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@Saad Bin Masud I cook, clean and take care of my man by listening to him when he is not in a good space......this does not make me his servant. And when he cares for me financially it does not make him my servant.......he enjoys our relationship because its reciprocal
I have a feminine day. Its called feminine friday. I do all things selfcare, exfoliate, mask, watch videos about how to be lady like. I drink detox teas, I just rest and breathe and appreciate being a woman. I also pray to God, cause I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
I wear pretty lingerie under my clothes whether I have a man in my life or not, because it makes ME feel more feminine and special which ignites my feminine energy all the time.
@@sage9836 I too use to take belly dancing lessons in my younger days, and I enjoyed feeling the feminine, sexy sensual movement in my body..not to mention the physical strength and toning it gave me. I didn’t have a very sexual connection to my now late husband, but I became more in tune with my sexuality as I aged and matured. I absolutely Love my now my beautiful amorous nature. And now enjoy tasteful porn together WITH my present beloved, and enjoy the sexual adventures with him. Men are sexual creatures by nature, but then again so are Women when they discover and embrace the sensuous essence of themselves. I pray you will find yours as well. It is truly a gift from God to embrace that our true feminine spirit. Have you ever had your man take you into the next Universe? Have some wine with your hubby by candlelight and practice some of those delicious moments on your body...then worship his. Love ALL of him. The key is enjoying one another in every way. So if you wear lingerie for him (as well as yourself), not to worry, it won’t be on long. He deserves to be loved completely...as do you.
One thing that makes me feel feminine that wasn't listed here is having a tidy home. When my home is clean and organized, it makes feel more feminine. It also makes my home more inviting.
"Just say thank you" I was told this by a guy who complimented me and I went on to explain the problems with my outfit....and he said "Just say thank you" Lesson learned.
It's nice of him to say that. Most of us, women, tend to automatically do just like you did. Whether we don't familiar with receiving compliment or say it out of shy, it's really good to get a gentle reminder like this. We deserve those compliments.
For myself, being feminine means slowing down. Women don't seem feminine when they are rushing.. when I'm walking, I take my time, every step is sensual. As a reminder to slow down, I pretend I'm carrying a cup full of coffee. To keep it from spilling, I must move slowly. I tell you, men have glanced my way. As if wondering "who is she?". Thanks for reading
yea im definitely NOT gonna do it. Girl i got things to do here, walking in that pace is only going to result in me walking down the street without a job at the end of the day
1. Joyful Receiving 2. Feel Safe 3. Move from your head into your body 4. Connection 5. Wear clothes and fragrances that makes you feel sexy (that makes you feel good about yourself) 6. Self Care (make time for yourself) 7. Tone of voice 8. Experience your sensuality
Receive a compliment (without downplaying it)..receive a smile from ANY man..receive help when offered.. be ok with sitting and "letting" someone do anything no matter what it is. If a man gives you a gift for instance receive and be grateful instead of feeling like you owe something back or if a stranger smiles at you man or woman be warm and open back. Learning to receive can be hard in the beginning when youre so use to "doing". Sit back and let things(anything) flow to you and be warm and inviting when it comes. Hope this helps!
Learn to give to yourself first. Maybe buy yourself flowers or a pretty crystal or something just for pleasure in any budget range. Recieve from yourself to start if you have to. Recieve the sunshine. . . Recieve warmth from a fire. . . Focus on the recieving make a game of listing all you choose to acknowledge and recieved in each day. You are worthy.
For all the women complaining. Stop comparing the BOYS you’ve ALLOWED in your life to the MEN you have yet to meet through your own lack of growth. Same frequencies find each other. Start with: Self awareness. Accountability. Growth.
I'm not a fan of calling men "boys" or women "girls" because they have negative behaviors; I think it is an unproductive oversimplification. Aside from that, you are exactly right. I would say that U.S. culture is very ego-driven, so people want to attain rank and think highly of themselves no matter what. I think that's why people often have a hard time with accountability.
🌿 for almost all of my adult life I was a single parent w/o support. You are the masculine and the feminine, literally! Worked as a nurse for almost five decades... nurses are fixers, doers, as well as nurturers. Have denied self care for most of my life, putting others ahead of myself. Now I am retired, 66yo, and trying to make up for lost and wasted time. My point...DON'T WASTE TIME! Losing weight, getting healthier, and hopefully will be brave enough to possibly start dating. Wish me luck!!
1. Joyful receiving. 2. Feel safe. 3. Moving from your head to ur body. 4. Connection. 5. Wearing cloths and fragrance that make you feel good. 6. Self care. 7. Tone a voice. 8. Experience your sensuality. That's all
Some things that help me feel more beautiful & feminine. 1) having a signature/ memorable scent. Investing in quality perfumes that have strong staying power. Everyone has different preferences for scent, find what works the best for you & use it often. 2) making time for meditation/ listening to binaural beats & disconnecting from the world for a bit. Just sitting with myself, clearing my head, & allowing myself to simply be, helps me feel grounded, at ease, helps me get out of my head & in to my body. So = more feminine. 3) My male friends treat me with a lot of respect & take me out often- without expecting anything in return. Whether it’s a nice place to eat, cool new experience, good conversation- they initiate the plans, or even trips, they set the times, & I simply dress myself up & my bring my energy. This has helped me remain in a flow of receiving, being a good listener, a good friend without the need to over-give. 4) Spending time with my girl friends is a big one. Making time to get together, doesn’t matter what we do, just being in each other’s company, catching up, helps me feel very very feminine. 5) another big one is- being more careful with my words- not only when speaking to others but- the words that I tell myself. The belief that “all men ain’t sh*t, all men are the same, all men cheat” .. no. I do not tell myself that anymore , I have removed that kind of thinking -those are not the men I want to place my focus on or attract. I know that there are good men, devotional hard working men- those are the men that I give my attention to. So a lot of affirmations, unlearning, & redirecting my thoughts has helped me feel more feminine. Hope this helps someone 💐
A major one I forgot to add. As an artist, singer/ songwriter, I am constantly inspired & in the flow of creating. Writing out what I feel & creating beautiful music helps me remain in a very feminine flow. Even for those who are not in the arts, making some time to create & simply have fun can be very helpful when it comes to connecting w feminine energy.
To increase my feminine energy... I had to daily consciously slow down my pace and tone of voice when speaking to men. I communicate the same but in a more slower pace.
1. Joyful Receiving 1:30 2. Feel Safe 4:05 3. Move From Your Head Into Your Body 5:32 4. Connection 6:58 5. Clothes & Fragrance That Makes You Feel Sexy 8:06 6. Self Care 8:53 7. Tone Of Voice 10:33 8. Experience Your Sensuality 12:15
It's just awesome how different energies can attract. 1. Joyful receiving, learn how to receive with a big smile on your face 2.Feel safe. You don't have to fight everytime, guard down 3. Move from your head into your body. Express yourself, dance, connect, express what's happening into you 4.Connection. Empathy, be a good listener, connect to other women 5. Wear clothes and fragances that make you feel sexy. (Even if you don't have anybody to show it ;) ) 6. Self care. Make time for yourself 7. Voice tone. 8. Experience your sensuality
When I was in varsity, I was single for 3 years and within those years everyone around me including my classmates all thought I was in a relationship. I was so happy then and so in touch with my feminine energy. I am naturally a confident person so that played a big role in my appearance. I then graduated and became unemployed which led into a deep depression. I only realized later on that I lost my femininity. The constant anxiety and stress left me in defense mode. I noticed that managing my stress levels and taking time off really helped in getting my feminine energy.
@@dhwanipatel8327 sure,💎 Look up the Bible on your phone, then open a website that has it. Search Proverbs 27 and you should find it. This is what a result of a God loving woman was to her community, family, husband and surroundings. She was proactive and glowing in all she was and all she did.
These were the ladies of yesterday, but we were told to be independent for so long that we lost our femininity. Now We have to relearn to be feminine again. Thanks Matt great video.
Disagree. We lost it because of too many weak "non" men. Example: ran across at least TWO grown men who don't know 1 thing about what the oil light means on their own bike, or how to even operate a TIRE GAUGE. And the oil guy was HOT, but stupid and ignorant were never appealing to me. I won't touch them. You could end up with stupid kids.
We were lied to, we were told men love independent women. Reality: lazy and overly needy men love independent women. A healthy well adjusted masculine man wants to see a woman have a baseline (self supporting, resourceful) of independence. Much more than that will be off-putting. He wants to DO for you. Let him. And you be feminine and take care of him in ways that don't cross the line into smothering mothering. That's neither romantic nor sexy.
I just wanna share that being a joyful receiver can really boost the confidence of my man. My hubby always doing things for me (carrying my bag, massage, getting water) and I always say thank you to him. It made him do more for me and I feel appreciated. Now, instead of giving him order/ commanding him, he initiates to do things for me without asking for it.
I disagree with the other commenter that you got lucky. I don't consider that luck. I think your behavior attracted that type of behavior from a man. Very little in this life is coincidence. There's an action and a reaction in all things in nature.
I disagree Rosette. The truth is a person who feels appreciated does more than is expected. From experience I can tell you that being more grateful for every little thing pays off for both parties. And I don't just mean men with whom you're in an intimate relationship. Give it a try :)
So true! I see this in my now 12 year old son as he’s getting older. A few years ago, I thanked him for cleaning off the bathroom counter and the next I knew he was cleaning the entire bathroom. He used an entire bottle of Lysol and socked the rugs a tub of water thinking that’s how you clean them. I thanked him anyway and told him how much I appreciate him and he had his chest stuck out. You can see his sense of masculinity.
The most heighten feminine energy I have experienced in myself, has been when I have been in creative mode. Writing poetry, painting, playing music... Like an act of love making sort of... And the beautiful thing is that you become more of your true self, while at the same time you “forget” yourself in the process, in a liberating way - you transcend your ego... it is a sense of devotion and sensuality.
I love this list but also I would add - being an honest, kind and loyal friend to others, not being competitive & catty towards other women but helping them succeed, having an attitude of gratitude and a good sense of humor... not taking myself too seriously, being confident but not thinking I was “all that” (humility is a virtue) - my husband said he saw these things in me, he saw I had class and a good heart. He saw I was as he calls it “imperfectly perfect” and “willing to let him be imperfect too” The list you gave is outstanding but also what is in the heart - that is KEY. Looks fade but the heart can grow more beautiful with age :) Married at age 40 & been married 14 years! 🤗
I attract more men, get more complements from men and women when I wear bright vibrant colors. I also am more attractive when I smile and seem affable.
You can be strong but gentle at the same time. Feminist movement biggest lie is telling women they have to be perpetually angry, to hate men and behave like men.
That's because you have a beautiful skin tone and a cheerful personality, they match with vibrant colors. Do you remember that light blue dress Lupita Nyong'o wore at Oscar's? It was absolutely flattering, a heaven sight.
the aspects of feminine and masculine energy and how they interact with one another are so interesting, and they are absolutely real things. As a victim of childhood abuse, I’ve been living in masculine energy for the majority of my life (though I am female) as a way to protect myself, and naturally relationships and intimacy have been very difficult for me as a result. However, I have a male friend that I met almost two years ago, and I’m sure i love him. whenever I’m around him I feel myself really sinking deeply into my feminine energy, completely naturally! I feel so calm and safe when he’s around, I notice my voice changes, the way I move about changes, I find it easier to receive.... it’s quite amazing really 😇
I always wanted a manly man, but have attracted feminine men and this video explains why. I put out too much masculine energy. Guess if you want to attract a masculine man you need to be more feminine. Really hard to do as a tomboy.
Pretty sure the women with masculine energy get more shit done! Look at all the female CEOS AND senators: masculine energy. Pretty sure most of them are still married and can catch a dick anytime they want. You can have masculine energy and still look fire in a pencil skirt. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not and deprive the world of your glory just to land one particular sort of man.
@@sarahtaft1666 masculine energy in the workplace doesnt translate to masculine energy outside of it. Im going into finance so some masculine traits are necessary and very helpful to me, but i still 100% want to work on my femininity in dating and social encounters. Ive always enjoyed the delicate beauty of "ladylike culture and etiquette", and something you dont realize is that stuff, a good balance of it, makes women look incredibly professional on the workplace as well. Soft skills are just as necessary as hard skills in business and politics and such. And you act like if theyre not one way they can never be one way, like people cant change. Thats very rigid, and very dangerous to push to people.
Are there any tomboys who like less masculine men? I'm not exactly feminine--I love guns, gaming, horror movies, and the like, and I've thought of taking up hunting--but I'm no John Wayne.My feminine traits are that I'm artistic and not very athletic. And I absolutely LOVE tough, sporty women who aren't very feminine. So are men like me--who are somewhere in the middle and prefer masculine tomboys--totally screwed?
As a mother, I tend to feel guilty at the idea of spending money on myself, especially on things consider luxury. Most moms are living in instinct to always give to your children before yourself. But I learned that I cannot be my best self and function at my highest level if I’m always depleted. Even just a little self care and alone time, girl time has a big effect. For me as an artist, a little time in my art studio is a great dose of food for the soul. Great advice! Thanks!
Guys should take care of themselves too. It's great when their hair looks nice, skin looks good, clothes are neat, nails are trimmed, etc. Just a tip for guys out there. U want women to look nice, so do we.
Amen!!! Men should get massages too, manicures, pedicures, new fragrances, haircuts, keep up with wellness checks, exercise and the list goes on. He should wear nice under garments too.
Gardening and walks. Makes me feel close to mother nature. Hearing birds, looking at beautiful colours, feeling the wind and the ground under my feet.. Love it💙
Slowing down makes me feel more feminine. From the way I talk, walk or even rub my legs or arms when talking to my guy makes me feel very feminine and I loveee it. I wish I never have to get out of this space, it’s so light, easy and soothing. Too bad can’t stay in it all the time since I run a company. But love to be in my feminine energy. It has changed my life and I pray that every woman can experience this more 🥰
@@dnk1870 I think she meant slowing down her lifestyle and rubbing her legs as in the smoothness/softness you feel after you shave or just a sort of self comforting sensation.
Vin and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Masculinity is not the devil like people make it out to be nowadays 🙄 masculinity is beautiful. You’re still a woman so you still have femininity in you as well. Be proud of who you are!
Lucia Caro wtf are you talking about?? Not everything “depends on the man.” Men aren’t the standard and don’t set the standard!! Also, she’s probably single, so now your comment makes zero sense. Who, which men, are you going to blame for SINGLE women feeling more masculine than feminine? 🤔🧐😂🤣
I think another feminine quality is sentimentality. Men like when they feel like they matter to you. Its part of receiving him and showing him he is welcome in your heart. Be sentimental, open, honest and vulnerable with them. But not clingy, because they wreaks of insecurity and feeling unsafe. But instead, confident and trusting. If you trust him with your heart, he will not want to disapoint you.
Be kind to everyone, and yourself. Thats the most feminine thing ever. When you are kind to yourself you stat to shine✨❤️ and by being kind to everyone else you are sharing that shine😘
1. I used to always chase the man with texts but now I like to lean back a little and wait for them to come to me. 2. I communicate in a different way now. Rather than sulking or walking away I confront them head on with a direct feeling question. I am upset as this made me feel x. It puts you into your feeling zone and men can understand exactly what you need 3. I go to SPAs or have baths whenever I can 4. I use candles and diffusers around the house 5. I have cute pet names for my partner and a silly voice I use to feel cute 6. My partner likes it if I give him feminine compliments, like telling him hes strong :) 7. Number 1 thing is to not accept any man who treats you badly or not like a queen. If you are strong but feminine you can find that. My new partner calls me the princess and I love that. I wish I'd followed these things earlier in life as before I only found feminine men or men who didn't want commitment
I love getting dressed up for a date, hair, makeup, nails, perfume, getting all beautified!!! And that helps with my mental and physical feminine energy, knowing & looking all dolled up, even though I might not feel pretty. It just makes me feel good inside when I get dressed up once in a while for dates.
That's me. I was really depressed but now that I'm dressing up more I feel a bit better about myself. I realised that when I was the most depressed I wore black and hoodies. I'm not even looking for a man (because I'm 16) but I love being feminine.
Boss Baby Fuyuhiko I’m depressed too, but I don’t wear black, I just mainly sleep. I can sleep all day and possibly all night if I wanted to. But I have a relationship now so I dress up occasionally
I was caregiver to my husband for 6 years…he passed away a few months ago, I’m having to relearn how to be feminine & self care & appreciating fixing myself up-makeup, new hairdo, fragrance, clothes-/not for others’ benefit but because it makes me feel good.
There is no better way. Dance can be so beautiful and feminine. I love how I used to feel when dancing with a man. There is a chemistry that takes over so beautiful. No wonder so many on strictly come dancing have affairs.
I was visiting a friend in the north of England and we went to a locally advertised dance. A man asked me to dance, and just as we faced each other, he (along with the other couples) turned us around and he said it was "such n such" dance (sorry, don't remember!) where the man dances "backwards" and the woman leads - same hand positions just she's leading. It was fun! Never heard of it before, but apparently goes way back. At least in England.
These kinds of videos are life changing for me. I'm 20 years old and a product of feminized society. I grew up being taught that if you didn't like a woman with masculine energy then you were and insecure misogynist. I grew up being taught that gender roles were oppressive and that men should suppress their desires and urges for taking the lead, being lethal, and wanting a relationship a feminine homemaker. I'm now just realizing that these were normal all along and that there were still people who believed men should be men and women should be women. It's clear to see how damaging skewing gender roles and energy is for young people in society. Now I'm going to spend the rest of my days making myself into a real man and possibly preparing myself for a real woman.
Good plan. Things definitely became skewed I talked to my 35 year old son about masculine and feminine roles and he said “what - I always thought it was about rights , I’ve never heard the word roles used”. Once I explained it a light went on in him and he grasped it. He said wow, yes that makes sense.
Extra masculine men are overrated. They are usually agressive and insecure. As we get older we realise that we want and deserve a sweet and caring man who has empathy ( usually considered more feminine traits). You will be equals and no need to overthink or act a certain way.
I’m not a lesbian but I have a masculine energy. I’m learning a lot about why my relationships don’t work. So you can actually apply from this energy perspective.
Being sensitive and emotionally delicate/ intelligent helps me feel more feminine as well as sharing my romantic fantasies.. expressing poetry from my heart .. decorating myself like a piece of delicate art.
My perception of giving/ receiving is completely reframed now! I have felt so guilty receiving, and have instead been a giver.. possibly an over-giver my entire life. If you think about the symbolism of the masculine and feminine mechanics, it makes perfect sense that the energy of giving would flow more harmoniously from the masculine. Thank you for you for this breakthrough 🙏❤.
You know what I love about you. I saw one of your videos like 10 years ago before you got all these subscribers and it helped me a lot. You are so genuine, you walk the walk, and plus I think you are one of the dating coaches that is actually “ married”, and it speaks volume.
As a relationship coach myself everything you're saying is on par with my own! Theres so many coaches teaching this beautiful truth about feminine and masculine energy, its honestly the hidden truth and im so thankful. Well done!
Picking flowers & arranging them in a vase, being surrounded my fresh flowers in my home makes me feel like a goddess. Lighting a scented candle and taking a long hot shower & applying natural skin care products from head to toe. Nurturing my self thru healthy cooking and eating, sleeping in a fluffy cozy bed, being kind & sweet to others, smiling, dancing / moving to music, nurturing others. Quality time with my girl friends. Getting a haircut. Painting beautiful images & finding inspiration.
@Debbie Smith who says she doesn't have a job? If she was a home maker, why is her doing all the things a paid professional do like caretaking, organizing, cooking, cleaning suddenly become less valuable when she doesn't get paid for it?? That's so shallow. I could be hurtful back to you and ask why you don't get a job so you can stop spreading your bitterness online. You can do better. Why can't she be grateful for the cash he provides? Maybe it means she doesn't have to work an extra shift or she can afford a new skills class she was looking at taking.
@Debbie Smith okay so with your partner, split the housework then. You go to work. Who is stopping you? Also pretty unfair to comment on her lifestyle when you know nothing about her besides probably a playful comment
@Debbie Smith Actually if she and her husband are in agreement that he works outside the home and she does home chores, it is just as right as when a couple agrees to both have jobs and share home chores, nothing makes one better than the other, as long as it is a mutual decision.
@Debbie Smith Please don't manipulate or twist her words, read what she said, at no point does she says he gives her money after she asks for it, she simply said she is always grateful after receiving cash from her husband, You don't know how they arrived at that system. What is wrong with being grateful? do you think that if you deserve or are entitled to something that you should not show gratitude for it? You have mindset that seem to suggest that if her husband has a job and she takes care of domestic responsibilities that they are not equal partners, I have seen families where the woman has a job and the husband takes care of domestic responsibilities do you think that they are not equal in this case also? Families decide on how to share domestic and employments responsibilities sometimes based on who earns more and it makes economic sense for the one who earns more to work, and they may decide on one person working and one taking care of domestic responsibilities because they don't want to give the responsibility of taking care of their kids to someone else. It is about choices, none is superior to the other. You are being judgemental based an a phrase that she is always grateful after receiving cash from her husband, from that statement you have come to the conclusion that she doesn't have a job and is therefore part of some religious cult that believes women are subservient, in essence you have become a conspiracy theorist without factual information. That is being very small minded, families and decisions they make to suit their circumstances are much more nuanced that.
Absolutely! My fiancé reacted to my laughter first. He heard me laugh before he even laid eyes on me. Fortunately for me he also liked what he saw! We have been going strong for close to six years now. Getting married soon! And we still laugh a lot. We just happen to both share a wicked sense of humor.
Ways I’m more feminine. 1- I feel free and try to stay in the moment and enjoy what’s happening on the date. Not ruminate over the past or fear the future. After all, it’s just a date to see if I want to go on another date. 2- I listen to understand instead of to reply. Then I see if he does that too. 3- I notice if I’m comfortable. I know myself well and like who I am. My determination about whether I have a next date will be evaluated After the date is done, not while it’s happening. This keeps me in the present during the date. 4- I keep reminding myself that it’s only a date. Getting to know someone takes time and I’ve got lots of that. 5- I also remind myself that I’ll know the guy when I feel balance with him around. That takes time to. I’ve discovered that dating is like house hunting. When I find the right house, all is well in my universe. Guys do that too. They don’t want to make over anyone. Nor do they want someone who’s not who they really are. So I’m true to who I am and trust that when the time comes, the right match will appear. In the meantime, I just enjoy my dates and appreciate going out.
Thanks for the tips. You're right, just be calm and enjoy the process. People in panic mode (in dating or in other aspects) tend to make bad decisions. Thanks :)
Maybe I am too independant....and I need someone that is a challenge to me. Especially mentally, I want someone with brains or he will not facinate me at all. I do not have time for silly stupid guys although I love humor and adventure. I realized that I have to time down my voice ....I am too loud, to masculine in that way I guess.
If you love yourself men and women will be attracted to you. When you truly smile, when you are calm and fine with yourselve. There are no tricks. It is just my opinion!
If you look good, you will feel good! Keep up the physical appearance (men and women) and you'll feel good about yourself. Don't neglect your emotional well-being. A good workout does miracles for your mind and your soul.
1. Joyful receiving 2. Feel safe. 3. Move from your head to your body. 4. Connection. 5. Wear clothes and fragrance that make you feel good. 6. Self care. 7. Tone of voice. 8. Experience your sensuality.
I love smelling, feeling and looking good. I love dressing up..I care for myself , workout almost everyday. I am vegan, green, green all the way. I have a smooth, warm, caring voice, I am told, I love my voice, I am a very sensual woman... Thank you Mathew Boggs.
1. Joyful Receiving - Learn how to receive better. 2. Feel Safe - Trust yourself to choose the right guy and to speak up when you know something is off. To rock the boat when you know the relationship is not going in the direction you want. 3. Move From Your Head To Your Body - Feminine energy is body feeling energy, circular energy. Belly dancing is one good way to ignite your feminine energy. 4. Connection - Connect with other women, have girl time, do activities with other women. 5. Wear Clothes & Fragrances That Make You Feel Sexy - Feeling good about yourself, wear clothes that highlight your feminine curves. Feeling good about yourself helps you relax and radiate that feminine presence you have. 6. Self Care - Willingness to take care of yourself, make time to prioritise yourself and put yourself first. 7. Tone Of Voice 8. Experience Your Sensuality - In touch with your senses in your body. When you're enjoying your meal, savour every bite. When you're wearing your clothes, experience the clothes on your body.
I loved this video , reminded me to come back to my femininity again as now days it's all about been independance woman and strong. While naturally I'm feminine . So thank you for reminding me matt ! Beautiful video Also more feminine things to add - playful eye glance from the corner , a slight smile , being playful , joyful , loving , nurturing, but also respecting yourself when something doesn't come to your standards.
I come from generations of single moms. Learning to be feminine is so so so hard. It feels fake, it feels unnatural, it feels vulnerable, it’s so uncomfortable. I want marriage and I DO want a providing man and masculine/feminine dynamics in a relationship but it’s taking so much hard work to be less aggressive/masculine. I also grew up overweight which added MORE defensiveness and masculine energy. It’s very hard but it works. I already see men becoming more receptive to me with VERY little change. It’s hard but it’s worth it.
If the ‘man’ gets attracted to me only when I wear sexy clothes, then the ‘man’ should get himself into a relationship with sexy clothes, not the person. NOT ME. NOT THE PERSON HERSELF.
I'm feminine AF. Love prancing around in my skirt, heels, and long hair while driving home the point that I have more testosterone than some men around me. Just sayin'
Feminine outside, masculine inside. Like a Shallon Lester. But I do agree it's hard to practice femininity inside when men won't step up to the plate. It really is such a sensitive quality that needs to be tended to and protected otherwise the warmth and radiance gets crushed.
@@paigec5017being feminine is something you're born with, it naturally just comes out of you to the day you die. Being feminine is subconsciously done. It is how you breathe, blink, move your lips, how you hold thing in your hands, how you sit, walk, turn, and how you dress, DAMN even how you sleep, it doesn't stop there "COZ NOBODY'S WATCHING", can you imagine trying to remember doing each thing every day. Most feminine ladies, Even on their last day on earth STILL looks gorgeous and peaceful like sleeping BEAUTY. The only way to be feminine. If you're not born with it. Is to be taught from a very young age!
Just Be Authentic and you will attract your counterpart! Then the trick is to maintain the attraction through the marriage. Marriage is WTF y’all! Worth The Fight!✌🏼❤️☕️🙏🏼
The awkward part, is when your doing all these feminine things for yourself and the men feel the need to intrude. Good second point about trusting yourself, knowing that I can trust myself to not put myself in a position of abuse, changes my perspective. Thanks
When I loved myself, before I lost my self-esteem, I used to wake up and exercise for at least 30 minutes every day. Then I would take a shower and do my hair. Had a healthy breakfast and went about my day. But most importantly, I enjoyed a Bubble bath every night before I went to bed, and occasionally got a manicure and pedicure at the nail salon. I also scheduled a facial once a month with a professional. I always looked and felt great and it was easy to attract the opposite sex. But also made time to enjoy a cup of tea or coffee with friends.
Always waking up with the positive mindset before going for work. Brief workouts to lift up the working mood then take a bath and dress nicely and look good stating from top to toes without wearing excess make up. It's very important to look beautiful to make my day beautiful so ladies let us love ourselves first before you attract love.take care
As interesting and off topic it may come off as although I do quite a lot of routines that have been mentioned including belly-dance 😉, for me the biggest game changer is praying and putting my man and the relationship into God's hands. I can seriously feel the difference in his behaviour when I do it or skip that one. It might have to do with feeling safe, feeling into my daughterly being or my purpose in life, being in a place to receive or making him fight for me, which of course makes me feel all the more feminine.
Thank you Mat for including my comment 😊 I would like to add, for those women who are struggling with children/money. These manicures/pedicures/face mask/bubble baths can all be done at home cheaply, if you just set some time aside for yourself once the kids are asleep. Any housework or chores can be left until later (they’ll still be there lol) It’s so important to give yourself the gift of time when you need it. x
Agreed!! Just watching a TH-cam tutorial on “how to” can wrk wonders. The issue I think is, many women who have the mother/ caregiver role feel bad about focusing on themselves for too long and their minds just can’t unplug from the call of duty to learn and actually do things solely for themselves.
Great tip... I agree, when my kids were little, I learned how to wax my bikini area myself (saved $80), do my own eyebrows (saved $20), my own gel nails (invested on the light and nail polish, saved tons of money), etc. Now that my kids are grown I can finally afford the spas and salons!!! :)
Matt, I laughed so hard at 3:42 where you inserted the guy walking and smiling. 😂😂You really made your point with that image. I like the idea of the gift of allowing someone to give. I asked my friend to let me treat her for lunch since she always drives and I didn't get anything for her birthday because we were so busy. She was like no, no. I was like please let me do this because I didn't get you anything for your birthday. When she said ok, I felt sooo happy. And I could tell she felt I was happy. I'm a girl, but I feel like I was smiling like that dude walking down the street. 😂😂
2. Feeling safe. Big one for me. My bf is soo honest and truthful that he made me feel safe so I could open myself to enjoy the experience of our relationship. I do take care of myself and the look on his face when he sees me, makes it all worth while. Wearing sexy lingerie makes me feel feminine.
I sneeze. If a man is looking my way and has no way of initiating a conversation I'll sneeze, if he's looking your way and has an interest if you sneeze he will say "Bless you" and Bam! You got a date for Saturday night! Give it a try ladies!
This is kinda cute, but there are a few things to consider. Some men are simply polite and will say bless you because that is their character. There is always a way to initiate conversation. "Hello, how are you" works great both ways.
is hard for me because I was raised mostly by my dad, when I was married I took on the role of the man of the house because he didn't take his role, I ended being like a single mom, one of the reasons I divorced. Now I am trying to be more feminine, is hard really hard but I embrace some of these. Thank you for this video I will help me
I noticed that as I invest more time into my fitness such as running, hiking, mountain climbing , I feel the best about myself and also noticed that more men have been attracted to me. Being outdoors increased my feminine energy because I feel the fittest.
I do this affirmation - I am safe, I am okay, I am loved, I love and honor myself. I love this: "1. trust yourself to choose the right guy, 2. trust yourself to speak up when you know something is off to rock the boat when you know the relationship isn't going in the direction that you want". Speak up in a kind, considerate yet firm manner to communicate boundaries. We respect ourself and we want to be respected. If it doesn't work out, so be it, smile and move on.
Nr 1 is so true! I have experienced it many times that when men want to do things for you and you let them, it’s the biggest joy and reward for them. Girls time & dancing is also one of my favorite things to do to raise my feminine energy :) have a great day!
I noticed that the other day the man i am dating asked me if he wanted to carry the bags for me beacuse he saw i was in difficulty...and i said oh no don't mind..but after that i told to myself "you should have let him do It" . Did i do It wrong ?
I pray and speak love over myself. I read positive statements that describe me or where I want to be, and choose to believe it. And I find one thing about key appearance that I like.
This is one thing I noticed even changed my personality ; When using gestures such as the open palm, I keep my fingers closed as opposed to them being spaced apart. I realized that my ability to express myself to men have become more receptive. I think it's because the open fingers look and appear more masculine. It looks aggressive. I also, trying to keep my gestures in a mental box frame. For ex. I try to keep gestures the frame of my shoulders. Not cause gestures to go out of this frame. It shows I am in control of my words and more composed. This has truly changed my personality ! I AM more composed. And I AM more accepting of myself to be softer. It's so powerful.
As a tomboy trying to grow up to a woman I found my femininity becoming a mother. I love being a mom and I suddenly felt calm, happy and appreciated as a woman. It also made me appreciate male qualities in a new way. I grow up without a father but step by step I realize what protection, strength and a fathers love can do for a family. 😍 For me, motherhood is a big thing of being a woman. Maybe I transfered from boyish to a more feminine, soft woman when all those pregnant hormones hit me.
Girl I’m happy for you! I also grew up with no father and it took away so much from me, I want to be feminine but the only thing I’m worried about is whether it will clash with how confident I appear
That's exactly what happened motherhood released the feminine in you. And I'm sure you're a wonderful mother, because you're aware it's changed you for the better☘️
I love this topic so much, Matt! Need to do some of the items more and more.. 8 Feminine Qualities Men Love 1. Joyful receiving - Learn how to receive better. 2. Feel safe - trust yourself to choose the right guy and trust yourself to speak up when you know something is off. 3. Move from your head to your body - belly dancing ^_^ 4. Connection - connecting to other women 5. Wear clothes and fragrance that make you feel sexy. 6. Self Care - spa day, ME day indeed. 7. Tone of Voice - sweet, soft and sensual tone 8. Experience your sensuality - experience and embrace senses
Feeling good about yourself is also a confidence booster. Loving oneself is giving yourself a priority because if you have a content,happy heart you can also share the happy disposition in life .
Was and still am a tomboy, who loves guns, being outdoors, and getting my hands dirty(farming/gardening). As I'm getting older I've begun seeing where I can show feminine energy through clothing, scents, colors, self care, hairstyles, all without giving up my hobbies or love of flannel shirts 😁 There's this one guy who I really like that is an outdoor enthusiast, hunter, loves dogs & guns, and whenever we talk all I can think about are all the adventures he has gone on and how amazing it would be if I could go with him; along with just being there everyday for him. I have several letter drafts telling him how much he means to me, but I lack the courage to send them to him 😔 he has made several wonderful comments about me, a part of me wants to start dating him, but I'm still struggling with mental health issues and don't know how to ask him to be a part of my life when I come with baggage
Be vulnerable yet not victim. You are strong and adventure . Find a way to be partners in crime so he sees you as a strong woman that watch his back , is loyal yet create the home environment for him
We all have baggage. I have the same issue, always finding ways I am unworthy as a reason to not date. And time marches on. I would, that if someone of whatever age did not have baggage, they might have a boring past or are lying about it.
I think I’ve struggled with the “joyful receiving”. After having to basically be the man in my 30 year marriage, it has often been hard to practice that when dating. I thought that before, but seeing this has made me think my intuition was right. It’s hard to accept...from anyone, women included.
This is really interesting for me. My relationship has been been going through a rough patch lately and one thing that came up was that my partner wants to buy my things. And I've always denied them. I hadn't realised how much this affected him until now. And i realised that i have been taking away part of being a man. Not being able to provide me with nice things. I'm a very independant person and get joy out of being strong and buying something for myself on the very rare occasion. I've recently learned sometimes I have to stand down and allow my partner to have that joy in buying me something. And now this video has confirmed this and many other things that have been coming up in my lift lately! So, thank you for this video!
I have an issue with the “self love” trend. The more we love ourselves, the less we love others. It’s very easy to default into selfishness in this mind frame. Don’t ignore needs and desires when they’re reasonable, but I think we need to dump the self love thinking. It sounds good on the outside but think about what it really means and what you have to do to achieve it. Just a thought.
It is impossible to know how to love someone if you loath yourself. That is different than always thinking of yourself and being selfish. One can not share what one does not possess.
I do agree with this sentiment somewhat. I have actually gone through it myself... I was such a people pleaser that when I realised what I was doing I stopped and started 'self-love' and it actually turned into selfishness and I took more than I gave. It didn't feel good either, I really do like giving and loving on others, I just need to have boundaries and be mindful of a healthy balance and whom and what im giving to
The best advice I can give is, pray to God for the right friends. Having at least 1-2 is all you need. The rest are seasonal and one has to be comfortable with knowing they won't last beyond the season.
We all have masculine and feminine qualities. I nurture children with my feminity and protect them with masculine energy! I appreciate your honesty and courage. Angels are gender-neutral, androgynous Beings of Light. Ignore the bigots and haters.
I would add smiling to that list 😁 I come from Poland (and still live here) and here smiling to people you don't know is extremely rarely. I've been practicing smiling to passersby (especially to men) for quite a long and I have the experience that it opens up man's heart. With smiling to you and all the readers 😁🤗
Hi Monika, I agree and I'm a natural smiley type of person. The problem with American guys is that if you are the least bit kind to them and give them one innocent smile..they think you want them. But you were just being polite. Are Polish men the same I wonder? Smiles to you😌🤗🙂
Im a feminine woman and i ❤ recieving gifts and acts of kindness from men. It makes me feel so good and flattered. I always thank them, blush, smile and tell them how appreciative i am of showing me what real man is like😍😍😍 it seems to inspire them to be more generous and kind in the future. Its the best
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i work on me
I’ve been married 55 years. When young women ask me what to look for in a man, I say “maturity” first. It’s amazing how rare that is.
Yes. This is why I enjoy older men. No highschool boy drama
I agree
@Saad Bin Masud why are you so annoying?
@Saad Bin Masud I cook, clean and take care of my man by listening to him when he is not in a good space......this does not make me his servant. And when he cares for me financially it does not make him my servant.......he enjoys our relationship because its reciprocal
It’s a rare trait and has zero to do with age.
I have a feminine day. Its called feminine friday. I do all things selfcare, exfoliate, mask, watch videos about how to be lady like. I drink detox teas, I just rest and breathe and appreciate being a woman. I also pray to God, cause I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Love that!
I hit unlike by accident and can’t undo it. Definitely like this :-)
Love this - I need to try!
THIS!!!
Wowwww🤪😍😍😍
I wear pretty lingerie under my clothes whether I have a man in my life or not, because it makes ME feel more feminine and special which ignites my feminine energy all the time.
Me too!!! Why? Because it is for me. It helps me to feel beautiful and sexy and whether or not I have a man in my life I deserve to feel that way.
That's beautiful
This is so true, makes you feel like a princess. 👸
Me too
@@sage9836 I too use to take belly dancing lessons in my younger days, and I enjoyed feeling the feminine, sexy sensual movement in my body..not to mention the physical strength and toning it gave me. I didn’t have a very sexual connection to my now late husband, but I became more in tune with my sexuality as I aged and matured. I absolutely Love my now my beautiful amorous nature. And now enjoy tasteful porn together WITH my present beloved, and enjoy the sexual adventures with him. Men are sexual creatures by nature, but then again so are Women when they discover and embrace the sensuous essence of themselves. I pray you will find yours as well. It is truly a gift from God to embrace that our true feminine spirit. Have you ever had your man take you into the next Universe? Have some wine with your hubby by candlelight and practice some of those delicious moments on your body...then worship his. Love ALL of him. The key is enjoying one another in every way. So if you wear lingerie for him (as well as yourself), not to worry, it won’t be on long. He deserves to be loved completely...as do you.
One thing that makes me feel feminine that wasn't listed here is having a tidy home. When my home is clean and organized, it makes feel more feminine. It also makes my home more inviting.
Good one!
Exactly! A lovely nest!
interesting 😊😃😇
Me too! I'm a very organized person by nature. A tidy, clean house calms me down. It shouldn't be too tidy though. Keep it cosy and inviting!
That is the reason why women were house wives from the beginning.
When I realized God was the ultimate Giver, and I was a joyful, grateful, adoring receiver...well, a great godly husband soon followed.
That’s awesome!! I’m so happy for you. I want to wait to be intimate until marriage so it’s inspiring to see godly couples.
@@freshrosepetal I wish I would've waited. Its more special
💖🙏💝
So cool
Amen I know that’s right
"Just say thank you" I was told this by a guy who complimented me and I went on to explain the problems with my outfit....and he said "Just say thank you" Lesson learned.
It's nice of him to say that. Most of us, women, tend to automatically do just like you did. Whether we don't familiar with receiving compliment or say it out of shy, it's really good to get a gentle reminder like this. We deserve those compliments.
For myself, being feminine means slowing down. Women don't seem feminine when they are rushing.. when I'm walking, I take my time, every step is sensual. As a reminder to slow down, I pretend I'm carrying a cup full of coffee. To keep it from spilling, I must move slowly. I tell you, men have glanced my way. As if wondering "who is she?". Thanks for reading
Wonderful tip; the pretend cup of coffee
yea im definitely NOT gonna do it. Girl i got things to do here, walking in that pace is only going to result in me walking down the street without a job at the end of the day
I love your ‘thanks for reading’ !!
1. Joyful Receiving
2. Feel Safe
3. Move from your head into your body
4. Connection
5. Wear clothes and fragrances that makes you feel sexy (that makes you feel good about yourself)
6. Self Care (make time for yourself)
7. Tone of voice
8. Experience your sensuality
I will definitely try feminine Friday!
Thank you
Thank you
Love people like u ...ty!
It’s hard to learn to receive when no one is giving anything to you.
Build it and they will come
My thought exactly.
Receive a compliment (without downplaying it)..receive a smile from ANY man..receive help when offered.. be ok with sitting and "letting" someone do anything no matter what it is. If a man gives you a gift for instance receive and be grateful instead of feeling like you owe something back or if a stranger smiles at you man or woman be warm and open back. Learning to receive can be hard in the beginning when youre so use to "doing". Sit back and let things(anything) flow to you and be warm and inviting when it comes. Hope this helps!
Learn to give to yourself first. Maybe buy yourself flowers or a pretty crystal or something just for pleasure in any budget range. Recieve from yourself to start if you have to. Recieve the sunshine. . . Recieve warmth from a fire. . . Focus on the recieving make a game of listing all you choose to acknowledge and recieved in each day. You are worthy.
Go do your own thing. Go get serious education and skills. Even if they NEVER show up, at least YOU'LL be driving a nice car and such.
Saying you don’t have the time for yourself it’s like saying you are too busy driving to stop for gas.
That is BRILLIANT Kay!!! Thank you! It’s exactly what I needed to hear!
Love this im learning today
Kay Kay 🤯🤯🤯🤯. I clicked on this by accident and started watching. Your comment is just what I needed to hear. Never heard it but that way
Done that lol
laura s 😂 me2
For all the women complaining. Stop comparing the BOYS you’ve ALLOWED in your life to the MEN you have yet to meet through your own lack of growth. Same frequencies find each other. Start with: Self awareness. Accountability. Growth.
I love this comment. A lot of women fail to see fault in themselves
Damn this hit hard
I'm not a fan of calling men "boys" or women "girls" because they have negative behaviors; I think it is an unproductive oversimplification. Aside from that, you are exactly right. I would say that U.S. culture is very ego-driven, so people want to attain rank and think highly of themselves no matter what. I think that's why people often have a hard time with accountability.
@Sara Bunting Why are 95% of these men still in your life?
Amen sista
🌿 for almost all of my adult life I was a single parent w/o support. You are the masculine and the feminine, literally! Worked as a nurse for almost five decades... nurses are fixers, doers, as well as nurturers. Have denied self care for most of my life, putting others ahead of myself. Now I am retired, 66yo, and trying to make up for lost and wasted time. My point...DON'T WASTE TIME! Losing weight, getting healthier, and hopefully will be brave enough to possibly start dating. Wish me luck!!
Good luck from fellow nurse
All the best
Nurses are angels and I’m sure that it has not gone unappreciated by the people that you have cared for.✨
May God bless you and you achieve your desired goals!
I did it at 61. You can too!
1. Joyful receiving.
2. Feel safe.
3. Moving from your head to ur body.
4. Connection.
5. Wearing cloths and fragrance that make you feel good.
6. Self care.
7. Tone a voice.
8. Experience your sensuality.
That's all
Thank you
Thank you for the list!
Sherry Darling awe awesome I am so grateful for this
I was scrolling to find this...thanks a million 😁
Thank you.
Some things that help me feel more beautiful & feminine.
1) having a signature/ memorable scent. Investing in quality perfumes that have strong staying power. Everyone has different preferences for scent, find what works the best for you & use it often.
2) making time for meditation/ listening to binaural beats & disconnecting from the world for a bit. Just sitting with myself, clearing my head, & allowing myself to simply be, helps me feel grounded, at ease, helps me get out of my head & in to my body. So = more feminine.
3) My male friends treat me with a lot of respect & take me out often- without expecting anything in return. Whether it’s a nice place to eat, cool new experience, good conversation- they initiate the plans, or even trips, they set the times, & I simply dress myself up & my bring my energy. This has helped me remain in a flow of receiving, being a good listener, a good friend without the need to over-give.
4) Spending time with my girl friends is a big one. Making time to get together, doesn’t matter what we do, just being in each other’s company, catching up, helps me feel very very feminine.
5) another big one is- being more careful with my words- not only when speaking to others but- the words that I tell myself. The belief that “all men ain’t sh*t, all men are the same, all men cheat” .. no. I do not tell myself that anymore , I have removed that kind of thinking -those are not the men I want to place my focus on or attract. I know that there are good men, devotional hard working men- those are the men that I give my attention to. So a lot of affirmations, unlearning, & redirecting my thoughts has helped me feel more feminine.
Hope this helps someone 💐
A major one I forgot to add. As an artist, singer/ songwriter, I am constantly inspired & in the flow of creating. Writing out what I feel & creating beautiful music helps me remain in a very feminine flow. Even for those who are not in the arts, making some time to create & simply have fun can be very helpful when it comes to connecting w feminine energy.
Beautiful
SAME! I'm learning ALL this as well! You articulated that well
To increase my feminine energy... I had to daily consciously slow down my pace and tone of voice when speaking to men. I communicate the same but in a more slower pace.
1. Joyful Receiving 1:30
2. Feel Safe 4:05
3. Move From Your Head Into Your Body 5:32
4. Connection 6:58
5. Clothes & Fragrance That Makes You Feel Sexy 8:06
6. Self Care 8:53
7. Tone Of Voice 10:33
8. Experience Your Sensuality 12:15
you are a saver, thanks so much
Thanks, I don't need to watch the video .
Thank you.
It's just awesome how different energies can attract.
1. Joyful receiving, learn how to receive with a big smile on your face
2.Feel safe. You don't have to fight everytime, guard down
3. Move from your head into your body. Express yourself, dance, connect, express what's happening into you
4.Connection. Empathy, be a good listener, connect to other women
5. Wear clothes and fragances that make you feel sexy. (Even if you don't have anybody to show it ;) )
6. Self care. Make time for yourself
7. Voice tone.
8. Experience your sensuality
100%✓
Thank you, excellent post
You're awesome girl! Thanks!!
When I was in varsity, I was single for 3 years and within those years everyone around me including my classmates all thought I was in a relationship. I was so happy then and so in touch with my feminine energy. I am naturally a confident person so that played a big role in my appearance. I then graduated and became unemployed which led into a deep depression. I only realized later on that I lost my femininity. The constant anxiety and stress left me in defense mode. I noticed that managing my stress levels and taking time off really helped in getting my feminine energy.
Oh my god, it is true, as a transwoman, I have woman soul...and I understood that kimd of situation
Greatest amplified feminine energy:
Being a Proverbs 31 woman ♀.
Even the Word of God says she's more precious than rubies 😍
Amen!!!!! 👐👐👐
Very true💅
@@dhwanipatel8327 sure,💎 Look up the Bible on your phone, then open a website that has it. Search Proverbs 27 and you should find it. This is what a result of a God loving woman was to her community, family, husband and surroundings. She was proactive and glowing in all she was and all she did.
Thank you! That's beautiful.
@@dhwanipatel8327 google and read it. It’s very powerful!
I am naturally a very giggly person and i have found sincerely laughing at a guy’s joke goes a long way
These were the ladies of yesterday, but we were told to be independent for so long that we lost our femininity. Now We have to relearn to be feminine again. Thanks Matt great video.
Disagree. We lost it because of too many weak "non" men. Example: ran across at least TWO grown men who don't know 1 thing about what the oil light means on their own bike, or how to even operate a TIRE GAUGE. And the oil guy was HOT, but stupid and ignorant were never appealing to me. I won't touch them. You could end up with stupid kids.
We were lied to, we were told men love independent women. Reality: lazy and overly needy men love independent women. A healthy well adjusted masculine man wants to see a woman have a baseline (self supporting, resourceful) of independence. Much more than that will be off-putting. He wants to DO for you. Let him. And you be feminine and take care of him in ways that don't cross the line into smothering mothering. That's neither romantic nor sexy.
@@ddupree9484 women didnt get independency because of getting more likes from men you know.
@@sallyenki4440 I hope you don't expect me to take offense. I don't know what your reply means. Sarcasm, possibly?
@@ddupree9484 why so sensitive?
I just wanna share that being a joyful receiver can really boost the confidence of my man. My hubby always doing things for me (carrying my bag, massage, getting water) and I always say thank you to him. It made him do more for me and I feel appreciated. Now, instead of giving him order/ commanding him, he initiates to do things for me without asking for it.
You just got lucky and got a great catch!!
I disagree with the other commenter that you got lucky. I don't consider that luck. I think your behavior attracted that type of behavior from a man. Very little in this life is coincidence. There's an action and a reaction in all things in nature.
I disagree Rosette. The truth is a person who feels appreciated does more than is expected. From experience I can tell you that being more grateful for every little thing pays off for both parties. And I don't just mean men with whom you're in an intimate relationship. Give it a try :)
How do you get him to start?
So true! I see this in my now 12 year old son as he’s getting older. A few years ago, I thanked him for cleaning off the bathroom counter and the next I knew he was cleaning the entire bathroom. He used an entire bottle of Lysol and socked the rugs a tub of water thinking that’s how you clean them. I thanked him anyway and told him how much I appreciate him and he had his chest stuck out. You can see his sense of masculinity.
The most heighten feminine energy I have experienced in myself, has been when I have been in creative mode. Writing poetry, painting, playing music...
Like an act of love making sort of...
And the beautiful thing is that you become more of your true self, while at the same time you “forget” yourself in the process, in a liberating way - you transcend your ego... it is a sense of devotion and sensuality.
Yes dipping into your right brain.
I was going to state the same thing...poetry, music also writing short stories...romantic ones of course❤
@Saad Bin Masud what do you mean by »feminine bullshit«?
@Saad Bin Masud ,you are brainless by birth or have done any course!!
Yes yes yes
I love this list but also I would add - being an honest, kind and loyal friend to others, not being competitive & catty towards other women but helping them succeed, having an attitude of gratitude and a good sense of humor... not taking myself too seriously, being confident but not thinking I was “all that” (humility is a virtue) - my husband said he saw these things in me, he saw I had class and a good heart. He saw I was as he calls it “imperfectly perfect” and “willing to let him be imperfect too”
The list you gave is outstanding but also what is in the heart - that is KEY.
Looks fade but the heart can grow more beautiful with age :) Married at age 40 & been married 14 years! 🤗
You are a true inspiration......
I attract more men, get more complements from men and women when I wear bright vibrant colors. I also am more attractive when I smile and seem affable.
You can be strong but gentle at the same time. Feminist movement biggest lie is telling women they have to be perpetually angry, to hate men and behave like men.
Bingo, girl; we attract what we give off!
That's because you have a beautiful skin tone and a cheerful personality, they match with vibrant colors. Do you remember that light blue dress Lupita Nyong'o wore at Oscar's? It was absolutely flattering, a heaven sight.
your smile is beautiful 🥺❤
from your profile
Really? Also that’s because you have warm undertone.
the aspects of feminine and masculine energy and how they interact with one another are so interesting, and they are absolutely real things. As a victim of childhood abuse, I’ve been living in masculine energy for the majority of my life (though I am female) as a way to protect myself, and naturally relationships and intimacy have been very difficult for me as a result. However, I have a male friend that I met almost two years ago, and I’m sure i love him. whenever I’m around him I feel myself really sinking deeply into my feminine energy, completely naturally! I feel so calm and safe when he’s around, I notice my voice changes, the way I move about changes, I find it easier to receive.... it’s quite amazing really 😇
So true!
Aww, I’m rooting for you and your friend to be together.
I can 100% related to what you're saying. I hope things work out for you with this guy.
Same 100% as me, heyy wish u good luck with this guy! And same for me 🙏
I love this
I always wanted a manly man, but have attracted feminine men and this video explains why. I put out too much masculine energy. Guess if you want to attract a masculine man you need to be more feminine. Really hard to do as a tomboy.
Go to Alaska, most of the guys are starved for attention from women.
Pretty sure the women with masculine energy get more shit done! Look at all the female CEOS AND senators: masculine energy. Pretty sure most of them are still married and can catch a dick anytime they want. You can have masculine energy and still look fire in a pencil skirt. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not and deprive the world of your glory just to land one particular sort of man.
@@sarahtaft1666 masculine energy in the workplace doesnt translate to masculine energy outside of it. Im going into finance so some masculine traits are necessary and very helpful to me, but i still 100% want to work on my femininity in dating and social encounters. Ive always enjoyed the delicate beauty of "ladylike culture and etiquette", and something you dont realize is that stuff, a good balance of it, makes women look incredibly professional on the workplace as well. Soft skills are just as necessary as hard skills in business and politics and such. And you act like if theyre not one way they can never be one way, like people cant change. Thats very rigid, and very dangerous to push to people.
Are there any tomboys who like less masculine men? I'm not exactly feminine--I love guns, gaming, horror movies, and the like, and I've thought of taking up hunting--but I'm no John Wayne.My feminine traits are that I'm artistic and not very athletic. And I absolutely LOVE tough, sporty women who aren't very feminine.
So are men like me--who are somewhere in the middle and prefer masculine tomboys--totally screwed?
@@lynndurbin9476 😂 not desperate. Haven't found "the one," but haven't given up hope.
Swim, work out, read, sing, dance.. have our own hobbies makes us free to feel ourselves as we r.
As a mother, I tend to feel guilty at the idea of spending money on myself, especially on things consider luxury. Most moms are living in instinct to always give to your children before yourself. But I learned that I cannot be my best self and function at my highest level if I’m always depleted. Even just a little self care and alone time, girl time has a big effect. For me as an artist, a little time in my art studio is a great dose of food for the soul. Great advice! Thanks!
Guys should take care of themselves too. It's great when their hair looks nice, skin looks good, clothes are neat, nails are trimmed, etc. Just a tip for guys out there. U want women to look nice, so do we.
Amen!!!
Men should get massages too, manicures, pedicures, new fragrances, haircuts, keep up with wellness checks, exercise and the list goes on. He should wear nice under garments too.
@@NN-zk2qs 😆 nice undergarments too. Well said! No more old faded boxers with holes in it. Meanwhile they tell women to wear nice sexy lingerie.
This just sounds like you want to date women
Just keep clean and keep in shape! Be the best you! This goes for men and women.
@@h4rdi7g3 ikr lol
Gardening and walks. Makes me feel close to mother nature. Hearing birds, looking at beautiful colours, feeling the wind and the ground under my feet.. Love it💙
Slowing down makes me feel more feminine. From the way I talk, walk or even rub my legs or arms when talking to my guy makes me feel very feminine and I loveee it. I wish I never have to get out of this space, it’s so light, easy and soothing. Too bad can’t stay in it all the time since I run a company. But love to be in my feminine energy. It has changed my life and I pray that every woman can experience this more 🥰
@@dnk1870 I think she meant slowing down her lifestyle and rubbing her legs as in the smoothness/softness you feel after you shave or just a sort of self comforting sensation.
ok i will try to be slow in everything🥺🥺 to attact my man.😊😊
After watching this video, I realized that I have more masculine energy than I do feminine energy.
It's not you. It depends on the man. If he doesn't behave with male energy somebody has to do it...
Vin and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Masculinity is not the devil like people make it out to be nowadays 🙄 masculinity is beautiful. You’re still a woman so you still have femininity in you as well. Be proud of who you are!
Lucia Caro wtf are you talking about?? Not everything “depends on the man.” Men aren’t the standard and don’t set the standard!! Also, she’s probably single, so now your comment makes zero sense. Who, which men, are you going to blame for SINGLE women feeling more masculine than feminine? 🤔🧐😂🤣
@@luciacaro6382 you clearly didn't watch the video.
gross
I think another feminine quality is sentimentality. Men like when they feel like they matter to you. Its part of receiving him and showing him he is welcome in your heart. Be sentimental, open, honest and vulnerable with them. But not clingy, because they wreaks of insecurity and feeling unsafe. But instead, confident and trusting. If you trust him with your heart, he will not want to disapoint you.
Be kind to everyone, and yourself. Thats the most feminine thing ever. When you are kind to yourself you stat to shine✨❤️ and by being kind to everyone else you are sharing that shine😘
1. I used to always chase the man with texts but now I like to lean back a little and wait for them to come to me.
2. I communicate in a different way now. Rather than sulking or walking away I confront them head on with a direct feeling question. I am upset as this made me feel x. It puts you into your feeling zone and men can understand exactly what you need
3. I go to SPAs or have baths whenever I can
4. I use candles and diffusers around the house
5. I have cute pet names for my partner and a silly voice I use to feel cute
6. My partner likes it if I give him feminine compliments, like telling him hes strong :)
7. Number 1 thing is to not accept any man who treats you badly or not like a queen. If you are strong but feminine you can find that. My new partner calls me the princess and I love that. I wish I'd followed these things earlier in life as before I only found feminine men or men who didn't want commitment
I love getting dressed up for a date, hair, makeup, nails, perfume, getting all beautified!!! And that helps with my mental and physical feminine energy, knowing & looking all dolled up, even though I might not feel pretty.
It just makes me feel good inside when I get dressed up once in a while for dates.
Kimmi Kruszewski Mee too!!🙋🏻♀️
That's me. I was really depressed but now that I'm dressing up more I feel a bit better about myself. I realised that when I was the most depressed I wore black and hoodies. I'm not even looking for a man (because I'm 16) but I love being feminine.
Boss Baby Fuyuhiko I’m depressed too, but I don’t wear black, I just mainly sleep. I can sleep all day and possibly all night if I wanted to. But I have a relationship now so I dress up occasionally
I was caregiver to my husband for 6 years…he passed away a few months ago, I’m having to relearn how to be feminine & self care & appreciating fixing myself up-makeup, new hairdo, fragrance, clothes-/not for others’ benefit but because it makes me feel good.
Dances where the man leads and the woman follows are the best way I know how to feel feminine. Especially Kizomba ❤️
Van Sin ballroom dancing.
There is no better way. Dance can be so beautiful and feminine. I love how I used to feel when dancing with a man. There is a chemistry that takes over so beautiful. No wonder so many on strictly come dancing have affairs.
I was visiting a friend in the north of England and we went to a locally advertised dance. A man asked me to dance, and just as we faced each other, he (along with the other couples) turned us around and he said it was "such n such" dance (sorry, don't remember!) where the man dances "backwards" and the woman leads - same hand positions just she's leading. It was fun! Never heard of it before, but apparently goes way back. At least in England.
@Debbie Smith No dance is a expression Not anything to do with sexual tension... What bloody rubbish!!!
This is great thanks!
These kinds of videos are life changing for me. I'm 20 years old and a product of feminized society. I grew up being taught that if you didn't like a woman with masculine energy then you were and insecure misogynist. I grew up being taught that gender roles were oppressive and that men should suppress their desires and urges for taking the lead, being lethal, and wanting a relationship a feminine homemaker. I'm now just realizing that these were normal all along and that there were still people who believed men should be men and women should be women. It's clear to see how damaging skewing gender roles and energy is for young people in society. Now I'm going to spend the rest of my days making myself into a real man and possibly preparing myself for a real woman.
Good plan. Things definitely became skewed I talked to my 35 year old son about masculine and feminine roles and he said “what - I always thought it was about rights , I’ve never heard the word roles used”. Once I explained it a light went on in him and he grasped it. He said wow, yes that makes sense.
Extra masculine men are overrated. They are usually agressive and insecure. As we get older we realise that we want and deserve a sweet and caring man who has empathy ( usually considered more feminine traits). You will be equals and no need to overthink or act a certain way.
I always hated how empathy was associated with femininity. Who the fuck made these rules anyways? Shits annoying.
@@ilikepancakes2368 the universe made these rules.
Women are more empathetic and that's just a statistical fact.
You have amazing insight, you must be who you are and loved for who you are then the rest will follow
So true… I feel incredibly safe in my man’s caring presence… He’s sweet but simultaneously “a guy”😅… Sends me roses… then goes and builds a deck😅…
I'm a lesbian and I have no clue why I keep watching these
hahaha
Maybe you want to change
Diedre Salandy you want to make your partner happy
I’m not a lesbian but I have a masculine energy. I’m learning a lot about why my relationships don’t work. So you can actually apply from this energy perspective.
😂😂😂
Being sensitive and emotionally delicate/ intelligent helps me feel more feminine as well as sharing my romantic fantasies.. expressing poetry from my heart .. decorating myself like a piece of delicate art.
For me, getting just enough sleep everyday helped a lot (as a mom and full time worker). My skin, character and mood changed. My family is very happy.
My perception of giving/ receiving is completely reframed now! I have felt so guilty receiving, and have instead been a giver.. possibly an over-giver my entire life. If you think about the symbolism of the masculine and feminine mechanics, it makes perfect sense that the energy of giving would flow more harmoniously from the masculine. Thank you for you for this breakthrough 🙏❤.
Joyful laughter is so feminine! My husband loves my tinkling laughter.
Joyful laughter in men, do you think that's feminine or no?
My ex bf loved to tickle to make me laugh, but i didn’t like him overdoing it and disrespecting my wish for him to stop. That’s why we broke up.
You know what I love about you. I saw one of your videos like 10 years ago before you got all these subscribers and it helped me a lot. You are so genuine, you walk the walk, and plus I think you are one of the dating coaches that is actually “ married”, and it speaks volume.
As a relationship coach myself everything you're saying is on par with my own! Theres so many coaches teaching this beautiful truth about feminine and masculine energy, its honestly the hidden truth and im so thankful. Well done!
On the topic of recieving... "Listening", without need to speak, imho is feminine energy. ❤
Picking flowers & arranging them in a vase, being surrounded my fresh flowers in my home makes me feel like a goddess. Lighting a scented candle and taking a long hot shower & applying natural skin care products from head to toe. Nurturing my self thru healthy cooking and eating, sleeping in a fluffy cozy bed, being kind & sweet to others, smiling, dancing / moving to music, nurturing others. Quality time with my girl friends. Getting a haircut. Painting beautiful images & finding inspiration.
To all the men on here. All women want are honesty, love,trust, respect, your time and not your money. Why is it so much to ask for?
WTH 😂🥺
That's soo much
All men want are Food,Blowjob & giving us some alone time all by ourselves
We both ain't in the Same page girl😏😏
@@thebondvillain4920 lol, your too modern but thats you
This program is not about what women want. It's about changing who you are to be desired by men.
@@deewitt8693 true, but she's just stating some qualities she likes.
Same things men also want from a women
I am always grateful when receiving cash from my husband
Me too i love my husband
@Debbie Smith who says she doesn't have a job? If she was a home maker, why is her doing all the things a paid professional do like caretaking, organizing, cooking, cleaning suddenly become less valuable when she doesn't get paid for it?? That's so shallow. I could be hurtful back to you and ask why you don't get a job so you can stop spreading your bitterness online. You can do better.
Why can't she be grateful for the cash he provides? Maybe it means she doesn't have to work an extra shift or she can afford a new skills class she was looking at taking.
@Debbie Smith okay so with your partner, split the housework then. You go to work. Who is stopping you? Also pretty unfair to comment on her lifestyle when you know nothing about her besides probably a playful comment
@Debbie Smith Actually if she and her husband are in agreement that he works outside the home and she does home chores, it is just as right as when a couple agrees to both have jobs and share home chores, nothing makes one better than the other, as long as it is a mutual decision.
@Debbie Smith Please don't manipulate or twist her words, read what she said, at no point does she says he gives her money after she asks for it, she simply said she is always grateful after receiving cash from her husband, You don't know how they arrived at that system. What is wrong with being grateful? do you think that if you deserve or are entitled to something that you should not show gratitude for it? You have mindset that seem to suggest that if her husband has a job and she takes care of domestic responsibilities that they are not equal partners, I have seen families where the woman has a job and the husband takes care of domestic responsibilities do you think that they are not equal in this case also? Families decide on how to share domestic and employments responsibilities sometimes based on who earns more and it makes economic sense for the one who earns more to work, and they may decide on one person working and one taking care of domestic responsibilities because they don't want to give the responsibility of taking care of their kids to someone else. It is about choices, none is superior to the other. You are being judgemental based an a phrase that she is always grateful after receiving cash from her husband, from that statement you have come to the conclusion that she doesn't have a job and is therefore part of some religious cult that believes women are subservient, in essence you have become a conspiracy theorist without factual information. That is being very small minded, families and decisions they make to suit their circumstances are much more nuanced that.
Laughter. I wish I had a dollar for everytime a man told me he loves my laugh.
Absolutely! My fiancé reacted to my laughter first. He heard me laugh before he even laid eyes on me. Fortunately for me he also liked what he saw! We have been going strong for close to six years now. Getting married soon! And we still laugh a lot. We just happen to both share a wicked sense of humor.
Ways I’m more feminine.
1- I feel free and try to stay in the moment and enjoy what’s happening on the date. Not ruminate over the past or fear the future. After all, it’s just a date to see if I want to go on another date.
2- I listen to understand instead of to reply. Then I see if he does that too.
3- I notice if I’m comfortable. I know myself well and like who I am. My determination about whether I have a next date will be evaluated After the date is done, not while it’s happening. This keeps me in the present during the date.
4- I keep reminding myself that it’s only a date. Getting to know someone takes time and I’ve got lots of that.
5- I also remind myself that I’ll know the guy when I feel balance with him around. That takes time to.
I’ve discovered that dating is like house hunting. When I find the right house, all is well in my universe. Guys do that too. They don’t want to make over anyone. Nor do they want someone who’s not who they really are. So I’m true to who I am and trust that when the time comes, the right match will appear. In the meantime, I just enjoy my dates and appreciate going out.
Thanks for the tips. You're right, just be calm and enjoy the process. People in panic mode (in dating or in other aspects) tend to make bad decisions. Thanks :)
Nina Hanson I’m back on the dating scene after a 4 year relationship and enjoy your advice. Thank you
Maybe I am too independant....and I need someone that is a challenge to me. Especially mentally, I want someone with brains or he will not facinate me at all. I do not have time for silly stupid guys although I love humor and adventure. I realized that I have to time down my voice ....I am too loud, to masculine in that way I guess.
Excellent advice thank you so much for this I appreciate you
If you love yourself men and women will be attracted to you. When you truly smile, when you are calm and fine with yourselve. There are no tricks. It is just my opinion!
This really works for me
I just got my ex back now
I can also help you bring back your relationship back now
If you look good, you will feel good! Keep up the physical appearance (men and women) and you'll feel good about yourself. Don't neglect your emotional well-being. A good workout does miracles for your mind and your soul.
I love how you’re a man and giving this advice, love it. Joyful receiving is sooo important.
1. Joyful receiving
2. Feel safe.
3. Move from your head to your body.
4. Connection.
5. Wear clothes and fragrance that make you feel good.
6. Self care.
7. Tone of voice.
8. Experience your sensuality.
I give myself a spa day at home every week. So peaceful and it makes me feel good
I love smelling, feeling and looking good. I love dressing up..I care for myself , workout almost everyday. I am vegan, green, green all the way. I have a smooth, warm, caring voice, I am told, I love my voice, I am a very sensual woman... Thank you Mathew Boggs.
This is such a pleasant comment to read.☺️
And yet still single?
vegans are the worst 😂
Veganism will destroy your health, given enough time. Not impressive to most men either. Masculine men eat meat.
Same here 😊🙏🙌
1. Joyful Receiving - Learn how to receive better.
2. Feel Safe - Trust yourself to choose the right guy and to speak up when you know something is off. To rock the boat when you know the relationship is not going in the direction you want.
3. Move From Your Head To Your Body - Feminine energy is body feeling energy, circular energy. Belly dancing is one good way to ignite your feminine energy.
4. Connection - Connect with other women, have girl time, do activities with other women.
5. Wear Clothes & Fragrances That Make You Feel Sexy - Feeling good about yourself, wear clothes that highlight your feminine curves. Feeling good about yourself helps you relax and radiate that feminine presence you have.
6. Self Care - Willingness to take care of yourself, make time to prioritise yourself and put yourself first.
7. Tone Of Voice
8. Experience Your Sensuality - In touch with your senses in your body. When you're enjoying your meal, savour every bite. When you're wearing your clothes, experience the clothes on your body.
I loved this video , reminded me to come back to my femininity again as now days it's all about been independance woman and strong. While naturally I'm feminine . So thank you for reminding me matt ! Beautiful video
Also more feminine things to add - playful eye glance from the corner , a slight smile , being playful , joyful , loving , nurturing, but also respecting yourself when something doesn't come to your standards.
You know better who you are. He is claiming what some men want to have. 😉
I come from generations of single moms. Learning to be feminine is so so so hard. It feels fake, it feels unnatural, it feels vulnerable, it’s so uncomfortable.
I want marriage and I DO want a providing man and masculine/feminine dynamics in a relationship but it’s taking so much hard work to be less aggressive/masculine.
I also grew up overweight which added MORE defensiveness and masculine energy.
It’s very hard but it works. I already see men becoming more receptive to me with VERY little change. It’s hard but it’s worth it.
🙏❤️🙏
My little brother has always said that I’m a man. Based on this video, he is not as annoying and stupid as I tell him he is 😂
Lmao
Lol
If the ‘man’ gets attracted to me only when I wear sexy clothes, then the ‘man’ should get himself into a relationship with sexy clothes, not the person. NOT ME. NOT THE PERSON HERSELF.
Yeah
I get your point! You are right.
Not sexy clothes but clothes that makes you feel confident!
I'm feminine AF. Love prancing around in my skirt, heels, and long hair while driving home the point that I have more testosterone than some men around me. Just sayin'
Feminine outside, masculine inside. Like a Shallon Lester. But I do agree it's hard to practice femininity inside when men won't step up to the plate. It really is such a sensitive quality that needs to be tended to and protected otherwise the warmth and radiance gets crushed.
@Mermaid Life Yes, it does. Supposedly.
@@paigec5017being feminine is something you're born with, it naturally just comes out of you to the day you die. Being feminine is subconsciously done. It is how you breathe, blink, move your lips, how you hold thing in your hands, how you sit, walk, turn, and how you dress, DAMN even how you sleep, it doesn't stop there "COZ NOBODY'S WATCHING", can you imagine trying to remember doing each thing every day. Most feminine ladies, Even on their last day on earth STILL looks gorgeous and peaceful like sleeping BEAUTY.
The only way to be feminine. If you're not born with it. Is to be taught from a very young age!
FEMININITY is not just a word. It is A LIFETIME of ACTIONS..!!
Just Be Authentic and you will attract your counterpart! Then the trick is to maintain the attraction through the marriage. Marriage is WTF y’all! Worth The Fight!✌🏼❤️☕️🙏🏼
The awkward part, is when your doing all these feminine things for yourself and the men feel the need to intrude.
Good second point about trusting yourself, knowing that I can trust myself to not put myself in a position of abuse, changes my perspective. Thanks
When I loved myself, before I lost my self-esteem, I used to wake up and exercise for at least 30 minutes every day. Then I would take a shower and do my hair. Had a healthy breakfast and went about my day. But most importantly, I enjoyed a Bubble bath every night before I went to bed, and occasionally got a manicure and pedicure at the nail salon. I also scheduled a facial once a month with a professional. I always looked and felt great and it was easy to attract the opposite sex. But also made time to enjoy a cup of tea or coffee with friends.
Never too late to start loving yourself again😉
I always remembered Beyonce's song "me, myself and I" a song about being your own best friend. never let a man or anyone take your thunder!
You give went you want to give know biacuse you feminine
Ask yourself who do you really want to attract? And what is the real cost to your soul? Be honest.
I need a new circle of friends. They complain too much and drain my energy.
Always waking up with the positive mindset before going for work. Brief workouts to lift up the working mood then take a bath and dress nicely and look good stating from top to toes without wearing excess make up. It's very important to look beautiful to make my day beautiful so ladies let us love ourselves first before you attract love.take care
As interesting and off topic it may come off as although I do quite a lot of routines that have been mentioned including belly-dance 😉, for me the biggest game changer is praying and putting my man and the relationship into God's hands. I can seriously feel the difference in his behaviour when I do it or skip that one.
It might have to do with feeling safe, feeling into my daughterly being or my purpose in life, being in a place to receive or making him fight for me, which of course makes me feel all the more feminine.
Thank you Mat for including my comment 😊 I would like to add, for those women who are struggling with children/money. These manicures/pedicures/face mask/bubble baths can all be done at home cheaply, if you just set some time aside for yourself once the kids are asleep. Any housework or chores can be left until later (they’ll still be there lol) It’s so important to give yourself the gift of time when you need it. x
Sheila Blake ❤️ so thoughtful
Agreed!! Just watching a TH-cam tutorial on “how to” can wrk wonders. The issue I think is, many women who have the mother/ caregiver role feel bad about focusing on themselves for too long and their minds just can’t unplug from the call of duty to learn and actually do things solely for themselves.
Thank You.
Great tip... I agree, when my kids were little, I learned how to wax my bikini area myself (saved $80), do my own eyebrows (saved $20), my own gel nails (invested on the light and nail polish, saved tons of money), etc. Now that my kids are grown I can finally afford the spas and salons!!! :)
Unless you have a man who feels that you neglecting your wifely duties for "stupid pointless vanity" is extremely unattractive.
Y’all 🤣🤣 when he said circular movements, I kept hearing that song “through that azz in a circle” lol so ghetto 🤣🤣
That was my song in college
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Makes a lot of sense and I will put it all to practice. I’m 18 and want to become the best woman I can be 🥰
Matt, I laughed so hard at 3:42 where you inserted the guy walking and smiling. 😂😂You really made your point with that image. I like the idea of the gift of allowing someone to give. I asked my friend to let me treat her for lunch since she always drives and I didn't get anything for her birthday because we were so busy. She was like no, no. I was like please let me do this because I didn't get you anything for your birthday. When she said ok, I felt sooo happy. And I could tell she felt I was happy. I'm a girl, but I feel like I was smiling like that dude walking down the street. 😂😂
I laughed because he looked stupid and that doesnt happen in real life.
Ok
2. Feeling safe. Big one for me. My bf is soo honest and truthful that he made me feel safe so I could open myself to enjoy the experience of our relationship.
I do take care of myself and the look on his face when he sees me, makes it all worth while.
Wearing sexy lingerie makes me feel feminine.
I sneeze. If a man is looking my way and has no way of initiating a conversation I'll sneeze, if he's looking your way and has an interest if you sneeze he will say "Bless you" and Bam! You got a date for Saturday night! Give it a try ladies!
This is kinda cute, but there are a few things to consider.
Some men are simply polite and will say bless you because that is their character.
There is always a way to initiate conversation. "Hello, how are you" works great both ways.
❤ it! Thank you!
Then I don't want him. It is his job to "man up" sorry it is sexist. Sorry, I won't do anything. He has to. How it works.
Eww what? I say "bless you" to everyone that sneezes... I hope they don't all think I want them. Jesus Christ.
The force is strong with this one!
is hard for me because I was raised mostly by my dad, when I was married I took on the role of the man of the house because he didn't take his role, I ended being like a single mom, one of the reasons I divorced. Now I am trying to be more feminine, is hard really hard but I embrace some of these. Thank you for this video I will help me
Nurturing kids or plants or pets can enrich your feminine factors
I noticed that as I invest more time into my fitness such as running, hiking, mountain climbing , I feel the best about myself and also noticed that more men have been attracted to me. Being outdoors increased my feminine energy because I feel the fittest.
Agree!
I do this affirmation - I am safe, I am okay, I am loved, I love and honor myself. I love this: "1. trust yourself to choose the right guy, 2. trust yourself to speak up when you know something is off to rock the boat when you know the relationship isn't going in the direction that you want". Speak up in a kind, considerate yet firm manner to communicate boundaries. We respect ourself and we want to be respected. If it doesn't work out, so be it, smile and move on.
So I need to change myself so a man will love that image of me? Glad I found a man who loves me the way I am before I saw this video.
Lmao and you're here
@@americlovestrump9391 ikr? Lol
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Nr 1 is so true! I have experienced it many times that when men want to do things for you and you let them, it’s the biggest joy and reward for them. Girls time & dancing is also one of my favorite things to do to raise my feminine energy :) have a great day!
To me they always want a cookie later as a Thanksgiving and I don't like taking free gifts from guys again, 😂🙄🙄
I noticed that the other day the man i am dating asked me if he wanted to carry the bags for me beacuse he saw i was in difficulty...and i said oh no don't mind..but after that i told to myself "you should have let him do It" . Did i do It wrong ?
I pray and speak love over myself. I read positive statements that describe me or where I want to be, and choose to believe it. And I find one thing about key appearance that I like.
I love our videos. I had take some tips in my on life. Thanks
This is one thing I noticed even changed my personality ; When using gestures such as the open palm, I keep my fingers closed as opposed to them being spaced apart. I realized that my ability to express myself to men have become more receptive. I think it's because the open fingers look and appear more masculine. It looks aggressive. I also, trying to keep my gestures in a mental box frame. For ex. I try to keep gestures the frame of my shoulders. Not cause gestures to go out of this frame. It shows I am in control of my words and more composed.
This has truly changed my personality ! I AM more composed. And I AM more accepting of myself to be softer.
It's so powerful.
As a tomboy trying to grow up to a woman I found my femininity becoming a mother. I love being a mom and I suddenly felt calm, happy and appreciated as a woman. It also made me appreciate male qualities in a new way. I grow up without a father but step by step I realize what protection, strength and a fathers love can do for a family. 😍
For me, motherhood is a big thing of being a woman. Maybe I transfered from boyish to a more feminine, soft woman when all those pregnant hormones hit me.
Girl I’m happy for you! I also grew up with no father and it took away so much from me, I want to be feminine but the only thing I’m worried about is whether it will clash with how confident I appear
That's exactly what happened motherhood released the feminine in you. And I'm sure you're a wonderful mother, because you're aware it's changed you for the better☘️
I love this topic so much, Matt! Need to do some of the items more and more..
8 Feminine Qualities Men Love
1. Joyful receiving - Learn how to receive better.
2. Feel safe - trust yourself to choose the right guy and trust yourself to speak up when you know something is off.
3. Move from your head to your body - belly dancing ^_^
4. Connection - connecting to other women
5. Wear clothes and fragrance that make you feel sexy.
6. Self Care - spa day, ME day indeed.
7. Tone of Voice - sweet, soft and sensual tone
8. Experience your sensuality - experience and embrace senses
Feeling good about yourself is also a confidence booster. Loving oneself is giving yourself a priority because if you have a content,happy heart you can also share the happy disposition in life .
Was and still am a tomboy, who loves guns, being outdoors, and getting my hands dirty(farming/gardening). As I'm getting older I've begun seeing where I can show feminine energy through clothing, scents, colors, self care, hairstyles, all without giving up my hobbies or love of flannel shirts 😁
There's this one guy who I really like that is an outdoor enthusiast, hunter, loves dogs & guns, and whenever we talk all I can think about are all the adventures he has gone on and how amazing it would be if I could go with him; along with just being there everyday for him. I have several letter drafts telling him how much he means to me, but I lack the courage to send them to him 😔 he has made several wonderful comments about me, a part of me wants to start dating him, but I'm still struggling with mental health issues and don't know how to ask him to be a part of my life when I come with baggage
Everyone has baggage and issues. Just don’t talk about it. That just created a mess.
Don't think, just do, get out of your head girl, love you ❤️❤️❤️
Be vulnerable yet not victim. You are strong and adventure . Find a way to be partners in crime so he sees you as a strong woman that watch his back , is loyal yet create the home environment for him
We all have baggage. I have the same issue, always finding ways I am unworthy as a reason to not date. And time marches on. I would, that if someone of whatever age did not have baggage, they might have a boring past or are lying about it.
Thanks for sharing your story
I think I’ve struggled with the “joyful receiving”. After having to basically be the man in my 30 year marriage, it has often been hard to practice that when dating. I thought that before, but seeing this has made me think my intuition was right. It’s hard to accept...from anyone, women included.
Love this . Self care, friends, and lot of femininity, joyful attitude- so true.
Donna Tyler, you look stunning dear
This is really interesting for me. My relationship has been been going through a rough patch lately and one thing that came up was that my partner wants to buy my things. And I've always denied them. I hadn't realised how much this affected him until now. And i realised that i have been taking away part of being a man. Not being able to provide me with nice things. I'm a very independant person and get joy out of being strong and buying something for myself on the very rare occasion. I've recently learned sometimes I have to stand down and allow my partner to have that joy in buying me something. And now this video has confirmed this and many other things that have been coming up in my lift lately!
So, thank you for this video!
A smile & a friendly hello - even to strangers or by-passers on the street - goes a long way!! makes me feel good when they respond!!
I have an issue with the “self love” trend. The more we love ourselves, the less we love others. It’s very easy to default into selfishness in this mind frame. Don’t ignore needs and desires when they’re reasonable, but I think we need to dump the self love thinking. It sounds good on the outside but think about what it really means and what you have to do to achieve it. Just a thought.
Agreed. It’s one thing to love yourself, it’s another to be selfish... people these days are losing sight of the difference
There's a big difference between self love and selfishness. Just because some are blurring the lines doesn't make self love any less vital.
I think its beautiful to love ourselves otherwise we give away assets without their actual values. We just got to still be human I think
It is impossible to know how to love someone if you loath yourself.
That is different than always thinking of yourself and being selfish. One can not share what one does not possess.
I do agree with this sentiment somewhat. I have actually gone through it myself... I was such a people pleaser that when I realised what I was doing I stopped and started 'self-love' and it actually turned into selfishness and I took more than I gave. It didn't feel good either, I really do like giving and loving on others, I just need to have boundaries and be mindful of a healthy balance and whom and what im giving to
How do you make friends with women when most of them around me want to either gossip or are super introverted 😂
You're meeting the wrong people.
The best advice I can give is, pray to God for the right friends. Having at least 1-2 is all you need. The rest are seasonal and one has to be comfortable with knowing they won't last beyond the season.
I am gender non conforming and my energies are equally masculine and feminine, and found these points to be quite effective. thank you so much!
@Avaron fully agree
@Avaron What a horrid thing to say to another person. Ignorance and hatred based on fear appear to be what possesses a being like you.
We all have masculine and feminine qualities. I nurture children with my feminity and protect them with masculine energy! I appreciate your honesty and courage. Angels are gender-neutral, androgynous Beings of Light. Ignore the bigots and haters.
What makes me feel feminine is communication and what I mean by communication is listening and being polite and gentle
I bought sexy underwear! Nothing makes me feel as good as when I wear sexy underwear!
Getting dolled up makes me feel feminine. Heavy weight lifting helps keep me healthy and makes me feel feminine.
I would add smiling to that list 😁
I come from Poland (and still live here) and here smiling to people you don't know is extremely rarely. I've been practicing smiling to passersby (especially to men) for quite a long and I have the experience that it opens up man's heart.
With smiling to you and all the readers 😁🤗
Hi Monika, I agree and I'm a natural smiley type of person. The problem with American guys is that if you are the least bit kind to them and give them one innocent smile..they think you want them. But you were just being polite. Are Polish men the same I wonder? Smiles to you😌🤗🙂
Im a feminine woman and i ❤ recieving gifts and acts of kindness from men. It makes me feel so good and flattered. I always thank them, blush, smile and tell them how appreciative i am of showing me what real man is like😍😍😍 it seems to inspire them to be more generous and kind in the future. Its the best