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2:20 "I haven't cuntfronted her yet" lol....did you do that on purpose? hahah
@@muskokamike127 😂💀
Chris rock
I don't know if there is any hope for him with her - he needs to ghost - for a long time - and only take her back when/if she has crawled back to him a mile on her knees. Other than that - he needs to bolt on the marriage plans. He needs to make sure she doesn't end up pregnant during all of this.
Dude, this is the best thing that ever happened to this guy! This is better than winning the lottery. She just saved him 10 years of marriage, broken heart, not seeing his kids and paying half his income to her for the rest of his life. This is time to celebrate and not be crushed!
Totally agree
Amen.
AMEN! 💪🏻👍👌👌
I’m sorry to tell you boys that unfortunately he most likely still married her.
Hes on a fast track to pooh tang galore if he dumps the gold digger now.
If he goes through with this wedding, his “fiancé” is absolutely right.
He will.
@@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels sadly he will, he will put up some resistance but she'll guilt him into it
@@FlutterSwag Man, I totally agree. I just hope we're both wrong.
True and hope he dumps her for good!
Amen
LEAVE HER! Never depend on the approval from a woman.
@Jay B RIGHT ON BROTHA!! .... Get the heck away and keep your dignity!!
Unfortunately, men are biologically wired to depend on approval from women.
@@sarahrobertson634 no WE ARE NOT..... Boys are, not men..... that is exclusively a beta male characteristic.... smh
You can't escape biology. Alpha males still depend on female validation. We decide who breeds and who doesn't. We are the selectors. Men exist to impress us in the hopes that we will breed with them. If you don't like that, take it up with Mother Nature.
@@sarahrobertson634 that's the biggest load of feminist bullshit dribble that goes directly AGAINST the facts of anthropology I've ever heard!😆.... you don't initiate the dating or marriage proposal process, WE DO... And non betas ALWAYS ARE PICKING FROM MORE THAN ONE WOMAN.... Men are polygamous everywhere but the west were your feminists b.s. Is tolerated. there's your true anthropology lesson for the day.
She told the truth to her friends, but never will with you. You know the correct response.
End it and walk away.
💨
She might beg a little and/or even use sex to convince you if she is really afraid of losing you, dont fall for that...
From the streets you found her and to the streets she shall return.
Another female that has overvalued herself again!! Rejected 😂
Cancel that wedding IMMEDIATELY. go your own way man, you’re successful as hell why would you EVER put up with someone who doesn’t idolize you. Enough is enough guys
True - demand resp from woman near You.
If You dont see real desire - end it - just be honest with yourself.
Stay strong Gents
Things won't get better nor change after wedding bells, run!
“You learn a lot about people when they don't get what they want from you.”
well said!
Yup! you'll learn how disposable you are to them/they see you as .
If your fiancé thinks joking about how weak her future husband is and you’re ok with that, you’re insane.
Exactly. My wife has been wildly mad at me and she’s never said something that even comes close to that level of disrespect.
Even if she was just joking. It’s a telltale sign that she has little to no respect for you.
No one who loves you speaks in that manner about you.
Just say good bye
The relationship will never recover, she will say that she will change bla bla bla, and you will never know if she is still lying or not.
Better to be alone that be her second option, and there are way more women in the world, better to keep searching, than setteling for a 304 who doesnt value you and neither respect you.
Stop allowing this idiot bimbos to think they are better than you and treat you like the safecard.
Amen
as soon as he heard that he should have asked all of them to leave handing her a trash bag full of her crap.
Eject Eject Eject !
I found Rich a couple years ago when I was two years into my difficult marriage with a single mom. It was a nightmare, and the divorce was horrible, but I'm happier now. I thought if I came in to save this poor woman from her dumb decisions and financial hardships, she'd love me and adore me, but that's all BS. Women don't work like that.
I had had relationships with women in prior years where there was burning desire and it was obvious. My relationship with my ex-wife was different. It was sterile and I always had a feeling that she didn't have a genuine burning desire for me. I was correct. I had that gut feeling and I ignored it and married her anyway. Big mistake.
Fellas, listen to your gut. When a woman genuinely wants you, she'll break plans with other people and drive across the city at midnight to see you and blow you. You will be a priority to her. She will advertise to the world that you're hers. She will admire you and respect you. She can tell you and tell herself all day long that she wants you, but if it isn't genuine, you will see by her actions.
Facts upon facts.
Glad you lived and learned, got out without wasting a whole lifetime.
David, you and I been through the same shit. I married her anyway too, what a waste of time.
First mistake = A single Mom 🙄
This is my story too my brother. It’s also what I’ve experienced in dating post-divorce. Truer words have never been spoken.
Man, sorry you went through that but glad you're on the other side. Yea, these dirtbags don't want to be "saved," and even if they do, they would NEVER be grateful for it. In fact, they will resent you MORE because you saving them will remind them of the fact that they needed to be saved in the first place, and their egos cannot handle that.
"I know she was drinking and maybe she was joking". Married 30+ years. I have NEVER publicly badmouthed my wife. I have never heard of her doing that. We've argued, but never hung each other's dirty laundry in public. My grandma had a saying. "The people you love the most, you tend to talk about the least".
I am in a similar situation. I never did that, nor did my wife do that to me afaik. Something like that would be as severe as cheating, in my opinion. I know many couples where the woman badmouthes the husband constantly, tough. Sometimes they do it in front of the guy. I do not respect couples like that.
Hanz hanz hanz hanz.... you're busting my barrzzz here Hanz ;)
@@dinosaurd7295 😂😅🤣
Guaranteed that "joking around" with her friends was the most honesty he'll ever get from her, yet he seems headed for the grinder anyway, making excuses for himself and her.
@@dinosaurd7295 , Ronry and sadree arone.
LEAVE HER! I cancelled my wedding a little over a year ago. I kept uncovering red flags while engaged. Like Rich said, woman act very well. Never ignore the red flags. Never marry a woman who does not have a burning desire for you or sees you as a beta provider. It will never last, and the relationship only gets worse as the mask falls off.
What were the red flags?
Good for you... always trust your instincts!
@@josephstevens9888 That's right! That was my learning lesson from the relationship.
@@francisdashwood1760 Most of the red flags listed on Rich Cooper's website "20 Red Flags".
But I do want to note aside from the red flags the most important thing is she did not have a burning desire. Now most guys unfortunately don't know what that is. And I've only been in 2 relationships in my early 20s that I would say the woman had burning desire.
When a woman has a burning desire for you they will break all the rules for you and make your life easy. Burning desire also trumps hypergamy, the most loyal woman are woman who have a burning desire for their man.
Remember they will break rules for the alpha but make rules for the beta. A woman needs to enter your frame and make your life easier, not add more problems or take your energy.
Last thing I wanted to note is respect is required. Never entertain or accept disrespect. She's either already looking, bored, she's unhappy, she doesn't accept you as being masculine, she's a feminist. Whatever it is never tolerate disrespect.
He dodged a bullet…don’t marry her !
according to another commenter. he hasnt canceled the wedding, nor had her sign a pre-nup. if he goes thru with it, then he's an idiot and deserves anything coming his way. (which it will most probably will)
Seriously?? Did he have part of his brain removed previously?
It's a blessing that the guy overheard that conversation 🙏
Spill all, no pun
Anyone getting married in this day and age, with all the information that’s available…, deserves every single thing that happens to them!
Truth !, just over 20 years ago when I stupidly got married there was hardly any education on it .
I think that very few men are actually aware of all the info available to them. I know a guy right now who's having girlfriend problems, and who's also clueless about the men's red-pill community on TH-cam.
True!!
@@francisdashwood1760 Yup. I play COD: MW3 MP on-line. I was a little late at lunchtime today, because I was watching a Better Bachelor video ("you can't use logic with a w0man"). I mentioned to friends of mine in the lobby that I was watching RP / MGT0W content on YT .. and no one knew what I was talking about.
You don't even have to get married now just living together for a few years legally you are considered married.
'Quiet quit'. Take the time to separate your lives financially and as the last act, have police on standby to remove her from the property when she refuses to leave after the breakup.
This is the way. Only thing better would've been to walk away immediately which he didn't have the 🥜 to do. Return the favor of going behind her back with the logistics of the breakup, just as she did with her real emotions towards him.
This...
They are not married yet. I’d be more straightforward and the second those words left her mouth; the next sound she hears is not her friend’s laughter, but me calmly telling them all to get the F*ck out of my house, her included. No screaming or yelling, just a very firm cold response.
@@onebridge7231 👏🏻
Preach!
Thank you for being the father I never had.
I read your book Rick. Awesome insight. At 27 the dating pool is infested with horrible women, but if you swim enough you’ll find treasure at the bottom., I’ve learned a lot from your videos. The awesome part is I show your videos to my fiance and she loves your content too. Thanks for all the help.
I've had a pretty similar experience. I'm also 27, and I've been spinning plates properly since I was 23 thanks to Rich's advice. I'm currently in an LTR with a great 22 year old girl. The better women with no red flags are out there. It just takes time and work to find them.
@@Strydum1102 congratualtions bro, I wish the best fr because its a struggle finding a real one 😅 when I saw food cooked and house cleaned when I got home I knew she couldnt go anywhere.
Always said: "Get her drunk one time." Before any long term considerations, usually very revealing even if in a good way.
Don't get married. All women, including your beloved, can change instantly.
@@SteveC484 I guess the only solid reason for guys to get hitched is with a strong prenup to guard against palimony or whatever. I've never quite understood it as anything more than false security.
One thing I can guarantee him is that she was not joking. This guy needs to end this and never look back.
Lots of engaged women may wear a ring, but mentally, they are still single. If they get into contact with a guy who they think is a better fit for their life and they dig more than their finance, they will jump ship without any remorse. Unless you are truly are their first choice, they would never pull something like what was described in the video.
For this guy, it is a painful shock to hear how his gf feels & thinks about him. But now it is his time to get the hell out. See her harsh words as a blessing in disguise. Run whilst you can brother.
When someone shows you who they really are..... BELIEVE THEM.
Don't forget...she's not only thinking of the lifestyle she'll have while married... she's also thinking about her divorce payday.
So lucky he heard it before the wedding; the Dude is bummed but this is a blessing in disguise! He’ll be rich free and unplugged with a real sight of how the world thinks ; Total blessing
He is Got to Not marry this woman. Or you can just sign a blank check and give it to her.
Many a true word is spoken in jest.
Anyone can take a joke, but don't take disrespect disguised as a joke.
I've just finished my second time round of your book Rich (through audible) while driving. Honestly, I wish I had your book 20 years ago because I've literally let myself get wrecked several times over from the age of 20. I'm now 40 and just figured it all out.
All whamin have to offer is disrespect couched in "jokes."
"I speak fluent sarcasm." lol
"Anyone can take a joke, but don't take disrespect disguised as a joke."
I can't add anything to that, I just thought it bore repeating.
Happens
Atleast you didn't go to jail over sum 304 who don't want you
Those first 2 sentences are profound!
Kind sir, is the audio in Rich sir's original voice or is it some AI or robotic voice?
No argument. Walk out. Don't talk to her. No explanation required son!
7:30 - ABSOLUTE TRUTH !!!!!!! A girl I was messing around with and who saw we had chemistry told me that. She went in another country, instantly found a boyfriend after me, but before that she suggested that "deal" to me. And at first I agreed as the dumbass I was. Then few days later I said to her: "I don't agree about your promise/suggestion/deal, I am not a replacement or a safe zone". YOU have no idea how mad she was after I said that. She kept pushing and pushing for me to accept it, but after she went in the other country I simply deleted her from everywhere. NEVER BE A SECOND CHOICE, guys. NEVER. You are worth more than you think. And probably more than the other guy she chooses over you.
In retrospect I heard the same shit around 20 years old CONSTANTLY. “There’s 2 guys and I can’t decide…”
You could have just gone along with it and if she ever came back to you be like Dave Chappelle "gotcha bitxh!"
Never be some chicks personal dildo bro , You'll always just end up getting used and screwed over and if you're in love with her you'll just end up completely crushed .Chicks these days seem to want loyalty and love from you but she gets to have a harem on the side , I told a couple different chicks just go be in an open relationship or whatever and stop lying that you want monogamy and love so much .
I worked in hospital settings for years. What I heard nurses say about their men...ouch
I always hear about nurses being ruthless
@@marks2506 date them with caution
Do tell us some of those shocking tails you've overheard. You cant keep us in suspense like this.
@@suppaduppa openly confiding to other nurses about each of their men's weaknesses. Physical, mental, financial...shameful
@@johnfroelich8554 in other words women are the biggest liabilities a man can have?
If you cant trust your woman to keep her damn mouth shut, who else are you going to trust.
Man should be incredibly thankful he overheard this before the wedding
Feel bad for the guy, but there’s a saying…………”The worst people teach you the best lessons in life”. Move on, forget about her, and learn from it.
And when people show you who they are the first time BELIEVE THEM .
Everyone that you meet is a teacher, and they'll teach you one of two important lessons - how to BE - or how NOT to BE. Teach the people in your life to be their best.
My advice to the guy: "Dude, cancel that wedding, IMMEDIATELY. It will spare you from a life of hell, humiliation, degradation, lost time and finances. "
To be a rich beta guy who gets no respect or desire from his wife sounds like a particularly cruel kind of irony. You’re at work and she’s at home seeking attention and validation online 🤦♂️
@Kingdom House Simping plays a huge role in women and their lack of accountability. Women know there's 3, 4 or a hundred other guys who worship the ground they walk on. So why bother with introspection or self work when philandering about is so much easier and more fun... Until of course, the wall!
It's like going to the Gym and thinking only being fit will help you get da girlz, in the end of the day it's an equation that is multi factored. A combination of game, wealth, and looks.
Right... as a trainer, have had so many "offers" from rich women to "train" them at home.... all wealthy with good husbands that take care of them, just wtf...... I'll pass
@@hpmetabolics7558 spin plates and don’t be a boring nerd. 👍🏻
Some times ducking other men without you knowing and when asked says " It's nothing to worry about".
She was bold enough having that conversation with her friends while he was in the house! RUN…….
He’s still gonna marry her.
Pull the plug and don’t look back my friend. This can never be “fixed”
True.
Your best opportunity has already passed. As soon as you heard her talking shit, you should’ve charged out of that room and told her the wedding is off and for her friends to get out.
Nope. When you catch a woman cheating or if she admits she is doesn't love or respect you, don't let her know you know. That gives you a huge advantage when your enemy isn't aware you are on to them. If I was this guy I'd tell her to go have a nice weekend somewhere with her friends because she is just that amazing. If it was my house and she isn't on title, all her stuff would be sitting out front and the locks changed. If it was a rental, I'd have moved out and remove myself from the lease. If we were joint title. If we bought a house together, I'd say the market was about to crash, sell the house and we rent and buy it back cheap.
@@camels9654 Absolutely right, always best to hold your cards close to your chest. Exercising restraint and not letting your emotions take over will bring you the best results. But if the guy doesn't move on from the woman he's a dumb ass.
@camels9654 , Yep! totally wait till she's gone and toss her shit on the lawn .
He should have recorded the conversion and laid low. He should cancel the wedding then dump her to the curb.
Don't react, don't confront her in any way whatsoever. Quietly get your shit together (protect your assets) and kick her to the kerb! Anything else gives her the opportunity to do damage.
Problem with the bottom 80% of males is they’re prey. This guy should have been ruthless enough to delete her the moment he heard this. Having to Azzk for advice here shows a lack of killer instinct
Emotion clouds reason
She did him the biggest favor of his life.
Exactly! At least he is sure of what he heard!
Put this woman (and her horrible friends) in the rear vision mirror. On that note , If your girlfriend has at least two friends that you can't stand , get out now . Guaranteed their conversations with her flow one way , and she tacitly agrees . Learned that myself the hard way .
What happened?
Chris Rock and Bill Burr are great at doing jokes that have a LOT of truth in them.
Yet those 2 idiots still got married, especially Burr who had shat on marriage so much in the past.
Rock had a great skit years ago about O.J. merking his wife , He said I wouldn't do it but I can understand why lol , I have to go live with my Momma cause you're not " in love" anymore ? You might have to die lol .
Spoiler alert!
He’s not going to cancel the wedding and NO he’s not making her sign a prenup.
The fact the guy had no 🥜 to just pack her stuff and let her move out proves this. He should be angry yet he still too afraid to “confront” her and that says a lot.
If history has taught us anything, it’s that male desperation is unlimited as is female delusion. No respect for weak, desperate males. There’s no excuse for blue pill fuckery when all this info is readily available these days
Such guys are disgusting, they will not listen let them crash and burn.
Facts.
Yup. I got that too. He will be writing in 5 years crying because she is banging Toby.
Agree. When Rich read his email and the guy said “I’m not sure what I should do…” i knew it was over for this guy. It SHOULD have been a clear cut answer.
Everything happens for a reason! Maybe the stomach ache helped him from ruining his life with divorce and alimony. So lucky! I would call it off!
This gives new meaning to the term ''gut feeling''...lol.
@@francisdashwood1760 Lmao
Rich, the problem with the "genuine burning desire" jibber-jabber is that IT WILL NOT LAST. Whamin are fickle and capricious. They WILL find someone else, and by definition, a new guy is less boring that the guy she thinks she's "figured out" (note: They never figure you out. They tell themselves they do because it makes them feel wise; they're not. They're presumptuous.).
I was once told by a female relative that the guy she was with, whom she would later marry, was like a pet to her. "He's like my pet," she said. She married that man and, more or less, destroyed him.
Did you hear what I said? PLEASE listen young men. To find a whamin that is not selfish and wicked to the core is unusual. Don't assume you've found one because "she seems nice" and is pretty to you. A pretty whamin KNOWS she is pretty. You are NOT the first person to find her beauty. That chick in a wheelchair that you think other guys aren't hitting on? She had 10+ dudes try to slide into her DMs this afternoon.
Wake up.
She told the real truth to her friends. If you’re a guy with money, you can easily replace her. Because right now you’re looking at a future divorce. She doesn’t respect you.
It happened to me. But I can tell you this, they can't keep up the "act" forever. You'll eventually start seeing the holes in her demeanor. Watch her actions, not her words. Eventually, you will begin to see who she really is. .
What red flags did you see?
Yup! chicks will tell on themselves eventually if you feed them enough rope lol .
I married my first choice when I was 25... Just had our third baby last week☺️
I feel really bad for this guy, I'm sure he could upgrade to someone that would actually have respect for him.
Congratulations on the new baby! Many blessings to you and your family :)
If this guy is smart enough to cancel his wedding, her conversation with her girlfriends will save him hundreds of thousands of dollars. She would have a few kids (probably not his), and divorce him and start the alimony and child support lifestyle.
Most men don't want to unplug from the Matrix. I've tried to wake up other men with no result and the Matrix is trying to silence Tate.
Yup. Had that shit with the"we will get togheter if we will not have familys to 40" trap. And I know at least two other guys the same girl told that to. Happily for me stoped the blue pill madness 😅
A common practice of women (not all) is to humiliate their husbands to their friends. Never tell them your secrets, they will use it for comic relief.
DO NOT confront her (yet). Prepare your exit, talk to a lawyer if you share property, BE smart. Halt or delay any commitments regarding the wedding. Once you've planned your exit. execute your plan and tell her it's over and your mind is made up. Tears will be exchanged and it will be very hard but STAND YOUR GROUND. Count your lucky stars you overheard her, learn and move your life forward and away from this women.
That's EXACLTY how to do it. Even though you'll want to confront them you have to move in silence.
Get all your "I's" dotted & "T's" crossed behind the scenes & once you're ready make the escape
Perfect, no drama
This is the best comment on the thread.
HOWEVER... I would make some changes. I 100% agree about "exit prep" (including talking to a lawyer) and halting the wedding plans. BUT... when he executes it, HE SHOULD NOT CONFRONT HER DIRECTLY.
He should write an unemotional letter saying something like:
"Hey... I recently became aware of your true feelings for me. Given what I have learned, I cannot marry you. And honestly, you should not want to marry me. This is an opportunity for you to find someone you truly love. I wish you all the best."
Better yet, have the lawyer write it.
And then ghost. 100% ghost. There will be a tremendous desire to "confront" her and try to make her feel some measure of guilt. DONT DO IT.
One thing I can assure him about the conversation he plans in his head, is that IT WILL NOT GO THE WAY HE THINKS IT WILL. I dont know HOW it will go sideways, but I give my 100% guarantee that it will go sideways.
And there is no reason to have the conversation anyways. There is nothing... NOTHING... that can be said that will make it OK to marry her.
@@paulgilbert2506 I like this change, smart.
The stars were looking out for this guy for sure. He got LUCKY! If you guys are unsure about your significant other, follow her friends and see how they act and who they interact with.
Well said, the marriage wont end well. IF she knew he was there she wouldnt have said what he said. He shouldnt confront her just walk away as hard as that sounds..if he does confront her she'll manipulate him to not leaving.
The BEST way to understand women is to overhear their conversations when they think that no one is listening! Women are brutal and raunchy! I would suggest to any man in any type of relationship to eavesdrop on his woman. That's the only way you'll know what your woman is really all about!
I thought the same thing as your first sentence, LOL! 👍
It's simple, really, to any man who's ever had a woman burn for him. She won't keep you in the friendzone, make you wait or establish rules. When she wants you, she isn't going to be careful about it, and if it's anything less than obvious, it isn't real.
Once it's revealed that she doesn't have any respect for you, it's over psychologically for a man. There's no way this guy can continue this relationship and not harbor feelings of contempt.
I practice mind exercises from time to time to think about bad things occurring in my life. Loved ones dying, wife divorcing, fired from a job, losing limb or becoming a paraplegic, bankruptcy, nuclear war. I think about what I would do, how I'd react, and how to prepare emotionally. It's a great mental exercise to accomplish both to think out scenarios, plan ahead, and be grateful for what you have.
This scenario can be one of them. What would you do or how would you react to hearing your wife or girlfriend admitting her secret disrespect and using you purely for resources? Look for the signs of true attraction from her. Does she give any? Look at your recent pictures together. Is there space between you both? Is she leaning in close? Does she want to be seen with you? What levels of respect does she show you consistently if any? Don't believe her words, believe her actions and her body language. That's much more telling and harder to act fake for long periods of time especially. And lastly, don't accept mediocrity in your romantic life. Your happiness matters. Don't be afraid to cut her dead weight if you detect it or outright catch her in the act.
If he hadn't felt sick that day, he would be in for decades of pain.
This is also a good time to remind others that people deep in the bluepill can literally hear it from the horse's mouth, but still have a difficult time coming to terms with the harsh reality of their situation.
If you try to pull someone who's deeply bluepilled out of that matrix at the wrong time; at the least they'll totally ignore you, at the worst they can lash out and try to ruin your life for not falling in line.
This is why the "Money test" is necessary, act broke a few times and if you see her interest going down, she was just a gold digger.
I would further add that in addition to not having a scarcity mindset (meaning you have lots of options when it comes to women), don’t have a thirsty mindset. Control your libido or it will control you. Guys find it more difficult to do this but if you can master this, you can pull some serious Jedi mind tricks when you interact with single women.
Good thing he’s not married, a true blessing in disguise
This is a hugely important topic for guys to get. You can hear in the guys letter how he doesn't want to face the truth, the truly sad truth, but better to take the world on from a position of honesty,. That 's what red pill is all about. Well handled topic.
This guy is lucky he found out before getting trapped in a marriage
I’m so jaded at this point I don’t see myself being able to date again
Rich's advice is so simple but most men won't follow it. That is the tragedy.
Yeah, nobody has ever expressed genuine burning desire for me in my entire life.
If u look halfway decent [7/10, which is achievable for most males with muscles and clothes] and talk to enough girls, u will find some with GBD for you
Yeah, it's not something that's just handed to you. "Do the work".
My Highschool girlfriend way back in the day was the only girl that was like that with me. Never experienced that again ever since.
It's a great feeling (4 times) but it doesn't last in many everyday ways even if it's there early on or for the first few years - It requires work from both sides.
@@LeadLeftLeon I started taking my health seriously a year and a half ago. Quit drinking, eating shit, and started working out. I work out six days a week now. I lost over 70 pounds. I'm in the best shape of my life. I'm bald though, decent beard, but bald. I just wear black t-shirts and jeans. I don't care about "dressing up."
Dude most guys dont get this kind of heads up. God gave you a gift, gfto now
He won the lottery!
Guy won lottery he doesn't know yet. He gets red pilled before being married.
No man should get married in these times.
@Mike Heaton I’d only marry someone if God basically told me to do it. And I’d have to be extremely confident about it in a way I can’t be, myself.
This person is extremely lucky that he heard his fiance's true inner feeling about him. LEAVE, seriously cancel the wedding and LEAVE. If you marry this woman even after hearing this stuff then you are the architect of your misery and NO ONE can help you. RUN!
"you are the architect of your misery and NO ONE can help you".... what a wise saying. Do you mind if I use it?
@@josephstevens9888 Go ahead. 👍
Glad you liked it.
Chads and Tyrones have hit it for free and the boring clean up guy will pay the full price.
That was definitely Chris Rock. I think Alan Roger Currie (God rest his soul), class men like this as a mode 3 target.
ARC is died????!!!
@@LeadLeftLeon yeah
@@LeadLeftLeon Unfortunately back in late November.
He said they just "ran into each other' and 'just happened to move to the same city'. I don't think it is out of the realm of possibility she looked him up and tracked him down to see if she could snag him.
It was a Chris Rock special, and he's absolutely right. I'm floored as I scour the dating landscape by what I see. Single mom's everywhere looking for a safety net and stability. If they know you make a decent living, you have a target on your forehead. So many who have run through Chadrone, but now are looking for their "second choice!"
Unless you absolutely, positively want kids...stay single, gentlemen.
Your thoughts on alcohol? I was in an Organization Behavior class, which was part of my MBA curriculum. I forget "how" a group ended up doing a presentation on alcohol, but one did. They had a great line, during the presentation: alcohol is the great de-inhibitor. That is why you'll get truths spoken when people are drunk, and w0men are much more likely to have one night stands. If while drinking they get horny - they *purely* act on that animal instinct .
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." -Maya Angelou
Whoever this guys is , he got lucky , that is a blessing he figured it out before the wedding . I’d call that an act of God
What's really sad is that she'll find another sucker beta to replace him
Lol let the betas learn the lesson the hard way
If he marries her after this he is a fool.
Move on!
Story time.
Was going to Iraq (didn't due to stop loss tldr). Married ex wife because she was type 1 diabetic... She could get insurance to pay for diabetic supplies(pragmatic versus romantic). Catch her in a church parking lot looking for Jesus but found Saint Peter at 2am.
Divorced.
She calls me a week after it's finalized. Begs me back. I was the best thing that ever happened to her.
Remarry. Fast forward 6 years. I never checked her phone. Still have no real idea why I did. First 3 messages to her friends saying what an awful piece of shit I was. How I was the worst mistake of her life. Etc etc. I was controlling, narcissist, psychopath, sociopath.... Pretty much everything bad in the world.
Funniest complaint. I was controlling with money. After divorce, she filed for bankruptcy 18 months into freedom.
Point is. First sign of disrespect... Get out. I didn't. Got rewarded with sex twice a month for about 2-3 years.
Truth.
Gents - respect is all.
Generous woman in bed room is another - desire for You.
That was a Chris rock line about not being her first choice...
I just saw this video. Is there any update on the guy? Hoping he hit the eject button.
Also waiting for an update, hopefully he ended it
The fact that her friends laughed and encouraged her is a huge red flag. She has awful friends, and she was the one who chose them.
It is a red flag but also good bc it just shows how similar they all are to make the red flag more obvious to stay clear of.
There are no accidents in life. Observe and see what it means for you. Also look for patterns over time. It can reveal things.
They always do this, women give each other horrible advice
I almost never get drunk but even if I were drunk, I would never joke or speak in such an exploitative way about my husband. This goes beyond your relationship. She seems to be a toxic person.
I'm curious. What attracted you to the men's red pill community?
Depends on how genuine your feelings are. Alcohol is referred to as truth serum and liquid courage for very good reasons.
Anyone who gets married in a Western country these days is just crazy.
When Rich amends his red or green flags genuine burning desire has to be added. No man should seriously consider any woman unless she has GBD for him regardless of the level he’s currently at
If that were the standard, very few people would ever get married...lol! Only the top 5% (perhaps less) of men will ever experience a woman's ''burning desire''! I mean, let's face it, most women settle for men who are not even on their top-10 list...lol!
The greatest wedding gift, before the wedding is consumed! The guy should be thankful for her being frank, alcohol or not. Next steps: Dump, regroup, and find a more modest partner.
While a painful reality, this man overhearing his fiancé on alcohol was an INCREDIBLE blessing. Imagine if he didn’t find this out before it was too late. Move on brother.
She showed him who she is. Now LISTEN TO HER!!! He never had a turn. Chalk it up to one thing and one thing only. Repeat after me. I just DODGED a bullet I just DODGED a bullet. And LISTEN to it!
The fact you left work because of a tummy ache told me everything.
Hilarious
What, that he's a wimp? Or, are you saying that he had a gut feeling that his girl was up to something?
@@francisdashwood1760 The former. The only time I've seen people legit leave work for stomach pains was for emergencies. Go to any construction site or firehouse and ask the men there if tummy aches are a valid reason to leave early, and you'll get laughed out of there. This complaint, in addition to all the other things he says (like excusing her talking trash about him to her friends), tells me he's soft and that's precisely why she's walking all over him. He needs to recognize the well has been poisoned and this woman won't accept change from him, and move on to better girls _after_ working in himself more.
Allahs protection
Probably a euphemism for diarrhea.
This episode really opened my eyes. All spelled out in Lori Gottleibs book "Marry Him.". Women over 30 really are looking for Mr. Good enough to use to get what they want. Rich since its the holidays I would love your take on two movies "Its a wonderful life" and "yhe family man". The firsts espouses the values of socialism, the second an unplugged alpha plugs himself IN. LOL
I know a woman who was engaged in the 90s but rejected him because her friends said "this is not you...". Thus was after sleeping around for 3 years. She then found somebody with greater potential who later dumped her. Later at the age of 29 she found another guy who was interested (he was years younger) there were not many appropriately aged males around. He turned out to be a very bad choice. She was looking for a man when she was in her 40s. Over 25 years as an adult she managed to save no money, there's a surprise. Now in her 50s she is short of money, sort of unhealthy though is still good looking and seems much younger than she actually is. I see uncomfortable years ahead! BTW, most of her friends are divorced and constantly put down the men that have been in their lives & of course, it was always their fault!
I am 23yrs old, blonde, blue eyes,6'3, good looking muscular male, $35k a year... In LTR with a very good looking 29yr women who cooks me 3 meals, makes bed, laundry, cleans, etc everyday, makes more money than me, no kids... What is the deal here? Is this cool af or am I a dumbass?
My question is what is the difference between a woman like that and the woman you are dating Rich? Other than the woman you are dating probably has better game and would never say something like that. Aren't the motivations the same regardless of whether she is truthful about it?
It needs to be genuine burning desire without breaking character.
One way to avoid ALL this?...
Never get married, don't have any kids. Roughly 50% of all marriages end in divorce. And you don't want to involve kids in that.
Never let anyone crush you.
I've had a rule for a long time of not fully trusting someone until I see them drunk.
A drunk man’s words are a sober man’s thoughts(also applies to females)
I guess I can never be trusted then 🤷♂️
Bro you just taught me a new lesson in life.. 👊
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 correct.
Or travelling with them. Something will go wrong and you'll see the true person.
Poor guy. I know he wants to believe she was kidding. Assume she was joking for a minute (she wasn’t); the level of disrespect in front of her girlfriends would and should be enough.
A good of friend of mine was in very successful startup. After cashout most partners were cleaned up by golddiggers.
Awesome video, very important. Read Rich’s book to see more signs of what genuine desire looks like. It’s NEVER worth it to be dealing with a lady on a long term basis if there was no genuine burning desire and she didn’t think you’re the first choice.
Also..The ladies who have high notch counts are very unhappy, they always think well maybe there’s better..constantly
Yeah, but only the top 1% or 5% of men will ever experience a woman's ''burning desire''. Average guys, who women will settle for as husband material, will NEVER have a woman ''burning'' after them!
If a woman makes herself NOT wife material at any point in her life. She’s not worth it. This guy absolutely needs to leave her, he’s lined up for a future of misery, divorce and seeing his kids every second weekend until they’re eighteen. Feel bad for him, but he should have noticed this when she didn’t want him when she was younger.