Husband of 19 Years Marriage Cheats on Wife, Commits Bigamy and Steals Money | Cheating Husband

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    Yve and Maurice were married for 17 years, but then he starts behaving in a way that makes her suspicious. After intensive detective work, Yve uncovers that he has married another woman, while still married to her.
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  • @joshuabenjamin1626
    @joshuabenjamin1626 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    Hi everyone josh here from the documentary. Appreciate all the kind words and support. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sorry that your mum let you down at such a young age!

    • @1fan689
      @1fan689 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Hope you and your brother are taking good care of yourselves ❤❤

    • @VelveteenRabbitinRedFern
      @VelveteenRabbitinRedFern ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yabadabadoo. LOL!!

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Awwwe I. Am so sorry you went through that. But was your mom aware that you weren’t being treated well? Also, when your mom and Seb went to go visit your stepdad in 2011, where did she leave you?

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hope Mum, you & your Brother are Ok? This man was a callous demon and only you knew it from the get go! Your Mum is beautiful both physically and in spirit and I'm sorry she endured such deception and betrayal. God bless you guys!🙏🏿❤️

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Emotionally and verbally broke down his own stepson-what a monster
    To
    Hurt a child

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What a monster his mother was - staying with a liar she knew was abusing her child.😡

    • @GracieJaney
      @GracieJaney ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@davisholman8149 she didn't know, the some said Morris told him not to tell anyone and he didn't

    • @Haydensky23412
      @Haydensky23412 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Broke my heart listening to this man talking about his pain.

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Morris had no reason to wear a mask with him. A child is perfect prey for a narcissistic individual.

    • @juanitarichards1074
      @juanitarichards1074 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Like my stepfather did to ne when he married my mother when I was only 7

  • @julieschwartz2135
    @julieschwartz2135 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    The fact that her young son couldn’t talk to his mother when he was being mistreated by her new husband is the saddest part of this story.

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Narscissts target one person they emotionally abuse in private and no one . would believe it if the Target spoke up. This is also how groomers keep their Target quiet. Its terribly sad!

    • @callie1on1
      @callie1on1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ❤ It happens with most children with any type of abuse.

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@ceilconstante640 Yes, their total lack of empathy and sense of empowerment enables them to abuse children without thought of the consequences or damage they inflict.

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are so right, it was indeed and remains the saddest part of this story.

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yvegibney7318 I wish more people understood how Narscissts operate and LISTEN to children! Many serial killers were though of as nice people. That's how they got away for so long. No one suspected Denis Rader, John Wayne Gacy or Gary Ridgway.

  • @betseyterry844
    @betseyterry844 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I don’t see how his mom didn’t pickup the signs her son was being emotionally abused. Thank God he wasn’t sexually abused.

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Wow-humiliating a stranger who obviously makes less than you--he must have LOVED the exploitative side of the expat life.

    • @jeanmyers1787
      @jeanmyers1787 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think that was in Nigeria, sale of a CD would have meant so much to that poor man. What a horrible excuse for a human being.

  • @monavis2356
    @monavis2356 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    People do your investigations when you first meet someone, not when it's too late !!! Specially if you have children !!

  • @truthbetold6956
    @truthbetold6956 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’ve gained an ardent follower. I am a casualty of betrayal. I remained married to the narcissist while he carried on his affair with his skank. I had no job no skills no money, he controlled everything. I stayed because I needed to get my 3 daughters educated. Today they are all powerful career driven successful women. I finally divorced him 10 yrs ago and charged the mistress with the alienation of affection lawsuit. I won the case. It wasn’t about the money, it was about bringing the perpetrators to accountability. I’m still healing, I still have triggers about the abuse I suffered. May healing come to all those women who have been betrayed 🙏❤️🙏

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I felt sorry for Eve’s son Josh when he was speaking about the emotional abuse received from Morris.

  • @tpowell3776
    @tpowell3776 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    My biggest advice to all couples is to make sure you are up to date with what's going on with the finances, make sure both your names are on all equities, do not allow your spouse to solely manage the finances. When I found out my husband was cheating I thoroughly audited all of our accounts and real estate, researched my state divorce laws, changed all the locks on the house, and hired an attorney prior to confronting him, that way he didn't have time to clean out the accounts, or pull anything ..So grateful to be away from him, life is amazing now..

  • @debrarow1933
    @debrarow1933 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Is everyone here ignoring the fact of how he treated her first son , there is no way fir 16 years she did not see that , her son thinks only he knew because he never told anyone but sorry you can’t hide that for 16 years , she must have absolutely saw that and stayed with him. Shame on any mother or father who allows that to happen and stays with the person , makes me sick

    • @bostonblackie9503
      @bostonblackie9503 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, everyone can recognise a pediophile when they see him. Just like Jimmy Saville! PS: I know the only thing the boy accused him of seems to be verbal abuse.

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! She's a disgusting thing!

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I suggest that the majority of posters here understand how narcissists function: covert control, manipulation, deceit and how they bully and threaten to control the abused and silence them. I, along with everyone else that knew Maurice were unfortunately oblivious to who he really was, I knew nothing of the abuse.

    • @joanklos8630
      @joanklos8630 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yvegibney7318l😂

  • @sarahstrong7174
    @sarahstrong7174 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Some people are predators. You can meet them anywhere. It could be in the supermarket. Watch out for the wolves, people.

  • @mamaduck9370
    @mamaduck9370 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    I felt sorry for Suzanne until it was said she married him legally after it was proven he'd abused his first wife's trust, abandoned his kids, lied to his family as well as herself and broken the law.... But I guess that undeclared 200k had something to do with staying with a misogynistic narcissistic crook.

    • @ellemmenn2930
      @ellemmenn2930 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I thought the same … I personally couldn’t stay with someone if something like that came to light

    • @ponygirlusa
      @ponygirlusa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She'll regret it, he'll do it to her too, if she hasn't already dumped his old, bald a$& for his best friend.

    • @marynehra502
      @marynehra502 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Karma will visit Suzanne,he'll probably do the same to her in a little while

    • @britlew5933
      @britlew5933 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      That's why jerks get away with this kind of behaviour, there is always a woman that will lower her standards to the level of below zero and pick them up.

    • @victoriawhitelaw7528
      @victoriawhitelaw7528 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sounds like a pretty standard mid life crisis/ break up. Would love to hear both sides. Josh’ take was interesting.

  • @assymcgee7217
    @assymcgee7217 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    This is riveting & way less depressing than the murder & missing people stuff I usually watch

    • @rt66vintage16
      @rt66vintage16 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same, sometimes switch it up to plane crashes, mountaineering disasters and how to cut my own hair. P.S. His name is Brad Mondo and his diy butterfly cut.

    • @ashleygarden6906
      @ashleygarden6906 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Haha, I thought I am the only one. Totally relate. True crime, love scams, mayday - alarm in cockpit and mountaineering disasters....love them all.

    • @assymcgee7217
      @assymcgee7217 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ashleygarden6906 throw in some animal attacks , great exploration disasters & people getting stuck in caves stuff & that's pretty much my viewing history but I think I've seen everything at least twice so finding this love rat stuff was a real bonus

    • @ashleygarden6906
      @ashleygarden6906 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@assymcgee7217 Oh, I forgot one important category "underground alien bases in the antarctic" and everything else relating to ufo encounters. The good ones I watch over and over again. They are my bedtime stories as I fall asleep.

    • @blueneptune825
      @blueneptune825 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hey! Me too. Your comment made me laugh out loud at your description of your (and my) viewing habits. Oh, police interrogation and trials are also good viewing.🤗🤗🤗☃️✌🏼🎄🐦

  • @its_Emily384
    @its_Emily384 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    There’s no better detective than a woman deceived

    • @eddielloyd4070
      @eddielloyd4070 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      there is no better liar than a woman who deceives

    • @glorysmummy
      @glorysmummy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and no bigger idiot than a woman who can't see what their partner is up to.

    • @juanitarichards1074
      @juanitarichards1074 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@glorysmummy Suspecting it and knowing it are 2 different things. Little clues add up but when you confront them they lie to your face and gaslight you and say you are crazy and imagining things.....so I waited till I got proof and followed him one day and caught him in bed with the other woman at his best friends house.........the look on his face was priceless......

    • @santale4102
      @santale4102 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@glorysmummy What a harsh judgement. Trusting unconditionally does not make one an idiot. ANYTHING can happen to ANYBODY!

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely !

  • @leeauslander8305
    @leeauslander8305 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    How could she not know he was cruel to her son? When he asked for a divorce she should of agreed!

    • @donnadixon289
      @donnadixon289 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Think of someone in your life who you observe to be kind, caring and loved by all those around. Now imagine one person, maybe even your child, who comes to you accusing that the highly liked person, with whom you have been close to for years, has shown signs of cruelty. Because you, and everyone else experiences nothing but caring from the individual, you would likely assume the accuser is mistaken or perhaps even jealous. The person observing the cruel side often says nothing to no one, seeing that everyone else sees nothing but goodness. “What’s the point, no one will believe me”. The cruel person often prepares others that one person has shown signs of jealousy. The covert narcissist chooses one individual around whom they allow their true selves out while relishing the power and control in the knowledge that the one individual will never be believed.

    • @espon2112
      @espon2112 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@donnadixon289she knew. She doesn’t want to take accountability.

  • @tru2harris998
    @tru2harris998 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    WHAT A FANTASTIC SON JOSH IS. HES A MASSIVE CREDIT TO HIS MUM. SHE BROUGHT HIM UP TO BE AN AMAZING PERSON. ❤❤❤

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much, he is indeed a 'fantastic son'.

    • @dbentleyto95
      @dbentleyto95 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yvegibney7318You fought the good fight and came out with your dignity intact. You are a fantastic model of a woman for your two wonderful sons. Cheers to you.

  • @chrise.321
    @chrise.321 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He will be cheating on Suzanne any day now.

  • @jdee4956
    @jdee4956 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My feeling is that when he told her he wanted a divorce, she should have given him a (very public) divorce, frozen all the bank accounts and assets, and proceeded to take him to the cleaners.

  • @emss5472
    @emss5472 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This man is a GARBAGE, baby you are free now, poor other lady she is the new victim, she is married with a narcizist i feel so sorry for her.

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I can't tell other women how to spot scammers but if a man tells you "Our two hearts beat as one" that's a clue. I've never heard a man actually say that and I was married for 31 years before my husband died. If he tells you that you are the most beautiful woman in the world, unless you really ARE the most beautiful woman in the world, that's a clue. If you've never met but he immediately starts telling you how much he loves you, that's a clue. If he asks you to marry him after you've known him for a few weeks, that's a clue. If he calls you his queen, that's a clue. If he never calls you by your name but rather always calls you darling or wife or dearest, that's a clue because he has more than one woman on the string and he doesn't want to get mixed up and call one of those women by the wrong name so he just calls all of them Queen or some such ridiculous name. And certainly THE VERY FIRST TIME HE ASKS YOU FOR MONEY, that's a clue. Are you asking HIM for money? If not, why would he think it was okay for him to ask YOU for money. And if he asks you for money, that's the time for you to stop worrying about whether he's "real" or not and just dump him because he's a real mooch. He tells you he's a surgeon or an engineer or some other high-paying job but he has to beg for money to purchase his child a computer or to buy himself a new phone or to buy FOOD for himself. REALLY? A man in his 50's or 60''s and he cannot feed himself? Even if he's real, he's a loser who resorts to asking a total stranger for money. Kick him to the curb!

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      These women unfortunately are so desperate for a man, they will PAY for it.🤷🏽‍♂

    • @suzannerobbins6293
      @suzannerobbins6293 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well said…the clues are always there! Women just ignore the red flags! When I met my hubby we both were broke…we saved together! No silly names but boy did I love him….married 57 years October 15th. I sure don’t understand women who buy these ridiculous stories!

    • @mariapyrc6862
      @mariapyrc6862 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What you've written is everything to go by to avoid scammers...and it's obviously cheaper to hire an escort if they want physical company rather than rely on a photo and txt.

    • @LadyLsound
      @LadyLsound ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hang on, you are talking about 'On line relationships'.....which is all correct what you wrote, but this is about an actual real marriage of 19yrs...

    • @aplusdiva7006
      @aplusdiva7006 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LadyLsound Exactly

  • @NickyM_0
    @NickyM_0 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The Grandmother though! What an enabler!

  • @ivyvulaj8804
    @ivyvulaj8804 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    If Eve happened to read this message I send you a massive hug literally you are better off you gonna be the best thing he is never going to have xoxo ❤️

  • @TheEliteNurseLifestyle
    @TheEliteNurseLifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is why I will stand 10 toes down that a long distance relationship is not a relationship. A man can barely be faithful when they live with you much less miles apart. Guaranteed you are being played in a long distance relationship 🤷‍♀️

    • @lindakincaid4530
      @lindakincaid4530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. But I do know a few marriages where the husband is a pilot and is away for some time. They have a great marriage. But trust me. We have friends everywhere, if some thing was to go on we all would speek up.

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well, we have 2 houses - one in Finland and on in the south of France. When my husband was working i was going to France every other month for a month because well, i do not like cold and dark and someone had to look after the house. Now since he retired and we live in the south of France all the time i go back to Finland every second month for 3-4 weeks because i miss Finland and my children are there and he does not like cold. Nobody is cheating because we are not interested in it - no one will do any better. I guess people start cheating when they think they can do better, long distance has nothing to do with anything. People may cheat even if they live with u in the same house. They say they go on a work trip, or gym, or whatever - u can not know where your spouse is all the time.

    • @angelabacker1177
      @angelabacker1177 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bambinaforever1402 I am glad that works for you however I do not think your arrangement would work for many younger couples.

    • @11Christys11
      @11Christys11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree 💯

    • @jay-lm4we
      @jay-lm4we 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think any man would cheat on you🥰

  • @caro.caro.9578
    @caro.caro.9578 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just watched this video again today..🙏🏾 Josh, you are truly your mother’s son. Not forgetting your brother. Very inspirational.👍🏽

  • @Faith-ko5eg
    @Faith-ko5eg ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Unfortunately this is not rare. Maybe they don’t get married but they carry on separate lives and many times separate families. The ability to lie and the comfort they lay in bed with one knowing full well they are cheating on another is unbelievable.

  • @tammynelson7459
    @tammynelson7459 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Oh breaks my heart for the older son....telling him he wasn't a cool kid.....covert narcissist 😠

    • @felicitydavey2371
      @felicitydavey2371 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Must have broke his mums heart hearing this after all those years 🥺

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@felicitydavey2371 BS - she knew he was being mistreated. But she cared more about having a POS(piece of shit) man in her life - even while she was being used & lied to - than she cared about her son.

    • @NubianPrince85
      @NubianPrince85 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haaaaaajaaaaaaaa

  • @viviennepastor3188
    @viviennepastor3188 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am very sorry for this lady and her children. However when a man asks you for a divorce and refuses to discuss the marriage with you the marriage is over. Better to cut your losses then and there.

  • @sunnyday6400
    @sunnyday6400 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    She is still betraying herself. She does not understand that she was chosen as a victim from the moment he saw her. What she thought was love was nothing but manipulation from the first second! Some people cannot come to their senses, even afterwards. But if she does'nt come to an understanding, it could happen to her again! She says at some point: this was'nt the man I married! WRONG! The man she married never existed!

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ding, ding, ding!🛎 You WIN best comment award.🏆

    • @GradKat
      @GradKat ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But they were married for a very long time. This was no short-term scan. So I don’t think he “chose her as a victim” at all.

    • @Watchoutforsnakez
      @Watchoutforsnakez ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@GradKat it may not have been a short term scam but it was a weak lady who didn’t think she could do better and a low life that deceived her to keep the relationship going because she was easy to fool while he lived a double life. That is a long term scam by any definition.

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@GradKat he was having an easy life and sleeping around

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe he did love her. Then he fell out of love. Happens to anyone

  • @marci3659
    @marci3659 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Sadly she was too hasty to introduce her young son to this new man and have him refer to a newly acquired lover as his dad.. Its great to have love at first sight ,but you should never bring your children into that new relationship without the test of time. If the new partner is making negative comments towards your children that should be red checkered flag that comes down on that relationship and should bring it to an end . As a parent you should always believe your children and validate their experiences if the child tells you of negative experiences. Sometimes parents are blinded by new found lust or love bombing that they ignore what their children are experiencing with the new partner. She was married to a man who was malignant narcissist from day one and showed her what he wanted her to see. I hope her son has been able to forgive his mother failure to protect him from that twisted narc.

  • @sarahstrong7174
    @sarahstrong7174 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How horrific. What a flaming narcissist!

    • @judeflynn9223
      @judeflynn9223 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes, eve is

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@judeflynn9223 why? Because she now sees it more clearly and came through with her own confidence intact or at least back?

  • @jewels3895
    @jewels3895 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Clearly Maurice got his cowardly deceit from his mother

  • @alsmith9853
    @alsmith9853 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a pos Morris is. Also his mother. To be so rude to her grandchild's mother. It shows that cold hearted selfishness runs in families 😮

  • @dawnedawe5337
    @dawnedawe5337 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have an acquaintance who has been married 5 times in U.K. she now lives in Spain and has never been divorced from one of her husbands. I’m a keen genealogist and uncovered her dark secret, a film could be made about her, this was interesting but nothing like the lady I know

  • @patriciamckenna6099
    @patriciamckenna6099 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Josh you will probably never see this. My heart ❤️ goes out to you. Your a wonderful soul. Greetings from Ireland 💕🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮

  • @kasperorganics-organiccott6881
    @kasperorganics-organiccott6881 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I feel kind of sorry for Suzanne who has hitched herself to that horrible Morris. A man that would not only treat his wife so terribly but also his own sons. Why would any woman want to be with a man like that.

    • @maidsua4208
      @maidsua4208 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She knows that he is a bigamist, and she has chosen to marry him after it came to light. He is not husband material.

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He’ll cheat on Suzanne for sure. She better watch her back

  • @lusimyer
    @lusimyer ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I cant believe Suzanne still stayed with him, not to mention married him (legally) after knowing what he did!! 🤦‍♀️

    • @goaldrivendatingstrategy
      @goaldrivendatingstrategy  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She might think she won a real winner here as most women do.

    • @lusimyer
      @lusimyer ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@goaldrivendatingstrategy Thats tragic. She obviously isnt thinking straight.

    • @goaldrivendatingstrategy
      @goaldrivendatingstrategy  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lusimyer Ooh no, she is thinking very straight. These type of women always think they are batter than the wife, girlfriends etc.. Why else would you have women even marry serial killers in jail or men that have offed their wives.. Let's face reality here you see it all the time. Some women are ruthless it can be your friend, your sister, your mother or a stranger.

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She must be desperate.

    • @daebak_hana
      @daebak_hana ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karma will come to visit her too then she will feel the pain yve did.

  • @gorgeous.akosua
    @gorgeous.akosua ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He wanted a secret divorce but still playing being married?!

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Even though he lied about the circumstances, he technically asked for a divorce-why didn’t he just file first, get divorce, THEN get remarried????

    • @minimaxmiaandme.4971
      @minimaxmiaandme.4971 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Because he didn't want to pay out the first wife.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@minimaxmiaandme.4971 she worked too. Why do they always see it as a payout? Just support the kid you had together. Done.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@minimaxmiaandme.4971 so he thought fraud would be better

    • @laurajomcnaughton853
      @laurajomcnaughton853 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@llamamama2910 cos it is a payout. Assets get split in a divorce. Married life is like a business. U both put in. Why should she leave empty handed. He clearly didn't want to pay his wife what she's owed. It's greed.

  • @sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901
    @sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What a nasty family to hide their son doing this to someone?

  • @Indiemakeuplover
    @Indiemakeuplover ปีที่แล้ว +70

    After seeing her son speak, it wasn’t so much that this man was hiding who he really was, but that she was willfully ignorant to his behavior. No man would ever be mean to my son. Period, end of story

    • @judeflynn9223
      @judeflynn9223 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exactly

    • @debrarow1933
      @debrarow1933 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No way did she not know how he treated her first son

    • @Haydensky23412
      @Haydensky23412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree.

    • @joshuabenjamin1626
      @joshuabenjamin1626 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She actually didn't. He was very good at what he did. No one seen it but me. He changed character once it was just me and him. Unfortunately that was the truth. I didn't tell her anything until it was over. Ps thanks for checking this out.

    • @foxportergrey5992
      @foxportergrey5992 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Joshua, I’m so sorry you suffered so much, I relate to your experience, the mask is often very convincing and these monsters will hide it very well. Morris is no measure on you. Take care and I hope you continue to be the brilliant man you clearly are.

  • @JJ33438
    @JJ33438 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This morris guy is one sick puppy. Yve and her two wonderful boys should get as far away from this "sicko" as they possibly can. he might be dangerous.

  • @kbee1735
    @kbee1735 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    From what your son said about Morris’ behaviour towards him… you should have ditched him long ago…

    • @catherinep1800
      @catherinep1800 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah, another woman putting her wants before the best interest of her child. No one would speak to my children like that and think it’s ok. Her son grew into a wonderful young man, despite what he went through.

    • @lcam9241
      @lcam9241 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@catherinep1800 yes, understandable. But the son didn't alert his mom of the behavior it seems.

    • @judeflynn9223
      @judeflynn9223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@catherinep1800 exactly..and just marrying without due dligence..with a child

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe her son didn’t say anything

    • @pamelacorbett8774
      @pamelacorbett8774 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bambinaforever1402I wonder why.

  • @jenniferwittridge4163
    @jenniferwittridge4163 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am single and proud, its stuff like this and ex narcissistic people I've met, I'd be utterly devistated

  • @sarahstrong7174
    @sarahstrong7174 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Someone I knew had a partner who had left their former wife & family instantly, to be with them. Within some years, guess what, he did it again.

    • @franklinstephen3268
      @franklinstephen3268 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello 👋how are you doing?

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pattern, serial cheater/monogamist/cheater. Better than family destroyer that murders entire family, but not much. Men have a right to be happy, but so many don’t appreciate or work on the happiness they have. And unwanted women sometimes become bitter and push them away.

    • @sarahstrong7174
      @sarahstrong7174 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@llamamama2910 I think those things can happen with men & women.

    • @alsmith9853
      @alsmith9853 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wasn't there a Linda Ronstadt song called 'Have you left the one you left me for?' Liars and cheats NEVER change.

  • @julieannesimms6236
    @julieannesimms6236 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is why I,m staying single

    • @droppedbye.2698
      @droppedbye.2698 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol... You'll know when the right one comes along. If got lots of long term friends and close family. Your in there.

    • @cheyennewilliams8300
      @cheyennewilliams8300 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @julieannesimms6236
      @julieannesimms6236 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cheyennewilliams8300 you go girl

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel trapped in marriage because I’m depressed-I’m depressed because I’m married, let’s divorce, let’s keep it a secret🙄🤦‍♀️

  • @trudygraham2222
    @trudygraham2222 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My husband walked out on our family to start a life in another country with another woman. His devotion to her didn't last long. You lose then how you get them

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why are there laws against these things if perpetrators get to just walk? And his new wife should have run for the door. If he will do it with you then he will do it to you. He shouldn have just come clean and said he wanted to marry someone else. This is just so heartbreaking and disgusting. That poor woman.

  • @JJ33438
    @JJ33438 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This guy is dangerous...good thing she dropped it all and distanced from him!

  • @1957HorseCrazyWoman
    @1957HorseCrazyWoman ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I feel Yve's pain. She can be thankful he didn't murder her to get her out of the way. Morris is a total loser. Karma has her eye on him.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She deserved at least half of that money though. She needs to quit lying to herself & letting a man get by with ANYTHING. Labeling an inert object as ‘tainted’ is ridiculous. You are letting your emotions be represented by things.

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a very stupid woman and put her kid in harm's way!

    • @k.s.421
      @k.s.421 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davisholman8149 In fact, there is no "tainted money". Even now she could be succesful, if she sues him. Yve should get a lawyer...

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@k.s.421 Thanks for your advice. It was difficult, expensive to go back to court and a protracted process to achieve my divorce settlement set aside as Maurice was overseas and would not engage. To have recovered the missing money might have taken years and I had to draw a line under it all. Also, if he was willing to steal from his family, then rather he keep the money, it willnever bring him happiness

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davisholman8149 The court process to win back his share of the family home was protracted and exspensive as he was overseas and did his best to fail to engage with my legal team. It might have taken years to recover the money and I could not have dealt with that. He stole that money from us to enable his duplicitous life, so in my opinion it is tainted. It will never bring him happiness.

  • @sadie9386
    @sadie9386 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Josh is a shining light.

  • @juditharsenault2131
    @juditharsenault2131 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My ex boyfriend would hint around about wanting something and I'd get it for him. But I wised up and told him to save for it himself. I wouldn't even buy him a postage stamp without him giving me the money at the end of our relationship. It was awesome how I stood my ground.

  • @nomarussia5085
    @nomarussia5085 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh lord the mother in law smh

  • @user-ke8st8jc1v
    @user-ke8st8jc1v ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Eve’s job didn’t take her anywhere,she chose to go there and she is not empathetic she is naive and gullible

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mid life crisis--run!

  • @tay7366
    @tay7366 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I hope he gets the old age he deserves

  • @andyt8216
    @andyt8216 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Given his mum’s reaction, you can tell how he got his character defect.

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That’s appalling how he treated his wife and children.

  • @butterflygirl3359
    @butterflygirl3359 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    If you offered me a million dollars, I wouldn’t go anywhere near Nigeria.

    • @rage707
      @rage707 ปีที่แล้ว

      Butterfly are you 25-35?

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why?

    • @SamStone1964
      @SamStone1964 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No amount of money would have me go anywhere near Africa or middle east. I'm almost 60.

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was extremely stupid to take her son there!

    • @rr12766
      @rr12766 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What's Nigeria got to do with it? Her husband was white not Nigerian

  • @sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901
    @sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hate cheating men Lord I hate cheaters !

    • @bernardtagoe310
      @bernardtagoe310 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello beautiful, how are you doing today? Can we be friends ! since we both hate cheaters.

  • @srianjanaVadevoo
    @srianjanaVadevoo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i think Maurice hated Josh from the beginning .. and wanted to leave the marriage ..Also he might actually be secretly funding Seb without anyone s knowledge ..

    • @hannahrosa5485
      @hannahrosa5485 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He hated Josh b/c Josh could see through him.

  • @tyeshajumper4404
    @tyeshajumper4404 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This shows who the stronger woman is. For a woman to legally marry and man who lied about everything shows you are not a trong woman. I am so glad Eve and the boys are now happy

  • @shosmyth1454
    @shosmyth1454 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yve and her boys look like a great Family! Josh is a Beautiful Son that gave his Mom moral support!

  • @realreviews4017
    @realreviews4017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so glad that this lady and her sons could move on and that she met someone decent.

  • @whateverchannel22
    @whateverchannel22 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It's difficult for me too believe that he was such a prick to the guy selling CDs on the beach, and to his stepson for a long time, and was able to hide that from his wife....

    • @regant.cameron8237
      @regant.cameron8237 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly
      Those two stories told everything you'd ever want to know about him. What a jerk.
      His mother was also a huge part of the lie which indicates that he was never taught to be honest or have respect for others. She's equally a con, protecting her son's money 🤑💰
      She is morally liable.
      Glad she escaped that family and built a better life.

    • @joshuabenjamin1626
      @joshuabenjamin1626 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe it feels difficult to believe it because you don't want to? The CDs wasn't even the worst thing he did.

  • @bronxbutterflyrivera78
    @bronxbutterflyrivera78 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What an insane story! You never know anyone the way you think you do!

  • @ednabarela485
    @ednabarela485 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Josh you had me laughing my ass off when you said you were in the Flintstones 😂🤣🤣 Oh Fred’s foot mobile 🦶🏽🦶🏽🦶🏽🦶🏽don’t forget Barney’s used his feet too ✌🏽✌🏽

  • @lucyj7506
    @lucyj7506 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was done to me by a Scottish man who lives in Dublin. He maintained a 4 yr rship with me in another country, me not knowing he had a common law situation in Ireland. I met his family and friends who consistently lied to my face and deceived me as they knew her well. He also told his family that I was crazy when I started to question his deceptions.. He was an agressive, abusive, diseased LOWLIFE who I later learned had been cheating with lots of other women, while he claimed he was travelling for work. Found pics on his phone at the end of young teenage girls I believe he was messing with too. He was a monstrous THING.
    When all came out I believe the other stayed with him, and good luck to her, she will end up with AIDS. I have learned that monsters truly do exist.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He needs to be brought to justice for grooming or statutory rape. I’m sorry he lied to you.

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry to read about your experience. Wishing you the very best after experiencing such deception and cruelty. You are very brave for sharing such a sad story.

  • @stephanieodom5825
    @stephanieodom5825 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am proud of you and your boys, from pulling through such a hard experience. I have a history of a twenty year marriage to a narcissistic man, who damaged a lot of mine and my children's lives through his own selfish wants and had no remorse. I am proud that you have also survived. Be free and be happy for the rest of your life. You deserve it! ❤

  • @flamingjune4927
    @flamingjune4927 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Such a common story....men are so shallow, they are just good at pretending they are not. This happened to me after 30yrs..I could t have children because of him and I had no family support. Totally alone and healing for a good two years. My life was given supporting his career which meant travelling to Africa and dubai. It was hard but I did it. Now at 62 I am dissabled and he never looked back. But I found that strength that I had as a child with polio when I entertained so many other children with my antics. I have since dealt with cancer and I am proud of who I am and who I always was, just lost it caring for him as we do. I am going through divorce and have yet to deal with monies. I live in the home I have always worked hard to keep. Just me and my little dog whom I love dearly. Have a good festive time everyone and treat yourself.

    • @goaldrivendatingstrategy
      @goaldrivendatingstrategy  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel so sorry this happened to you. To many women assume the role of a Betty The Builder and neglect themselves in the process. If you help build a man up 99.99% will not be grateful they will get rid of you and some other woman will reap the fruits of your hard labour. Please deal with the monies that should be your nr.1 priority you will need every penny. Take care of yourself and your health and enjoy the holidays.

  • @rarecockneyguvnor4945
    @rarecockneyguvnor4945 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Surely you know some people are NOT genuine. ???

  • @britlew5933
    @britlew5933 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow, every human is an abyss...so glad for Yve that she found love again with Paul.

  • @ds8290
    @ds8290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Like the age old saying goes: The first time a person shows you their true character, and who they really are, believe them. Ultimately you can’t trust everyone.

  • @kjprice1443
    @kjprice1443 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How do you think his new wife feels? She'll be checking his every move now that the truth is finally coming out!

    • @goaldrivendatingstrategy
      @goaldrivendatingstrategy  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I don't think so. Most women are like Ostriches sticking their head in the sand and thinking they are better then the first wife so it won't happen to them until reality comes back and bites them which is usually the case.

    • @geegeeandlulu
      @geegeeandlulu ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She will be in a perpetual cycle of mistrust

    • @luinomrkt2111
      @luinomrkt2111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chicken head women's dont care. They dont feel Love

    • @krisrobb7709
      @krisrobb7709 ปีที่แล้ว

      As well she should!

    • @DMR1010
      @DMR1010 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The old saying…..it they do it with you, they’ll do it to you…..

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If I was Yve, I definitely would have fought for the money owed after the divorce. Unfortunately, she married him too soon without really knowing him. However, it’s good that she has a new partner now.

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should be single, she makes stupid decisions!

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you

  • @dianeferguson9957
    @dianeferguson9957 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m blown away how Strong Eve is. I’m going through a painful break up. Amazing to see strength

  • @mbrennyb
    @mbrennyb ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He showed way too many red flags that she chose to ignore. She was very naive. I do not feel sorry for her.

  • @victoriagraham6470
    @victoriagraham6470 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Holy Hell Fire. Yes the grass is green on the other side, but it's NOT greener. Karma will get him

  • @carolinemartin2254
    @carolinemartin2254 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What an incredible story! What an amazingly intelligent and lovely lady Yve is! Her lovely son Josh is a credit to her! Wish I had a best friend like hers too because she too was a lovely loyal lady!

  • @MarquettDavon
    @MarquettDavon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Get over it lady. He doesn't want you. Continue your life. Peace to the saints.

  • @voyage_mystique9791
    @voyage_mystique9791 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ladies, when your man states that he wants a divorce, or if he admits to cheating - stay calm, listen, ask questions, and act accordingly. Crying hysterically, sweeping the problem under the rug, or blaming is not productive. You risk the guy doing what he wants behind your back anyway if he feels like you can’t handle the truth.

  • @GabrielleLeGrange
    @GabrielleLeGrange ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This poor woman 😢 I feel so bad for her and the husbands family was covering for him it’s sick!! Reminds me of Chris watts family.

  • @meredithisme3752
    @meredithisme3752 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would prefer to be single I had a bad guy got rid of him and won't be repeating the experience

  • @vaveshka
    @vaveshka ปีที่แล้ว +5

    To Yve, Josh and lil brother, our love and support goes out to you. May you continue to thrive and be happy and at peace all the days of your life.

  • @CiprianaLeme
    @CiprianaLeme ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This series ia amazing, totally hooked. So well told, and you even get to travel around the world with the amazing scenes. Please upload more!

    • @goaldrivendatingstrategy
      @goaldrivendatingstrategy  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was planning on uploading more and even paid for a renewal subscription then I found out via google yesterday that the new episodes will be available in January. It does no even state that on their website they said after these 4 they will upload the rest of 8 episodes weekly so, I have one more to upload episode 3.

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goaldrivendatingstrategy i will be waiting with my bells on

    • @yvegibney7318
      @yvegibney7318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@goaldrivendatingstrategy Hi Do you know that the first 4 epsiodes of Series 2 is now on Paramount Plus . My episode goes live on Sunday in the UK on channel 5, terristial TV

  • @annacarter6559
    @annacarter6559 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    None are so blind as those who won't see

  • @gabriella8797
    @gabriella8797 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love at first sight. Hormones ruling the heart. In love with love without asking questions. Rushing in where angels fear to tread etc. She married a narc who loved bombed her then discarded her . Very typical of a narcissist.

  • @clairejohnson8550
    @clairejohnson8550 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How sad that these horrible men took advantage of these desperate, lonely women. Unfortunately, the women share in the terrible outcome. They should have guarded their hearts 💕.

  • @Pigletpronto
    @Pigletpronto ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thankyou for writing / sharing your story . Personal Good triumphs. Though I’ve to agree the legal system was abysmal on bigamy . He should have spent serious time in prison .

  • @llamamama2910
    @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did Morris have any family connections or was it just his new family? Parents, cousins, school friends, former marriage or girlfriend or kids???
    When it is only you as a super couple against the world, beware. Real people have real connections.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Okay so mom knew he was remarrying 🙄

  • @krisrobb7709
    @krisrobb7709 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Aww Eve and her son are so lovely

  • @roseoreillysievers6057
    @roseoreillysievers6057 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always keep an eye on the family finances. Money tells a story

  • @rubyclark7595
    @rubyclark7595 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW!!! Thank you for sharing.

  • @karatekai6384
    @karatekai6384 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Does not say a lot for the teacher she went on to marry him, delighted Yve went on to have a happy life well done to her… what a despicable Rat 🐀

  • @alzychoze6591
    @alzychoze6591 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That Suzanne chick better watch out how she ages…. If he will do something WITH you, he will do it TO you.

  • @PablaMMoore
    @PablaMMoore 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A total narcissist. How sad for this lady and her children.

  • @pearlrodrigues372
    @pearlrodrigues372 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just because you get married you don’t need to have joint accounts, his is his and yours is yours. This way no dipping into each other’s accounts, temptation is always lurking and you have to be smart and careful and honest with yourself and your partner.

  • @celticwarrior777
    @celticwarrior777 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Aww so happy for her she has someone. It's the sons too I feel sorry for he betrayed them too

  • @ZetaCancri
    @ZetaCancri ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "too depressed"
    🤣
    Too manipulative. Too much of a narcissist.

  • @ckaydw
    @ckaydw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Josh your a very good son to your Mom. I know I would be brave of you as your mom. I all so think your Mom is a very strong wonderful lady. What you three went through is just horrible. That man and his wife will get what they deserved. Believe this made national news and so many people know what he did. But I very disappointed in the justice system for letting him get away with what he has done. There was no justice in this case and the Judge should be so ashamed of hisself for letting that man walk away with what he did. He deserved the full 7 years. God Bless you all.