One of my best friends was married to a gay man who was in the closet while they were married. Later after the divorced he came out of the closet. But while they were married he made her think that it was her fault that he didn't want to have sex with her. He gaslit her into believing there was something wrong with her when the fact of the matter was he just wasn't attracted to women. She carries around the trauma that he caused her still to this day.
Saying that bisexual men just want to have sex with both men and women is just defining it twice. I’m a bisexual woman and yes, I like both men and women. Being bisexual is not the problem. The problem is not disclosing that information to your partners and letting them make the informed decision on their own. You’re not allowed to have everything you want at someone else’s expense.
This is not shocking but heartbreaking happened to my older sister, i never look at men the same , stop bothering single straight women knowing youre down low,
I know gay men who date women for validation. Let's think straight, gay males, especially tops just wanna stick it in a hole and women have it. But gay hole is really easy to get, womens hole too difficult and the conquest is much more rewarding. Also they can get wify benefits from women they are unlikely to get from men.
The 1st lady is lucky those men didn’t decide to off them to keep their secret. Men do that all the time to stay in the closet. They should’ve gotten pictures, ran away, and then did all the negotiations remotely.
A lot of men out here are down low. You have probably dated a few and never knew. Trust me. It’s wild out here. It’s really right in front of our eyes. Most men out here play games, don’t want to commit and are emotionally unattached. But treat their homeboys with the most love & respect. You’re just his cover-up. Always do your research on these men and never take them for who they say they are. Trust is earned not given.
I can confirm. These men will never call themselves 'gay' but they are homo-romantic and homo-erotic. Secretly have Grindr. Where I'm from, there is a huge rise in STDs because "straight men" were actually foocking each other. Men and younger men, as young as high-schoolers, were 'selling' themselves as male prostitutes, so they can earn side-money and enjoy guy-on-guy sexx at the same time. Wild stuff.
One issue is that bisexual men want equal access to both men and women but they know that heterosexual women aren’t guaranteed to accept a bisexual man as a partner they also use women as validators of their manhood socially
When a bisexual man say's he likes both, he really prefers the other side. Look on his page and you see nothing but men on there. They really do not like women but use them for show.
This. A lot of people get it so confused. They think the man hates himself or something, *no* he knows most women will not accept bisexual men and he also knows a majority of gay men just want to screw around, so he stays in the closet so that he can have a wife while clandestinely exploring the other side of his sexuality. These men are not struggling to 'live in their truth', they want access to both because they like both and they know most het women and gay men won't tolerate that.
@@thelastshallbefirst6036 No bi men are bi men, men aren't very difficult to attract so he knows he can get laid more with men, but he also likes women just as much. Also it's a spectrum, some bi men mostly want men, others mostly want women.
I think it’s deeper than men not wanting to come out. Men don’t respect women as it is so us thinking they’ll all of a sudden respect us in this aspect is crazy.
Please, let's not romanticize Brokeback Mountain, because it is a misogynistic film that ridicules women who marry these hypocrites, without them knowing their true sexual preference. Although the film shows a very tangible reality, we must not overlook the fact that these closeted men have no qualms about hurting people (women) and even their children in order to live a double life that allows them to continue satisfying their true sexual desires. It is not fair to us women that they continue to use and emotionally abuse us!
I'm sure most of the men ive dated were closeted down low black men. I no longer want to date anymore but I think I have a better radar for it now that I'm 40.
I had this one friend who went to prison. And some of his word choices and actions after prison always left a feeling inside of me. The type of feeling when someone above is protecting you at all costs. He was just my friend but I had a few moments that made me stop and think because I instantly felt some kind of way after the interaction. One time I visited him in prison. Again he was only my friend we grew up together. So as he hugged me goodbye, I just so happened to look up or into the crowd and noticed this very weird look from another man that always replayed in my mind. Another time I was moving and he was out by now and he and a friend of his came to my house , and something in that encounter between the two of them left me with a odd feeling. Women instincts are very real . Another time I was talking to him and asking him why are you such a ho3 lol ? Like he wasn’t like that at all , it’s like he was trying to prove to himself something? Another time we were texting and I forget the conversation but he said heck probably better to date a man , Y’all can arm wrestle and no nagging . Another time he said to me “you don’t know me anymore, I’m not the same . You don’t know what happened in prison if I got “graped” or if I “graped” Lastly , he has a gay homeboy and thinks it’s ok to go to gay clubs. So I asked one day , why aren’t you worried someone will try to hit on you ? Or maybe your homeboy will try to turn u out because I knew a few gay men who love to turn out straight men? He responded he’s not worried about that he’s comfortable within himself? 🤔 With men you have to ask questions. The difference is you have to ask questions that aren’t back to back as if you are interrogating him and catch him off guard so he doesn’t have time to think and lie. I think 🤔 he had a gay experience and now he’s such a ho3 that he’s trying to convince himself that he likes women. I could be wrong , but something inside of me is always unsettling and makes me believe he’s gay or bi.
Idk about staying silent on the discovery. He may want to have orgies with men but their wives should be able to make that choice as well. That's taking away their free will and Im sorry but I would have still said something to the other wives. Neither woman was going to walk away from their divorce unsatisfied they had no need to be silent. I cannot agree more with the guy who said its okay to be single and just do you. No matter what your sexual preference, learn to be alone. Use that time to learn about yourself, further develope intrests and goals, and foster other types of love.
Women need to be wary of women and men who accuse you of "homophobia" because you have boundaries with who you are attracted to when it comes to men , who you prefer when it comes to men , and also that you acknowledge a man being gay does NOT stop him from being misogynistic. As a matter of fact , it may be WORSE . He can't even really bond with you through healthy lovemaking and intimacy in that way . So he usually has you around to use you in some way that will and does DRAIN you. He like many others feel like this is a woman's role. To MOTHER them in all ways .
Preach.💯💯💯💯💯. I don't know why gay men get such a free pass from women when they're some of the most racist and misogynistic mfs out there. As you say, they don't even need women for sex, so they're even WORSE!
Caught my ex on Grindr. He was married before, to a woman, was a father, and was with me over 2 years. Oddly enough we had sex but the relationships he really wanted was on Grindr. Caught him and kicked him out.
There is nothing wrong with being Gay. However lying and gaslighting your partners is messed up and I feel bad for the women of the older generation who married men who were forced into the closet. I feel for the oppression so many men had to endure however it doesn't justify what they put their partners through.
The men weren't "forced" into the closet. There are many life paths outside of marriage. They could have done mission or SOMETHING other than using a woman as a beard. Men are selfish and should never be given the benefit of the doubt
I knew a Pastor who is rumored to be gay but the Church protects him. His situation is classic closeted attractive man who marries a woman who doesn’t fit the local beauty standards. I can tell he’s trying to fight it because he is hyper focused on his son’s, who are 7 and 8, sexuality and making sure they conform to gender roles and norms of boys. He told me how he took them to a department store in the Girls section and asked them if they wanted a pink skirt. The boys of course said no and he reminded them that girls wear pink and dresses but boys don’t. Not to mention this Pastor/man is a homophobe. He said he doesn’t like when gay men look at him.
For all the confused gay people. God isn't going to send you to hell for being gay... The standard is abstinence for everyone outside of a marital covenant.. Gay or hetro. Basically, we all need to learn self control and understand that there is more to life than sex. Regardless of your orientation. Side note: gay men really need to leave women alone.
But You are going to be stoned to death for being gay... it is also in the bible. Where is the being gay loving??? None.. Do not lie to yourself... You are disserving the God you serve by twisting His word I quote: The Word of God is evident in its view of homosexuality. The most commonly quoted Bible verses are Leviticus 18:22 and Leviticus 20:13, which state that it is an abomination for a man to lie with another man as he would with a woman. In Romans 1:26-27, Apostle Paul says that homosexuality is contrary to God's natural order and results from rejecting God. Additionally, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 lists homosexuality as one of the sins that will prevent someone from entering the Kingdom of God.
Closeted gay men who date women do it because they hate women & want to traumatize them…. Because if you are a gay man & clearly know it why not just be gay & stay closeted… why lie & being a woman into the equation. It’s so sick & messed up honestly….imagine the man your with lying to you for years about him really loving & wanting to be with you just to help cover up the fact he doesn’t even like women🤦🏽♀️
And this is the problem I have with people who are homophobic, and feel that people who are themselves should try to fake heteronormativity. Would you rather have this scenario? Would You Rather somebody who is truly gay, or gender Divergent lie about who they are to fit into your ideology, just for them to be in the closet? Because the truth is going to come out at some point. I rather a person be who they are, and partake with other consenting adults what they want to do, because one way or another they're going to live their truth.
I don't even believe most of these guys were faking liking women. I believe most of them like women and men. They were just selfish evil cheaters. They would've done the same with women if they were completely straight and evil.
You're not asking the right questions. You're taking it out on women and trying to guilt trip us but not the men. Why don't you tell the men to live in their truth. Officially. Not behind closed doors 😉
Alright sure. But its best, that people also learn to NOT bring straight women into this, or blame them for it all. Straight women have nothing to apologise for, and are not at fault at all, in cases like these, which usually place blames on women. Its not our problem or job, as straight women, that males have closeted issues, “gender divergent” issues, or come from homophobic backgrounds, and thus think that their xyz actions are justified, right or wrong. We have our own dramas going on in our lives that we try to resolve, and stuff like this, is only going to worsen the “homophobia” in some. I wonder why we try to make straight women, look like some cardboard-cutout npcs, who are supposed to be gushy, supportive little fangirls, even for those of closeted males, who cheat on them.
I agree! It all ties in together. The fact that women aren’t aware that the men they are dating aren’t possibly closeted shows me they don’t understand the world we are living in. This is one of the reasons I choose to remain single at this point in my life. I get the struggle, but I’m also not about to be a victim
"Just come out..." Definitely don't 'just' come out if it's not safe. As that first man said, try to stay single untill you are able to choose your happiness.
This is why I don’t date anything less than straight - even the ones acting straight aren’t . I know a friend that got upset because I said I wouldn’t date a bi man due to him being half gay 😂😂😂
This! People try to make me feel bad because I said the same thing but I responded with that’s my choice…. It’s women out here that would be more than happy to be in relationship with a Bi sexual man but no I…. I already got other woman to worry about not trying have to worry about other men too🫣
@@keirahleesha486 I know right and the risk of diseases is already high af with black women because these DL man are dipping their P in booties raw then come home to you 💀💀 lord have mercy
Thus is why its so important for women to stay away from these males. But more importantly, if you're going to waste your time and risk your life you better make sure that make has assets that you can take. Now she has the house and alimony and she can take Care of the children without struggling. Although, none of ut was wirth the humiliation, and labor she will now go through raising his children. 😢
@@suzannemcvicker617Not necessarily. Only shameful if you're a married man pretend to be heterosexual, lying to everyone who loved you, kids wives family, etc. Having an orgy with many other guys, gay or not, may not ;3 be for you or me, but is not the shameful thing in of itself.
@@hyusuf4280 which is what those 10 men were doing. Trying to justify their lying, deceitful, dangerous behavior is shameful. Any dude bringing home poopy d*%k back to his wife should be ashamed, whether it's with one dude at a time or ten. This video isn't about you being gay unless you're using women and children as social capital like some depraved, greedy degenerate.
The way this cheater just threw away his right to see his children just to save face is the worst part to me. How selfish, his man's priorities are out of wack. They're litterally losing their father's presence for ZERO good reason. It's even selfish for the woman to separate them like this, unless he was a shitty father on top of all that.
He's not a good person, putting her health in danger, orgying with 10 men. It was good that she could find a better role(stepfather) model for her kids. Having orgies with numerous people is not zero reason. you would not consider her a good mother if she was doing that. Besides blood transfusions, that's how AIDS got into the women's community, causing birth and infant complications. He needed to be honest with her, but multiple partners is a different thing.
@@khem127 Another comment called me confused because I didn't want to have a baby by a deadbeat. Society has beaten on women until the point where a lot isn't asking for basic respect and safety. And then when we don't put up with it, we get called names instead of congratulated.
The XX chromosome existed 50 thousand years before the Y chromosome. The Y chromosome is a mutated X. Women existed and created other women males came about through a mutation and when that happened the male got with female and then women lost the ability to reproduce on their own thus needing the Y. Males have been attracted to other males since the beginning of time, people were meant to reproduce so since two males can’t it was seen as sinful. It horrific that they use women as breeders, abuse them because they are gay and haven’t come out yet, and destroy that woman mental health and opportunity to trust and love someone just because they don’t want to admit he is gay. Too many women have been through that.
@@mireyar2040 you can google is the X chromosome older than Y chromosome. Scientific articles not opinion articles will show up. Info on genetic and science research on dna sequencing and mapping the X and Y chromosome
So if the XY chromosome existed 50k years after the XX, how were people reproducing? The Y chromosome has no genetic info on it besides says you’re a male. The X has all the things needed for life, which is why there’s no YY but there is a XX and XY, if males didn’t have X they wouldn’t exist, thanks to women
@@Firecracker876People didn’t exist at this point in time. This was long before animals as we now know them existed. All life originally reproduced asexually.
Aaaand yeah. Had two super-homophobic friends. One is perpetually “single” now, and the other one just came out. So yeah… Explore. Be happy. Why else would you live?
This scenario right here is the reason most of the time... Being in heterosexual relationship ain't "fixing the gay"... Even trauma inducing gay conversion won't work... This proves this is more than just a thought.
That dude was the one who pretended to be the homophobe and went out to cheat on his wife. His wife didnt "Force" him to be straight, he forced himself to show himself as a different person
The way she talks seems scripted, so my guess is it isn’t real. But the scenario is real. I know it happens…I had a gay friend in high school who would tell me about what goes on between the youth group ‘boys’ from the local protestant church. It pissed me off because one of the young men he was having sexual trysts with had a girlfriend with whom they were ‘’waiting’’ (to get married). She was the most kind, most sweetest girl and definitely didn’t deserve that sh!t. I think she eventually did find out and broke up with him. It’s horrifying to think he still might be trying to preach in a church somewhere, as he was going to university to study to become a pastor. That same gay guy friend wanted me (I’m a woman) to go steady with him a few years before he came out. I’m glad I wasn’t that attracted to him and turned him down. These guys don’t give a sh!t about women or the diseases they bring. They think NOTHING of their sexual choices and experiences. Most women don’t know. They get off on that too-they think it’s funny. . It’s insanely sick. It’s why I do not trust men AT ALL. I do think there are a few good men though. How could any woman really know? 😐
I've got newsflash for you. This shit happens all the time. There are many men including Tyler Perry who is gayer than a 3 dollar bill but got a woman pregnant to perpetrate straight. Many if not most of his financial backers are straight and religious so he will continue to be so called straight. I've even read articles about men who's names were not used who admit to having sex with other men while married. Then claimed at the same time that they were not gay. Sounds like you and the other commenter are gullible.
Bruh I hate it when people are gaslit by their religion into thinking that being traumatized and betrayed is something that God wanted for them!!! Like HELLO?!!!??? if these kind of sins are bad then what is this? Like then why would the creator want them to be repeated? I’m just saying there are religious people that lived a beautiful life that were just as good as these traumatized people!
Why would she marry an homophobic man? That's the first thought I had. Like ofv he is a bad person for lying, but y'all don't have relationships with homophobic people, they tend to be very misogynistic and racist, everything is linked together
I don’t think it’s true homosexuality I think it’s ritual homosexuality. They may have high paying high position jobs and are agreeing with this to stay in that world. It’s a form of blackmail. Hence why those men were afraid of being outed
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Why are women so delusional about the truth!?????? Male behavior is male behavior!! Stop trying to make it into something that it’s NOT!!! Damn!
3:43 And this right here is where all my sympathy for this woman specifically goes out of the window. The most telling sign that a man might be gay is if he's a raging homophobe. She knew this about him. She didn't feel any guilt about involving herself, marrying and alarmingly procreating with a bigot of his caliber. Even if he wasn't a closeted man he was the most homophobic man she ever met. She didn't care how that could poison their children and turn them into hateful, bigoted human beings. Now she wants to be surprised that a man like that would hate her to such an extent he'd use her knowing he doesn't like women and even bring new life into this world betraying her in this way. Smfh!
@laumay7364 Absolutely this. People ha te talking about this. They love to not talk about it. But it is very real and very true. A good movie about this I just watched is called RETALIATION (Orlando Bloom) such a heartbreaking movie .
Sir, God did not create you gay. We live in a world broken by sin. We bear the scars of this brokenness differently. For some people it is homosexuality, for some it is heterosexual promiscuity.
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One of my best friends was married to a gay man who was in the closet while they were married. Later after the divorced he came out of the closet. But while they were married he made her think that it was her fault that he didn't want to have sex with her. He gaslit her into believing there was something wrong with her when the fact of the matter was he just wasn't attracted to women. She carries around the trauma that he caused her still to this day.
So sad
Wauw that's so sad 😞
Time I found out he was gay is when any trauma he caused me would go away bc that's all the explanation I would need to know I was not the problem.🙂
Had the same issue with my ex husband
Me too@@universaleducationsystems2722
Saying that bisexual men just want to have sex with both men and women is just defining it twice. I’m a bisexual woman and yes, I like both men and women.
Being bisexual is not the problem. The problem is not disclosing that information to your partners and letting them make the informed decision on their own. You’re not allowed to have everything you want at someone else’s expense.
This!!!
100%. Pansexual people can’t even breath. We like em all and don’t care, doesn’t mean we WANT them all!
This is not shocking but heartbreaking happened to my older sister, i never look at men the same , stop bothering single straight women knowing youre down low,
I know gay men who date women for validation.
Let's think straight, gay males, especially tops just wanna stick it in a hole and women have it. But gay hole is really easy to get, womens hole too difficult and the conquest is much more rewarding.
Also they can get wify benefits from women they are unlikely to get from men.
Exactly 💯
Yup! Happened to a few women I know as well
For real. It is so selfish!
They are psychopaths though
She was so lucky that she did'nt get a disease from him.
The 1st lady is lucky those men didn’t decide to off them to keep their secret. Men do that all the time to stay in the closet. They should’ve gotten pictures, ran away, and then did all the negotiations remotely.
😂😂😂 I would have def taken a picture and ran i don't want to hear anything else
Yeah, men are very dangerous when they feel cornered.
A lot of men out here are down low. You have probably dated a few and never knew. Trust me. It’s wild out here. It’s really right in front of our eyes. Most men out here play games, don’t want to commit and are emotionally unattached. But treat their homeboys with the most love & respect. You’re just his cover-up. Always do your research on these men and never take them for who they say they are. Trust is earned not given.
I can confirm. These men will never call themselves 'gay' but they are homo-romantic and homo-erotic. Secretly have Grindr.
Where I'm from, there is a huge rise in STDs because "straight men" were actually foocking each other. Men and younger men, as young as high-schoolers, were 'selling' themselves as male prostitutes, so they can earn side-money and enjoy guy-on-guy sexx at the same time. Wild stuff.
Gross
One issue is that bisexual men want equal access to both men and women but they know that heterosexual women aren’t guaranteed to accept a bisexual man as a partner they also use women as validators of their manhood socially
When a bisexual man say's he likes both, he really prefers the other side. Look on his page and you see nothing but men on there. They really do not like women but use them for show.
This. A lot of people get it so confused. They think the man hates himself or something, *no* he knows most women will not accept bisexual men and he also knows a majority of gay men just want to screw around, so he stays in the closet so that he can have a wife while clandestinely exploring the other side of his sexuality. These men are not struggling to 'live in their truth', they want access to both because they like both and they know most het women and gay men won't tolerate that.
@@thelastshallbefirst6036 No bi men are bi men, men aren't very difficult to attract so he knows he can get laid more with men, but he also likes women just as much. Also it's a spectrum, some bi men mostly want men, others mostly want women.
@@rsync9490that’s the number one reason they do prefer men, seggs is easier to get from men vs a women.
Bisexual woman here, not how my sexuality works.
I would have still said something after the fact. They don't deserve any peace after ruining your life.
3:45 "My ex husband now is the most Homophobic Man I know" It's always the ones that doth protest too much.
I think it’s deeper than men not wanting to come out. Men don’t respect women as it is so us thinking they’ll all of a sudden respect us in this aspect is crazy.
Also, y'know, persecution? Specifically like 3rd world countries and such. In America, you have rights
Seriously when she said 10 men from her neighborhood alone !!! I was shocked !! I mean i think alot of men are confused of their s3xuality
They're not confused. Just selfish.
Please, let's not romanticize Brokeback Mountain, because it is a misogynistic film that ridicules women who marry these hypocrites, without them knowing their true sexual preference.
Although the film shows a very tangible reality, we must not overlook the fact that these closeted men have no qualms about hurting people (women) and even their children in order to live a double life that allows them to continue satisfying their true sexual desires.
It is not fair to us women that they continue to use and emotionally abuse us!
Only gay men romanticise Brokeback mountain.
I'm sure most of the men ive dated were closeted down low black men. I no longer want to date anymore but I think I have a better radar for it now that I'm 40.
I believe most men have homo sexual tendencies
They are sis
They do stuff together in the jails
I had this one friend who went to prison.
And some of his word choices and actions after prison always left a feeling inside of me. The type of feeling when someone above is protecting you at all costs.
He was just my friend but I had a few moments that made me stop and think because I instantly felt some kind of way after the interaction.
One time I visited him in prison. Again he was only my friend we grew up together. So as he hugged me goodbye, I just so happened to look up or into the crowd and noticed this very weird look from another man that always replayed in my mind.
Another time I was moving and he was out by now and he and a friend of his came to my house , and something in that encounter between the two of them left me with a odd feeling.
Women instincts are very real .
Another time I was talking to him and asking him why are you such a ho3 lol ? Like he wasn’t like that at all , it’s like he was trying to prove to himself something?
Another time we were texting and I forget the conversation but he said heck probably better to date a man ,
Y’all can arm wrestle and no nagging .
Another time he said to me “you don’t know me anymore, I’m not the same . You don’t know what happened in prison if I got “graped” or if I “graped”
Lastly , he has a gay homeboy and thinks it’s ok to go to gay clubs. So I asked one day , why aren’t you worried someone will try to hit on you ? Or maybe your homeboy will try to turn u out because I knew a few gay men who love to turn out straight men? He responded he’s not worried about that he’s comfortable within himself?
🤔
With men you have to ask questions. The difference is you have to ask questions that aren’t back to back as if you are interrogating him and catch him off guard so he doesn’t have time to think and lie.
I think 🤔 he had a gay experience and now he’s such a ho3 that he’s trying to convince himself that he likes women. I could be wrong , but something inside of me is always unsettling and makes me believe he’s gay or bi.
ESP if they’re dark skin.
Personally I wouldn't date a bi guy,I just don't like the fact that a guy I fancy likes men as well
It’s not for the faint of heart but could be fun in the right situation with CONSENT
Idk about staying silent on the discovery. He may want to have orgies with men but their wives should be able to make that choice as well. That's taking away their free will and Im sorry but I would have still said something to the other wives. Neither woman was going to walk away from their divorce unsatisfied they had no need to be silent.
I cannot agree more with the guy who said its okay to be single and just do you. No matter what your sexual preference, learn to be alone. Use that time to learn about yourself, further develope intrests and goals, and foster other types of love.
Women need to be wary of women and men who accuse you of "homophobia" because you have boundaries with who you are attracted to when it comes to men , who you prefer when it comes to men , and also that you acknowledge a man being gay does NOT stop him from being misogynistic. As a matter of fact , it may be WORSE . He can't even really bond with you through healthy lovemaking and intimacy in that way . So he usually has you around to use you in some way that will and does DRAIN you. He like many others feel like this is a woman's role. To MOTHER them in all ways .
Preach.💯💯💯💯💯. I don't know why gay men get such a free pass from women when they're some of the most racist and misogynistic mfs out there. As you say, they don't even need women for sex, so they're even WORSE!
Caught my ex on Grindr. He was married before, to a woman, was a father, and was with me over 2 years. Oddly enough we had sex but the relationships he really wanted was on Grindr. Caught him and kicked him out.
There is nothing wrong with being Gay. However lying and gaslighting your partners is messed up and I feel bad for the women of the older generation who married men who were forced into the closet. I feel for the oppression so many men had to endure however it doesn't justify what they put their partners through.
There's no such thing as gay.
The men weren't "forced" into the closet. There are many life paths outside of marriage. They could have done mission or SOMETHING other than using a woman as a beard. Men are selfish and should never be given the benefit of the doubt
I knew a Pastor who is rumored to be gay but the Church protects him. His situation is classic closeted attractive man who marries a woman who doesn’t fit the local beauty standards. I can tell he’s trying to fight it because he is hyper focused on his son’s, who are 7 and 8, sexuality and making sure they conform to gender roles and norms of boys. He told me how he took them to a department store in the Girls section and asked them if they wanted a pink skirt. The boys of course said no and he reminded them that girls wear pink and dresses but boys don’t. Not to mention this Pastor/man is a homophobe. He said he doesn’t like when gay men look at him.
Being a woman is hard. We never win
sounds like a cult
Sounds like an orgy not a cult. Cult would imply that he was dragged into it. He did not
It does
The booty cult
Wow. I just can't. This is crazy. It fies to show. Looks aren't everything to a man ladies. They will do it with a tree if the mood is right
Dead bodies, animals.......
Hell he was gone every weekend with his boys that was flag number 1
When she was describing the "gorgeous ex wife" I felt like she was describing herself. I wish her the best she could do way better.
For all the confused gay people. God isn't going to send you to hell for being gay... The standard is abstinence for everyone outside of a marital covenant.. Gay or hetro. Basically, we all need to learn self control and understand that there is more to life than sex. Regardless of your orientation. Side note: gay men really need to leave women alone.
Yet hetro people can still have sex eventually
But You are going to be stoned to death for being gay... it is also in the bible.
Where is the being gay loving??? None.. Do not lie to yourself... You are disserving the God you serve by twisting His word
I quote:
The Word of God is evident in its view of homosexuality. The most commonly quoted Bible verses are Leviticus 18:22 and Leviticus 20:13, which state that it is an abomination for a man to lie with another man as he would with a woman. In Romans 1:26-27, Apostle Paul says that homosexuality is contrary to God's natural order and results from rejecting God. Additionally, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 lists homosexuality as one of the sins that will prevent someone from entering the Kingdom of God.
Closeted gay men who date women do it because they hate women & want to traumatize them…. Because if you are a gay man & clearly know it why not just be gay & stay closeted… why lie & being a woman into the equation. It’s so sick & messed up honestly….imagine the man your with lying to you for years about him really loving & wanting to be with you just to help cover up the fact he doesn’t even like women🤦🏽♀️
From the neighborhood, whew chile.
Sounds too perfect. Like a story
Listen,be who u r,but don't waste people's time!!
And this is the problem I have with people who are homophobic, and feel that people who are themselves should try to fake heteronormativity. Would you rather have this scenario? Would You Rather somebody who is truly gay, or gender Divergent lie about who they are to fit into your ideology, just for them to be in the closet? Because the truth is going to come out at some point. I rather a person be who they are, and partake with other consenting adults what they want to do, because one way or another they're going to live their truth.
I don't even believe most of these guys were faking liking women. I believe most of them like women and men. They were just selfish evil cheaters. They would've done the same with women if they were completely straight and evil.
Wtf is gender divergent? Are you kidding me
You're not asking the right questions. You're taking it out on women and trying to guilt trip us but not the men. Why don't you tell the men to live in their truth. Officially. Not behind closed doors 😉
Alright sure. But its best, that people also learn to NOT bring straight women into this, or blame them for it all. Straight women have nothing to apologise for, and are not at fault at all, in cases like these, which usually place blames on women. Its not our problem or job, as straight women, that males have closeted issues, “gender divergent” issues, or come from homophobic backgrounds, and thus think that their xyz actions are justified, right or wrong. We have our own dramas going on in our lives that we try to resolve, and stuff like this, is only going to worsen the “homophobia” in some. I wonder why we try to make straight women, look like some cardboard-cutout npcs, who are supposed to be gushy, supportive little fangirls, even for those of closeted males, who cheat on them.
I agree! It all ties in together. The fact that women aren’t aware that the men they are dating aren’t possibly closeted shows me they don’t understand the world we are living in. This is one of the reasons I choose to remain single at this point in my life.
I get the struggle, but I’m also not about to be a victim
"Just come out..." Definitely don't 'just' come out if it's not safe. As that first man said, try to stay single untill you are able to choose your happiness.
they can keep it secret And stay away from women
@@dumpmail-xz2qpThey won't though.
I feel like Micheal Knowles’ wife is going to have a similar story in the near future. 😂
I feel that way about MAP Walsh as well.
This is why I don’t date anything less than straight - even the ones acting straight aren’t . I know a friend that got upset because I said I wouldn’t date a bi man due to him being half gay 😂😂😂
This! People try to make me feel bad because I said the same thing but I responded with that’s my choice…. It’s women out here that would be more than happy to be in relationship with a Bi sexual man but no I…. I already got other woman to worry about not trying have to worry about other men too🫣
@@keirahleesha486 I know right and the risk of diseases is already high af with black women because these DL man are dipping their P in booties raw then come home to you 💀💀 lord have mercy
YEP
Women get such shade for having this preference. It's wild. ALL men feel entitled to get sexual or emotional access to women (whilst offering s--t).
Thus is why its so important for women to stay away from these males. But more importantly, if you're going to waste your time and risk your life you better make sure that make has assets that you can take. Now she has the house and alimony and she can take Care of the children without struggling. Although, none of ut was wirth the humiliation, and labor she will now go through raising his children. 😢
is ur channel about decentering men and exposing misogyny. I'm a new subscriber
I believe in what she's telling us. The number of men out there who like other men is super HIGH!!
Your hair is so pretty! Looks really good on you. But so does everything else 🤷🏻♀️
Homosexuality has existed since way before god in the bible was invented it's nothing to be ashamed of , the shaming comes from religion
True
Being with 9 other dudes from the neighborhood is something to be ashamed of.
@@suzannemcvicker617 homosexual men are still men
men can be gross,, if it was one man and six other women it still be gross
@@suzannemcvicker617Not necessarily. Only shameful if you're a married man pretend to be heterosexual, lying to everyone who loved you, kids wives family, etc.
Having an orgy with many other guys, gay or not, may not ;3 be for you or me, but is not the shameful thing in of itself.
@@hyusuf4280 which is what those 10 men were doing. Trying to justify their lying, deceitful, dangerous behavior is shameful. Any dude bringing home poopy d*%k back to his wife should be ashamed, whether it's with one dude at a time or ten. This video isn't about you being gay unless you're using women and children as social capital like some depraved, greedy degenerate.
The way this cheater just threw away his right to see his children just to save face is the worst part to me. How selfish, his man's priorities are out of wack. They're litterally losing their father's presence for ZERO good reason. It's even selfish for the woman to separate them like this, unless he was a shitty father on top of all that.
Sometimes having a father in the picture can be worse.
Selfish for the woman?? Did we not hear about the male abusing and screwing up his whole family lives?
Oh shut up
He's not a good person, putting her health in danger, orgying with 10 men. It was good that she could find a better role(stepfather) model for her kids. Having orgies with numerous people is not zero reason. you would not consider her a good mother if she was doing that. Besides blood transfusions, that's how AIDS got into the women's community, causing birth and infant complications. He needed to be honest with her, but multiple partners is a different thing.
@@khem127 Another comment called me confused because I didn't want to have a baby by a deadbeat. Society has beaten on women until the point where a lot isn't asking for basic respect and safety. And then when we don't put up with it, we get called names instead of congratulated.
one DL man unalived his wife after she found out… this dating game is fatal !!
What r the chances of 10! men from the same neighborhood were all in to that stuff!?! Crazy!
I don't care what these men are identifying themselves but if they gonna become husbands, they better should commit to their role!
The XX chromosome existed 50 thousand years before the Y chromosome. The Y chromosome is a mutated X. Women existed and created other women males came about through a mutation and when that happened the male got with female and then women lost the ability to reproduce on their own thus needing the Y. Males have been attracted to other males since the beginning of time, people were meant to reproduce so since two males can’t it was seen as sinful.
It horrific that they use women as breeders, abuse them because they are gay and haven’t come out yet, and destroy that woman mental health and opportunity to trust and love someone just because they don’t want to admit he is gay. Too many women have been through that.
Where is this information found?
@@mireyar2040 you can google is the X chromosome older than Y chromosome. Scientific articles not opinion articles will show up. Info on genetic and science research on dna sequencing and mapping the X and Y chromosome
So if the XY chromosome existed 50k years after the XX, how were people reproducing? The Y chromosome has no genetic info on it besides says you’re a male. The X has all the things needed for life, which is why there’s no YY but there is a XX and XY, if males didn’t have X they wouldn’t exist, thanks to women
um no
@@Firecracker876People didn’t exist at this point in time. This was long before animals as we now know them existed. All life originally reproduced asexually.
DANG HOW DID I MISS THIS ONE
Aaaand yeah. Had two super-homophobic friends. One is perpetually “single” now, and the other one just came out. So yeah…
Explore. Be happy. Why else would you live?
This scenario right here is the reason most of the time... Being in heterosexual relationship ain't "fixing the gay"... Even trauma inducing gay conversion won't work... This proves this is more than just a thought.
That dude was the one who pretended to be the homophobe and went out to cheat on his wife. His wife didnt "Force" him to be straight, he forced himself to show himself as a different person
I believed it until the “grabbed the key”’part.
Is this real? 🤔
The way she talks seems scripted, so my guess is it isn’t real. But the scenario is real. I know it happens…I had a gay friend in high school who would tell me about what goes on between the youth group ‘boys’ from the local protestant church. It pissed me off because one of the young men he was having sexual trysts with had a girlfriend with whom they were ‘’waiting’’ (to get married). She was the most kind, most sweetest girl and definitely didn’t deserve that sh!t. I think she eventually did find out and broke up with him. It’s horrifying to think he still might be trying to preach in a church somewhere, as he was going to university to study to become a pastor.
That same gay guy friend wanted me (I’m a woman) to go steady with him a few years before he came out. I’m glad I wasn’t that attracted to him and turned him down. These guys don’t give a sh!t about women or the diseases they bring. They think NOTHING of their sexual choices and experiences. Most women don’t know. They get off on that too-they think it’s funny. . It’s insanely sick. It’s why I do not trust men AT ALL. I do think there are a few good men though. How could any woman really know? 😐
She is lucky she didn't get diseases ladies be careful
First story sounds like Broke Back Mountain. I'm wondering if she's making it up.
I'd rather die alone
This is a skit. The friends wife just happens to be off work..and decides to drive at the hotel on the same occasion as her?
Exactly. People are so gullible 😂
I've got newsflash for you. This shit happens all the time. There are many men including Tyler Perry who is gayer than a 3 dollar bill but got a woman pregnant to perpetrate straight. Many if not most of his financial backers are straight and religious so he will continue to be so called straight.
I've even read articles about men who's names were not used who admit to having sex with other men while married. Then claimed at the same time that they were not gay.
Sounds like you and the other commenter are gullible.
Braids are cute
Bruh
I hate it when people are gaslit by their religion into thinking that being traumatized and betrayed is something that God wanted for them!!!
Like
HELLO?!!!???
if these kind of sins are bad then what is this? Like then why would the creator want them to be repeated?
I’m just saying there are religious people that lived a beautiful life that were just as good as these traumatized people!
This seems like a skit or fake. I get a vibe that she is acting. But im sure its based on alot of true events 😂
Why would she marry an homophobic man? That's the first thought I had. Like ofv he is a bad person for lying, but y'all don't have relationships with homophobic people, they tend to be very misogynistic and racist, everything is linked together
I don’t think it’s true homosexuality I think it’s ritual homosexuality. They may have high paying high position jobs and are agreeing with this to stay in that world. It’s a form of blackmail. Hence why those men were afraid of being outed
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why are women so delusional about the truth!??????
Male behavior is male behavior!! Stop trying to make it into something that it’s NOT!!! Damn!
I think she's making this story up
3:43 And this right here is where all my sympathy for this woman specifically goes out of the window. The most telling sign that a man might be gay is if he's a raging homophobe. She knew this about him. She didn't feel any guilt about involving herself, marrying and alarmingly procreating with a bigot of his caliber. Even if he wasn't a closeted man he was the most homophobic man she ever met. She didn't care how that could poison their children and turn them into hateful, bigoted human beings. Now she wants to be surprised that a man like that would hate her to such an extent he'd use her knowing he doesn't like women and even bring new life into this world betraying her in this way. Smfh!
Sorry, but men who were molested as children may react that way.
@@laumay7364 Not you conflating səxual abuse of children with homosexuality.🤦♀️Jfc!
@@lilaoliva793children who are abused become confused about their sexuality. and some end up abusing other children. Maybe they’re conflating. 🤔
@@laumay7364 Oh, Lord!🤦♀️
@laumay7364 Absolutely this. People ha te talking about this. They love to not talk about it. But it is very real and very true. A good movie about this I just watched is called RETALIATION (Orlando Bloom) such a heartbreaking movie .
🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
She only loves god because she got everything, lol!😂
Well, you were warned about the LGBTQ. I hope the woman recovers soon.
Sir, God did not create you gay. We live in a world broken by sin. We bear the scars of this brokenness differently. For some people it is homosexuality, for some it is heterosexual promiscuity.
love your braids. I have dated a few downlow men and yes, they are usually homophobic and religious, one even had a tattoo of Jesus
Thanks 😊. The hypocrisy is unreal
A few downlow men??? No red flags that they're fruity?
@kathyalex778 nope they're manipulation, gaslighting and lies often, more times than not will hide their insidious deceptions.
@@kathyalex778I bet they're hyper-masculine and hated everything feminine, women included.