.
Only the fools
there's so many things to do to keep loneliness at bay. these women are clingy and are desperate to be validated by a young foreign guy
I don’t like being a widow, but not desperate for a partner.
@bonnie_gail spot on and even if I felt lonely I'd rather b that then settle for being used
Its so obvious to everyone else that its a scam but I guess for these lonely women they are just blinded by the attention of someone much younger than themselves
Or you know, you could point the finger at the actual perpetrator of the problem.
Love is blind.
blinded by bbc
Lol old white women running after young men in poor country is misery business
They had young black people in their country so no pity
Lonely men lonely women. Makes no difference. The scum is the one chasing after them. Not enough bullets.
If you think its not possible in any situation to get love bombed and end up with someone who doesn't really care for you. Well you have some nasty surprises waiting for you. Ton of men and women running around cheating on their so called loves.
These women are brave to share theirs stories, thank you so much and I hope they are all okay now
Sad sad sad
My mother-in-law (widow) almost fell for a love scammer at Facebook. Luckily she told us about him. We then found out that he had a lot of fake profiles and we told her about it. I think it often is loneliness that makes elderly women vulnerable to scammers. Man doesn‘t always behave reasonably.
Patricia saying i was treated like a princess by his family lol you were a cash cow for the family
Cow bought a sheep to be slaughtered at the wedding 😅
She looks rough hardcore smoker and did not look after herself
Sheep 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
That Tunisian loverboy has the word CREEP written all over his face !! 😅
Indeed 😂 one look on his face and you know NOT to trust him
That is just because you know he is a scammer. Some people have faces like that and are not scammers at all.
@@angelinasouren yeah, but HE definitely found his calling 😎
Yep.
And, he's one of the ugliest creeps on which I've ever laid eyes. 😵
@@angelinasoureneven if I don't know I would know mediately that something is off about them
The drum lady - I hope she now understands that an 'addiction' is not 'love'
Yip, all chemicals 🎉
As a woman from a third world country, I can say this much: we do everything in our power to have a man in our lives and do anything it takes to keep our men happy. Our men do not treat us well. And despite all that we do- if they still go for an elderly woman from a first world country, then it's a given that they are going for the only thing we could not provide: a first world visa.
You speak the truth.
Very well written, youth and seduction as a commodity has always been misclassified as white older male abuse when it is indeed a human one. I am an immigrant from a poor country who moved to northern California and the empowered women behave just like empowered males. I am very good looking and i get followed inside food markets and propositioned daily.
Elderly is 40? Hahaha
@@r.bishop1127 That is the mindset in a lot of hypertraditional countries. I have met people from places that fit that description and they are shocked when you are not married with kids by 25. I told one of someone I know who had a child at 38 and they were disgusted and acted like it was insanity. Totally different mindset.
🙌🙌🙌🙌 Common sense at its finest
I had a couple men try the same thing to me but knew right away they were trying to leave their country and come over to attempt to gain citizenship. The tip off should be how anxious they are to get married before you hardly know them. Also such an age difference and they always say it doesn't matter. Hey if it looks fishy and too good to be true it usually is.
This happens all the time! The key to avoiding these types of situations is to not be so desperate! I feel for these women, but they were clearly very delusional!
I've had this experience in America. Men who come on very strong, talk very sweet, nice dates. They introduce you to friends and family quickly. They talk about marriage in such a romantic way. So many offered me thousands of dollars. I never fell for any of it! Many use dating apps to get the women. Many are already married in their country.
The age difference matters.
It requires self deceit to even believe it doesn't.
Men look the beauty they are attract for beauty and youth u cant thinks they love u when u Lost beauty
This will be why I can't find an African Prince.. I have no money 😂
Many of us learn as teenage girls how evil men can be. How do middle-aged women not see this?
Never get involved with or employ a 'sociologist', especially if they are female. They are nothing but trouble.
That's what I've learned.
Hormones
Right?
what are you talking about ? these women are the predators, they are exploiting men, preying on the fact that they are poor.
IDK. They are not wise I guess. Remember how most Johnny Depp defenders were and still are middle aged women? just because he was handsome 45 years ago. There are so many scammers who fool these women into thinking they are chatting and in love with the real JD to take money from them. Scamfish channed made 3 videos on these women this year alone.
If a young guy approached me romantically I would wonder why he wasn't after a girl from his own generation. And I'd ignore him. No fool like an old fool! Sorry for being harsh but let's get real ladies!!!
ah women for god sake cop on
Not harsh, it is reality. Well said.
Well said . Those women are de,used and incredibly naive .
Exactly.
Most importantly even different cultures, languages, religion...etc
I have a mirror. Don't they?
You're a western woman, mature, have lived in the western economy, but then suddenly I am supposed to believe it came as such a shock to these western women when the boyfriend from a third world country with zero employment skills and no opportunity to save any kind of cash, turns up on a fiance visa gets married to them but then have no ability to contribute to the house hold income.
I think these women maybe deep down got involved because they thought these guys will be dependant on them and cannot walk away, and how wrong are they.
Ahhhh. Now that's a thought
These situations only prove that desperation and low self-esteem are not a good mix!
My sympathy lies with the unfortunate neighbours of Diane the Drummer Lady.
😂😂😂 me too
I feel bad for her.
Ohmygod that caught me by surprise 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Why is Michelle still giving him the opportunity to contact her? And even if he is telling the truth about his daughter, why is she insisting to find out? She can still be easily manipulated and scammed. She has not improved.😮
He knows its just a matter of time before she sends that money. If his wife died, how is that any of her business?
@@RahYisrael99the wife is probably fine...he just wants money
@@andreaslind6338 NO, really, ya think LOL
Because she's a simpleton.
The wife is alive and well and laughing with her husband over the old and stupid English woman willing to fund their lifestyle. This is why I have zero sympathy for these women they are delusional and need therapy for their low self worth.
Every time I watch stuff like this, I am amazed. I'm gullible, but dang.
I think these women know what those men are up to if they are honest with themselves
They see the problems but the hope they have in the man is strong. This is what happens when women ignore their intuition.
Yes!
@@sg5720Yup , it’s delusion unfortunately. And desperation. they all thought they were “the one” and “different” from all the other women their young foreign prince has met. they wanted to be “ picked” by these men SO BADLY and did everything to be picked. When they finally got “picked”, they felt inevitable. The idea of them doing ANYTHING to wrong them didn’t even register in their minds for a second. All red flags out the window. Even if they saw the red flags, they were too desperate to leave them. Their foreign, credit card seeking, wallet loving young boy could NEVER wrong them. 🤥. Ugh. It makes me sad/angry to see these successful women have ZEROO respect for themselves. NONE. its actually aggravating.
These women are not victims of scams. They are victims of their own stupidity. Can they find someone their age?
I tried to warn a friend about a guy but she would not believe me. She thought it was love between a 22 year old and her at 60.
In the end she lost her savings and her house. The boyfriend meanwhile lives in a «palace» in Gambia with his Gambian wife.
That's just plain dumb! 🤪
Agree it's the same with old men and younger women they really believe they are attractive to a young women...... Get real
@@michelles2299 The press calls it scam only when women get scammed. Women have been scamming men for hundreds of years and we never read about it
Not the same. Mature men can be very attractive. Men only lose their testosterone later and slowly.
Sorry, but we're not biologically the same.
Even Bonney and friends say and singing do not talk to strangers 😂
Very sad that people can be so lonely that they fall for a scam artist. On a happy note, Fay Ripley is a wonderful narrator. This is a good show.
😂😂😂
Lets all blame the immigration . Unreal 😅
no guy in his 20's is looking for a KY Jelly Amazon Subscription relationship😂
We have a loneliness epidemic in the U.S. Prescriptions for anti-depressant medications have doubled over the past 10-15 years. Anxiety and depression are the new norm, and feelings of social alienation are a huge problem. 😢
When i was actively dating i met a guy at a bar that i hsd met online. His furst words were im a little short of cash right now. I bought us each a beer, excused myself to go to the bathroom, left and never looked back. Never, ever give a man money when you first meet.
😅😅😅😅
I appreciate that these woman are so strong and named the men who abused them. This shall be on the internet forever.
Then men wonder why women are turning their backs on them. 🤷🏽♀️😔
Strong! That’s the problem they are not strong.
They did this to themselves. No one abused them, they were wiling partners.
Both men and women can be gold diggers and users. There are famous people and even rich people who fall for it every time. If it is a one way relationship consider yourself as being on their payroll. For example you can see Melania doesn’t love Trump. She is just on the payroll. Living the luxurious life dealing with him minimally. Same thing to me. Some people know they are being used for their money but they don’t mind paying…. Like Kanye West and Kim Kardashion. Just saying. The concept of men using women and women using men are classic. People use people to get what they want. Manipulators at work. Basketball players are another example of easy dudes that get manipulated by pretty girls who get pregnant and then they must pay thousands of dollars for 18 years for their child. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
So will the scammers 👍🏻
I feel ashamed for those desperate women. These African vacation love affairs are so badly notorious, yet there are still delusional women who fall for this obvious scam.
Happens everywhere, people have to be self aware. Military installations are infamous for this. Traveled the world if you are going to have a fling, do it. Don't bring it home. You are an adult.
They said it was 2005, 2009. TH-cam wasn't even in existence in 2005 so only now they can know better.
I sometimes think these lovelorn ladies prefer a fantasy life rather than a real one ?
I know I do and thats the way it stayed - a fantasy. In fact... sigh... ok... if Id had the money I would've married him except, God blessed me to be broke. And I do look like JLi / Halle Berry ! Another fantasy 🤣 but for a while I felt beautiful. One may think these women foolish but as humans we are wired this way and it feels so real to our psyches....
Those women aren’t victims, they’re predators. Notice how they never fall in love with foreign men their own age & always a foreign young man from a poor country. They’re creepy secs tourists.
This should be compulsory to show during prime time on every channel.
These guys that get seasonal jobs at holiday resorts usually come from small villages and will never leave that village EVER, so when a British woman falls for their charms they’ll do everything they can to play the part. It’s not the woman they want, it’s the chance of getting out of the village and getting a VISA. When will these women stop falling for it?! Telling you you’re the love of their life and making dreams together is all part of the visa plan, oldest trick in the book AND they’ll spot you a mile off!
"...he had the most beautiful smile..." *shows him smiling * 😂😂😂😂😂 ROFL😂😂😂😂😂😂
I read this as soon as the picture came up 😂😂😂 gosh that had me laughing lool
I was falling about laughing at this point...
Love is blind😂
As my dad would say,
"He could eat corn through a picket fence..."
"Love can make u blind", poor luv...😔
the need to feel loved is the strongest force
Right? 💯 Also, the need for close human connection...I get it...
It is but they should realize when that's not what they have.
The stronger feelings than love is fear of being lonely
@@aniakolobius2186 yes that's a better way to put it
rather the need to live in a fantasy because they were never loved but manipulated and seduced.
“He has the most beautiful smile”
Camera cut to the smile 😬
Many of these women are divorced, which is a sure sign that the men they married were undesirable too. I fail to see how people in these posts, think this is just a 'foreign' man thing. How many of them had already been lied to by men who were supposedly their childhood sweethearts? I find so many posts so xenophobic, it's frightening.
Ps. I have 3 family members who have married men they met while either working or holidaying overseas. ALL of them are married still, with 20-30 years under their belts, with successful and productive children etc.
You meet a stranger on vacation, cyber date them for a minute then marry them...what could go wrong??
😂😂😂😂😂
A lot.
🤣🤣🤣🤣you also required to pay for the whole wedding
Everything goes wrong 😂
He could be already married
Loneliness is a very dangerous thing. It makes perfectly rational people do irrational things.
Loneliness and desperation equal danger
loneliness is when you allowed yourself to be abuse and use....
Loneliness can’t be cured by other people…. It’s within us and we have to find ways to deal with it on our own
Nonsense.
The drum lady said she doesn’t think of anything when she’s drumming, but I bet her neighbours do!
😂😂😂
Drum lady....you are looking more gorgeous after this horrible ordeal....Bastards
I know someone who ended up with over 500k debt because her husband had nothing when he arrived. She had to buy everything for him. She even played for airplane tickets so he could visit his family regularly. Because he wasn’t able to get a loan, she took out loans for him on her name. As soon as he got his paperwork to stay in the country he was gone. Took everything with him and left her up to her ears in debt.
Ugh…. You just know these women had people in their lives that told them this was a bad idea, but they didn’t listen!
It’s pure evil to trick someone into falling in love with you, just to use that love for personal gain!
Happened to my mum sadly - all my warnings she ignored or she accused me, that I don't want her to be happy
That Nigerian guy looked wicked in his pictures! Soulless
God those teeth
That‘s no criteria, many of them look amiable and gentle.
Spot on
There’s enough in the media about these love rats, to not be fooled🤷🏼♀️
That Michelle also is so clueless about the child thing. There is no reason when surrounded with his very large family that he'd want Michelle to raise his child EXCEPT for material gains ! Schooling, clothing, passport, more money, that's it, all paid by her and other British citizens. Nothing, but nothing else. Block him !
She is still hanging on to a dream
Sad
Sooo very sad really. 😔
But she wants a child too
@@stjohnssoup What she wants has no bearing here as he was only wanting to exploit here. She needs to put aside Emotions and look coldly at the Facts.
The ‘stop marriage fraud’ sign… like, how does that work? That responsibility lies entirely with those who choose to go down this path 🤦🏼♀
I guess she is trying to have Gov change the law somehow to extend time for getting citizenship..so its not that fast and may deter scammers and protect victims
It can also help women know that this exists. Obviously these women did not, or did not have enough information.
Good question.
the thing is it wasn't 'marriage fraud', they willingly and consensually entered into those arrangements. The issue is that either they felt obliged to go ahead when they weren't ready, but that is their judgment call still not 'fraud' and/or hadn't taken enough time to actually understand who they were with, get to know them and their culture and the men's expectations - they were not 'western' with all that comes with it but from cultures that (possibly) don't respect/treat women as equals or the same as in the UK.
Fraud. ????
Come on ladies...you fell for the sweet talk and phony attention.
No one twisted your arm..no one to blame but yourself .
What's that old adage..."Marry in haste...repent at leisure "..!!
I think several of these women confuse flattery, infatuation and dopamine with love. Big difference.
Very much so. The validation...Which is pretty sad,bc it would indicate they don't have much love themselves
they've clearly never been in love before
Well, I kinda notice that capitalism is a problem. Everyone wants to make fun of physical appearance. Yet, at the end of the day muscles and loins never seem to go out of style. Not to mention access to lots of money.
Pay for lay
I'm 55 and would never fall for this. I don't grasp why single women feel the need to have any man to make them feel like a whole human being! We are already whole, go inside yourself, find yourself, and learn to love yourself. I enjoy being single very much, always have always will.
Same. 51, single for ten years. Will never have another relationship. Love being single
What's worse than falling in love over the internet and sending money to someone they never met, or meeting them, getting love-bombed, then married. Both want meal tickets and visas/green cards, then off looking for something better. I really don’t understand it myself. I do understand going on holiday/vacation and having a fling, but don't think it's love.
Go live in a shithole, and come back to me.
My love!
So very sad that they woke up too late!
If i could buy love, i would do so probably. But i am too reasonable.
I'd like to know what happens to these men when the women tells the police theyve been scammed. Their visa should be cancelled and they should be forced to leave the country.
In the U.S. they don't have to leave...it's ridiculous
I had a patient with severe mobility issues in contact with a man who writes her letters. She has sent him money. He told her he is a high ranking army official in Texas. Every time he gives her a date that he will come and see her some kind “assignment” comes up and he has to cancel. She is so smitten by him and always talks about him. She get angry when people challenge the intentions of this guy. Some of the staff thinks it is someone close to her catfishing her out of money.
My mom's friend got scammed out of $80k from someone fitting this exact same description a couple years ago. I wonder if it's the same person, or a common scam
It most definitely is a scam
A common scam they use photos from the internet and claim to be in the military. It’s very easy to do a reverse image search and find out who the real person is.
@@QueenBee-xd1xk It’s a very common scam. There’s a channel here called “Catfished” that has a video every week with a new person falling for that scam. Usually the scammer is in Nigeria and has stolen the photos of someone good looking.
Of course, it is a scam. The staff needs to find a way to cancel the Guy.
Mobear had a beautiful smile, like really??? she needs glasses for sure
Hi how are you
@@carlyescudero9770 salut ((Love @carlyescudero ♥️♥️♥️♥️))
Helo
I agree she needs to go and have her eyes tested and while she's at donate those bloody drums ha ha and move on lovely 😊
I feel sorry for these women. Loneliness can make you very vulnerable 😢
So very true.
True 😔
It's not loneliness, it's narcissism.
No loneliness can make you very stupid😮
“Loneliness can make you very vulnerable.”
Look, I am a 47 years old woman , people say I am very attractive, but there's NO WAY a 20 something year old guy would come on to me because he loves me and wants to marry me..😂😂😂 Are you kidding me?!
People lie too
@@tmafungo84that’s what she said
It’s possible. Some men love older women!
Some women don’t look their age
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It’s exactly what happened to me but I manage to divorce her prior to the visa arriving. I found out she literally had another life outside of our marriage. Thank God I listened to my intuitions and decided to investigate her and then surprise her with the divorce. Now 4 month divorced and happiest I ever been plus I have met someone else who is in the same country as me.
Sorry for what happened to you
@@suziesue7767 Thank you and it’s a lesson learnt.
@@SteveIrwin1710 this life some people can be so heartless and play with someone's mind n emotions
@@suziesue7767 I know right. I truly did love her and supported her and her extended family financially for 3 years. I was devastated to find out she did that after promising that she loved me and that we had something specially. We are not different in age hence I couldn’t understand why. It’s not even about the money which can be made but it’s the betrayal that I couldn’t get over easily. However, I am better for it now and in a better mind state to be able to see everything clearly. I forgave her but it’s a lesson learnt. But thank you for your kind words.
@@SteveIrwin1710 your welcome thank God u healed and I pray u find love again
Age is not just a number. He is young enough to be your grandson.
😂😂😂❤ ur spot on my sons are older and I could imagine there faces if I come home all loved up with 1
This!! Her delusion is off the charts 😂
"[A]s he looked for work as a deep-sea diver..."
That just struck me as funny. 😊
LOL plenty of that to be found in the west Midlands, that's for true! :)
or as a musician, like that first dude.😂
😂
"He combed the beaches, vainly searching for the lost doubloons which would ultimately justify years of spotty employment.." ⛵🌅
That's like my nephew train to be a sonar operator in the navy knowing full well he was getting married and going to live in Pennsylvania. I told him he could be a sonar operator looking for land sharks. Lol😊
When you are lonely , you become so vulnerable. I feel really sorry for the women who were scammed by those fraudsters. This is a lesson for the other women who are desperate for love. Never be so blind in love. We must check a person's background completely before falling in love with him or her.
It’s quite simple, really, if you have to spend money on someone to secure their love or company, don’t cry to anyone when you are taken advantage of. Love yourself enough to be fully happy individually on your own. If you need another person to be happy you are very vulnerable to being taken advantage of. Never marry someone who is not your financial equal and who can’t support himself.
I just don't understand why rich young men aren't tripping over themselves for these highly available cougars🌝
The level of delusion and desperation that these women have is heart breaking.
I bet the neighbours loved Diane and the African bongo player
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👏😂😂😂😂 that’s funny! Australia 🇦🇺
These women are deluded. It is so totally obvious they are being scammed.
Do they actually believe the predatory suitors really are attracted to them?
Lol harsh!!!😅 but so true
Yes they do. Apparently statistics show that women find 80% of men unattractive, which is hilarious because women have never been heavier, according also to statistics. Meaning their standards are getting higher while their quality is dipping lower.
I would be so, so suspicious if someone that much younger was interested in me!
If a man asked me for money that would be a deal breaker
The women might be deluded. But why would you find it so unbelievable for those men to be attracted to the women in the documentary? The guys look rubbish and are total losers with no education. Or are you suggesting that because they are “young or younger”, they should be able to attract a model?
What’s so sad is that each of these cases were so obvious to everyone except the woman…
In Morocco the young guys were proposing marriage to every girl they met just hoping someone would take them somewhere else. I remember this young guy was telling this German girl that they should get married and go live together in Germany and she was like " im not so sure my dad will go for that after just 2 days"
Older single women should watch this show as a warning. It's easy to call them naive, but loneliness can cause people to miss the warning signs that someone is using you.
not if you have any sense!!! There is no way I would ever let a man use me no matter how lonely I may get . It's called self esteem and knowing you are worth something
😢😢😢😢😢 do never trust a stranger!
get a life, get involved in your community, get to know yourself and fall in love with being just you