The REAL Reason Women Say "I Need Space"

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    • @formulaxautodetail3218
      @formulaxautodetail3218 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Rich, Great video and this is totally off topic but what is the mic and camera you are using?

  • @RealityEDS
    @RealityEDS ปีที่แล้ว +782

    Absolutely true. Wifey pulled this on me. She wanted a year long "in house separation for self improvement and growth" after I found out she was getting really close to her gym rat friend. There's way more to it, but the short story is she just wanted to have a year a fun to test her new dude out as I still covered all the bills and took care of our son. Fast forward 5 years, I have majority custody of my son, way more income (she got 6 figures in the divorce), and her guy died of heart failure recently from steroid abuse. Life is fantastic and I'm glad she went away.

    • @edwardmcmahon6390
      @edwardmcmahon6390 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Karma had your back

    • @gogo-bi9qh
      @gogo-bi9qh ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Now that's a happy ending!

    • @socrabate
      @socrabate ปีที่แล้ว

      Concubines are there to be conquered!

    • @donaldcodes
      @donaldcodes ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Damn talk about karma

    • @jeremyromero2000
      @jeremyromero2000 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s funny is you could’ve abused PEDs too but didn’t, and now look whose alive and thriving

  • @brianmcg321
    @brianmcg321 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    Anytime a woman needs space or “isn’t ready for a relationship”, she’s just not into you and is talking to another dude.

    • @anandmehta2323
      @anandmehta2323 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Yeah and there is always other dude.

    • @chriskirsten8221
      @chriskirsten8221 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      every single time....

    • @WaqarDepp
      @WaqarDepp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True!

    • @ronmexico79
      @ronmexico79 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@anandmehta2323 ALWAYS AT LEAST ONE ON HOLD

    • @chriskirsten8221
      @chriskirsten8221 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @Ufuoma Ojomaikre NEVER go back to someone who does you dirty like that. Stand tall brother!

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    If a girl is into you, they make it so EASY for you. If you're with a girl who thinks she can do better it's going to feel like WORK. You can spot female interest level easily, how long does she take to respond to a text, and, how available is she. If texts exceed a full day, she ain't into you. If she's busy a lot, she's not into you. When a woman likes a guy they text back quick and make themselves available. Don't pursue women who aren't into you, you're better off alone believe me.

    • @cyber6sapien
      @cyber6sapien ปีที่แล้ว +15

      1 MILLION percent facts!!

    • @markrigoni9189
      @markrigoni9189 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👍

    • @cristobal.palmero4919
      @cristobal.palmero4919 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Truth there, I dated this bomb shell for 6 months, way more attractive than me, she liked me but that was about it. It doesn't work unless she's more into you. You can't pedestalize women, it will end in your inevitable doom. There needs to be an element of respect for women to love you.

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @Steve-gn4hk
      @Steve-gn4hk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said

  • @ptrsrfns
    @ptrsrfns ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Always look for someone who is excited and enthusiastic to be with you.

    • @misterbobby8913
      @misterbobby8913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts!

    • @misterbobby8913
      @misterbobby8913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jasonreed2116 Also Facts!
      How can one decipher if the girl's excitement to be with you will actually last and be a long term thing? 🤔

    • @shadowfax7396
      @shadowfax7396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unless that suddenly changes which basically means she has met chad.

    • @MikeG82
      @MikeG82 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      is that realistic for most guys when you factor in height, looks, money, personality etc?

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beware if she starts love bombing you.

  • @JohnDoe-qz3qi
    @JohnDoe-qz3qi ปีที่แล้ว +232

    ”I need space” meaning ”I want to sleep with other men”.

    • @sweatchivanswett7995
      @sweatchivanswett7995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMFAOROTFLSM 🤣

    • @econdude3811
      @econdude3811 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That kind of sentiment should bring an automatic block and ghost, gentlemen

    • @ikemkrueger
      @ikemkrueger ปีที่แล้ว

      Replace „space“ with „dick“.

  • @johnsteele8073
    @johnsteele8073 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Need space means "another dude is interested in me and I'm going to take my shot and if that doesn't work out then I'm going to keep you around as a backup". Basically she just wants to cheat and if it doesn't work out then she'll take you back but she doesn't want you to know about it. Women never want space from you. If she's attracted to you? 😂. Have you guys ever had a woman who was really attracted to you who wanted space? Hell no she's up in your business all the time and she always wants your attention

    • @antonsimmons8519
      @antonsimmons8519 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Facts. When a woman wants you, the intensity and frequency of her desire for your time is just...unmistakable.
      Hell, in such cases, I find the one asking for space is ME! 🤣

    • @johnsteele8073
      @johnsteele8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OldSkool81 are you calling me names? And if so why?

    • @FreedomFox1
      @FreedomFox1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, it’s just one of the cute euphemisms women use. Like calling a jacked guy a man who “takes care of himself.”

    • @goodgoy
      @goodgoy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnsteele8073 clearly not you

    • @johnsteele8073
      @johnsteele8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goodgoy you never know with the internet dude. People will attack you for no reason at all

  • @rangerwhite5165
    @rangerwhite5165 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I've had this in relationships in my teens. This was the 80s, before hypergamy and red pill was understood. Girlfriends would go quiet, bedroom activity would die off, then I would desperately try and put in more effort then get dumped. Not giving a fxxk is the way to go. I wish this content had been available in the 80s. We were sold the romantic, get married, happily ever BS narrative. Good work Rich. Keep educating.

    • @daszieher
      @daszieher ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same. Was born a decade later, went through the 90's with the same state of mind, and failed miserably. Marriage crashed and burned, but am glad that I got out of it. Gave me a chance to spin plates and after a while and by chance settle for a new one, who has that burning desire (wanted to get pregnant from me although I was dead broke when we she left her guy, who was making six-figure numbers).
      Well, now I also make six-figure numbers. So, karma had her back as well.
      The other dude also got lucky. married up so far up the ladder that his income is irrelevant to the household 😄

    • @mobydick3895
      @mobydick3895 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      In the 70s I had a girl who I got serious with but then she faded and then dumped me after a year of wasting my time with me being the blue-pilled moron I was! After that, I just could not take women seriously anymore since I realized what a total crap-shoot a relationship typically is. What I realize now is that I red-pilled myself back then but I didn't have all this red-pill analysis that men have now identified. I thought for years I was just a screwed up guy, but now I see much more clearly that the whole activity of a relationship is just a screw-up waiting to happen. Now-days I just go into a relationship waking up everyday asking myself, "OK, is this going to be the day she blows everything up?!!"

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@daszieher if she was cheating on the last guy with you, she will cheat on you with the next guy.

    • @daszieher
      @daszieher ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cruiser6260 maybe, maybe not.
      If she does, she loses me. So it's her loss.

    • @cristobal.palmero4919
      @cristobal.palmero4919 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hypergamy has always been understood

  • @SoWestMeetsEast
    @SoWestMeetsEast ปีที่แล้ว +123

    An emotionally healthy woman who likes you is vocal about it, and available to you.
    It's not complex. If you're justifying things, she isn't that into you.

    • @econdude3811
      @econdude3811 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think the guy who wrote in was way too nice

  • @shashankaggarwal7561
    @shashankaggarwal7561 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    as someone wise said when she says "i need space" give her the whole solar system

  • @gogo-bi9qh
    @gogo-bi9qh ปีที่แล้ว +84

    For you married men. Trial separation is the same thing. Translation: I need time to test out affair guy before divorcing you.

    • @Judeko
      @Judeko ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ran into this exact situation. Called my lawyer the next day to start the process of filing for divorce. Hot tip: keep the papers in the freezer so they are ice cold when you give them to her.

    • @K4113B4113
      @K4113B4113 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Judeko why does it matter that the papers are cold?🤔

    • @Judeko
      @Judeko ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@K4113B4113 Because she loses the privilege of receiving any kind of warmth or comfort from you at that point.

    • @K4113B4113
      @K4113B4113 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Judeko haha ok

    • @MarvelousSeven
      @MarvelousSeven ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex tried that stunt. Caught her at it.

  • @idesel
    @idesel ปีที่แล้ว +40

    If you discover you're not first choice, don't waste your time with her. She is going to get you very frustrated. Guys like Will Smith and Steph Curry are in situations like that in their marriages.

    • @Focus293
      @Focus293 ปีที่แล้ว

      Didn't Steph agree to an open marriage?

  • @jrhamilton4448
    @jrhamilton4448 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Whenever she says she needs space and time to "work it out" is a euphemism for I want that other dude to scramble my insides while I make my decision.

  • @autoproblematic5800
    @autoproblematic5800 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Ex wife said she needed “some space” and “a break”; I said “take all the time you need”; she moved out (with the kids of course), and then she got served with divorce papers.

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Then she took everything with the help of family law court. Savings, 401k, house and got alimony and child support....

    • @sexysputnik
      @sexysputnik ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How were you able to serve her divorce papers? Considering the courts favor the women and can take half or all of your assets.

    • @Tdawg93a
      @Tdawg93a ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sexysputnik is that the case when the husband files though?

    • @sexysputnik
      @sexysputnik ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Tdawg93a ..
      ..idk?

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Tdawg93a Yes regardless of whom files, its the same outcome in Non-fault states. The ex-wife could even cheat on him and still he gets wrecked in court losing everything. Basically ends up in who earns more pays. If you add children to the mix, forget about everything else, she could even EARN MORE than him and since she gets custody of the kids, the guy ends up paying child support regardless. Family Law Court is a men meat grinder, they squeeze every penny of the man's wallet then throw him out to the streets.

  • @davemustachio2734
    @davemustachio2734 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I was seeing this girl back years ago that suddenly gave me the “I need space” line and she said I’ll call you when I’m ready. I stopped calling her. I got into another relationship and about six months later she saw me out and about and said. Why did you stop talking to me? I said you told me you “needed space” and I knew you were talking to another guy. I don’t play those games. You wanna screw him that’s fine. I don’t do sloppy seconds.

    • @PussInBoot414
      @PussInBoot414 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Funny how they’ll instigate a break but when you go through with it they get all pissed and never try to fix it themselves. Best you can do is give it to them and see their expression when they catch you living your life and being with someone who appreciates you.

  • @Logan24855
    @Logan24855 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    “Second means nothing”
    - Richard Branson

    • @canieto1
      @canieto1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      “If you’re not first, you’re last” - Ricky Bobby’s dad.

  • @disorder_go
    @disorder_go ปีที่แล้ว +66

    4 weeks ago my girl said the same thing. I'm thinking there's an old ex somewhere that has re-surfaced. I said 'ok' and left it at that. She'll never hear from me again.

    • @mavrickwatts4030
      @mavrickwatts4030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any reach out from her to you?

    • @fuckingeveryname
      @fuckingeveryname ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well done, stay strong bro 💪

    • @disorder_go
      @disorder_go ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mavrickwatts4030 Nop! But she will eventually. She’ll find herself blocked though.

    • @DrRussell
      @DrRussell ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good man stay strong

    • @tjc4085
      @tjc4085 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truthfully, she said that to instigate a break up with u. Its not easy for women to be direct with it.

  • @truthteller4442
    @truthteller4442 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Emails like his are why I’m so glad I left the dating scene. These modern girls simply have too many choices. The littlest thing will get you disqualified, and even in this case, where it’s not even your fault, they’ll always usually be pining for some previous “Giga-Chad.”

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 ปีที่แล้ว

      @OldSkool yet they divorced that guy they had children with. Alpha seed beta need

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

    • @torrancehale1819
      @torrancehale1819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OldSkool I finally understood that term, "Alpha Widow" when I remembered this chick I knew back then who was basically a wet blanket, always crying and sh*t. Years later, I bumped into her again, and she had this attitude about herself. Always kept talking about this guy she used to f*ck with. I can see the b*tch shield she uses to guard herself now. That dude really must've done a number on her. Damn. I wish I had this red pill knowledge back then. It keeps connecting all of the dots for me!

    • @balerion77
      @balerion77 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you ever Get to experience This level of Burning Desire? In no way do I mean this in a mean way, It's a general question.
      Men, I think need to experience this level of Desire for them atleast Once in their lifetime. To know How easy A woman will make it for You when she Pines for you. So that You know to Deal with Women who are More Into you and Not S!mp over some girl Who doesn't See you like that.

  • @villaespesa1
    @villaespesa1 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The moment you hear " space " start packing right there and then, don't even entertain a conversation about it.

  • @Outdoor_Nathan
    @Outdoor_Nathan ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Sadly, I agree with this video. I got wrecked in 2019, where after being in a relationship for a year, that seemed like it was going in a serious direction, I was told, she needed space. I continued to pine over her. I did everything wrong. I see that now. I proceeded to have another “serious” relationship, right after that, not realizing, or fully appreciating what I was doing wrong. In that relationship- I started to have this realization that there was a “power imbalance”- which was the only way I could try and describe it. So, since that time, I’ve been very different. I don’t think I knew about this concept of “frame”, but I have been discovering it for myself, gradually, over about nine years. The relationships I have had, or situations hips, or plates, or any of the above, have been the most peaceful and least effort, when I invite the woman into my frame. I think it’s very important for a man to own his own home, because women may come and go. You don’t want your finances getting wrecked, every time a woman changes her mind. You need to put your own self development, financial security, family, first.

  • @MrChip1217
    @MrChip1217 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Anytime she says, “I need space.” She means I need space without you in it so I can try someone else. Just move on and Don’t Look Back

  • @OziBlokeTimG
    @OziBlokeTimG ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm finding all this depressing, I don't hold much hope of any meaningful relationship. I don't want to but feeling like I just want to go and hide under a rock. Nice guys get nothing, pain and heart ache are assured.
    I lived in a dream fantasy world in my own head.

    • @carlhash6540
      @carlhash6540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dream only happens in Taliban country, where they can’t cheat on you, because they will be stoned to death 💀

  • @user-ib3jm9tz5u
    @user-ib3jm9tz5u ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “He is living rent-free in her heart and mind.” Nicely put 👍 Now all go back to working on becoming the guy chicks alpha widow over instead of wasting time on them broads that don’t appreciate us when we were not first choice.

  • @ethanetn
    @ethanetn ปีที่แล้ว +39

    If she says she was in a situationship with an ex, then you are the situationship till they get back together

    • @dwtees
      @dwtees ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They may not necessarily get back together but this still is not good news for the dude in this video.. She can remained dumped by her alfa dude. She still won't like you because she thinks she is entitled to have a high value Alfa guy. In this video the guy for some reason is found to be beta and will never be good enough. Have the balls to walk away. This guy did all the right things. If enough guys did this possibly woman might learn and be more realistic about their SMV. Rich great job educating todays men. You provide a great service.

    • @Focus293
      @Focus293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Basically if she's still attached to an ex or exes then leave her alone. You'll end up in a on and off again situation and you don't need that stress

    • @jessebradford7130
      @jessebradford7130 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funny you say that because I was the real boyfriend after I left and she clung to a place holder.

    • @dwtees
      @dwtees ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jessebradford7130 I dont believe u Jesse. A woman always has a back up plan. Im sure she wouldn’t admit that to you.

  • @chriskirsten8221
    @chriskirsten8221 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    NEVER be a second choice......plain and simple

  • @neoreign
    @neoreign ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I used to run meetups here in Toronto until the plandemic. Lowest end about 100 people would show up and because of the heavy white collar jobs here, majority were women. This is a very real conversation that men need to have while vetting a partner, they all without maybe a few girls had 'the one who got away' aka alpha widowed

    • @coolvania
      @coolvania ปีที่แล้ว

      Which meetup group? I also live in Toronto and I’ve used meetup before but it was mostly newly arrived immigrants and/or tourists

    • @jayvonjayvon6147
      @jayvonjayvon6147 ปีที่แล้ว

      iam from Toronto my boy can we be friends lol

    • @samstan4462
      @samstan4462 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U had me at plandemic..

    • @benneywenney
      @benneywenney ปีที่แล้ว

      The scamdemic.
      The shamdemic
      Biggest load of bullshit in history

    • @cristobal.palmero4919
      @cristobal.palmero4919 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Went to a few meetups in London when I was working there. So many lawyers and bankers looking for their match. Honestly, the conversations were more like job interviews. They wanted to make sure you checked off all their requirements straight off which killed it for me.

  • @Logan24855
    @Logan24855 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That’s a good rhyme: “I need some space, I don’t want see your face, your going to be replaced, I got to go faster in this race, see you later ace” 😂😂

  • @VadedRacing
    @VadedRacing ปีที่แล้ว +19

    A girl I was dating a while back had a “don’t text your ex” candle in her room. Needless to say I had the same experience as this guy💀

    • @fuckingeveryname
      @fuckingeveryname ปีที่แล้ว +5

      like a prayer candle for weak chicks? god damn at least someone is merchandising this shit 😂

    • @VadedRacing
      @VadedRacing ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fuckingeveryname Nah it was a yankee candle or something, and the label said “don’t text your ex” lmao

  • @sorryociffer
    @sorryociffer ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Uses alcohol to cope with her anxiety…. Nice. Yeah, pick HER!

    • @Tdawg93a
      @Tdawg93a ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yeah good point

    • @brutonano9521
      @brutonano9521 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarcasm...listen up boys.

  • @benjaminnewman3837
    @benjaminnewman3837 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just got a message an hour ago from a girl I asked out that she needed time to work on herself before dating. Wow, the timing on this video upload.
    Oh well, off to the gym.

    • @jeremyromero2000
      @jeremyromero2000 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A tale as old as time. I also felt targeted by this post but I’m 2 weeks post ghost

    • @socrabate
      @socrabate ปีที่แล้ว

      Concubines are there to be conquered!

    • @truthteller4442
      @truthteller4442 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the gym ain’t gonna solve it. The problem is modern women. There’s no dumbell solution for their entitlement, delusions, and endless options and attention they receive.

    • @sorryociffer
      @sorryociffer ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just hit it and quit it. Use her as practice. She’s already broken, so the damage is done.

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink ปีที่แล้ว +1

      chad is showing later for some hardcore pounding

  • @vigilfox
    @vigilfox ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Need space? Ok, glad you brought that up. I've been reevaluating things too, and that's a good idea. Only thing is, there's the door, and it locks on the way out.

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you actually say that to a woman or just hypothetically?

    • @vigilfox
      @vigilfox ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@coloradomark2159 I actually did, to my ONEitis. It was difficult, but it turned out to be the right move.

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vigilfox kudos to you. You stood your ground and for the right reason.

    • @dciccantelli
      @dciccantelli 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vigilfox Brutal but glorious. Bravo !

  • @Project-Masculinity
    @Project-Masculinity ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Space = Chad

  • @RecreationalUseOnly
    @RecreationalUseOnly ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never before have I seen a more honest TH-cam thumbnail.

  • @TheLordPanic
    @TheLordPanic ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The thumbnail cracked me up 😭😭😭

  • @mikejohnson699
    @mikejohnson699 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Stay single forever guys and leave these female scammers alone

    • @oa6551
      @oa6551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol female scammers love it

    • @Ben-kw8nb
      @Ben-kw8nb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tame???

    • @goodgoy
      @goodgoy ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes they are animals

    • @tjc4085
      @tjc4085 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goodgoy both are animals. Women run game on men just as much perhaps even better than men do. Truth be told, women always have the advantage because men desire women and women need men. The need for men has lessened today so men are the ones with the weakness’s

  • @gogo-bi9qh
    @gogo-bi9qh ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That vacuum is obsession, which is caused by the rejection. It’s happens with things or people we don’t even really want or need.

  • @ventolus2068
    @ventolus2068 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your videos are helping me a lot. I have always been a beta, but never one that a thirsty beta. I'm about to leave a marriage after 11 years in her frame. Started reading your book and it's helping me a lot. Helping me see things in a clear way.

    • @TOCC50
      @TOCC50 ปีที่แล้ว

      She needs another guy’s member inside of her pink space

    • @Pete_xp
      @Pete_xp ปีที่แล้ว

      Whew

  • @bigneiltoo
    @bigneiltoo ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A girl can never say she needs space unless you're over texting her. My last girl would sometimes disappear for weeks but she always came back. She once said "you give me SPACE". How often have you heard that from a girl? Remember: beautiful women need TOO MUCH space. You never ask her for a commitment so she can never cheat. Unless SHE asks for the commitment, you're free. If she's sufficiently beautiful then other hot women will make themselves available to you, so she'll have anxiety when you are gone. Just let her do the initiating and enjoy time alone.

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you have so much to say that it's "overtexting" women who love it, just make a damn call. She became the last girl when the space made her his girl.

    • @ladygodiva4141
      @ladygodiva4141 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree, over texting is why I broke it off with someone. To the extent the ‘good morning’ texts were just giving me anxiety.

  • @brawndothethirstmutilator9848
    @brawndothethirstmutilator9848 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “Space…the final frontier…”

  • @TheMfmccarthy
    @TheMfmccarthy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rich, I think you really hit on something here. I had to identify in myself, in the process of red pilling, that I enjoy the abusive challenge of going after someone who doesn't choose me first. That took a lot of unpacking

  • @etoineschrdlu9382
    @etoineschrdlu9382 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Unless you're the Alpha Alpha male in her life, you're always going to be her Beta back-up and never her number one. This is the problem with dating and marriage today: women have been told that they can be 'just like men', go spin plates, sleep around, 'have fun' while 'building their career, etc. and then 'settle down' when they realize the bio-clock is ticking, never imagining that "The Wall" is fast approaching. Then they find that the tables have turned: it isn't 'her choice' any longer, it can be 'his choice' if he truly understands the landscape.
    In this case she realized that "she settled" for the guy who wrote to you, but really wants to renegotiate with the ex. The ex who clearly messaged that he was no longer interested. I mean, the ex greeted and addressed everyone around her, deliberately ignoring her (the silent: "You Are Dead To Me!"), so it is clearly not happening between them. She simply does not realize that the bridge is burned and that crossing back and forth is not a tenable option. On the "Hot/Crazy Matrix" she is demoted from the Marry zone to the date zone at best and say Sayonara if she tries to friend zone you. Which she has - "I need Space". You will never be her number one because she believes she can do better than you and she has just demonstrated that fact.

  • @dpstrial
    @dpstrial ปีที่แล้ว +19

    100% on your analysis, Richard. Lots of women pine for other blokes and probably make up the bulk of divorcees.

  • @PetriA83
    @PetriA83 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just bought the book. Thank you for continuously providing good and informative content!

  • @ukmedthegreat
    @ukmedthegreat ปีที่แล้ว +5

    was dating a women for 1 month and i just caught her lying so many times and in a short period of time she went from love bombing to starting to devaluing. She actually admitted that she had borderline personality disorder and was a narcacist. It took me 2 weeks of thinking about it before i dumped her. Dodged a huge bullet on this one, it hurts because i really liked her but i figured out it was all completely fake. Sorta annoyed i fell for it at first.
    With narcacists i figured out they actually tell on themselves because they talk too much. They speak on things then when they speak on the same topics later the story is different.
    When i broke up with her she didnt even seem upset, more angry that she lost her supply.. such a sad time that there are so many broken people - they have to hurt others to put themselves up. These kinda people will all die lonely. Not my problem!
    Stay woke kings

    • @ChaseFace
      @ChaseFace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do not date borderline or bipolar women. They’re complete trouble.

  • @wowingfacts
    @wowingfacts ปีที่แล้ว +14

    No girl I've dated gets over me, married or single, how do I know this? They re still open to hangout or come by my place if i make an invitation, they send or follow me with fake accounts on Instagram and Facebook. What do I do, I laugh and unfollow them while I keep my account public. I'm the big PRIZE,
    KNOW YOUR WORTH GENTS!

    • @socrabate
      @socrabate ปีที่แล้ว

      Concubines are there to be conquered!

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "trust me bro"

    • @nealp885
      @nealp885 ปีที่แล้ว

      How tall are you?

    • @wowingfacts
      @wowingfacts ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nealp885 5f8, I don't consider myself a tall guy, I'm 36yrs

  • @chriskirsten8221
    @chriskirsten8221 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    she just wanted to keep him in her back pocket incase it didnt go well with the ex...
    people suck these days

  • @VitaLAwakening
    @VitaLAwakening ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smart dude, he knows what's up and will be just fine.

  • @Duveen1988
    @Duveen1988 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    (;) "I need some space"
    *Several Weeks Later*
    ( 0 ) "We need to talk"

    • @dciccantelli
      @dciccantelli 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Who is this ?" 😁

  • @abhijitpawar1568
    @abhijitpawar1568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Video! Which is why it is always imperative to ask a girl the following questions before getting into a serious relationship with her:
    1. Did you have any past relationships and/or situationships?
    2. Do you currently or in the past have any friends with benefits?
    3. How many male friends do you have?
    4. What is your Body count? (Ideally this should be zero)
    5. Do you still keep in touch with any of your exes and/or friends with benefits?
    6. Is there someone else that you are seeing? (Very important question ask if you want to make that you are her number one choice)
    7. Do you have any type of unresolved feelings for any other guys?
    8. Are you also looking for a serious long term relationship that will lead to marriage?
    Only after getting the answers to these you should proceed to enter into a serious relationship with her.

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “If Your Girl Tells U “babe I need Some Space” Just Know She is getting her Back Blown Out At Another Place
    -Cheek slaying Gospels

  • @richarddickson5949
    @richarddickson5949 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bravo to the hero of this story. It appears more men are starting to get it. Keep it up guys.

  • @MJA5
    @MJA5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bummer, but what do you do? You let it ride. There is nothing else to do.

    • @dpstrial
      @dpstrial ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a bummer in one way, but not in another.The fact that it happened before the relationship had progressed very far was a bonus. Just imagine if it had happened after they had married.

  • @levigoldsteinbergowitz7391
    @levigoldsteinbergowitz7391 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "I need space" means its over and i want to drag it out for days and weeks because im not emotionally mature enough to have an adult discussion.

    • @comparecards5688
      @comparecards5688 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I need space = am getting my goods smashed

  • @LMP89
    @LMP89 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I need space” sometimes really means that she needs space. Even when she isn’t going to her Alpha or to a different man, it doesn’t mean anything good. She doesn’t communicate what she needs from you. And she can’t tell because she feels it instead of knows it. And with that she is actually very clear what she wants: I need space means also: I’m not sure about you and I’m looking for a man that is better, because I think I can do better. And then the rule: Don’t be the second choice applies here. She has a choice, always. She can make the choice to go for it with you, or not. So the response on “I need space” could also be: “Ok, then I’m going to find my own space with my female friends.”. I know for sure she doesn’t need space anymore, if she really likes you.

  • @nicolasmoreno9442
    @nicolasmoreno9442 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I believe it's Patrice O'Neal who said "When a lady says she wants space from you it's because she wants her guts to be spaced from inside with another dude"

  • @knotpossible8456
    @knotpossible8456 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Rich,
    I’m 19 in Aus and my girlfriend (18) of 2yrs has just been offered a uni course for her dream career (physiology) 3.5hrs away.
    She doesn’t expect me to move nor has she asked because she knows I wouldn’t, plus I have my own business.
    She is considering going down there to do this course, where it’d be 4weeks on, 2weeks off and the weeks that she is there it’d only be 3days and she’d come home the rest of them.
    It’d be over a 2yr period.
    She doesn’t have any red flags… yes, I’ve read the book.
    I’ve told her I’d have to end the relationship because like tate says
    ‘I trust the locks on the lambo but I don’t trust the guy with the sledgehammer’.
    She is convincing me to give it the thumbs up but I’m not budging.
    She claims I don’t support her career wise. Which I do, I’d love her to do physio, truly! However, I can’t allow myself to fall victim to the train wreck that would occur if the green light was given.
    What are your thoughts on this?
    Thanks,
    Connor

    • @knotpossible8456
      @knotpossible8456 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update: Soft Next fixed this a few days later after posting

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Alpha widows are imprinted by the Alpha who left….if you choose her you be in constant hell trying to remove his mark 🤔

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo ปีที่แล้ว

      In the old days we had the sad, sweet alpha widow.
      Now we have the angry, vengeful, demanding alpha widow.
      There is a difference.

    • @somewhereinsthlm2153
      @somewhereinsthlm2153 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only a bigger and better Alpha is able to erase it. Otherwise she will be pining for the guy for the rest of her life

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@somewhereinsthlm2153 The problem is, once crystallization occurs, she imagines him to be way better than he was (and is today). She's comparing her ex in high school to a guy who is 40 today.

    • @maciiol2
      @maciiol2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@somewhereinsthlm2153 That might be so. However for every new alpha imprint, she will become more unforgiving to frame slip ups, and at some point you'll need almost inhumanly strong frame just to maintain the pairbond. Just not worth it.
      That's why inexperienced girls are so highly valued, you get much better return for your investment, and you can still enjoy yourself & be human.

  • @juliuscaesarsimp3430
    @juliuscaesarsimp3430 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's nice to hear a story where our boys haven't allowed themselves to get railroaded by some broad.

  • @pipernigrum
    @pipernigrum ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The guy made the right move by "leaving the door open" ...so he can slam it in her face later on.

  • @bankrobber916
    @bankrobber916 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never accepted when a girlfriend brought up the idea of a BREAK. Coincidently I have found someone so much better.

  • @QUguy
    @QUguy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hope is the worst of evils, for it prolongs the torment of man --Nietzsche

  • @ericmoore9444
    @ericmoore9444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Or if she says “I’m sick I can’t make it.” Or something like that. It’s over.

  • @skinwalkerskating9068
    @skinwalkerskating9068 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can we please have a moment of silence for all the guy's that aren't subscribed to this channel..

  • @nickf9392
    @nickf9392 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Leave the door open"......full stop, absolutely no...and block her and move on.

  • @willardtheband
    @willardtheband ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When a woman needs space, always provide them with infinite, endless amounts of it.

  • @shadowsins
    @shadowsins ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally agree that he needs to leave and move on to another plate. If he is working on tons of venture it best to get that done first and then start dating again.

  • @humptydumpty20
    @humptydumpty20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good enough = spare tire = back up = substitutes on the bench in football terms

  • @rohangolding3047
    @rohangolding3047 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ur the best brother, u speak nothing but facts 💯 👌 keep them coming

  • @dannyhogue2673
    @dannyhogue2673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s scary how to the point and real you are.

  • @fbr4801
    @fbr4801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be grateful she confessed. Now run bro, run !

  • @Highintensityhealth
    @Highintensityhealth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

  • @RealziesCuts
    @RealziesCuts ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Friend zone line 💀

  • @richardlukesh5807
    @richardlukesh5807 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She wants to get PLUGGED by the ALPHA again. LOL!!!🔌

  • @chrisg5709
    @chrisg5709 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She wanted to keep him in her orbit in case things didn't work out with the Chad or Tyrone who alpha widowed her. The dude should have just ghosted her.

  • @jinkazama2555
    @jinkazama2555 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are so lucky to get this guidance from men like Rich. Thank you sir

  • @saullopez3073
    @saullopez3073 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looks like all men need to keep a player mindset to let the woman know he can replace her anytime, but be determined to actually leave if she gets out of place

  • @ShmoofWB
    @ShmoofWB ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks, Rich, good video. I honestly did not know what this meant until I started watching you and read your book.

  • @slyfly4829
    @slyfly4829 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    its mind blowing how easily women can be woo'd(correct term?) to cheat or leave their long term relationships. its almost like you can do it with zero effort

  • @AleksLazar
    @AleksLazar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My take on it any female rejected/dumped/divorced by a dude will never get over him. Even if you’re better in every way. Avoid. Also, don’t be weak always dump first as needed and never bring up divorce without first consulting a lawyer

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy does have game!

  • @pimziengs2900
    @pimziengs2900 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video, I learned a new word: situationship :D

  • @riffcaster
    @riffcaster ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She's been "dealing" with some things.
    Yeah, it's called hypergamy.

  • @kingil4783
    @kingil4783 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    rich you are my life coach thank you for saving my life

  • @JD-ho2gv
    @JD-ho2gv ปีที่แล้ว

    This can obviously go both ways. If I start dating a new girl, and my smokeshow BPD ex texts me wanting to meetup...I'm not going to do it? ...right? Right? RIGHT?

  • @A25777
    @A25777 ปีที่แล้ว

    When someone criticizes maybe he cares about you.
    Just because you accept someone and are nice to them, doesn't mean you care about them.

  • @ottson
    @ottson ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Space" is the top 5% of guys who 100% of women bang but can't lock down

  • @MatiKosa
    @MatiKosa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exploration of Space

  • @SKBottom
    @SKBottom 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Recreational use only. If even that becomes too much of a pain, ghost.

  • @stevenm732
    @stevenm732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how proud Rich is of the guy who wrote in lol.

  • @expensivetechnology9963
    @expensivetechnology9963 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your thumbnail game is the strongest its ever been! The Space indeed!

  • @GymForLifeHD
    @GymForLifeHD ปีที่แล้ว +2

    never had problems like this

  • @Stahlvin
    @Stahlvin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dropping wisdom. Thanks, Rich!

  • @paulymac5513
    @paulymac5513 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep, women are never single.

  • @tyronesmith3812
    @tyronesmith3812 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anyone else seeing a trend in women taking pole classes to “feel good” about themselves? What’s that all about?

  • @brendanthebdog
    @brendanthebdog ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Treat every soft rejection as a hard rejection. Maybe you'll get some friends with benefits "situationship" with the manic pixie dreamgirl. But, you think she's even remotely capable of pair-bonding anymore?
    She'd even cheat on the dude she became an alpha widow to.

  • @michael5619
    @michael5619 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Situationship" = used for s3x.

    • @JAREDGRAF8181
      @JAREDGRAF8181 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. They gotta make themselves feel better about it though

    • @michael5619
      @michael5619 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JAREDGRAF8181 naturally, accountability is kryptonite.

  • @yourboyarea2412
    @yourboyarea2412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sounds like “the space” dude has been watching Rich’s videos too

  • @rickmartin6817
    @rickmartin6817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Richard., I don't always like what you say, but I can never disagree with it.

  • @reubenroyal4234
    @reubenroyal4234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clearly the dude in question is no other than Styles himself. Possibly Mystery.

  • @lucasplds
    @lucasplds ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vídeo. I am glad that the guy was able tô recognize by himself that the womban was alphawidowed