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0:29 he's your best friend 1:46 he brings you peace 3:41 he's at your level of readiness 4:58 you share the same vision and values 7:09 you are the best version of yourselves around each other 8:41 he values your needs and wants 10:32 you're sexually attracted to one another 12:00 he fights fairly 13:44 he gets along with your family and friends 14:52 you trust him
The sound effects are distracting and feel distracting. However, ENOURMOUS appreciation for the great content . You always do a superb job with highly valuable content . Thank you Mat
I was married to my best friend and love of my life for 26 years until he passed 5 years ago. Love, common interests and respect are important. I really liked him as a person first before the romance.
You nailed him right on the spot. We hung out, talked, spent 3 weeks un- separated. I insisted we get married before we engaged in a physical (sexual) relationship. He valued the same beliefs. What did you know? We tied the knot on February the 28th. My 5th. His 4th. Wow. What a partner I have in him. We have all the qualities to that "long lasting life time part " Thank you for all the words and time you have invested in this crazy world on LOVE. You nailed us both. So. As I say to all and everyone here. Never. Never give up. Give in. Hold fast to your inner compass. He/she is out there. Be good. Be kind. Be patient. Work on you to become unstoppable.
It’s so good to realize this. I wish I would have known it’s supposed to be peaceful. It’s been 21 years of struggle and really hard to separate when you have kids
I have met a man who has all of these qualities and more! He’s kind, he’s sensitive, he’s sweet, he’s protective, he always asks me if I’m okay, he makes me laugh, he’s sexy, he’s romantic, he’s a talented guitarist, we share some hobbies that we’re passionate about, and we have mutual respect for each other. He’s the love of my life despite our age difference and physical distance apart. I am working on going to see him. Thank you for this video! I already felt like everything was right about our relationship and your video confirmed it. ✌🏼💖
1. He’s your best friend 2. He brings you peace 3. He’s at your level of readiness 4. You share the same life vision and values 5. You feel like the best version of yourself when you are with him 6. He values your needs and wants 7. You’re sexually attracted to one another 8. He fights fairly 9. He gets along with your family and friends 10. You trust him
Trust is the #1 most important thing in a marriage to me, after seeing so much dishonesty and abuse in my life. You need to be able to trust your husband…and he needs your trust! Also, best friendship. After 15 years of marriage, having a man who is also your best friend, who you don’t have to be insecure around with other women or feel like you’re walking on egg shells, but you can genuinely laugh and enjoy one another’s company! Also, sexual attraction. I never knew how impactful this was to me until recently, but it can take the Eros love to a whole new level! I also think having compatibility with each other hobbies, seeing their level of discipline, and being able to admire and respect them are very important.
Hello I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Matt you have great videos, but this video for me is ABSOLUTELY THE BEST, EMMY AWARD WINNING, front beginning to end. It really had me thinking about past long term dating experience. This video had chock full of gold nugget information ❤
1- He must be Christian (or his heart and mind open for conversion) 2- Conservative and very masculine 3- Loyal family man (wants marriage and children) 4- Highly competent, diligent, responsible 5-My best friend, loves going on adventures with me
Mat I LOVE the #2 indicator is HE brings the “peace”. So often women are told to “be HIS peace” I have been a mom since I was 15; my life experience hasn’t been peaceful much. Now at 45 my peace is priority, so please be a peaceful man 🤞
Hello I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
What you explaining is my dream person. My soul yearning for this man for so long already. I pray we bump into each other soon. I can't take these manipulators anymore. They pretend they are this person the first few months and then they can't "keep up". I'm exhausted and terribly dissapointed and hurt at the end. I need someone to put in as much energy and value as I do.
Yeah a little.. it doesn't seamlessly or smoothly got integrated into the video. So I get what u mean. But hey don't be so harsh on yourself and others. Let's relax kay?
Great info - and I like that you’ll typically insert 1-2 clips of a couple or 1 clip of something funny, but the ongoing series of clips was really distracting from the information.
I’ve met someone recently. We haven’t even been on a date yet and I already feel inspired to be the best version of myself. I’ve experienced tremendous loss within the last few months; and I have been in a fog of pain and hurt. I do desire love and whether its this man or someone better I know I need to feel more self empowered.
Love is the only thing that will keep you together. Don’t mix up love and relationships. Love is a state of your being ; relationships are work. This is what all the relationship coaches don’t get. Because you can’t coach love. You need to understand that many people will never experience love.
1. He becomes your best friend. 2. He brings you peace. 3. He's at your level of readiness. 4. You share the same values and life goals. 5. You feel like the best version of yourself when you're around him. 6. He values your needs of wants. 7. You're sexually attracted to each other. 8. He fights fairly. 9. He gets along with your family and friends. 10. You trust him.
Hello I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Honesty, Christianity, good communicator, not a selfish lover , strong mentally and spiritually, not selfish , affectionate, giving , good listener, faithful
I agree 100% especially the being each other's best friend, genuinely liking each other, and being attracted to each other. I grew up seeing couples in toxic relationships who didn't even like each other yet were screwing and bring lives into the world...and I said to myself "Not this one".
Matt, this was amazing. Can you make a video with insights on how to address the piece when ones immediate family members are narcissists, how to communicate this to the man you choose, bcoz its important to me that he knows this, and so we can together set boundaries for such people.
I LOVED this one! You hit all the important points and reminded me to keep my standards high, because it's not arrogant, it's realistic and wise. I'm looking for my best friend. I won't tolerate or settle for childish men with deal-breaker attitudes or obnoxious, potty-mouth creeps. I'd rather be happily single for the rest of my life than miserably married to a hot mess! 😂 Thanks again! 😁
EXCELLENT Matt, I am happy to say that I have found my forever mate. We hit all of these 100%. Relationships are not easy and they take work and commitment on borh sides. I am a stubborn Swede and JJ is a stubborn Italian but we know how important it is to have total trust in each other and to be totally open and honest with each other!!! Again -- thank you Matt!!! P.S. Maybe leave off the silly clips -- they take away from your important message!!!
Oh! That man laughing & knocking over lawn chairs! 😂 And the elderly couple…”and it’s not my birthday!” 😂 Would love to see you make more videos geared towards people over 60 please.
I have been Watsin this Chanel over year, and i took craking the man code, learn to manifest.. Everything Matt says Is tru... I found great man. Nothing like my ex,s just to be.. All those 10 things we have ❣️ so thanks Matt for everything!!!! Johanna from Finland
Mat, I've been watching all your videos for years, and I always get great insight from your talks. You've helped me work on improving my relationship so Thank you for your teachings, advice. Much appreciated!
I've always loved your videos. It's been a few months since I've watched one and I'm noticing the sound clips through out. It feels very distracting and pulls me out of the message. Just wanted to share some feedback is case this is something your testing out:)
The qualities that matter most to me is trusting, honesty, integrity, doing what you say. Protector, loving, considerate and understanding man who makes me laugh. And chemistry have to have that too!! Don't want much but don't need all
I have a question for anyone who would like to discuss this 😅 If you find a person with all these signs, you look for him, and he looks for you BUT then this person says something like "I would like to be friends with benefits" - then, you keep looking for each other... how do you wanna interpret that? What would you do?
Hello I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Such a helpful video, Mat!! :) As always! I was wondering on the other end of the spectrum, if you could make a video sometime about how once we've gone through this list, if we are realizing the person is not the right one, what would be the best way(s) to go about relaying that to the guy? I think this would be an extremely universal question that other women (and men) could relate to because I found it difficult trying to figure out when I met someone how much time I should spend/is reasonable getting to know them before making the decision to date or that they're not the one. For ex. How many dates do you think is fair to see someone before deciding and then if you decide they aren't right, what should you say/how should you go about letting them know? You always have really kind phrases that you recommend so I would love seeing a video on your advice sometime about that! Thanks :)
Trust, respect and friendship (a type of long term love) are essential. Chemistry is also important for intimate erotic relationships and will continue as long as hormones are healthy /optimal. There are a lot of things that mess with our hormones and our desire can disappear, even if we still love the person.
Excellent list & absolutely spot-on. I was so blessed to have found all those shared characteristics with the love of my life for a year & a half before he died suddenly. 4 years later, my love for him is as strong as ever. Your last point cannot be overemphasized: trust is the lifeblood of a relationship & if it doesn't exist, the relationship is doomed. Thank you Mat for your superb work; you perform a great service.
Yes my late husband dated him since I was 24 . We have 3 he was 29 in 1987 and got married in 1990 til death due us part in 2021. We had a great relationship and a lot of great times together.
Hello I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Always ask if your future spouse has children's names that he absolute has to have no matter what. My Ex wanted his parent's names for his children, no matter what, Walter and Margaret. I had a Walter Jacob, always called Jake. I had a beautiful Margaret, always called Maggie. Although, I would of picked different names. ❤
Wondering what if this chemistry is there for some years, but then fades or goes away? Do you think that if a partner makes a decision in the relationship that creates distance, then this is reflected in the existence of chemistry?
I think that this is a gender-neutral list. 1. He becomes your best friend, and you naturally prioritize each other in the things you're doing and have a great time. Need to like and want to hang out with the person. 2. He brings you peace, grounding and stabilizing life, rather than a crazy, exhausting roller coaster of chaos. Most days are consistent and peaceful. Another video put it as a cozy campfire; I liken it to a Crock Pot. 3. He's at your level of readiness and is at the stage to go the distance. You might arrive there at different times. There is no dragging. 4. You share same life vision and values. There are hidden values and major life events coming down the line. Do you have the same life rhythm and tempo? Do you both want a family? How will you raise children? What if you can't conceive? 5. You feel like the best version of yourself around each other. You pump each other up, rather than making you feel like you're not enough. 6. He will value your needs and wants over time, making you a priority. 7. You're sexually attracted to one another. 8. He fights fairly, reaching a resolution without name-calling, contempt, or stonewalling (unwillingness to talk). 9. He gets along with your family and friends. You marry into someone's family and friends. 10. You trust him. He doesn't exaggerate or fudge. I really thought I had these with my ex; perhaps he didn't feel the same about me.
The short clips were great and sounded fine. They went perfectly well with the information. I enjoyed it but you can’t please everyone 🤷🏽♀️the *NSYNC clip was clever 😀
Agreed ❤🎉 i wonder if most that weren't a fan of the clips maybe just needed an intro to the clip describing it (the talking points already did, but a check in). ❤glad I'm not the only one who thought the clips were fun examples of his points 🎉😂
Yes, yes, yes, yes (ok with some differences in politics as it's respectful), yes, yes, we legit haven't "fought" yet because we are talking through problems when small, yes, yes. No wonder we are going through the stages as we are. He's said I'm his person, his life partner... My ex spouse pushed me fast, and then was controlling and true evil in every possible way. So i KNOW fighting, i know the bad stuff that can happen too. Life won't always be rosy, but my current partner after 8 months of dating, knowing him for 25 years? I have no hesitations in trusting him.
Hello Mat! I was wondering if you could advise on this as well: when your parents fail to like any of your partners without any particular or major reason such as violence, addiction etc. In those cases no boyfriend can actually build a relationship with them
Do you have any advice Matt about men that have a child already and a woman with 5 kids and what things he would be thinking about when deciding to marry.
this video is so important send it to all your girl friends as its so true all of it, although in my case there s another type of men whoa re so nice so into u etc etc however they are not geniune and thats a bummer thing to find out, no indication of finding it out sooner, god give us strength to walk away as soon as we find out it was all an act of a nice mr right not true mr right,
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0:29 he's your best friend
1:46 he brings you peace
3:41 he's at your level of readiness
4:58 you share the same vision and values
7:09 you are the best version of yourselves around each other
8:41 he values your needs and wants
10:32 you're sexually attracted to one another
12:00 he fights fairly
13:44 he gets along with your family and friends
14:52 you trust him
The sound effects are distracting and feel distracting.
However, ENOURMOUS appreciation for the great content . You always do a superb job with highly valuable content . Thank you Mat
Thanks! ❤
I was married to my best friend and love of my life for 26 years until he passed 5 years ago. Love, common interests and respect are important. I really liked him as a person first before the romance.
We are very blessed. I was married to my best friend for 31 years. 💕 He went home 11 years ago. 🌟 Lots of love, laughter, and respect.
🙏🏼💗💗💗💗💗 BEAUTIFUL ✨
You nailed him right on the spot. We hung out, talked, spent 3 weeks un- separated. I insisted we get married before we engaged in a physical (sexual) relationship. He valued the same beliefs. What did you know? We tied the knot on February the 28th. My 5th. His 4th. Wow. What a partner I have in him. We have all the qualities to that "long lasting life time part " Thank you for all the words and time you have invested in this crazy world on LOVE. You nailed us both. So. As I say to all and everyone here. Never. Never give up. Give in. Hold fast to your inner compass. He/she is out there. Be good. Be kind. Be patient. Work on you to become unstoppable.
I love this, Congratulations. 🎉
Thanks. This video made me realize the person I’ve been trying so hard with, is never gonna be able to be my husband. Super sad.
It’s so good to realize this. I wish I would have known it’s supposed to be peaceful. It’s been 21 years of struggle and really hard to separate when you have kids
I fell in love with my husband when he first kissed me. His kiss was both tender and passionate, and a promise to love and protect me all our lives.
I have met a man who has all of these qualities and more! He’s kind, he’s sensitive, he’s sweet, he’s protective, he always asks me if I’m okay, he makes me laugh, he’s sexy, he’s romantic, he’s a talented guitarist, we share some hobbies that we’re passionate about, and we have mutual respect for each other. He’s the love of my life despite our age difference and physical distance apart. I am working on going to see him. Thank you for this video! I already felt like everything was right about our relationship and your video confirmed it. ✌🏼💖
1. He’s your best friend
2. He brings you peace
3. He’s at your level of readiness
4. You share the same life vision and values
5. You feel like the best version of yourself when you are with him
6. He values your needs and wants
7. You’re sexually attracted to one another
8. He fights fairly
9. He gets along with your family and friends
10. You trust him
Qualities that matter most to me in a husband: Trust, respect, open minded, sees the good in life and others, and basic quality of kindness. 🥰
Trustworthiness
‘A scene had already been made’ 😅😅😅😅 that’s just EPIC 😅😅
Trust is the #1 most important thing in a marriage to me, after seeing so much dishonesty and abuse in my life. You need to be able to trust your husband…and he needs your trust!
Also, best friendship. After 15 years of marriage, having a man who is also your best friend, who you don’t have to be insecure around with other women or feel like you’re walking on egg shells, but you can genuinely laugh and enjoy one another’s company!
Also, sexual attraction. I never knew how impactful this was to me until recently, but it can take the Eros love to a whole new level!
I also think having compatibility with each other hobbies, seeing their level of discipline, and being able to admire and respect them are very important.
Hello
I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Matt you have great videos, but this video for me is ABSOLUTELY THE BEST, EMMY AWARD WINNING, front beginning to end. It really had me thinking about past long term dating experience. This video had chock full of gold nugget information ❤
So awesome! Glad you enjoyed it!
Yes!!!!
Matt Boggs really hits all the notes beautifully on this one
Great messages Mat. However the sound and video effects were a huge distraction.
1- He must be Christian (or his heart and mind open for conversion)
2- Conservative and very masculine
3- Loyal family man (wants marriage and children)
4- Highly competent, diligent, responsible
5-My best friend, loves going on adventures with me
Mat I LOVE the #2 indicator is HE brings the “peace”. So often women are told to “be HIS peace” I have been a mom since I was 15; my life experience hasn’t been peaceful much. Now at 45 my peace is priority, so please be a peaceful man 🤞
I think I've found my future husband ☺️
I was attempting to press the like icon multiple times while watching this video. I’m subcribing
Hahahaha the roller coaster one 🤣🤣🤣 had me lol
She was so unhappy with that! 😅
Hello
I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
He accepts me as i am
What you explaining is my dream person. My soul yearning for this man for so long already. I pray we bump into each other soon. I can't take these manipulators anymore. They pretend they are this person the first few months and then they can't "keep up". I'm exhausted and terribly dissapointed and hurt at the end. I need someone to put in as much energy and value as I do.
Great video, but the sound effect clips were a bit jarring.
Sounds great on my end
I agree, they were distracting
Yeah a little.. it doesn't seamlessly or smoothly got integrated into the video. So I get what u mean.
But hey don't be so harsh on yourself and others. Let's relax kay?
Good to know, thank you for the feedback.
Agree.
14 years later still my soulmate
Sorry for asking but do you still feel sexual attraction to him?
Communication, emotional compatibility,reaching a middle ground during disagreement,able to participate in difficult conversation
Great info - and I like that you’ll typically insert 1-2 clips of a couple or 1 clip of something funny, but the ongoing series of clips was really distracting from the information.
Good feedback thank you
shows his feelings,
shows his concern being honest
compliments me often
show me affection more often
I’ve met someone recently. We haven’t even been on a date yet and I already feel inspired to be the best version of myself. I’ve experienced tremendous loss within the last few months; and I have been in a fog of pain and hurt. I do desire love and whether its this man or someone better I know I need to feel more self empowered.
Video timestamps would be perfect, especially for people with ADHD.
There is a "chapters" section within the video description area 😊
Love is the only thing that will keep you together. Don’t mix up love and relationships. Love is a state of your being ; relationships are work. This is what all the relationship coaches don’t get. Because you can’t coach love. You need to understand that many people will never experience love.
Wonderful as always!
I think this was your best advice video yet!
Thank you for such wise thoughts. I really appreciate your thoughts on this.
Thank you for the video clips! 🤗 A thousand likes.👍
I want to thank you for all your content. I actually found the effect Clips quite funny🎉
1. He becomes your best friend.
2. He brings you peace.
3. He's at your level of readiness.
4. You share the same values and life goals.
5. You feel like the best version of yourself when you're around him.
6. He values your needs of wants.
7. You're sexually attracted to each other.
8. He fights fairly.
9. He gets along with your family and friends.
10. You trust him.
Great advice... I wish I had these tools many years ago! Thank you for sharing Mat.
Hello
I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Awesome Video!! keep up the great work. Thank you for what you do.🎉🎉🎉
Great pointers. Thank you.
Powerful advice....very helpful, Most Grateful Mat for your wisdom. Gives me more confidence in my judgement (and Intuition! :)
Aurelie, ur the best!❤
Excellent video. Thank you Matt
Love your videos but the b-roll clips were distracting from the main message- had my mind all over the place lol
Honesty, Christianity, good communicator, not a selfish lover , strong mentally and spiritually, not selfish , affectionate, giving , good listener, faithful
Why Christianity? Americans…
Good points, this kind of relationship is rare today.
Thank you for explaining these topics so well. You are on it!
Great info and important topic! Found the video clips distracting from your message….
Thanks for the reality checker. This list validated that it's time to move on.
I witnessed all these qualities in my parents yet never could find it for myself 😢
Thank you for sharing this Matt!! This has been my relationship with my now husband and I confirm you are 100% right on about this ❤❤❤❤❤
I agree 100% especially the being each other's best friend, genuinely liking each other, and being attracted to each other. I grew up seeing couples in toxic relationships who didn't even like each other yet were screwing and bring lives into the world...and I said to myself "Not this one".
Matt, this was amazing. Can you make a video with insights on how to address the piece when ones immediate family members are narcissists, how to communicate this to the man you choose, bcoz its important to me that he knows this, and so we can together set boundaries for such people.
I LOVED this one! You hit all the important points and reminded me to keep my standards high, because it's not arrogant, it's realistic and wise. I'm looking for my best friend. I won't tolerate or settle for childish men with deal-breaker attitudes or obnoxious, potty-mouth creeps. I'd rather be happily single for the rest of my life than miserably married to a hot mess! 😂
Thanks again! 😁
“A scene has been made” 😂
EXCELLENT Matt,
I am happy to say that I have found my forever mate. We hit all of these 100%. Relationships are not easy and they take work and commitment on borh sides.
I am a stubborn Swede and JJ is a stubborn Italian but we know how important it is to have total trust in each other and to be totally open and honest with each other!!!
Again -- thank you Matt!!!
P.S. Maybe leave off the silly clips -- they take away from your important message!!!
Excellent info. Thank you!
Oh! That man laughing & knocking over lawn chairs! 😂 And the elderly couple…”and it’s not my birthday!” 😂
Would love to see you make more videos geared towards people over 60 please.
I have been Watsin this Chanel over year, and i took craking the man code, learn to manifest.. Everything Matt says Is tru... I found great man. Nothing like my ex,s just to be.. All those 10 things we have ❣️ so thanks Matt for everything!!!! Johanna from Finland
I am very happy I found this kind of man now. After I broke up with emotional unavailable bf.
Mat, I've been watching all your videos for years, and I always get great insight from your talks. You've helped me work on improving my relationship so Thank you for your teachings, advice. Much appreciated!
Great advice. Thank you : )
Thank you Matt for another brilliant video! 🎉 Appreciate it 🙏
I loved the videos..great advice
I've always loved your videos. It's been a few months since I've watched one and I'm noticing the sound clips through out. It feels very distracting and pulls me out of the message. Just wanted to share some feedback is case this is something your testing out:)
The qualities that matter most to me is trusting, honesty, integrity, doing what you say. Protector, loving, considerate and understanding man who makes me laugh. And chemistry have to have that too!! Don't want much but don't need all
Awesome! Thank you for sharing Mat
Oh my gosh I don't want to do this, I don't want to do this, I want to break up!!!! 😂😂😂😂
I have a question for anyone who would like to discuss this 😅
If you find a person with all these signs, you look for him, and he looks for you BUT then this person says something like "I would like to be friends with benefits" - then, you keep looking for each other... how do you wanna interpret that? What would you do?
Hello
I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Such a helpful video, Mat!! :) As always! I was wondering on the other end of the spectrum, if you could make a video sometime about how once we've gone through this list, if we are realizing the person is not the right one, what would be the best way(s) to go about relaying that to the guy? I think this would be an extremely universal question that other women (and men) could relate to because I found it difficult trying to figure out when I met someone how much time I should spend/is reasonable getting to know them before making the decision to date or that they're not the one. For ex. How many dates do you think is fair to see someone before deciding and then if you decide they aren't right, what should you say/how should you go about letting them know? You always have really kind phrases that you recommend so I would love seeing a video on your advice sometime about that! Thanks :)
Trust, respect and friendship (a type of long term love) are essential. Chemistry is also important for intimate erotic relationships and will continue as long as hormones are healthy /optimal. There are a lot of things that mess with our hormones and our desire can disappear, even if we still love the person.
Loving the advices but I find the clips interruptions very disturbing at times.
Excellent list & absolutely spot-on. I was so blessed to have found all those shared characteristics with the love of my life for a year & a half before he died suddenly. 4 years later, my love for him is as strong as ever.
Your last point cannot be overemphasized: trust is the lifeblood of a relationship & if it doesn't exist, the relationship is doomed. Thank you Mat for your superb work; you perform a great service.
You have to marry your best friend for a suuceesful, fun, happy life forever! ☺🥰
Omg we went through it all together! Sickness due us apart
Love the clips you added in! You are so funny! ☺ oh just keeps getting better and better....
Yes my late husband dated him since I was 24 . We have 3 he was 29 in 1987 and got married in 1990 til death due us part in 2021. We had a great relationship and a lot of great times together.
Hello
I was just going through the website hoping to meet someone nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot. I had to summon the courage to mail and would love to get to know each other better and hopefully become friends
Great video
i want my partner to be brave and be able to protect me in a emergency , and he does
Your 10 signs it’s for PERFECT long marriage !!!!
Loved the clip of that man’s laugh! HEEEEEEEEE!😂
Always ask if your future spouse has children's names that he absolute has to have no matter what. My Ex wanted his parent's names for his children, no matter what, Walter and Margaret. I had a Walter Jacob, always called Jake. I had a beautiful Margaret, always called Maggie. Although, I would of picked different names. ❤
Another great videos please ❤❤❤
Love the video but i hated the cuts to memes and videos
very helpful
That was good!!
waiting on God to answer my prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥹 future husband.
Wondering what if this chemistry is there for some years, but then fades or goes away? Do you think that if a partner makes a decision in the relationship that creates distance, then this is reflected in the existence of chemistry?
I think that this is a gender-neutral list.
1. He becomes your best friend, and you naturally prioritize each other in the things you're doing and have a great time. Need to like and want to hang out with the person.
2. He brings you peace, grounding and stabilizing life, rather than a crazy, exhausting roller coaster of chaos. Most days are consistent and peaceful. Another video put it as a cozy campfire; I liken it to a Crock Pot.
3. He's at your level of readiness and is at the stage to go the distance. You might arrive there at different times. There is no dragging.
4. You share same life vision and values. There are hidden values and major life events coming down the line. Do you have the same life rhythm and tempo? Do you both want a family? How will you raise children? What if you can't conceive?
5. You feel like the best version of yourself around each other. You pump each other up, rather than making you feel like you're not enough.
6. He will value your needs and wants over time, making you a priority.
7. You're sexually attracted to one another.
8. He fights fairly, reaching a resolution without name-calling, contempt, or stonewalling (unwillingness to talk).
9. He gets along with your family and friends. You marry into someone's family and friends.
10. You trust him. He doesn't exaggerate or fudge.
I really thought I had these with my ex; perhaps he didn't feel the same about me.
I am looking to meet a man that Loves God , can communicate, hold the same values as i do, has a vision and loves me.
The short clips were great and sounded fine. They went perfectly well with the information. I enjoyed it but you can’t please everyone 🤷🏽♀️the *NSYNC clip was clever 😀
Love it, glad u liked it!
Agreed ❤🎉 i wonder if most that weren't a fan of the clips maybe just needed an intro to the clip describing it (the talking points already did, but a check in). ❤glad I'm not the only one who thought the clips were fun examples of his points 🎉😂
I thought so, too! Very funny! 😂
Yep we discussed it All
You have it all well stated
Yes, yes, yes, yes (ok with some differences in politics as it's respectful), yes, yes, we legit haven't "fought" yet because we are talking through problems when small, yes, yes. No wonder we are going through the stages as we are. He's said I'm his person, his life partner...
My ex spouse pushed me fast, and then was controlling and true evil in every possible way. So i KNOW fighting, i know the bad stuff that can happen too. Life won't always be rosy, but my current partner after 8 months of dating, knowing him for 25 years? I have no hesitations in trusting him.
I need to be able to ask questions. Even if they are difficult like something that my husband doesn’t want to talk about
Yes! I think this is important as well.
Hello Mat! I was wondering if you could advise on this as well: when your parents fail to like any of your partners without any particular or major reason such as violence, addiction etc. In those cases no boyfriend can actually build a relationship with them
Your parents are probably the problem if there's nothing wrong with your boyfriends...
Good listener
Do you have any advice Matt about men that have a child already and a woman with 5 kids and what things he would be thinking about when deciding to marry.
How about us that long distance relationship with 8 months now? I guess its really a trust, respect and giving unto God's will.
My man always makes jokes n make me laugh..tease me..respect my opinion..love me..
this video is so important send it to all your girl friends as its so true all of it, although in my case there s another type of men whoa re so nice so into u etc etc however they are not geniune and thats a bummer thing to find out, no indication of finding it out sooner, god give us strength to walk away as soon as we find out it was all an act of a nice mr right not true mr right,
At 59 years old I have yet to find a match as you describe, sadly. I wonder now if I ever will :-(
Does this video apply the same for when a man has met his wife?
Good question