NOT TRUE!! | American Reacts to “Sarah Millican - Having a Boyfriend”
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Their relationship is perfectly normal. Couples living apart is far more common than you think. I know so many people whose relationships have crashed and burned after they rushed things and moved in together too soon, or spent every moment outside of work together. The best relationship succeed when both partners have space and don't smother each other.
He is conservative so he finds it weird
Like me and my wife lol.
Its a great idea..all the fun and none of the washing..lol
I just read her fellow iis Gary Delaney also a commedian, so they both must have very irregular hours. I think a permanent relation living together can get a bit strained when the partner comes home in the middle of the night and the other is as late on other nights. I think their workscedule determins a lot when they have days together.
I lived seperately from my husband it worked very well
Living together-apart is absolutely the best, which you’ll understand as you get older.
When you are younger you think how could you ever NOT want to spend time with your most favourite person; although when you get older its also the time apart - but still returning to that special person is just as important.
That realisation that you do not need to live in each others pockets and like EVERYTHING each other likes is a breath of fresh air. Its ok to spend an evening apart when one of you wants to bathe in quiet and the other wants to watch the football.
@@boli2746 - I agree. It also demonstrates trust in each other, which is rather refreshing.
@@boli2746 yeah but also, sometimes, even though you love that person, the sound they make when they eat cereal or the way they stack the dishes that need to be washed, just brings your piss to a boil.
I LOVE how many Americans are discovering the pure joy that is Sarah Millican!
Living separately is more common amongst couples who've had previous divorces/separations, the rose tinted glasses have slipped and life is seen more practically!! Sarah's comedy career started after her first marriage ended and provided a lot of her early material!
Nerves are normal, but you'll have a blast at college and I can't wait to hear how you feel weeks/months into it all!!
Good luck anyway!!
That's the best kind of relationship, absence makes the heart grow fonder. You will be absolutely fine at college have a great time.
Even as an American, I think it’s perfectly fine to not sleep with your partner EVERY night, regardless of the amount of time you’ve been together. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. I won’t say it works for everybody, but I think it keeps a relationship healthy.
Now you really need to watch her husband Gary Delaney! He's a king of the one liners.
I was going to suggest that too. He’s similar to Stewart Francis and Milton Jones. Very good
Her Husband i think is really Funny (unlike her)
I've been suggesting him for months!
The honeymoon period doesn't last forever. At the beginning of a relationship it's all buttercups and rainbows, you hardly see a thing wrong with them and you can't keep your hands off each other. No matter how profound your love, this state of affairs doesn't last, believe me. :) Your relationship may become deeper on many levels but familiarity also means you develop a more realistic view of it, and them, over time. Having some space and time to yourself, becomes vital for a healthy long-term relationship. :)
By the time someone has snored at you for a few years and you've not had a full nights sleep for the same amount of time, you start wanting to strangle them rather than snuggle them 😂
Her relationship sounds absolutely ideal to me. Plenty of people in that situation.
One of the things you learn as you get older is that there is no such thing as a ‘normal relationship’ just whatever works for each couple or thruple or single or whatever.
I've known plenty of people who've had relationships like that: where they live in separate houses and stay together for a few days a week and then go back to their own place for the next few days. It depends who you are as to whether it'll work for you. I've known artists/musicians/etc, for whom it means they can concentrate on painting/composing/hobbies when they're on their own, but then enjoy the companionship/relationship time when they're together. They each have the shared time to enjoy, but they also have their own space to completely do what they want sometimes. In many respects I've heard those people say it keeps their relationship fresh because they aren't always under each other's feet, they get to do the hobbies they want which their partner may not like at all, and they value the time they are together even more. It all just depends on what feels right and works for you.
Yes mate, I used to think of relationships like that when I was you're age, sex on tap and the like.
Now at nearly 64 years of age and 42 years of wedded bliss, we still share the same bed, but not much else.
Separate interests, friends, TV rooms, meals etc. Once upon a time we even considered separate countries.
I'm joking of course, after a while when certain novelties wear off, personal space is important.
But we are together on the things that matter most, and that's what matters most.
Enjoy college, and like I said previously, try not to get brainwashed, life can be easier as one of the sheep, but seldom rewarding, and NEVER challenging.
Don't lose what you've got, you really are quite spesh.
Here endeth the lesson. X.
Dude, there's no need to stress. Just be yourself, you'll make a ton of new friends. And about the workload, just make sure you budget your time well, and you'll do well. Study what you know you'll love doing for the rest of your life. You'll figure it out.
i'm adirty old man,but i feel too parental to Joel,hes a sweet guy,and a bit nieve,or alot ?wish the young ladthe best though
Just what I was gonna say!!!
@@annarasmus8737 Great minds think alike, they say.
Living apart is the best way of maintaining a long term relationship. Joel, romantic Disney notions of love are all well and good but are rarely a good idea in real life.
The older you get the more set in your ways you get and when you’re dating someone you’re not as relaxed when they’re around as when you’re home alone. Plus, you can walk out of a room and come back to it and it will be just how you left it. I’m sure a lot of what she says is to get laughs rather than being fact.
Going away from home for the first time and going to university are stressful for everyone so remember you aren't alone in being worried. Everyone else feels the same whether they say it out loud or not.
"if it was a gay bed, it'd have shakles" what a line, Brilliant
Hilarious, love Sarah
It's not that you can't cope with living with your partner all the time. It's simply that "living together" relationships do require constant compromise. Over all, the compromises are worth it - but nevertheless it's sometimes a welcome relief to be able to luxuriate in being your slobbish self.
I'm 43 and I've been single for nearly 6 years and loving life. If I did meet someone nice I don't think I could live with them full time. I enjoy my own company, well with my dog and cat.
ohmy yes i too like my own company,i think Joel is very innocent,time will show him sadly the real sharp part of life
I've done long distance relationships, you are always excited to see each other . I prefer it to living with someone .
I don't think the Sarah and her boyfriend living situation is that weird. If you are independent minded and have had your own place for many years before meeting someone, it is nice to have your own space. Also both of them are comedians and they are often apart when they touring.
You find not wanting to sleep with each other every night "really weird?" How many long-term relationships have you been in where you shared a bed every night? I can tell you that sometimes it's okay to NOT want to be in the same bed, and there are all sorts of reasons for it.
Apparently Dolly Parton says that is the only way her marriage worked. They divided the mansion into two halves and only saw each other for arranged date times. Whole marriage.
I have been with my partner for 5 years, and we lived apart the first 4 years of that, with us being together 3 or 4 days a week.
I was working hard on my PhD and my partner is a lobster/crab boat skipper so she was out at sea most days.
Despite living apart and only being together at weekends, our relationship was rock solid and we decided that my partner would move in with me at the start of the Covid lockdown as we couldn't face being apart.
So what she says makes perfect sense to us.
i was with my partner for 18 years and we both had our own houses, he would come to mine at the weekend and we spoke on the phone every day, sadly he passed away back in may, i think this relationship works for people who are a bit older and not planning to have kids.
It's unrealistic for me to expect a partner to be my universal everything, and I be theirs. Living apart is a healthy arrangement, each party has time and space to pursue their own interests, and to stay connected with other friends if that's what they want. Living apart does not mean growing apart, if the relationship is strong, time apart strengthen the bond while allowing time and space for each to grow and blossom in ways not possible in a claustrophobic co-dependent relationship.
I have lived with a partner before and I have lived alone while been in a relationship. Living alone works better I feel, can stay over but after 3 nights I need a night alone 😂
Sometimes, no matter how much you love someone you need time apart and not because you need time away from them but because you need time on your own. That can actually result in a better relationship for some (as long as it is something that both partners either choose or need) as neither party feels overwhelmed. As they’ve now been together for 15 years and have been living together and married for 8 of those years, maybe the whole taking it slow about moving in together was what was best for them…and might show how much they wanted to be together and not just that they needed to have someone there. I don’t know them personally, so obviously couldn’t say for certain. I’m just speaking as a female of a similar age to Sarah, who had a long term relationship end suddenly, which is what happened to Sarah in her first marriage.
I knew a couple years back who had been together decades, but they had never moved in together permanently. Their homes were a few miles apart and they spent most weekends together at one or the other apartments, and sometimes during the week they would spend time together in the evenings, but not necessarily overnighting. I asked why, and was told it made things more interesting. I think they also both liked their own space to an extent, but were clearly a very close couple. It worked for them. Relationships can be a tad more varied than we tend to think when we are younger.
You're young, God bless you. You'll understand the value of time apart in years to come. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder.
From what I can recall, Sarah and her significant other have been together for two or three decades and, while not everyone's cup of tea, their living arrangements work well for them. Much as they love, value and make a point of spending a significant amount of time with each other, they also each love and value their own space. I guess the arrangement could be filed under, 'If it ain't broke, don't fix it.' ;)
I think space in a relationship is actually very healthy. Shouldn't be with your partner all day every day
I didn’t get married. I was like Sarah. The boyfriend is nice to have around, but nice when they leave too. Now I can’t be bothered with relationships at all. I stay single.
Yes. When you get together you have different things to talk about.
My wife and I have two houses. Today she's in the other. Healthy.
@@MarkSmithSa Bad. Two lots of housework to do!!! :-)
@@margaretnicol3423 Keeps her very happily occupied. She also has 2 gardens and a farm in which she grows: coconuts, papaya, limes, cherries, lettuce, eggs, mangoes, chilli peppers, rambutan, bananas, bamboo, durian, longkon, jackfruit, guava, pomelo, galangal, apples, lemongrass, avocadoes, kaffir limes, ginger, asparagus, tamarind, dates and basil.
One very happy bunny 21 years younger than me.
After 12 years of living with someone (and during that time having two children) and as a person who needs quite a lot of own space.... Yeah, a couple of days a week being just by myself doesn't sound that bad at all. 😅 When I was younger I also had quite a hard time understanding couples living on separate homes or at least sleeping in separate rooms, but now I get it. It's not for everyone, but some people need some alone time to recharge and relax.
I havent even been in a relationship yet but sometimes I just need a few days for me and need to be alone. So thats why I probably would prefer something like she and her fella did
Hi, JPS, I am from the same town Sarah was born in called South Shields. Have met her out in town drinking and she will always talk to you, she is still as funny in normal life too. Also seen her live over 30 times throughout her career, even in the early days of her gigs doing local comedy clubs. You need to see her live yourself to appreciate her talents.
She is my favourate female comedian. Watch her now husband Gary Delaney.
Why *female* comedian?
One doesn't have to share a household with someone in order to have a loving and fulfilling relationship.
some people love being in a relationship but are also too used to being independent and as a consequence being together full time can be quite alarming and daunting especially if you both have the same love for being independent. I think its healthy tbh especially if you do end up living together full time and all you do is end up arguing with each other an awful lot. Also, they may not be ready for a full term relationship people know when they're ready to move into another's life some people just prefer to keep to themselves.
Love Sarah Millican, went to see her show Bobby Dazzler a few weeks ago. Thats the 4th time I have seen her live shows :)
Sarah is now married to Gary Delaney, another UK commedian, famous for his one liner jokes - a visit to their house must be an absolute riot - well worth a reaction to some of his material - my favorite is him attempting "Dry January" - I'll let you find the punchline. lol
People’s family and romantic relationships were put to the test during lockdown. My corporate accountant husband worked from home and we and our son were together 24 hours a day for 15 months. When his company opened its doors again. I told him that I would miss him. He was flattered because not everyone would feel that way. People love each other but they need a bit of time to be alone everyday. When I got married to John I knew better than to try and change him. He he has spent his life leaving the cabinets and drawers open, for example. After mentioning it to him every so often I accepted it. It’s good to choose your battles.
You should watch the Royal Family. Sitcom about an average northern family.
May not be his thing..he may like gimme gimme gimme..but both are Brillant.!
Enjoy your videos so much🥃👍
I genuinely think their relationship is great. its certainly what I always do. You always get your own free time to do what ever the hell you want, then a bit of company during the week. Seems so normal to me.
I think the living apart thing is much more appreciated if you are older. She has been married before so she was in no rush to commit quickly lol.
There are loads of female comedians that are really good an old school one who sadly is no longer with us is Victoria wood she was great and her songs were genius! (Barry and Freda is my personal favourite of hers) she also did a lot of tv work.
if you're an introvert living apart is really great. You get a couple of days to decompress before seeing them again
Don't forget that in the UK most beds are smaller than American ones. On hot sweaty nights it can be difficult for two people sleeping together. The cuddling up is lovely but there a times when it would be almost as lovely to have your own bed to stretch out on. :-)
You absolutely need to see her husband! He was voted the comedian's favourite comedian! Gary Delaney!
Try a couple of her full shows like 'Home Bird' or 'Chatterbox-' they are over an hour but are totally worth it as you can see how she creates a flow of humor and audience participation over the entire show and you could then do a reaction in 2 or 3 parts.
Living apart together is a rather common way and every time you meet, you are real happy to see each other...... Most couples are living together apart after a few years...... sleeping in the same bad, backs to each other....... living their own rithm in one house...... with often only children that keep them in that one house.....
Actually I am on this with you, I love to live together with my partner, being mates and still spoon after 35 years! One thing to keep a relation going is to give each other room to live and communicate! And that is way more then saying "dinner is ready"!!
Have you ever heard of "weekend couples"? It's a term out of Korea; however, it happens all around the world wherein one half of a couple works away during the week to return only on weekends. People commute intercity/country and live in their pied-à-terre only returning to the family home 2 days a week, and taking the family on holidays.
Here in Scotland, you have couples that don't see each other for months on end, either because one, or both are in the merchant navy, or work away on oil rigs.
Been with my boyfriend for 10 years (from when we were 18). I have my own place, he still lives with his parents. We both prefer having "me" time, so our plan is he'll get his own place, live in it and we'll just come over to each others places 4-5 times a week. Once we move in together we'll just sell his place or rent it out.
Once we're at the marriage/have kids stage, then sure, moving in together will naturally occur. But until then we plan on living separately for a while.
best of british comedy and humor ,most people cant understand our sence of humor, sarah millican is one of our best comics
Yes boy, sleeping in different beds and different rooms should be the norm! One day you are going to be older enough to understand the concept. It is actually a brilliant set up. Regards from Canada.
Living apart is natural and good also. It brings balance.
Sometimes, aspects of a relationship are fast tracked, overstepping healthy boundaries.
Billy Connolly is Scottish comedian he cracks me up.
As a fellow North Easterner (I would say Geordie for all of you non-locals, but I live 15 miles south of Newcastle so not really a Geordie) she reminds me so much of home.
Her relationship with her fella - (they're married now by the way) - they are both comedians, she has her schedule, he has his so, they're only able to spend a limited time together depending on if and when they can get home from their gigs. As they're married, they've probably got themselves better organised by now though. Love the way you react to our comedians and such. You appear genuine which comes over in your responses and is appreciated. Thank you for what you do.
Try John Bishop, he's excellent. Watched one of his DVDs and I had stomach ache with laughing so much!. I think it was "John Bishop Live Rollercoaster tour"
Not weird at all, independant lives when in a relationship is incredibly important! Also you have to think this will be exaggerated somewhat for comedic effect
Pleased you like Sarah Millican. I saw her live a few years ago. The warm up act for her was Tom Allen, he’s brilliant, check him out too.
Her partner is Gary Delaney. His set is one liners and he’s fantastic!
Sarah is just sooo funny! Any of her standup is worth a watch. She is married now so she must have sorted his owl feet out by now! As for you going to college, you really shouldn’t worry, you’ve got over 18,000 people on here who think you’re a great chap, you’ll have no problem making friends, just be yourself, you’ve got a great sense of humour and your snort/laugh is just hysterical! 🤣👍
Sarah's husband, is Gary Delaney, I've seen him live a couple of times, the funniest person I've ever seen. Me and my wife were left in pain from laughing. Look him up, you won't regret it.
thanks for that, seen him a few times in "Mock the week", he is a real commedian too.
With both of them having tours and shows it is quit logic they live appart most of the time.
As a man in his seventies, let me say that my wife and i, have our own bedrooms, and it works just fine. She has her "girl friends" and i have my male pals. One learns, as one gets older that having some "space of your own" works. It prevents you taking each other for granted. Good luck at college, thats another thing you will "look back" on when you are older, and wonder "why did i get my knickers in a twist over that?".Keep up the good work!.
sarah is awsome just watch any of her tours in full they are on youtube
She is from South Shields in north east England. Same birthplace as Sir Ridley Scott.
Michael Mcintyre talking about Waitrose, and the Dentist, you'll honestly cry laughing
People that have lived on their own a long time need to ease into things. They have their routines and ways long established. It takes time to adjust to another - a lot of give & take. Slower can be way healthier to establish how you will be as a couple together eventually. :)
They are married and live together now anyway- some of those were from older shows ;)
Oh dear boy you are such a romantic! People can love each other so so much, but actually living together can be a different ballgame. Sleep rhythms, work schedules, expectations are so high but then, life gets in the way. One person works at night, one in the day…all kinds of things can happen. True love is about understanding differences as well as similarities, and compromising, as I’m sure you’d agree. The best times, when it’s all good…that’s what you get more of when these things are sorted out.
If you haven't already seen Billy Connolly, give him a try, he makes your stomach ache with laughing. With all comedians you get to have a favourite act, but I'm sure whatever one you watch you will really enjoy.
Not living together in an LTR is the best. My partner and I owe 12 year’s happiness to it!
I like having separate bedrooms myself. Not only do I sleep better, stretched out and at the temp I like, but we don't take each other for granted. To have sexy time, we have to continue to woo each other and be invited into the other's room. You can still share a bed if you're feeling cuddly, but you can't just assume it! Also consider that many people (like myself) need some alone time. It doesn't mean I don't love the people in my life, I just also need some time to be with myself.
Speaking of her bf, have you ever watched Gary Delaney's stuff? Totally different style! He's my favourite one-liner comedian.
Sarah Millican is married to comedian Gary Delaney. There are a couple of his videos on TH-cam but his language can tend to be a bit raw and his jokes can border on the very black/tasteless often using one-liners and innuendo. They've been married since 2013.
Don’t worry, my friend! 😅 they’ve been together now almost 17 years and have since that clip moved in together, bought a house and gotten married. 🥰
Me and my gf have been together for 6 years and we live apart Monday to Thursday and live together at the weekends and it’s great. Not for everyone but works for some couples
The secret of good marriage is personal space,sleep in different rooms is possible or in single beds.
Would love to see you do a Peter Kaye 'Car Share' episode - particularly the 'Dogging' one. I really think that you will love it.
Always start slowly in a relationship, no need to rush, in England we go out with each other make sure were compatible, stay over, meet families and friends, move in together, and even then not necessarily get married, marriage is for those who want to
We Brits love our personal space. A few days with a few without works well for most of us and keeps us happy and comfortable :3
Some people are not people people. I knew a couple who were married, loved each other very much but could not spend extended periods with other people, period. They both lived alone, with their own space. They were incredibly happy.
Interesting people have interesting needs and problems.
I think she is a very funny lass, her observations of her life and boyfriend sometimes have my ribs aching. Another firm favourite comedian of mine is the late, great Victoria Wood who, sadly, died 5 years ago at just 62! She was a stand up, wrote song lyrics, was an award winning playwrite ... just an all round genius. She's definitely worth checking out, Joel. As for your issue/s with stress/anxiety, it's perfectly natural to experience increased levels of these emotions as you transition to higher education. Just keep in mind that we're all with you 100% buddy. Don't be embarrassed or uncomfortable about accessing on campus support such as counselors. :-)
Thing is ive seen all her stuff before but still laugh after seeing it on here like its the first time
I know a couple who are married and have two children and live next door to each other. They say living separately keeps their marriage alive.
They are married now 👌
the amount of times i have belly laughed watching her, shes awesome! Was good seeing u lose it too man.
Sarah's boy friend is comedian Gary Delaney and he is well worth checking out
Sarah is just hilarious the things she comes out with is just pure genius as far as I know she’s married now and they do live in the same house 🏡 I’d love to go to see her live Love 💕 from Denise in Yorkshire England 🏴😂😂🤣🤣👏👏👏👍👋
You should check out Joe Lycett. He's hilarious. Some of his stuff is very clever, he trolls people (the council, con artists, landlords etc) His shows are called "I'm about to lose control & I think Joe Lycett" and "That's the way aha aha, Joe Lycett" His parking meter stories are really funny..
Love your channel, you must watch Lee Evans, he is a brilliant comedian
Her boyfriend is Gary Delaney he is also a comedian check him out he’s really good
I have a suspicion that she doesn't let the truth spoil a good skit. I love her work.
Great watch again Joel
When you’ve been with someone a while even though you love them you appreciate your own time a bit more. Look back at this video in 15 years 🤣
Many women want to have their own place when they get divorced. I do live with my boyfriend, but we have a spare room if he or I need to sleep apart due to snoring, sickness or just not being able to sleep. My sister has been divorced for almost 20 years, and still lives alone. She needs her space. It is different for different people. The best thing about living alone is being able to do exactly what I want to do, especially after divorcing someone who controlled everything about my life.
The fact that they lived 80 miles apart might explain the situation a bit!
God knows why a Geordie was living in Manchester!
That's like moving from a 5 bed detached house in a gated community, to a 2 bed terrace council house!
Living apart can work for some. My partner actually lives in another country pre covid we see each other every few weeks and it works really well. Unfortunately covid means we haven't seen each other in 14 months but flight booked for next week 🤞
They are both comedians, so they work in different parts of the country a lot and get in late at night, so I guess it’s just easier.
Jps watch Fawlty Towers, especially the German episode.
How did your hair grow so quickly! :D
My other half is my next door neighbour. Been together for twenty years...works perfectly although the other neighbours bought us walkie-talkies as the other half tends to shout me from her door instead of coming round to mine. The only drawback is if it's raining no matter what is for dinner...its soup by the time I get the plate home! 🙃