100% correct. I was lucky enough to have a father who told me over and over again in my teen years, "NEVER chase a woman and always keep them on their toes". When you follow this, you'll see that the majority actually chase you.
The great thing about wisdom is that you continue to get it and understand it on a deeper and deeper level as you continue to grow, evolve and get older.
That not wisdom..why u still single if you are so wise.why you are not a successful husband to someone?!!!.why don't you help yourself first other than teaching these men to pursue lust instead of choosing a good respectful women that will be a life partner..!!!
@@thirtymiles6851 He never says lust for someone. He just tell you how you take the correct step and get out of the fuck up situation which affects your mental peace. But you will never understand that because you might have never experienced the same. It's true that girls are mysterious and knowing then better help any man, whatever he is looking for so stop blaming him and crying.
@@thirtymiles6851 Dude, your criticism says more about you rather than Corey. Maybe he doesn't want to be married now (since he has been married before), or he is too busy to settle down. It's his life to live and his choice and not yours to make.
True stuff. If she's not wondering about you and missing you on a regular basis then she won't appreciate you. If she wants to know something she'll ask, otherwise keep your mouth shut and let her wonder.
@@samuelroman125not really, she’ll want to know who you are somewhat otherwise she’ll feel unsure and unsafe. Just put yourself 1st while considering her needs as well, pick a path forward and stick to it confidently, flirt with the world around you and her, love her without attachment(put out good milk and if the cat drinks and stays, great, then enjoy her company, if not oh well. Relaxed, confident, purposeful and pleased man
Damn, the more I re-watch this guy, the more I agree. Some girls I don't give a shit about them and they like me. Then I meet one that blows my socks off, I show too much interest and she goes MIA. I tell you dudes, focus on your job, money, cars, looks, and house. Then when you date a girl, give her a peak of your "shit togetherness".
Better Every Day naaa man if you're mature and observant enough that gold digger won't be in your bed.......or your mansion. You'll be able to sense the thirst for that mean green a mile away.
Yes it is, the problem with all guys is that, they want it right now. Think about it, what's the rush. < > LoL (But, I've been there wanting it right now, but learning to wait.
I over heard a chick tell her friend about her guy asking her if she missed him? She told her friend I would if he would leave me alone To give me time to miss him 😂😂
I did this. I screwed up with the most beautiful woman I’ve ever been with. She tried to tell me to slow down, let it happen naturally, and let her come to me. I ignored and kept pushing, and inevitably got the friend zone talk. I then found Corey’s work and have listened to his book 5 times in the past few weeks, and listen to all his podcasts. I am now seeing 3 other women, including the one who friend zoned me, and am now forcing myself to be patient and let her come to me... hopefully. The other girls are great, but I can’t stop thinking about the one who friend zoned me and started this learning process. She came over a week ago when I asked her to come over for drinks and she did with no hesitation. We had fun, talked, and then hooked up. It’s still early, but we’ll see how it goes with the new and improved 3% version of myself. Thanks Corey for all the time and effort you put into helping us guys attract the kind of women we feel and know we deserve.
@Brotato Chip117 that's true my friend. Wen you show them that you have other options and you can keep going with your life. They start acting different
That's a hit and miss depending on the woman. Women hitting it up at the club and having one night stands tells you the right guy doesn't have to wait or slow down. She will be ready that very night. Anyone who has to wait for her it just tells you, you aren't the right guy. So this advice is kind of wishy washy. Don't wait or pay for what others have gotten for free and right now from her. At least this is with hoes. A genuine woman you would have to wait for regardless if she can keep desires in check at a basic level. However who knows which is which anymore. People can hide who they are. I guess the point is wait for her to come if that is something you are fine with but don't do it just because she says she needs time, but if you want a woman with genuine desire now for you keep it moving and keep her on the backburner for if she eventually comes around to you
You point is valid but that could be any woman when they feel attached to someone they don’t waste the time they do the right moves. This playing laid back games of waiting is kinda of manipulation.
@@guitarman0365 There are no categories like "genueine woman" / "hoes". Women get horny too, and they use some men just for sex. But if they are genuinely interested in a man, they usually don't want to have sex with right away because they don't want him to see to her as a hoe. And they would like to see if the man is interested in them for more than sex.
The fact is that this video is 8 years old and still 100% accurate. The truth is that 20 years from now it will still be accurate and women do not feel like more then men unless we make them feel that way. They are human beings too. Make them chase, make them wonder, flip the coin. Anything good takes time and if she's for you it will work out.
This is so so true!! I fell into the trap of chasing girls and acting too sensitive, texting too much etc. several times.. it always led to being placed in the friendzone. Thanks Corey for helping out so many guys! Keep up your good work!
This is interesting and you are right. I am reminded of my father's advice to me. He always told me that if you wanted to get the girls then you had to go for it and let them know how you feel etc. If you waited, they would get bored, think you were slow and just go with somebody else. I thought my father must be right because before he met my mother, he had been renowned for being very successful with women. The irony is that he admitted to me in later life that he had never actually practiced what he preached. He had in truth been totally laid back, suited himself and let the women come to him. I think he felt slight guilt at the way he had behaved and so tried to advise me to follow a different path. Luckily I found my own way in the end.
Men it's always good to keep a woman guessing . C women don't just let any man into their head, that's their sacred territory. They can lay down with someone and walk away care free just like men!! But if you manage to get inside their head, you become a part of their life. Now if you're strong enough to stay out of sight and contact from them for a month or so (this includes not letting her friends and family see you as well) then pop up, she's going to play it Kool like it wasn't anything big about your disappearing act because she's waiting for you to approach her first, then she's going to see how your acting as well as hoping you slip up and say something that she would use to prove that you was with another woman. If you keep your composer, she's gonna respect you so much because now she knows that if she don't do right by you, you can go somewhere she doesn't know anything about. And women hate not knowing!!!
This video is so true. I recently stuffed my chances with the girl of my dreams. I was too keen and needy. At 35 years of age it hurts as I truly believed we had a special connection. I will remmeber 1 amazing night with her. Concert, dinner, cocktails and the best 1 hour of my life. She still is special to me. Unfortunately my emotions and feelings got the better of me. Internally I need to do some work and not make the same mistakes nect time. Great video Corey!!!
Please don't be a stalker and chase women! I am in this position right now. I texted this guy to come over and hangout, now I can't get rid of him! I want to tell him to go away but I also don't want to hurt his feelings. I need time to develop my feelings and there is now zero attraction or desire for me to get together with him again. Sad. but true~
+Nope Notgoingtohappen yes. last week I told him to stop contacting me. if he had just listened to me when I said I would let him know when I would be available again instead of texting me everyday and me never responding this would never have happened! I think he drove me away. on purpose? I do not know. when I said stop contacting me. he responded with that's cool. bye. I'm not really sure what his game was but it was whack. clingy and annoying. I'm glad I got rid of him. but he could have had it!
The amount of men in denial about this entire topic is just mindblowing. It's one thing to not be aware (and then to learn and apply), but to dismiss it or deny it is just plain stupid unless you want to stay at the self-serv pump in the gas station of love the rest of your life.
If you're talking about the art of seduction, I find it's a bit outdated in todays dating world. Of course some of it still applies. But for example, men in the OLD days were brutes, they never gave compliments to women. So in a world like that, a man that would shower a women with compliments and shows of affection, would get a lot of positive attention. In todays world, a man like that is seen as needy and weak.
I'm 18, I found Corey's work early this year I started seeing changes, girls started chasing and my life changed within like 2 months coz I was serious, and after I stopped learning more because I already had girlfriends, I started seeing changes again going back to my old habits, thank you sir Corey Wayne for the advice u give it's sooo different from the red pill guys
This is so true...…..Think if it was the other way round. A woman constantly phoning and stalking you. Red lights would flash and Glenn Close bunny boiler would spring to mind!! its good having time on your own and not having women around us all the time.
I enjoy your videos. It also cracks me up bc my grandmothers name was CoraWayne R.I.P. She always gave me great advice so in a way makes me feel close to her. Thank you for all that you do.
I just don't speak To anyone and it works great, no one bothers me now, its just me and my very good friend Jack Daniels. BLESS HIS SOUL, and his mother too.
Indifference is the coolest power that we guys have. You must be it not trying to faking it and its a process. Indifference makes the difference not only with girls with business aswell
Seems like most women on games anyway who contacts who first and the waiting game being a player best way to go not catch feelings for these chicks they see a good guy chasing interested they play with his heart
Just wanna say thanks a ton for your vids. Wish I'd stumbled across them 4 years ago! Still a lifechanger to hear the things you're doing wrong from a third party.
Facts. Once she finds out you have very little to offer and are not stable in your life, if she’s hot and not desperate, she will keep looking. Become a King 👑 before you start looking for your Queen 👸
This is counterintuitive. Even to what some other experts say. I’ve always read that men are to take the lead and keep pushing things forward. Other people have told me to take it slow but never explain why that is. It makes sense now that it takes time for women to develop their feelings.
You're brilliant corey...I'm seriously considering picking up the book, but i've always been somewhat discouraged by self help books. Then again, all the stuff you talk about is stuff I agree with. DONT chase women (it pushes them away, makes you seem clingy). Be relatively short with women (dont text them 24-fucking-7). If a girl isn't interested in you, move the fuck on.
just the video i needed, thanks. our 1st date went amazing, she was all over me. i tried to set up the 2nd date with no success but she did give me the counter offer for the following week. the time comes and she then says she has a furniture move going on and wont know what time she will be done. i say ok just let me know what works best for you. she tells me ok i will thank you. she blew me off ! the ball is in her court so she has to reach out to me now because i sure as hell wont
she is a total flake. i tried reaching out again. she waited 4 days to get back to me. i erased her number right there, not wasting any more of my time & $ on her. two weeks after that i seduced another girl and got laid. you cant be hung up one girl, you got to move on fast. i forgot to say i did go for the kiss at the end of night but she gave me the cheek. but she was so happy to talk with me after that 1st date, strange. some women go from hot to cold really quick. i did nothing wrong, followed coach's principles. the bottom line is she is not into me. what coach says is true, you HAVE to go for the kiss on the 1st date to know where you stand.
I find this is basically true with women still in their younger child bearing years but they tend to grow out of this a little more as they mature and settle down but by then, they are losing their beauty and their appeal, so their selection options start to go down, but yeah especially with young women, you will get more of the games, it sucks but you have to counter it like Corey says.
Corey, each woman is so different from the next. Where one mans woman when left to wonder will make her desire him more another mans woman who leaves his woman to wonder can trigger deep triggers of insecure attachment from early childhood wounds of never having solid and secure connections. When I get to this place the distress is so thick and real my only way to protect myself from being betrayed again..is to detach and grow cold as to protect myself...then when the man returns I’m less likely to be vulnerable again and end up sabotaging the relationship giving my blessings and walking away knowing I potentially avoided getting really hurt again.
Very good point! My girl has these same kinds of childhood wounds, per se, so I try and understand it from that point of view and manage it, neutralize things while not smothering her, etc. It's interesting how some women see men as being "needy" if they're simple being too nice or just going out of their way to do something for them, or they think of it as needing validation somehow, or "attention" (I've been accused of this before), but not all men are that way just because you're behaving a certain way. The dynamics of all of this is so fascinating! I hope you're doing well!
It’s called avoidance attachment... avoidant attachment A disorder characterized by social discomfort and avoidance of interpersonal contact. Someone who has avoidant attachment personality disorder avoids intimate and social contact with others. There are two types of avoidant attachment styles: . dismissive-avoidant.. go it alone . anxious-avoidant.. fearful signs to look for: * Keeping the relationship shallow or surface-level * Focusing on sexual intimacy without emotional closeness * Running "hot and cold" with their affection * Pulling away when someone starts getting close * Resisting vulnerability * Repeatedly sabotaging relationships
50 days after my breakup, today I hooped up with this beautiful girl, she came to my apartment and spent the night, the sex was soooooo amazing, she asked me where I have been all this years then she said you are sooo mysterious and I love it. I didn’t say a word then she kissed me. She said she’s going to Madrid and if am gonna miss her, I said yeah of course then she said it doesn’t seem so. 😂 Corey you are changing my life. Even though i missed my ex soooo, I love my new life and the changes.
It.s really simple ,girls and women like attention and approval,and when you don.t give it to them by appearing to be to desperate and needy,then you.ll become the focus of their attention,and then the.ll be the one.s doing the seeking,and coming on to you!!!
Hey coach....did my homework and the just got contacted back. I kept myself busy going out with someone else. Ill be honest it was hard to NC but well worth it...the trick really is to just go out and have that license to do whatever with no regret of being single.
When you watch coaching videos... you always think this does not apply to you... Why... Because the very foundation of liking someone is that she is special and does not apply to the average that we think this video is about. But the video is about us not them. We are in control of what we do not what they do. So why seat and wait for the phone to blip and is never them. Go out fo something and if they knock at your door... Good! If they don't good! ...thank you coach! I get it now!
This is great info. Because It seems when you're a woman and you literally just let go and live your life, almost all your exe's come back at one point. It's strange.
It works for men too. I used to text & call my ex all the time trying to get her back. It wasn't until I stopped, that she started doing the same thing I was doing. The only thing is, the time apart made me not want her no more. I kinda feel bad because her feelings are hurt. But my feelings are gone.
I did things way more right than wrong on the date but got the friends speech. Still a follower of Corey Wayne has helped tremendously. Sometimes it's just not meant to be even if you show up well and have done the work. Read the book 10x and listen to videos daily.
Hey Corey, at first I thought you were just a quack, a friend of mine told me about your book and read it... More than once, and have to admit, what you say in the book works, not only for relationships but in real life situations. I have applied some of this techniques at work as well. One thing I like is that your approach is very honest, like: don't bs yourself and don't be a man like you father and grandfather were before you. Kudos to you.
I've been chasing a girl too hard the last few weeks and I can tell she's pressured. I'm not texting her until she texts me going forward. My favorite thing you say is something like real love is allowing someone to feel free. I think you just have to let them go sometimes. I figure if she doesn't contact it wouldn't have ever worked
This worked for me so far. Been ignoring her, texting very little, not bringing up meeting up in person. She's had this new dresser she hasn't put together in the two weeks since she bought it. Yesterday we texted nonchalant like the usual, every few days. She calls, we talked for an hour, and asks me to help her at her apt. Her daughter is going to be there too and my ex knows I enjoy time with her too. Corey is the man!
I think the main difference between men and women in this area is men get to their 'I'll buy it' conclusion faster than women. Same exact thing happens in a store. A man walks in, knows exactly what he wants already, grabs it, and checks out within 10 minutes. Women walk the whole damn store to see what items they may want to buy, even if they already have a list. lol
Exactly! I like your advice to him bc that's exactly what happened to me and my ex when we were talking online for a bit and getting to know each other. It took 2-3 weeks before finally agreeing to see him and that was when we just talked to get to know each other and just having a casual ordinary conversations. Also, I really liked that my ex didn't bring up meeting each other too soon or being too forward. Women want to get to know the person they agree to see and sometimes it takes timeee lol. Don't be too eager. Being eager will annoy the shit outta her.
AAhhh!!!!! I see Cory has been reading some of Doc Loves articles has soon as he said interest level & challenge that was the first thought that pooped in my head
Hold me... From a woman... "Hold me with your gaze... Even more so with your smile... My thoughts get so crazed... If I'm without you for a while... Hold me in your hands... And my heart will skip a beat... Hold me as we dance... In perfect harmony on our feet..."-Tye Duvall
hey, coach Corey just finished your book and have learned a great deal but still going to read it over and over again until I master your concepts. Thank you again......
This guy is official my guru! I need to practice this! i tried out his mettods and its fucking work! I Need to become a ALPHA right away! Thank you Cory
Dude you need a "talk show " Seriously Just remember the little guy and your fan's. Town down the heavy cursing and be a little nice but your information is gold.
100% correct. I was lucky enough to have a father who told me over and over again in my teen years, "NEVER chase a woman and always keep them on their toes". When you follow this, you'll see that the majority actually chase you.
how you keep them on their toes?
@@rickmorgan1441 be unpredictable
My father would tell me “you get arrested again I’ll f’king kill you”.
@@ManifestedByMotherSource be yourself
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This dude is so fucking real even curses like a friend would speak to you
yhh his pretty good!!
Facts
At 40 I realise this is true. Lost attraction every time a man did not leave me alone to wonder.
The great thing about wisdom is that you continue to get it and understand it on a deeper and deeper level as you continue to grow, evolve and get older.
That not wisdom..why u still single if you are so wise.why you are not a successful husband to someone?!!!.why don't you help yourself first other than teaching these men to pursue lust instead of choosing a good respectful women that will be a life partner..!!!
@@thirtymiles6851 He never says lust for someone. He just tell you how you take the correct step and get out of the fuck up situation which affects your mental peace. But you will never understand that because you might have never experienced the same. It's true that girls are mysterious and knowing then better help any man, whatever he is looking for so stop blaming him and crying.
@@thirtymiles6851 Good Respectful woman ? May as well track Bigfoot !
@@thirtymiles6851 Dude, your criticism says more about you rather than Corey. Maybe he doesn't want to be married now (since he has been married before), or he is too busy to settle down. It's his life to live and his choice and not yours to make.
@@yeticusrex1661 😂😂😂enjoy your singleness alpha men!!
True stuff. If she's not wondering about you and missing you on a regular basis then she won't appreciate you. If she wants to know something she'll ask, otherwise keep your mouth shut and let her wonder.
Amen brother 🙏
Can this be done while in full blown relationship?
@@samuelroman125not really, she’ll want to know who you are somewhat otherwise she’ll feel unsure and unsafe. Just put yourself 1st while considering her needs as well, pick a path forward and stick to it confidently, flirt with the world around you and her, love her without attachment(put out good milk and if the cat drinks and stays, great, then enjoy her company, if not oh well. Relaxed, confident, purposeful and pleased man
Damn, the more I re-watch this guy, the more I agree. Some girls I don't give a shit about them and they like me. Then I meet one that blows my socks off, I show too much interest and she goes MIA. I tell you dudes, focus on your job, money, cars, looks, and house. Then when you date a girl, give her a peak of your "shit togetherness".
And then you have the problem of figuring out wether or not she likes you for your wealth, not you as a person.
joe blow .......its a vicious cycle the people we want are hard to get or don't want us the people we don't give a shit about are all over us
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Better Every Day naaa man if you're mature and observant enough that gold digger won't be in your bed.......or your mansion. You'll be able to sense the thirst for that mean green a mile away.
its a two way street. REMEMBER!!
Insecure women tend to become overly self conscious around me when they find out what I do for a living.
Coach Corey Wayne that's awesome...I bet they feel intimidated too.....I'd actually like to be a fly on a wall just to see how you operate. Corey
Pretty cool Corey, shy
i bet
They didn't read the book 10-15 times LOL
Coach Corey Wayne hi coach... does any of your videos work on a friendship level? Long story behind our situation.
Move on to the next.
This stuff he's saying is the truth guys.
Yes it is, the problem with all guys is that, they want it right now. Think about it, what's the rush. < > LoL (But, I've been there wanting it right now, but learning to wait.
I over heard a chick tell her friend about her guy asking her if she missed him? She told her friend I would if he would leave me alone To give me time to miss him 😂😂
Lol truth lol...
😁 😁 😁
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Man,sounds like we men are just toys for them lmao
@@AndreyLit22 , if you allow yourself to be.
I did this. I screwed up with the most beautiful woman I’ve ever been with. She tried to tell me to slow down, let it happen naturally, and let her come to me. I ignored and kept pushing, and inevitably got the friend zone talk. I then found Corey’s work and have listened to his book 5 times in the past few weeks, and listen to all his podcasts. I am now seeing 3 other women, including the one who friend zoned me, and am now forcing myself to be patient and let her come to me... hopefully. The other girls are great, but I can’t stop thinking about the one who friend zoned me and started this learning process. She came over a week ago when I asked her to come over for drinks and she did with no hesitation. We had fun, talked, and then hooked up. It’s still early, but we’ll see how it goes with the new and improved 3% version of myself. Thanks Corey for all the time and effort you put into helping us guys attract the kind of women we feel and know we deserve.
@Brotato Chip117 that's true my friend. Wen you show them that you have other options and you can keep going with your life. They start acting different
This is some good shit right here. Good on you man 👊🏻
That's a hit and miss depending on the woman. Women hitting it up at the club and having one night stands tells you the right guy doesn't have to wait or slow down. She will be ready that very night. Anyone who has to wait for her it just tells you, you aren't the right guy. So this advice is kind of wishy washy. Don't wait or pay for what others have gotten for free and right now from her. At least this is with hoes. A genuine woman you would have to wait for regardless if she can keep desires in check at a basic level. However who knows which is which anymore. People can hide who they are. I guess the point is wait for her to come if that is something you are fine with but don't do it just because she says she needs time, but if you want a woman with genuine desire now for you keep it moving and keep her on the backburner for if she eventually comes around to you
You point is valid but that could be any woman when they feel attached to someone they don’t waste the time they do the right moves. This playing laid back games of waiting is kinda of manipulation.
@@guitarman0365 There are no categories like "genueine woman" / "hoes". Women get horny too, and they use some men just for sex. But if they are genuinely interested in a man, they usually don't want to have sex with right away because they don't want him to see to her as a hoe. And they would like to see if the man is interested in them for more than sex.
I got my own show on youtube. Its growing at 20%. youtube has 800 million monthly unique viewers. Fuck the networks.
You used to be on tv?
Lol@“fuck the networks”
Caleb Israel yes, he was.
The fact is that this video is 8 years old and still 100% accurate. The truth is that 20 years from now it will still be accurate and women do not feel like more then men unless we make them feel that way. They are human beings too. Make them chase, make them wonder, flip the coin. Anything good takes time and if she's for you it will work out.
2024 and its still relevant !
This is so so true!!
I fell into the trap of chasing girls and acting too sensitive, texting too much etc. several times.. it always led to being placed in the friendzone.
Thanks Corey for helping out so many guys! Keep up your good work!
She wants you to do that. You KEEP HER on a leash
This is interesting and you are right. I am reminded of my father's advice to me. He always told me that if you wanted to get the girls then you had to go for it and let them know how you feel etc. If you waited, they would get bored, think you were slow and just go with somebody else. I thought my father must be right because before he met my mother, he had been renowned for being very successful with women. The irony is that he admitted to me in later life that he had never actually practiced what he preached. He had in truth been totally laid back, suited himself and let the women come to him. I think he felt slight guilt at the way he had behaved and so tried to advise me to follow a different path. Luckily I found my own way in the end.
nicedog1 nice. Thanks for sharing man. Women are like shadows. If you follow them they’ll escape. But if you escape they’ll follow you....
That's some fuck shit what he did. Talk about sabotage
You are a GENOUS man I did nothing and she randomly texted to hang out thanks for all the advice
You my friend are a genius. More people need to know about you.
Men it's always good to keep a woman guessing . C women don't just let any man into their head, that's their sacred territory. They can lay down with someone and walk away care free just like men!! But if you manage to get inside their head, you become a part of their life. Now if you're strong enough to stay out of sight and contact from them for a month or so (this includes not letting her friends and family see you as well) then pop up, she's going to play it Kool like it wasn't anything big about your disappearing act because she's waiting for you to approach her first, then she's going to see how your acting as well as hoping you slip up and say something that she would use to prove that you was with another woman. If you keep your composer, she's gonna respect you so much because now she knows that if she don't do right by you, you can go somewhere she doesn't know anything about. And women hate not knowing!!!
Eye opener...
Why would I read this if I just watched the video?
Thank you for opening my eyes. I have been treating this woman and all women from my past wrong the whole time.
This video is so true. I recently stuffed my chances with the girl of my dreams. I was too keen and needy. At 35 years of age it hurts as I truly believed we had a special connection. I will remmeber 1 amazing night with her. Concert, dinner, cocktails and the best 1 hour of my life. She still is special to me. Unfortunately my emotions and feelings got the better of me. Internally I need to do some work and not make the same mistakes nect time.
Great video Corey!!!
Please don't be a stalker and chase women! I am in this position right now. I texted this guy to come over and hangout, now I can't get rid of him! I want to tell him to go away but I also don't want to hurt his feelings. I need time to develop my feelings and there is now zero attraction or desire for me to get together with him again. Sad. but true~
so you basically threw yourself his way and he still managed to fuck it up? jfc
+Nope Notgoingtohappen yes. last week I told him to stop contacting me. if he had just listened to me when I said I would let him know when I would be available again instead of texting me everyday and me never responding this would never have happened! I think he drove me away. on purpose? I do not know. when I said stop contacting me. he responded with that's cool. bye. I'm not really sure what his game was but it was whack. clingy and annoying. I'm glad I got rid of him. but he could have had it!
what a dumbass xD
lmao
females n their dam feelings...is dimple you either eant to be together or not.. why people play all thrse dam games
The amount of men in denial about this entire topic is just mindblowing.
It's one thing to not be aware (and then to learn and apply), but to dismiss it or deny it is just plain stupid unless you want to stay at the self-serv pump in the gas station of love the rest of your life.
It’s okay they’ll learn the hard way
Cant fix stupid
Corey Wayne and Robert Greene teachings actually work together perfectly.
If you're talking about the art of seduction, I find it's a bit outdated in todays dating world. Of course some of it still applies. But for example, men in the OLD days were brutes, they never gave compliments to women. So in a world like that, a man that would shower a women with compliments and shows of affection, would get a lot of positive attention. In todays world, a man like that is seen as needy and weak.
everything he says is right and sensible. it is just tragic that you can only manipulate others to be "happy"
Kuo Chia-wen yes, sad but once you become mature enough this shouldn't be a part of any persons plan. My view...just be yourself.
I'm 18, I found Corey's work early this year I started seeing changes, girls started chasing and my life changed within like 2 months coz I was serious, and after I stopped learning more because I already had girlfriends, I started seeing changes again going back to my old habits, thank you sir Corey Wayne for the advice u give it's sooo different from the red pill guys
This is so true...…..Think if it was the other way round. A woman constantly phoning and stalking you. Red lights would flash and Glenn Close bunny boiler would spring to mind!! its good having time on your own and not having women around us all the time.
Watching it in 2019 ... this proves ... the fundamentals remains the same
This video changed my life 9 yrs ago ❤️👊😎👌
at 7:48 he just spoke directly to me....damn.......time to get off the bench and get my ass back in the game. Much respect Coach.
please listen to this guy..he says the truth
@You and @AMS are the best coaches on TH-cam. Thank you
I enjoy your videos. It also cracks me up bc my grandmothers name was CoraWayne R.I.P. She always gave me great advice so in a way makes me feel close to her. Thank you for all that you do.
Corey is the fucking man
I just don't speak To anyone and it works great, no one bothers me now, its just me and my very good friend Jack Daniels. BLESS HIS SOUL, and his mother too.
Women are not practical for men.
sounds sad and unhealthy.
Uhh, you okay?
Alcoholic much??
@jpowell2603 Eyes don'ts drink !
Dating and stuff is such an interesting topic I love it.
where did you get that image?
Indifference is the coolest power that we guys have. You must be it not trying to faking it and its a process. Indifference makes the difference not only with girls with business aswell
HEY! I'M BACK! I FOLLOWED YOUR ADVICE! IT REALLY WORKED! 😁😁😁 THANK YOU! I'll stay tune
He's right on about alot of these movies and us being taught by them since little boys.
Seems like most women on games anyway who contacts who first and the waiting game being a player best way to go not catch feelings for these chicks they see a good guy chasing interested they play with his heart
Just wanna say thanks a ton for your vids. Wish I'd stumbled across them 4 years ago! Still a lifechanger to hear the things you're doing wrong from a third party.
Good job! It's your birthright, enjoy :)
“So you want to know the number one pickup line is, well, I’m not going to make you wait, here it is: Scott”
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Bill Smith right, but after that intro line you need to listen to coach Corey to keep her
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Bill Smith HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
I don’t Chase woman anymore I chase money 💰 to my back account
Best way.
@@paulcooper5748 very best
Facts, money doesn’t lie & makes u happy
On GANG!🤞🏾
Facts. Once she finds out you have very little to offer and are not stable in your life, if she’s hot and not desperate, she will keep looking. Become a King 👑 before you start looking for your Queen 👸
This is counterintuitive. Even to what some other experts say. I’ve always read that men are to take the lead and keep pushing things forward. Other people have told me to take it slow but never explain why that is. It makes sense now that it takes time for women to develop their feelings.
You're brilliant corey...I'm seriously considering picking up the book, but i've always been somewhat discouraged by self help books. Then again, all the stuff you talk about is stuff I agree with. DONT chase women (it pushes them away, makes you seem clingy). Be relatively short with women (dont text them 24-fucking-7). If a girl isn't interested in you, move the fuck on.
I wish I found this just 1 week ago things would be so different
Videos are helping and I bought the book. Trying to change my mindset so I can get different results.
just the video i needed, thanks. our 1st date went amazing, she was all over me. i tried to set up the 2nd date with no success but she did give me the counter offer for the following week. the time comes and she then says she has a furniture move going on and wont know what time she will be done. i say ok just let me know what works best for you. she tells me ok i will thank you. she blew me off ! the ball is in her court so she has to reach out to me now because i sure as hell wont
she is a total flake. i tried reaching out again. she waited 4 days to get back to me. i erased her number right there, not wasting any more of my time & $ on her. two weeks after that i seduced another girl and got laid. you cant be hung up one girl, you got to move on fast. i forgot to say i did go for the kiss at the end of night but she gave me the cheek. but she was so happy to talk with me after that 1st date, strange. some women go from hot to cold really quick. i did nothing wrong, followed coach's principles. the bottom line is she is not into me. what coach says is true, you HAVE to go for the kiss on the 1st date to know where you stand.
I find this is basically true with women still in their younger child bearing years but they tend to grow out of this a little more as they mature and settle down but by then, they are losing their beauty and their appeal, so their selection options start to go down, but yeah especially with young women, you will get more of the games, it sucks but you have to counter it like Corey says.
Corey, each woman is so different from the next. Where one mans woman when left to wonder will make her desire him more another mans woman who leaves his woman to wonder can trigger deep triggers of insecure attachment from early childhood wounds of never having solid and secure connections. When I get to this place the distress is so thick and real my only way to protect myself from being betrayed again..is to detach and grow cold as to protect myself...then when the man returns I’m less likely to be vulnerable again and end up sabotaging the relationship giving my blessings and walking away knowing I potentially avoided getting really hurt again.
Very good point! My girl has these same kinds of childhood wounds, per se, so I try and understand it from that point of view and manage it, neutralize things while not smothering her, etc. It's interesting how some women see men as being "needy" if they're simple being too nice or just going out of their way to do something for them, or they think of it as needing validation somehow, or "attention" (I've been accused of this before), but not all men are that way just because you're behaving a certain way. The dynamics of all of this is so fascinating! I hope you're doing well!
It’s called avoidance attachment... avoidant attachment
A disorder characterized by social discomfort and avoidance of interpersonal contact. Someone who has avoidant attachment personality disorder avoids intimate and social contact with others.
There are two types of avoidant attachment styles:
. dismissive-avoidant.. go it alone
. anxious-avoidant.. fearful
signs to look for:
* Keeping the relationship shallow or surface-level
* Focusing on sexual intimacy without emotional closeness
* Running "hot and cold" with their affection
* Pulling away when someone starts getting close
* Resisting vulnerability
* Repeatedly sabotaging relationships
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I am on 97th page.
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Ok boss
Thank you. Very insightful wisdom! 👍
50 days after my breakup, today I hooped up with this beautiful girl, she came to my apartment and spent the night, the sex was soooooo amazing, she asked me where I have been all this years then she said you are sooo mysterious and I love it. I didn’t say a word then she kissed me. She said she’s going to Madrid and if am gonna miss her, I said yeah of course then she said it doesn’t seem so. 😂 Corey you are changing my life. Even though i missed my ex soooo, I love my new life and the changes.
Banks da Lone Traveller good shit bro 🤝
It.s really simple ,girls and women like attention and approval,and when you don.t give it to them by appearing to be to desperate and needy,then you.ll become the focus of their attention,and then the.ll be the one.s doing the seeking,and coming on to you!!!
Hey coach....did my homework and the just got contacted back. I kept myself busy going out with someone else. Ill be honest it was hard to NC but well worth it...the trick really is to just go out and have that license to do whatever with no regret of being single.
Your advice is on point,it.s a pity some men take so long to realize the mistakes the.re making over and over again with women.
For some women its always a game. They are what is called ludus lovers. Forget them. Find a secure woman who is sure of themselves.
RIGHT bro!
A secure woman? You're talking about unicorns, I presume.
When you watch coaching videos... you always think this does not apply to you... Why... Because the very foundation of liking someone is that she is special and does not apply to the average that we think this video is about. But the video is about us not them. We are in control of what we do not what they do. So why seat and wait for the phone to blip and is never them. Go out fo something and if they knock at your door... Good! If they don't good! ...thank you coach! I get it now!
This is great info. Because It seems when you're a woman and you literally just let go and live your life, almost all your exe's come back at one point. It's strange.
It works for men too. I used to text & call my ex all the time trying to get her back. It wasn't until I stopped, that she started doing the same thing I was doing. The only thing is, the time apart made me not want her no more. I kinda feel bad because her feelings are hurt. But my feelings are gone.
I love this guy. Just an endless stream of real spit.
I did things way more right than wrong on the date but got the friends speech. Still a follower of Corey Wayne has helped tremendously. Sometimes it's just not meant to be even if you show up well and have done the work. Read the book 10x and listen to videos daily.
Corey wayne !!! ur da man !!!!! Great advice on these women I luv ya videos keep em,coming
good advice I will take it and i am sold
God I was such bitch in high school, but I’m glad I found you in my early 20’s. My success with women is at an all time high! Thank you coach!
Hey Corey, at first I thought you were just a quack, a friend of mine told me about your book and read it... More than once, and have to admit, what you say in the book works, not only for relationships but in real life situations. I have applied some of this techniques at work as well. One thing I like is that your approach is very honest, like: don't bs yourself and don't be a man like you father and grandfather were before you. Kudos to you.
Corey thank you man, manly sense in a world of femnine chaos!!!!!!!!!
I've been chasing a girl too hard the last few weeks and I can tell she's pressured. I'm not texting her until she texts me going forward. My favorite thing you say is something like real love is allowing someone to feel free. I think you just have to let them go sometimes. I figure if she doesn't contact it wouldn't have ever worked
Thank you!!
This worked for me so far. Been ignoring her, texting very little, not bringing up meeting up in person. She's had this new dresser she hasn't put together in the two weeks since she bought it. Yesterday we texted nonchalant like the usual, every few days. She calls, we talked for an hour, and asks me to help her at her apt. Her daughter is going to be there too and my ex knows I enjoy time with her too. Corey is the man!
talked for an hour? on the phone? c'mon man!
umm, i think setting up date is the outcome you want, not talking through phone for an hour, unless youre skyping because shes far away i guess
scifyry The phone is for ordering pizza!
scifyry Don't ignore her. Find the balance. Ask her out.
Bad move, watch Coeries video again, phone is for setting dates. Not to read a book.
STILL TRUE IN 2024
You should get a medal man!
I think the main difference between men and women in this area is men get to their 'I'll buy it' conclusion faster than women. Same exact thing happens in a store. A man walks in, knows exactly what he wants already, grabs it, and checks out within 10 minutes. Women walk the whole damn store to see what items they may want to buy, even if they already have a list. lol
How is this 2012 and im just watching 2018?!?!?
sneijder023 hahah wees blij dat je hem hebt ontdekt ;) Hij zal je leven veranderen. Waar kom je vandaan?
sneijder023 time Machine you got ?
i guess it stands the test of time
Women don't change. They'll stay married to the same man while men do what they want
Cuz you dumb 😄
This stuff actualy works. Thanks coach.
Exactly! I like your advice to him bc that's exactly what happened to me and my ex when we were talking online for a bit and getting to know each other. It took 2-3 weeks before finally agreeing to see him and that was when we just talked to get to know each other and just having a casual ordinary conversations. Also, I really liked that my ex didn't bring up meeting each other too soon or being too forward. Women want to get to know the person they agree to see and sometimes it takes timeee lol. Don't be too eager. Being eager will annoy the shit outta her.
This man knows some real things... I have certainly gained some ground in life because of such advice as this..
AAhhh!!!!! I see Cory has been reading some of Doc Loves articles has soon as he said interest level & challenge that was the first thought that pooped in my head
Do thoughts poop in your head, dude?
@@ImJustBoots That's why some people are literal shit-heads.
got your book on Audible. You're the man Corey.
i find his material helpful af. like im only starting his system now by watching and listening to his videos. but i find it funny af when he cusses 😂😂
Incredible.
Hold me... From a woman...
"Hold me with your gaze... Even more so with your smile...
My thoughts get so crazed... If I'm without you for a while...
Hold me in your hands... And my heart will skip a beat...
Hold me as we dance... In perfect harmony on our feet..."-Tye Duvall
You're a genius
Been watching your videos for a week, awesome job dude, ordered your book Friday night!!
I love you Corey. You helped change my life. I earned my soul mate because of you. Thank you
hey, coach Corey just finished your book and have learned a great deal but still going to read it over and over again until I master your concepts. Thank you again......
which book?
I love this man. I wish I knew about this sooner in my life. I learned all this the hard way. Still good stuff!!!
By the time she finishes wondering I'll be long gone
Your advice reminds me of the book "The Nice guy syndrome" I got on Amazon. I have read your book and the Nice guy syndrome, great advice
Dude, that girl's clearly playing him. She's got other options and knows it and just keeping him nearby as a side-dish option. Let her go dude
This guy is official my guru! I need to practice this! i tried out his mettods and its fucking work! I Need to become a ALPHA right away! Thank you Cory
Coach is too good. Girls are starting to act creepy toward me. Oh great! They act nice for a moment then a bit rude next. I called her out on it.
Thanks for share your knowledge with us
Corey, you're my favorite teacher, man!! Loving your videos. Keep it up!
7:45- 8:09. Rip. 😅😅
Dude you need a "talk show "
Seriously
Just remember the little guy and your fan's. Town down the heavy cursing and be a little nice but your information is gold.
this actually works .....lol thanks bro for the advice
F**k, now its all clear. I finally found you, master. Will be having a cool mind from now.
Great job!
This guy helped my bro game
I wish I had found this last year this would have been better know