Boyz remember there are 4 billion women out there. If you think the woman you are into now is the best and only women destined for you then you have lost your mind. You can make just as great or even greater connection with someone else out there. Let her do her thing. Focus on yourself and let her come to you.
Indeed. It's a scarcity mindset that fucks you up. An abundancy mindset allows you to feel complete. To not need anything, because you already have and are enough as you are. To never feel rushed. To look further. To not feel attached to expectations. There is so much of EVERYTHING. A scarcity mindset is easily stressed, because there is too much to obtain and collect. The abundance mindset allows you to be happy as you are and to give your gift to the world
@@bywodensbeard9841 Yeah, it's kind of a silly thing to say (tons of "manosphere" content is just silly). The more realistic number is probably a few hundred in any given city.
Imagine a woman hotter than the one you're obsessed about who's obsessed about you. A porn star looking lady that would die to be with you. There are women like this out there you just have to keep trying and not give up.
The perks of being imperturbable 👀 I have a wonderful woman who lives in another state and it’s strange at times as I do care for her, but also not caring if she decides to no longer see me
Yup. Lik CW says, "you can't give away what you do not yet have". Meaning, if you don't have peace/contentment on your own, how can you expect to give that to someone else? Gotta be right with yourself before you can be right for someone else. It is a destination in some respects. I am in the same spot with a fantastic woman. My sense of peace has my girl crawling all over me. She has said, multiple times, "I feel so safe with you". At 43yrs old, Ive finally arrived👍. God bless you guys. If you are on this site, you are humble, self aware, and trying to improve. What a fantastic mindset to have. Have a blessed day fellas
@@ryanowens3304 Thank you brother I'm happy for you and your woman. And thanks for everyone commenting here. I still make a few mistakes here and there but it's good to finally have the right mindset. And for anyone who isn't there yet, when you get to the point where you know you can meet a new woman at any time, you'll feel so much better. I hope everyone here finds success in their dating lives and prosper financially
This is always tough in the moment, but the best way is to have a life filled with work, hobbies, friends, and family. This way you have so many other things going on and are looking forward to that you don't have time to worry about whether or not the girl wants you.
100% melvin. CW talks about that in his book and videos as well -- the importance of having a path in life; and something you are passionate about pursuing. If that's the case, the woman is truly a compliment to the man's life, and he's content either way (with or without) bc he is focused on his purpose. This gives him a sense of peace; a centered, positive disposition, and of course, confidence, which is very attractive to women. So, your suggestion --being busy; having hobbies, and things going on, etc are actually traits of a high value man in the woman's eyes. He's good either way...bc when he's not with his girl, he is pursuing his purpose or calling; and is fulfilled by acheiving the goals he sets in life. Too many guys are looking for validation, via a woman's approval/desire, bc they dont really have a path or purpose. In this case, the guy seeking approval reeks of despiration, which is a huge turn off for women.
what about if u live abroad on your own and you got nobody else? when my ex left i found straight away somebody else but still all family and most of friends are back home. wish i could have everything in one place . life sucks
That was always the case. I would be upset but the countless distractions and options of other people to hang out with always helped me get over any heartbreaks. But I'm older now, friends are married and what not, so now it's just me. It's almost like a feeling of a blank canvas. I would love to form new connections and have other outlets, or communities, to be part of. I just don't know where to look I guess.
This is hard when you’re in the position like I am, recovering from a broken femur losing everything in a bad car accident, my car, my job, my place to live to see things get to a weird moment is very hard to deal with when your trapped against your own will physically and can’t rely on that to help you mentally smh not being able to work on obtaining the things you know will heal you really hits different
6:00 Women don't care about how much you like them, they care about how they _feel_ about you. 12:00 When you can get to the point where she'll do 95% - 100% of the pursuing, that's the best place to be. She's always calling / texting you and that makes you feel really comfortable as a man - It gives you a feeling of peace inside, that all is well in your relationship life. When you're away from her, as a man you feel amazing and more invigorated - you want to work harder, work out more, take care better of yourself, ask for a raise, go change jobs, start that business. It lights you up on the inside and makes you grow into the man you're capable of growing into. But when you're in a fearful place and you're always worried about when or if you're going to hear from her - it's hard to concentrate on things, to feel like you want to expand, to take risks when you're in that place.
Yeah, as a woman, if I feel like I'm pursuing, I'm going to pull back. I literally feel sad and more masculine when I do this; it's not a good polarity dynamic.
This is what I have to say. Don’t change yourself for any women. Be who you are. Be nice make her laugh and if something happens something happens! Just be the man she can connect with and talk to. And if she doesn’t like you. She is missing out on a good man that actually cares about her
This dude is my zen. Remember who i am. Make them remember who you are. Have the power to really walk away, because for you there is someone next in line
When you said “sometimes the guy realizes that he actually needed that time to get my head screwed on straight” was refreshing to here! I feel that way now.
These videos really chill me out. The girl I like went out without me tonight and I texted her. I knew it was bad, but I did it. It wasn't needy but I should give her space. I realize that you have to release yourself from outcome and anytime I'm fearful of losing someone you have to let them come to you. This is pure gold
This is the problem some men get upset when they’re not invited. Girls likes girls time. No men involved and should not be taken personally. This was kind of my ex, which is so tiring and me losing interest in him so quickly.
Sometimes I just think I want a women , then I go play golf , or take a relaxing motorcycle ride through the mountains, come home take a relaxing bath or shower and make myself a bourbon 🥃 and realize I have it made
It's an illusion instilled into us since birth that we cannot survive without females. The fact is that life is better without them and the only time you should settle is if she behaves and complements you life, not hinders it.
@@VoiceOfThewell it depends. In my case I was too needy. So when she backed off I chased. After reading Corey’s content. I realised she is like a cat, she said this her self also (tried to help me understand). I let her go. After a week she came back on her own. The space allowed us to adjust our energies back to me masculine and her feminine. She felt my strength to resist her even tho she knew I loved her.
After one month of dating this one girl,she was doing 100% of the chasing and suddenly stopped and I asked her out 2 times and she Gave me BS excuses like I'm not in the mood and I don't feel good these days blah blah,I went no contact and after only 2 days called me and telling me I need you and want to see you, TBH it's hard to back away cause she takes my socks off but this is the most important thing that a man needs to work on.
The best approach is to just assume that when you leave whatever fun date you had with them, you have to let them go and be okay not hearing from them forever. Let them feel their emotions and come to you at their own pace. You have to let them feel free to literally end the relationship, and this freedom will increase your chances of them wanting the complete opposite.
I haven’t watched this video, but I want to give you your flowers while your still breathing. Rip to Kevin Samuels, I didn’t get the chance to tell him how much the mentorship and brotherhood of men holding each other accountable meant, it is rare. Just wanted to show love. 💪 - Appreciate what you do Corey! Please keep dropping knowledge ~ Big Boom
Believe in yourself. Focus when the fear kicks in. Focus on your self. That one think like getting in shape or your social life. Fine tune concentrate and breath when they come back! They will!!
I dated this girl when I was on my 5th read through and exactly Luke he describes we just click its easy 10 min into the date and we were making out and laughing and she couldn't keep her hands off me . We dated 2 months and I messed up a bunch and it hurt tbh, but after that I was a man on a mission tho I read the book 8 more times before it clicked and it just became who I was fast forward 6 months and I had the same experience with another girl she met everything that was on my list and my game was tight and we have been together 2 years now and it's been the best relationship on every level and I'm glad I finally gave up my stubbornness and just read it 10 plus times and I still read it once a year for continued education it helps
I love being a apart of this group nothing but motivation and good vibes thank you all for your comments they might mean much to some but to the ones battling the war man I’m getting teary eyed reading them trying to stay strong and listen to the coach I’ve read the book 3 times I got 12 more reads to go
I've already said it in here, i'll repeat it: take your time to "get exclusive" with a woman your REALLY LIKE, because if she flake, take more time to get back to you than she said she would, you are free to go and meet other girl (you can even allow yourself to forget the woman you want until she finally get back to you willingly). Take your time to get exclusive with the woman you really like, let she really fall in love first!
i fucked up by saying i like spending time with you and gave off serious relationship vibes and showed some neediness on the fifth date after hooking for the second time and when i asked her out again she said "its been alot, fast and it makes her feel overwhelmed. and shell be on her own for a while she thinks"
Corey is so right I was the same way cherry picking until late last year I lost a girl I really liked ,because I was a fool who thought he could get by on half his lessons and after that situation happened I said no more. Since December I’ve been reading the book once a week and I see my dating life change and my career I’m making more money getting in better shape I found my purpose. The great Yoda said you must let go of what you fear to lose the most.
@Swelly Bell- That's awesome man. A broken heart led me to corey's work in 2014...just like you...I said no more. His book, coaching session, and videos have completely changed my perspective - I am a superior version of my previous self and am having success in all areas of life (like you) that I never thought was possible. He is doing God's work my man👍
same thing happened to me bro. I lost a girl I really liked and then realized in the next portion of the book, Corey talked about exactly what I was going through and had I read that portion, I would've been good.
You have no choice but to let go of what you fear to lose the most because we all lose everything when we die. Including who we are, our identities, and everything we acquired in this life. There will be people who won't experience as much in life as they want but it's also in perspective. A guy who fucks different girl everyday who has millions of dollars may have deeper unfulfilled emotions and an inner gaping hole that he's constantly trying to satisfy by pursuing endless pleasure. As soon as we attach our satisfaction to material and other human beings, we automatically create a self fulfilled bondage. The truth is that this "unsatiating hunger" is lack of one's completeness in the present regardless of the external. We will never be able to appreciate and enjoy the rewards of life until we are gratified with our own selves.
The original coach for me! Coach got me into the red pill even though I kinda got deeper with other content creators. I would say that you was the one and only for my two first years of the red pill journey. Love from Sénégal West Africa.
I am in a similar place to this guys email. You have it spot on Corey. Fear makes you doubt yourself & keeping checking you’re phone & then do something stupid like begging to see them. When you read 3% man & de program what society & media have feed us it all becomes crystal clear, you have to just let go, if she comes back great, if not then move on the universe has different plans for you.
@@VoiceOfThe I’m In Love With Her, But I Been Moving On. We stopped on May 23rd. Like coach says it should be effortless. If She is giving a hard time date someone else. Hope it works out for you bro
@@VoiceOfThe it’s terrible I know but it’s the name of the game. You can’t say well she said she cared for me a couple of days ago…today is whole new day. Ultimately you can’t base your happiness or you feel off her because like you said it can change at any moment
After 6 months of pure bliss and following coach perfectly, I finally fucked up this past weekend by being jealous and lo and behold, my girl has finally pulled back. I am in a panic but continue to be strong. Yesterday was probably the worst so of course, coach comes out with the perfect video to save me from my old beta ways. Thank you from the bottom of my heart coach!
Happened the last time just apologise make her understand that you are sorry then pull back go no contact if she likes she'll give you another shot that's what coach corey says
Corey, I would like to thank you for all of your advice and the peace it has brought into my life. You are really growing into a father figure for plenty of people, me included. I would like to add this though - it is almost a prerequisite that a man fails in pursuing, dating and being in a relationship with the woman that he desires, in spite of having read your book (10-15 times or less/more). Having had the experience of failing by not sticking to your advice, coupled with success (whether prior to failing or after making good use of your knowledge) puts ones heart in the right place. Before experiencing this, your mind will know logically what is supposed to happen. Rationally there is no reason to drift from the set course that Corey has prepared for us. But add to that the avalanche of feelings that hits you after failure - that will set your head straight for good. It hurts, but a necessary evil which will immensely contribute to your well-being in the long run. Peace brothers, take care out there !
Corey thank you brotha. This has helped me so much . The love of my life walked out on me because of a mistake I make 3 years ago. I was honest and manned up. She left. Haven’t heard from her in 2 months. Very tough
Corey you are the GOAT. Everything I know about women I learned from you. Still a student at 48 and you are the best teacher. None of this is intuitive for me. I suppose it stems from having a beta male as dad. Super nice guy but just a door mat for my mom. God bless and Thank you.
You really help people to build character, I resisted myself from contacting a guy who kind of ghosted me after the first date. It s painful but I know I'll forget him faster...
Since following Corey in 2016, This is all effortless now. I don't even have to think twice about what to do and actually expect a fall back but honestly doesn't happen much anymore ever. I've found the healthy medium because I honestly would be happy without a relationship or dating it's just a great sexy beautiful cherry on top of a beautiful life I am creating for myself each and everyday with my friends that are on the same path.
I found this video extremely funny because I'm literally going through the exact same situation today 😂 My girl told me the exact same thing (more or less), I was trying to get my thoughts together yesterday and my thoughts on this matched yours almost exactly, too. It's a funny world we live in! Great video and thanks a lot yet again :)
Got into dating after being single for a year working on myself.. Found this girl we hit it off then she went ghost, i was bummed for a week but then i started going on more dates and then I realized to stay true..
Corey I enjoy when you go over the same topic of videos from 10+ years ago, they feel more relevant and even though it may seem repetitive to some a lot has changed in a decade
We were on and off for just about 6 months. Broke up, and haven’t seen each other in almost a month. We started talking again last week. Purely on the phone, she wouldn’t see me in person. Called her Friday night because I was in her hood. No answer, no contact since. I will NEVER reach out now for any reason. Like Corey says, I hit the ball in her court, she would need to hit it back to have me in her life at any capacity.
I told to my colleague: "When you want to hang out with me, let me know". She said: "Yes, I will for sure text you". I never heard from her again! 😅🤦♂️
@@siulong1394 “to hang out” might have different meanings for different person. Just wait, the ball is in her court. Go find someone else, bro. Make sure you read the book “how to be 3% man” the more you read, the better.
I consistently go out every weekend and talk to 15-20 new women every week. Get around 7-10 numbers per week. That kills the scarcity mindset and weak needy energy. You can't fake it. A lot of fellas are little shy homebody's who happen to focus on one girl who smiled at them sometime somewhere...shaking my head.
Read the book 15+ times but hadn’t dated much at all in a couple of years since ending a 7 year relationship. Met a great woman and it was going well until it wasn’t. I tried to be cool when she backed away, but lost it when I sent her a text asking what happened offering up a number of things I might have done that turned her off ( in hindsight I knew better but did it anyway) …. Beta…. What you fear you attract…. I can also say in the past when I’ve really liked someone it almost always ended before it began… and just the opposite when I had lower interest in someone… the woman always expressed continued interest. Hard lesson.
You really can’t just read the book once or twice and think you have a good grasp of the techniques. Failing a bunch of times helps you learn faster too, but I’m sure if you just read the book 10-15 times you won’t need to fail a bunch of times like I did, you’ll know what to do. I regret not reading the book more because everything Coach says is true but I got to where I want to be in the end anyway. I just could have gotten there sooner.
Corey is just so different I really like how he has this positive mindset in situations like these unlike other coaches they would have been like "Fuck that bitch she playing mind games"😂😂
I got to the point where she was doing all the pursuing and then backed away. Waited a week to reach out and convo ended after I said let me know when you’re in town. It’s been a week, Can’t tell if she wants me to chase her, but I’m definitely applying the cat analogy and let her be.
When a woman says she needs space just pretend it's over and that you'll never see her again. You'll get to a point that when she reaches out you'll realize that you moved on by then and lost interest and then she'll be chasing you like a hungry dog.
Most guys are needy and insecure, because they miss a very important part of Correy's book, something that I have been guilty of also, up until last March. And that is learning how to cold approach. They put too much pressure on themselves and on one girl, since they don't have an abundance mindset. Fear creeps into their mind with the thoughts "What if i screw this up. I won't find another girl". If they would put in the effort to be able to meet women wherever they go, losing one or multiple women in a row, would not bother them soo much, since they would know, at any time of the day, they can go out and get new contacts from hot women.
Exactly. I consistently go out every weekend and talk to 15-20 new women every week. Get around 7-10 numbers per week. That kills the scarcity mindset and weak needy energy. You can't fake it. A lot of fellas are little shy homebody's who happen to focus on one girl who smiled at them sometime somewhere...shaking my head. lol
The lies are what get to me. Of course they get to everyone but they bother me more than most. My kids mother will blatenly lie to me and about me then get mad at me cause I won't tolerate it like I'm suppose to say yes dear that happened when we both know it didn't or vise versa. Pathological lying. It's the worst and most frustrating for me.
4years of dating and first really heart break after living together for 3 years the pain is so much on my 3rd day but dam it hurts my family been helping me a lot though talking to people been helping me a lot though
Exactly what is happening to me right now. Dated girls quite successful at least compared to my past. But than I met a girl that made me feel things I did not know even existed. And than one weekend she had her menstruation and was super distant all of a sudden and I lost my game miserably and acted desperate and needy. One weekend was more than enaugh for her to pull away. Now I am losing my shit like a 13 year old boy. HELP
thats really good advice and awesome skill, repetition repetition until you could do it, i already apply it in my daily activities and it really work , looking forward to your next masterpiece coach, wish you the best, sir!
This is so odd, cause I took my shot literally hours ago and meh. So I fought the urge to leave some phrasing out but it was my true feelings and kept it in there and meant it. Like you say, “hey, if you’re not interested… all good. I appreciate the honesty. Let me know if you ever change your mind.” Just being able to roll with the punches has helped me tremendously, Corey. Still reading/listening etc. and it’s awesome to be on a mission vs giving up every level.
Going through this now the fear is real . Saw text messages were shifting backed off no text for 5 days had already set a date so I waited till the day of the date and she's she didn't follow through.
Hey Corey! Huge fan of your work and refer your videos and work to my friends frequently. Question; have you considered writing book explaining the dichotomy of the 3% man (similar to Jocko’s “Dichotomy of Leadership”). Essentially explaining the left and right limits i.e. dont be a cold fish but don’t be overly excited when she responds. I think that’d be another great addition to your book series!
I bought the audiobook 2 years ago after my, now ex (again), dipped out. I cherry picked based on my situation at the time instead of following through on the other great teachings. Now, I repeated my same mistakes that led to the first break-up. Weak, needy, off center. The relationship changed to long-distance and I struggled and got knocked-off center and lost my self-focus and purpose. I think it's done for good now. Dumped via text, the highest level of disrespect, yet I am the one that allowed to disrespect myself and allowed her to think it was okay to do that too. I learned a lot in my relationship of 3 years. So, all I can do now is learn some more and focus on myself, my life and goals to ensure that these mistakes don't happen ever again. I'm grateful for the experiences that I had with her, both the great and the utter terrible.
It doesn't happen often. Only a few times in your lifetime when one of those women who really blows you away comes along. That's when you've really got to check yourself. Otherwise it really is like reverting to default programming.
8:40 - something to note: if you get 1-3 strong connections in a decade, you'd think its worth fighting for! but i suppose the woman might not feel you were part of the 1-3, or else she'd reciprocate the connection and not pull away.
My thing is like I don't mind if a girl like this leaves but I want her to know that i thought she was amazing, especially if she treated me well while it lasted, and then if i never see her again it's cool i have closure.
I just recently gave the benefit of the doubt to a woman 10 years younger than me and a widow, she said she was feeling guilt, by dating me. So after staying the weekend, she went strange, she had orbititers, that would contact her while on a date. I wished her luck and even told her to chase one of her orbititers. If it didn't work, get back to me. After her I start hitting some bedrooms and being like the jehovahs witness that's got in the 1st time. I have the book on audible and listened to it about 6 times. I am ex motor trade ( Zig Ziglar) was the Man. So I bought your book and have gone through it twice, with a highlighter. I have 2 mugs, but sadly the handle came off the "No Drama" while washing up. I let the widow back in, but didn't do it properly and went on holiday with her, and she has disappeared again today. Corey you are a star, I would have been heart broken before lockdown. So today I am organising a walk with a lady younger than myself, I'm 61, never too old to learn guys. Plus the first lady I met after lockdown, I have followed your work to the letter, we are video chatting tonight to meet up. On 1 occasion she was here and saw your book, picked it up and was reading it, saying " This is really good " Finally guy's, our Father told us 3 lads , when he had his "chat" the clit is the most important nerve on a woman, 1 women said my fingers should be available on the NHS, UK. Corey thank you I went to an all boy's school. My wife belonged to the streets. I also direct colleagues to your site. Wicked sense of humour too.
After watching a lot of these trying to figure out how to fix things with the one person I actually like, I see the truth now. When men actually settle with someone they always settle down and women settle up, it’s the only way you will actually naturally do all these things consistently enough to keep someone. The people we want we can’t help but love and drive them away. Too bad we can’t go back to the days of just giving a girls dad a pig or cow 😂
I am currently in that state of fear as my girlfriend of 9 months is pulling away. Typically she is pursuing 90% of the time and going out of her way to spend time together. Lately she is not giving me the attention she once did. I can feel it in my gut that something is off. Do these same things apply when in a 9+ month relationship? She’s not showing up for me the way she has in the past. I’m trying to stay strong and not over pursue but I really miss my girlfriend. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
This is happening to me now. We spent the weekend together, haven’t heard from her for 1 day. Not going to initiate contact no matter how hard it will be.
Your the Man Coach I've had so much success because of your coaching im 38 and I'm getting dates with 25 year old's and I'm out of shape bald and over weight i realized i have to improve myself if i want the type of woman i want so i started doing some serious work outs and getting in great shape because like you said you have to have what you want to get what you want so i am in week 3 of my total self improvement regiment and while i work out i listen to your book on the 5th listen now. I am having a hard time backing off this one GIRL every time i try she calls me to see what i am up to and when i try to set a date she tells me she has to study as she is a PHD student........ so should i just not take her calls because its been 2 times now she has made an excuse about studying or finals if its legit should i ask her again or should i do like the book says and wait for her to ask me?
One thing I learned about relationships that worked is that the woman never pulls away and another thing I learned no one is so special for you to sacrifice having to do pull away tests if you have to watch videos or study to "win over" somebody its not worth it. I rather keep ot simple if she pulls away that DEFINETLY means she is not in love with you, would YOU pull away if you were really deeply in love with someone? (and if you or her pulls away because of trauma or issues I can tell it's going to be a HARD work and the odds won't be at your favor it's almost always better to stop and each one heal by their own trust me)
Is it me or are women a lot like stocks? Both are driven by emotion, wont tell you when you’re wrong (ha), and will leave you in shambles if you rush. Money or emotions its all an investment, anyone agree?
This is exactly how I feel about the girl I'm with. I rarely reach out to her. She does about 99% of the calling and pursuing. It's a total turn on. I've never met any girl like this. I do have some issues so am working to correct them. We've been together for 2 years.
Boyz remember there are 4 billion women out there. If you think the woman you are into now is the best and only women destined for you then you have lost your mind. You can make just as great or even greater connection with someone else out there. Let her do her thing. Focus on yourself and let her come to you.
Indeed. It's a scarcity mindset that fucks you up.
An abundancy mindset allows you to feel complete. To not need anything, because you already have and are enough as you are. To never feel rushed. To look further. To not feel attached to expectations.
There is so much of EVERYTHING. A scarcity mindset is easily stressed, because there is too much to obtain and collect. The abundance mindset allows you to be happy as you are and to give your gift to the world
Yeah. And when she comes back, nail her and dump her
4 billion women you realistically will never meet, are too old, are married, etc...
@@bywodensbeard9841 Yeah, it's kind of a silly thing to say (tons of "manosphere" content is just silly). The more realistic number is probably a few hundred in any given city.
Imagine a woman hotter than the one you're obsessed about who's obsessed about you. A porn star looking lady that would die to be with you. There are women like this out there you just have to keep trying and not give up.
I'm finally at a point where I can take it or leave it. I'm happy if she wants me and I'm still happy if she doesn't
Perfect place to be. I’m at complete peace in dating myself. Cool if a woman’s there, cool with my own time
The perks of being imperturbable 👀 I have a wonderful woman who lives in another state and it’s strange at times as I do care for her, but also not caring if she decides to no longer see me
Radical Acceptance 👍
Yup. Lik CW says, "you can't give away what you do not yet have". Meaning, if you don't have peace/contentment on your own, how can you expect to give that to someone else? Gotta be right with yourself before you can be right for someone else.
It is a destination in some respects. I am in the same spot with a fantastic woman. My sense of peace has my girl crawling all over me. She has said, multiple times, "I feel so safe with you". At 43yrs old, Ive finally arrived👍. God bless you guys. If you are on this site, you are humble, self aware, and trying to improve. What a fantastic mindset to have.
Have a blessed day fellas
@@ryanowens3304 Thank you brother I'm happy for you and your woman. And thanks for everyone commenting here. I still make a few mistakes here and there but it's good to finally have the right mindset. And for anyone who isn't there yet, when you get to the point where you know you can meet a new woman at any time, you'll feel so much better. I hope everyone here finds success in their dating lives and prosper financially
When she pulls away, completely ignore her. Let her go. If she does come back you must remain in control of yourself while maintaining priorities.
This is always tough in the moment, but the best way is to have a life filled with work, hobbies, friends, and family. This way you have so many other things going on and are looking forward to that you don't have time to worry about whether or not the girl wants you.
100% melvin. CW talks about that in his book and videos as well -- the importance of having a path in life; and something you are passionate about pursuing. If that's the case, the woman is truly a compliment to the man's life, and he's content either way (with or without) bc he is focused on his purpose. This gives him a sense of peace; a centered, positive disposition, and of course, confidence, which is very attractive to women. So, your suggestion --being busy; having hobbies, and things going on, etc are actually traits of a high value man in the woman's eyes. He's good either way...bc when he's not with his girl, he is pursuing his purpose or calling; and is fulfilled by acheiving the goals he sets in life.
Too many guys are looking for validation, via a woman's approval/desire, bc they dont really have a path or purpose. In this case, the guy seeking approval reeks of despiration, which is a huge turn off for women.
@@ryanowens3304 Perfectly said, you hit the nail on the head
what about if u live abroad on your own and you got nobody else? when my ex left i found straight away somebody else but still all family and most of friends are back home. wish i could have everything in one place . life sucks
That was always the case. I would be upset but the countless distractions and options of other people to hang out with always helped me get over any heartbreaks. But I'm older now, friends are married and what not, so now it's just me. It's almost like a feeling of a blank canvas. I would love to form new connections and have other outlets, or communities, to be part of. I just don't know where to look I guess.
This is hard when you’re in the position like I am, recovering from a broken femur losing everything in a bad car accident, my car, my job, my place to live to see things get to a weird moment is very hard to deal with when your trapped against your own will physically and can’t rely on that to help you mentally smh not being able to work on obtaining the things you know will heal you really hits different
6:00 Women don't care about how much you like them, they care about how they _feel_ about you.
12:00 When you can get to the point where she'll do 95% - 100% of the pursuing, that's the best place to be. She's always calling / texting you and that makes you feel really comfortable as a man - It gives you a feeling of peace inside, that all is well in your relationship life. When you're away from her, as a man you feel amazing and more invigorated - you want to work harder, work out more, take care better of yourself, ask for a raise, go change jobs, start that business. It lights you up on the inside and makes you grow into the man you're capable of growing into. But when you're in a fearful place and you're always worried about when or if you're going to hear from her - it's hard to concentrate on things, to feel like you want to expand, to take risks when you're in that place.
Spot on
@@StrongBodymindandspirit Sounds like complacency and as though her interest level may have dropped.
Yeah, as a woman, if I feel like I'm pursuing, I'm going to pull back. I literally feel sad and more masculine when I do this; it's not a good polarity dynamic.
So much this
This is what I have to say. Don’t change yourself for any women. Be who you are. Be nice make her laugh and if something happens something happens! Just be the man she can connect with and talk to. And if she doesn’t like you. She is missing out on a good man that actually cares about her
This dude is my zen. Remember who i am. Make them remember who you are. Have the power to really walk away, because for you there is someone next in line
When you said “sometimes the guy realizes that he actually needed that time to get my head screwed on straight” was refreshing to here! I feel that way now.
this stuff takes a lot of practice but we’ve got this fellas
Pure gold, never chase and smother, let them be and let go of them. The kitty always comes back, I’m just on my first reading and it’s good 👍
These videos really chill me out. The girl I like went out without me tonight and I texted her. I knew it was bad, but I did it. It wasn't needy but I should give her space.
I realize that you have to release yourself from outcome and anytime I'm fearful of losing someone you have to let them come to you. This is pure gold
This is the problem some men get upset when they’re not invited. Girls likes girls time. No men involved and should not be taken personally. This was kind of my ex, which is so tiring and me losing interest in him so quickly.
@@mae88b.16 It's better to have a fulfilling life outside ur dating life so that u mind ur shit at times like this when she wants to fly solo
She went out without you? Dump her. Women you go out without their men do not deserve to be loved
Sometimes I just think I want a women , then I go play golf , or take a relaxing motorcycle ride through the mountains, come home take a relaxing bath or shower and make myself a bourbon 🥃 and realize I have it made
Exactly, women are just an ocassional accessory. Us men must feel complete without a woman.
It's an illusion instilled into us since birth that we cannot survive without females. The fact is that life is better without them and the only time you should settle is if she behaves and complements you life, not hinders it.
if you want a woman, its your body telling you it wants a woman. nature! love is true and you absolutely should try to find it
@@Randarrradara thats when I fly in a escort
Yeah, thanks to 3% man I've learn no matter what let her come to me when she backs off. Dont thirst after her
@@VoiceOfThe sounds like a lucky escape.
@@VoiceOfThewell it depends. In my case I was too needy. So when she backed off I chased. After reading Corey’s content. I realised she is like a cat, she said this her self also (tried to help me understand). I let her go. After a week she came back on her own. The space allowed us to adjust our energies back to me masculine and her feminine. She felt my strength to resist her even tho she knew I loved her.
After one month of dating this one girl,she was doing 100% of the chasing and suddenly stopped and I asked her out 2 times and she Gave me BS excuses like I'm not in the mood and I don't feel good these days blah blah,I went no contact and after only 2 days called me and telling me I need you and want to see you, TBH it's hard to back away cause she takes my socks off but this is the most important thing that a man needs to work on.
The best approach is to just assume that when you leave whatever fun date you had with them, you have to let them go and be okay not hearing from them forever. Let them feel their emotions and come to you at their own pace.
You have to let them feel free to literally end the relationship, and this freedom will increase your chances of them wanting the complete opposite.
I haven’t watched this video, but I want to give you your flowers while your still breathing. Rip to Kevin Samuels, I didn’t get the chance to tell him how much the mentorship and brotherhood of men holding each other accountable meant, it is rare. Just wanted to show love. 💪 - Appreciate what you do Corey! Please keep dropping knowledge ~ Big Boom
She wanted to break up. I let her walk away, blocked her, and traveled the world
So did she!
Believe in yourself. Focus when the fear kicks in. Focus on your self. That one think like getting in shape or your social life. Fine tune concentrate and breath when they come back! They will!!
They always do. No bullshit. Always.
I dated this girl when I was on my 5th read through and exactly Luke he describes we just click its easy 10 min into the date and we were making out and laughing and she couldn't keep her hands off me . We dated 2 months and I messed up a bunch and it hurt tbh, but after that I was a man on a mission tho I read the book 8 more times before it clicked and it just became who I was fast forward 6 months and I had the same experience with another girl she met everything that was on my list and my game was tight and we have been together 2 years now and it's been the best relationship on every level and I'm glad I finally gave up my stubbornness and just read it 10 plus times and I still read it once a year for continued education it helps
Well done my friend!
I love being a apart of this group nothing but motivation and good vibes thank you all for your comments they might mean much to some but to the ones battling the war man I’m getting teary eyed reading them trying to stay strong and listen to the coach I’ve read the book 3 times I got 12 more reads to go
I've already said it in here, i'll repeat it: take your time to "get exclusive" with a woman your REALLY LIKE, because if she flake, take more time to get back to you than she said she would, you are free to go and meet other girl (you can even allow yourself to forget the woman you want until she finally get back to you willingly). Take your time to get exclusive with the woman you really like, let she really fall in love first!
i fucked up by saying i like spending time with you and gave off serious relationship vibes and showed some neediness on the fifth date after hooking for the second time and when i asked her out again she said "its been alot, fast and it makes her feel overwhelmed. and shell be on her own for a while she thinks"
Its retarded that we cant admit we want a relationship with them, its literally retarded and childish. @@Mr.Singhhh
Corey is so right I was the same way cherry picking until late last year I lost a girl I really liked ,because I was a fool who thought he could get by on half his lessons and after that situation happened I said no more. Since December I’ve been reading the book once a week and I see my dating life change and my career I’m making more money getting in better shape I found my purpose. The great Yoda said you must let go of what you fear to lose the most.
@Swelly Bell- That's awesome man. A broken heart led me to corey's work in 2014...just like you...I said no more. His book, coaching session, and videos have completely changed my perspective - I am a superior version of my previous self and am having success in all areas of life (like you) that I never thought was possible. He is doing God's work my man👍
same thing happened to me bro. I lost a girl I really liked and then realized in the next portion of the book, Corey talked about exactly what I was going through and had I read that portion, I would've been good.
You have no choice but to let go of what you fear to lose the most because we all lose everything when we die. Including who we are, our identities, and everything we acquired in this life. There will be people who won't experience as much in life as they want but it's also in perspective. A guy who fucks different girl everyday who has millions of dollars may have deeper unfulfilled emotions and an inner gaping hole that he's constantly trying to satisfy by pursuing endless pleasure. As soon as we attach our satisfaction to material and other human beings, we automatically create a self fulfilled bondage. The truth is that this "unsatiating hunger" is lack of one's completeness in the present regardless of the external. We will never be able to appreciate and enjoy the rewards of life until we are gratified with our own selves.
How can someone's every single video be enlightening and motivating. You get me straight everytime. Gotta read the book 15 times!
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Or 50 times. You can't stop at 15. It has to be a book for life.
Impatience never commands success. Love that.
The original coach for me! Coach got me into the red pill even though I kinda got deeper with other content creators. I would say that you was the one and only for my two first years of the red pill journey. Love from Sénégal West Africa.
I am in a similar place to this guys email. You have it spot on Corey. Fear makes you doubt yourself & keeping checking you’re phone & then do something stupid like begging to see them. When you read 3% man & de program what society & media have feed us it all becomes crystal clear, you have to just let go, if she comes back great, if not then move on the universe has different plans for you.
Dealing With This Right Now. She pulled back on me so I pulled back too. It’s been weeks. Like Coach says this is what separates the men and the boys
She hasn’t came back has she lol
@@VoiceOfThe It’s Been A Month And Half…No Contact. I’m happy for you bro…like coach says set a date and get off the phone lol
@@jasonnemo6427 I’ve been dating other girls also since I read the book
@@VoiceOfThe I’m In Love With Her, But I Been Moving On. We stopped on May 23rd. Like coach says it should be effortless. If She is giving a hard time date someone else. Hope it works out for you bro
@@VoiceOfThe it’s terrible I know but it’s the name of the game. You can’t say well she said she cared for me a couple of days ago…today is whole new day. Ultimately you can’t base your happiness or you feel off her because like you said it can change at any moment
AMAZING VIDEO. Life changing. This man is putting GOLD out there, for free!
Corey’s cadence of his last few videos is in perfect alignment with my situation. Lol
After 6 months of pure bliss and following coach perfectly, I finally fucked up this past weekend by being jealous and lo and behold, my girl has finally pulled back. I am in a panic but continue to be strong. Yesterday was probably the worst so of course, coach comes out with the perfect video to save me from my old beta ways. Thank you from the bottom of my heart coach!
Man don't ever contact her again unless she hits you up and make out with someone else asap. You will feel fine!!
Happened the last time just apologise make her understand that you are sorry then pull back go no contact if she likes she'll give you another shot that's what coach corey says
stay strong bro. don't fuck up. just give her space, she will come back to you. I fucked up a million times now and i think im done.
Shit did some shit on Saturday as well jealous fury punched a guy in the face. All bad.
How’s it going? Any update on this?
Corey, I would like to thank you for all of your advice and the peace it has brought into my life. You are really growing into a father figure for plenty of people, me included. I would like to add this though - it is almost a prerequisite that a man fails in pursuing, dating and being in a relationship with the woman that he desires, in spite of having read your book (10-15 times or less/more). Having had the experience of failing by not sticking to your advice, coupled with success (whether prior to failing or after making good use of your knowledge) puts ones heart in the right place. Before experiencing this, your mind will know logically what is supposed to happen. Rationally there is no reason to drift from the set course that Corey has prepared for us. But add to that the avalanche of feelings that hits you after failure - that will set your head straight for good. It hurts, but a necessary evil which will immensely contribute to your well-being in the long run. Peace brothers, take care out there !
Corey thank you brotha. This has helped me so much . The love of my life walked out on me because of a mistake I make 3 years ago. I was honest and manned up. She left. Haven’t heard from her in 2 months. Very tough
How is going brother ?
I’ve read 3 % man 138000 times Now I’m Dating like Leo
Corey you are the GOAT. Everything I know about women I learned from you. Still a student at 48 and you are the best teacher. None of this is intuitive for me. I suppose it stems from having a beta male as dad. Super nice guy but just a door mat for my mom. God bless and Thank you.
Good video from our shaved goat. Thank u for this enlightening content.
You really help people to build character, I resisted myself from contacting a guy who kind of ghosted me after the first date. It s painful but I know I'll forget him faster...
This video couldn't have happened at a more appropriate time
Since following Corey in 2016, This is all effortless now. I don't even have to think twice about what to do and actually expect a fall back but honestly doesn't happen much anymore ever. I've found the healthy medium because I honestly would be happy without a relationship or dating it's just a great sexy beautiful cherry on top of a beautiful life I am creating for myself each and everyday with my friends that are on the same path.
How you doing?
If a woman says she’s going to call me and doesn’t.. I take that as disrespect/ lack of integrity.
She doesn't owe you anything dude. Move on and talk to someone else.
Indeed but the guy have a point
I haven't felt this good in years. Thanks so much!
I found this video extremely funny because I'm literally going through the exact same situation today 😂 My girl told me the exact same thing (more or less), I was trying to get my thoughts together yesterday and my thoughts on this matched yours almost exactly, too. It's a funny world we live in! Great video and thanks a lot yet again :)
Thanks coach I have tears coming out because of the great advise u given us to succeed in our relationship
Got into dating after being single for a year working on myself.. Found this girl we hit it off then she went ghost, i was bummed for a week but then i started going on more dates and then I realized to stay true..
How did that go ?
Your principles are right on! Truth is what we seek. At least I do. It's about our mindset! Absolutely. You keep doing this you hear!
Corey I enjoy when you go over the same topic of videos from 10+ years ago, they feel more relevant and even though it may seem repetitive to some a lot has changed in a decade
We were on and off for just about 6 months. Broke up, and haven’t seen each other in almost a month. We started talking again last week. Purely on the phone, she wouldn’t see me in person. Called her Friday night because I was in her hood. No answer, no contact since. I will NEVER reach out now for any reason. Like Corey says, I hit the ball in her court, she would need to hit it back to have me in her life at any capacity.
Update: She came back. I’m not mentioning ANYTHING about a relationship which is causing her to. Bond vibes. Always.
I told to my colleague: "When you want to hang out with me, let me know". She said: "Yes, I will for sure text you".
I never heard from her again! 😅🤦♂️
You should have said “when are you available to get together for a drink?”
@@eqqq54 I told her that and she said she was busy. That's why I told her: "When you want to hang out, let me know"
@@siulong1394 “to hang out” might have different meanings for different person. Just wait, the ball is in her court. Go find someone else, bro. Make sure you read the book “how to be 3% man” the more you read, the better.
I met a stripper and she seemed interested and never called 😂😂😂
I consistently go out every weekend and talk to 15-20 new women every week. Get around 7-10 numbers per week. That kills the scarcity mindset and weak needy energy. You can't fake it. A lot of fellas are little shy homebody's who happen to focus on one girl who smiled at them sometime somewhere...shaking my head.
This is the way my friend. You’re doing the work, you deserve the forthcoming success.
corey I swear you always know the right thing to say
So weird you posted this I was just rewatching all the older ones on this topic awesome to have a new one
Dude, I spent all week doing just that because my girl finally pulled back after I fucked up this past weekend! Corey is God sent.
@@RealityHurts2024 Same her guys, rewatching those videos gives me confidence boost.
Although I’ve read his book, I still like these vids to keep me on track and head on straight.
I’m on read #9. I’m just starting to really really get it down. And damn coach your timing is impeccable.
Read the book 15+ times but hadn’t dated much at all in a couple of years since ending a 7 year relationship. Met a great woman and it was going well until it wasn’t. I tried to be cool when she backed away, but lost it when I sent her a text asking what happened offering up a number of things I might have done that turned her off ( in hindsight I knew better but did it anyway) …. Beta…. What you fear you attract…. I can also say in the past when I’ve really liked someone it almost always ended before it began… and just the opposite when I had lower interest in someone… the woman always expressed continued interest. Hard lesson.
You really can’t just read the book once or twice and think you have a good grasp of the techniques. Failing a bunch of times helps you learn faster too, but I’m sure if you just read the book 10-15 times you won’t need to fail a bunch of times like I did, you’ll know what to do.
I regret not reading the book more because everything Coach says is true but I got to where I want to be in the end anyway. I just could have gotten there sooner.
Corey is just so different I really like how he has this positive mindset in situations like these unlike other coaches they would have been like "Fuck that bitch she playing mind games"😂😂
I got to the point where she was doing all the pursuing and then backed away. Waited a week to reach out and convo ended after I said let me know when you’re in town. It’s been a week, Can’t tell if she wants me to chase her, but I’m definitely applying the cat analogy and let her be.
Same for me bro It's hard but we got this.
Don’t ever chase women. Point blank period
When a woman says she needs space just pretend it's over and that you'll never see her again. You'll get to a point that when she reaches out you'll realize that you moved on by then and lost interest and then she'll be chasing you like a hungry dog.
So how did it go ??? She reached to you or not?? 😂😂
@8:39 1-3 per decade… wow! That’s how my dating life has been. 2001, 2009, 2022… very few rare gems in my life.
No guarantee she’s gonna call you just because she said she would.
Most guys are needy and insecure, because they miss a very important part of Correy's book, something that I have been guilty of also, up until last March. And that is learning how to cold approach. They put too much pressure on themselves and on one girl, since they don't have an abundance mindset. Fear creeps into their mind with the thoughts "What if i screw this up. I won't find another girl". If they would put in the effort to be able to meet women wherever they go, losing one or multiple women in a row, would not bother them soo much, since they would know, at any time of the day, they can go out and get new contacts from hot women.
💯💯💯
Exactly. I consistently go out every weekend and talk to 15-20 new women every week. Get around 7-10 numbers per week. That kills the scarcity mindset and weak needy energy. You can't fake it. A lot of fellas are little shy homebody's who happen to focus on one girl who smiled at them sometime somewhere...shaking my head. lol
The lies are what get to me. Of course they get to everyone but they bother me more than most. My kids mother will blatenly lie to me and about me then get mad at me cause I won't tolerate it like I'm suppose to say yes dear that happened when we both know it didn't or vise versa. Pathological lying. It's the worst and most frustrating for me.
4years of dating and first really heart break after living together for 3 years the pain is so much on my 3rd day but dam it hurts my family been helping me a lot though talking to people been helping me a lot though
I've always came back to you bro thanks for helping me And all of guys out with our girl problems
Nice vid man! Found informational, soothing and refreshing, thanks for the words and time, happily will be picking up your book!:)
Exactly what is happening to me right now. Dated girls quite successful at least compared to my past. But than I met a girl that made me feel things I did not know even existed. And than one weekend she had her menstruation and was super distant all of a sudden and I lost my game miserably and acted desperate and needy. One weekend was more than enaugh for her to pull away. Now I am losing my shit like a 13 year old boy. HELP
Difficult paradox to come to terms with…best way to keep a woman around is to deep down not care whether she’s around or not😂
That’s right. What he’s saying does in fact work
@@jetpilot3714 like too well sometimes😂
Thanks coach, it's interesting the courting never stops but our male brain thinks it did.
thats really good advice and awesome skill, repetition repetition until you could do it, i already apply it in my daily activities and it really work , looking forward to your next masterpiece coach, wish you the best, sir!
This is why you should have multiple girlfriends and cheat on all of them. They bring it on themselves.
Pretty much
😂😂😂
really true to be honest
True
Big facts
This is so odd, cause I took my shot literally hours ago and meh. So I fought the urge to leave some phrasing out but it was my true feelings and kept it in there and meant it. Like you say, “hey, if you’re not interested… all good. I appreciate the honesty. Let me know if you ever change your mind.”
Just being able to roll with the punches has helped me tremendously, Corey. Still reading/listening etc. and it’s awesome to be on a mission vs giving up every level.
Going through this now the fear is real . Saw text messages were shifting backed off no text for 5 days had already set a date so I waited till the day of the date and she's she didn't follow through.
I needed to hear this today, thanks Corey.
Hey Corey! Huge fan of your work and refer your videos and work to my friends frequently.
Question; have you considered writing book explaining the dichotomy of the 3% man (similar to Jocko’s “Dichotomy of Leadership”).
Essentially explaining the left and right limits i.e. dont be a cold fish but don’t be overly excited when she responds.
I think that’d be another great addition to your book series!
That is a great idea!
I bought the audiobook 2 years ago after my, now ex (again), dipped out. I cherry picked based on my situation at the time instead of following through on the other great teachings. Now, I repeated my same mistakes that led to the first break-up. Weak, needy, off center. The relationship changed to long-distance and I struggled and got knocked-off center and lost my self-focus and purpose. I think it's done for good now. Dumped via text, the highest level of disrespect, yet I am the one that allowed to disrespect myself and allowed her to think it was okay to do that too. I learned a lot in my relationship of 3 years. So, all I can do now is learn some more and focus on myself, my life and goals to ensure that these mistakes don't happen ever again. I'm grateful for the experiences that I had with her, both the great and the utter terrible.
It doesn't happen often. Only a few times in your lifetime when one of those women who really blows you away comes along. That's when you've really got to check yourself. Otherwise it really is like reverting to default programming.
When she backs away just go back to what you were doing before you met her.
Said well.
Nothing you can do... just move on and never look back. My time is waaaay more important than trying to make some girl like me
8:40 - something to note: if you get 1-3 strong connections in a decade, you'd think its worth fighting for! but i suppose the woman might not feel you were part of the 1-3, or else she'd reciprocate the connection and not pull away.
Coach the GOAT
This advice is very true
My thing is like I don't mind if a girl like this leaves but I want her to know that i thought she was amazing, especially if she treated me well while it lasted, and then if i never see her again it's cool i have closure.
Appreciate you coach !
I just recently gave the benefit of the doubt to a woman 10 years younger than me and a widow, she said she was feeling guilt, by dating me. So after staying the weekend, she went strange, she had orbititers, that would contact her while on a date. I wished her luck and even told her to chase one of her orbititers. If it didn't work, get back to me.
After her I start hitting some bedrooms and being like the jehovahs witness that's got in the 1st time. I have the book on audible and listened to it about 6 times. I am ex motor trade ( Zig Ziglar) was the Man. So I bought your book and have gone through it twice, with a highlighter. I have 2 mugs, but sadly the handle came off the "No Drama" while washing up.
I let the widow back in, but didn't do it properly and went on holiday with her, and she has disappeared again today. Corey you are a star, I would have been heart broken before lockdown. So today I am organising a walk with a lady younger than myself, I'm 61, never too old to learn guys. Plus the first lady I met after lockdown, I have followed your work to the letter, we are video chatting tonight to meet up. On 1 occasion she was here and saw your book, picked it up and was reading it, saying " This is really good "
Finally guy's, our Father told us 3 lads , when he had his "chat" the clit is the most important nerve on a woman, 1 women said my fingers should be available on the NHS, UK. Corey thank you I went to an all boy's school. My wife belonged to the streets. I also direct colleagues to your site. Wicked sense of humour too.
Helps me to think “what would Corey do?”
After watching a lot of these trying to figure out how to fix things with the one person I actually like, I see the truth now. When men actually settle with someone they always settle down and women settle up, it’s the only way you will actually naturally do all these things consistently enough to keep someone. The people we want we can’t help but love and drive them away. Too bad we can’t go back to the days of just giving a girls dad a pig or cow 😂
I am currently in that state of fear as my girlfriend of 9 months is pulling away. Typically she is pursuing 90% of the time and going out of her way to spend time together. Lately she is not giving me the attention she once did. I can feel it in my gut that something is off. Do these same things apply when in a 9+ month relationship? She’s not showing up for me the way she has in the past. I’m trying to stay strong and not over pursue but I really miss my girlfriend. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Everything going good but how respectful with this woman is my half cousin
Bell gang... I ain't got no control when it comes to clicking on that video
Get a life you enjoy and she will compete for a spot in it. Then indifference is a naturall state!
This is happening to me now. We spent the weekend together, haven’t heard from her for 1 day. Not going to initiate contact no matter how hard it will be.
Thanks!
Your the Man Coach I've had so much success because of your coaching im 38 and I'm getting dates with 25 year old's and I'm out of shape bald and over weight i realized i have to improve myself if i want the type of woman i want so i started doing some serious work outs and getting in great shape because like you said you have to have what you want to get what you want so i am in week 3 of my total self improvement regiment and while i work out i listen to your book on the 5th listen now. I am having a hard time backing off this one GIRL every time i try she calls me to see what i am up to and when i try to set a date she tells me she has to study as she is a PHD student........ so should i just not take her calls because its been 2 times now she has made an excuse about studying or finals if its legit should i ask her again or should i do like the book says and wait for her to ask me?
@@jdsartre9520 that's just wrong🤣
I wonder if Mr.Wayne is the Batman
Shhhhhh...
One thing I learned about relationships that worked is that the woman never pulls away and another thing I learned no one is so special for you to sacrifice having to do pull away tests if you have to watch videos or study to "win over" somebody its not worth it. I rather keep ot simple if she pulls away that DEFINETLY means she is not in love with you, would YOU pull away if you were really deeply in love with someone? (and if you or her pulls away because of trauma or issues I can tell it's going to be a HARD work and the odds won't be at your favor it's almost always better to stop and each one heal by their own trust me)
How many times should I read the book? I’m not sure
15+
100 to 150
Is it me or are women a lot like stocks? Both are driven by emotion, wont tell you when you’re wrong (ha), and will leave you in shambles if you rush. Money or emotions its all an investment, anyone agree?
Yes!. Unpredictable, and if you invest everything in just one and you lose it, you will lose your mind. lol
Where can I get the book "10-15 times"? thanks guys! x hehe
Hey coach any chance you can update your audible? I mean shorter and to the point with all the best bits of TH-cam titles?
This is exactly how I feel about the girl I'm with. I rarely reach out to her. She does about 99% of the calling and pursuing. It's a total turn on. I've never met any girl like this. I do have some issues so am working to correct them. We've been together for 2 years.
Good information sir, I subscribed.
It is childish tactics and testing, maybe acceptable with teenagers. Adults: go ahead, pull back, and you know what? Pull away, bye.