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even not married the courts can clean out a man: living together=marriage especially if u have kids. Many women are gold digging w*ores. Sad but true. Very few good ones left.
@@jarettesuikowsky6742 prenups is useless. Gives men false sense of security. The court will still award her more than half your money and assets and stuck with alimony and child support
If someone is a high value man and she really is into him, then in the overall majority of cases the woman will stay in the relationship even without marriage. It's more likely that she will leave you if you don't want children but she does. That's the real "no go" for most women.
You don't look for a girl ten years younger and expect she'll have things in common with you, that's going about it all wrong. You find a girl who is respectful and has decent values, then bring her into _your_ world-- and if you're a high-value man who can properly lead, she fall in line naturally.
@@Mcbevhillslol. Thankyou. Ppl think finding a LONGTERM partner is smooth sailing bcz you’re “high value”.. lolllllll reality is much harsher. You will always deal with lots of BSsss. if sheees waaay younger you’re asking for it
@@Mcbevhills I'm in Hawaii, which is pretty Left-leaning, but women who vote Blue are very herd-oriented. That means you'll need to have a group of sorts for her to come into, like your shooting club, church, or other like-minded couples. It'll alleviate that fear of losing her old "frenemies" who she didn't need anyway, and helps your relationship when she sees you're a respected & valued member of your group. This is where those cu•ks on Reddit mess up, they'll being that girl into a group of only guys or around people who treat him as the clown of the gang, then post online their woes when she starts cheating. Back to my case, I wouldn't say I'm the top 2% by income or looks, but I work as a firefighter, which makes up for some of the material things I lack. A career that carries some authority with it would help you in your case (San Fran? Okay, maybe _not_ police officer then!) when it comes to having a girl respect you.
I agree with rich here. If you skip dating in your 20s you will know less than you think you know especially if you think your red pilled and will magically find a single woman with no red flags. The best opportunity to bag a unicorn will be when you are both in your early 20s and broke but she will buy into your potential and be patient supporting you in your journey. If shes run the distance into her late 20s and is a compliment to your life she will be a keeper. If you think your going to meet a 21 year old when your 30s when your making bank and she isnt only interested in you because of your money you are sadly mistaken.
This dude was on point, girls in their 20s are hard to relate to. I'm at the tip of the tail of Generation X. Dating millennials and gen Z is extremely difficult. Their thought process and life experience is so different than mine. I've not found one yet that is able to form a connection with me, although they seem to be upset when I break it off with them.
then you need to date older women. what’s this obsession with younger women. “They’re hotter”… duhhh! but usually not worth your time. be realistic and stop going for borderline teenagers
I've dated women as much as 17 years younger than me and 7 years older than me and I find that there is no correlation between age and maturity. If fact, they are all mostly play games and maturity does not bring wisdom. I don't care that we have different life experiences as long as we get along and she wants to get on my program.
Always listening to your wise words, I don't know if am going to be a millionaire or something especially with our economy here in Malawi but listening to you I'm always learning something which I carry on , on my journey of life
A high value man never let the state give power to the woman to take half his sh*t in case things don’t work out. Marriage is way too dangerous of a decision for any man.
Why not marry a women who makes a similar income and isn’t a crazy spender. Then even if you split you walk with more then what you would have accumulated on your own. No alimony or child support and if you buy a house she can afford on her own you don’t have to worry about courts enforcing s lifestyle.
Divorce has affected even the richest men on this planet, like Bezos who dropped 40 billion + to his wife, so yes even alpha men make mistakes in this area
When I was 20 I worked cleaning houses and businesses. One time I was cleaning an expensive townhouse in Manhattan that was owned by a 50 something executive. His phone rang and the answering machine picked it up. It was a matchmaker who found a match for him. The only specifics about the woman was her age. Nothing about her looks/education/likes/dislikes. It was all about her net worth. What businesses she owned/owns. The one point I remember was the matchmaker saying she just sold her makeup line for 50 million.
My only issue with this is loneliness at the age of 60. Because when you're in your 30's you can make friends and have a "tribe" or a group of guys but the more you grow old, the more loneliness will kick hard. I wish Rich would make an episode about how to deal with loneliness for guys who chose the option of never getting married.
Have a life goal (quest) that dwarfs your drive for being taken for a ride by women. If you figure this out (took me 20 years to write down and gut out) your path is easy Brother… Write out goals (Daily Weekly Monthly Annually and lifelong) Change your fire alarm batteries New Year’s Eve and check off all the goals you smashed that year and Pat your own back… Find your spiritual center and Life Goal and you won’t have time to Shit Wind your watch Or pine for some Woman that never existed.. Die alone with your cats applies to us men my friend. We love saying it to impudent women but we are essentially NO different.. At 60 you had better realize this by now .. Tighten the fuck up and get your goals in order.. live by your goals book.. If you find a nice gal hood for you but your Goal/Goals come first she comes second because your time is up. Everyone has their chair and your still standing.. Accept this..
@@richardboran749 thanks brother, I love your response. Basically being driven and having goals will always fill any empty gaps in your life. You just have to find what is your life goals.
You shouldn't get married if you have alot of assets but if you're going to do it anyway at least place those assets in either a domestic or if you can afford it an offsore asset protection trust & combine that with a prenup to protect premarital property.
I told my navy buddy back when I was 21 in a bar I will marry a woman that doesn’t drink, smoke or swear I met her that night and had a 30 year marriage
Never never ever get married. You will regret doing this. Would you buy a car if it will only have a 50 percent chance of working? Get married, work your ass off, she leaves takes half and then you see your kids once every two weeks.
don't put ur risk/trust in one individual. Cuz even that person, in due time. Can change, its risky putting ur decision in a person that ruin ur whole life.
man, the more high-value I get, the less I feel any compulsion to marry my girl. im fine being monogamous with her because she has been with me since her 15yrs old, I always reciprocate loyalty. but getting the government legally involved hell noooo
Don't do it. And don't put a baby in her. Two ways you open yourself up to government to sink their rapey claws into your life. Otherwise move y'all to Philippines, etc and build a life there.
why can't you do it only in the church? why bring the state into your business? if you really want to do it.... make sure you are in a country/state that has fair laws and only with the appropriate paperwork beforehand which gives you an advantage.
Rich, I think you bury the lead here. At 12:30, "the most important decision you will make as a guy is who going to make the mother of your kids." Say it louder for the ones in the back!
its really hard to find the middleground...not too young, not too old. not too spoiled, but not overly traumatised. not too boring, not too unpredictalbe...etc
Some people just prefer being in long term loving relationships and don’t like sleeping around. If that’s you then find a girl that meets your criteria and date her. Don’t live you life based on what some guy on the internet says. Learn what you need to learn here but you have to do what makes you happy (frame and own point of origin). If that’s long term relationship then go for it, if that’s sleeping around until your 50s then do that. Or you can get a dog. They will give you unconditional love and companionship while you spin plates.
Good mother stock would best be defined through the latter part of Proverbs chapter 31. Does the town respect her, is she admired by everybody, is she selfless not selfish, does she nurture and actually care because women nowadays don't care about anybody other than themselves which is why they will die alone
I'm a 54 year old single female, never married, no kids, unvaccinated (against COVID) who watches your videos. It took years of hard work, but I have some assets, am debt free, and have a good lifestyle (Albeit simple and straightforward...I drive an 8 year old car, etc). I watch your videos because I believe your advice can be helpful for anyone, including women like myself who have worked hard and don't want any drama in their lives. I'm going to be honest. I was attractive in my 20s and 30s and I had a lot of men attracted to me for my looks. I'm so glad I didn't get married. Looks fade and I've worked with so many high income men (in NYC) who simply replace their wife with someone 20 years younger. At 54, I'm so glad men no longer look at me like a piece of meat. It's refreshing. Also, I never would have felt comfortable solely relying on someone else to support me. That doesn't make sense in today's volatile environment. IMO, you really need multiple streams of income and you're at a disadvantage if you're dependent on someone financially. The person with the financial power can just up and walk away and I've seen that happen many times. I'm bringing up these points because there are both women and men who are concerned about the issues you discuss on your videos.
@@transitionsnc thank you, I plan on not being married and having a family of my own until 38-45. Hopefully I will find the peace I need to be success for these next years of solidarity like you have.
Nothing wrong with getting married just assume you may lose half your shit so act accordingly. I married a women who make similar incomes and isn’t a spender. If we split tomorrow I pay no alimony and the half she gets is her half since she contributed equally. We bought a house either one of us could afford on our own. Basically if she leaves I pay around 300 a month for split costs (two kids), I get my investment s and half the equity in the home. She would most likely agree to split custody because it won’t significantly affect her finances. I am in good shape, have game, and make six figures I would no issues getting a new girl. I end up better off in the end because my half is more then what I would have accumulated on my own, I now have two kids (priceless) and had some great life experiences.
Thats why I dont get the fear of marriage. If you marry a woman with similar socioeconomic potential, you're good. Marriage seems to be only a problem for a guy who is a high earner who marries a woman who earns little to nothing.
In Rich Dad Poor Dad, Kiyosaki said that $2m/yr income was the start of "being rich" (he defined it where money doesn't matter to you anymore). That book was written in 1997. $4m is reasonable to be the new annual income in America to achieve that level of success- makes sense why all girls want that.
You do know those in America that earn over just $400k a year represents less than 1.8% of all Americans Those earning over $2 million let alone $4 million certainly represent less than 0.1% of all Americans So if women are setting even a $1 million a year income as their minimum for an acceptable husband they have eliminated over 99% of all men. And there are literally best guess 10x more women who are lagit 9's or 10's then there are men earning at least $1 million a year And unlike a woman's looks that will be LOOOOONG gone by late 40's a millionaire's earning potential will remain intact and unlike his women so will his looks
46% of marriages end in Divorce in Australia. Cheating is not against the law. To get a Divorce, just tick the box "Irreconcilable Differences". Allegations of Family Abuse against the Man/Father is used frequently by wives and girlfriends to alienate "The Man". I strongly suggest you travel to some other countries ie: Phillipines, Mexico ect, in order to gain experience of women from other cultures and gain some perspective. If you are doing well financially, seek a LAWYER to answer any questions you may have. Money and the Law should dictate your decisions. In my humble opinion.
That child will be called a "bastard" & the law does not support non married couples much too. Many factors to consider before simply saying "have a child without marrying".
Here some good advice, take a look at how the woman's mother and father get along. How is there relationship, no relationship is perfect but respect in a relationship is paramount. If their relationship is shit then that's what's she is bringing into it....
When is it a good time to settle down, have kids, and get married? Whenever you're ready to get financially and emotionally wrecked! No sooner, and no later.
Saying " I'm not gonna date in my 20s and find a woman to partner up with in my 30s " is like saying : " I'm not gonna run in my 20s and i'll win a marathon in my 30s ", makes no sense.
Bring a lunch. Spend the day in front of your local family court. Just watch these poor guys walk out bleeding from the A$$hole. Most will never be able to pass wind again. It's an absolute shame...
Only when the government repeals alimony, maintenance money and other such laws which seems to oppose marriage and give women obvious reasons of better returns post divorce then being married.
This is why I don't recommend guys go monk mode through their 20s, especially their late teens/early 20s. You need to have some trash LTRs and tons of plates spun or your chance of getting destroyed in family court is way too high to ever consider marriage.
There's also nothing wrong with going abroad to have a family in your late 30s or 40s. I'd never recommend highly successful, looked maxed guys trying to date women above age 25 for mother stock. You need 2-3 years to vet properly for mother stock and if you want 2 or 3 kids OR more you won't have time. Last kid should pop out by 30 ideally.
sound like you’ve binge watcheeeed too many ‘high valllue” man videos. the algorithmmmm has got your mind! I personally know tonnsss of happy marriages. you just nneeed more perspective (and time away from the mannnosphere)
I don't understand the logic with some of these videos...if u make lots of dough she will be looking at that first, not who you truly are. U better keep on that hamster wheel and earning or else she can easily cash out in a divorce. What " high value" man would take the time to make bank then get married, knowing the state can come in at any time when she so chooses...smh.
@@samstan4462 you easily can get married without involving the state. if she loves you enough she will skip the contact signing part (seen it many times).. unless of course you really need the tax benefits of filing together.. (which sometimes isn’t worth it)…
You do not need to be married to have kids. Generally, men fixate on marriage due to religion and social conditioning/pressure. It’s bizarre. Be in a LTR. Have kids if that is your calling (and it better be if you pull the trigger on that) but NEVER bring the state into your business. You are forfeiting your authority in your relationship to the state. She wants that. If you are dating, YOU are the ultimate authority in your relationship. She is very aware of that and will behave accordingly. If you get married, the state has authority over you and she will eventually refuse to recognize your authority and go directly to the state (i.e. divorce). Your relationship fundamentally changes as soon as you get married and that change begins the relationship’s demise. I have never been married. I will never get married. Again, have an LTR. Have kids. Never get married. Marriage provides absolutely zero compliment to your relationship but it adds horrendous liability that could last a lifetime.
Exactly. Men want all the benefits of a long-term relationship but do not invest in a woman. Well, common law partners are the same as a married couples.
*Some things have their right timing.* You can obviously postpone your dating till your 30s, sure, but then not only you have missed out on your first loves in early 20s, which is absolutely magical and will never taste the same later on, but also you didn't acquire the skills that are necessary for dating. You can get your dream car at 60 yo, but it won't feel the same compared to being 25-35 yo. Yes, dating requires certain skills. I thought the same when I was 23 and was focused on making money - I'm gonna start dating the moment I find the perfect girl. And you know what happened? I stumbled upon a girl who I thought at that time was perfect. How did it end up? Not only I failed miserably, it cost me two years of my time and a broken heart. Why? Because I was chasing a girl who had no desire for me, who has put me in her friendzone. At the same time, I was too needy, always ready to do everything for her, waiting / adjusting to her, etc. Not to mention I was very skinny, so the gym factor was clearly lacking here, although I started at that time -> because of her btw (later on I noticed it is good for me anyways). So to sum up - I wouldn't wait for the "perfect moment". Date as you go, allocate some time for that, cause that simply requires time and...luck. If the luck won't be on your side, you may lose a lot of time. And time is something we cannot really buy...
What I have learned is that a man needs to go through a “process” of learning how understand women’s nature. Once a man establishes his boundaries and is willing to walk away at a moments notice, women will respond. 90% will not meet the standard, but when a good one pops up, you will be equipped to deal with her, vet her and hopefully understand her. If she has the potential, she will absolutely reveal herself in a way that really connects with me and damn, is it fantastic!
@@GBU61 That's what I am saying. You need to be ready beforehand, not exactly when she shows up, then it will be too late and you will most likely blow it with the mistakes that could have been otherwise avoided.
Very very early for marriage. I mean find a woman, who isn't from the west, in your early 20s and have her stick to you as you get your bank up. Thoughts?
One time marriage might be justified is if one has a quality woman from a non-Western country. In the States, one has 90 days to get married or her visa expires. If one is marrying in a community, like Minneapolis, which law dictates 50/50 kid sharing, 50/50 split of assets, one is somewhat safe if the marriage blows up in one*s face. Always good to get quality legal advice before taking the leap.
This is more for blue collar guys rather than super wealthy ones. As a father that got full custody one piece of advice that I don't hear is... as soon as you see things going bad.... Have a plan to completely care for your kids on your own. That means a separate pool of money she can't touch (because she will empty your joint checking account immediately). You might be forced out of your house.... have a place to go and a system ready to care for your kids while you work. If that's parents and family. You need to show you can get the kids off to school and picked up. Kids each need a room if you have a boy and a girl. You will need at least $15,000 to fight for full or half custody to avoid child support. Spend the money and fight for yourself. Guys don't want to fight with lawyers because it expensive... Spend the money, you can always make more but after a custody arrangement has been reached it's hard to change.. But when its time to fight then fight your hardest and don't make mistakes when it comes to arguing on the phone with your ex or taking care of the kids. It will all be used against you. I did well but some buddies haven't.
First, it's not a game. Players are a problem and not suitable for marriage. Second, no high value man should get married or have kids in America. Period. Third, self development is critical.
Married 33 years. Date #1 I did a test. Lets go to the beach it's a great day.| but first I asked her to help me return a couch I bought and decided I didn't like. She passed the test when she responded Yes. Passed the " feats of strength test" and " willingness to help" test. My wife has been the perfect wife and mother since day one.
Marriage is a contract, a lisence between 2 entities. If you get married you need to get permission from your city/ government to be with that person, and they give you and spouse a contract for both to sign. Why would anyone want to get married, get permission from any government is beyond me and my thinking. Marriage was only for the wealthy and powerful back in the day. Even when the Romans ruled their empire, marriage was not for commoners, just wealthy and the Kings and Queen's sons and daughters to unite 2 kingdoms.
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This is why as a woman you do not want to move in with any man before marriage because he will take advantage of your kindness and use you like a wife when he really has no desire to marry you and take care of you and any kids you might want to have longterm.
@@ladylady6029... Im not going through all the hassle, dramas and headaches of "marriage" just for the sake of my last dsys on earth. At these days, family is just an utopia where man finds himself at the end of the queue and is just used as an ATM and drained out of his soul in order to make their "wives" happy !
I’ve got a question that I haven’t been able to find a single answer to: is it cheaper to have a child out of wedlock and pay child support in the event of a breakup, or to get divorced and pay for a child through that?
what do you mean? you'd still have to pay child support IN ADDITION to alimony + most likely dividing half your assets in the latter case as well. Seems to me it'd always be cheaper to do the first one. That's what happened to me (unintentionally of course... she started cheating on me less than a year after our child was born, was a total trainwreck) & as annoying as the situation is with scheduling custody & what not, the financial impact has been relatively minimal honestly. Since we weren't married the only costs I really incurred were lawyer's fees for the custody stuff (which aren't cheap but it's not bank-breaking), daycare costs etc all of which you'd have to do in a real divorce anyway. All the headaches of legal stuff around a divorce were never even on the table, thank god
@@clownworld4655 it's really not terrible. If you have a decent job & don't live completely paycheck to paycheck it's not like you're suddenly paying an exorbitant amount more than if you never had a kid. But yes being married changes the picture significantly. I wouldn't recommend it, Rich is dead-on when he talks about that stuff Anyway it's far less than ideal than if your girl was actually faithful & stuck by you & was a proper mother to your kid, & everything worked the way it should as it has for thousands of years.... and I'm sure there are still girls like that out there but sadly guys cannot expect that & take it for granted nowadays. Sucks balls but life goes on and it isn't something that should impact your decision to have a kid if that situation presents itself to you. Mine was an accident but I don't regret it. Birth rates are falling precipitously, and looking back I think I'm gonna be glad 18 years from now that I soldiered through & became a father because there will be hordes of childless soyboys & roasties that quite literally have nothing to live for
@@jdally9872 yea I’m beginning to realize I want kids in the next 3-15 years (25 now) and I’m already in the top 20% of the population in the US financially speaking. If I end up staying in the country and getting lucky enough to find a woman that is actually mother material (I’ve done a solid amount of dating all day know they are very rare) then I wouldn’t be against getting “married” but never actually legally getting married. Many guys in this space are way too paranoid and want zero risk whatsoever which is impossible even back in the “good old days”. I bet loads of men and women cheated on each other 100+yrs ago while away from each other and they never found out with the lack of technology. That’s the risk you have to take to trust someone
Marriage isn't necessary these days, you can still have a relationship and kids without getting married. Don't invite the govt. into your personal life or they'll ruin it.
If you're a High Net Worth Individual looking at marriage in the near future, strongly consider placing a big chunk of your assets in a South Dakota Trust before getting hitched. Anyone can do it. It's THE favored place for savvy folks to protect their wealth covertly now that off shore accounts have weaker protections from seizure. FYI, in most jurisdictions, trusts have to benefit someone other than the benefactor - your children, say, or your favorite charity - but in South Dakota, you can create a trust for the benefit of yourself. Once two years have passed, the trust is immune from any creditor claiming a share of the assets it contains, no matter the nature of their claim, which includes an ex-spouse seeking divorce settlement, alimony or child support.
Even if you disagree with the no marriage stance. Having options and women to pick from via spinning plates will still yield the best out of the bunch despite the drawbacks of marriage
@8:50 Just a small point of order: it is CRITICAL that fathers play with young children--especially young boys. If a man were to have kids at age 40, he must be physically fit.
Gents - let's talk about 'beauty' for a second. Many of you forget that it's quite transitory in women - a chick you meet with a great rack will, in ten years, be tripping over her drooping banana-shaped chesticles. Let's be brutally honest. If a woman has a decent figure and good hygiene and a face which is no worse than plain, then when all is said and done they're all the same in bed. If a girl is slim and healthy, the female form is naturally attractive. SO: don't obsess with how hot she may or may not be. You need to be concerned much more with whether or not she is a quality chick and her eagerness to align with YOUR FRAME, the last part being truly vital.
Bro just go to the Philippines or anywhere in south america. Its funny that someone with the phrase "dont complicate your life and justify why" really bothers to make people jump through all these hoop just to experience what has always been a fundamental of human life. You don't need to be the top 1% just to have a girlfriend. Just go somewhere where the culture isnt absolutely psychotic.
A high-value man should only get married if he lives in a place in the world where he won't lose more than 25% of his stuff should he get divorced, and he won't have to pay lifetime alimony. If he lives in a place where he might have to pay alimony after a divorce then marriage is totally off the table, and probably living together in the same residence is also off the table as courts will consider that the same as marriage after 3 years.
The caller would become prey so fast in the dating marketplace. He's prime beta bucks material. Who the fuck skips dating throughout their 20s!? I dated PLENTY in my 20s, AND I'm also financially successful. No reason to sacrifice one for the other.
I decided to stay in Friday night. I ended up marching with 3 new girls on dating apps and chatting s but with all simultaneously. Then I had other girls start messaging me out of the blue, both girls I’ve known longer and others mostly from the dating apps. I counted 10 girls that I chatted with throughout Friday night. Still trying to figure out a day to meet them all. It’s hard. Does this mean I’m a chad? Or do I need to get laid first 😂
I don't know if this holds true today, A long time ago I was advised (if you're looking to find a good mother for your children, find a family with a great mother then marry any of her daughters)
Unfortunately it does not work with modern women. Even if the daughter's are raised by a good mother, social media will ultimately influence the younger generation for the worse. Women change over time, and are emotionally impulsive. Traditional values are often discarded for immediate validation and sexual entertainment. That's how I got divorced. And yes, regret will always follow women's actions and they will blame you instead of taking accountability.
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even not married the courts can clean out a man: living together=marriage especially if u have kids. Many women are gold digging w*ores. Sad but true. Very few good ones left.
What about with a prenup?
@@jarettesuikowsky6742 prenups is useless. Gives men false sense of security. The court will still award her more than half your money and assets and stuck with alimony and child support
And rewards the beneficiary to break that contract.
If someone is a high value man and she really is into him, then in the overall majority of cases the woman will stay in the relationship even without marriage.
It's more likely that she will leave you if you don't want children but she does.
That's the real "no go" for most women.
You don't look for a girl ten years younger and expect she'll have things in common with you, that's going about it all wrong. You find a girl who is respectful and has decent values, then bring her into _your_ world-- and if you're a high-value man who can properly lead, she fall in line naturally.
Very well put.
Not always. Depends on where you live. I’m in San Diego and they are ridiculous down here
@@Mcbevhillslol. Thankyou. Ppl think finding a LONGTERM partner is smooth sailing bcz you’re “high value”.. lolllllll reality is much harsher. You will always deal with lots of BSsss. if sheees waaay younger you’re asking for it
@@Mcbevhills I'm in Hawaii, which is pretty Left-leaning, but women who vote Blue are very herd-oriented. That means you'll need to have a group of sorts for her to come into, like your shooting club, church, or other like-minded couples. It'll alleviate that fear of losing her old "frenemies" who she didn't need anyway, and helps your relationship when she sees you're a respected & valued member of your group. This is where those cu•ks on Reddit mess up, they'll being that girl into a group of only guys or around people who treat him as the clown of the gang, then post online their woes when she starts cheating.
Back to my case, I wouldn't say I'm the top 2% by income or looks, but I work as a firefighter, which makes up for some of the material things I lack. A career that carries some authority with it would help you in your case (San Fran? Okay, maybe _not_ police officer then!) when it comes to having a girl respect you.
There it is
I’m my experience, 21-25 are easier to contend with. The older they are the harder it is so bring into your frame, in general
I agree with rich here. If you skip dating in your 20s you will know less than you think you know especially if you think your red pilled and will magically find a single woman with no red flags.
The best opportunity to bag a unicorn will be when you are both in your early 20s and broke but she will buy into your potential and be patient supporting you in your journey. If shes run the distance into her late 20s and is a compliment to your life she will be a keeper.
If you think your going to meet a 21 year old when your 30s when your making bank and she isnt only interested in you because of your money you are sadly mistaken.
This dude was on point, girls in their 20s are hard to relate to. I'm at the tip of the tail of Generation X. Dating millennials and gen Z is extremely difficult. Their thought process and life experience is so different than mine. I've not found one yet that is able to form a connection with me, although they seem to be upset when I break it off with them.
Yeah man I have a 22 yo and I’m 41. It’s a total mess. She’s completely unrelatable and it’s feels like a waste
then you need to date older women. what’s this obsession with younger women. “They’re hotter”… duhhh! but usually not worth your time. be realistic and stop going for borderline teenagers
I've dated women as much as 17 years younger than me and 7 years older than me and I find that there is no correlation between age and maturity. If fact, they are all mostly play games and maturity does not bring wisdom. I don't care that we have different life experiences as long as we get along and she wants to get on my program.
@@marksandoval5361 you are not lying. They all act the same lol
The Bible can solve your problem.
"Strong foundation in the rock not in the sand"
Always listening to your wise words, I don't know if am going to be a millionaire or something especially with our economy here in Malawi but listening to you I'm always learning something which I carry on , on my journey of life
A high value man would recognize his value and therefore recognize his value would be lost on marriage.
Reality is high value men are the most married group of men. It is the lowest value men who are unmarried. So the stats disagree.
A high value man never let the state give power to the woman to take half his sh*t in case things don’t work out. Marriage is way too dangerous of a decision for any man.
I totally agree .
Why not marry a women who makes a similar income and isn’t a crazy spender. Then even if you split you walk with more then what you would have accumulated on your own. No alimony or child support and if you buy a house she can afford on her own you don’t have to worry about courts enforcing s lifestyle.
@@Kevlar_soul been saying this for a while. Men who marry women with similar socioeconomic ablity don't really have much to fear if Im not mistaken
@@hablabamosa my father was right about one thing that he told me to find a woman that aligns with me and that’s going down the same path as I am
Divorce has affected even the richest men on this planet, like Bezos who dropped 40 billion + to his wife, so yes even alpha men make mistakes in this area
Marry the girl with the most green flags but with a prenup.
When I was 20 I worked cleaning houses and businesses. One time I was cleaning an expensive townhouse in Manhattan that was owned by a 50 something executive. His phone rang and the answering machine picked it up.
It was a matchmaker who found a match for him. The only specifics about the woman was her age. Nothing about her looks/education/likes/dislikes. It was all about her net worth. What businesses she owned/owns. The one point I remember was the matchmaker saying she just sold her makeup line for 50 million.
How old was she?
@@SKBottom - she was younger than him. But not by much.
My only issue with this is loneliness at the age of 60. Because when you're in your 30's you can make friends and have a "tribe" or a group of guys but the more you grow old, the more loneliness will kick hard. I wish Rich would make an episode about how to deal with loneliness for guys who chose the option of never getting married.
Have a life goal (quest) that dwarfs your drive for being taken for a ride by women. If you figure this out (took me 20 years to write down and gut out) your path is easy Brother… Write out goals (Daily Weekly Monthly Annually and lifelong) Change your fire alarm batteries New Year’s Eve and check off all the goals you smashed that year and Pat your own back… Find your spiritual center and Life Goal and you won’t have time to Shit Wind your watch Or pine for some Woman that never existed.. Die alone with your cats applies to us men my friend. We love saying it to impudent women but we are essentially NO different.. At 60 you had better realize this by now .. Tighten the fuck up and get your goals in order.. live by your goals book.. If you find a nice gal hood for you but your Goal/Goals come first she comes second because your time is up. Everyone has their chair and your still standing.. Accept this..
If your lonely you’re broke! 😂
@@richardboran749 thanks brother, I love your response. Basically being driven and having goals will always fill any empty gaps in your life. You just have to find what is your life goals.
@@licensedprofessional4742 facts 😂
Adopt some pets and children..
One of the best videos, and I've seen lots. Content and value wise. Taking some gems.Thanks Richard.
Look at her parents. 1) Are they married? 2) Is her mom a good parent 3) Does she love her dad and has a GREAT relationship with her?
This 🔥
1000%
Wow 😳
Good info
These are literally the only questions that matter when selecting a mate
Same things go for the guy too. Works both ways.
You shouldn't get married if you have alot of assets but if you're going to do it anyway at least place those assets in either a domestic or if you can afford it an offsore asset protection trust & combine that with a prenup to protect premarital property.
I told my navy buddy back when I was 21 in a bar
I will marry a woman that doesn’t drink, smoke or swear
I met her that night and had a 30 year marriage
Until family law dramatically changes, DO NOT GET MARRIED.
Word
Why do it period
True. Its gonna take ages unfortunately.
Never never ever get married. You will regret doing this. Would you buy a car if it will only have a 50 percent chance of working? Get married, work your ass off, she leaves takes half and then you see your kids once every two weeks.
don't put ur risk/trust in one individual. Cuz even that person, in due time. Can change, its risky putting ur decision in a person that ruin ur whole life.
man, the more high-value I get, the less I feel any compulsion to marry my girl. im fine being monogamous with her because she has been with me since her 15yrs old, I always reciprocate loyalty. but getting the government legally involved hell noooo
Don't do it. And don't put a baby in her. Two ways you open yourself up to government to sink their rapey claws into your life. Otherwise move y'all to Philippines, etc and build a life there.
A “High Value Man” should wait until the age of 33 to get married, because that’s when Jesus gave up his life.
Hahahahaha funny as hell. Yeah make the ultimate sacrifice for the sins of women.
why can't you do it only in the church? why bring the state into your business? if you really want to do it.... make sure you are in a country/state that has fair laws and only with the appropriate paperwork beforehand which gives you an advantage.
Short answer never
Long answer never
I've been married twice. Before taking the big step, get a cast iron prenup.
My hubby and I met and married when I was 18 and he was 30. It works great for us. 80’s songs are way better than those of the 90’s anyways 😉
90s are the 80s part 2
Rich, I think you bury the lead here. At 12:30, "the most important decision you will make as a guy is who going to make the mother of your kids." Say it louder for the ones in the back!
I wish I watched this 20 years ago.
True words Rich
its really hard to find the middleground...not too young, not too old. not too spoiled, but not overly traumatised. not too boring, not too unpredictalbe...etc
How to deal with the “desire” of love from the opposite sex? Sex itself doesn’t fulfill me at all.
Some people just prefer being in long term loving relationships and don’t like sleeping around. If that’s you then find a girl that meets your criteria and date her.
Don’t live you life based on what some guy on the internet says. Learn what you need to learn here but you have to do what makes you happy (frame and own point of origin). If that’s long term relationship then go for it, if that’s sleeping around until your 50s then do that.
Or you can get a dog. They will give you unconditional love and companionship while you spin plates.
"GBD is not a choice." ― RT
Stop going to prostitutes.
Keep up the good work boss!
The song at the end sucks
Good mother stock would best be defined through the latter part of Proverbs chapter 31. Does the town respect her, is she admired by everybody, is she selfless not selfish, does she nurture and actually care because women nowadays don't care about anybody other than themselves which is why they will die alone
Very true
I'm a 54 year old single female, never married, no kids, unvaccinated (against COVID) who watches your videos. It took years of hard work, but I have some assets, am debt free, and have a good lifestyle (Albeit simple and straightforward...I drive an 8 year old car, etc). I watch your videos because I believe your advice can be helpful for anyone, including women like myself who have worked hard and don't want any drama in their lives. I'm going to be honest. I was attractive in my 20s and 30s and I had a lot of men attracted to me for my looks. I'm so glad I didn't get married. Looks fade and I've worked with so many high income men (in NYC) who simply replace their wife with someone 20 years younger. At 54, I'm so glad men no longer look at me like a piece of meat. It's refreshing. Also, I never would have felt comfortable solely relying on someone else to support me. That doesn't make sense in today's volatile environment. IMO, you really need multiple streams of income and you're at a disadvantage if you're dependent on someone financially. The person with the financial power can just up and walk away and I've seen that happen many times. I'm bringing up these points because there are both women and men who are concerned about the issues you discuss on your videos.
Wrong channel honey....
Too long
Interesting POV, congrats on the peace you have found in your life
@@calleocho2107 Thank you. All the best to you.
@@transitionsnc thank you, I plan on not being married and having a family of my own until 38-45. Hopefully I will find the peace I need to be success for these next years of solidarity like you have.
Nothing wrong with getting married just assume you may lose half your shit so act accordingly.
I married a women who make similar incomes and isn’t a spender. If we split tomorrow I pay no alimony and the half she gets is her half since she contributed equally. We bought a house either one of us could afford on our own. Basically if she leaves I pay around 300 a month for split costs (two kids), I get my investment s and half the equity in the home. She would most likely agree to split custody because it won’t significantly affect her finances.
I am in good shape, have game, and make six figures I would no issues getting a new girl. I end up better off in the end because my half is more then what I would have accumulated on my own, I now have two kids (priceless) and had some great life experiences.
that is the way to go!
good reasoning dude. Never though of that
Thats why I dont get the fear of marriage. If you marry a woman with similar socioeconomic potential, you're good. Marriage seems to be only a problem for a guy who is a high earner who marries a woman who earns little to nothing.
Did you get a pre-nup prior to marrying? Or anything similar to a separation agreement?
In Rich Dad Poor Dad, Kiyosaki said that $2m/yr income was the start of "being rich" (he defined it where money doesn't matter to you anymore). That book was written in 1997. $4m is reasonable to be the new annual income in America to achieve that level of success- makes sense why all girls want that.
I personally know a billionaire for whom each dollar is important.
You do know those in America that earn over just $400k a year represents less than 1.8% of all Americans
Those earning over $2 million let alone $4 million certainly represent less than 0.1% of all Americans
So if women are setting even a $1 million a year income as their minimum for an acceptable husband they have eliminated over 99% of all men.
And there are literally best guess 10x more women who are lagit 9's or 10's then there are men earning at least $1 million a year
And unlike a woman's looks that will be LOOOOONG gone by late 40's a millionaire's earning potential will remain intact and unlike his women so will his looks
Great vid Rich, thank you.
This guy wants to hand out the fruits of his labor to a woman, willfully lol
I’ll take “Things a wise man should never do for $1000 Alex”
46% of marriages end in Divorce in Australia. Cheating is not against the law. To get a Divorce, just tick the box "Irreconcilable Differences". Allegations of Family Abuse against the Man/Father is used frequently by wives and girlfriends to alienate "The Man". I strongly suggest you travel to some other countries ie: Phillipines, Mexico ect, in order to gain experience of women from other cultures and gain some perspective. If you are doing well financially, seek a LAWYER to answer any questions you may have. Money and the Law should dictate your decisions. In my humble opinion.
Marriage lost its meaning and no longer serves the family dynamic. Marriage provides no benefit for men. You can still have children without marriage.
That child will be called a "bastard" & the law does not support non married couples much too. Many factors to consider before simply saying "have a child without marrying".
Here some good advice, take a look at how the woman's mother and father get along. How is there relationship, no relationship is perfect but respect in a relationship is paramount. If their relationship is shit then that's what's she is bringing into it....
Why consider that scam at all
Nailed it! 10/10
When is it a good time to settle down, have kids, and get married? Whenever you're ready to get financially and emotionally wrecked! No sooner, and no later.
F MARRIAGE F RELIGION F TRADITION
Saying " I'm not gonna date in my 20s and find a woman to partner up with in my 30s " is like saying :
" I'm not gonna run in my 20s and i'll win a marathon in my 30s ", makes no sense.
The real question here is NOT "when" but WHY!?
From a non high value guy lol, thanks for the inspiration from the genuine guys that made it and want to help other's by sharing their experiences.
Never.
You gotta have your heart broken really bad by some dirty filthy creatures and dating is like a lotto know your limit play within it
Short answer is NEVER!
Bring a lunch. Spend the day in front of your local family court.
Just watch these poor guys walk out bleeding from the A$$hole. Most will never be able to pass wind again.
It's an absolute shame...
Never
Only when the government repeals alimony, maintenance money and other such laws which seems to oppose marriage and give women obvious reasons of better returns post divorce then being married.
@@manstarenergy yep
Do not marry. Stay safe.
This is why I don't recommend guys go monk mode through their 20s, especially their late teens/early 20s. You need to have some trash LTRs and tons of plates spun or your chance of getting destroyed in family court is way too high to ever consider marriage.
There's also nothing wrong with going abroad to have a family in your late 30s or 40s. I'd never recommend highly successful, looked maxed guys trying to date women above age 25 for mother stock. You need 2-3 years to vet properly for mother stock and if you want 2 or 3 kids OR more you won't have time. Last kid should pop out by 30 ideally.
The answer should be *NEVER* get married, whether you are high value or not
sound like you’ve binge watcheeeed too many ‘high valllue” man videos. the algorithmmmm has got your mind! I personally know tonnsss of happy marriages. you just nneeed more perspective (and time away from the mannnosphere)
@@mike619 My perspective comes from my own experience not what people are telling me on the internet
I don't understand the logic with some of these videos...if u make lots of dough she will be looking at that first, not who you truly are. U better keep on that hamster wheel and earning or else she can easily cash out in a divorce. What " high value" man would take the time to make bank then get married, knowing the state can come in at any time when she so chooses...smh.
@@samstan4462 you easily can get married without involving the state. if she loves you enough she will skip the contact signing part (seen it many times).. unless of course you really need the tax benefits of filing together.. (which sometimes isn’t worth it)…
@@mike619 and you know tons that aren't happy too, the stats prove it
When the dads got a deal on the table.
You do not need to be married to have kids. Generally, men fixate on marriage due to religion and social conditioning/pressure. It’s bizarre. Be in a LTR. Have kids if that is your calling (and it better be if you pull the trigger on that) but NEVER bring the state into your business. You are forfeiting your authority in your relationship to the state. She wants that. If you are dating, YOU are the ultimate authority in your relationship. She is very aware of that and will behave accordingly. If you get married, the state has authority over you and she will eventually refuse to recognize your authority and go directly to the state (i.e. divorce). Your relationship fundamentally changes as soon as you get married and that change begins the relationship’s demise. I have never been married. I will never get married. Again, have an LTR. Have kids. Never get married. Marriage provides absolutely zero compliment to your relationship but it adds horrendous liability that could last a lifetime.
Exactly. Men want all the benefits of a long-term relationship but do not invest in a woman. Well, common law partners are the same as a married couples.
*Some things have their right timing.* You can obviously postpone your dating till your 30s, sure, but then not only you have missed out on your first loves in early 20s, which is absolutely magical and will never taste the same later on, but also you didn't acquire the skills that are necessary for dating. You can get your dream car at 60 yo, but it won't feel the same compared to being 25-35 yo. Yes, dating requires certain skills. I thought the same when I was 23 and was focused on making money - I'm gonna start dating the moment I find the perfect girl. And you know what happened? I stumbled upon a girl who I thought at that time was perfect. How did it end up? Not only I failed miserably, it cost me two years of my time and a broken heart. Why? Because I was chasing a girl who had no desire for me, who has put me in her friendzone. At the same time, I was too needy, always ready to do everything for her, waiting / adjusting to her, etc. Not to mention I was very skinny, so the gym factor was clearly lacking here, although I started at that time -> because of her btw (later on I noticed it is good for me anyways).
So to sum up - I wouldn't wait for the "perfect moment". Date as you go, allocate some time for that, cause that simply requires time and...luck. If the luck won't be on your side, you may lose a lot of time. And time is something we cannot really buy...
What I have learned is that a man needs to go through a “process” of learning how understand women’s nature. Once a man establishes his boundaries and is willing to walk away at a moments notice, women will respond. 90% will not meet the standard, but when a good one pops up, you will be equipped to deal with her, vet her and hopefully understand her. If she has the potential, she will absolutely reveal herself in a way that really connects with me and damn, is it fantastic!
Magical moment or not. What matters is the present moment
@@GBU61 That's what I am saying. You need to be ready beforehand, not exactly when she shows up, then it will be too late and you will most likely blow it with the mistakes that could have been otherwise avoided.
@@hablabamosa Well, things change in time. Timing is extremely important my friend. See my comments above.
Very very early for marriage. I mean find a woman, who isn't from the west, in your early 20s and have her stick to you as you get your bank up.
Thoughts?
One time marriage might be justified is if one has a quality woman from a non-Western country. In the States, one has 90 days to get married or her visa expires. If one is marrying in a community, like Minneapolis, which law dictates 50/50 kid sharing, 50/50 split of assets, one is somewhat safe if the marriage blows up in one*s face. Always good to get quality legal advice before taking the leap.
Rich, Do you have any videos on "being captivating"?
This is more for blue collar guys rather than super wealthy ones. As a father that got full custody one piece of advice that I don't hear is... as soon as you see things going bad.... Have a plan to completely care for your kids on your own. That means a separate pool of money she can't touch (because she will empty your joint checking account immediately). You might be forced out of your house.... have a place to go and a system ready to care for your kids while you work. If that's parents and family. You need to show you can get the kids off to school and picked up. Kids each need a room if you have a boy and a girl. You will need at least $15,000 to fight for full or half custody to avoid child support. Spend the money and fight for yourself. Guys don't want to fight with lawyers because it expensive... Spend the money, you can always make more but after a custody arrangement has been reached it's hard to change.. But when its time to fight then fight your hardest and don't make mistakes when it comes to arguing on the phone with your ex or taking care of the kids. It will all be used against you. I did well but some buddies haven't.
I guess if you've got a terminal disease, you have nothing to lose, by starting a family & getting married.
Love what you do Rich
My exact question right now as well
First, it's not a game. Players are a problem and not suitable for marriage.
Second, no high value man should get married or have kids in America. Period.
Third, self development is critical.
Married 33 years. Date #1 I did a test. Lets go to the beach it's a great day.| but first I asked her to help me return a couch I bought and decided I didn't like. She passed the test when she responded Yes. Passed the " feats of strength test" and " willingness to help" test. My wife has been the perfect wife and mother since day one.
Marriage is a contract, a lisence between 2 entities. If you get married you need to get permission from your city/ government to be with that person, and they give you and spouse a contract for both to sign. Why would anyone want to get married, get permission from any government is beyond me and my thinking. Marriage was only for the wealthy and powerful back in the day. Even when the Romans ruled their empire, marriage was not for commoners, just wealthy and the Kings and Queen's sons and daughters to unite 2 kingdoms.
I will show all my 20 your ol girlfriends this! Thanks!
Thanks really useful
So true and very important message from Richard.
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
This is why as a woman you do not want to move in with any man before marriage because he will take advantage of your kindness and use you like a wife when he really has no desire to marry you and take care of you and any kids you might want to have longterm.
NEVER, PERIOD ! If you are a high value dude and decide to marry, than you are basically giving up your TRUE freedom
what about when you're senile? whos gonna take care of you,if you didn't create family
@@ladylady6029...
Im not going through all the hassle, dramas and headaches of "marriage" just for the sake of my last dsys on earth. At these days, family is just an utopia where man finds himself
at the end of the queue and is just used as an ATM and drained out of his soul in order to make their "wives" happy !
Rich
You were spot on
If a guy is calling himself high value, there is something missing there
Track from the ending, pls
I’ve got a question that I haven’t been able to find a single answer to: is it cheaper to have a child out of wedlock and pay child support in the event of a breakup, or to get divorced and pay for a child through that?
what do you mean? you'd still have to pay child support IN ADDITION to alimony + most likely dividing half your assets in the latter case as well. Seems to me it'd always be cheaper to do the first one. That's what happened to me (unintentionally of course... she started cheating on me less than a year after our child was born, was a total trainwreck) & as annoying as the situation is with scheduling custody & what not, the financial impact has been relatively minimal honestly. Since we weren't married the only costs I really incurred were lawyer's fees for the custody stuff (which aren't cheap but it's not bank-breaking), daycare costs etc all of which you'd have to do in a real divorce anyway. All the headaches of legal stuff around a divorce were never even on the table, thank god
Either way you swing it, you effed up your life it looks like. Better you than me!
@@jdally9872 thanks for the info. I’m never going to get legally married, I was just curious about the costs for if I ever ended up with a kid
@@clownworld4655 it's really not terrible. If you have a decent job & don't live completely paycheck to paycheck it's not like you're suddenly paying an exorbitant amount more than if you never had a kid. But yes being married changes the picture significantly. I wouldn't recommend it, Rich is dead-on when he talks about that stuff
Anyway it's far less than ideal than if your girl was actually faithful & stuck by you & was a proper mother to your kid, & everything worked the way it should as it has for thousands of years.... and I'm sure there are still girls like that out there but sadly guys cannot expect that & take it for granted nowadays. Sucks balls but life goes on and it isn't something that should impact your decision to have a kid if that situation presents itself to you. Mine was an accident but I don't regret it. Birth rates are falling precipitously, and looking back I think I'm gonna be glad 18 years from now that I soldiered through & became a father because there will be hordes of childless soyboys & roasties that quite literally have nothing to live for
@@jdally9872 yea I’m beginning to realize I want kids in the next 3-15 years (25 now) and I’m already in the top 20% of the population in the US financially speaking. If I end up staying in the country and getting lucky enough to find a woman that is actually mother material (I’ve done a solid amount of dating all day know they are very rare) then I wouldn’t be against getting “married” but never actually legally getting married. Many guys in this space are way too paranoid and want zero risk whatsoever which is impossible even back in the “good old days”. I bet loads of men and women cheated on each other 100+yrs ago while away from each other and they never found out with the lack of technology. That’s the risk you have to take to trust someone
Marriage isn't necessary these days, you can still have a relationship and kids without getting married. Don't invite the govt. into your personal life or they'll ruin it.
If you're a High Net Worth Individual looking at marriage in the near future, strongly consider placing a big chunk of your assets in a South Dakota Trust before getting hitched. Anyone can do it. It's THE favored place for savvy folks to protect their wealth covertly now that off shore accounts have weaker protections from seizure. FYI, in most jurisdictions, trusts have to benefit someone other than the benefactor - your children, say, or your favorite charity - but in South Dakota, you can create a trust for the benefit of yourself. Once two years have passed, the trust is immune from any creditor claiming a share of the assets it contains, no matter the nature of their claim, which includes an ex-spouse seeking divorce settlement, alimony or child support.
40 yr old is good with a 30 yr old , good money helps relieve family stress, big house, nanny etcPS , never trust a women with birth control
I ain't saying she's a gold digger but she ain't messing with broke, broke. -Kanye
Even if you disagree with the no marriage stance. Having options and women to pick from via spinning plates will still yield the best out of the bunch despite the drawbacks of marriage
age 25 to 27...hundreds of guys run thru = more likely to divorce
@8:50 Just a small point of order: it is CRITICAL that fathers play with young children--especially young boys. If a man were to have kids at age 40, he must be physically fit.
NeveR
Gents - let's talk about 'beauty' for a second.
Many of you forget that it's quite transitory in women - a chick you meet with a great rack will, in ten years, be tripping over her drooping banana-shaped chesticles.
Let's be brutally honest. If a woman has a decent figure and good hygiene and a face which is no worse than plain, then when all is said and done they're all the same in bed. If a girl is slim and healthy, the female form is naturally attractive. SO: don't obsess with how hot she may or may not be. You need to be concerned much more with whether or not she is a quality chick and her eagerness to align with YOUR FRAME, the last part being truly vital.
Bro just go to the Philippines or anywhere in south america.
Its funny that someone with the phrase "dont complicate your life and justify why" really bothers to make people jump through all these hoop just to experience what has always been a fundamental of human life.
You don't need to be the top 1% just to have a girlfriend. Just go somewhere where the culture isnt absolutely psychotic.
Hey Rich, can you do a vid on what makes a girl a good mother
When Elon musk starts selling nice homes on Mars
No man should ever get married.
Be Safe Gentlemen 🍺
A high-value man should only get married if he lives in a place in the world where he won't lose more than 25% of his stuff should he get divorced, and he won't have to pay lifetime alimony. If he lives in a place where he might have to pay alimony after a divorce then marriage is totally off the table, and probably living together in the same residence is also off the table as courts will consider that the same as marriage after 3 years.
One problem Rich, Theres always the bait and switch...
Rich your talks are interesting
Short answer: NOT!
Now you don't have to watch this vid anymore......
The caller would become prey so fast in the dating marketplace.
He's prime beta bucks material.
Who the fuck skips dating throughout their 20s!?
I dated PLENTY in my 20s, AND I'm also financially successful.
No reason to sacrifice one for the other.
Rich would it be possible for you to make a video talking about microdosing and magic mushrooms?
The average age gap in first marriages is not 10 years, it’s actually 2 years.
Statistically, marrying younger women is better than someone near your age.
I decided to stay in Friday night. I ended up marching with 3 new girls on dating apps and chatting s but with all simultaneously. Then I had other girls start messaging me out of the blue, both girls I’ve known longer and others mostly from the dating apps. I counted 10 girls that I chatted with throughout Friday night. Still trying to figure out a day to meet them all. It’s hard. Does this mean I’m a chad? Or do I need to get laid first 😂
I don't know if this holds true today, A long time ago I was advised (if you're looking to find a good mother for your children, find a family with a great mother then marry any of her daughters)
Unfortunately it does not work with modern women.
Even if the daughter's are raised by a good mother, social media will ultimately influence the younger generation for the worse. Women change over time, and are emotionally impulsive. Traditional values are often discarded for immediate validation and sexual entertainment.
That's how I got divorced.
And yes, regret will always follow women's actions and they will blame you instead of taking accountability.
Never is he wishes to remain so...
If a guy is in his early 50s and finds a beauty half his age, is that a good deal for him?
That's Donald Trump and Melania you can Google it.
You find the right woman, no kids. Then, AFTER you get her pregnant, you marry her.
Never 😂.
You don't have to make 250k to get an attractive woman. Crazy talk.