WHERE HAVE I BEEN? MY TOXIC RELATIONSHIP (+ HOW I LEFT), FAKE FRIENDS, INFLUENCER EVENTS AND MORE!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2024

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  • @LickMyFashion
    @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Fashion Gang, I know it’s been a while since I put out content but I promise you I’m back for good. This entire video breaks down as to why I was absent and what transpired. For those of you who’ve been subscribed to my channel forever, thank you for rocking with me. For those of you who are new subscribers, welcome to my world and I’m so excited to have you in it. I love you guys and let’s be consistent from here on in! 🤞🏾❤️

    • @lashanew.1969
      @lashanew.1969 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was never going to leave Jalen o.k!! Life be lifeing.. and I get that. Happy to see you back! The growth I see from a few years back!! I love to see it!! I'm soo happy for you!!

  • @Lici.b
    @Lici.b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s actually refreshing to see a male be this transparent on such topics. Super proud of you for defending yourself and speaking your truth, and sorry you had to endure that pain. Keep up all the good work you’re doing internally and externally. Growth and success looks good on you ♥️🙏🏿

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much lici, I appreciate you🥹❤️

  • @FEMME_CHRONICLES
    @FEMME_CHRONICLES 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Jalen, I’m really proud of you for having the courage to tell your story. Narcissistic abuse, is complex, traumatic, and hard for most to understand. As for the friendship, this is to be expected. You became an enemy because you were a threat. It had nothing to do with the business… but everything to do with someone feeling insecure about sharing the spotlight.

  • @breeb.99
    @breeb.99 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Jalen!!! This video was everything, praying for you as always. Learned so much especially with toxic people, it's true you got to set boundaries, not let people walk all over you. They don't give you life, God does, continue to thrive and walk into your purpose. ❤

  • @babyshy85
    @babyshy85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So glad to see you speak your truth! A true friend will never make a public spectacle of you. Welcome back 🤗 You are appreciated

    • @jennalud4748
      @jennalud4748 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That girl is terrible!

  • @Peacelovepulse_
    @Peacelovepulse_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Yesssss Jalen 🎉🫶🏽 OVER AN HOUR ugh this is everything

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Josie, we back at it🥹❤️🫶🏾

  • @BerryFae
    @BerryFae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m so sorry that you had to go through it with your so-called friend when I saw that she bashing you online, I couldn’t believe it because everybody knows who’s been following you for a long time that you have been helping people create content for a long time and fast forward to 2024 to see that you’re still putting out Mentorship Academy and she hasn’t even come out with more than five videos says a lot you are true to this!!!

  • @kizzymarlene
    @kizzymarlene 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Jalen Jalen Jalen. I know it was hard, but I am so happy that you told your truth! This video resonated with me in so many ways. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this but this will all make you a better person. I was always upset that your old friend used her large platform to say whatever she did. It hurt me to read the comments people said about you. As for your ex...wow...what stood out to me is when you said they would say, I didn't ask for this you offered it to me. Jalen, same thing happened to me with an ex. It hurt so bad,but best believe I learned from this! Jalen, I pray that God's blessings will surround you in all your endeavors. I love you and Jesus does too ❤. Period!

  • @meshon2010
    @meshon2010 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt it so much when you said I just don't want to be angry anymore. That's the place I'm in right now. People need to understand when it comes to TH-cam ideas, and using the same designer things will be similar. What's going to stand out is your individual approach to those ideas. I, to this day, haven't started my channel for fear of "copying" someone. If you worry about that, you will never start anything.

  • @CrushPartyIce
    @CrushPartyIce 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What Id do to have a friend and prayer buddy like you Jalen 😩 Youre so genuine and loving and just want the best for EVERYONE.

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for recognizing this, I really do want the best for everyone whether we’ve stopped speaking for good or we’re really good friends. It’s just in my heart, I really can’t be mean or evil..it’s just not in me🥹❤️

  • @Choklatekisses1
    @Choklatekisses1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Welcome Back!!!! :) let me tune on in
    HI Jalen!! I was introduced to you way back when thru one of Latoya's vlogs. I've always admired you and saw your spirit shine through the videos. I'm always here to support your YT journey as well. No matter how many times you leave us hanging over here lol. Seriously tho, it's good to see you back and to know that you ate staying on your grind. I pray that you continue to grow in your Faith and in your Walk with the Lord and may you be blessed with a peace that surpasses all our understanding. Please keep going and keep pushing past all the barriers. You've got this!

  • @daniellefrancis9115
    @daniellefrancis9115 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That's right! YOU worked hard, you worked your ass off. Nobody can take that from you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Wordsbydee
    @Wordsbydee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome baaaaackk, just know every trial and every test you have been through is sharpening and shapening you for God's glory. Love you ❤️

  • @RaenelleLee
    @RaenelleLee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. You’ve been through a lot. I’m so happy that you’re currently in a good place. Someone, somewhere needed to hear this today. If someone isn’t adding to your life and creating more problems than peace, you have to let them go. God bless❤❤
    Ps. excited for the content to come🙏🏾🎉

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thank you so much for always being so supportive Rae, I appreciate you so much🥹❤️

  • @Coolcucumber905
    @Coolcucumber905 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good for you Jalen, wishing you the best of luck going forward ❤

  • @LetsKeepItAuthentic
    @LetsKeepItAuthentic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So proud of you bro! Always a light through any darkness!

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much love, I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️

  • @fakemail6766
    @fakemail6766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Jalen sadly I can relate to the depression you are going through . Im praying for your mental health and healing in 2023 my nephew one of the dearest souls to my heart committed suicide in college do everything cut off every thing that does not nurture you God bless you it takes alot to speak up for self Im proud of you ❤🤍❤🙏

  • @mtg156
    @mtg156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    YAS! take your power back 👊🏿✨

  • @ColorJunkieTay
    @ColorJunkieTay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG !! This made me cry going through the same thing bruh!! I know it is for the best but it is very hard. When people treat you like shit you got to understand they are not for you. Blessing are coming tho! i needed that prayer !

  • @adeliat3983
    @adeliat3983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jalen I’m so glad that you’re doing better! 🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @RaenelleLee
    @RaenelleLee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Welcome back J!!!🎉🎉 now lemme watch🫶🏽

  • @jennalud4748
    @jennalud4748 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Welcome back!🙏🏾❤

  • @jynelemullings4821
    @jynelemullings4821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for telling us your truth I pray success and love on your life keep being great!!!

  • @butthatsnoneofmybusiness
    @butthatsnoneofmybusiness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    21:35 - Is speaking about Laloya Fofever?

    • @allyoucancook151
      @allyoucancook151 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      is he? b/c I want to know who he is talking about.

    • @nac8p
      @nac8p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes!

    • @iAMtheYELLOWrose
      @iAMtheYELLOWrose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      What about the ex?

    • @princ3ssshay88
      @princ3ssshay88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thinking the same thing

  • @emilchi8796
    @emilchi8796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Welcome back J! ❤ So proud of you ❤

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Em❤️❤️❤️

  • @racgillett4120
    @racgillett4120 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, just keep going 💙💚💙💙

  • @Kay-xg5iz
    @Kay-xg5iz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jalen I love your channel I have ben a supporter of you since the beginning. I love your authenticity and thank God for you coming back to YT. I want to ask you this but I really know you most likely will say no. I’m currently homeless and I can show you proof of this . I’ve ben praying constantly but it’s ben hard because I feel he’s not answering.

  • @aaliyahj2619
    @aaliyahj2619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    We miss you hun

  • @lovelyIberia
    @lovelyIberia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree stores have nothing lately. I haven’t shopped in store in over two years.

  • @teamchante3545
    @teamchante3545 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Welcome back!

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gm Jalen…. Happy Friday😀n Yesss n This is Gonna b so Informative n Welcome Back🎯💐🎉🔥🔥🔥👍n Continued Blessings💜🙏!!!….

  • @mummies4115
    @mummies4115 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I rate you for this. Thank you being transparent❤

  • @cpink1107
    @cpink1107 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    When speaking on the toxic/fake friendship I noticed that you often said “she, her”…but when speaking on the toxic relationship I noticed that you kept saying “this person or partner”…just curious whether or not the toxic partner was with a guy? Just asking for clarity…

    • @teeb.7566
      @teeb.7566 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      her last name is #forever 😩

    • @cpink1107
      @cpink1107 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@teeb.7566 yeah, I figured that’s who the toxic friendship was in reference to; was wanting to know who the relationship was with..he mentioned that it was put online

    • @solidice242
      @solidice242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I noticed that he didn't put a gender on his partner. However, unless I missed something, he has always been adamant that he is hetero so 🤷

    • @BenjaminBeauty1
      @BenjaminBeauty1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@teeb.7566toya 😮???

    • @xxsnxx0037
      @xxsnxx0037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There’s always homo men in his comments and they interact very “friendly”… I think he’s a little sweet

  • @xojiji
    @xojiji 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i hear your story. Glad you are taking accountability and working on your mental health. Welcome back!

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! ❤️

  • @BaussTM
    @BaussTM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep thriving J 💯🎉!

  • @brittanywright7355
    @brittanywright7355 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jalen is back!!!!❤

  • @iAMtheYELLOWrose
    @iAMtheYELLOWrose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hey Jalen! I love you. I think you should check your hormones. There could be an imbalance there. Also, who was this ex… 😅

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love you more❤️❤️❤️

    • @AnnaOop2000
      @AnnaOop2000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Umm why would you say someone needs hormones? Because of his voice? 😐 move
      And the ex he’s keeping private he didn’t say pronouns but we can speculate it’s a boy because he mentioned the ex had his cologne now why would a girl hold on to that plus only bum n*ggas act like that but regardless either wait for the girl to make her own story time or listen and take something away from the story .

  • @musicbyarnica
    @musicbyarnica 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    heavy on the i dont wanna speakkkkk

  • @mizdior2782
    @mizdior2782 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jalen I"m so glad to see you back. You've been through a lot.. That my dear friend is trauma, You overcome because Jesus is with you. Jalen where can I find 🥇that elegant suit you wore to the fashion show?

  • @bintimkitosi6187
    @bintimkitosi6187 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Welcome back

  • @francishenry2048
    @francishenry2048 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    who is this ex?

  • @brooklin5868
    @brooklin5868 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww congrats. your friend is beautiful.

  • @melbajay
    @melbajay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jalen you will forever be highly favored and blessed. Nothing nor anyone can stop what God has for you. Wishing you all the best.

  • @NoorAhmed-fw3iu
    @NoorAhmed-fw3iu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for making this video I know it was hard

  • @wertya85
    @wertya85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jalen I wish I knew in person b/c I broke up with my ex after 12 years....he been cheating on me for the last 5 years

  • @CEETHEMUA
    @CEETHEMUA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @TheGreatSisi
    @TheGreatSisi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you friend ❤️

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love you more❤️❤️❤️

  • @milano888
    @milano888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I hate to bring karma into this, but if you don't believe in it, please look at how she ended up in life.
    She did people dirty used them for content views and she didn't care about them at least not genuinely That's why she's now lonely, no real friendship outside of her social media acquaintance,she fell hard Lost her marriage, lost her reality show contract, ended up messing with the wrong men, lost her relationship with her mom and dad and ended up pregnant by a downgrade a 50 yrs old manchild with no stable income living off of whatever left of her income he doesn’t have his own car his own home at his big age 😭😭😭Now stuck living in that tiny house with forty leven chirren, clearly struggling financially poor thing.

    • @berxie25
      @berxie25 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Now that’s a read

    • @marlenerose9435
      @marlenerose9435 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@berxie25lmaooo 😂💯

    • @D4SH19
      @D4SH19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly!! Not to mention he’s into guns. He purposely got her pregnant to sit her down , now he proposed just to secure the bag. They could have stayed in Toronto and make things happen here. The grass is never greener. LF eye too damn long!!
      I am sure Ayanna and Pony living their life. Even Rochelle she ended getting divorced and have a child for a man who didn’t wife her. Rochelle had gone back to school and just quit it to go to Ghana. These women making women making permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.

    • @ModestFash101
      @ModestFash101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What happened with her relationship with her parents?

    • @Sxclz
      @Sxclz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢😭

  • @UNRULYMARSHA
    @UNRULYMARSHA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mi a teck yuh jamaican card ackee and saltfish is so good.

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmaooo I dislike it so bad😭😭😭😭

  • @quisahairston838
    @quisahairston838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They get di boooooooooootaaaaah

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesssssss🤣❤️🙌🏾

  • @tanishacherry
    @tanishacherry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love youuuuuuuuu🫶🏾♥️

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love you more❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @BabyChristopher1000
    @BabyChristopher1000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @sweetz1906
    @sweetz1906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DEFFFFFFFINITELY … taking your Jamaican card ! Not even ackee and salt fish ??? 😧😧 lol

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I dislike ackee and salt fish sooooo bad lmaoooo😭😭😭😭

    • @Allieredeemed
      @Allieredeemed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t like ackee and saltfish either but mi love ackee. I love it with chicken back 🤤

    • @sweetz1906
      @sweetz1906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣 yall are missing out.. I promise

  • @loveafrica97
    @loveafrica97 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What did you see in your ex initially?

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Glad you asked this question! In the beginning it was all good honestly. Maybe I was just blind sided because I’ve never been through something toxic before but I can honestly say the beginning was fine, once we started to get more deep that’s when it got bad tbh. I feel like my ex tried to love me but it always came with something, which always hurt me in the end. I don’t wish what I went through on anybody, so if you are dating someone just make sure to pay attention because the red flags always give it away! 🙌🏾

    • @D4SH19
      @D4SH19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LickMyFashionStay in Toronto. Don’t be like the others and move to the US. It’s toxic over there. Let Toronto be your base. Travel for work/ pleasure but come back here. Avoid Atlanta, you can see some people went downhill after moving there .

  • @daniharr3278
    @daniharr3278 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first red flag is dating in Atlanta.

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It wasn’t even in Atlanta! It was in Toronto, a mess😭😭😭

  • @sharonmcdaniel9667
    @sharonmcdaniel9667 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @LifeOfCarey
    @LifeOfCarey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just unsubscribed because you don’t like ackee & saltfish 😅

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Lmfaoooooo Careeeeeyyyy, listen I’m standing on business when it comes to ackee and saltfish, it’s gross🤢🤣

    • @LifeOfCarey
      @LifeOfCarey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@LickMyFashion next time I see you I’m cooking ackee & salt-fish and you eating it 😂

    • @joylovestories
      @joylovestories 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @Ammaa.llx_
    @Ammaa.llx_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This entire thing is weird!!! This is why i don't want friends 😂😂😂😂 yall be stealingg. Its strange man im sorry

    • @LickMyFashion
      @LickMyFashion  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s strange because you’re not secure enough with your friends to do similar things and that’s why shit don’t be popping off for y’all, simple. Me and my friends do not give af who takes what because we ALL can win. We literally give each other content ideas all the time and do the same things, lmao. If we have two similar things that wasn’t intentional why is anyone upset or angry especially if it was talked about behind closed doors? Y’all just hate to see your friends win and I really HATE that for y’all😭

  • @ADivaForLife
    @ADivaForLife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so remember this 💔.. it was heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹