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My husband has a lot of feminine energy which forces me to carry a large amount of masculine energy . He does not give me anything (gifts, surprises(gifts are one of my love languages)) and has no interest in being the provider. He has never planned a date even after I’ve told him that I want him to do so. I ended up buying our house and even taking care of him for a year and a half while he was unemployed. I long to be taken care of but I know it’s not going to happen with him unfortunately. I would advise single women that if you find yourself slipping into a more masculine role in a relationship due to insufficiencies with the man, leave. Be with someone who allows you to fully reside in your femininity.
I’m very sorry you’re dealing with this. Though I’m no relationship expert, I truly believe that there is something deeper than a feminine/masculine energy imbalance. He sounds like a low caliber, lazy man. And I’m very sorry you’re trapped in a situation like that. I hope you find happiness, you DESERVE it! You deserve being taken care of, you deserve a man that leads your family. You deserve a provider, so you can lean back, relax a little, and be happier as a woman. God bless you ❤️🙏🏻
@@andreaadrianza13 I agree he sounds like a narcissist in his sponging phase which happens just prior to their discard. Get out, run.... much love to you ❤
Put yourself in a mindset of "I'm curious". Not asking questions or standing there looking quizzical I Don't Mean That! ..But instead of jumping in to attend to something immediately just put yourself in a thoughtful "I'm curious what will happen" mode. Example... Like, he's sitting there and as your doing your thing or walking through the room , shift to a mindset of "I'm curious" That immediately puts you in a feminine energy and maybe it will change the dynamic that can allow him to act more masculine. You can be happy in this marriage. It just needs a little tweak. 🤗💙💜
This is so true. I used to be a serial dater and the relationship never worked and frustrating. When I learned to enjoy receiving and more relaxed, I found my match. The man who is everything I've been looking for as if he came alive straight from my wish book. With him it's effortless. No confusion, no hesitation, no mixed signals, no frustration. We are loving every day. We're engaged now and getting married next month.☺️
A woman once asked me how I got my husband to open the car door for me. "I let him" was a very simple and true answer. It's like the luggage - let them
I just learned this at age 64! I hesitate for a moment and let them open the door , pick up the package etc. I always want to help so I jump in. It feels so good to have little things done for me. I hardly ever experienced it with my former husband
My father was an abusive alcoholic who died when I was 12 years old. I have always had problems with knowing how to relate to men. Now at age 65, I still feel envious of women who have had loving fathers. Women who are loved by a father have more ability to receive and give love and affection. Your videos are helpful. Thanks for posting.
Lost my father at a very young age, was raised by a single mother and am an only child... needless to say, relationships have baffled me my entire life! I'm attractive and smart but haven't dated anyone for a year. I felt insecure and clingy so I stepped back from dating. Or the guys I found just weren't up front about what they wanted from me. I still have these feelings for an ex of mine, it has been a long time since we were together and I secretly hope and pray for his return. I believe in 🥰this love. It's real! I think we both healed our pain and overall fears of each other now, finally.... it's been a tough journey but I never forgot what true ❤️ love feels like. It's mutual!
I'm with you on this one! Whenever I see a dad [any age, color, race, or whatever] - loving on his kids [not just daughters] - I can't help but wonder how my own life would have been different, if I had a father who was not only present, but a loving + protective influence and support in my life... Because my mom and step father truly sucked at that!
I've never had the luxury of being cared for since childhood. As a child of alcoholic parents I had to be in charge. I'm 70 now and will definitely practice your teachings. Thank you so much 😊
Same. At 57, nearly 58..I'm just learning to Receive..to lean back & not take Control of every situation, particularly with a man. May've found my perfect one -- reunited after 24 years,...it's Magic. !!!
Same here. Can relate. One alcoholic parent, the other a self absorbed narcissist obsessed with her appearance and appearances (how our family compared to others). If I didn't take charge, I'd have nothing to eat or wear. I made good grades because I loved being at school. It's difficult taking a step back and letting others take the reigns.
1. Feel your body. Move your energy from your head to your heart. (2:28) 2. Enjoy receiving. (4:26) 3. Magnify your allowing. Take your hands off of the controls. (7:25)
I think it’s very important to point out: some women’s feminine energy was damaged by their mother during childhood. So, she must heal her feminine energy by doing intentional Work before she can embody her divine feminine energy. 💓✨ I was very very masculine my entire life, have a very very abusive and toxic mother…who really damaged me. I didn’t realize how much until I had my Spiritual awakening, I forgave her, healed and suddenly I became much more feminine and present. I became a better mother to my Kids. It’s all about healing. 💓✨🙏🥺
Wow you are so right! I have been there! Because of my mother I never felt worthwhile. As a result I overcompensated by doing everything for my partner, keeping me in masculine energy. It was a disaster. Learning how to get into my feminine energy meant I had to learn how to receive, and believe I was worth it. At age 63, I now have a man who loves to carry things, open doors, etc., making me feel so girly and soft. I tell him often how much I appreciate him, and how lucky I am to have such a thoughtful caring man. He loves to be touched, so I constantly touch him, and give him backward hugs...he melts into me everytime I touch him...I love this relationship because we can both be who we really are, a man and a woman. We are different..no matter what the extremists think.
I completely understand that. I am a gift giver and for someone to receive my gifts and loving it makes me feel so so great!!! Is this a form of that???
Masculine energy thanks to being divorced for 12 years. Forced to be the man otherwise we wouldn’t have survived. Hard habit to break now that I’m ready to meet someone.
Whenever I get into my head, I do some deep breathing and say some affirmations… I am worthy, I am enough, I am loveable. Something else that I do is put on some high-vibe, empowering music and dance 🥰! It’s like I’m being and promoting the romance and self-love that I want.
It's so empowering to be an honest, loving, and fun heart woman. There always seems to be a lineup waiting to be with you when you really don't need nobody.
For women who are single moms or were raised by a single mom, independence and self-reliance are ingrained in us. Shifting from provider to receiver is tough but something i will be working on!
Taking a compliment well and even returning one is deeply sexy. Dismissing compliments can be frustrating because the person is trying to show you what they appreciate and get closer to you. As hard as it may be sometimes, let them express those feelings and take them warmly.
After being single for a very long time, and now with a wonderful masculine man…The first thing I worked on was allowing him to open doors for me. This was automatically a reflex move that I would open my own doors. This one took some time but now I just pause and wait for him to open the door. Thank you for your videos Matt!
we've practiced chivalry since ages...then feminism murdered chivalry & women wondered what's making them miserable even after being "independent". & here we are using scientific theories to explain people why chivalry was the best...lol
So good! I've had to use my masculine energy to protect myself my entire life so it's my comfort zone... and I say this with humbleness but I'm a beautiful woman. Many times I attract feminine energy from men and i HATE IT. I finally figured out what was doing it but feminine energy is very hard to exude, though I'm actively working on it. This video helped me so much thank you! You LOVE WOMEN and help us without putting us down like many masculine teachers online. I thank you so much from the bottom of my heart ❤.
I have tears in my eyes. Tears of happiness! Everything you spoke on is sooooo true! Thank you so much! I am a woman who has has such masculine energy. This relationship I have been practicing being more in the feminine energy and I must say... Wow, how great it feels not being in control all the time and appreciating letting go and seeing the enjoyment he gets "taking control". This is by far the best relationship I have ever had...
Yeah, I’m mad masculine. I’m a young single mom, a chef, kitchen manager, and up and coming entrepreneur. I’m the only woman in charge in the restaurant, and I have to be in my masculine energy, but I do tap into the feminine at times. I deal with things with tact. I recently got a drastic haircut, so I got my brows done, put on mascara, and lipgloss, and a bright pink apron…. Even my delivery drivers took notice and said I looked pretty.
I lost my ability to receive from men when it became "I gave you something, you owe me sex". I don't want anything from anyone if there's strings attached, so I backed off completely from men and have yet to regain the ability to trust that they simply want to be giving for the sake of being a provider.
@Ex Life ahh. The implications that I don't take accountability for my actions, when actually I do. My own choices are why I am where I am. However, the bigger picture here is not being viewed. You yourself state that you have "been through several women".... Yuck. How accountable are you to the damage you left behind with them? Were you always clear with your intentions? I don't dress provocatively, am active and at a healthy weight, clean, don't smoke, drink, do drugs. Yet I can guarantee you if I give a man my number, in under a week he's sending pics of something I didn't want to see. Why are people finding that behavior acceptable? I don't, and because this seems to be on the rise, I've given up. I think is a societal problem, men aren't stand up men anymore and women degrade themselves and each other. I believe both genders were meant to compliment each other, be strong where the other is weak and work as a team. Instead it's a huge pissing match between both.
@@itsjustme5030 You're attempting to find a traditional man in a modern society. I've been there before and know how frustrating it can be. I wanted to be a traditional man, and find a good traditional woman. But that's like finding a needle in a haystack anymore. By my late 20s I gave up. And just accepted that most women are never go to be a traditional woman. I adapted and became a modern man. Which basically means that I have no moral principles or integrity in regards to the women that I date. I've never been married, and at this point have decided that I never want to get married. Unfortunately for our society, most men are doing the exact same thing that I am. Causal dating and the occasional hook up with no intentions of commitment. But women can't blame men for this. This is all the result of modern feminism.
@Judy Morrill Hmmmmm--in some/most instances ladies (young and old) need to beware of the men in church. From pastors, to deacons, to members of the church. SOME of these men are perverted, trifling whore mongers. I’m into the word and my relationship with God. However, the devil is busy in church and the church is just a building😳. Trust the Spirit that God sends to cover you--not the people in a building✌🏾
@@jaythenihilist4689 So--with the hook-ups and the casual dating--hope that you don’t catch something, give something to a woman like an STI or a BABY 🤨. The attitude that you express is what turns a guy (not a man) into a baby-daddy. Sounds like you need to change the circles that you travel in. There are plenty of young ladies out here who want to get married and want to be treated well and will treat a man well in return. Sounds to me like you also need to grow up. I can say this b/c I have been married to a giving man who takes care of me for the past 20 years. Along with the example that my husband and I provide, I watch these videos for my daughter’s sake so that she can be on the lookout for good men vs. immature narcissistic players. Oh, by the way-- just because everyone else does something, that means you should go out and do it also? The mark of a true man is someone who follows his own heart and searches until he finds what he wants to build or needs. Wilding out and having sex in the streets is not the way that one becomes a man (or a woman). Be careful ✌🏾.
For years now I've went to the door of our local store and if a man young or old holds that door I tell him with all sincerity "thank you sir! " over the years I've watched more and more men and women participate in this. And it all started by trying to teach my young fatherless son masculine manners. Courtesy and generosity of men goes a long way when ladies are receptive and grateful for there efforts. It's definitely a 2 way street.
Often we talk about external and physical appearance as embracing our femininity, but we don't nearly talk enough about living in our intuition and being in the moment 🙌🏽 Love, love, love this!
Omg! This really helped me to understand. I have been single for so long & finally found my person. But my masculine energy has been in full affect since day one. I’ve always been in control of everything because I’ve been single for so long. Opening my own doors, buying my own things & paying for my own this, my own that. Then when he came along, it was hard to be receptive. He had to stop me in my tracks whenever we approached a door to tell me not to open it. I have been so use to opening doors on my own, I never thought anything about it when we were together. He would point out things about me that were masculine & id get offended. But now I understand. There’s a lot of changes that need to be made on my part. Thank you! I truly enjoy your videos.
It's true! I was in a toxic relationship so I was in self-defense mode most of the time. I have met a lot of potential guys but things still didn't work out. Then I started to read about sexual polarity and began to feel my feminine energy again. I learned to lean back and let guys plan, accept their advances (as long as it feels ok to do so). I recently got reconnected to one of my dates, he actually reached out and we decided to meet up. The connection is definitely stronger than before, I realized I lead with masculine energy back then. Now I could feel thing has changed and I'm just gonna be in my receptive mode and let things happen organically.
Oh my gosh! This is what happened to me. . When I was younger I had a feminine energy. . My mum raised me to be tough, with the attitude that I can do anything I put my mind too. . And to take no sh!t, I built cars, houses and created everything I wanted . . Divorce left me with kids to raise and I had to provide and protect. . I took on the masculine role. . I've not been in a position to allow myself to drop it yet. . How can a mum that has to survive, think ahead on every single topic. . but inside I have been desperate to find someone that melds with me. Oh this makes my soul cry. . How sad this struggle has been. . I've attracted manly men when I let my guard down slightly in those single times and softened. . then put the masculine side up slowly during the relationship as they fail to meet different values etc. . Then I would have to step up again. . To be consistent. . Then it's like two lions in a cage up against eachother. There was no win. . Now I have to reset all this.
There was a foreign saying that goes " Different tunes for different moods". You know your circumstances and we arent. Advice are meant to be generic to be applied to so many people and even then they might work for some and not for other. You play 2 roles and most cant even do 1. Trail and error what works for u but remember people often give advice from their own experience and problems. If it work good if not well we are all humans and non of us have it all figured out yet.
You are so right. I've been single mom for last 16 years, 2 sons. Exactly same background as you, I took masculine energy and now when my sons are grown I'm trying to find my feminine energy. I think the most surprising for me is, that my sons are sometimes confused when I am asking them for help. I was always that tough mom. I wish you all the best, don't give up, you can do it! We can do it! 🌞
I can relate hunny...am naturally quite feminine and girly BUT living overseas by myself, managing to own a home solo, work hard and create a nice lifestyle for my little doggie and I requires masculine like mindset. Totes a challenge for us "independent women hey" Oddly enough I'm dating a successful divorced Dad of 2..who really likes that I'm girly but tough at the same time.
I appreciate how this is explained! As a woman who has lived independently for 11 years, it is so easy to gravitate towards masculine energy in a relationship. This advice has been so valuable in attracting and encouraging more masculine energy in the men I date.
Deliberately "slowing it down" really helps me Matt. Whatever I might be doing, occupying the present by observing it in an almost meditative way. Instead of rushing through tasks thinking about what comes next, I stay with the present task in an unhurried way.
I met a man last week, from a different ethnicity, and oh my the heartfelt and over the top compliments! It definitely changed my energy for a time and was a great feeling. As opposed to the man friend a couple weeks ago who told me I should take him out for dinner- that was an awful thing :(
Learn about 'love bombing'. It is VITAL to read, learn and believe. Of course it is possible this man is stable and sincere, but it's possible he is a narcissist. For your health, be observant. Wishing you ☮️
I have never been anyone's feminine ideal lo because I admired my Dad so much, it made me androgynous. I appreciate all I am learning here, Matt. My life is changing, and what I want from my life is changing. I want to let my feminine energy compliment the masculine energy now present in my life. This coaching for me is a positive game changer. Thank you!
So true Mat, I live these principles in my marriage, thanks to a book God kept in my path years ago when I was single. I was so far away and yet now, I am so grateful for how I came back to being a feminine woman and how wonderful it is to our marriage. My husband plans all our trips to details, takes care of items that needs fixing at home even if its paying someone to do ( I never recommend him to get someone because I was taught it makes him feel I don't trust his abilities), he carry luggages etc. He provides for us and I work too but my role is to ensure our house is in order even if he helps now and then. Ladies, let men help us, let's receive and let's thank and praise them.
Daily morning meditation has helped me reconnect to this beautiful, healing energy. I step outside every day to have my coffee or tea, upon waking, and allow nature to gently energize and wake me😊
45 years of mindfully using my eyes to greet my husband. We genuinely are so happy to be with each other . It has taken years of practice but so worth it .
I'm gonna try this again, I have a very hard time with my feminine side, after a bad marriage plus a career in which I worked and controlled men every day, I worked in a mens correctional facility for over twenty years, but listening to you I believe that I can work on my problem, since you have shown me how to switch my energy from my head to my body.... Thanks
Karen: “Life” doesn’t always permit women the choices to maintain our feminine traits and your text affirms the challenges you have faced. I was the sole caregiver for my disabled husband for 27 years before mercifully cancer ended his pain. I worked 2 jobs during these years to feed our 2 kids and pay my husband’s extensive medical expenses. Good luck in finding a loving partner you deserve.
@@Christine-jz1qj Thank you, but needless to say, I had the utmost respect at the correctional facility, my husband had to many insecurities of his own, he was illiterate and I was advancing in my career and he dispised it ,I finally had enough when I found out that he cleaned out our savings account while I was working out of town, so if I choose to find someone else, I will be extremely selective.
I used to be that woman carrying the luggages by myself and hating on the girls who manage to get a guy to do it for them. Now I totally enjoy letting guys help me. all it takes is a thank you and a smile 😊
I have been a small business owner for many years, and prior to that worked for a corporation. I learned masculine energy in order to advance in business. Now that I am retired, I am learning to dial into my feminine energy - helpful and important as I am actively dating - at 70. My masculine energy provided me many things that I am proud to have accomplished. My feminine energy brings me joy and I am very interested in seeing how becoming more intune and happy with my feminine side will affect the man who is taking me to dinner next Tuesday! Relying more on my feminine energy has had positive results with my other dates, too. So, we shall see! Thank you for the tips - they were reassuring.
Single mother’s get very stuck in masculine energy….We are often many times the sole providers, we are handling the home, working, raising the children…Getting it all done it’s difficult to let someone in…. To accept help, to let them in, and plan…🤷🏻♀️
I agree. I was there. My kids are grown. My youngest, 19 years old, just went on her own. You put up walls. It's time to trust again. I know you want that or you wouldn't be here. When you meet someone be bold and take a chance. Open up. The walls will come down, bit by bit. You will be ok, I promise. Then look after yourself. Someone very wise encouraged me to take time for myself. He said it was time to stop being a single mom and start simply being single. He is now a very special someone in my life. :)
The most attuned I have felt with my feminine energy was when I was with a strong, capable alpha male. He was so alpha that he took control of a SWAT team that went to his house because of a roommate situation that began before my bf got there. Anyway, it felt good, like I could relinquish control, and the balance was right.
"Receiving the gift honours the giver". I've heard you share this story before, Mat. In older videos. I see it was a profound lesson for you. Who wouldn't? It's an incredible lesson for me too. Love from Zambia ❤🇿🇲
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Thank you ❤️ very much for this video. I increase my feminine energy when I play. When I dance and sing. When I make jokes 😂 with my friends. When I draw and paint 🎨. When I do things with my hands. When I make my home 🏡 more beautiful. When I take care of my plants. When I talk with my beloved ones. When I inspire the light of the 🌞. When I tell "I love you ❤️"
I think there should be a balancing act of both energies, emotional maturity and emotional intelligence in both men and women. I am someone who is the mix of masculine energy( financially independent, can provide for family,have strong opinions,does not like to be controlled by anyone) and feminine energy(I cook and clean, I like art, dress making, crocheting, gardening, fashion and beauty, I love romance, candle light dinners and slow dancing,I love receiving and being taken care of every now and then). My better half is also a mix of both, sometimes he takes the lead, sometimes he let's me decide. He is also a provider, but doesn't mind receiving gifts. When I offer to cook for him, he says he wants to help and we both enjoy the moment together. He carries the luggage, opens jars and fixes things around the house but also doesn't shy away from getting emotional and vulnerable with me. I say thank you and please to him, he says the same to me. There are no unnecessary entitlement.I don't bruise his male ego and reject his efforts,and he doesn't take advantage of my submissiveness and femininity.And the bedroom is our playground, we both take turns to be sub and dom. I think females who are too mouthy, aggressive and masculine are naturally undesirable. But men who always want to be the leader and boss and don't let their women take charge sometimes are also undesirable. Good luck to the ladies!
I understand now... Enlightening! I have never STAYED with my masculine LOVES... 3 men I wanted to desperately marry in my LIFE, only to end up with men too feminine for me, I hate being a TEACHER to a love interest. WOW... learned something today!
I think the truest message is in the first 60 seconds: acting like exactly who you are is the best way to find a partner. Who says that because I'm female, I 'should' prefer a 'masculine' man? I'm a person who plans things, takes the lead, and drives. So is my husband. We don't overthink who's gonna be masculine or feminine today; we just try to love each other and not get all weird about stuff that doesn't matter.
What Helps me is learning; I don't have to fix everything or do everything. That way I can relax in the moment. I work on want I have too...but enjoy and learn from other people doing their version of whatever. You can enjoy your life and other people around you. If you let go of control and just try to learn let someone care for you.
When I let go and allow him to be a man, it naturally releases my feminine energy. Also, I love to wear something soft, pretty and beautiful. It puts an extra sway in my hips and makes me feel more dainty like a woman. You're so right! Men love feminine women. They love being the hero and making us smile. When I use to date, the flavor was to be independent. If you weren't, some frowned upon that. I almost forgot to unlock my femininity. Now that I'm re-entering the dating game, men yearn for feminine women. They LOVE a woman who takes care of herself and embrace her feminine side. Thank you the reminder. Appreciate a male's perspective.
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I'm with my husband going on to 40 years this year and you always make so much sense. Thank you. So interesting reading all this. I just nod along as it seems so true with us so far from the things I read.
Wonderful video Mat, such a gift. Also when women have to be in their masculine mode and get overstressed/anxious, they need to drop back into their feminine mode to recharge. Many women do not know, or practice this. So important for us ladies to rediscover the strength of our femininity, and like you say, relationships are so much better!
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Of all the videos I have watched on how to activate my feminine energy, this one has broken it down into the absolute nitty gritty for me and I am so grateful for your advice. I have been struggeling with it and finally I know where I have to make the changes. Thanks a stack Matt!!
My adulthood began in the era of the Women's Movement where we were instructed to be more like men, do the work of men, and to minimize femininity. I realize now that I was cheated out of the life that I should have had. I, a Driver Personality, took on a masculine job (and did it very well), did masculine chores and mental preparation, and showed the world how tough I was. Now I am working at being feminine. It may have come to me later in life but I will achieve in recapturing my feminine side and make that my main trait.
I've always been more in my masculine and have consciously been enhancing my feminine over the past couple years. I lift weights and my workouts are very masculine, so last year I made it my New Year's Resolution to learn Belly Dancing, and I started taking classes at my local gym. What a game changer. Just TELLING a man that you're taking Belly Dancing classes makes their faces light up with excitement! It's remarkable. And Belly Dance (or ANY dance) is obviously a great way to connect with your body, ladies! Belly Dance and Strip Pole dance are VERY feminine, and if you've always been super in your masculine (I've often been likened to Sarah Connor or Lara Croft), then I highly suggest one of these two types of dance!
@Ex Life I hear you, but I have to respectfully disagree. I had a friend who was classically trained in ballet that took strip pole dancing classes to improve certain aspects of her strength/performance, etc, and to help her get in touch with her femininity. She's gay, so it wasn't about attracting men at all. There are strip pole classes now offered in professional dance studios (ie, you don't need to go to a dirty strip club to learn) and at the end of the day, you don't have to tell ANYONE that you're doing it, if you don't want to. It's all about how it makes YOU feel inside. And for a lot of women, strip pole dance (which is very hard, btw), has helped them to get in touch with their under expressed feminine divine/feminine sexual energies. Whatever you choose to do, you gotta' do it for you, girl! Lol (:
LoveBees or SahKet You are right. Belly Dancing is so good and sexy. 😅❤ I just started to learn Kathak Dance (One of the Indian Classical dance forms) and it's really feminine, elegant and classy. 💕 Dancing does something so good to our bodies I can't even explain.
I remember wearing a dress while working on a job and struggling to close the door to this case. A man came up and helped me get the latch right. I thanked him for his help.
I have followed you for years and I have to say this is some of your best content yet. I love how you have evolved personally and then share your wisdom with us. Thank youuuuu!🙌
Wow this is so helpful. I’m an Aries woman and I’m always in my head energy(power) while trying to put off feminine energy. I’m going to practice this. Thanks so much!
Wow - this is one of the BEST explanations regarding masculine and feminine energies I've seen! Very well done, Matt, and thank you for the great advice! 😀
Interesting, I became a single parent and since my ex was unreliable, I had the financial responsibility too. Then my mom came to live with me (another dependent). I had to find new strengths so my feminine energy ended up on the back burner. But its not too late 😉
Practising receiving every day the smallest and most obvious things like the fresh air I breathe and the house I live in which is provider energy. I am thankful for what I heard in this video, thank you on behalf of all women.
I think by recieving gifts normally,i used to get so awkward,like oh he gave me a gift,i should give him even bigger gift,but one should recieve gift normally
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This is the only explanation of feminine vs masculinity that I've ever heard that makes real complete sense and is relatable. Bravo Mat👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I'm learning to receive more and be very intune with my body and take my hands of the steering wheel!
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I really needed to hear this, especially being a women in the army. I’ve struggled with getting in touch with my feminine energies. I need more videos like this.
This was so interesting to watch. Especially shifting the awareness into the body. Wow, I'm gonna remember that one. The stories are very powerful too. Triggered me emotionally. Truly beautiful and heart warming ♥
I have a friend who once told me, do not take away the pleasuer of someone who wants to help you by refusing their help. Great vieo and I have some work to do !!
What a beautiful video and I also learned a lot, since I do tempt to have that masculine energy. I’m working on letting my feminine energy come through when it comes to my love life.
I have found that choosing to love the home my husband has provided for myself and family really lifts him up. This video has made me realize my continually receiving this gift feeds his masculine energy (which of course I love to see!) I can see the effect my comments and attitudes about our home go staright to his heart. Our home is one of the biggest possessions he has provided and he loves to see me enjoying it.
I amplify my Feminine energy by being more soft spoken, being more present, taking life each day as it comes and allowing myself to be happy everyday. Being more aware of my mind and emotions allows me to be soft and mysterious.
After a month of dating my bf I realized he was a mess at conversing and had a tendency to bring out my masculine energy, his style of convo was usually debatable, I would say something and he would debate my subject matter even though I wasn't asking for his opinion, I was simply sharing. He would ask me a question and I would give an answer and then boom, he would contradict my answer as if mine was not good enough or as if he had to have the last say.. also during a conversation he said things to rush me to finish the conversation. It was the beginning of getting to know each other so I was trying to experience our sexiness and our romance but he was ruining it by his convo style. being aware of myself and the fact that I'm very feminine - I had enough- I said, ok if we're going to continue you need to understand that I'm very feminine and you conversing with me in a debatable way and in a somewhat combative way brings out my masculine side and that's not sexy and if a masculine woman is what you want - it's not going to be me- he agreed with me on all points, said he was not aware of it and no woman had ever put him in his place and now, I have the best BF. Sometimes you just gotta have the talk, but in a gentle way.
Sounds like an ISTJ. Im an ESTJ and get attracted to debates, rationale and discussing research. Being argumentative for sake of arguing is toxic. Im glad your discussion helped. I think everyone needs to leave when their partners dont take it seriously.
Amen, Mat Boggs. Love listening to your trips. I met the man of my dreams during the time of listening to your work & continue to listen as we grow in our relationship together. I find it helps me keep my in a place of what attracted him in the first place! One tip for me that helps is me being in the flow, it is good energy & keeps me happy. There is nothing not attractive about that!!! Thanks again. Maryann
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I am a woman with a tendency for more masculine energy and I have always loved to do partner dancing (salsa/tango, etc). I have realized over the years that it is one of the things that brings me in touch with my femininity...I always thought of it as relinquishing control...I think it is the ALLOWING and getting out of my mind and being in the present moment. Thank you for this insight!
I am the most tomboyish woman in my circle of friends I play around like the boys talk like them, i don't dress particularly super feminine I do a lot of leggings t-shirts and sneakers I do do my makeup every single day and do my hair I also love wearing perfume. However with my boyfriend I am something completely different we've been together for five almost six years and he says I am such a little girl when I'm with him he says I'm so sweet so soft so delicate so feminine with him he just can't understand how it is that I managed to switch so easily when I'm outside as to when I'm with him. And I don't even try to be like this with him it just occurs organically. He says he loves both sides of me. And I have to say I love it! I love being in his embrace . I am also told by those who know me ,not necessarily on a deep level but like acquaintances,that I have a very charismatic look to me and that my smile is super contagious. It's funny because I consider myself a person with very low self esteem for some reason people think I'm super confident and I radiate this charismatic energy. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
This describes me as well. I've had only one boyfriend, and we were together just under six months. The longer I was with him, the softer and more receptive and submissive I felt. He helped me move into more appreciation of the present. I look back and see that I should have taken him up on various offers of transportation, but I was locked into DIY mode as a long-term single. I miss him and his influence.
Being a mother of 5, also a widow...I've had to use my masculine energy to help me provide with my 5 young kids. Now I have a bf, it's difficult to tap into the feminine energy. Thanks for the vid...
@@MahaswetaMDas seriously? And some wonder where they can find a strong, kind, and giving man? Stop with the toxic masculinity....what about the toxic feminist...I'm speaking as a woman happily married to an incredible man. I have a little boy who is growing up in a world where men are vilified and women are victimized. But if you look at the problem closely it is toxic feminity that is creating destruction "in mother nature". Without men and women working together building families the very foundation of society will crumble.
Wow! How you wrapped this up at the end, really sealed in my mind the beauty of a relationship, where both parties are allowing each other be their best at the right times... Cohesive! ❤️ Thanks! I really enjoyed and appreciated this video!
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@@Rodrigo-ly6up all of us have healing powers inside ourselves. It’s a inner process of wisdom. I don’t need anyone to lead my life. These Nigerian numbers are a scam.
natural provider myself. i get into a relationship and i will start giving giving giving thats me. sometimes the guy might think im doing all this to win him over but thats not the case. praying to get a guy who gives gives gives and will be the feminine receiver
@@drip4543 because we are giving just to see the joy in others! It’s a gift 💕💕💕 but our society is sick and see this as a weakness. I know I’m not weak, I’m full of love. Doesn’t matter for me what others think. We just need to balance it and give this for right people 🥰🥰🥰
Move your consciousness to your heart center. Be in the present moment. FEEL...Feel the moment... Enjoy receiving, let him do things..Receiving the gift honors the giver. Allow...take your hands off the controls. Take your mind OFF the result. Receive what he creates and go with the flow.
Heart coherence meditation is so amazing to drop you into your body. Also a daily gratitude practice is wonderful. It makes you become more present as you naturally become more grateful and appreciative of everything 💖
I knew the principle of masculine & feminine energies, but he explained this so well with great examples. These energies are always present in relationships; we just have to understand how they function and how to use them.
It’s has been very hard for me to not be in control. I have been a soldier in The Royal Danish army for (almost) 35 years. Only now have I found a man who is really strong and masculine. After running my former boyfriends over like a tank, I now find myself in a loving relationship with an equal partner. He gives me gifts and I accept and Thank him from the bottom of my heart. Its taken a looooong time. Britt from Copenhagen Denmark 🇩🇰
I’m so glad I’m learning how to be feminine. It’s definitely a study worth all the time. I think my generation grew up trying to be like one of the homies. But in reality it never worked as far as in a relationship. I would love to see one of these videos on humor. What is appropriate as far as teasing a man. I recently felt like teasing him wasn’t very feminine because I can be pretty harsh sometimes.
Thank you so much Mat.......that is one of the best descriptions of being in either energy I have heard. I appreciate all that you do to help others to learn how to be in either of their energies and how and why. Great job! I love this video presentation and your examples and explanations. Have a beautiful day!~Carla
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My husband has a lot of feminine energy which forces me to carry a large amount of masculine energy . He does not give me anything (gifts, surprises(gifts are one of my love languages)) and has no interest in being the provider. He has never planned a date even after I’ve told him that I want him to do so. I ended up buying our house and even taking care of him for a year and a half while he was unemployed. I long to be taken care of but I know it’s not going to happen with him unfortunately. I would advise single women that if you find yourself slipping into a more masculine role in a relationship due to insufficiencies with the man, leave. Be with someone who allows you to fully reside in your femininity.
That is draining and has nothing to do with femininity
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I’m very sorry you’re dealing with this. Though I’m no relationship expert, I truly believe that there is something deeper than a feminine/masculine energy imbalance.
He sounds like a low caliber, lazy man. And I’m very sorry you’re trapped in a situation like that. I hope you find happiness, you DESERVE it! You deserve being taken care of, you deserve a man that leads your family. You deserve a provider, so you can lean back, relax a little, and be happier as a woman.
God bless you ❤️🙏🏻
@@andreaadrianza13 I agree he sounds like a narcissist in his sponging phase which happens just prior to their discard. Get out, run.... much love to you ❤
Put yourself in a mindset of "I'm curious". Not asking questions or standing there looking quizzical I Don't Mean That! ..But instead of jumping in to attend to something immediately just put yourself in a thoughtful "I'm curious what will happen" mode. Example... Like, he's sitting there and as your doing your thing or walking through the room , shift to a mindset of "I'm curious" That immediately puts you in a feminine energy and maybe it will change the dynamic that can allow him to act more masculine. You can be happy in this marriage. It just needs a little tweak. 🤗💙💜
"receiving the gift honors the giver"
I love that!
The best and the truth !!!!!!
"RECEIVING THE GIFTS HONORS THE GIVER. "
I LOVE THAT !
I guess in the future when my customer wants to tip me I always refused never thinking I'm not honoring them. I will accept from now on.
Ofc you love that😅
The Noobest Girl -. I love that too
This is so true. I used to be a serial dater and the relationship never worked and frustrating. When I learned to enjoy receiving and more relaxed, I found my match. The man who is everything I've been looking for as if he came alive straight from my wish book. With him it's effortless. No confusion, no hesitation, no mixed signals, no frustration. We are loving every day. We're engaged now and getting married next month.☺️
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Congratulations❤️Vicki
Happy for you
Congratulations Vicki
Congratulations! That's so Inspiring to hear!!! I can't wait to be in that kind of relationship too!
3 things women find attractive in men. Maturity, loyalty, and Trust. Beautiful!
Straight up
A woman once asked me how I got my husband to open the car door for me. "I let him" was a very simple and true answer. It's like the luggage - let them
Hello Sami, how are you ?
An easy way to let them know you are open to it is ask them to, ask would you mind opening the door for me? Then you will have an answer
@@lisareid7043 I don't when I will be able to get myself to ask, it's so difficult for me
@Sunflower thanks for the tip. Will practice that
I just learned this at age 64! I hesitate for a moment and let them open the door , pick up the package etc. I always want to help so I jump in. It feels so good to have little things done for me. I hardly ever experienced it with my former husband
My father was an abusive alcoholic who died when I was 12 years old. I have always had problems with knowing how to relate to men. Now at age 65, I still feel envious of women who have had loving fathers. Women who are loved by a father have more ability to receive and give love and affection. Your videos are helpful. Thanks for posting.
Lost my father at a very young age, was raised by a single mother and am an only child... needless to say, relationships have baffled me my entire life! I'm attractive and smart but haven't dated anyone for a year. I felt insecure and clingy so I stepped back from dating. Or the guys I found just weren't up front about what they wanted from me. I still have these feelings for an ex of mine, it has been a long time since we were together and I secretly hope and pray for his return. I believe in 🥰this love. It's real! I think we both healed our pain and overall fears of each other now, finally.... it's been a tough journey but I never forgot what true ❤️ love feels like. It's mutual!
@@ericaxo768 I pray too that you find happiness and love. Life is very lonely without intimacy with others.
@@sharonc9259 why, thank you 😊 I know I will step back and be lead by my heart instead. ❤️ best wishes on your path dear. ✨️ time to receive 🙌
I can relate! 😞
I'm with you on this one! Whenever I see a dad [any age, color, race, or whatever] - loving on his kids [not just daughters] - I can't help but wonder how my own life would have been different, if I had a father who was not only present, but a loving + protective influence and support in my life... Because my mom and step father truly sucked at that!
I've never had the luxury of being cared for since childhood. As a child of alcoholic parents I had to be in charge. I'm 70 now and will definitely practice your teachings. Thank you so much 😊
You can do this Marie!!!
Same. At 57, nearly 58..I'm just learning to Receive..to lean back & not take Control of every situation, particularly with a man.
May've found my perfect one -- reunited after 24 years,...it's Magic. !!!
Same here. Can relate. One alcoholic parent, the other a self absorbed narcissist obsessed with her appearance and appearances (how our family compared to others). If I didn't take charge, I'd have nothing to eat or wear. I made good grades because I loved being at school. It's difficult taking a step back and letting others take the reigns.
@@suzanne4396 I wish you the best of luck! Here's to magic! 😏
@@whatdoyoumeantheresnocoffe9141 I hope everything gets better for you now and on :)
1. Feel your body. Move your energy from your head to your heart. (2:28)
2. Enjoy receiving. (4:26)
3. Magnify your allowing. Take your hands off of the controls. (7:25)
Thank you for posting…many blessings and love to you.
Yeeess bed is ore enjoyable this way!
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I feel my body … enjoy receiving
Magnify allowing I take my hands 🙌 off controls
I think it’s very important to point out: some women’s feminine energy was damaged by their mother during childhood. So, she must heal her feminine energy by doing intentional
Work before she can embody her divine feminine energy. 💓✨ I was very very masculine my entire life, have a very very abusive and toxic mother…who really damaged me. I didn’t realize how much until I had my
Spiritual awakening, I forgave her, healed and suddenly I became much more feminine and present. I became a better mother to my
Kids. It’s all about healing. 💓✨🙏🥺
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Wow you are so right! I have been there! Because of my mother I never felt worthwhile. As a result I overcompensated by doing everything for my partner, keeping me in masculine energy. It was a disaster. Learning how to get into my feminine energy meant I had to learn how to receive, and believe I was worth it. At age 63, I now have a man who loves to carry things, open doors, etc., making me feel so girly and soft. I tell him often how much I appreciate him, and how lucky I am to have such a thoughtful caring man. He loves to be touched, so I constantly touch him, and give him backward hugs...he melts into me everytime I touch him...I love this relationship because we can both be who we really are, a man and a woman. We are different..no matter what the extremists think.
Is it ok to ask you what she did? I'm kinda in the same situation so I'd appreciate it!
So true! A lot of our personality traits were learned as kids through generations.
Ditto.And healing can happen...we have so many tools available.Wonderful.to hear your success Rebecca.x
"I am gonna receive what you are creating, I am gonna allow this thing to happen and I am gonna go with the flow."WOW! So powerful, thank you
"Receiving the gift, honours the giver".
I can connect you to someone who help me attract my ex back
Beautiful thought.
But, when you are a giver it is so hard to not be the giver. Great advice though!
@@PamelaH_HappyVibes 😁🦋🌼
I completely understand that. I am a gift giver and for someone to receive my gifts and loving it makes me feel so so great!!! Is this a form of that???
I believe I lost my feminity once I had to step up from a failed marriage. I am trying to find myself again. Ty great topic.
Hello Ann❤
How you doing dear
@@cedricorval4021 get out of here. Your hello to all these women is creepy. @matt boggs this guy needs to be blocked.
@@reikidreams9265 i don't have any problem with you dear and have not done you wrong
I hear ya on this one ❤️
Letting go of control has empowered my femininity and I love it.
I can connect you to someone who help me attract my ex back
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I have masculine energy, no wonder all I attract is men with feminine energy
i know.. i just want to stay generally masculine with even an extra manly guy
@@zannabashir4693 no.
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Can relate too
Masculine energy thanks to being divorced for 12 years. Forced to be the man otherwise we wouldn’t have survived. Hard habit to break now that I’m ready to meet someone.
Whenever I get into my head, I do some deep breathing and say some affirmations… I am worthy, I am enough, I am loveable. Something else that I do is put on some high-vibe, empowering music and dance 🥰! It’s like I’m being and promoting the romance and self-love that I want.
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@@johnkehinde1534 BS
It's so empowering to be an honest, loving, and fun heart woman. There always seems to be a lineup waiting to be with you when you really don't need nobody.
For women who are single moms or were raised by a single mom, independence and self-reliance are ingrained in us. Shifting from provider to receiver is tough but something i will be working on!
You are all of those things! You’ll meet a man who see’s them in you as well :)
Taking a compliment well and even returning one is deeply sexy. Dismissing compliments can be frustrating because the person is trying to show you what they appreciate and get closer to you. As hard as it may be sometimes, let them express those feelings and take them warmly.
This is a big one....hard to do but you are totally on point with what you are saying....
I value your input; thank you.
It brings that good good feeling no one can explain
After being single for a very long time, and now with a wonderful masculine man…The first thing I worked on was allowing him to open doors for me. This was automatically a reflex move that I would open my own doors. This one took some time but now I just pause and wait for him to open the door. Thank you for your videos Matt!
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we've practiced chivalry since ages...then feminism murdered chivalry & women wondered what's making them miserable even after being "independent".
& here we are using scientific theories to explain people why chivalry was the best...lol
So good! I've had to use my masculine energy to protect myself my entire life so it's my comfort zone... and I say this with humbleness but I'm a beautiful woman. Many times I attract feminine energy from men and i HATE IT. I finally figured out what was doing it but feminine energy is very hard to exude, though I'm actively working on it. This video helped me so much thank you! You LOVE WOMEN and help us without putting us down like many masculine teachers online. I thank you so much from the bottom of my heart ❤.
I feel this so much
😭 I understand this so much!
I am an alpha and this video helped me realize that I am giving more of masculine energy than my feminine innate one. Kudos!
I have tears in my eyes. Tears of happiness! Everything you spoke on is sooooo true! Thank you so much! I am a woman who has has such masculine energy. This relationship I have been practicing being more in the feminine energy and I must say... Wow, how great it feels not being in control all the time and appreciating letting go and seeing the enjoyment he gets "taking control". This is by far the best relationship I have ever had...
Yeah, I’m mad masculine. I’m a young single mom, a chef, kitchen manager, and up and coming entrepreneur. I’m the only woman in charge in the restaurant, and I have to be in my masculine energy, but I do tap into the feminine at times. I deal with things with tact.
I recently got a drastic haircut, so I got my brows done, put on mascara, and lipgloss, and a bright pink apron…. Even my delivery drivers took notice and said I looked pretty.
I lost my ability to receive from men when it became "I gave you something, you owe me sex". I don't want anything from anyone if there's strings attached, so I backed off completely from men and have yet to regain the ability to trust that they simply want to be giving for the sake of being a provider.
@Ex Life ahh. The implications that I don't take accountability for my actions, when actually I do. My own choices are why I am where I am. However, the bigger picture here is not being viewed. You yourself state that you have "been through several women".... Yuck. How accountable are you to the damage you left behind with them? Were you always clear with your intentions? I don't dress provocatively, am active and at a healthy weight, clean, don't smoke, drink, do drugs. Yet I can guarantee you if I give a man my number, in under a week he's sending pics of something I didn't want to see. Why are people finding that behavior acceptable? I don't, and because this seems to be on the rise, I've given up. I think is a societal problem, men aren't stand up men anymore and women degrade themselves and each other. I believe both genders were meant to compliment each other, be strong where the other is weak and work as a team. Instead it's a huge pissing match between both.
@@itsjustme5030 You're attempting to find a traditional man in a modern society. I've been there before and know how frustrating it can be. I wanted to be a traditional man, and find a good traditional woman. But that's like finding a needle in a haystack anymore. By my late 20s I gave up. And just accepted that most women are never go to be a traditional woman. I adapted and became a modern man. Which basically means that I have no moral principles or integrity in regards to the women that I date. I've never been married, and at this point have decided that I never want to get married. Unfortunately for our society, most men are doing the exact same thing that I am. Causal dating and the occasional hook up with no intentions of commitment. But women can't blame men for this. This is all the result of modern feminism.
@Judy Morrill Hmmmmm--in some/most instances ladies (young and old) need to beware of the men in church. From pastors, to deacons, to members of the church. SOME of these men are perverted, trifling whore mongers. I’m into the word and my relationship with God. However, the devil is busy in church and the church is just a building😳. Trust the Spirit that God sends to cover you--not the people in a building✌🏾
@@jaythenihilist4689 So--with the hook-ups and the casual dating--hope that you don’t catch something, give something to a woman like an STI or a BABY 🤨. The attitude that you express is what turns a guy (not a man) into a baby-daddy. Sounds like you need to change the circles that you travel in. There are plenty of young ladies out here who want to get married and want to be treated well and will treat a man well in return. Sounds to me like you also need to grow up. I can say this b/c I have been married to a giving man who takes care of me for the past 20 years. Along with the example that my husband and I provide, I watch these videos for my daughter’s sake so that she can be on the lookout for good men vs. immature narcissistic players. Oh, by the way-- just because everyone else does something, that means you should go out and do it also? The mark of a true man is someone who follows his own heart and searches until he finds what he wants to build or needs. Wilding out and having sex in the streets is not the way that one becomes a man (or a woman). Be careful ✌🏾.
Amen,
For years now I've went to the door of our local store and if a man young or old holds that door I tell him with all sincerity "thank you sir! " over the years I've watched more and more men and women participate in this. And it all started by trying to teach my young fatherless son masculine manners. Courtesy and generosity of men goes a long way when ladies are receptive and grateful for there efforts. It's definitely a 2 way street.
So BEAUTIFUL! Almost made me tear up when he said, "Receiving the gift, honors the giver." So much
firmness, but yet full of humility! 🤗💯❤
Often we talk about external and physical appearance as embracing our femininity, but we don't nearly talk enough about living in our intuition and being in the moment 🙌🏽
Love, love, love this!
*Your impression of the woman marching with her suitcases is hysterical* 😭
*We ALLLLLLLLLL know a woman like this*
Omg! This really helped me to understand. I have been single for so long & finally found my person. But my masculine energy has been in full affect since day one. I’ve always been in control of everything because I’ve been single for so long. Opening my own doors, buying my own things & paying for my own this, my own that. Then when he came along, it was hard to be receptive. He had to stop me in my tracks whenever we approached a door to tell me not to open it. I have been so use to opening doors on my own, I never thought anything about it when we were together. He would point out things about me that were masculine & id get offended. But now I understand. There’s a lot of changes that need to be made on my part. Thank you! I truly enjoy your videos.
It's true! I was in a toxic relationship so I was in self-defense mode most of the time. I have met a lot of potential guys but things still didn't work out. Then I started to read about sexual polarity and began to feel my feminine energy again. I learned to lean back and let guys plan, accept their advances (as long as it feels ok to do so).
I recently got reconnected to one of my dates, he actually reached out and we decided to meet up. The connection is definitely stronger than before, I realized I lead with masculine energy back then. Now I could feel thing has changed and I'm just gonna be in my receptive mode and let things happen organically.
"Let it happen, organically." Great concept! 👍 enjoy receiving:)
Oh my gosh! This is what happened to me. . When I was younger I had a feminine energy. . My mum raised me to be tough, with the attitude that I can do anything I put my mind too. . And to take no sh!t, I built cars, houses and created everything I wanted . . Divorce left me with kids to raise and I had to provide and protect. . I took on the masculine role. . I've not been in a position to allow myself to drop it yet. . How can a mum that has to survive, think ahead on every single topic. . but inside I have been desperate to find someone that melds with me. Oh this makes my soul cry. . How sad this struggle has been. . I've attracted manly men when I let my guard down slightly in those single times and softened. . then put the masculine side up slowly during the relationship as they fail to meet different values etc. . Then I would have to step up again. . To be consistent. . Then it's like two lions in a cage up against eachother. There was no win. .
Now I have to reset all this.
There was a foreign saying that goes " Different tunes for different moods". You know your circumstances and we arent. Advice are meant to be generic to be applied to so many people and even then they might work for some and not for other. You play 2 roles and most cant even do 1.
Trail and error what works for u but remember people often give advice from their own experience and problems. If it work good if not well we are all humans and non of us have it all figured out yet.
You are so right. I've been single mom for last 16 years, 2 sons. Exactly same background as you, I took masculine energy and now when my sons are grown I'm trying to find my feminine energy. I think the most surprising for me is, that my sons are sometimes confused when I am asking them for help. I was always that tough mom. I wish you all the best, don't give up, you can do it! We can do it! 🌞
Yep I understand, I'm a single mom too!
I can relate hunny...am naturally quite feminine and girly BUT living overseas by myself, managing to own a home solo, work hard and create a nice lifestyle for my little doggie and I requires masculine like mindset.
Totes a challenge for us "independent women hey"
Oddly enough I'm dating a successful divorced Dad of 2..who really likes that I'm girly but tough at the same time.
Where was your dad during your youth?
I appreciate how this is explained! As a woman who has lived independently for 11 years, it is so easy to gravitate towards masculine energy in a relationship. This advice has been so valuable in attracting and encouraging more masculine energy in the men I date.
Hello Aubrey❤
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Deliberately "slowing it down" really helps me Matt. Whatever I might be doing, occupying the present by observing it in an almost meditative way. Instead of rushing through tasks thinking about what comes next, I stay with the present task in an unhurried way.
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This is so hard for me.
I met a man last week, from a different ethnicity, and oh my the heartfelt and over the top compliments! It definitely changed my energy for a time and was a great feeling. As opposed to the man friend a couple weeks ago who told me I should take him out for dinner- that was an awful thing :(
What ethnicity my ex was Arab and my current boyfriend is indian they are different from white men
@@kimmichaud4064 White men are GOOD !!!!
Learn about 'love bombing'. It is VITAL to read, learn and believe. Of course it is possible this man is stable and sincere, but it's possible he is a narcissist. For your health, be observant. Wishing you ☮️
Love white men.
I have never been anyone's feminine ideal lo because I admired my Dad so much, it made me androgynous. I appreciate all I am learning here, Matt. My life is changing, and what I want from my life is changing. I want to let my feminine energy compliment the masculine energy now present in my life. This coaching for me is a positive game changer. Thank you!
So true Mat, I live these principles in my marriage, thanks to a book God kept in my path years ago when I was single. I was so far away and yet now, I am so grateful for how I came back to being a feminine woman and how wonderful it is to our marriage. My husband plans all our trips to details, takes care of items that needs fixing at home even if its paying someone to do ( I never recommend him to get someone because I was taught it makes him feel I don't trust his abilities), he carry luggages etc. He provides for us and I work too but my role is to ensure our house is in order even if he helps now and then.
Ladies, let men help us, let's receive and let's thank and praise them.
Daily morning meditation has helped me reconnect to this beautiful, healing energy. I step outside every day to have my coffee or tea, upon waking, and allow nature to gently energize and wake me😊
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Learning the difference between masculine and feminine energy and how to lead in a dynamic way is key to cultivating attraction in relationships.
Nurture behaviour, Warm heart and supportive.
Beauty is complimentary.
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45 years of mindfully using my eyes to greet my husband. We genuinely are so happy to be with each other . It has taken years of practice but so worth it .
I'm gonna try this again, I have a very hard time with my feminine side, after a bad marriage plus a career in which I worked and controlled men every day, I worked in a mens correctional facility for over twenty years, but listening to you I believe that I can work on my problem, since you have shown me how to switch my energy from my head to my body.... Thanks
Karen: “Life” doesn’t always permit women the choices to maintain our feminine traits and your text affirms the challenges you have faced. I was the sole caregiver for my disabled husband for 27 years before mercifully cancer ended his pain. I worked 2 jobs during these years to feed our 2 kids and pay my husband’s extensive medical expenses.
Good luck in finding a loving partner you deserve.
@@Christine-jz1qj Thank you, but needless to say, I had the utmost respect at the correctional facility, my husband had to many insecurities of his own, he was illiterate and I was advancing in my career and he dispised it ,I finally had enough when I found out that he cleaned out our savings account while I was working out of town, so if I choose to find someone else, I will be extremely selective.
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@@Christine-jz1qj this surely was not easy I whish you the very best now ☀️🌼
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What a fantastic message. I know that when I get into my feminine energy, I feel so good and I feel happier.
Hello Sofia❤
Same here. Especially in a romantic relarionship. All my past years of frustration and anger and disappointment makes so much sense now....!
I used to be that woman carrying the luggages by myself and hating on the girls who manage to get a guy to do it for them. Now I totally enjoy letting guys help me. all it takes is a thank you and a smile 😊
I have been a small business owner for many years, and prior to that worked for a corporation. I learned masculine energy in order to advance in business. Now that I am retired, I am learning to dial into my feminine energy - helpful and important as I am actively dating - at 70. My masculine energy provided me many things that I am proud to have accomplished. My feminine energy brings me joy and I am very interested in seeing how becoming more intune and happy with my feminine side will affect the man who is taking me to dinner next Tuesday! Relying more on my feminine energy has had positive results with my other dates, too. So, we shall see! Thank you for the tips - they were reassuring.
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Oh Nina, you need to consider mentoring a friend of mines that owns a business.
Single mother’s get very stuck in masculine energy….We are often many times the sole providers, we are handling the home, working, raising the children…Getting it all done it’s difficult to let someone in…. To accept help, to let them in, and plan…🤷🏻♀️
I feel ya, kids are grown up, now I can get back to my feminine self.
I agree. I was there. My kids are grown. My youngest, 19 years old, just went on her own. You put up walls. It's time to trust again. I know you want that or you wouldn't be here. When you meet someone be bold and take a chance. Open up. The walls will come down, bit by bit. You will be ok, I promise. Then look after yourself. Someone very wise encouraged me to take time for myself. He said it was time to stop being a single mom and start simply being single. He is now a very special someone in my life. :)
Nothing to do with being a mom Woman without children have to handle many things too Stop making it all about you Always want to be so superior 🥱
The most attuned I have felt with my feminine energy was when I was with a strong, capable alpha male. He was so alpha that he took control of a SWAT team that went to his house because of a roommate situation that began before my bf got there. Anyway, it felt good, like I could relinquish control, and the balance was right.
"Receiving the gift honours the giver". I've heard you share this story before, Mat. In older videos. I see it was a profound lesson for you. Who wouldn't? It's an incredible lesson for me too. Love from Zambia ❤🇿🇲
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Thank you ❤️ very much for this video. I increase my feminine energy when I play. When I dance and sing. When I make jokes 😂 with my friends. When I draw and paint 🎨. When I do things with my hands. When I make my home 🏡 more beautiful. When I take care of my plants. When I talk with my beloved ones. When I inspire the light of the 🌞. When I tell "I love you ❤️"
I think there should be a balancing act of both energies, emotional maturity and emotional intelligence in both men and women. I am someone who is the mix of masculine energy( financially independent, can provide for family,have strong opinions,does not like to be controlled by anyone) and feminine energy(I cook and clean, I like art, dress making, crocheting, gardening, fashion and beauty, I love romance, candle light dinners and slow dancing,I love receiving and being taken care of every now and then). My better half is also a mix of both, sometimes he takes the lead, sometimes he let's me decide. He is also a provider, but doesn't mind receiving gifts. When I offer to cook for him, he says he wants to help and we both enjoy the moment together. He carries the luggage, opens jars and fixes things around the house but also doesn't shy away from getting emotional and vulnerable with me.
I say thank you and please to him, he says the same to me. There are no unnecessary entitlement.I don't bruise his male ego and reject his efforts,and he doesn't take advantage of my submissiveness and femininity.And the bedroom is our playground, we both take turns to be sub and dom. I think females who are too mouthy, aggressive and masculine are naturally undesirable. But men who always want to be the leader and boss and don't let their women take charge sometimes are also undesirable. Good luck to the ladies!
This is a more balanced view. Thank you.
I understand now... Enlightening! I have never STAYED with my masculine LOVES... 3 men I wanted to desperately marry in my LIFE, only to end up with men too feminine for me, I hate being a TEACHER to a love interest. WOW... learned something today!
Im absolutely the same, married weak men.
I think the truest message is in the first 60 seconds: acting like exactly who you are is the best way to find a partner.
Who says that because I'm female, I 'should' prefer a 'masculine' man? I'm a person who plans things, takes the lead, and drives. So is my husband. We don't overthink who's gonna be masculine or feminine today; we just try to love each other and not get all weird about stuff that doesn't matter.
I couldn't agree more. Don't let this man or anyone else tell you who to be. Be you.
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What Helps me is learning; I don't have to fix everything or do everything.
That way I can relax in the moment. I work on want I have too...but enjoy and learn from other people doing their version of whatever.
You can enjoy your life and other people around you. If you let go of control and just try to learn let someone care for you.
When I let go and allow him to be a man, it naturally releases my feminine energy. Also, I love to wear something soft, pretty and beautiful. It puts an extra sway in my hips and makes me feel more dainty like a woman.
You're so right! Men love feminine women. They love being the hero and making us smile. When I use to date, the flavor was to be independent. If you weren't, some frowned upon that. I almost forgot to unlock my femininity. Now that I'm re-entering the dating game, men yearn for feminine women. They LOVE a woman who takes care of herself and embrace her feminine side. Thank you the reminder. Appreciate a male's perspective.
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I'm with my husband going on to 40 years this year and you always make so much sense. Thank you. So interesting reading all this. I just nod along as it seems so true with us so far from the things I read.
Thank you! That hit me right in the heart. Self reflection took place. I am aware now.
You are the best! Keep doing what you are doing. You are changing so many people's life including myself. Blessings to you and family!
Feel your Body.
Enjoy Receiving.
Magnify your Allowing.
Lol...BRA. is the acronym to remember! Body, Receiving, Allowing.
LOL!!!! 😂 I’ll surely remember that!! Omg 😆
Thank you.
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Or FEM
Omg. FEM BRA. You guys are genius. 🤣
Wonderful video Mat, such a gift. Also when women have to be in their masculine mode and get overstressed/anxious, they need to drop back into their feminine mode to recharge. Many women do not know, or practice this. So important for us ladies to rediscover the strength of our femininity, and like you say, relationships are so much better!
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Of all the videos I have watched on how to activate my feminine energy, this one has broken it down into the absolute nitty gritty for me and I am so grateful for your advice. I have been struggeling with it and finally I know where I have to make the changes. Thanks a stack Matt!!
Hello Liza, how are you doing ?
My adulthood began in the era of the Women's Movement where we were instructed to be more like men, do the work of men, and to minimize femininity. I realize now that I was cheated out of the life that I should have had. I, a Driver Personality, took on a masculine job (and did it very well), did masculine chores and mental preparation, and showed the world how tough I was. Now I am working at being feminine. It may have come to me later in life but I will achieve in recapturing my feminine side and make that my main trait.
I've always been more in my masculine and have consciously been enhancing my feminine over the past couple years. I lift weights and my workouts are very masculine, so last year I made it my New Year's Resolution to learn Belly Dancing, and I started taking classes at my local gym. What a game changer. Just TELLING a man that you're taking Belly Dancing classes makes their faces light up with excitement! It's remarkable. And Belly Dance (or ANY dance) is obviously a great way to connect with your body, ladies! Belly Dance and Strip Pole dance are VERY feminine, and if you've always been super in your masculine (I've often been likened to Sarah Connor or Lara Croft), then I highly suggest one of these two types of dance!
Thanks a lot 🌼
GREAT Advice! Thank you 😊👍🏻
I do ballroom dance and totally agree with you, it's a wonderful way to get in touch with your body
@Ex Life I hear you, but I have to respectfully disagree. I had a friend who was classically trained in ballet that took strip pole dancing classes to improve certain aspects of her strength/performance, etc, and to help her get in touch with her femininity. She's gay, so it wasn't about attracting men at all. There are strip pole classes now offered in professional dance studios (ie, you don't need to go to a dirty strip club to learn) and at the end of the day, you don't have to tell ANYONE that you're doing it, if you don't want to. It's all about how it makes YOU feel inside. And for a lot of women, strip pole dance (which is very hard, btw), has helped them to get in touch with their under expressed feminine divine/feminine sexual energies. Whatever you choose to do, you gotta' do it for you, girl! Lol (:
LoveBees or SahKet You are right. Belly Dancing is so good and sexy. 😅❤ I just started to learn Kathak Dance (One of the Indian Classical dance forms) and it's really feminine, elegant and classy. 💕 Dancing does something so good to our bodies I can't even explain.
I remember wearing a dress while working on a job and struggling to close the door to this case. A man came up and helped me get the latch right. I thanked him for his help.
I have followed you for years and I have to say this is some of your best content yet. I love how you have evolved personally and then share your wisdom with us. Thank youuuuu!🙌
You are right. Well said.
I was raised by a strong mom. And I have always been on guard, taking care of things, and now know why relationships never seem to work out
Wow this is so helpful. I’m an Aries woman and I’m always in my head energy(power) while trying to put off feminine energy. I’m going to practice this. Thanks so much!
Wow - this is one of the BEST explanations regarding masculine and feminine energies I've seen! Very well done, Matt, and thank you for the great advice! 😀
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Interesting, I became a single parent and since my ex was unreliable, I had the financial responsibility too. Then my mom came to live with me (another dependent). I had to find new strengths so my feminine energy ended up on the back burner. But its not too late 😉
Practising receiving every day the smallest and most obvious things like the fresh air I breathe and the house I live in which is provider energy. I am thankful for what I heard in this video, thank you on behalf of all women.
Love finding genuine dating advice. Happy to have found your channel! 🥰
Im in health care field area both private and at work of course Im masculine. My 3 kids got good educations and career. Im 60 yrs live alone.
This is a master class...not just a video!!! And it came at the perfect time! Thank you so much! 💜
WOW! At 71 I'm so glad I came across you. Thank you so much for getting me to understand the whys and wherfores.
I think by recieving gifts normally,i used to get so awkward,like oh he gave me a gift,i should give him even bigger gift,but one should recieve gift normally
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not a bigger gift, but nothing wrong with giving a gift.
Great examples !
It’s not giving up one’s power, but stepping fully into one’s self and allowing him to step up
This is the only explanation of feminine vs masculinity that I've ever heard that makes real complete sense and is relatable. Bravo Mat👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I'm learning to receive more and be very intune with my body and take my hands of the steering wheel!
Omg yes! I agree!
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I couldn’t agree more.
I feel the same way!
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I really needed to hear this, especially being a women in the army. I’ve struggled with getting in touch with my feminine energies. I need more videos like this.
This was so interesting to watch. Especially shifting the awareness into the body. Wow, I'm gonna remember that one.
The stories are very powerful too. Triggered me emotionally. Truly beautiful and heart warming ♥
I have a friend who once told me, do not take away the pleasuer of someone who wants to help you by refusing their help. Great vieo and I have some work to do !!
What a beautiful video and I also learned a lot, since I do tempt to have that masculine energy. I’m working on letting my feminine energy come through when it comes to my love life.
I have found that choosing to love the home my husband has provided for myself and family really lifts him up. This video has made me realize my continually receiving this gift feeds his masculine energy (which of course I love to see!) I can see the effect my comments and attitudes about our home go staright to his heart. Our home is one of the biggest possessions he has provided and he loves to see me enjoying it.
I let the man BE THE MAN! And praise him for doing that!
I amplify my Feminine energy by being more soft spoken, being more present, taking life each day as it comes and allowing myself to be happy everyday. Being more aware of my mind and emotions allows me to be soft and mysterious.
After a month of dating my bf I realized he was a mess at conversing and had a tendency to bring out my masculine energy, his style of convo was usually debatable, I would say something and he would debate my subject matter even though I wasn't asking for his opinion, I was simply sharing. He would ask me a question and I would give an answer and then boom, he would contradict my answer as if mine was not good enough or as if he had to have the last say.. also during a conversation he said things to rush me to finish the conversation. It was the beginning of getting to know each other so I was trying to experience our sexiness and our romance but he was ruining it by his convo style. being aware of myself and the fact that I'm very feminine - I had enough- I said, ok if we're going to continue you need to understand that I'm very feminine and you conversing with me in a debatable way and in a somewhat combative way brings out my masculine side and that's not sexy and if a masculine woman is what you want - it's not going to be me- he agreed with me on all points, said he was not aware of it and no woman had ever put him in his place and now, I have the best BF. Sometimes you just gotta have the talk, but in a gentle way.
Sounds like an ISTJ. Im an ESTJ and get attracted to debates, rationale and discussing research. Being argumentative for sake of arguing is toxic. Im glad your discussion helped. I think everyone needs to leave when their partners dont take it seriously.
Amen, Mat Boggs. Love listening to your trips. I met the man of my dreams during the time of listening to your work & continue to listen as we grow in our relationship together. I find it helps me keep my in a place of what attracted him in the first place! One tip for me that helps is me being in the flow, it is good energy & keeps me happy. There is nothing not attractive about that!!! Thanks again. Maryann
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I am a woman with a tendency for more masculine energy and I have always loved to do partner dancing (salsa/tango, etc). I have realized over the years that it is one of the things that brings me in touch with my femininity...I always thought of it as relinquishing control...I think it is the ALLOWING and getting out of my mind and being in the present moment. Thank you for this insight!
I am the most tomboyish woman in my circle of friends I play around like the boys talk like them, i don't dress particularly super feminine I do a lot of leggings t-shirts and sneakers I do do my makeup every single day and do my hair I also love wearing perfume. However with my boyfriend I am something completely different we've been together for five almost six years and he says I am such a little girl when I'm with him he says I'm so sweet so soft so delicate so feminine with him he just can't understand how it is that I managed to switch so easily when I'm outside as to when I'm with him. And I don't even try to be like this with him it just occurs organically. He says he loves both sides of me. And I have to say I love it! I love being in his embrace . I am also told by those who know me ,not necessarily on a deep level but like acquaintances,that I have a very charismatic look to me and that my smile is super contagious. It's funny because I consider myself a person with very low self esteem for some reason people think I'm super confident and I radiate this charismatic energy. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
This describes me as well. I've had only one boyfriend, and we were together just under six months. The longer I was with him, the softer and more receptive and submissive I felt. He helped me move into more appreciation of the present. I look back and see that I should have taken him up on various offers of transportation, but I was locked into DIY mode as a long-term single. I miss him and his influence.
Being a mother of 5, also a widow...I've had to use my masculine energy to help me provide with my 5 young kids. Now I have a bf, it's difficult to tap into the feminine energy. Thanks for the vid...
Masculine energy has been pushed really hard on woman... And it leads to very unhappy woman.
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That’s how they want it be now.
Toxic masculine energy has always abused the mother nature, leading to whatever environmental conditions we're facing today!
@@MahaswetaMDas seriously? And some wonder where they can find a strong, kind, and giving man? Stop with the toxic masculinity....what about the toxic feminist...I'm speaking as a woman happily married to an incredible man. I have a little boy who is growing up in a world where men are vilified and women are victimized. But if you look at the problem closely it is toxic feminity that is creating destruction "in mother nature". Without men and women working together building families the very foundation of society will crumble.
Well said
I also loved learning about Meyers Briggs and the different personalities… introverts and extroverts specifically
This man is a genius
Wow! How you wrapped this up at the end, really sealed in my mind the beauty of a relationship, where both parties are allowing each other be their best at the right times... Cohesive! ❤️ Thanks! I really enjoyed and appreciated this video!
Wonderful tips! I’m a natural provider and I’ve to learn to receive. 😊
Balance is everything!
Grateful!
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@@Rodrigo-ly6up all of us have healing powers inside ourselves. It’s a inner process of wisdom. I don’t need anyone to lead my life. These Nigerian numbers are a scam.
natural provider myself. i get into a relationship and i will start giving giving giving thats me. sometimes the guy might think im doing all this to win him over but thats not the case. praying to get a guy who gives gives gives and will be the feminine receiver
@@drip4543 because we are giving just to see the joy in others! It’s a gift 💕💕💕 but our society is sick and see this as a weakness.
I know I’m not weak, I’m full of love. Doesn’t matter for me what others think. We just need to balance it and give this for right people 🥰🥰🥰
Move your consciousness to your heart center. Be in the present moment. FEEL...Feel the moment... Enjoy receiving, let him do things..Receiving the gift honors the giver. Allow...take your hands off the controls. Take your mind OFF the result. Receive what he creates and go with the flow.
Heart coherence meditation is so amazing to drop you into your body.
Also a daily gratitude practice is wonderful. It makes you become more present as you naturally become more grateful and appreciative of everything 💖
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@@mikijohn7512 not sure I'd want my ex back :)
I knew the principle of masculine & feminine energies, but he explained this so well with great examples. These energies are always present in relationships; we just have to understand how they function and how to use them.
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Love this! You’re such a reliable source of advice :)
It’s has been very hard for me to not be in control. I have been a soldier in The Royal Danish army for (almost) 35 years. Only now have I found a man who is really strong and masculine. After running my former boyfriends over like a tank, I now find myself in a loving relationship with an equal partner. He gives me gifts and I accept and Thank him from the bottom of my heart. Its taken a looooong time. Britt from Copenhagen Denmark 🇩🇰
Wasn’t expecting how good this was ❤️
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I’m so glad I’m learning how to be feminine. It’s definitely a study worth all the time. I think my generation grew up trying to be like one of the homies. But in reality it never worked as far as in a relationship. I would love to see one of these videos on humor. What is appropriate as far as teasing a man. I recently felt like teasing him wasn’t very feminine because I can be pretty harsh sometimes.
Thank you so much Mat.......that is one of the best descriptions of being in either energy I have heard. I appreciate all that you do to help others to learn how to be in either of their energies and how and why. Great job! I love this video presentation and your examples and explanations. Have a beautiful day!~Carla
I just want to "CONTROL MY FEMININE ENERGY", Thank-You!!!!