Understanding Trauma, Anxiety and Burnout in your Nervous System - Break the Anxiety Cycle 20/30

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    Anxiety is essentially a state of your nervous system. In this video we’ll explore anxiety, trauma and burnout in your nervous system.
    There’s two ways that your nervous system plays a direct role in anxiety and depression- your alerting activating system can get stuck on or stuck off. And most of the people who get stuck in these states don’t realize it, they are trapped in these cycles and just feel chronically anxious or chronically exhausted. But the good news is that when you learn to identify what is happening, you can change it.
    According to polyvagal theory, there are 3 states of the nervous system.
    Safety (aka Ventral vagal, or parasympathetic)
    Activation (aka sympathetic, or FFF response) which looks like anxiety, PTSD, or an initial trauma response.
    Overwhelm/Shutdown (aka dorsal vagal (which, confusingly, is also parasympathetic, but it’s a more primitive state)) This often looks like burnout or depression in the nervous system.
    When you come to understand how hypoarousal looks like burnout or depression, you can come to better understand the essential skills to overcoming burnout.
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  • @DesertGuy702

    I was abused growing up physically & mentally. Saw things, heard things, experienced things no kid should. Always considered myself a piece of granite though. Was on my own at 15. Now 34 I’ve fallen to pieces these last couple of years. Have had new traumas, and hardships post pandemic. It’s like the dam that was holding it all has collapsed. I’ve been a mess. Your videos have helped a lot though in some dark times. Anybody reading this also suffering know you’re not alone. You still hold so much value despite your anxiety. God bless.

  • @user-ux8nr2ej9e

    Just wanted to say that in mid November I was experiencing a completely incapacitating panic disorder . I went to the ER twice with my heart pounding at an alarming rate for days on end . Couldn't drive out of the driveway without a panic attack . Cried multiple times a day . Found this channel. Used what I learned from it . Pushed through my desire to hide and stop doing daily tasks . Almost two months later I'm no longer having panic attacks or crying while I drive .

  • @Ericbrown-se3kx

    I just feel like crying for no apparent reason and I have this overwhelming feeling of sadness.

  • @user-mt8nt6od4k
    @user-mt8nt6od4k 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +177

    I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.

  • @user-wf2kd6nm1n

    I am always on edge from when I wake up and all day long. Its exhausting to be me.....I was abused as a child and got used to always needing to be ready to run or get away. So this is true. It is ingrained in me...

  • @InvitationtoAmy

    I have brain fog that actually feels heavy in my eyes. I feel I can’t focus, like I need glasses or just to go to sleep but I don’t sleep deep without meds. The thing is I was doing so well and things are good in my life. But stress still seems to cause this in me, even though I think it’s a normal amount of stress. I do better in the warmer months. I workout (it helps I think) I eat well mostly. I just feel my brain had damage and even when I think it’s improving I seem to fall back and feel all the things again. I’m having a hard time finding out what nervous state I am in. Many years of chronic stress and abuse, my whole life. I’m really trying to love myself and live better. It’s a lot to sort. Thankful for your content. ❤

  • @debv3244
    @debv3244  +104

    I just spoke to my counselor about my constant state of anxiety. I've had a lot of tough things to deal with the past 2 years - about every 2 months it's something new. I'm always on edge, even when there isn't anything to be anxious about. She said it's generalized anxiety. I've only watched this for 5 minutes and need to take a break - will watch the rest later. I really appreciate your videos.

  • @Redeemed2Righteousness
    @Redeemed2Righteousness 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You have such a cool personality, you're just that person that everyone wants as a friend! I think you healed some of my anxiety just with you're character alone😂

  • @_Marthinzen

    I did a medical psilocybin retreat which helped immensely. It took me out of this state of hyper vigilance, chronic exhaustion, hyper irritability, anger issues. Got my brain rewired to function better, like a default mode network overhaul. It worked a ton better than ketamine therapy. 🎉

  • @FSCHW
    @FSCHW  +44

    #3 Hypoarousal is me. Been doing the same stressful job for 20 years. Many days I feel paralyzed at my desk. Depressed. Sleep 2-3 hours a night Productivity at war is zero. New work sets a fight or flight trigger. Primary support for 2 elder seniors for 20 years too. Father passed in 2022, mother needs much support.

  • @Goahead206

    Your videos are helping me to deal with chronic stress of air raid alerts and explosions from the Russian attacks here in Kyiv. Thank you, truly.

  • @zenstoryshare

    I love this practical advice. Thanks

  • @tinasavage674

    I've experienced pretty much all of these symptoms my issues started back in 2019 caring for my parents ,home life ,work , after loosing both my parents one after the other I shut down , the last couple of years l have not worked shut my self away . The worst procrastination but I'm healing at sixtytwo how much life can I have I'm not willing to sit and die I'm pushing my self to be a better me .good luck to anyone dealing with these issues god bless 😊

  • @Wimruther-hk4zn

    I suffered severe anxiety and mental disorder since my teenage, was actually diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. This is something that really need to be use globally to help people with similar health challenges.

  • @yvonnedyer9782

    This is so helpful. As a kid…. I had many years getting abuse mentally and physically. Now I’m 35. I’m trying to heal myself. This video helps me understand. I appreciate this

  • @angieh612

    Emma, I have never heard someone explain what I have been experiencing so well. I truly appreciate this video!! (And all your content 😊) Thank you so much for sharing!!

  • @JayTalksinjury

    I'm 53 yrs old and just coming to grips with how my brain works from, like other commentor said about a kid seeing bad stuff. Anxiety is when you go to sleep in your rig , completely hydrated and pushing your foot against the wall to stop curling . Or when i have torn back muscles shaking so bad because i thought i was stressed . My generation didn't talk about this, but this episode describes me perfectly, and I'm starting to heal... Thank you ❤.

  • @JoshuaEdward12

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

  • @TerrilynandJeffStout

    I stumbled upon your TH-cam channel a few days ago. I have terrible anxiety. I had a bad experience with an MRI machine about 18 years ago. I was told last week that I needed a MRI on my shoulder. My anxiety hit the roof. I began looking within myself to why I am so afraid. I began watching your videos. I live in Nebraska. I've been here for 20 years. Before that, I lived in Springville, Utah. My prayers were answered. I am grateful.

  • @CyberspacedLoner

    I have been living with autism all my life, 44 years, and strong anxiety since the late 1980s,