Woman Loses £170,000 in Investment Scam After Selling Her House | Real Men Never Ask For Money
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After a whirlwind romance, Carol Goodall and Gary Rogers' big day is all set. But then, after Carol has sold her house and given the money to Gary to invest, she receives a suspicious text message from another woman. Is Gary who he says he is?
This video is used for educational purposes and not for use of entertainment. By the end of this year the estimated loss due to romance scam will be 7 billion worldwide. It's a growing epidemic and women of all ages and backgrounds are becoming a victim. Most of these men pretend to be wealthy that always turns out to be a lie and scamming women is their fulltime job.
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Love Rats documentary
Promises of love and romance end up being scams, lies and deceit. They promise life-long romance, yet they scheme, scam and swindle. Some steal a fortune; others lead double lives. They are Love Rats. The victims at the center of these cases reveal how they were left with broken hearts and empty bank accounts.
Real Men Never Ask For Money is the only thing you need to remember in order not to become a victim of a romance scammer like these ladies in Love Rats.
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The biggest red flag was why would you give your money investment fund to someone who been in prison for fraud ?
The biggest red flag was he told her he was still married but she went ahead with him anyway.
Duh? right?
Can't make this stuff up.
@@SamStone1964 He told her he was going through a divorce and it was "only a matter of time for it to be finalised".
@@Bulletguy07 Yes, he told her he was still married.
My late Mum always told me 'never give a man your money'. Thanks Ma. Your advice has served me well.😘
Good mom 👌
So true!
Same here. Common sense isn’t common,
Why would anyone need a mom to tell that. The woman in the video was quite not smart to give her money to a man she was not even married to
@@bambinaforever1402
Because she was that desperate for love.
I have one rule. We start dating. If you ask me for money I'm blocking you. No way I'm giving away my hard earned money
But u would ask him money for nails,hair,shopping yea?
You sound like a very smart person, damn, can't believe I'm talking about myself again....LOL that's my rule. I work too hard for my money to take it and give it away to a man.
@@hulklikesnutella7236 While dating? Most women wouldn't. The only exception might be very young women with older men.
Why are you "blocking" him?!
Good Lord, doesn't anybody date in person anymore?!
Where tf is people's self worth?!?!
@@hulklikesnutella7236 not every woman would
Im 51,been single for 4 years after a 18 year relationship with the father of my last born.i DO NOT plan on getting involved with anyone ever again.ive had enough of men to last me a lifetime.im single and happy.i put all my energy on myself,my children and grand children.i do things to keep me busy,you dont need a man to keep you occupied.at my age i dont want to deal with a moody difficult man.make yourself happy ladies.we are all responsible for our own happiness🤗
You don't need a man who is a lying cheating manipulative AH at any age. I too prefer to be on my own and to enjoy my freedom and have a peaceful life ❤
Amen, ladies, Amen.
Oh Yes , the peace and power of being alone is truly Beautiful , no more Parasites in my life , I believe loneliness is really for oneself, the real self and we jump the gun to fill the void with a Man and those Men are doing exactly the same but they and their egos need Money to fill their Void , easy peasy , get a woman with Money.
♥️
Amen!!!
Getting married after 3 months is crazy, even if that person isn't a scammer.
Mine wasn’t an online romance, but I married after 4 months and am happily married for 14 years now. It doesn’t always end in craziness! 😅
Absolutely right!!!
@@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK you brain washed him
Married after 4 months and was very happily married for 36 years until he passed.
A friend of mine married her husband after about 3 weeks and had a happy successful marriage for over 40 yrs right up until he died .
He didn’t take her kids money, she gave it all away 🙄
I constantly heard victim got cheated & scammed, reader comment they “gave money away”! Vice versa who would “gave money away” without any verbal cheating? So law enforcement should concentrate arrest those scammers for crimes action instead guibbling With “giving away” it directly support criminal actions.
Who would give money away except to church or charity organization! I hate those outsider pretentious as lawful quote victim “giving $$ away “
@@sabrinawang6267 Churches are scammers, too. Save your money. Donate your time instead because your hard-earned cash always ends up in the wrong hands.
@@sabrinawang6267 No she GAVE it away. He told her he had been in jail for fraud!
She chose to give money to a convicted fraudster ffs.
@@snooganslestat2030 there is no proof he said such words, he still cheat her or those women as many times he can. Who would have money away ? Scammer duped & robbery
Who in their right mind sells their house and give proceeds to a man she knew a wet day. The height of stupidity. He didn't take it , you gave it to him, there's a difference 😬
@rose Jacob. What do you mean “gave”?
Pulling his gun aim her head?
So unless robbing anything are “giving” special being cheated, lying, set-up, dupping,scam… are all GIVING? Your law of criminal are too wide. Under you there is NO CRIMINAL everything are giving
I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice.
NAL everything are giving
I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice.
A person who was conned by a scumbag.
Rubbish. He stole the money she had entrusted him with. The guy's a professional conman just like some people are professional burglars.
It was done under a pretense, he falsely misrepresented himself, so it's fraud.
what does 'she knew a wet day' mean?
“He was nice, he was charming, he defrauded a bank, been in jail, married 4 times, yeah I like this one!😂
I'm swooning here, he sounds an absolute dream 😂❤
Yer a true CAD
@@HaramXLyeah, an LSD induced dream! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Are you kidding?😮
Devastating for her, but she ignored so many red flags! Firstly don't sell your property until you have been together for years and secondly never ever put the money into his sole name!
Be buggered if I ever opened a joint bank account! Stupid and unnecessary these days.
Don’t give him money.Let him give it to you!
@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 ikr? I would never in a million years do what these women did! LOL - men give it to ME, not the other way around. I have never been desperate either - love yourself first. Lonely - understandable. But do NOT lower your standards to simply have a man in your life. And ladies, most desirable men in their 50s are going to date women 10 years younger. If you are in your 50s - the men you usually get are late 60s. If that doesn’t appeal to you, meet men in person during social opportunities. Dating sites are rife with liars. 95% are NOT trustworthy. Sorry - but it is the truth. If you are very attractive ,- slender & accomplished - you will meet the right man in person & have better luck that way.
@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Right on!!! She's a damn fool!!!
You are soo right, fools abound
This is quite fascinating because the man confessed (truthfully or not) that he was a) still married and b) had been in prison for financial crimes. So this lady very quickly decides to a) marry him and b) give him all of her money. I just don’t understand, why the rush into all of this? 🤦♂️
Desperation.
Exactly and 3 marriages is a red flag straight off
Exactly!! Trusting him with so much money although he confessed that his crime was about money 🤦♀
"Confessing" to being married & being in prison would have been part of the scam. Portraying himself as being transparent and reformed. Flattering her that he was sincere about being with her.
PS he only admitted to one marriage. And bring in prison just one time. Very manipulative move.
These folks are brave to talk about what they went through. We are listening to useful cautionary tales.
You mean what suckers they were
These women need a reality check,they go in blind with out thinking
At their age, this is unforgivable. I'm sorry. When I was 28, a guy told me all the right things in order to quickly marry me, bc his student visa had expired. Obviously, he only told me this when he broke up with me. I did fall in love w him, and the red flags such as falling on his knee and talking about marriage on the FIRST date, were there. BUT, I was 28. Now, at 41, HA HA HA, is what I would say if a man started to talk about marriage or love at first sight. At whatever age these ladies are at? What is wrong w them, sorry. Grow up.
What? Does that mean that YOU would have ever fallen for this scam? Come on!
Yes! They are very brave. I would say to poor Carole, GURL!!! you've got Harvey Nicks, boom fish and chips, and the Buddha Bar, no need to be lonely. Cheers
Been in prison, still married but getting divorced, owes loan to bank, business going under, defaulted......run....too many red flags...
WHAT A CATCH!!!
Why don't you sell your house and put the money in MY account??????????????????????????????/
Don't give them your money your home your bank cards ever.
Don't meet idiots on line . Don't ever marry them and give them money, and most of all don't move in with them . If you do meet someone never give up your home in case it goes wrong. 😁😁😁😁😁
What on earth in this day and age women want to get married asap?? We can live happily without any obligations and marriage is the last thing I would personally consider. This lady is way beyond her teenage years, what was she thinking, marrying a person in two weeks of knowing him. Shocking.
I’ve worked since the age of 16 and always been good with my finances. I can’t imagine a situation where I would hand over financial control to another person whether we’re married or not. Look how much money was involved in this story- the daughter and son’s investment, the sale of the woman’s home. Why would anyone allow a stranger who you’ve just met to control everything? It’s a very sad case of what not to do.
A convicted white collar criminal for fraud should have been a red flag. So many women just handover their finance to strange men.
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy yes, that was definitely a major red flag. I suppose looking from the outside, I believe it would never happen to me but I can also understand how manipulative some men are and how powerful love is as an emotion.
They don't love themselves before a stranger. Very odd and very desperate
It is shocking to give all your money and to sell your own home to give even more money. There is another video of a woman who gave the man she never met over $1 million.
Well, actually, children were also to blame - why did they agree to let the man handle the money mom gave to them? They were all of legal age
So thankful this horrible man was caught!
She moved him into the family home after three months, and then proceeded to hand that house over to a virtual stranger? She was a willing participant in his manipulation. Wanting a partner, someone to love is one thing, handing over your entire financial security is something entirely different. Too much, far too soon.
Should have seen a solicitor.
the thought of being loved will make people do insane things, he banked on that
I agrée but these conmen are so clever. In fact I’ve been married twice, adored my second husband who sadly died of cancer but have always had separate bank accounts.
Agreed but the first woman was sad and vulnerable, her first husband obviously did a real number on her self esteem
They was an excellent programme o the BBC about a woman who had lost her life savings and her home. Despite the presenters proving to her it was all a scam. She would not accept the help she was given. Thos woman is able to say she is lonely and want a relationship. She will be scammed again unfortunately. Women must learn to be comfortable with thembselvesanbd not be so desperate for a man. That is why scammers succeed.
A man that asks a woman for money, is either a SCAMMER, LOSER, TOSSER, or all of the above. I find it repugnant that any man should ask a woman for money, no matter what his reason or excuse is, it's unacceptable and disgusting. If a man ever asks a woman for money, she should refuse and then see how long he stays around for. I bet she won't see him for dust, that should give her a good idea of his real intentions!
Well said!
Exactly!
Ladies, if a guy asks you for money drop him straightaway. Likewise if you offer a man your money and he accepts it get rid of him.
What about a woman asking a man for money? Is that acceptable? Woman are the biggest scammers lol
As young women stating to work, we were told never to give a man money. If a man asks for money from a woman, he is a loser.
I'm surprised the court couldn't freeze his bank account and make an order for the ladies he'd defrauded to get their money back. It's disgusting.
I was wondering what happened to the money.
Seems there should be monetary compensation.
It's not been proven in court .
Im sure he was spending alot of $ wining and dining his new victims and for sure bought expensive clothes, watches, maybe boats for HIMSELF!
@@normanpearson8753how come?
I think they said it took a year to find him? The money was probably gone by then. I was also wondering about that.
She sold her house and put the money in his name before he gave her the run around about marriage. She's surprised about him lying. You trusted him with your children's future.
All why knowing he was a convicted white collar criminal.
Same here I've met loads of men on dating sites and none asked me for money, and if they did I would have blocked them.
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy Insanity!
Such a sad story.the lady was too trusting. I'm glad she told her story.
What is worse, is to feel lonely when your partner is in the same home❗️
Right yes that happened with me when I was with this guy
Yer to wake up every morning and the person next to you has become a stranger
“ Never a borrower nor a lender be”
Totally agree with you, I would not lend him 50p. 😂😂😂😂
"...for loan oft loses both itself and friend"!
Amen,
Most of the time we ignore red flags trying to avoid being alone. If you choose to ignore them and stick around you get hurt and feel like crap. If choose to be alone you feel like crap. I'd rather feel like crap with my money in my pocket.
Loneliness is killing us and those scammers know it!
I’m buying myself a teddy bear that’s all I need after this!
No the scammers are more likely to kill
I do not use the word LONELINESS it as a negative connotation it makes one sound vulnerable....I have replaced it with PEACE...
@@ladywindrush5464 well glad you feel peaceful,being alone can be peaceful.Loneliness is very different
French proverb
Il vaut mieux être seul que d'être mal accompagné.
Better to be alone than to be in bad company.
My grandmother's and mom had no interest in dating when they lost their partners. They found other things to do.
Same. My nana lost my grandad at the age of only 42. She was left with 5 children aged from 2 to 20 and she dedicated her life to them until they all left home and afterwards had her hands full with grand children and great grand children, her voluntary work and social clubs. She passed away aged 80. She always used to say to me I will always stay on my own coz there was only ever one man for me.
@@eveoakley6270 sorry for the loss of your grandma.
One of my grandmother stated to me she didn't want to cater to another man.
@@arfriedman4577 I agree with them. There is only my husband for me.
@@viviennepastor3188 I'm glad you found a wonderful partner.
@@eveoakley6270wow, I admire your grandma!
I would advise women not to get serious with any man now a days. Scammers are everywhere. Take up a hobby instead.
Yeah get a dog 😂😂
Agreed.
Or…maybe don’t marry a guy after 3 months. And maybe don’t give him your money after he’s made you aware that he served time for fraud. I know it sounds tempting but definitely don’t do those things.
At 47 I have made the decision sanity and safety over sex
You are very wise
@@starcatcher3691 and horny
I learned the hard way.
I'm 48, but I already made that decision long time ago.
My children and grandchildren are they only ones I would spend my money on. I get great joy from that. I don’t understand how you could give everything away to strangers.
my sentiments exactly!!!!
Plenty of fish? Plenty of fraud
This lady was not only desperate and naive, but she basically put him first over her own children, by accepting that her daughter move out because of him. I don't feel sorry for her, just for her family
and don't forget selling her house and allowing this scammer to invest their money. She was desperate she said so herself her ex emotional abusive ex husband said: You will never find someone better then me. This was a huge trigger for her so she thought he was her prince charming.
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy So she is now paying for her choices, too bad the kids had to suffer as well..
Totally agree with you.... I wouldn't have picked a man over my child..... definitely wouldn't have had all of my money from the sale of my hous put into his bank account.... would be interested to know what he actually spent all of that money on 🤔... another red flag for me would have been immediately moving into her house.
What annoyed me as that she got her children to invest 60k in his ponzi investment scheme. He stole their money. Craziness
No sympathy for this person, I feel bad for her daughter,,,mothers actions were shameful, no question of it
Trust nobody ever.
She didn’t loose it , she knew exactly where it went , she paid for the dream ,
She paid for a fantasy. 😮
She essentially paid for attention and sex..
Isn't there a nasty name for that.🤔
once a man ask youfor money block and Delete.
Yes, it's that simple I don't understand why a lot of women refuse to understand this.
That's my philosophy. As a matter of fact start giving me a sob story about money and I block and delete
Who wants to date a broke man? No one should want to fix a man's problems either. Just saying.
@@rt66vintage16 He can solve his own problems. These men know exactly what they are doing. They profile these women they smell the desperation from a mile away.
Yes, same for men, when a woman asks for money, know that nothing good will ever come from that.
If you find a man VERY charming, (especially quickly), watch out. He's most likely using your feelings to get past your brain, so he can get into your wallet or your pants! Back off fast and watch his "interest' dry up or gets angry or accuses you of 'not trusting him'! Darned right, trust is earned on a daily basis, and easily broken like all 'piecrust promises' - easily made and easily broken!!
Totally agree, start asking him for money because your skint, he will soon back off. 😂😂😂
Also known as "love bombing"
@@ZetaCancri right on! Wish I had known about this stuff YEARS ago! found out the HARD way, emotionally and financially, but good now!
not all of us have commonsense, emotional intelligence or a high IQ and wishful thinking will overrule the most blatant of red flags waving.
I never heard that saying before : pie crust promises .
She says she is lonely. Those women are mostly bad friends. When they meet a man, they forget friends and even their whole familiy. This is desperation! You should never ever date because of lonelyness! You first must be able to be alone! She should built herself a social network and have hobbies to fill that huge void she tried to fill with a fraudster! Woman, you are a mother, you have to learn to be responsible!
Very true!
Lay off. Everyone makes mistakes. It could happen to anyone.
there is so much a woman can do, join a volunteer group, social group and make friends in real life.
He included her children at first. Gave a solid impression
as a caring person to her daughter. Then flipped.
A lot of women shun their mates when men come on the scene .
I’m almost 60 if anything were to happen to my husband I don’t think I’d ever want another man. I’ve had the best so how would I ever be able to trust that I’d ever get that again. With all the scams going around probably not!
Known someone gonna takes long long time & trial test. So it is hard to find another partner just stay no money involve.
I will never give away my precious money I was duped and promised I will soon be paid back because he said he is much richer then me!
Ha I pray this scumbag get vegetables quick! for his big liar cheater thief killer….
These are my life time sweats hard working money how can you say I gave away not even a penny.
I hate scammers so much I wish them all get serious punished. We never gave money we were duped & cheated, at the end I was panic attacking + committed suicide for how can I be such fool & stupid being cheated forced lying … if I can not get my $$$ back he+they will be punished severe very soon.
100% agree with you--my late husband was wonderful and i'm smart enough to know that i'd never find anyone else like him
This is proof that women will rather prefer to have a wedding than a marriage. The wedding was more important than the marriage to her.
Rubbish...Thankgod I never married you are assuming
How was he imprisoned for defaulting on a loan? That isn't a crime. There's more to that story.
This is why I,m staying single
Smart move. 😎
He did not take it ,he was given it.
I've chosen to be single since the age of 32. I'm now 68. I chose to be single because every relationship I had been in made a fool of me. These years of being single have been the best in my life. I've raised a daughter who has gone on to give me 4 grandchildren who love me very much. I have gotten a master's degree that gave me good earning power. I have met all kinds of interesting people. I help lonely people on a daily basis. I have gotten to know and love God. I couldn't ask for more. As a single person, I have peace. I have wonderful friends and family and none of the strife and stress I had when I was in relationships with men. Being single was difficult and lonely and terribly sexless at first, but I got used to it and now enjoy my peaceful single life very much. It was one of the best decisions I ever made.
God is just a man made myth like Santa. Atheists are more logical.
With a pleasant relationship with married is much safe
you are awesome and fully adult
Congratulations, enjoy!
So a guy you’ve known for 2 weeks tells you he’s been convicted of fraud.. and then he rips you off?
You can't make it up.
Madness, I tell ya!!
And he tells her he is still married and then doesn't marry her.
Plus he is a very unattractive man both inside and out. I don’t understand the desperation of these ladies to tie themselves to a man like this.
When she was all right with the fact that he been to prison for fraud he knew he had her hook line and sinker. She bought all of his red flags straight out The gate 🫣
So sorry that this happened, it is hard to tell your story when somebody has scammed you. I respect this woman for speaking out.....and wish her happiness and courage going forward.
I admire this lady for telling her story
I admire the female police officer for her relentless work, & investigation 👍
God bless her! We must be warned the need for love and affections can cloud ones judgment of the truth! 😟🔆👀
I had no idea a scammer would go this far.Unbelievable.
Being lonely is thousand times better than being on the roller-coaster with a man. Charming men are always a disaster, waiting to happen because they are narcissistic and selfish.
Selling her house to give the money to a scammer online is beyond me. There is only so much stupidity I can watch.
Low Intelligence.😮
All these comments pointing out the bleeding obvious don't change the fact that love scams are reaching epidemic proportions. Some people need protecting from themselves sadly.
It seems almost a sickness. It's like how we can't understand women who allow themselves to be abused and beaten and who stay with their abuser
1st massive red flag..prison for stealing money aka fraud..!!!!!!!!!!
1st massive red flag - he tells you he's still married.
One must know one’s limitations. If you are older and not good looking, ain’t no good looking young man wants you unless you’re an ATM machine.
If it’s an older man you’re either a nurse or a purse.
Nothings wrong with being single when you’re older. It’s quite freeing.
Does that also apply to younger women who are not good looking? Do they need to know their limitations? 🤓🤓🤓
"nurse or a purse" i love it--and it's so true
@@dinacap2660
I lived in Florida for 20 years. I saw it over and over. Women and men both taken advantage of for the love they wanted so badly. People will do anything for love. Loving one’s self makes one see more clearly when a con person is nipping at your heels.
@@meganhuggins7494yes for all of us, if it seems too good to be true...
Lucky I got no homes under my belt just a car not worth more them 5k Australian dollars or 2.5 k pounds
It's okay to give someone your love and all that good stuff, but never ever give them your money to hold or invest! Never ever sell your house. Him moving in with her, was the first sign, she was going to be parted from her money. Lets hope she is doing okay.
Some women can’t live alone . And they need a man . I understand that . But unfortunately we must learn to live alone . There’s no man left anymore.
Ive been alone 19 years and im happy
Some people think im weird, but i dont care
Wow, real, in person scamming ! How horrid ! Probably even more hurtful than on line.
A lot of people get scammed in person on a daily basis it's unbelievable. Watch out for men wanting to move in with you or ask you to sell your house to buy a new house together.
A perfect gentleman does not ask a woman for money.
I never give money to a man. They give me money
scammers come in any age and nationality, i really feel for these women they haven‘t done anything to deserve any of that
The first red flag I saw was that Gary said he had been married 3 times....and was still married.
Hiring a private investigator would have cost her less..I've read some women who won't date anyone unless they get a background check and a health check too...
@Donnell Okafor yes to see what runs thru the family n whether there are any psychiatric issues
More like STD’s, HIV. Checking for those disease conditions😃
After 3 failed relationships, I no longer trust anyone. If they ask me for a McDonald’s hamburger I’m kicking them to the curb.
She’ll most likely be a victim again given the statement she made at the end of “being lonely”. Being single is being alone and that peace should be appreciated until someone who is fit to ADD to your peace cones along.
She is online now. 😮
He’s not even nice looking poor lady
Yea like she is so beautifull 😂😂😂😂😂
She's no oil painting c'mon
What a bizarre way to make a living. These poor women were not even wealthy. I think he got a kick out of humiliating his victims, as much as taking their money. Vile, vile man.
You have small time scammers and you have the big time scammers. There are stories galore how women have been swindled out of millions. This man was to un attractive to pull that one of because to swindle women out of millions via an offline romance scam you have to be able to look and dress the part to a certain extend.
I have completely and totally been done with dating and men for 5 years. It seems in my area all the good ones are taken or too young lol. I'm happy with myself and keep busy working and spending time with friends..Learn to love yourself first and choose YOU ❤️💯
Well said!
there are good men out there♥️
@@Swiss_Girl
Yes, they are married or gay. Once you’re older finding a good man is like finding a unicorn,
you are talking as a sane sensible women with a life....
@@Swiss_Girl agree 👍
Don't ever think you know these people ,takes a lifetime to know yourself
It seems the people the scammers pick on is the photos of people who are not very attractive or overweight because they know their dying for love and attention
Personally..I would never have a joint bank account,it spells " trouble"!
If he asks for money or favors, he doesn't care about you. NEVER help a man. Let him ask his family or friends - not you. Lies about preposterous situations. NEVER help a man. And online dating isn't dating. NEVER help a man. RUN.
Rule #1…very early in the relationship you do a background check. If there are any red flags you drop him and move on and consider yourself lucky to have dodged a bullet.
These women are desperate for attention and love. They want to and need to believe the lies……
Who are willing to take lie? Just she had bad luck got Voodoo met this evil.
I married at 22. Put our money together rt away. He was a manager at BK back then. Now he's a college graduate working on servers for 100k a year. Basically I got lucky. And it's sad that you literally have to be lucky just to find a decent guy.
It is neither simple for majority of guys to find a wife nowadays.
What do you do?
Not lucky at all, just common sense. Many women have lovely husbands.
I play the lottery with way better odds and win fairly often.
@@gorgeous.akosua lets just say I have a great.
People are this desperate to find someone. Some people don't want to be alone. Get a hobby, join a gym, find an art class, get a dog! You could meet someone genuine without searching them out. Why the rush to get married asap. What's wrong with just seeing someone to get to know them.
I would never give up my freedom for a dick. Ever.
@@blondecat666 me too
It’s called desperation, really pathetic
I'd say, get a brain and responsibility for your life first before indulging into an affair with someone🙌
Everyone, regardless of age has a need to be loved and to give love. But when that love costs you $$ it's time to step back and distance yourself from the situation. Take a breather. Pause for the cause. In other words, STOP. if dude is in it for love he will understand and work with you . If he throws a fit ? Well then, better heartbroken then heartbroken and broke!
Yes because what a lot of women refuse to understand is that a real man will never ask you for money it is that simple. If he starts asking for money he is broke, a loser or a scammer. Real men are ashamed to even ask for cent let alone a pound, euro or dollar.
False. I could give a fig less about giving or receiving romantic love. I love my friends and family. Please stop speaking on others' behalf wholesale.
Best Advice ever! 😊😊😊
@@whateverchannel22 I totally agree with you. The love I have for my freinds has been more fulfilling and enduring than some of my romantic relationships. Not to mention I'd pick the love of my pup over most humans any day. Im sorry if what I said read otherwise because love is love. It comes in many different forms and isxa blessing
My heart absolutely breaks for this lady ..... he should have been given 20 year's in prison... what a disgusting man .
These women willingly handed over their money and wanted to marry a married man.
@@SamStone1964 How did you manage to miss his repeated claims that he was divorced and the problem with his papers was purely bureaucratic?! Or the fact that she even called the registry office, who confirmed this to her?!
20 years in prison..what crime did he commit. ?
Sorry..but she gave her money willingly...to a dishonest, manipulative slime ball.
Pathetic 😣
You reap what you sow..!!
That Nigerian accent though should always warn you when the smarminess two hearts beat as one bs starts.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
That doesn't apply to this story at all.
Wake up !This one is not a Nigerian .Unlike most lol
@@kazleslie6334 I guess she didn’t see the man on this story. 😂
We’re all experts in African dialects now. Alaye!
They know something is not right and too good to be true from the very start but are so lonely and desperate that they choose to ignore it.
Even if someone you seem to be connecting with sounds legitimate, always do a background check. I think it's wise to hire a PI if things get serious because you never know who you're dealing with. Actually, whenever there's talk about financial situations (inordinate or not), if things are moving too fast like there was with this one, it's a sign things are looking bad so time to bail out. In this case, this man never went into depth about speaking about himself, and all the lovely-dovey stuff coming from him was too overpowering for it to be real. Too bad she ignored that. What's wrong with winging it alone anyway? You might be better off.
Why would you marry someone you met online after only two months? You haven’t had enough time to investigate or really get to know them.
You can’t be that desperate.😕
Self righteous. We all make bad decisions, including you
Well I have seen a story where woman with 2 kids moved a man into her house straight after he got of the train on their first date. He left her with a mount of debt and moved on to the next woman to scam. He also pretended to be rich and waiting on a big pay out 🤣 and the other women were smart not to move him in because the reporter tracked him down living in a homeless shelter 🤣
@ymarrero23 It's desperation.
@ymarrero23 Finding a husband isn't about grabbing the first man who stumbles into your path.
It's about finding the right man to be your husband.
Even love won't sustain a marriage.
(Dedication, patience, hope, good-will, resilience)
@ymarrero23 No she grabbed this guy from online after 90 days!
Why would she trust a felon who basically robbed a bank to have her children’s money in his bank account? She can’t say “he took her children’s money”. She blatantly gave it to him despite knowing he’s a felon and also “marrying him” couple of months after she met him. That’s so dumb and irresponsible.
And she needs a psychiatrist ASAP.
Plus he looks glum in the limo. Like he is hiding something. Bad.
😂😂😂😂😂
What I’m curious to know is, why aren’t they able to get their money back? Couldn’t they investigate where the funds went and follow the paper trail to get some of it back? If he had any properties, sell them to give these people their money back? There should be a rule that if they scam you, you have a right to go after their assets. Freeze their accounts, if they had any.
@ ds8290, they said Gary had accumulated a lot of money from scamming women, so where did the money go, they should have got it back. The British Police have been going down hill for years. The Police woman tried to take the credit for finding Gary, but it was the phone call from the woman who gave all the information they needed, and this after they had already let him out on bail 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Why did she not get any money back, he obviously had almost a million and it has to be somewhere….I hope they did a forensic accounting of this crook’s bank accounts under the 30 odd names he went by
I have the same question!
he didn't rob her with a gun--she willingly gave her money to him
Am now 60 years!! Am glad that I am not interested in a man woman relationship anymore, my husband died 5 years ago, we had a wonderful marriage!!! Iam now used to being alone...I am enjoying single life so much , I don't wanna jeopardize my happiness in pursuit of a partner no never!!! Thank you God for the peace and joy that am enjoying in my old age🎉
The minute a man brings up money RUN
What a nice lady, I hope she finds love.
"My mum's carrying, she's lovable" and completly desparate and crazy. So sad really. I think she was so desperate for a mate she would of give him everything ( as she did) just to have somebody.. anybody.
They said he didn't have a job. I disagree!
His job is scamming women and it might sound strange but it really is.
Men know that a lot of women are desperate for companionship. They'll take advantage of you if they sense this desperation
Grace Victoria @ Is vice versa the same or not!? Man cheat for money, not many man can be cheated by women?
How can these women be so gullible, who would hand over, such huge amounts of money
Thousands of women daily!
Don't be naive, men get scammed just as much.
Desperately sad and lonely ☹️
I guess you know nothing about narcissistic psychopaths
A man you barely know moves into your house and wants to then sell your house and you think that’s okay?
A big red flag is when the daughter had to move out because he was being difficult with her. The mum should have woken up then. I had a sister who didn’t recognise the signs . Her partner started being nasty early on to me for no reason. My sister blamed me and said I must have done something to upset him. He turned out to be an abuser . She ended having to divorce him. She was so blinded by love when she met him.
She has amazing children, and that’s something to celebrate❤
She did not have a problem with him being married>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> end of story.
Exactly. Rule 1 Don't date married people.
It’s sad that she told herself that she’d probably never be married again & she “wasn’t good enough” -- doesn’t she realize ANYONE can get married??? Whether Rich or poor, skinny or fat, young or old - many people “settle” & don’t look or choose quality. Look for quality only. I’ve only done that & had exceptional relationships.
He knew how desperate she was I'm pretty sure she told him how alone and lonely she was and he capitalized on that.
She still spoke of him fondly during their times together… how he opened the door for her etc. she likes being treated this way….
Men mess up your lives.
They take your emotional and sometimes physical energy. Learn to cultivate a life around your family, friends, interests and set personal goals. Life will be more fulfilling and safe.
Women con men and cause a lot of damage too. Bad people come in many guises.
One of the most unattractive and immediate turn off in a man is when he asks for money from a woman….it’s one thing if you have been married , and he has been providing for you for years and maybe lost his job and temporarily needs help, then yes ofcourse help him since now he is family and demonstrated his commitment to you….BUT to give a man money in the beginning of a relationship and even worse not having met them in person yet!!..well that’s just insanity
Thats why it’s really important to love yourself and be happy by your own. She was desperately looking for partner as she was lonely. Sad.
Date, but don't marry or share any asses whether it be real estate, bank accounts, no investments, vehicles, if any gifts are given make sure you limit your amount, no loans shares business, and definitely no life insurance, don't feel pressure to give his friends or family member money unless you know you won't need it back (get where I'm going with that) just share your time and bed if thats something you both agree on. You don't have to be lonely you just have to be a little wiser thats all.
Anyone can insure your life and you don't even know about it.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Depends on the country. Not in Australia.
The 'Two hearts beating as one must be the usual line '...
Geez
I was always told to put other people first but not any longer. Too many scammers and rip off con artists out there looking for people who put others needs/wants first.
The “slow motion “ in this video is making my brain hurt 😅
I can begin to say how badly I feel for this good woman. May life find other blessings to send her way : /