Texting That Attracts vs. Repels
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 เม.ย. 2012
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to properly use phone texting & messaging to create attraction, set dates & seduce women who like you.
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One thing I like about Corey is that he looks and sounds like a pretty conservative guy and then all the sudden he starts dropping F Bombs
HeyJude2018 hahaha he is a badass
He is mega conservative. Follow his Twitter lol
Lol
@@TheRussianWookie good. I certainly wouldnt take relationship advice from some pansy liberal
B Reed same here
"That's two big fuck up's right there."
I like this guy, he's brutally honest.
I just put my friend on him... my friend is a real "nice guy" needy as hell (even with male friends lol) I was like here watch this dude, he is unabashedly honest... that is what you need!
Lmfao I know some friends like that
2 big fucks up- 😂
Few seconds into email...
Coach: “that’s a huge fuckup right there” 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Lol
@@gabrialblast2007
Maybe it's only a mistake with dumb bitches
texting "r u there" multiple times is also a major turn off.
Yeah, I had a girl that would text me at work and didn't get why I wouldn't answer her back right away. A second text with just my name in all caps didn't help either lol
ugh..women do it too...
Fucking lame smh
Are you there? Lol
Are you still there
The secrets Ive learned for attracting women are
A. Not caring
B. Not caring
C. Not caring
ldog2010 did that and chic came running back it was months later but naked pics, can't wait to see you and so on
fkn woman right
Cool Chicka not caring does not mean ignoring the girl or guy.... it means expressing interest having fun.without being needy and trying to force things.
Agreed, you need to act like multiple other women are trying to get your attention. She's nothing special.
+Aaron ball That means she got really lonely and desperate herself. The guy she liked more than you turned out not to be working out. So I'm your plan B? I fuck those women and that's it. Not GF material.
Women's coaches are telling men should text first, men's coaches are tellin women should text first... there is a serroius risk humane race will expire because of a whattsapp dating cold war
Thats what worries me. Nobody wants to be the one to cave and get ahold of the other. Its all a game now. Instead of just being yourself. And trying to make it work with the other person. We are trying to out smart the other person. And its creating damage. Technology has made us anxiety ridden, insecure, stuck up, selfish, cheating, hypocritical beings. It freaks me out
Djuna Barnes heres what you need to understand guys. DO NOT LISTEN to what women say look at their behavior
@@mittimus3418 Actions speak louder then words
VirginiaReaper well said that’s soooo true
I said this is another comment.
Women now seem to want the guy to be the guy and see if they are really into them, because they know typically men are dating other guys.
But women are doing what coach says, they are playing the field too, and seeing if the man texts them first,
This man's advice helped me to meet my beautiful fiance 4 years ago. Thank you @Coach Corey Wayne!
Congrats man! Good luck
congrats man!!
It's a trap!
A lot of guys on here would probably say something like "oh, well you must be really rich or super handsome." LOL.
His advice is great for getting a girl but let me ask you this do you still use these tactics with your fiance like when she calls you to dinner from the kitchen do you not answer and hold out until she just brings it to you you know shit like that LOL
I'm laughing my head off. My nephew needs to see this. He's been stuck on one girl after another. Spent four years in college completely miserable.
What do you mean?
Damn that is really sad
Sound like American Pie Lmao
Four years only?! Aww that's cute...
Daaamn lady you savage 🤣🤣
Nothing is more inspiring than hearing how a man went from being one of the worst to one of the best. You're a true inspiration Corey.
One thing that all men should KNOW! When a women WANTS to hang out she will absolutely make it happen. Nothing will get in the way. Once the “I’m sick” or “no babysitter “ or “I’m too busy” starts, it’s time to tap out and move on. Women and men will both make the date happen if interested. Excuses mean NOT INTERESTED
TheTradesmen but I’ve had women play mind games as most are paranoid, they want to see if you’re interested in them to arrange something, be a man?! But I agree they will meet if they want and excuse and be shady when they don’t
TheTradesmen so true. So effing true.
Absolutely true. Or she says "I've been too busy to text." Nobody is too busy to drop a quick text. WALK AWAY...
Absolutely right!
100%
This is the realest shit. Ever since I stopped chasing women and starting chasing success women chase me all the time now lol
Randy Jr. Avila true word G ✊🏻
He’ll yeah dudes me too. I got mad chicks. So weird how all of us poon hounds ended up watching this video... and commenting... oh well I’m too busy swattin twats nahmean bruhhhhhh shit yeahhhhhhhhh
@@earpig Your revolution is over. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir. The bums will always lose. Do you hear me? The bums will always lose!
Correct. Now she's wondering about you until she sees you which causes her to want you more when you see her than she does presently... and the effortless part is... you didn't have to do anything to make it happen. She creates the love story in her mind which builds sexual anticipation in her towards you as you are focused, or should be focused on your purpose until you see each other. It's one of the subtle differences that make the difference ;)
Coach amazing insight I highly respect the fact you tell it like it is thank you!!!
Watched ur vid on space gave my girl some time and she won’t leave me alone thanks coach!!
@@viniv20 So did something happen?
Or you can focus on your self. There for eventually you will find somebody. Less women less problems. Know it's hard gotta be patient. Good things happen when you least expect it
yay Seth!
Am I the only one who cracks the fck up at some of the things Coach Corey says? I can't be.
ocho10cinco It's funny because he speaks truth and dosen't filter it.
I do. Lol
Right off the rip with the lunch comment 🤣
I expected this guy to be a really professional, well respected life coach... and he tells me to stop being a weak bitch
Hes not here to blow sunshine up your ass lol of course hes going to be hard on you
I text women photos of me in my yoga pants doing hot poses, but they end up going cold and not returning my calls - what am I doing wrong?
+tinian33 Hey, send me one of those yoga pics!!
hmmm nothing at all, those women are such prudes!!
i feel we don't like boys that think they are súper hot... Keep it simple, just how u normaly dress up in the day...
+Ambir91 But I am pretty hot. I've got some rockin' abs and like to wear skinny white jeans, a 1980's "member's only" jacket with no shirt, and a red bandana....
tinian33 women are difficult to convince. If u got the look thats fine but if u got the look and good conversation, bang! Thats all we dream about
My rule. Talk to the girl you want like the girl you don't want. And watch what happens lol
Some of these examples are the perfect adage to the ageold statement: Learn from other peoples' mistakes"
Tejas 👋🏻...🤪😜yes👍👏🏻👏🏻
God, these emails he gets are so depressing.
After reading the book its easy to see these mistakes
You are unaware until you read the book, there is so much dumb information out there that even when you do research, you get shanked by all the bad info
hed hunta Exactly, I wish I would’ve known about this channel 2 years ago
Stuff makes me feel like a stud sometimes
it's like i have to do some 4-5 years course to get a girl 😂😂
Sometimes it takes even longer to break down the social conditioning many men go trough since childhood
@@ItsRaitisLV conditioning?
I fucked up so bad...damn
I feel you 😂😂
None of us knows what we're doing. We all just wing it.
+Jessica McConnell preach!👐
The "I fucked up so bad club" I would be the president of that club LOL!!!
Haha #Ifuckedupwithagirlsobad
This guy knows wtf he’s talking about honestly. I wish every guy could understand this stuff. The sad thing is that we women do want you to succeed. We fkn love feeling super crazy into someone… nothing feels better than finding someone you’re really attracted to and excited by… and if we’ve agreed to go on a date with you it’s in the hope that that person is you!! We actually want you to do well!! So so sooooo many guys end up almost talking themselves out of being attractive. If we’re dating you - you’re already attractive enough and have the potential but so often it’s downhill from there… even after a great first date
Wow corey you went in on him lol
This video is about to turn 12 years old tomorrow but is still applicable today.
This dude is so awesome. I am here dying laughing! Love his bluntness! LMAO
if you want to be her lover. you got to get with her friends
+izzy H Wasn't that a spice girl song? Lol
PB J lol you got it.
+monica guerrero As you grow older you will realize that you will be the only woman with this code.
hahaha look at Hollywood.
izzy H they get with yo friends becuase they will be in bed with them thinking about you Oooo how the truth burnns
Are we there yet - no.
Are we there yet - no.
Are we there yet - NO!
DONKEH
God damnit nappa
"That's a huge FUCKUP right there." 😁
One-quarter of a million views of Coach rip into this guy with absolute honesty. One of my favourite videos, a good introduction for anyone at the beginning of their game.
He's so right. As a woman, I cannot handle needy or overly aggressive (with contact) guys. But women do it too. It's a delicate dance of push-pull. I'm still learning.... But I try to be a person I'd like to talk to. Frequent contact isn't a good idea early on, but waiting TOO long can mess things up too. These videos are helping me understand men better. Thank you!
I chat online to girls sometimes with no intention of meeting up, its good practise and fun at the same time, eventually the conversation burn out but, you can make mistakes and identify them too, no loss and keeps you sharp when it comes to unexpected questions and how other people respond to yours.
@@ColtSSR What's the best place?
with contact ? meaning ? and what if she already your GF
Online dating is the worst for women because it is a safe space women don’t get out of . They will no meet because they are not comfortable. Dating is a risk on both side. I get most of my numbers face to face. If you wait too long online, guys will just friendzone you.
when i was in HS i asked a girl out over and over like 10+ times just to hear different excuses everytime, before i realized she just wasnt interested. So i would say after two cancelations its over
"Now you put your social life on hold for a month for the girl you had a friendly lunch date with a month ago" 🤣😂
James Thompson had me rolling 😂
Plus, if you take a women out at night, you’ll be the only thing that would be on her mind before she sleeps at the moment
"that's a huge fuckup right there
if its meant to be its going to happen! good things always happen when you least expect it!
A woman told me she's been dating other men, I said you should. I might be doing the same with a smile. Convo ended there and we had a great night. hooked up. She is alway pursuing now. Been reading and following his book for 4 years now. It has helped in sales as well for what I do.
Corey knows what he is talking about! Please tell these guys to stop texting beyond occasional flirts or making date plans (from a woman).
Switching from chasing and compiling for woman to growing into a man women want to chase is admirable goal. The key here is that Corey talks about this shit like it’s easy. It’s not this takes work.
Corey! This is the best TH-cam subscriptions that I know. I bought you’re book and I read it every night. You’re videos are Amazing and very informative . Thanks A Million!!!
This is the education that they need to be teaching young men. People would be happier, and the world would be a better place. So in that sense, Corey is saving the world.
This guy cracks me up with how real he keeps it. Subscribed. Keep it up sir.
If the girl does not precieve you as high enough value to accept your date request, going silent is not always going to make her chase you. That will works only if she feels the loss, but if you haven't demonstrated enough value she's not going to feel that. You have to break contact only for a little time, not completely. Then you send "value into the void" like a funny text, gif or pic. Or a text giving her a window into what your are doing in your life. Something to get an emotional response, but not a question or anything that suggests you expect a reply.
The best thing to do, when she starts texting too much. For me this works 80% of the time. I tell them straight to the point in the beginning that “I don’t like texting and I really love to talk to you when you are live in front of me or when I see you, because it’s more comfortable like that and I would love to see you, when are you free to get together?”. Not only through texts but through the phone as well. The reason why you should say that is, it shows confidence and dominance and you condition her to ( get used to it😄). But when you tell her that, say it in a calm and polite way. I can tell you that it works. The 20% that don’t react to that aren’t really confident woman or are not as attracted to you. Simple as that.
outdated perspective (or maybe it works on the type of women who sync well with you and your style) I've had much success being in contact through text, building attraction and closeness through text before you see them again is like the foreplay to the event
@@FIGHTER_mlbbthanks for the opinion. Yes, in a way it’s just who I am, I just really don’t like texting non-stop. It’s also the anticipation that attracts her to you. And the thing I’ve experienced is that women like and respect honesty. By the way, if they do text or call during the week before the date takes place, I keep it really short and sweet with them (3-5 min. max) and tell them I appreciate them for their call and love to hear all about when I see her and got to run. Remember you are a busy and successful man that keeps his purpose as a priority.
You probably also keep it short and flirt with her a little bit? Am I right? As long if you don’t text for hours you will be fine. Cause I’ve done that before long ago, and than the date got canceled, because she probably got bored lol. I swear never in my life am I making that mistake again. Looking forward to your response.
Aint it fucked that you're the only dating coach that actually gives real advices that work. Cheers to you fam.
Strong words, but your poise means a lot. Thanks for everything you do, man.
lol I've been this guy omg it sounds so bad looking from other perspective
zlickDude even though you know at the time
Coach Corey Wayne just earned my respect.
I am learning a ton from all this! But the way he roasts everyone!!! 😂😂😂. Super like-able and funny! Love the videos as well as the book!
I like the way ur so straight to the point, ill donate when im not as broke. Thx for the advice broo. Keep up the good work, ur helping allot of us, with ur knowledge. Thankyou vm
I’m watching this in 2018 and when he said ‘email’ I’m dead ☠️ 😂
He still says email. People still use email. LOL
corey hahaha you are a legend man!!!! all the videos you make are just on fire hahaha. Read the book 10-15 times and watched the vids. This is all gold info!!
You don't remember how many time you read the book?
you are my role model for relationship advices, everything works and thank you so much sir
Thank you so much for the videos. I discovered you today and will probably watch the majority if not buy the book. I'd love to tell you about my situation. Cheers and thanks again
This is helpful. But I would be really creeped out if a guy called me honey after just meeting them.
Also, a lot of guys totally misinterpret clues and do not get the hint when we're not interested. Women will rarely come right out and say they're not interested in you.
he damn sure is he just confirmed everything thanks corey will be sending a donation
I understand this completely, and I can personally attest to it working, but what the fuck happened to our once rich culture? I mean seriously, you can't even tell a girl that you had a fun time without her thinking "eww he's needy." It's absolutely ridiculous how everyone is so shallow and manipulative nowadays. We're afraid to be our true selves and be honest with others..so much so that we can't even talk facing one another. The next time you see two men talking, look at where they're facing.
PUT ME IN COACHHH!!
Corey, you really give good advise to people. Keep up the good work man. God bless you.
I'm still waiting for this one girl to text me back.....it's going on five years! Do you think she will? Lol
Believe it or not, you never know! - I heard of a story of a girl who refused a guy because he was broke and she came from a rich family and 10 years later... they met again and she told him her husband makes $15,000/month, only to find out her husbands' boss is the guy she rejected 10 years ago. Wont be surprised if she bomb texts him now! 🤣
Keep waiting man, stand by the phone all day if possible. /s Lol
High chance!
Errr. ... No! 😂😂
somebody please tell him..😭
This works with people in general.
Can I practice on you?
That's true 🤔
Corey not only your advice are gold ,But I laugh my A-off the way throw the F-Bombs .... you are awesome man
I hate texting.. you could be at work having a bad day and some woman starts texting you, your trying to keep everything upbeat and positive to build positive repore with her at the same dealing with all the negative stuff at work, it becomes too much. I usually just tell them.. "we'll talk after 6".
Love the "straight talk" in this vid
Just bought your book, Corey. Insightful videos.
This should have beat out that gangnan style video as the first to have a billion views.
The difficulty with all your advice on texting, is when a girl is texting you all the time AFTER you already set a date. You do have to text back, because otherwise it is just plain rude. How do you end the conversation, if she is asking you stuff all the time. And indeed I agree it's better not to text to much, because the more text's the bigger the chance to fuck up.
A lot of the stuff is common sense. Some isnt. Good advice. Corey is awsome. He's a good dude that seems to be really rooting for his clients, very down to earth, and gives solid good advice. I can see why he's successful. Im a real fan. Excellent content . Im one that knows all this stuff but trust me, when you know it you still throw it out the window, forget, and make the same mistakes. I listen to Corey to stay reminded
Corey you the king of kings thanks for all of your badass advice. You are changing the world. Cheers buddy.
"Male girlfriend" hahahahaha!
08:35 bro that game was so smooth.
LoL Corey always says email before text. Tells you his age lol. Love your book Corey, learning alot made my lists and reading it every day. Keep up the good work.
dude, I date a lot and I hate, HATE texting, but every time I call no one ever picks up, unless it's on route to a date. In fact I lived with a girl for a year and we never spoke on the phone.
Sounds like they really love the sound of your voice ;)
Coach Corey Wayne oh shoot lol
+Coach Corey Wayne savage
+Coach Corey Wayne Way to couch.
+Coach Corey Wayne BEAST!!!!
I met my ex girlfriend of 3 years in the back of my friends car. Probably the least romantic spot and in no way was sex going to happen. In my opinion if you give off the right vibes and make a good first impression, the very first date/meet up doesn't have to be a place or opportunity for sex to happen.
iluvgtasan beautiful
3 years? To old
I once arranged this gal for a lunch (yes, a lunch date) for a reviewing job assignment that I have for her. She signaled that she eyed fuck me at the end of our lunch chat, although I early did touched her through correcting her signing skills (I'm deaf, btw). Wow! I realize that Corey is a wrong about his overall theory.....it is all about right vibe that i had with her. What's more? I did most of the talking (she is ultra introverted type person, fyi). Be aware that Corey's advice is all theory, not actual a real-life situation.
Well obviously the first interaction doesn't have to be that way. If it comes to a girl you have never met before and you want to meet with relationship purposes you musn't be the friend.
Listened to the audio book about 5 times. Now realize how much i fucked up a very great opportunity.
This makes a lot of sense...
I get flakes on dates A LOT. Like I have gone on 9 first dates this year....no second dates. In general, I’m usually less that 5% success rate at getting a first date. I’ve yet to keep interest enough for a LTR and I’m 28.
I always thought you’re SUPPOSED to call or text follow ups right away. That’s what you’re supposed to do, right? Show you’re taking charge. I’m normally an indecisive person in general so I’m essentially trying to fake that part of my personality. Thats what tons of guides online say to do.
Little did I realize that this types of messaging scares women away. It signals neediness. In actuality, it’s a socially awkward person and takes rules verbatim from online because social cues are a mystery. So if I read ‘text x’...that’s what I do. It’s all I know. I’m not good with common sense...
But it makes sense why my success rate is so low even after good first dates if they feel scared off when texting first, especially so quickly.
It’s fucking dumb you have to pretend disinterest for some silly notion of ‘being chased’ but what do I know? I’m the kind of guy who always reads spoilers since the journey is better for me than the ending.
I guess I’ll pretend to be disinterested from now on. Whatevs. Either way, thanks Corey. I would have never thought this on my own.
good luck Jonathan. most women don't want games. just keep it real.
Love content been married 13 years and I will attest 4 years lasted because I found ur channel
Thanks man :)
don't meet for lunch(you do that with a friend), meet for dinner and drinks-
a man's job is to create a fun filled romantic opportunity for sex to happen
Holy shit! 2 minutes into this and I'll be watching all you got.
Oh my god this saves me years of experience, thanks coach!
Thanks :)
I made a mistake of texting too many compliments; e.g. "You're beautiful", Ms.Amazing etc... That will stop until I get more interest on her part.
+William Shock I dont see that as a mistake. If she doesnt want you-her loss move on. Dont change who you are but do be confident.
Corey is a fucking pimp
That needs to stop completely... women know that you think they are attractive- or you wouldn’t be talking to them. Any compliments about their physical appearance is damaging your chances... give them one or two compliments about her accessories- purse, jewelry, clothing, shoes... etc... I’m far from an expert- but I’m older, wiser and have learned some things about what women react positively to. Impressive men are not common- stand out by not being the boring next guy to tell her how pretty she is.
When you’ve been in a relationship for years or are married- then you to tell her she’s beautiful.
@@soshieopath7142 yes! Spot on! Great advice.
Buddy Corey, this is better than stand up Comedy. Just tell the guy straight out, fucken U Fucked Up. The problem with guys is, they play the same broken record. The goal is one be different than the whole crowd. These videos are priceless.
I love listening to you Corey 😊🦋
Who still here in 2019
It's 2020 where I'm from😂
2021
Corey, I just wanted to thank you for your excellent videos. I was married for 10 years during the entire rise of texting, and you have helped me update my game.
I recently turned a cancelled date into a hot invite to her house. How? She objected to the date because her suitcase was not unpacked after a long trip. I reacted by telling her to get out her broom and tidy up the place, or else I will spank her across her packed suitcase. That started the game, and much steamy texting ensued until I eventually got invited over for the night. No date at all, straight to the bedroom!
Buy coach Corey book read it 30 times. I've read it at least 50 times and know the Material. The success I have with woman now is amazing . Corey knows his shit.
Corey. Your on fire Bro!
plot twist she's celibate and sex isn't even an option lol
"Translation: please call me I hope you like me Your Highness" haha
😂😂😂 this is the best video ever. Some of the best adjectives haha
Oooof listening to this exchange is way too relatable 😂 this girl is trying to cling to any scrap of interest she did have for the guy. The fact that she kept replying for so long actually shows me that she did have a high level of interest because if it was low or medium to start with she wouldn’t have entertained it for longer than 1-2 of this guy’s messages. I feel bad for the guy… man I’d love to help more men like this. Some guys really have no idea
Cory teaches good game, wish I had this in my twenties! Unfortunately I had to learn these things myself the hard way.
I agree with some of it, but I also think a lot of men don't understand the "tone" they're giving off. Vibe really is everything. If you're confident, you say "I had a great time" right away, like with a kiss and as you head out. If you have to think about it, you send a text later on. I have found this to be true in my own life. When I'm confident, I don't hold back with compliments.
Good stuff such a good explanation
Lol give this man a cigar😂😂😂
The trouble with acting needy to start with is you're almost forced to act needy to continue so your choices are:
1 Keep trying to meet = needy = excuses and she can't be assed.
2 Do naff all! = she does naff all too!
One thing I agree with, you have to keep practicing and learning from mistakes! I talk to one woman and if she is not worthy.....cut my losses and move on. Like a game of chess, I trade one piece for the next as necessary to advance to the next stage.
Only date women who have high level
of attraction..
Corey Wayne for President......
Coach speaks from all the mistakes he made thank you Coach.
This guy knows his shit without a doubt. I personally know the game and women really need to be the chasers. Let them come to you and its a whole lot better. it comes with experience. I can see that Corey is keeping from laughing when he reads these emails! he's still good! doing a good job man. keep it up. by the way I just found you. I was a Ross Jeffries fan too. and the famous book " how to be the jerk women love" great read. preach on brother!