Thanks for the video, it helps me feel better and gives me peace of mind. My girlfriend asked for space because of family issues and stress at work,, her brother died due to accident and she blame herself, then this year her father committed suicide because of their issues in their family., its been 3months when she asked for space. I tried to contact her twice just to check up on her and still, she said she wants and need to focus on ourselves for a while, im not pressuring her or showing any drama or weakness like begging or complaining, i just let her have her space. I just need some encouragement in my situation, im thriving to better myself in this space that we have, but sometimes i cant hold the pain. Hoping someday she'll come back. Thanks again for this video
Yah bro if you want to jump on a Zoom call to discuss this, LMk. We have a whole support group of men going through a whole host of different things, break ups are one. I also wrote an entire ebook, well, really a blueprint in the steps needed to get her back. Reach out to me by going to my website. Www.magneticmenclub.com, fill out your info and in the comments, say "dude from youtube/gf/ space". Free zoom call , here to help bro
I feel everybody in these comments. My woman told me she needed a break but we can tex each other but not all the time. It's so hard to give them space but I give her space. And then yesterday. I picked up my son from my exs house and took him for a haircut and then my woman calls me and asked me where are you at and if. I wanted to hangout at Tjmax. I said ok when I get there she gives me a kiss and a hug. I asked her are you in love with me she said Yes. And then I asked do you want to still be with me she said yes. But when I tex her she don't tex back in the same day. I know she has alot going on and I understand that as well. God Bless everyone in these comments.🙏🙏
When they say they need space it means she found another option. My girlfriend of 3-1/2 years did this to me 3 times. Don't be a fool and take her back like I did the first 2 times.. When she left me the third time I said that's it I'm done. I'm now looking for someone else.
Not always. She was a bad example. I’m working on myself so I love alone time. I came from toxic , abusive relationships. I need time alone to become better and stronger emotionally and mentally. And then I miss my man and want to grope him up ten times more. It’s also a lot of responsibility to care for another person all the time and give give give all the time.
How can a woman express this in a way that doesn’t make her partner feel neglected or upset. I feel like after this conversation is had, there is a bit of tension or pressure. I have had this conversation before and the next conversations are based upon, do you want to see me today or not which makes the woman feel guilty for wanting space and sometimes ignoring her need for that space to please their partner. How do you set those boundaries in a positive way?
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I'm not sure how you mismanaged a situation, no context BUT if she said she needs space. Just agree, go no contact, and move on. If she comes, make sure she does all of the pursuing. Make sure she works to get back with you if you want her back.
Context is extremely important when she says she needs space. If you've changed for the worse, she's unsure if she has a future with you, you've stopped doing things you used to etc., you can most likely get her back by showing her that you understand what she's saying and are willing to change. But if your girl drops the bomb that she met another guy who gives her butterflies, there's a 99.99999% chance she's already moved on. The moment she met him, all the previous love, attraction, feelings etc. for you disappeared. The only reason she's telling you she needs time to think is because she wants to slowly phase you out of her life or even worse, stay friends. Don't let her do this. Do your best to make her feel at least SOME pain from throwing away everything you had together for a guy she met last week. Do not let her jump to a new guy and ween herself off of you in the process.
my gf needed space after i betrayed her trust she was really emotional she actually told me that we would need to restart if we do get keep moving forward
I'm in a relationship 14 months and married 4 mounths. After mariage. We start having problems. That lead to insult,and all of the emotional torture we can imagine. I really do not want to live like that and i don't Want that for my life. So i asked some space to be with myself. I want to travel visit other countries and this will take me few months. I'm not cheating or having plan to do. But im an indépendant soul. And right now i feel loosing my myself
my girlfriends mom had been battling cancer long before we started dating and last month the doctors placed her in hospice. While her mother was in and out of the hospital i was helping my girlfriend as much as i could with anything she needed. On the 4th of july i knew she felt completely off and i asked her what if there is anything else i can do to help, and she told me she just needs more space and hates how our relationship had been so one-sided because she can't give me anything back right now. i told her i do this because i love her. the conversation ended well. I waited a week and texted her to let her know i'll always be there for her but i haven't heard back from her since. It'll be a month this Friday of no contact and i know i just need to give her space. Im trying to hang in there but its so difficult.
Hey man, so first off, I'm sorry you are going through this. You GF is more than likely dealing with a whole host of emotions, and so the best thing you can do is fade off and give her space. I hope, however, that you are not just waiting around for her? You have a life to live, and you can't control the outcome of this relationship, so it's in your best interest to not wait. If she comes back, great, but what if she doesn't? Timing is everything, and it seems to me like your timing with her is off, but that doesn't mean it won't happen in the future. It just means right now things aren't working out, and this is OK.
@@magneticmenclub thank for for responding, after being left in the dark for 3 weeks i tried to call her, she didn't answer then texted me saying her mother passed away and that her focus lies elsewhere and she has no available space for me. I replied amicably and wished her the best.
@@magneticmenclub hey thanks for responding, yesterday i couldnt wait any longer and called her and got no answer, she then texted me a long message about how her mom is no longer in pain and how she is thankful of me for being so kind to her and her family and how at this time has no available space for a relationship and has begu therapy to heal herself. i replied amicably and wished her nothing but the best. This has been so tough but at least i got closure and i know her mom is in a better place now. i just wish i got a call...
Thanks for the advice it really help me a lot so if you give them space then she will be more attractive she live sme but now I understand thanks my man
There should be a t shirt that says “stop crying over girls”. They should never be in power over a man, meaning control how you feel or be able to manipulate you “im insure” = “idk how to be direct and i wanna check out mentally & process getting over you while we hangout”. Women process emotions during the relationship until they’re all healed and ready to rug pull you. They’re nature. This comes out as “i need space” Notice when they’re processing (e.g., getting annoyed much more easily or disrespecting you consistently, when they didn’t previously)
@@DavidTory well she came back herself and said she loved me and she doesn’t want space We’re still going strong till now about to be our 3rd month They have been problems but we’ve fought through every one of it I just pray it lasts because I love her a lot How’s it going for you ?
If she says she needs space it means she has a replacement of yours in her mind or already is cheating on you. Don't be delusional and dump her. She never loved you and never will. In fact she is doing you a favor since you may dodge a cheater
It's great clarity for me thanks
You're most welcome
*Staying calm and focusing on yourself during this period shows emotional stability, which is exactly what she needs to see.*
Thanks for the video, it helps me feel better and gives me peace of mind.
My girlfriend asked for space because of family issues and stress at work,, her brother died due to accident and she blame herself, then this year her father committed suicide because of their issues in their family., its been 3months when she asked for space. I tried to contact her twice just to check up on her and still, she said she wants and need to focus on ourselves for a while, im not pressuring her or showing any drama or weakness like begging or complaining, i just let her have her space.
I just need some encouragement in my situation, im thriving to better myself in this space that we have, but sometimes i cant hold the pain.
Hoping someday she'll come back. Thanks again for this video
Yah bro if you want to jump on a Zoom call to discuss this, LMk. We have a whole support group of men going through a whole host of different things, break ups are one. I also wrote an entire ebook, well, really a blueprint in the steps needed to get her back. Reach out to me by going to my website. Www.magneticmenclub.com, fill out your info and in the comments, say "dude from youtube/gf/ space". Free zoom call , here to help bro
I feel everybody in these comments. My woman told me she needed a break but we can tex each other but not all the time. It's so hard to give them space but I give her space. And then yesterday. I picked up my son from my exs house and took him for a haircut and then my woman calls me and asked me where are you at and if. I wanted to hangout at Tjmax. I said ok when I get there she gives me a kiss and a hug. I asked her are you in love with me she said Yes. And then I asked do you want to still be with me she said yes. But when I tex her she don't tex back in the same day. I know she has alot going on and I understand that as well. God Bless everyone in these comments.🙏🙏
Don't be delusional. She has another guy and treats you as a second option.
When they say they need space it means she found another option. My girlfriend of 3-1/2 years did this to me 3 times. Don't be a fool and take her back like I did the first 2 times.. When she left me the third time I said that's it I'm done. I'm now looking for someone else.
Yes I never play with my old toys
Not always. She was a bad example. I’m working on myself so I love alone time. I came from toxic , abusive relationships. I need time alone to become better and stronger emotionally and mentally. And then I miss my man and want to grope him up ten times more. It’s also a lot of responsibility to care for another person all the time and give give give all the time.
How can a woman express this in a way that doesn’t make her partner feel neglected or upset. I feel like after this conversation is had, there is a bit of tension or pressure. I have had this conversation before and the next conversations are based upon, do you want to see me today or not which makes the woman feel guilty for wanting space and sometimes ignoring her need for that space to please their partner. How do you set those boundaries in a positive way?
Good question best answer is show him this video
We agreed to some space this week, it’s tough but it’s what they want right now. Thanks for a healthy video about giving space to her
We offer 1 on 1 sessions if you want to discuss privately. We also wrote a full 80 page Ebook called ""Get your ex back blueprint". It's yours free with a private session. Go to Www.magneticmenclub.com and simply fill out your contact info or talk to our chat widget, it's a real.persom
What happened now ?
Never a good sign. Happened to me and I got dumped.
What if I mishandled a situation and when she said she needs space I said “you can have all the space you want just keep it”
I'm not sure how you mismanaged a situation, no context BUT if she said she needs space. Just agree, go no contact, and move on. If she comes, make sure she does all of the pursuing. Make sure she works to get back with you if you want her back.
Thanks for the clarity - great contnt!
Glad it was helpful!
Context is extremely important when she says she needs space. If you've changed for the worse, she's unsure if she has a future with you, you've stopped doing things you used to etc., you can most likely get her back by showing her that you understand what she's saying and are willing to change.
But if your girl drops the bomb that she met another guy who gives her butterflies, there's a 99.99999% chance she's already moved on. The moment she met him, all the previous love, attraction, feelings etc. for you disappeared. The only reason she's telling you she needs time to think is because she wants to slowly phase you out of her life or even worse, stay friends.
Don't let her do this. Do your best to make her feel at least SOME pain from throwing away everything you had together for a guy she met last week. Do not let her jump to a new guy and ween herself off of you in the process.
my gf needed space after i betrayed her trust she was really emotional she actually told me that we would need to restart if we do get keep moving forward
My wife just told me she needs space , then she doesn’t want be with me but now she needs space agian ! So idk WTH to do ?
What if we're having series of arguments and she said she's really stressed of fighting and needs space. ?
Tell her great idea, you where thinking the same thing and then go radio silent. Act like it doesn't bother you.
I'm in a relationship 14 months and married 4 mounths. After mariage. We start having problems. That lead to insult,and all of the emotional torture we can imagine. I really do not want to live like that and i don't Want that for my life. So i asked some space to be with myself. I want to travel visit other countries and this will take me few months. I'm not cheating or having plan to do. But im an indépendant soul. And right now i feel loosing my myself
Modern women logic right here...
i needed this
You want some space? No problem. Hell once I see those words…I say nothing and go about my life.
my girlfriends mom had been battling cancer long before we started dating and last month the doctors placed her in hospice. While her mother was in and out of the hospital i was helping my girlfriend as much as i could with anything she needed. On the 4th of july i knew she felt completely off and i asked her what if there is anything else i can do to help, and she told me she just needs more space and hates how our relationship had been so one-sided because she can't give me anything back right now. i told her i do this because i love her. the conversation ended well. I waited a week and texted her to let her know i'll always be there for her but i haven't heard back from her since. It'll be a month this Friday of no contact and i know i just need to give her space. Im trying to hang in there but its so difficult.
Hey man, so first off, I'm sorry you are going through this. You GF is more than likely dealing with a whole host of emotions, and so the best thing you can do is fade off and give her space. I hope, however, that you are not just waiting around for her? You have a life to live, and you can't control the outcome of this relationship, so it's in your best interest to not wait. If she comes back, great, but what if she doesn't? Timing is everything, and it seems to me like your timing with her is off, but that doesn't mean it won't happen in the future. It just means right now things aren't working out, and this is OK.
@@magneticmenclub thank for for responding, after being left in the dark for 3 weeks i tried to call her, she didn't answer then texted me saying her mother passed away and that her focus lies elsewhere and she has no available space for me. I replied amicably and wished her the best.
@@magneticmenclub hey thanks for responding, yesterday i couldnt wait any longer and called her and got no answer, she then texted me a long message about how her mom is no longer in pain and how she is thankful of me for being so kind to her and her family and how at this time has no available space for a relationship and has begu therapy to heal herself. i replied amicably and wished her nothing but the best. This has been so tough but at least i got closure and i know her mom is in a better place now. i just wish i got a call...
Idk bro no sex for a month is strange. But hoping everything goes well. Be Strong in yourself and God
Thanks for the advice it really help me a lot so if you give them space then she will be more attractive she live sme but now I understand thanks my man
Damn I just got told that
Then she said she doesn’t know if she wants it or not
I just told her let’s just take a break
There should be a t shirt that says “stop crying over girls”. They should never be in power over a man, meaning control how you feel or be able to manipulate you “im insure” = “idk how to be direct and i wanna check out mentally & process getting over you while we hangout”.
Women process emotions during the relationship until they’re all healed and ready to rug pull you. They’re nature. This comes out as “i need space” Notice when they’re processing (e.g., getting annoyed much more easily or disrespecting you consistently, when they didn’t previously)
How did that go? Was that the right thing for you or did you regret and got back
@@DavidTory well she came back herself and said she loved me and she doesn’t want space
We’re still going strong till now about to be our 3rd month
They have been problems but we’ve fought through every one of it
I just pray it lasts because I love her a lot
How’s it going for you ?
@@Noodlebo a break and needing space are two diffrent things
"Womanese" 😂 I'm stealing it
Steal away!!
what if i cheated got caught and then asked me for space
Well then be prepared for her to even the score my dude. It will happen...
If she says she needs space it means she has a replacement of yours in her mind or already is cheating on you. Don't be delusional and dump her. She never loved you and never will. In fact she is doing you a favor since you may dodge a cheater
If she is asking for some space make her feel like Neil Armstrong !!
💯
She’s f other dudes
Yep and got pregnant a month later
Lots of insecure dudes on here 😅😅😂😂 Give her so e space..ifshe du ps ya..move on to the next hottie. Can t force a relationship. jmo